tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043Thu, 16 Feb 2012 13:12:21 +0000forgetwomenattentionfathertrustrelationshipblackmcnairchangeinsomniactatscausesmarriagekissingwhiteinfidelityequalityfreaksexwould youtragedycheatinggirlshypocrisylimitsgodteachstatsopenObamamenfirst datefaithfulloveforgiveordinaryjudgmenthttp://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)Blogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-4034877024811694312Wed, 17 Mar 2010 16:35:00 +00002010-03-17T09:37:03.876-07:00Hello BlogosphereI have gained a few more followers since I have left and it is surprising since I have not updated my blog in such a long time.. I have been thinking about really trying to start this thing back up since I feel I have so much to say ALLLLLL the time!! Hummmm... I was just wondering what you guys thought?? Start it back up or just wave bye to the past??http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2010/03/its-been-while.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-5590054159615143189Mon, 24 Aug 2009 15:17:00 +00002009-08-24T09:02:25.855-07:00There has been a paradigm shift in the quality of men and women that are walking around now. In the past, the women were conservative, modest, cooked, cleaned, ya-da-ya-da-ya-da. Men were respectable, went to work, was in the household, married and tried to make it last. Yes, people of that era had their problems and everything wasnt as peachy as it was proclaimed to be but it was NO where near http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/08/capitalizing-off-cleavage-i-think-not.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-2669614576867775710Mon, 24 Aug 2009 00:18:00 +00002009-08-23T18:12:33.355-07:00SORRY I havent posted in a while..I dont know why I havent, I just havent. But I am back and in FULL effect. How has everybody been doing? Well, I am just goin to jump into to it. I ran across a saying that was mentioned on one of my favorite gossip sites (necolebitchie.com) and when I read it, I realized I had heard it before. It went:"All Relationships are open, women just dont know about http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/08/all-relationships-are-open-really.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-4572449054585368696Thu, 13 Aug 2009 22:29:00 +00002009-08-13T16:18:25.304-07:00Me and the bestest where having a late night conversation that came to talking about men and cheating and seeming to have difficulties staying faithful. This discussion, like many others, just started to bring up different prospectives (from us two women of course) of why we felt this was. Since we deal mostly with black men this is where our direction was aimed. We began talking about past and http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/08/black-men-are-you-afraid-of-something.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-2404257909644408444Thu, 13 Aug 2009 21:49:00 +00002009-08-13T15:27:43.579-07:00I posted a statement on Twitter the other day and it went like: "Black men need to step up, these white boys are getting finer and finer"--> needless to say, I received a few negative statements regarding this from guys, but a LOT of ReTweets from the ladies. At first this was just a statement I had made just to make it and did not feel like explaining it to anyone. But I take to my blog when I http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/08/white-men-are-getting-finer-and-finer.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-6182894594536717647Wed, 05 Aug 2009 15:50:00 +00002009-08-05T10:10:14.379-07:00There are things that i just don't get. People want to walk around feeling that they are somehow entitled to respect. I get both sides of the argument: you have to give it to get it, and you have to earn it. Which one is it? I mean, do i have to show you respect in order to receive some back? Or do i have to show you that I am worthy of your respect? HUMMM..?? The reason I propose this is by the http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/08/r-e-s-p-e-c-t-do-you-know-what-it-means.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-5541497084900288197Sat, 01 Aug 2009 18:08:00 +00002009-08-01T11:57:18.355-07:00I picked up my monthly issue of Marie Claire the other day. I read them not for the articles or the beauty tips, more so to study the fashion layouts they have in there. I was skimming through the pages and landed on a article entitled: "What kind of mother leaves their kids". I immediately flipped through the entire article and here are just a couple of the statements that stood out for me:Elle http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/08/what-kind-of-mother-leaves-her-kids.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-3964527062012321178Tue, 28 Jul 2009 16:23:00 +00002009-07-28T10:39:54.290-07:00 I was watching television the other day while reading other peoples blogs (yes, I do follow other blogs) and came across and argument that eluded to the fact that black male artists in the entertainment industry have no problem using girls from other races in their videos, but you very rarely see the vice versa of that. Whites, hispanics and others do not use black women for a large part in http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/still-on-pedestal.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-9001543847958040560Thu, 23 Jul 2009 16:47:00 +00002009-07-23T10:40:58.552-07:00At first I knew i was just going to HAVE to watch this show when it came out. Not because I particularly care for either of the ladies but because it just looked like a hot mess waiting to happen (im such a fool for "reality" tv shows). I watched the first episode, and about half way through it I had resolved in my mind to never watch it again (even though I have- what can I say, Im weak). But I http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/standing-on-our-own-two-feet.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-3480946982936638763Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:20:00 +00002009-07-23T08:59:38.191-07:00girlskissingattentionmenI swear this is a new phenomenon or something but its starting to sicken me. Women kissing women! Most are going to think I'm anti-gay or have a problem with P.D.A but both are somewhat true. One, I'm only against gay-relationships because they are biblically wrong. Dont get mad, I let you have your opinions, let me have mine. I dont have a problem with it outside of that, I truly don't- i think http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-attention-worth-your-dignity.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-8665222639598988516Tue, 14 Jul 2009 13:26:00 +00002009-07-23T09:00:17.355-07:00womencheatingmenloverelationshipI finally got around to reading my new Cosmo, the August edition with Katy Perry on the front, when I began reading an interesting article that was written inside. It was entitled "4 Words that Cheatproof His Love" ("you are so hot") by Korin Miller. I decided to glance over it because, lets face it, men have been known to have a difficult time being faithful in a relationship. I actually agreed http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/cheat-proofing-only-for-women-not-so.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-866659172925399621Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:54:00 +00002009-07-23T09:01:53.264-07:00infidelitycausesmcnairtragedymarriageOk, I want to first start out by saying that I am saddened by Steve McNair's death. Not because of who he was or what he was doing but because I feel that any death at the hands of someone else is particularly sad. No matter what he was doing or not doing he did NOT deserve to die for it.(first below: mcnair and wife, mcnair and mistress (further below) WELL, now that that's clarified I will http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/did-he-contribute-to-his-own-demise.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-8916808563399968746Tue, 07 Jul 2009 21:15:00 +00002009-07-23T09:03:54.435-07:00womenequalitymenjudgment"And I’m sorry but Rihanna and her skanky ass needs to go sit down somewhere. Parading around with a married man and his child. Dumb whore!""Dont get mad because we finally see the reason Rihanna was always around Jay-z. Its cause she’s been screwing his married friend. Thats who’s been flying her out to all these events that everyone wanted to say she was there for Jay-z while the whole time shehttp://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/are-we-still-blaming-woman.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-3826069042732791708Mon, 06 Jul 2009 23:12:00 +00002009-07-23T09:04:24.504-07:00A few weeks ago, I told Uncle Russ that I do not want to “waste my celebrity,”as my celebrity is a gift to me, my family and the world…not only for me to getahead, but for others as well. So, I am happy to announce that I have officiallysigned to the Ford Agency and I am moving to NY to pursue my modeling and actingcareers! I am going to be taking acting classes in NY and will pursue the http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/fame-at-any-cost_06.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-6914957739349320667Sun, 05 Jul 2009 21:08:00 +00002009-07-23T09:05:10.340-07:00trustforgiveforgetloveIm a tad upset because I had this whole post done then it was accidently deleted, sooo Im pissed about that but I will try to remember everything.I was wondering the other day, is it really possible for people to forgive AND forget. Everyone goes around saying that we must forgive and forget in order to get on with our lives, but I just dont think this is possible whatsoever. God tells us to http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-it-possible-to-forgive-and-forget_05.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-3782388451370535467Thu, 02 Jul 2009 02:24:00 +00002009-07-23T09:06:40.269-07:00would youtatsloverelationshipI know this topic has ran through someone's mind at least once. You may have been confronted with the situation or you may have tried to talk someone else out of getting one. While there is a lot of hesitation against it, people still go and get them done. A lot of people stand by their belief that they are stupid and that someone would be insane to get someones (besides a family member) name http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/07/would-you-get-someones-name-on-you.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-1206825586925761642Tue, 30 Jun 2009 00:08:00 +00002009-06-29T17:36:29.124-07:00opencheatingrelationshipI was watching this True Life episode (yes, that is my show- i love documentaries- and NOT just MTV ones, real ones too) which was about these people who were bisexual and wanted relationships with both a man and a woman at the same time. You guys may have seen it, it was the one with A.D in it from "From G's to Gents". Well, one girl took the cake in my opinion. She was married while dating thishttp://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/is-it-cheating-open-relationships.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-6133705320760912303Sun, 28 Jun 2009 05:24:00 +00002009-06-27T22:51:06.941-07:00godObamachangeinsomniac*just writing from what im thinking right now, ramblings of an insomniac*Sometimes I look at this world and am deeply conflicted about what I am to perceive of it. I mean, there is so many things that break and tear you down in life that death is sometimes more easy than life. But I believe suicide is the most selfish act anyone can do. You are not only killing yourself, but those around you as http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/ramblings-of-insomniac.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-7258737099158251080Sat, 27 Jun 2009 03:23:00 +00002009-06-27T10:03:33.902-07:00womenwhitestatsblackmenrelationship"I do not have to carry the race with my interactions with white women; with black women, you are representing the whole race and gender of black men. You deal with the baggage of every black girls life. And you're just not trying to hear all that. I dont want to deal with how black men are always cheating and leaving some black woman for a white woman. I do not need to hear about how some black http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/can-we-stop-with-lame-excuses-to-date.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-7797587800118942755Thu, 25 Jun 2009 01:45:00 +00002009-06-24T19:23:45.289-07:00womenhypocrisyblackmenThis poll is for BLACK MALES ONLY! 0 I am a black male 0 I am not a black male and so will NOT fill out this survey!I find straight hair more attractive than "afro" hair 0 YES 0 NO I find blond, brown, or redheads more attractive than black haired girls 0 YES 0 NO I find lighter skin more attractive than darker skin 0 YES 0 NO I find a small, pointy, narrow nose more attractive http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/for-black-men-to-whom-it-refers.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-8778316578942302078Mon, 22 Jun 2009 20:47:00 +00002009-06-22T13:58:40.889-07:00IN RESPONSE TO YOURS TRULY: (well, for the most part lol)One, I wanna thank those who left comments and wanna say hi to the new followers I really appreciate it a lot. I know you (yours truly) left a comment saying that I should write like my previous one more often and that led me to finally getting around to telling what this is about.I really liked the one I just posted about my dad but what http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/just-my-thought.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-7833854218347856Sun, 21 Jun 2009 05:37:00 +00002009-06-20T23:03:34.294-07:00teachlovefatherHe taught me some things, minor things. He taught me never to sit on another man's lap when I was a little girl, he taught me how to ride a bike, he taught me how to skate and not to fall asleep in church. Be good to my mother, love my brother and sister. He taught me how to paint my toenails by doing it himself. He taught me how to swing and not to play with boys!But he never taught me how to http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/things-he-never-taught-me.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-4240126994640126603Sat, 20 Jun 2009 05:45:00 +00002009-06-19T23:05:48.366-07:00sexcheatingloverelationshipI have always wondered what made people cheat. I mean, not someone who does it once and never does it again, but those who seem to be "repeat offenders". What causes them to feel that they just need to dip out on their significant other and pursue someone that they may not even want to deal with outside of sex. Why mess up something that is going good for a few minutes, or hours, of sex? This ledhttp://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/is-there-ever-green-light-to-cheat.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-1084332928125969553Fri, 19 Jun 2009 01:35:00 +00002009-06-19T11:27:23.393-07:00womensexrelationship Ladies, do NOT think I was just goin to let you off the hook. Same goes for the men, this is a very loose, very broad generalization of females that I have came in contact with, been acquaintances with or befriended. I am in no way talking about ALL females when i say women, ok? I dont like men grouping us into one category so I will not do the same.Why do women:1) hate on other females? You http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/why-do-women.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4444932969158979043.post-6433540688719636286Fri, 19 Jun 2009 01:10:00 +00002009-06-18T18:30:49.398-07:00sexmenrelationshipFirst and foremost I am making this clear I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT ALL MEN!! OK, i try not to group all men into one category because 1) I dont feel all men are the same (and if you do,you havent been with a lot or just keep messin with the same ones) and 2) I do not like being grouped into categories with the rest of the female species.. ok, once again, NOT talking about all men. It is a very http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com/2009/06/what-i-cant-figure-out-about-men.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (mizzeboni)4