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The Gift of Giving Life - A Book for Every Woman

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Fri, 18 May 2012 14:00:00 +0000

This book review is a stop on the Virtual Book Tour for The Gift of Giving Life, a beautiful book written by LDS women, for LDS women, that I was recently invited to read. As most of you know I’m not inclined to do book reviews here on WBMW. In fact, I don't really consider myself qualified. However, after an initial, brief encounter with The Gift of Giving Life, I knew this book would be one that I would be recommending to friends and family -- which is something I can do. As I consider the readers of my blog friends, I want to share with you, just a bit, of why I think this book is worthwhile. To give you an indicator of just how special I think this book is, I ordered four copies and gave each one of my daughters this book for Mother’s Day.

There are many contributors to The Gift of Giving Life -- which is, among other reasons, one of the elements that makes this book applicable to all women -- but the main author is Felice Austin, with Lani Axman, Heather Farrell, Robyn Allgood, Sheridan Ripley as co-authors. Preface by Lynn Callister PhD.

Partial description of The Gift of Giving Life:

Pregnancy and childbirth are not to be feared; they are divinely appointed processes that can be joyful, spiritual, and bring families closer to God.The Gift of Giving Life: Rediscovering the Divine Nature of Pregnancy and Birth offers something that no other pregnancy book has before–a spiritual look at pregnancy and birth by and for LDS women and other women of faith. Through moving stories women in the scriptures, women from early Latter-day Saint history, and dozens of modern mothers, The Gift of Giving Life assures readers that God cares deeply about the entire procreative process.

The Gift of Giving Life does not advocate for any one type of birth or approach to prenatal care, rather it intends to unify our families and communities in regard to the sacredness of birth. We also aim to provide you with resources, information, and inspiration that you may not have had access to all in one place before.

For me personally, as a mother who has given birth to five children, naturally, was an immediate interest in the book, due to the title: The Gift of Giving Life. I have, for years, had some very intimate thoughts, about women and birth, that are deeply spiritual, and I believe doctrinally based. I’ve always known that my impressions were pure revelation from God. Mormon women see giving birth in a much different way than many outside of our faith. Birth is deeply spiritual and makes us co-creators with God in bringing forth spirits into mortality -- givers of life.

In my reading thus far, my own personal revelations have been confirmed by other women who share similar thoughts, and have written them down. I know these thoughts are not everyday thoughts. They are sacred, and not the things, about giving life, that we often discuss. Until now.

These inspired women, who have put together this beautiful book, have done an exquisite work in compiling so many of the eternal truths about motherhood, that I feel can be such a blessing for more women to contemplate. Things I would like the mothers of my grandchildren to know more about.

Page after page, of this lovely book, brought back so many beautiful feelings, and memories, about the sacredness of giving birth, that for this, now Nana, also brought some tears of joy. The gift of giving life is the crowning blessing of being a woman. Whether you're just beginning this magical journey, or find yourself at the place where you can look back on the miraculous process that you've already passed, it is an experience that will forever change how a woman looks into, and toward eternity.

I came to find out about The Gift of Giving Life through Heather Farrell, one of the co-authors of the book. Heather also writes on Women in the Scriptures, a blog that I link to in my sidebar, and highly recommend. I asked Heather if she wouldn’t mind sharing a few thoughts about how she became involved with GOGL project:

"I got involved with The Gift of Giving Life project about three years ago. Right after I had my daughter I felt prompted to write a piece on my blog about Eve and childbirth. A few weeks after posting it I noticed that Felice Austin and Lani Axman both linked to it on their blogs. I saw that they were working together to collect stories from LDS women about their spiritual birth experiences. I submitted Rose's birth story (which is in the book) and after reading more on my blog they both felt prompted to invite me to collaborate with them.

When they first invited me to work on the book, I didn’t know how I was going to be useful. I’m not a midwife. I don’t write a birth blog. Then one day I realized a significant proportion of the stories of women in the scriptures are birth stories. Especially the women we have names for: Rebekah, Mary, Elizabeth–they’re all birth stories! I realized that’s what I could contribute to this book: I could tell their stories.

We hope our book will help people realize that birth is a spiritual experience. You’re bringing a child through the veil to the earth. All of us co-authors had natural births, so we started by wanting everyone to think like we do. But the Lord has led us in a different direction. We gathered stories—there are about 70 different voices in the book–from women who prayed, and they were supposed to have C-sections, or they were supposed to have epidurals; that was what was right for them. And other women prayed and they were supposed to have a home birth. We came to realize that birth is innately spiritual; it doesn’t matter how you do it. So the book doesn’t advocate for one type of birth.

Doing the book, I came to realize that God cares about birth, and He’ll give you guidance. You should pray about where to give birth. You should pray about how to give birth. You should pray while you’re giving birth! I think we’ve lost those things a bit in LDS culture. I did the historical research for the book and realized that LDS women used to have a different, more spiritual perspective on birth. LDS midwives would pray before they’d attend births. During the births they’d call on priesthood holders to give the mother a blessing if the birth wasn’t progressing. LDS women did washing and anointing before birth. As LDS women, we’ve lost that understanding that birth is not separate from your spiritual life."

I really hope that we've perked your interest enough to claim your own copy of this important book. Personally, I think this is a book that every LDS women, regardless of age, with or without children, should own. You can purchase The Gift of Giving Life on Amazon.com (You should know that I'm an Amazon affiliate, so by clicking on the link I do make a little bit from your purchase.)

And to the men, who have read this 'review' to the end, you can learn so much from this book, too. So, give it the woman in your life that has given you, or your children, life -- and perhaps you could sit down with her and read some of the inspired essays included in this book.

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Kathryn Skaggs

You're also invited to visit The Gift of Giving Life site to sign up for their newsletter and to receive a free Meditation MP3 -- as well as tips to help increase spirituality in your pregnancy and birth. You can also find GOGL on Facebook.

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Check Out New Mormon.org Widget and LDS.org Resource for Answering Gospel Questions

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Wed, 16 May 2012 22:41:00 +0000

Mormon bloggers, for quite a while, have been asking LDS tech people the golden question, when will visitors to our blogs be able to chat with LDS missionaries, directly from our blogs?

Well, guess what? They listened. Just launched is a very cool, NEW, Mormon.org widget -- currently available for both Blogger and Wordpress platforms. The Mormon.org widget not only includes the long awaited chat with a Mormon missionary function, but you can also watch a selection of I'm a Mormon videos -- and access a simplified version of Mormon FAQ -- directly from the widget.

In the quest to make sharing the gospel, online, as easy as possible, the Mormon.org widget should be a great option to all members who have personal blogs. It can easily be added to your sidebar, and allows you to keep doing whatever it is that you do, on your blog, without interruption.

Grab widget for your blog HERE.

For many LDS members who have blogs that are not necessarily Mormon oriented, who would like a way to share their Mormon faith, this is an excellent way to do it.

Speaking of great resources for sharing the gospel, online, LDS.org has recently launched a new section of their website to help members answer gospel questions, called: Answering Gospel Questions! “The growing prominence of the Church and the increasing inquiries from others present us with great opportunities to build bridges, make friends, and pass on accurate information.” said M. Russell Ballard.

"We wanted to supply members with some simple principles they can apply when addressing questions or comments about the gospel that may arise in their casual conversations with others.” —Michael Barber, product manager

For more info see LDS Church News article: New Resource Helps Members Answer Gospel Questions

Needless to say, I'm very happy about these two, latest, resources for helping members share the gospel, and educate others about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, online. (Check out my sidebar >>>)

Knowing what to say in answering gospel questions is as important as how we go about it. The new LDS.org resource offers great suggestions for how we can best go about interacting with others, not of our own faith, to make it a positive experience for everyone involved.

In teaching my primary lesson, last Sunday, we discussed the great Book of Mormon missionary, Ammon. In our discussion we brought out the wonderful tools the Lord has provided for each one of us to accomplish our own mission, as members of His Church, to noise abroad the good news of the gospel. Among the greatest of these tools is faith.

I have great faith that Jesus Christ is the Master of technology, and that as we have faith in Him and the miraculous tools that He is continually providing us to do His work, we are able to fulfill our own missions, as Latter-day Saints.

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Kathryn Skaggs

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Mitt Romney on Marriage, Freedom of Religion and Trusting God

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Wed, 16 May 2012 15:57:00 +0000

Mitt Romney was invited to address Liberty University's class of 2012, which happens to be a Baptist college. I was interested to find out what he said and found a great article written by Keith A. Fournier, a very surprised editor, at Catholic Online, who attended the commencement exercise, heard Romney's speech, and is a Catholic.

I find interest in this particular speech, for two reasons. Mitt Romney is a high profile Mormon and whatever he communicates, in relation to Mormon beliefs, is broadcast to large audiences. Second, Romney could very likely be the next President of the United States.

I was impressed, on both counts, with the content of his speech and found him to be more engaging than I've ever seen him before. From the standpoint of representing Mormon values, which are also Christian values, he presented these commonalities flawlessly.

Romney expressed his thoughts about the sanctity of marriage, being only between one man and one woman; the importance of freedom of religion; and then focused on trusting in God. Said Fournier:

Governor Romney did not attempt to argue the compatibility of his own religious faith and that of most of the graduates. I was relieved. He told the graduates and their guests, "People of different faiths, like yours and mine, sometimes wonder where we can meet in common purpose, when there are so many differences in creed and theology. Surely the answer is that we can meet in service, in shared moral convictions about our nation stemming from a common worldview." He is right.

Yes, he is. I was privileged to be involved with organizing my own Mormon Helping Hands day of service, where we joined forces with both the Catholic and Methodist churches, for a city-wide food drive, that benefited over 600 needy families, served weekly. It was a beautiful interfaith outreach, where all involved felt our Christian bond.

Read Fournier's entire article: Mitt Romney: Mormon Candidate at Baptist Liberty University Moves Catholic Editor.

Video: Governor Mitt Romney - Liberty University Commencement

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Kathryn Skaggs

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noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Tue, 15 May 2012 02:17:00 +0000

In a desire to be sensitive toward women who are unable to have children I'm concerned that, perhaps, on Mother's Day, we may be going a bit too far. Not that we can ever be too compassionate in acknowledging the pain that surely accompanies the inability to have children, but at the same time we shouldn't need to pull back in giving the much needed praise, encouragement and recognition of Moms', who are actually raising, or have raised, children -- and all that that entails.

Concern for the feelings of women who have made career choices that cause them to delay motherhood, limit the number of children they have, or choose to not have children at all, are among other reasons that motherhood, in general, has become a hot button issue -- even within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

In order to be politically sensitive, in all circumstances, where the issue of how women fulfill their role as mothers comes into play, it is my observation that we are becoming increasingly comfortable with relegating actual Moms' to the back of the bus -- even on Mother's Day. And frankly, that kind of bothers me. Said President Hinckley on the awesome responsibility of mothers:

You have nothing in this world more precious than your children. When you grow old, when your hair turns white and your body grows weary, when you are prone to sit in a rocker and meditate on the things of your life, nothing will be so important as the question of how your children have turned out. It will not be the money you have made. It will not be the cars you have owned. It will not be the large house in which you live. The searing question that will cross your mind again and again will be, How well have my children done?

For those who know my history, as a mother, you might find this concern somewhat surprising. I've wrestled not only with my own Mother's mothering, but also my own ability to mother ideally. It took me a while to put it all into proper perspective. Now that I have, I'm an even stronger advocate for moms, with all our weakness and insecurities. We have a huge task, as mothers in Zion, and understanding this role is one of our great lessons as sisters in Christ.

Here in the United States Mother's Day was originally established to provide a special day for children to pay tribute to their mothers, for their good deeds. It was encouraged that children hand write special messages of gratitude to their mothers. In fact, Anna Jarvis, founder of Mother's Day, was so upset by the almost immediate commercialization of Mother's Day that she actually turned against the memorial and wanted it rescinded.

The simple purity of Mother's Day, it seems, is being recruited to the larger war on women, of women, and, perhaps, even between women. Mormon moms, and Mormon women, are among those who, above all, should not allow this to happen. We, more than any other women on the planet, understand the divine call of all women, to ultimately become a Mom and, I would think, would not be comfortable in, no matter personal circumstances, wanting to see motherhood diminished -- just to be made to feel comfortable.

As I sat in my church meeting, on Mother's Day, I sensed that a conscience effort had been made to focus more on womanhood, in general, rather than on being a Mom -- a mother with children. I have no critique of the remarks given. Thankfully no one read off a list of what makes a perfect mother. You know the kind of list I'm talking about, right? The one that leaves every mother in the congregation, except for maybe one (the speaker's perfect wife or mother) feeling like scum on the bottom of a shoe. No, my ward pulled off this new twist quite flawlessly.

And yet, as a Mom myself, knowing well the sacrifices of so many others who have followed the commandments of God, counsel of living prophets, and promptings of the Spirit in making the choice to give birth, and become a Mom -- in the face of so much opposition in today's world -- I wished with all my heart, on Mother's Day, at the very least, someone would have given such Moms' recognition for this choice, sacrifice and life's work -- praise that it so well deserves.

Again, not that there's anything wrong, at all, in recognizing all women as mothers -- as part of their divine nature. Sheri Dew's great talk, "Are We Not All Mothers?" has had a profound impact on this discussion in the Church -- and rightfully so. I, myself, quote it often.

However, we can't shy away from moving forward, once we've established this doctrine, and acknowledge our gratitude for those women, who are able, and willing, to make the bearing and nurturing of children their first priority, and the impact that this has on the lives of the children they nurture.

Even though, as Sheri Dew taught, Eve was called "the mother of all living", in the garden, before she ever bore a child, nonetheless, her full stature was not complete until after the Fall, where she was able to finally have children -- in mortality. Let us never forget that although we have a prescribed divine destiny, it is in the fruits of becoming, or doing, that the promised blessings are ultimately manifest.

Women today, who make the choice to become mothers, through giving birth or adoption -- and those who desire to do so -- are fulfilling their divine nature, and destiny, as commanded by God -- to multiply and replenish the earth. These particular women, in my opinion, standout among all women, as lights to be honored, and revered, for their sacrifice in setting aside their own desires, and as the Savior, Himself, willingly follow God's Plan -- in the face of much adversity.

This is the perfect Mother -- the one, with all her weakness, chooses to follow God's Plan and teaches her children to do the same -- although for the majority of us, incredibly imperfectly.

Howard W. Hunter on the Motherhood:

A man who holds the priesthood has reverence for motherhood. Mothers are given a sacred privilege to “bear the souls of men; for herein is the work of [the] Father continued, that he may be glorified” ( D&C 132:63).

The First Presidency has said: “Motherhood is near to divinity. It is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind” (in James R. Clark, comp., Messages of the First Presidency, 6 vols., Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1965–75, 6:178). The priesthood cannot work out its destiny, nor can God’s purposes be fulfilled, without our helpmates. Mothers perform a labor the priesthood cannot do. For this gift of life, the priesthood should have love unbounded for the mothers of their children.

Honor your wife’s unique and divinely appointed role as a mother in Israel and her special capacity to bear and nurture children. We are under divine commandment to multiply and replenish the earth and to bring up our children and grandchildren in light and truth (Moses 2:28; D&C 93:40). You share, as a loving partner, the care of the children. Help her to manage and keep up your home. Help teach, train, and discipline your children.

You should express regularly to your wife and children your reverence and respect for her. Indeed, one of the greatest things a father can do for his children is to love their mother.

A man who holds the priesthood regards the family as ordained of God. Your leadership of the family is your most important and sacred responsibility. The family is the most important unit in time and in eternity and, as such, transcends every other interest in life.

We reiterate what was stated by President David O. McKay: “No other success [in life] can compensate for failure in the home” (David O. McKay quoting J. E. McCulloch, “Home: the Savior of Civilization,” in Conference Report, Apr. 1935, p. 116) and President Harold B. Lee:

“The most important of the Lord’s work you and I will ever do will be within the walls of our own homes” (Harold B. Lee, Stand Ye in Holy Places, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1974, p. 255). Effective family leadership, brethren, requires both quantity and quality time. The teaching and governance of the family must not be left to your wife alone, to society, to school, or even the Church. Howard W. Hunter, “Being a Righteous Husband and Father,” Ensign, Nov 1994, 49

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Kathryn Skaggs

Photo: Taken on my iPhone, of me and my Mom, on Mother's Day.

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noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Fri, 11 May 2012 16:39:00 +0000

As a mother, having experienced the birth of my own children, passing through both the sorrows and joys of raising them, now being witness to my own daughters becoming mothers; having set themselves upon their own, very personal, journeys into Motherhood, I can only contemplate, with deep emotion, the life of Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ -- our Savior and Redeemer.

To me, Mary is a sacred symbol, as well as spiritual evidence, to all of mankind, of the worth and dignity of the sacred calling of every woman, as a mother. As we study the life of Mary, the mother of the Savior of the world, the pattern of motherhood is clearly marked.

In bringing forth her first born son, Mary was given a clear knowledge of who He was and, with this understanding, set herself, with Joseph by her side, to ensuring that Jesus was taught in all the ways of God -- that He might be prepared to fulfill His mission here upon earth.

Likewise, as Latter-day Saint parents, we know that every child, brought into our homes, is a literal son or daughter of God, with a divine inheritance that must be claimed, in order to receive it. To help them fulfill that mission, while here upon the earth, parents must tutor their children, in the ways of God, until they are ready to exercise their own God-given agency to choose it for themselves.

There is no greater call than to be a teacher. By divine decree, mothers are called to nurture, which is to teach. Mothers nurture as they guide their children in learning how to listen to that still small voice, given to them when they entered into this world. This critical preparation, while they are young, prepares them to receive the gift of the Holy Ghost, at the time of their baptism.

Like Mary, the time comes, when we must trust that we have taught our children well, to take a step back and allow the Spirit to move our children forward on their own path toward Eternal Life. And like Mary, who briefly panicked when Jesus, at the age of only 12, wandered off to be about His Father's business, learn to trust this holy process. Although Jesus, perfect, never once deviated from the course that He was destined, through the power of His Atoning mission, has assured every one of us, that when course corrections are necessary He has prepared the way that we may do so.

Every Latter-day Saint mother comes to fully understand the great gift of the Atonement, as she takes that difficult, inevitable step of having to stand back herself. From this point on, she becomes an observer to the lives of her children. Mistakes are made, many seemingly fatal. Without the Atonement, spiritual death would result.

Again, I emphasize that which I have expressed many times before, but it is through my own journey, as a mother, that the deepest meaning of the Atonement has manifested itself to me personally. Without the Atonement I would lose my children. With it, I have hope of that promised Eternal Family, that we live for daily -- as we keep sacred covenants made in holy temples of God.

Knowing the happy ending, generally, does not make the process, or journey, easy. Mary is most often recorded, in scripture, as being alongside of, or nearby, in various accounts in the life of her son, Jesus. All mothers become familiar with this status, in the lives of their own children. Often times, much of what we witness is of concern. And like Mary, we must learn to have faith in God's plan and trust that the promised blessings, for all of us, will come.

Mary, during her own earthly life, was ultimately given full knowledge that her son had accomplished the work He was sent here to do. How glorious and magnificent that must have been! That was her great gift, given by a loving Heavenly Father -- to the Mother of the Son of God.

And like Mary, we also, because of her Son, have an assurance that the exaltation of our children, by covenant, is fixed and immovable! There is no greater peace, for any mother, than to have such a knowledge.

“The Prophet Joseph Smith declared—and he never taught a more comforting doctrine—that the eternal sealings of faithful parents and the divine promises made to them for valiant service in the Cause of Truth, would save not only themselves, but likewise their posterity. Though some of the sheep may wander, the eye of the Shepherd is upon them, and sooner or later they will feel the tentacles of Divine Providence reaching out after them and drawing them back to the fold. Either in this life or the life to come, they will return. They will have to pay their debt to justice; they will suffer for their sins; and may tread a thorny path; but if it leads them at last, like the penitent Prodigal, to a loving and forgiving father’s heart and home, the painful experience will not have been in vain. Pray for your careless and disobedient children; hold on to them with your faith. Hope on, trust on, till you see the salvation of God” (Orson F. Whitney, in Conference Report, Apr. 1929, 110).

New Bible Video: Mary, the Mother of Jesus

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Kathryn Skaggs

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noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Wed, 09 May 2012 01:51:00 +0000

With Mother's Day approaching I want to take a moment to reflect on the beauty, wonder, and sacred call, of every woman, as a mother. To be a mother, is gender specific, and no male, however many attributes he may possess, that are similar, can ever replace, in the life of a child, or for that matter the plan of salvation, that of Mother -- called of God.

In a world that would do away with gender specific roles, both physical and spiritual, the doctrines of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are clear on the role and divine destiny, eternally, of the daughters of Eve.

That so many, even among our active members, choose to disregard these truths, here in mortality, it is not redundant to pause briefly, and revisit The Family: A Proclamation to the World.

A few months ago I was approached by freelance writer, Frieda Klotz, working on an article for Forbes Woman. She requested an interview with me which, reluctantly, I gave. Her questions were focused on the role of Mormon women in the Church -- a controversial issue, for some, to say the least. After providing my direct answers, to her inquiries, a good month passed and I hadn't heard back from her. I decided to contact her to see if she was still planning on using the interview. She informed me that she was no longer working with Forbes.

My first reaction was one of relief. I struggled, somewhat, with a few of the answers I had given her, and wondered how they would be perceived, especially within the Church, and particularly with my readers here. I'm generally quite guarded about speaking of those things that others would take as criticism toward the Church. However, after careful consideration, and with Frieda's blessing, had decided to post the interview here, as I felt the content important. Needless to say I have not done so -- yet.

But, after listening to a recent Q&A with Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, following a beautiful apostolic speech that he gave at Harvard, (Which I highly recommend.) coupled with Mother's Day, which centers on the divine role of women, the timing, now, seems perfect.

The Role of Women in the Mormon Church

Frieda Klotz' Interview with Kathryn Skaggs

Here are the questions that I'm interested in. I'm trying to get a
handle on the role of women within the Church -- and what it's like to
be a Mormon woman!

Let me begin with a bit of a disclaimer, in that I fully acknowledge my inadequacy to represent all Mormon women in the LDS Church. Like all women from one generation to the next, we change based upon the lessons of the past and the hopes of the future. Mormon women, within our culture, are no different.

1. Would you say that Mormon values hold benefits for women in
general? What are those benefits?

I would definitely say that Mormon values, or beliefs, hold benefits for women in general. First of all, members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which is the formal name of the church, doctrinally hold women in the highest esteem. Recognizing that Adam, being the first man, was not complete without the woman Eve. She is not second to him, but literally together they become whole. Another important concept in Mormon theology is the belief that no person, singly, can reach the highest degree of glory in heaven. A temple marriage between a man and a woman is the highest sacrament in the LDS Church and required to inherit the kind of life that God lives. This understanding has great value to women around the globe.

2. Do you feel that the Mormon church places any restrictions on women
that are problematic?

The answer to that question depends upon individual women in the church and their personal background, perspectives and experience. For instance, I personally have no problem that Mormon women do not exercise priesthood responsibilities in the church. On the other hand, a minority of active women in the church do wish otherwise. Generally Mormon women are comfortable with the patriarchal organization of the LDS Church. It is a large part of Mormon culture. Although that’s not to say it’s a perfect earthly system. After all, we are not perfect people, right?

Personally I’ve found my experiences as a Mormon woman, in the LDS Church, very much affected by the men who hold authoritative positions. And I suppose that’s because I have often throughout my adult life served in leadership positions available to Mormon women. When men in the church have a firm grasp on the Mormon doctrine of womanhood, and that although men have been given the responsibility to lead in the church, women are equal in the eyes of God – things go quite well. And I will say that this has generally been my experience and is the way it should be. And yet I have seen and experienced what is referred to in the church as “unrighteous dominion” where a priesthood leader will diminish the thoughts, opinions and position of a woman based on his leadership position over her.

There are a handful of leadership positions for Mormon women in the church, locally, who serve in these capacities under the direction of local priesthood leaders. I have served in a number of these positions over the years and have found great fulfillment doing so as a woman in the church.

However, in our homes it is different – men and women are encouraged to counsel together in all things pertaining to their families, as equals, and preside accordingly. I think that younger people in the church are doing this much better than their parents. I have three married daughters and am much impressed by how they delegate responsibilities with their spouses. And equally I’m impressed with how these younger Mormon men are responding to greater equality in their marriages. I’ve always felt that a good motto to live by is “every generation better”. I see great application to this concept, in the LDS Church, with understanding and implementing proper roles between men and women.

Joseph Smith, founding prophet of the LDS Church, taught that teaching the members correct principles was the way to go, and then allow the people to govern themselves. This is often a process that requires time and experience to get important things right. I’m happy to report that I see much improvement as church leaders continue to counsel members in these areas.

3. Margaret Toscano has said in a PBS interview that "there are some
things in the culture that are very damaging to women". Do you have
have any thoughts on the conflict she mentions between Mormonism and
feminism? (I should add that she also says, "there are a lot of
empowering things in the culture.").

I’ve already given you some of my personal thoughts on Mormon women and priesthood authority in the church, in my answer to the previous question. I’m going to address her assessment that the “present structure of the LDS Church does not allow woman to develop her full personhood” -- which to me is the most troubling and revealing. Let me begin by saying that it is not my intention to be critical of Ms. Toscano’s experience. Certainly she is a very educated and articulate woman, however I feel that in the particular interview that you are referring to, she displays a lack of understanding of the relationship between the official LDS Church and its members.

It is my opinion that it is not the responsibility or mission of the LDS Church, as an organization, to be the vehicle, wherein men or women, develop their “full personhood” and ultimately, as she also stated, their “sense of worth”. On the other hand, I do believe that the doctrines that are taught in the LDS Church, whether it be via modern revelation or scripture -- do indeed reveal powerful knowledge about our relationship with God, as our literal Heavenly Father. It is this knowledge that gives members of the LDS Church a sure foundation upon which to build a very personal and intimate relationship with Him – not conditioned upon our activities and/or assignments in the organizational church. In fact, it is in the family that Mormons believe they can reach their full potential as sons and daughters of God.

This distinction, I believe, is a very important one. Granted, perhaps more so for Mormon women to understand – which I feel most do. I can’t argue that to many outside of the church, looking in, that equality by today’s standards could be questioned. However, for the majority of Mormon women we are content with our understanding of God’s eternal plan for His daughters and because of this our feelings of worth can be secured.

I’d also like to briefly mention the women’s Relief Society organization in the LDS Church. It is a great resource for helping Mormon women to both develop and express their gifts and talents among each other – as well a wonderful vehicle for service both within the church and in our local communities. I have a great love for this arm of the church that has a mission to help strengthen families and individual testimonies of Jesus Christ. I served as a president in this organization as a young mother and was greatly inspired by so many good women of great diversity. These examples of strong women of faith and confidence in their life’s choices continue to inspire me.

4. How would you feel if Mitt Romney were elected president?

After observing the current attempts to discredit Mitt Romney based on his Mormon faith, I would be most happy about him being elected as president because of what it would ultimately indicate about the American people in general. I think that alone should be important to all of us.

5. What do you think are the biggest misunderstandings that
non-Mormons tend to hold about Mormons (if it's possible to
generalize).

Beside the constant assertions that Mormons are not Christian or that we belong to a cult, I think the biggest misunderstanding about Mormons is a concern that we are not open about our religious beliefs which leads to a feeling that we are being secretive in some way. Of course this is highly perpetuated by both anti-Mormons and the media who are hoping to dissuade people from even considering a Mormon for president, so it’s not surprising that it continues to be a problem for members. I think most Mormons are very open and would love the opportunity to help others better understand our practices and beliefs. Really, the theory that Mormons are secretive just doesn’t quite fit when you consider we have over 50,000 missionaries, worldwide, willing to tell anyone willing, to open their door, all about us!

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I've taken the liberty to transcribe one particular question, asked of Elder Holland, by a young woman, during the above mentioned Harvard annual Mormon 101 Conference, and his beautiful and profound answer -- of which I hope that every LDS woman is blessed to hear. Since listening to this recording, weeks ago, Elder Holland's words have remained with me, and these truths have seared their way deeply into my soul. I think, after listening to Elder Holland's words, that you will better understand why I chose to finally post my interview with Frieda Klotz, on the role of Mormon women in the Church.

Note: Please do NOT quote Elder Holland from my transcript. Although I have been meticulous in my transcribing, what I believe I heard, in the recording, I have no authority to have done so. If you want to quote him, you need to go through the same painstaking labor of love that I did. In saying this, I recognize that my transcription is most likely less than perfect, and therefore I don't desire to be held responsible for any mistakes going abroad on the Internet. If you quote him, as I have, you are accountable -- as am I.

LDS Newsroom: Listen to Elder Jeffrey R. Holland's question and answer session at Harvard Law School (In my imagination, this is exactly what it would be like to sit at the feet of an apostle of the Lord, ask him about the most pertinent questions of the day, and let him just teach me. This is a must-listen. Marvelous!)

(10:05 mark)

Question: I have more of a political question than a doctrinal question. I was wondering if you could speak a little bit about the LDS view on women, specifically in light of the war on women, and Mitt Romney's comment that he would get rid of planned parenthood.

Elder Holland's answer:

I won't speak on Mitt Romney or his campaign. We are apolitical in the Church, in the partisan sense. So I won't comment on any candidate or any political party.

But I can say that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is more committed than any institution, any religious institution I know of, to the dignity and standing; and worth; and merit; and glory of a woman in anyway that I know it to say it to you.

My wife --- where are you honey? Stand. Stand. (laughter) My wife was a general officer of this Church before I was and I don't know very many churches that do that. But she was the general officer over a global organization, years, years before anybody thought I had anything to offer. That may or may not be exactly what you have in mind in asking the question, because some of those come down to social issues -- contemporary political issues of the day, and you've referred to one. But we are, in principle, and that's where I'd like to keep this.

In principle I can simply say that we believe that the creation of a woman was the crowning, and final, and most glorified moment of human creation.That we start with light and dark; and land and sea; and we move through fish and fowl; and beast of the field; and we get to Adam and it's still not good enough... and only when Eve was created --- this is our theology. You say it's political, but for me it's theological. That is our theology -- that the crowning creation and the glory of the human experience came with the creation of Eve.

Now, we need to do better. Everybody needs to do better. I think society needs to do better. This Church probably needs to do better. Maybe your church does. I don't know. I think we all need to do better to make sure that that dignity comes through -- to make sure that this kind of communication is conveyed.

With one of you in this audience I sat a couple of hours ago, and we talked about this -- how to do it better. How to be more explicit. How to find a better vocabulary. How to make actions follow our language, in our vocabulary and our sermons. I think that's a task that is probably still ahead of all of us.

But certainly doctrinally, theologically -- I don't mean this to be overly boastful or to be patronizing in anyway, in any other tradition -- but I would put the position of a woman in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints up against the dignity; and worth; and merit; and wonder of a woman anywhere on this planet. We just need to do better to to be able to convey that. We need to be able to make sure that everybody understands that -- including the women in our Church -- which I don't think we've done well enough yet.

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I really don't want to even try to commentate on such beautiful teaching, by an Apostle of the Lord, on the doctrine of womanhood -- only to say that Elder Holland's words resonated with me, and because of personal experiences, as a Mormon woman, in the Church, have very deep meaning. I trust that many of you will cherish his words as well.

What I will say, is how grateful I am to be a woman, and a mother -- and to have a deep understanding of the role of women in the Church -- and of motherhood. I count this knowledge as a great blessing. A blessing that has come, not only through experience, but through prayer, and seeking to understand -- with faith.

Happy Mother's Day!

tDMg
Kathryn Skaggs

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noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Sat, 05 May 2012 19:16:00 +0000

Okay, I admit it, that title is a bit misleading, but hey -- I was singing and Chris Martin was singing, at the same time, during last night's Mylo Xyloto Coldplay concert, at the Hollywood Bowl in L.A. And in my book, when you get it recorded on video, that's a duet! So at the very least, I will refer to 'our' performance as my 'unintended' duet with Chris Martin, LIVE! So, listen carefully at the beginning of the video, and yes, that is me singing along. I didn't even think, with all the noise going on around me, that my voice would get picked up in the recording. But it did.

It was a great up close and personal moment, during the Coldplay concert, when Chris Martin, eventually joined by the entire band, came up into the audience, right where we just happened to be sitting, and sang a few of my very favorite songs -- definite crowd pleaser.

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Us Against the World

For those who have followed me online, for more than a few years, you know I love Coldplay. I don't do concerts, in general, but when Coldplay is in town I make an extra effort to grab tickets. We won't go there.

Anyway, last night my DH, and I, went with one of my daughters and her husband to the Coldplay concert. This really helps bridge the generation gap -- when you do concerts with your kids. But seriously, every once in a while it's very healthy behavior to let your inner teenager out -- especially at my age. I knew 'she' was out when I found myself standing on the bench, singing and shooting video! And yes, hooting and hollering, too. Fear not though, I will resume my usual state of mind... soon.

But before I do, I'll share the other video I shot, up close and personal, after the other. Enjoy!

Video: Coldplay - Speed of Sound

And for a little added fun, and to assure you that I have mellowed out, a bit, you can read a concert review I wrote, here, about Coldplay's last concert tour. This little blog post is nothing compared to that write up! See, I am s l o w l y growing up.

Happy Saturday¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥

tDMg

Kathryn Skaggs

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Meet Alice. I first noticed her, from a distance, behind the lens of my camera. The light in her eyes immediately caught my attention. I couldn't resist taking her picture. When she noticed me, she was initially embarrassed, and explained that she was too old and no longer considered beautiful. I expressed my feelings about the light that I saw in her eyes and how that, to me, is true beauty. Oh what a wonderful visit we then had.

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Mormon Helping Hands: Feeding the Hungry

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Thu, 03 May 2012 07:59:00 +0000

Meet Alice. I first noticed her, from a distance, behind the lens of my camera. The light in her eyes immediately caught my attention. I couldn't resist taking her picture. When she noticed me, she was initially embarrassed, and explained that she was too old and no longer considered beautiful. I expressed my feelings about the light that I saw in her eyes and how that, to me, is true beauty. Oh what a wonderful visit we then had.

I ♥ Alice.

I've been involved with planning my own area's Mormon Helping Hands Day of Service, here in Murrieta, California -- now three years. It's been a rewarding experience to see members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons) reach out to our community to bless the lives of many we don't regularly associate with. Prior to this year we've worked with Habitat for Humanity, United Way and a local home for troubled teens. But this year, for me, it was a very different experience.

With the LDS Church emphasis on social media, on a broad scale, they've now incorporated its use on the local level. Alongside of my calling in primary, teaching the 9-12 year-old girls, I serve on our stake Public Affairs Counsel, over media relations -- and now, social media. Perfect! : )

The North America West Mormon Helping Hands social media team, here in California, really took this opportunity seriously. Matthew Stringer, a social media guru, was brought on board by Mormon Helping Hands California, to spearhead this effort. He's a great guy and really helped to provide excellent training, via Webinars, leading up to the April 28, 2012 event -- and I took that training to heart.

It was suggested that leading up to the event the social media specialist (that would be me) might want to go out to the project site(s) to take pictures and shoot video. We could then share this 'media' with our stake and local media outlets -- to introduce them to our project, and encourage participation and local coverage. So I did.

Promo Video: Mormons, Methodists and Catholics Join Forces to Fight Hunger
(Very amateur video I shot but nicely edited by Chad LeBaron)

Two weeks prior to our city-wide food drive, to collect food donations for two local churches in my community, St. Martha's Catholic Church and Murrieta United Methodist Church, I decided to visit the food pantries of each, to see how they operate and meet the directors. Little did I know that these good people, their dedicated volunteers, and those who they lovingly serve, weekly, would wiggle their way into the depths of my heart. But they did. And that is how I met Alice.

Between these two community food pantries, I learned that they serve over 630 families every week. The two pantries are run completely different. One is a large operation that works closely with the city, to obtain much needed grant money, in order to purchase large amounts of food -- for the nearly 500 families they serve, weekly. This requires them to obtain documented information from the families that they assist. The other, serving approximately 130 families each week, with no financial aid -- only the goodness of local citizens, and businesses, to keep their doors open. I spent two days, each, visiting the pantries. One day to see the facility, the other to watch them in action. A total of four mornings that week.

It turned out to the the best week ever. Getting up every morning, knowing that I would be rubbing shoulders with so many wonderful people, who from the bottom of their hearts, truly care for the needy in my community, brought a smile to my face, and a gratitude to my soul, that has remained with me. Meeting so many of the recipients of such Christlike service, taught me about humility. That's how I fell in love with Alice, and many others just like her. It was a beautiful exchange to witness.

I can't get Dennis out of my mind. Dennis was at the food pantry on Friday morning. That's the day of the week where food is distributed to the needy. He was sitting in his wheelchair waiting for his turn to receive. They go by lottery numbers. He had to wait quite a while on this particular day. I happen to come upon him as I was, from a distance, taking pictures.

Screen shot from video

At first I felt uncomfortable -- like an intruder. I came to understand the sacredness of feeding the hungry. I put my camera behind my back and introduced myself to Dennis. I told him I was from the Mormon Church. He had heard all about 'us' and what we were doing with the upcoming food drive. He immediately began our conversation by telling me that he used to date a Mormon girl when he was a young man. Dennis was, I suspect, in his 70's. He then proceeded to tell me about his little girl, who died when she was three -- as tears welled up in his eyes. I couldn't stop myself from telling him what I believed about life after death -- and my testimony that he would see his little girl again. We had a fairly lengthy conversation -- until his number was called. I couldn't help but think that this was no chance meeting.

I was now connected to our Mormon Helping Hands city-wide food drive, in a way that I didn't expect. And even though I was actually out of town on the day of the event, I was involved with it, every minute. Throughout the morning I was receiving real time pictures and video from volunteers, via SMS, and then would use my expert social media skills (ha-ha) to broadcast via Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram -- what was happening throughout our #dayofservice in Murrieta.

I can't tell you how many times, when certain pictures would come through, that my eyes would tear up just knowing what a blessing this food would be to so many people in my community. People that I had come to love -- and see.

As one who gets really excited about the power of social media to share the gospel, I was especially moved by the way in which we can tell a story through its use, that helps others connect to something powerful and important. We tend to serve those, best, whom we are connected. When we are connected, we have loved.

Video: Delivery to Murrieta United Methodist Church Food Pantry

Credit: Donal Pearce

The Murrieta Stake connected with our community in a beautiful, interfaith, day of service. Over 630 volunteers turned out, many donning bright yellow Mormon Helping Hands vests. 15,000 food items were collected and donated to two community food pantries -- as a total of 1,800 service hours were given. It was a huge success as an event, but even more important, our community better knows that members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, a church that bears His name -- reached out to emulate His teachings.

Volunteers at one of three registration sites on day of event
Photo Credit: Terina Matthews

tDMg
Kathryn Skaggs

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Now More than EVER We Need Living Prophets

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Wed, 02 May 2012 00:27:00 +0000

Among other issues, last week's blog post has brought into crystal clear focus the need for living prophets - today, more than ever before! Incredibly The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) boldly declares, to the world, that a young boy, named Joseph Smith, was called of God to restore ancient Christianity, as established while Jesus Christ, Himself, was upon the earth. And today, by succession, the Church continues to function under the direction of President Thomas S. Monson, whom its members sustain as a prophet, seer and revelator. Mind you, this is no small matter -- and its importance must be acknowledged in the face of much confusion and controversy that surround us daily.

"Because Heavenly Father loves His children, He has not left them to walk through this mortal life without direction and guidance", said Dieter F. Uchtdorf, in the March 2012 First Presidency Message: Why Do We Need Prophets? "The teachings of our Heavenly Father are not the ordinary, predictable, run-of-the-mill kind you can pick up in paperback at the local bookstore. They are the wisdom of an all-powerful, all-knowing celestial Being who loves His children. Encompassed in His words is the secret of the ages—the key to happiness in this life and in the world to come."

He taught that, "Much of what the Lord reveals to His prophets is intended to prevent sorrow for us as individuals and as societies. When God speaks, He does so to teach, inspire, refine, and warn His children. When individuals and societies ignore their Heavenly Father’s instructions, they do so at the risk of trial, torment, and toil."

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It is not surprising that much of what prophets teach is not well received by the world. It is viewed as unpopular, out-of-date, and ultimately uninformed. However, that "wisdom", of which President Euchtdorf refers, often finds itself in direct opposition to the desires and opinions of some of our members. One might ask: How can that be? Well, you'd be quite surprised to hear many of the arguments to faithfully justify such thoughts -- often disregarding revealed doctrine, in the hopes of change. And as is often the case, in artful distortion, made to sound plausible enough to attract many proponents, who have similar hopes. Sadly many disregard that God is the authority on all things, and has given the charge to relate such information to His prophets.

Search these commandments, for they are true and faithful, and the prophecies and promises which are in them shall all be fulfilled.

What I the Lord have spoken, I have spoken, and I excuse not myself; and though the heavens and the earth pass away, my word shall not pass away, but shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same. D&C 1:38-39

Listening to such distortions of revealed truth, when understood, finds no basis for such beliefs. Unfortunately to those who hold fast to these rods of hope, they are found wandering as the scriptures teach would be their fate. (1Nephi 8:32) The "iron rod", of which we are commanded to hold fast, is Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ reveals His Words through His prophets. When ignored, as Euchtdorf explains, we run the risk of "trial, torment and toil" in our lives.

For these members who find themselves "wandering", they also tend to feel as though they do not belong. They might even be struggling to figure out why this is so. I would submit that to belong is to hold on, with faith, to the words, teachings and counsel of living prophets.

Diversity fades into the background when such unity is found among members of His Church. Not that it doesn't exist, but rather that we are then able to relate, support and build relationships, with each other, on His terms -- as He directs.

Prophets are the key to unity among Latter-day Saints. Prophets beckon each one of us to "Come Unto Christ" and hearken to His commandments. As we seek to understand, accept, and embrace one another, differences aside, we must first align our thoughts with revealed truth and counsel. Together as move toward achieving this oneness, we are becoming that Zion people of which Jesus Christ will return.

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

Matthew 11:28

With so many controversial issues that plague our days, and threaten to divide us, I am confident that with faith in Jesus Christ, we will obtain this rest of which we all seek.

tDMg

Kathryn Skaggs

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Gay and Mormon: Is it Safe Yet?

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 03:15:00 +0000

As much as we are discouraged in referring to members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, who experience same-gender-attraction, as gay Mormons, it is, nonetheless, often the way that they identify themselves. It is this very description, among other things, that has caused discomfort among many faithful members of the Church, after viewing the BYU video "It Gets Better", created to support the on campus LGBT community, to ultimately reject it.

I am one of those. I took the opportunity to discuss my concerns with a very close friend, who has faithfully dealt with same-sex attraction, as a Mormon, who understands the importance of creating a safe space, within the Church, for our brothers and sisters who carry this burden -- to not only feel love and welcomed, but that will also allow them to come to peace with their life's burden. This is a process that often makes everyone involved uncomfortable -- nonetheless, desperately needed.

Before we go any further, let me get this out of the way, right now. I am not anti-gay, nor am I a bigot. I fully support the position of the LDS Church on the issue of homosexuality, feeling that when we as members embrace such an understanding our actions then emulate that of the Savior's.

The Church teaches that all of us are sons and daughters of God and should be honored and respected as such. We reach out to assist people with all of the challenges of life. Those who struggle with same-gender attraction are certainly not excluded from the circle of love and fellowship the Church hopes to provide.

The defining factor for each of us is that we are children of God, born on this earth for a purpose and with a divine destiny. Our challenge and opportunity is to overcome the temptations and difficulties that lead us away from God.

President Gordon B. Hinckley has said: “Nevertheless, and I emphasize this, I wish to say that our opposition to attempts to legalize same-sex marriage should never be interpreted as justification for hatred, intolerance, or abuse of those who profess homosexual tendencies, either individually or as a group. As I said from this pulpit one year ago, our hearts reach out to those who refer to themselves as gays and lesbians. We love and honor them as sons and daughters of God. They are welcome in the Church. It is expected, however, that they follow the same God-given rules of conduct that apply to everyone else, whether single or married" (“Why We Do Some of the Things We Do,” Ensign, Nov. 1999, 54). LDS Newsroom

I'm not aware of any member of the Church who would not acknowledge how critical it is for those who deal with homosexual feelings, to know that they can find support within the Church, from other members who desire to more fully understand their challenges -- and are also willing to help them bear that burden. And yet, in a desire to be supportive of gospel standards, which were not acknowledged in the BYU video, leaving on a broader scale the intent of the video ambiguous, many faithful members of the Church are left not knowing what the true message of the video campaign is intended to ultimately accomplish.

For some it is simple -- stop the suicide of young Mormons who struggle with feelings of homosexuality. On this, we all can agree. However, for others, the desire that if enough negative, outside pressure is placed on LDS Church leadership, about homosexuality and same-sex marriage policies, change will inevitably have to happen -- ignoring doctrine.

It is my opinion that the latter agenda runs active throughout this particular BYU video campaign, both on and off campus. However I also believe that an even greater "agenda", if you will, can emerge -- and is hoped for by many BYU students, willing to speak out about their experiences with same-sex attraction. And that agenda is the Lord's agenda -- which is for there to be a safe space within the faithful Mormon culture, where members who face the challenge of same-gender attraction can be supported, feel love and find help in creating a fulfilling and joyful life within the gospel of Jesus Christ -- as it should be.

Referring to those who have same-gender attraction, Church President Gordon B. Hinckley has said: “We love them as sons and daughters of God. … If they do not act upon these inclinations, then they can go forward as do all other members of the Church” (“What Are People Asking about Us?” Ensign, Nov. 1998, 71).

We believe the standard of morality is clearly defined and applies to all of God’s children. The Church teaches chastity before marriage and complete fidelity within a marriage. Marriage is also defined by God as the union of a man and woman, and we are not at liberty to change that definition.

Although I can't support the overall "It Gets Better" campaign, I do think it's important to give props to the fact that, although not brought out in the video, every BYU student who was involved with the project is currently committed to living the BYU standards of moral conduct. To emphasize just how huge this is, my friend expressed the opinion that, "these standards are more stringent than what the general membership of the Church are required to abide." And stated that, "It is like the gospel on steroids".

I was also reminded just how difficult it had to have been for this group of 20 brave, young BYU students to allow themselves to be recorded, sharing their very personal feelings about what it's like to deal with homosexuality. Uncomfortable feelings such as fear of rejection, stereotypical judgments of unclean or unrighteous, and the overall experience of being stripped naked by such exposure, was most likely felt by many of these students in deciding to go public. From that perspective, I honor those who chose to do so, in hopes of a sincere desire to assist in creating a faithful space within the Church, not only for themselves, but for others with SSA, in the wings, too terrified to come out -- until it feels safe.

In my initial quandary about the mixed messaging of this video, and my sincere desire to show love and support, I decided to reach out to Adam White -- a key voice in the "It Gets Better" video, and within USGA. Understanding Same-Gender Attraction is the on campus support group behind the BYU video campaign, (not the producers) -- neither endorsed by BYU. I did this after watching Adam's own video, before calculated clips were extracted to create the specific message of the "It Gets Better" video -- which I found very helpful in my quest to better understand. The same was done with each of the students' personal video that was recorded for this project. What we see in the "It Gets Better" video is a very small part of what was actually shared by these students -- worth watching if you have the time.

Adam was kind enough to respond to my inquiries and has also agreed to allow me to post our, unedited, (except for spelling) correspondence. I felt that this was the best way for you to understand both of our desire to communicate on this issue. Just remember that neither one of us wrote, with the intention of being published. I think you will find this very enlightening, and at the least, worthy of my reason to address this topic:

Hi Adam,

I write a popular, conservative blog, with an LDS audience. After long contemplation I am considering writing a supportive post for the "It Gets Better" video you participated in.

As you know, many members are concerned that the standards of the Church were not brought out in the main video, and yet after watching your personal video, it seems quite clear that your personal desire is to remain faithful to gospel standards where chastity is involved. Also that USGA is a support group hoping to support such a desire. Is that true?

I hope you don't mind my being personal about these things but I feel that it is important to help the general membership better understand what it means to be gay and Mormon.

Just so you know, I do understand.

I guess what I'm trying to get at, is instead of reading what other people are speculating about as to how committed this group of BYU students are to keeping the commandments -- or the "true" intent of USGA -- I'd really like to hear from you personally.

There are many, both inside and outside of the Church, who would like nothing more than to see the Church change its policies on homosexuality and same-sex marriage. I'd also love to hear your thoughts about how you feel.

Have you accepted that God will not change? How do you deal with an agenda that hopes for something different? Any personal thoughts you might share would be very welcome.

Also, if you wouldn't mind addressing the direct reference of "gay Mormon" in relation to what Elder Holland has counseled and taught about true identity. As you know, within the Church, it is discouraged to refer to individuals as "gay".

We are encouraged to use phrases like -- those who struggle with SGA or SSA. We can't say that you are homosexual, or gay, but that you have homosexual tendencies, etc... And yet throughout the entire main video that people are seeing in mass the BYU students are blatant about being "gay".

My friend's interpretation of "gay Mormon" means faithful to the gospel. I like that.

My hope is to try and blast through the concerns about the various "agendas" of a more liberal approach to SGA in the Church, to the huge step this is for members with SGA to create a safe space for living the gospel, openly acknowledging SGA. Do you think this is possible?

I have a very tender space in my heart for all of you and would like to, in some way, speak honestly about it and also represent USGA properly -- and its members. Any help you could offer would be very appreciated.

Thank you, Adam.

Love,
Kathryn

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Hi Kathryn,

Thank you for your well articulated message. I've been following the conversation surrounding our video, and I'm so glad somebody finally reached out to the group to understand our intentions instead of just assuming and speculating that we have an angle or an agenda.

The "true" intent of USGA is to create a home and community for gay Mormons on BYU campus, as well as to spread understanding and empathy in the BYU community concerning the topic of homosexuality. Now, some describe their experience as "struggling with SGA/SSA," and some use LGBT terms to describe their experience. Regardless of how an individual describes their experience with homosexuality, USGA is a place for them to find the support they need.

As to your questions, "Have you accepted that God will not change? How do you deal with an agenda that hopes for something different?" The answers will vary depending on who you ask at USGA. All keep the Honor Code. All are trying their best to reconcile their faith and their sexuality. USGA is place where they can do that safely and learn from the experiences of others.

Many at USGA feel it is a false representation of their experience if they used phrases like "struggling with SGA/SSA" because many don't "struggle" with the feelings. They accept their feelings as a part of them, and do not struggle with that. Many feel comfortable using the word "gay" because it better fits the way they experience their sexuality. Now, there are those who do "struggle with SGA/SSA" at USGA too. USGA welcomes all, no matter how they choose to describe their experience.

I think we are creating spaces where we can talk about homosexuality in positive, constructive ways. I think USGA is creating a community of understanding and empathy; that is what we are about.

I hope these thoughts help. Please feel free to ask any other questions that come to mind. Again, thank you for your efforts in representing our group accurately.

Thank you,
Adam

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Thanks for your honesty, Adam. Your answers are very helpful in clarifying the purpose of USGA.

I'm curious... when the group meets what are the topics discussed to support members? Would you say that members are encouraged, on a regular basis, to believe or have faith that by keeping the commandments that they can be happy and have fulfilling lives within the Church? How is that approached in the group?

I imagine that for many this is difficult to reconcile a life of celibacy, and feeling that the "blessings" of the gospel are being withheld from them. Would you mind sharing how USGA helps to support members in this area? And how do members, in general, reconcile these things?

I hope you don't mind all my questions. I'm sincerely trying to understand.

How would you say that members, like myself, should and could best support members of the Church with SSA feel a part of the fold? How best can we reach out to support you and help you bear this burden?

I know it can't be easy and I know that "gay" Mormons often feel judged unclean simply because they deal with SGA. I know for myself, and I'm sure many members feel the same, but we love you and feel sad that you often suffer from feelings of isolation and depression. Surely God desires that we embrace one another and start acting like children of God -- as we are all His children.

IMO, there should be no safer place that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints for those with SGA.

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We discuss various facets of the LGBT community. We have had panels on bisexuality, asexuality, transgender individuals, and plan on having more panels like those ones. Various people come to speak to the group. Bill Bradshaw has spoken at our meetings, as well as Carol Lynn Pearson. Also, we have a spirituality night every month; I personally have led discussions on revelation and on faith at USGA. It is a very encouraging and empowering atmosphere, and these different types of meetings have helped members maintain fulfilling lives as Latter-day Saints.

USGA helps members reconcile Church policy and feeling closed off from certain blessings by providing a place where members can hold open conversations with each other about their hopes, fears, reservations, and faith. I'm not sure if there is a general consensus among members as to how reconciliation is achieved. There are wide spectrum of viewpoints at USGA.

I think the most important thing members can do is treat gay members as equals and as brothers and sisters. Often, gay Mormons are pitied under the guise of empathy. While Latter-day Saints don't have to see eye to eye on the issues surrounding homosexuality, hearing perspectives out and respecting the testimonies of gay Latter-day saints spreads understanding and Christlike love. This is the atmosphere that makes gay Mormons feel loved and wanted in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

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Thank you Adam. Do you have any reservations if I decided to just post our question and answer dialogue? I know it's really causal, but I think, as is, it might be really interesting for others to read.

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I think that'd be great! Thank you Kathryn

The reason why I finally decided to come out and address this particular "It Gets Better" video, knowing that some of you, whom I deeply respect, may have initially gushed over it after watching it --- is to hopefully shed greater light on the wider agenda within the fringe of the Church -- the reason why I ultimately decided to not support the campaign.

However I do support those student, with SGA, who desire to live lives faithful to the gospel. Now that's the video I want to see. I'm not okay being made to feel that if I support the leadership of the Church that I am then anti-gay. Nothing could be further from the truth.

I am confident that I stand with a multitude of other faithful members of the Church, with a compassionate desire to reach out to embrace our brothers and sisters, who carry the burden of same-gender attraction, and who desire to live the commandments of God -- to help them feel greater love and acceptance within the Church. But I am not willing to promote a campaign that manipulates their message in such a way as to attempt to undermine the commandments of God.

My gay friend explained it to me like this... it's why kids join gangs. When they can't find a safe place to be heard, feel loved, and have their needs met, they navigate to those who stand ready, with open arms, to tell them that everything will be just fine, they are loved unconditionally, and that they will accept them no matter what choices they make in life. For the lost and vulnerable this is very persuasive. I think my friend hit the nail on the head!

So, to my dear younger brothers and sisters, who are same-gender attracted -- I love you. We love you. There are many members who stand ready to embrace you and try to understand what you experience, in order to help you bear your burden. Just give us a chance.

And yes... it is safe.

tDMg
Kathryn Skaggs

WBMW latest: Now More than EVER We Need Living Prophets

Important note: In keeping with a desire to provide a positive place for those with SGA, to feel the support of the faithful LDS community, I will strongly moderate comments on this post. You are invited and encouraged to share your words of support -- which these kids really need to hear. This will not be a place to debate any of the more controversial topics mentioned in this post. We will save that for another day.

For a better understanding of the policies and doctrines of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, relating to the topic of homosexuality -- please visit the LDS Newsroom.

Photo Credit: Spencer Ruiz

Ann Romney: My Career Choice Was to Be a Mother

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 01:12:00 +0000

Ann Romney, wife of Presidential candidate, Mitt Romney, was publicly attacked for choosing to be a stay-at-home mom, and by another woman. But this wasn't just any woman -- it was none other than Hilary Rosen, a political strategist. Rosen is the quintessential epitome of the "working" mom in society, and her critical comment about Ann Romney, that she "never worked a day in her life" has set off a social media, graduating to national media firestorm -- ultimately catching the attention of this stay-at-home mom -- who happens, also, to be a Mormon. Mind you, Rosen's comment was not intended to be a compliment -- nor a benign observation.

Video: Rosen on Ann Romney "...never worked a day in her life".

We all see the politics behind such tactics, as we know that womens' issues, in general, are going to play an even greater roll, going forward, in this year's presidential campaign. With Santorum now out of the way, Romney is basically assured the Republican nomination and will face, head on, Obama in the general election. Clearly the gloves are now, officially, off. But I say to Ms. Rosen, shame on you -- that as a woman, your willingness to participate in undermining womanhood and the individual right that each of us have to determine, for ourselves, what is right and best, for us, and our families is just that, shameful. Frankly, the war on women should not have as its greatest adversary, other women. I particularly appreciate Ann Romney's response to Hilary Rosen, in this Fox News report:

Video Clips from Ann Romney's response to Hilary Rosen on Fox News

My career choice was to be a mother

As Mormon women, whom Ann Romney is one, we have personal beliefs, based on the doctrine of the family, that have caused many of us, myself included, to make the choice to be a stay-at-home mom. I am of the same generation as Ann Romney, when such a choice was generally accepted as positive, and shared by the majority of women, both inside and outside of the Mormon faith -- even honored. Today not only does the world advocate that equality for women means the "right" to work outside of the home, to pursue one's career of choice, but is also becoming that which, among the majority of women, garners the greatest respect and supposed hope for personal fulfillment. Granted, this is a mindset that has had its time coming, as evidenced by the occasional challenges, to such a choice, that many of us have encountered along the way.

Due to this widespread interpretation of equality, an increasing number of Mormon women are making the choice to pursue careers that take them outside of the home to work. Let me emphasize though, that I do not believe that all Mormon women who work outside of the home are victims of this mindset. Many must do so for economic reasons, while others are imploring very creative ways to juggle home and family responsibilities, with supportive husbands by their sides, that allow and enable them to contribute to society in very meaningful ways -- while not sacrificing family as the priority. Modern technology is of great assistance in allowing many to generate both income and education, while never leaving the home -- or having to do so minimally.

Julie B. Beck, teaching the doctrine of the family, said this:

"In addition to understanding the theology of the family, we all need to understand the threats to the family. If we don’t, we can’t prepare for the battle. Evidence is all around us that the family is becoming less important. Marriage rates are declining, the age of marriage is rising, and divorce rates are rising. Out-of-wedlock births are growing. Abortion is rising and becoming increasingly legal. We see lower birth rates. We see unequal relationships between men and women, and we see cultures that still practice abuse within family relationships. Many times a career gains importance over the family."

Mormon Prophets and inspired LDS leaders have always taught the importance of womanhood and the influence of mothers. With today's economic challenges they continue to teach the importance of family, first, with a sensitivity to the challenges that many encounter. Gordon B. Hinckley, former President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, gave this inspired counsel, and warning, while addressing the women of the Church -- over 20 years ago:

"Now to others who work when it is not necessary and who, while doing so, leave children to the care of those who often are only poor substitutes, I offer a word of caution. Do not follow a practice which will bring you later regret. If the purpose of your daily employment is simply to get money for a boat or a fancy automobile or some other desirable but unnecessary thing, and in the process you lose the companionship of your children and the opportunity to rear them, you may find that you have lost the substance while grasping at the shadow."

He went on to say..

"I wish with all my heart we would spend less of our time talking about rights and more talking about responsibilities. God has given the women of this church a work to do in building his kingdom..."

In a more recent General Conference Elder M. Russell Ballard made this statement in his address: Daughters of God

"There is no one perfect way to be a good mother. Each situation is unique. Each mother has different challenges, different skills and abilities, and certainly different children. The choice is different and unique for each mother and each family. Many are able to be “full-time moms,” at least during the most formative years of their children’s lives, and many others would like to be. Some may have to work part-or full-time; some may work at home; some may divide their lives into periods of home and family and work. What matters is that a mother loves her children deeply and, in keeping with the devotion she has for God and her husband, prioritizes them above all else."

Utilizing the power and law of witnesses Elder Richard G. Scott boldly added his voice to President Benson's, in a General Conference address: The Power of Correct Principles:

"President Benson has taught that a mother with children should be in the home. He also said, “We realize … that some of our choice sisters are widowed and divorced and that others find themselves in unusual circumstances where, out of necessity, they are required to work for a period of time. But these instances are the exception, not the rule.” (Ezra Taft Benson, To the Mothers in Zion, pamphlet, 1987, pp. 5–6.) You in these unusual circumstances qualify for additional inspiration and strength from the Lord. Those who leave the home for lesser reasons will not."

Julie B. Beck, former General Relief Society president, responding to this all too familiar question, at the 2011 BYU Women's Conference:

"One of the questions that I get frequently is, "Is is okay if I work outside of my home or I don't work outside of my home?" You have to know that as an international, global, Relief Society president, that question isn't always appropriate in all the world's countries. There are many, many places where if our women don't work, they don't eat. So of course they have to work. The question of whether or not to work is the wrong question. The question is, "Am I aligned with the Lord's vision of me and what He needs me to become, and the roles and responsibilities he gave me in heaven that are not negotiable? Am I aligned with that, or am I trying to escape my duties?" Those are the kinds of things we need to understand. Our Heavenly Father loves His daughters, and because He loves us and the reward at the end is so glorious, we do not get a pass from the responsibilities we were given. We cannot give them way. They are our sacred duties and we fulfill them under covenant."

The most recent address given to the women of the Church, by President Thomas S. Monson, was at the 2010 General Relief Society Meeting, in which he had this to say on the subject:

"My dear sisters, each of you is unique. You are different from each other in many ways. There are those of you who are married. Some of you stay at home with your children, while others of you work outside your homes. Some of you are empty nesters. There are those of you who are married but do not have children. There are those who are divorced, those who are widowed. Many of you are single women. Some of you have college degrees; some of you do not. There are those who can afford the latest fashions and those who are lucky to have one appropriate Sunday outfit. Such differences are almost endless. Do these differences tempt us to judge one another?

Mother Teresa, a Catholic nun who worked among the poor in India most of her life, spoke this profound truth: “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.” The Savior has admonished, “This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.” I ask: can we love one another, as the Savior has commanded, if we judge each other? And I answer—with Mother Teresa: no, we cannot."

As Mormon women, we have been clearly instructed as to our first priority -- the family. Let us trust one another, enough not to judge the different choices that we make, in regard to working outside the home -- or not. Ours is a relationship of covenant, that by the Spirit will guide these types of decisions, if sought. The adversary has, as his mission, to destroy our unity. As women of Christ we must resist such attacks and see them for what they really are. The prophet Joseph Smith was a great example of understanding the principle of individual agency, and exemplified this when he said, "I teach them correct principles and let them govern themselves".

The Savior taught the principle in this manner:

For behold, it is not meet that I should command in all things; for he that is compelled in all things, the same is a slothful and not a wise servant; wherefore he receiveth no reward.

Verily I say, men should be anxiously engaged in a good cause, and do many things of their own free will, and bring to pass much righteousness;

For the power is in them, wherein they are agents unto themselves. And inasmuch as men do good they shall in nowise lose their reward. (D&C 58:26-28)

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WBMW: Ann Romney Might Be Reason Enough to Vote for Mitt!

Ann Romney is a woman that I would feel honored to have in the White House, serving as our First Lady! It might even be okay if she brings along her husband, Mitt Romney. I'm a believer in the old saying that "behind every good man is a better woman" and I'm pretty sure in the case of Mitt, truer words could not be spoken.

The Family: A Proclamation to the World
"WE, THE FIRST PRESIDENCY and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children."

Julie B. Beck: Mothers Who Know

"The responsibility mothers have today has never required more vigilance. More than at any time in the history of the world, we need mothers who know. Children are being born into a world where they “wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Ephesians 6:12). 1 However, mothers need not fear. When mothers know who they are and who God is and have made covenants with Him, they will have great power and influence for good on their children."

LDS FAQ Mormon Answers: Do Mormons look down on mothers who work? Why do you encourage women to stay at home?

"No, we don't look down on the many women who work. Yes, LDS Church leaders have taught that the role of a mother is sacred and vitally important, and have encouraged mothers to stay home, when possible. Let me first point out, however, that the Church encourages both women and men to become educated and to be prepared to make meaningful contributions in the world."

LDS Newsroom Topic: Women in the Church

"Motherhood and the nurturing of children are held in special respect in the Church, and many Mormon women who make this their first priority also achieve prominence in later life in business, education, medicine and other endeavors."

Eternal Marriage LDS Institute Manual: Mothers' Employment Outside the Home - Selected Teachings

Former CNN Producer and Mormon stay-at-home mom, Jocelyn Christensen, shares her very personal decision to walk away from CNN: Doing My Dream Job.

"Women in our church are given many opportunities to serve and lead. We are encouraged to get an education and to follow our dreams. As I have pursued my goals in life, I have benefited from the wisdom of inspired church leaders. I felt particularly empowered by an address delivered last fall to the women of the church, called Mothers Who Know. In the talk, Julie B. Beck, the president of our women's organization offered many pearls of wisdom. Her main message was that there is "eternal influence and power in motherhood.""

We Talk of Christ, We Rejoice in Christ: The Hard Work of Motherhood

Over on "...and Spiritually Speaking" Sarah had this to say in response: Just a Stay-at-Home Mom?

"Because of the importance of the role of motherhood our Heavenly Father will guide our decisions, if there is any way possible to stay home with your children, do it, make the financial sacrifices so you can do this. I promise there is nothing more rewarding as this, and nothing as important. If this is not a possibility, know that Heavenly Father will make up the difference. So let's seek His will in this important matter, and let's be kind to each other."

Modern Molly Mormon: Every Mother is a Working Mother

"As women, we should be supporting one another. We should be creating a community and doing our part to make this world a better place. And yet, here we are, tearing one another down, denigrating the role and worth of motherhood and simultaneously denigrating the role and worth of mothers with an additional job. This is not how it is supposed to work."

Happy Easter Message from Living Prophets

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 22:13:00 +0000

Mormons sustain Thomas S. Monson and his two counselors, Henry B. Eyring and Dieter F. Uchtdorf as prophets, seers and revelators, and refer to this body as the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints -- the highest governing body in the Church. At this Easter season, they have issued the following Easter Message, to the world, via the LDS Newsroom:

"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) joins with the rest of the Christian world this week in celebrating Easter and remembering the Atonement and Resurrection of Jesus Christ.

The Church’s First Presidency issued this Easter message:

This is the season of the year when the Christian world remembers the Resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ. Out of love for His Father and for us, the Savior allowed Himself to suffer beyond the capacity of mortal man. He said, "Which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit — and would that I might not drink the bitter cup and shrink — Nevertheless, glory be to the Father, and I partook and finished my preparations unto the children of men" (Doctrine and Covenants 19:18-19).

Our Savior broke the bands of death. Through His Resurrection there is assurance that life is everlasting. Our Lord and Savior is the living witness that such is so.

As special witnesses, we declare that God does live. Jesus Christ is His Son, the Only Begotten of the Father in the flesh. He is our Redeemer, our Mediator with the Father. Jesus Christ atoned for our sins. He became the firstfruits of the Resurrection. Because He died, all shall live again.

The First Presidency,

Thomas S. Monson
Henry B. Eyring
Dieter F. Uchtdorf

The Church also produced “He Is Risen,” a new video about the Resurrection of the Savior.

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Kathryn Skaggs

Please consider sharing your feelings about Jesus Christ and His Glorious Resurrection, via this "official" Easter Campaign at Mormon.org.

Excellent Family Resource: Easter Bible Videos Celebrate Resurrection of Jesus Christ

As a gift to the world, from the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, (Mormon) another beautiful collection of New Testament Bible videos have been released -- just in time for Easter. Beginning with the Savior’s triumphant entry into the holy city of Jerusalem, to the cross on Calvary, each video documents the poignant scriptural account, leading up to, and finally, the glorious Resurrection -- of which all Christians rejoice!

Video: Because He is Risen, I too, Will Rise!

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 07:38:00 +0000

There's a peace I've come to know... because Jesus Christ is Risen, I too, will Rise! This just released video on Alex Boye's YouTube channel, "I Will Rise" caught my attention when a friend posted it on Facebook. So I watched, and although I wasn't planning on posting this weekend, I couldn't stop myself from sharing this magnificent song of praise, in commemoration of the Glorious Resurrection of Jesus Christ!

Not only is the music inspiring, but the lyrics are just as compelling, if not more so. It's a song that I'm happy to say I can't get out of my mind, and have already memorized the words. I love "I Will Rise" and in fact, I may just have a new favorite hymn.

Alex Boye shared his personal experience of how this collaboration came about:

"On the morning of Friday 2nd of March, i was invited to perform for a group of students at the Institute of Religion at Utah Valley University in Orem Utah. It will be a day that will not easy be forgotten. Before i got up to give my presentation, a choir filed neatly into position behind me and began to sing. From the first note, all my senses was grabbed hold upon by a heavenly sound that left me breathless. I had to do a 360 turn to see who it was singing. I didn't take my eyes off them until they had finished. By the end, i was overcome with tears. It's lucky i don't wear mascara

During the musical presentation, i felt a strong witness of the spirit, telling me i needed to take this choir to the studio and record the song they sang with them." Read more.

Video: Alex Boye and Chris Tomlin "I Will Rise"

Songwriters: CHRIS TOMLIN, JESSE REEVES, MATT MAHER, LOUIE GIGLIO

"I Will Rise"

There's a peace I've come to know
Though my heart and flesh may fail
There's an anchor for my soul
I can say "It is well"

Jesus has overcome
And the grave is overwhelmed
The victory is won
He is risen from the dead

And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees
And rise
I will rise

There's a day that's drawing near
When this darkness breaks to light
And the shadows disappear
And my faith shall be my eyes

Jesus has overcome
And the grave is overwhelmed
The victory is won
He is risen from the dead

And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees
And rise
I will rise

And I hear the voice of many angels sing,
"Worthy is the Lamb"
And I hear the cry of every longing heart,
"Worthy is the Lamb"

And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees
And rise
I will rise

Just a reminder to take a few minutes, this Easter weekend, to share your personal testimony of Jesus Christ and what His Atonement and Resurrection mean to you. http://easter.imamormon.org/

I am so grateful for Jesus Christ, and I love Him. He is my personal Savior and Redeemer. His glorious Resurrection ensures that all of mankind will also live again -- and that by keeping His commandments we can claim Eternal Life. Living the gospel has brought tremendous blessings to me personally, and to my entire family. It is my testimony that Jesus Christ lives -- and that through Him families can be together forever!

I will rise when He calls MY name...

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Kathryn Skaggs

Easter Bible Videos Celebrate Resurrection of Jesus Christ

LDS Newsroom: Easter Weekend Internet Initiative Invites Testimony of Jesus Christ

"Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are enthusiastically joining an Internet initiative to express their belief in Jesus Christ and what He means to them. Easter is the time Christians celebrate the Resurrection of the Son of God. Latter-day Saints believe Christ suffered for our sins in the Garden of Gethsemane, died on the cross for all people on the earth and then rose from the tomb three days later, providing everyone with the opportunity to be resurrected."

Church News and Events: Members Invited to Share Testimony this Weekend

"Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints around the world are invited to participate in the launch of a major Internet campaign to testify of Jesus Christ and share their beliefs about the Savior during the Easter weekend."

Easter Action Items for Sharing Testimony of Jesus Christ

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 09:04:00 +0000

The past week has been a whirlwind to say the least. Traveling up to Utah, to cover April 2012 General Conference, via social media, was a thrill. In the space of one week I was interviewed three times, once for Deseret News, and two were on-camera interviews, by local TV stations. To say I was nervous about this type of exposure, would be putting it mildly. I was also able to tour the Goshen movie-set, where the Life of Jesus Christ Bible Videos are filmed -- such a choice experience.

Using social media to share the gospel is as hot as ever right now. Opportunities are available every day and with Easter upon us, taking the time to help others know that we love Jesus Christ and that He is our Savior and Redeemer, it is the perfect time. I have a few very important ways to help you do just that, because I know you love doing this as much as I do. : )

Now that I'm back home, I've spent most of today editing the many pictures I took at Goshen, and publishing an article over on Hubpages -- to help promote the release of the recent Easter Bible videos, by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons). I published the article over there because of the potential for the videos to be seem by a much larger number of those not of our Mormon faith. But I need your help. So, I have an action item for you:

ACTION ITEM:

Please click on this link and VOTE UP my article: Easter Bible Videos Celebrate Resurrection of Jesus Christ. In that way the article is more likely to be seen and read by many more people, and thus the wonderful videos that the Church has so lovingly produced will be watched by those not of our faith. That is our goal.

Also, feel free to share the article with others via Twitter, Facebook and even Pinterest. (Check out my cool 'amateur' photography skills from Goshen:)

Next, the Missionary Department of the Church, via Mormon.org has launched an exciting, official, Easter Campaign, beginning today. Here's how you can help to share with others, your testimony of Jesus Christ, online.

ACTION ITEM:

The campaign will take place on YouTube and Facebook. The focus is to help those not of our faith understand that we believe in and follow Jesus Christ. The campaign features members of the Church sharing their beliefs about the Savior.

Short advertisements will be shown on YouTube on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday (April 6-8). We anticipate the ads will be viewed a minimum of 15 million times. The advertising will link to a specially designed mormon.org page that has been created where visitors can share why Jesus Christ is important to them, learn more about our beliefs in the Savior, download the Bible videos app, or order a free Bible (U.S. and Canada only).

Visitors to the mormon.org Facebook page will also be encouraged to share their feelings about Jesus Christ. It is hoped that thousands of Church members and nonmembers will express their testimonies of Jesus Christ during the Easter weekend.

Church members are invited to be involved with the campaign in several ways:

1. Tell family and friends about the campaign and encourage them to tell their family and friends. Encourage family and friends to participate on Friday, Saturday, or Sunday by visiting mormon.org/easteror facebook.com/mormon.

2. Encourage family and friends to look for the YouTube ads and visit mormon.org/easter.

3. On Friday, Saturday, or Sunday Church members are encouraged to visit mormon.org/easter and share their feelings about Jesus Christ.

Note that the mormon.org/easter page will not be "live" until early Friday morning.

We believe this will be a unique opportunity for Church members to engage in conversations with those not of our faith about the importance of Jesus Christ in the lives of God's children.

(Please note that I have cut and pasted, above, the entire email that I received from the Missionary Department)

I'm so thrilled to see the miracle of sharing our faith, using social media, really taking off right now. So many of you are now more willing, than ever, to publicly share your Mormon beliefs. I know that this is not easy. As I mentioned previously, when I was asked to give those interviews to Deseret News and then to be on TV, I was nervous. Actually I was shocked that I was being contacted to do the interviews. I was concerned that the right words might not come out of my mouth. In fact I was so concerned that I asked my husband to give me a blessing before we left for the KSL interview.

This work of sharing the gospel, online, should be a matter of prayer. It requires the Spirit in our lives to say and do the right things. But I testify to you that this is the Lord's work and He will be with you every step of the way. I know this is true, because He is there for me.

As you go out to share your testimony with others, over this Easter weekend, please remember that you never need to feel that you must defend or debate if someone doesn't like or agree with something that you've said. Don't do it. By the Spirit share what you feel inspired to share and leave it at that. If you feel compelled to engage in a conversation, only do so if you can simply answer questions and state, kindly, your beliefs.

Now, go out and have a blast, sharing your joy about the Resurrection of Jesus Christ -- that He Lives, and that because of Him our families can be together, forever!

Video: Watch and Share - Jesus Christ is Risen!

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Here are the links to my two TV interviews and the Deseret News article, if you'd like to take a look. Pretty fun stuff!

KSL TV Channel 5: 'Twitterstake' becomes a way to connect during conference (make sure and click on 6:30 pm video on the righthand side bar to see the right video)

"For many, there is much more to General Conference than listening. Some join what's known as "Twitterstake," a Latter-day Saint online community. Last October, this community registered 50,000 tweets about General Conference, making it one of the top 10 twitter trends in the United States."

KUTV Channel 2: Social Media Spreading LDS Message Faster Than Ever

"The social media movement is so strong , the LDS Church invited well-known and popular blogger Kathryn Skaggs to blog and tweet live from the conference center.

"It will be fun to see how many tweets using the hash-tag "#LDSCONF" launched conference into the top ten trending topics," Skaggs said. "This is a wonderful opportunity for members of the church to let their voices and prophet's voices be heard throughout the world.""

Deseret News: LDS members prepare for conference social media explosion
"Last October, church officials invited Skaggs, aka @LDSNana, to tweet messages from the media room at the Conference Center. Things intensified when the lights dimmed and reporters around her began typing furiously, but then Skaggs was overcome with a feeling that she was part of something bigger than she could comprehend."

Sunday Afternoon April 2012 General Conference Highlights

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Tue, 03 Apr 2012 14:54:00 +0000

I know we all share similar feelings at the close of every General Conference, but I think actually being here in Utah, so close to everything, made the Sunday afternoon, concluding session all the more bittersweet. Such feelings of gratitude filled my heart, as the closing prayer was being offered, while at the very same time I was saddened that this conference experience was now ended.

So many personal messages. So much light. So much to ponder...

I always come away from General Conference feeling that I have been lovingly chastised, wisely counseled, my testimony of living prophets and the truthfulness of the gospel strengthened. What more could one ask for? I do think it's interesting that, for me, the chastisements seem to stand out the most, and tend to linger longer. Which then emphasizes the great need for personal repentance, in order for progression to occur. Truly, the Lord chastiseth those whom He loveth. And I certainly felt His love through the many messages of this conference.

L. Tom Perry - The Power of Deliverance

"This year we are studying the Book of Mormon."

"Many of the stories of the Book of Mormon are stories of deliverance."

"Prophecies foretelling the life and mission of Jesus Christ promise us the deliverance that He will provide. His Atonement and Resurrection provide all of us an escape from physical death, and, if we repent, an escape from spiritual death, bringing with it the blessings of eternal life."

""What a blessing it is to have the account of the mission of our Lord and Savior declared in the Book of Mormon to add a second witness to the doctrine declared in the Bible."

"Neither the Bible nor the Book of Mormon in and of themselves is sufficient. Both are necessary for us to teach and learn about the full and complete doctrine of Christ. The need for the other does not diminish either one of them. Both the Bible and the Book of Mormon are necessary for our salvation."

"We can be delivered from the ways of evil and wickedness by turning to the teachings of the Holy Scriptures. The Savior is the great deliverer for He delivers us from death and sin."

"I declare that Jesus is the Christ, and we can draw close to Him by reading the Book of Mormon. The Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ. The first testaments of Jesus Christ are the Old and New Testaments -- or the Bible.

The Book of Mormon: Another Witness of Jesus Christ

M. Russel Ballard - That the Lost May Be Found

"We have available to us a tool even more remarkable than the best GPS. Everyone loses their way at some point. It is through the promptings of the Holy Ghost that we can be brought safely back onto the right path; and it is the atoning sacrifice of the Savior that can return us home."

"Being lost can apply to whole societies as well as to individuals. Today we live in a time when much of this world has lost its way, particularly with regard to the values and priorities within our homes."

"There can be no genuine happiness separate and apart from the home… "

"It is our homes and families that need reforming in this increasingly materialistic and secular world."

"Opposite of what many had thought, prosperity and education seem to be connected to a higher likelihood of having traditional families and values."

"When people make the family and religious commitments to gospel principles, they begin to do better spiritually and often temporally as well."

"The most important cause of our lifetime is our families. If we devote ourselves to this cause we will improve every other aspect of our lives and will become, as a people and as a Church, an example and a beacon for all the peoples of the earth."

"This is not easy in a world where hearts are turning in many directions and where the whole planet seems to be constantly moving and changing at a pace never before imagined."

"The spiritual divide gets even wider as evil becomes ever more deceptive and subtle and pulls people toward it like a dark magnet -- even as the gospel of truth and light attracts the honest in heart and the honorable of the earth who seek what is moral and good."

"The Church is a mooring in this tempestuous sea, an anchor in the churning waters of change and division, and a beacon to those who value and seek righteousness. The Lord uses this Church as a tool in pulling His children throughout the world toward the protection of His Gospel"

"Put everything you do outside the home in subjection to and in support of what happens inside of your home."

"Organize your personal lives to provide time for prayer and scripture and family activity."

"Marriage first and then family. Too much of the world has forgotten this natural order of things and thinks they can change or even reverse it. Remove any of your fear with faith. Trust the power of God to guide you."

"Husbands and wives, you should be equal partners in your marriage."

"As you seek to live the gospel and doctrines of Christ, the Holy Ghost will guide you and your family. You will have a spiritual GPS to tell you always where you are and where you are going."

"I bear witness that the resurrected Redeemer of mankind loves all of us, and He has promised if we will follow Him, He will lead us safely back into the presence of our Heavenly Father."

Neil L. Andersen - What Think Christ of Me?

"Even with His love for all mankind, Jesus reprovingly referred to some around Him as hypocrites, fools, and workers of iniquity. He approvingly called others children of the kingdom and the light of the world."

"He lamented that some were faithless and of the world but others He esteemed as chosen, disciples, friends."

"And so we each ask, "What think Christ of me?"

"In this turbulent environment, we rejoice in being disciples of Jesus Christ. We see the Lord's hand all around us. Our destination is beautifully set before us."

"Being a disciple in these days of destiny will be a badge of honor throughout the eternities."

"The messages we have heard during this conference are guideposts from the Lord on our journey of discipleship."

"Our journey of discipleship is not a dash around the track, or even a lengthy marathon. It is a life-long migration toward a more celestial world."

"We may not be at our very best every day but if we are trying, Jesus' bidding is full of encouragement and hope, "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

"Discipleship is believing Him in seasons of peace, and believing Him in seasons of difficulty, when our pain and fear calmed only by the conviction that He loves us and keeps His promises."

"Miracles are not always immediate. At times we thoughtfully wonder why the miracle we have so earnestly prayed for does not happen here and now. As we trust the Savior, promised miracles will occur. Whether in this life or the next, all will be made right."

"I testify that as you love Him, trust Him, believe Him, and follow Him, you will feel His love and approval."

"As you ask, "What thinks Christ of me?" you will know that you are His disciple, you are His friend. By His grace He will do for you what you cannot do for yourself."

Thomas S. Monson - As We Close this Conference

"My heart is full as we come to the close of this glorious conference. We have been so richly blest as we have listened to the counsel and testimonies of those who have spoke to us."

"We have had unprecedented coverage of this conference, reaching across continents and oceans to people everywhere."

"How blessed we are, to have the restored gospel of Jesus Christ in our lives and in our hearts. It provides answers to life's greatest questions. It provides meaning and purpose and hope to our lives."

"We live in troubled times. I assure you that our Heavenly Father is mindful of the challenges we face. He loves each of us and desires to bless us and to help us. May we call upon Him i prayer."

"May your homes be filled with love and courtesy and with the Spirit of the Lord. Love your families."

"My beloved brothers and sisters, I desire with all of my heart to do God's will and to serve Him and to serve you."

"I invoke the blessings of heaven upon each of you… May you ponder the truths you have heard, and may they help you to become even better the you were when conference began two days ago."

"I ask the Lord's blessings to be upon you and indeed, upon all of us, and I do so in His holy name -- even Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior."

LDS Newsroom: Time-Lapse Video April 2012 General Conference

Watch, listen, download April 2012 General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - HERE.

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Saturday Morning April 2012 General Conference Highlights
What a day in downtown Salt Lake City, to kick off the April 2012 General Conference. So many highlights! I'm kind of like a kid when it comes to being here in Utah. I love it! And I love the spring with all the blossoms on the trees, and the daffodils popping up everywhere. Life is everywhere!

Saturday Afternoon April 2012 General Conference Highlights
The Saturday afternoon session of the April 2012 General Conference brought with it plenty of Church business with, among other positions, the release and call of the Presiding Bishopric and the General Relief Society Presidency.

Sunday Morning April 2012 General Conference Highlights
The Sunday morning session of the April 2012 General Conference, here in Salt Lake City, brought with it a complete turnaround in the weather. Just the day before it was warm and sunny with evidence of Spring throughout the city.

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Sunday Morning April 2012 General Conference Highlights

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 20:57:00 +0000

The Sunday morning session of the April 2012 General Conference, here in Salt Lake City, brought with it a complete turnaround in the weather. Just the day before it was warm and sunny with evidence of Spring throughout the city. Although walking back to our hotel, at around 9 pm that evening, felt more like Summer. It was beautiful. So many people were out and about, enjoying the special spirit that always accompanies the Latter-day Saints, wherever they gather in large numbers.

So waking up to the north winds, with its accompanying rain throughout the day, was a big change. Talking to few locals confirmed nothing new to this pattern. The previous day's sunshine, setting off brilliantly the flowers throughout Temple Square, and the beautiful blossoms on the trees, were clear signs that God is in the details. On the other hand, a rainy day, to some, is seen as dreary. But not to me, at least not on this particular day.

I couldn't help but think of what it means to hear our prophets, who speak the words of Christ -- literally the fountain of living waters. As people were hurrying along, with their umbrellas and warm jackets, rushing to get inside, I thought of revelation as rain, and how exciting it was that we were about to have a huge storm!

And we did.

The Church created wonderful social media tools to encourage members to invite others to listen to the words of living prophets and to, specifically, join us for the Sunday morning session of General Conference. Thank you, to so many, who helped extend that invitation, as encouraged. Knowing that many, not of our faith, would be watching caused me to reflect on just how important, eternally, it is to have prophets. And as I, in my own small way, helped to broadcast their messages via social media, my heart was filled with gratitude for the technology that allows this modern day miracle, to gather the elect, to occur.

As President Monson addressed the conference, I felt the power and eternal significance of his prophetic message -- to the entire world. He taught the Plan of Salvation, to a hungry and thirsty world -- ignorant to their condition. My personal prayers were that the pure in heart, the seekers, would hear and receive his message. My faith tells me that many did, and will, as the digital proceedings continue to make waves around the globe.

Here is just some of what 'rained' from the Conference Center, Sunday morning:

Dieter F. Uchtdorf - The Merciful Obtain Mercy

"Strained and broken relationships are as old as humankind itself."

"The spirit of envy and hatred has led to some of the most tragic stories in history."

"I imagine that every person on earth has been affected in some way by the destructive spirit of contention, resentment, and revenge."

"When we feel hurt, angry or envious it is quite easy to judge other people, often assigning dark motives to their actions in order to justify our own feelings of resentment."

"We must repent and we must be willing to forgive others."

"Though we cannot look into another's heart we assume that we know a bad motive or even a bad person when we see one."

"When the Lord requires that we forgive all men that includes forgiving ourselves."

"This topic of judging could actually be taught in a two-word sermon… Stop it!"

"Don't judge me because I sin differently than you."

" We must recognize that all are imperfect -- that we are beggars before God."

"Because we all depend on the mercy of God, how can we deny to others the measure of grace we so desperately desire for ourselves?"

"When our hearts are filled with the love of God, something good and pure happens to us."

"As we open our hearts to the glowing dawn of the love of God, the darkness and cold of animosity and envy will eventual fade."

"The pure love of Christ can remove the scales of resentment and wrath frm our eyes, allowing us to see others the way our Heavenly Father sees us…"

"Let us, as disciples of Jesus Christ return good for evil. Let us not seek revenge or allow our wrath to over come us."

"Remember, heaven is filled with those who have this in common. They are forgiven. And they forgive."

"Lay your burden at the Savior's feet. Let go of judgement. Allow Christ's Atonement to change and heal your heart. Love one another. Forgive one another."

Russell M. Nelson - Thanks Be To God

"How much better would it be if all could be more aware of God's providence and love."

"Our degree of gratitude is a measure of our love for Him."

"Think of our physical sustenance. It is truly heaven-sent."

"The earth was created to support our brief sojourn in mortality. We were born with a capacity to grow, love, marry and form families."

"The family is the most important social unit in time and eternity."

"Central to God's eternal plan is the mission of His son Jesus Christ."

"Because of the Atonement eternal life became a possibility for all who would qualify."

"Heavenly Father loves His Children. He has blessed each with physical and spiritual gifts."

"The many amazing attributes of your body attest to your own divine nature."

"Be we reminded that a perfect body is not required to achieve one's divine destiny."

"Great spiritual strength is often developed by people with physical challenges, precisely because they are so challenged."

"Mercifuly for us, our Creator provided for aging and other processes that would ultimately result in our physical death. Death, like birth, is a part of life."

"To return to God through the gateway we call death is a joy for those who love Him and are prepared to meet Him."

"Important as is the body, it serves as a tabernacle for one's eternal spirit."

"In this life and in the next, spirit and body, when joined together, become a living soul of supernal worth."

"The attributes by which we shall be judged one day are all spiritual."

"Just as the body requires daily food for survival, the spirit needs nourishment as well."

"The spirit is nurtured by eternal truth."

Because of the scriptures… "we know that God is our Eternal Father and that His Son Jesus Christ is our Savior and Redeemer. For these spiritual gifts, thanks be to God!"

"Ours is the responsibility to teach His children and awaken in them an awareness of God."

"God is the same yesterday, today and forever, but we are not."

"Each day, ours is the challenge to access the power of the Atonement, so that we can truly change, become more Christlike, and qualify for the gift of exaltation and live

Sister Julie B. Beck - The Vision of Prophets regarding Relief Society

"Just as the Lord's prophets have continually taught elders and high priest their purposes and duties, they have shared their vision for the sisters of the Relief Society."

"Faith, family and relief --these three simple words have come to express the vision of prophets for the sisters of the Church."

"Providing relief to others is how we follow the example of the Savior who taught us to love our neighbors as ourselves."

"Relief Society is not a program. It is an official part of the Lord's Church that is "divinely ordained of God" to teach, strengthen, and inspire sisters in their purpose regarding faith, family and relief.

"Relief Society is meant to be a way of life for Latter-day women, following the pattern of female disciples who served with the Lord Jesus Christ and His Apostles in His ancient Church."

"Relief Society is meant to help sisters avoid problems, if possible, and establish righteous patterns in their lives."

"As sisters become more aligned with the purpose of Relief Society, the vision of the prophets will be fulfilled."

Learn About Relief Society for LDS women: Daughters in My Kingdom

D. Todd Christofferson - The Doctrine of Christ

"We have seen of late a growing public interest in the beliefs of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This is something we welcome because after all our fundamental commission is to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ, His doctrines, in all the world."

"Since the beginning, it has been the purpose of the Lord and the labor of His prophets to proclaim God's plan of redemption."

"This is our message, the rock upon which we build, the foundation of everything else in the Church. Like all the comes from God, this doctrine is pure; it is clear; it is easy to understand, even for a child. With glad hearts, we invite all to receive it."

President Thomas S. Monson - The Race of Life

"My beloved brothers and sisters, this morning I wish to speak to you of eternal truths -- those truths which will enrich our lives and see us safely home."

"In this fast-paced life do we ever pause for moments of meditation -- even thoughts of timeless truths?"

"When compared to eternal verities, most of the questions and concerns of daily living are really rather trivial."

"Moments of clarity come to all of us at one time or another, although not always through dramatic circumstances. We see clearly what it is that really matters in our lives and how we should be living."

"In our times of deepest reflection or greatest need, the soul of man reaches heavenward, seeking divine response to life's greatest questions: Where did I come from? Why are we here? Where do we go after this life?"

"Answers to these questions are not discovered with in the covers of academia's textbooks or by checking the internet. These questions transcend mortality. They embrace eternity."

"Where did we come from? This query is inevitably thought, if not spoken, by every human being."

"Parents ponder their responsibility to teach, to inspire and to provide guidance, education, and example. And while parents ponder, children -- and particularly youth -- ask the penetration question: Why are we here? Usually it is spoken silently to the soul and phrased: "Why am I here?""

"One primary purpose of our existence upon the earth is to obtain a body of flesh and bones. We have also been given the gift of agency. In a thousands ways we are privileged to choose for ourselves."

"By obedience to God's commandments we can qualify for that "house" spoken of by Jesus…"

"God, our Father, and Jesus Christ, our Lord, have marked the way to perfection. They beckon us to follow eternal verities and to become perfect, as they are perfect."

"Our Heavenly Father did not launch us on our eternal voyage without providing the means whereby we could receive from Him guidance to ensure our safe return. I speak of prayer. I speak, too, of the whisperings from that still, small voice; and I do not overlook the holy scriptures which contain the word of the Lord and the words of the prophets -- provided to us to help us successfully cross the finish line."

"Death comes to all mankind. It comes to the aged as they walk on faltering feet."

"What of an existence beyond death? Is death the end of it all?

"Death is not what some people imagine. It is like going into another room. In that room we shall find... the dear women and men and the sweet children we have loved and lost." (quoting Robert Blatchford)

"After the Savior was crucified and his body had lain in the tomb for three days, the spirit entered again. The stone was rolled away, and the resurrected Redeemer walked forth clothed with an immortal body of flesh and bones."

"Our Heavenly Father rejoices for those who keep His commandments. He is concerned also for the lost child, the tardy teenager, the wayward youth, the delinquent parent. Tenderly the Master speaks to these, and indeed to all: "Come back. Come up. Come in. Come home. Come unto me."

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Saturday Morning April 2012 General Conference Highlights
What a day in downtown Salt Lake City, to kick off the April 2012 General Conference. So many highlights! I'm kind of like a kid when it comes to being here in Utah. I love it! And I love the spring with all the blossoms on the trees, and the daffodils popping up everywhere. Life is everywhere! When I drove into town on Thursday, the first thing I did was make my husband pull the car over, so I could use Instagram to take a picture of the beautiful pink blossoms. But what most excites me about being here is covering General Conference -- via social media.
Saturday Afternoon April 2012 General Conference Highlights
The Saturday afternoon session of the April 2012 General Conference brought with it plenty of Church business with, among other positions, the release and call of the Presiding Bishopric and the General Relief Society Presidency. On the lighter side, the Internet was frantically trying to confirm rumors that David Archuletta was part of the MTC choir, singing during the session -- which he was -- made evident by snapshots taken by attendees, flying across cyberspace!

Deseret News:

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Mormon.org:

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Saturday Afternoon April 2012 General Conference Highlights

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Sun, 01 Apr 2012 07:04:00 +0000

The Saturday afternoon session of the April 2012 General Conference brought with it plenty of Church business with, among other positions, the release and call of the Presiding Bishopric and the General Relief Society Presidency. On the lighter side, the Internet was frantically trying to confirm rumors that David Archuletta was part of the MTC choir, singing during the session -- which he was -- made evident by snapshots taken by attendees, flying across cyberspace!

And then of course there was the long pause that Henry B. Eyring took, which had something to do with the timing of the teleprompter, from what I am told. Conference always has its unexpected surprises that we all love to chat about and in some odd way, bind us together. I love that about our Mormon culture.

Moving along to the reason we gather every six months for our worldwide General Conference, is the love that we have for Jesus Christ. Mormons believe that living prophets are on the earth, today, and that they are inspired of God, to convey His will to His children. We testify of this reality as we feel the Spirit bear witness of the truthfulness of their messages. I felt that witness time and time again throughout today's proceedings. I thrilled in the blessing and opportunity to broadcast these 'general conference gems', and in particular, to those who are not familiar with the words of our prophets.

As promised in my previous post, here is a collection of the inspired words or quotes, spoken by living prophets, broadcast throughout the world -- during the Saturday afternoon session of General Conference.

Jeffrey R. Holland - The Labourers in the Vineyard

"There are going to be times in our lives when someone else gets the unexpected blessing or receives some special recognition."

"We are not diminished when someone else is added upon."

"The race we are really in is the race against sin, and surely envy is one of the most universal of those."

"Envy is a mistake that just keeps on giving."

"Coveting, pouting, or tearing others down does not elevate your standing, nor does demeaning someone else improve your self-image."

"Be kind and be grateful that God is kind."

"The formula of faith is to hold on, work on, see it through and let the distress of earlier hours, real or imagined, fall away in the abundance of the final reward."

"This is a story about God's goodness. His patience and forgiveness, and the Atonement of the Lord Jesus Christ."

"It is not possible for you to sink lower than the infinite light of Christ's Atonement shines."

"There is no dream that in the unfolding of time and eternity cannot yet be realized."

"I testify of the renewing power of God's love and the miracle of His grace."

"His concern is for the faith at which you finally arrive, not for the hour of the day in which you got there."

Robert D. Hales - Coming to Ourselves and Becoming Spiritually Self-Reliant

"Throughout our lives whether in times of darkness, challenge, sorrow or sin, we may feel the Holy Ghost reminding us that we are truly sons and daughters of a caring Heavenly Father who loves us and hunger for the sacred blessings that only He can provide."

"At these times we should strive to come to ourselves and come back into the light of our Savior's love."

"These blessings rightfully belong to all of Heavenly Father's children.

"As our spiritual desires increase we become spiritually self-reliant."

"We become converted and spiritually self-reliant as we prayerfully live our covenants…"

"I testify that the sacrament gives us the opportunity to come to ourselves and experience "a mighty change of heart" -- to remember who we are and what we most desire."

"Our desires to return to Heavenly Father's increase as we become worthy to obtain a temple recommend."

"Worthiness to hold a temple recommend gives us strength to keep our temple covenants."

"As our desire to learn and live the gospel increase, we naturally seek to serve one another."

"As we act on desire and come to ourselves, we will be "encircled about eternally in the arms of His love."

Quentin L. Cook - In Tune to the Music of Faith

"Many who write about the Church have made a sincere effort to understand our people and our doctrine. They have been civil and have tried to be objective for which we are grateful."

Lehi's "vision starkly describes the challenges to faith that exist in our day and the great divide between those who live, worship and feel accountable to God and those who do not."

"There are those who are in tune to the music of faith. You know who you are. You love the Lord and His gospel and continuously try to live and share His message especially with your families. You are in harmony with the promptings of the Spirit, awaken to the power of God's word, have religious observances in your homes, and diligently try to live Christ-like lives as His disciples."

"We acknowledge that there are members who are less interested and less faithful to some of the Savior's teachings."

"Our desire is for these members to awaken fully to faith and increase their activity and commitment."

"Pres. Monson has specifically asked us to have the courage to refrain from judging others. He has also asked every faithful member to 'rescue' those who have tasted the gospel fruit and then have fallen away as well as those who have not yet found the strait and narrow path."

"The family is ordained of God. It is the most important unit in the and in eternity."

"Religious observance in the home bless our families. Example is particularly important."

"What we 'are' speaks so loudly that our children may not hear what we say."

"The message, ministry and Atonement of Jesus Christ, our Savior is our essential family curriculum. No scripture characterizes our faith better than 2 Nephi 25:26 ..."

"Faithful members must hold fast to the iron rod to keep them on the strait and narrow path leading to the tree of life. It is essential for members to read, ponder, and study the scriptures."

"The Book of Mormon is of seminal importance. There will, of course, always be those who underestimate the significance of or even disparage this sacred book."

"The essential doctrine of agency requires that a testimony of the restored gospel must be based on faith rather than external scientific proof. Obsessive focus on things not yet fully revealed… will not be efficacious or yield spiritual progress."

"I hope we are reading the Book of Mormon with our children regularly."

"We know that family scripture study and Family Home Evenings are not always perfect. Regardless of the challenges you face, do not become discouraged."

"Our doctrine is clear; we are to be positive and of good cheer. We emphasize our faith, not our fear. Regardless of the challenges you face, do not become discouraged."

Elder Richard G. Scott - How to Obtain Revelation and Inspiration for Your Personal Life

"The Holy Ghost communicates important information that we need to guide us in our mortal journey. When it is crisp and clear and essential, it warrants the title of revelation."

"One of the great lessons that each of us needs to learn is to ask. Why does the Lord want us to pray to Him and ask? Because that is how revelation is received."

"There are some principals and practices that enhance revelation…."

"Yielding to emotions such as anger or hurt or defensiveness will drive away the Holy Ghost."

"Loud, inappropriate laughter will offend the Spirit."

"Careful, quiet speech will favor the receipt of revelation."

"Exercise, reasonable amounts of sleep and good eating habits increase our ability to receive and understand revelation."

"Revelation can also be given in a dream when in an almost imperceptible transition from sleep to wakefulness."

"When it is for the Lord's purposes he can bring anything to our remembrance."

"Inspiration carefully recorded shows God that His communications are sacred to us. Recording will also enhance our ability to recall revelation."

"One must ever be mentally and physically clean and have purity of intent so that the Lord can inspire."

"For spirituality to grow stronger and more available it must be planted in a righteousness environment."

"Humility is fertile soil where spirituality grows and produces the fruit of inspiration to know what to do."

"When we are acting as instruments in behalf of others, we are more easily inspired than when we think only of ourselves."

"Our Father in Heaven did not put us on this earth to fail, but to succeed gloriously."

"Our obedience assures that when required we can qualify for divine power to accomplish an inspired objective."

"The more closely you follow divine guidance, the greater will be your happiness here and for eternity, moreover the more abundant your progress and capacity to serve."

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Saturday Morning April 2012 General Conference Highlights

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Sun, 01 Apr 2012 05:42:00 +0000

What a day in downtown Salt Lake City, to kick off the April 2012 General Conference. So many highlights! I'm kind of like a kid when it comes to being here in Utah. I love it! And I love the spring with all the blossoms on the trees, and the daffodils popping up everywhere. Life is everywhere! When I drove into town on Thursday, the first thing I did was make my husband pull the car over, so I could use Instagram to take a picture of the beautiful pink blossoms. But what most excites me about being here is covering General Conference -- via social media.

There is something powerful in being a part of helping others to know about, and hear, that we have living prophets upon the earth, today -- and broadcasting their messages around the globe. I trust that many of you feel the same as I do, and that many of you are part of that effort, online, to do the same.

Who would have thought when we started using social media to share the gospel, online, that things would have exploded the way they have. Certainly not me. I don't think any of us could have predicted the power that the Internet would eventually have, when we were initially inspired to get involved. In just this last week I was contacted by Deseret News for an interview with Trent Toone, KSL TV's Carole Mikita invited me into the studio for an on camera interview -- and just today, between sessions of General Conference, Roxeanne Vainuku, of KUTV approached me and requested an on camera interview, that aired tonight on CBS channel 2 -- all to talk about social media and General Conference. That's what a big deal it has become!

This afternoon Jesse Stay shared these stats on how successful the efforts of so many were, on Twitter, to broadcast the first two sessions of General Conference: "This conference has seen 30,678 total Tweets today (so far), by 7,835 users, and a total reach of 3,448,285 people." That's incredible!

So, I'd like to share some of the 'messages' or 'pearls of great price" that I, and others, shared, online, during the Saturday morning session of General Conference. These are direct quotes from living prophets -- "noised abroad" by faithful Latter-day Saints. Imagine with me, if you will, what it must be like for many people, who have no idea what living prophets teach, or what Mormons truly believe, to hear these words of life...

Thomas S. Monson - As We Gather Once Again

"I welcome you and express my love to you."

"We are here to learn."

"Some may be seeking answers to questions and challenges you are experiencing in life."

"Each can be enlightened and uplifted…"

"How blessed we are to have come to earth at this time"

"No cause, no force in the entire world can stop the work of God".

"There is much that is difficult and challenging in the world today…"

"I thank you for your faith and devotion to the gospel"

Boyd K. Packer - And a Little Child Shall Lead Them

"The creation of life is a great responsibility for a married couple."

"It is the challenge of mortality to be a worthy and responsible parent"

"Neither man nor woman can bear children alone."

"Some, due to circumstances beyond their control, are raising children as single mothers/fathers."

"These are temporary states"

"In the eternal scheme of things, not always in mortality, righteous yearnings will be fulfilled."

"Husbands and wives should understand that their first calling - from which they will never be released is to one another and then to their children."

"One of the great discoveries of parenthood is that we learn far more about what really matters from our children than we ever did from our parents."

"We urge our members to show devotion to their families."

"Fathers and mothers next time you cradle a newborn child in your arms you can have an inner vision of the mysteries and purposes of life."

Dallin H. Oaks - Sacrifice

"Sacrifice of Jesus Christ has been called "the most transcendent of all events…"

"That sacrifice is the central message of all the prophets."

"That sacrifice - the atonement of Jesus Christ - is at the center of the plan of salvation."

"The Christian faith has a history of sacrifice including the ultimate sacrifice."

"Christians have voluntarily given sacrifice motivated by faith in Christ and the desire to serve Him."

"For most followers of Christ our sacrifice involve what we can do on a day-to-day basis in our ordinary personal lives."

"Today, the most visible strength of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the unselfish service and sacrifice of its members."

"The best known example of unique LDS service and sacrifice is the work of our missionaries."

Other examples of service and sacrifice appear in the lives of the faithful members who serve in our temples."

"Such examples strengthen all of us. They remind us of the Savior's teachings."

"…most important examples of unselfish service and sacrifice are performed in our families."

"Mothers devote themselves to the bearing of children and nurturing their children."

"Husbands give themselves to supporting their wives and children."

"…as you sacrifice for each other and your children, the Lord will bless you."

"Latter-day Saints look on their sacrifice of time and means as a part of their schooling and qualifying for eternity."

"Just as the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ is at the center of the plan of salvation, we followers of Christ must make our own sacrifices to achieve the destiny that plan provides for us."

"I know that Jesus Christ is the Only Begotten Son of God the Eternal Father."

Henry B. Eyring - Mountains to Climb

"Many of you are now passing through physical, mental, and emotional trials that could cause you to cry out…"

"The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?"

"There seems to be no better answer to the question of why trials come and what we are to do than the words of the Lord Himself, who passed through trials for us more terrible than we can imagine."

"You and I have faith that the way to rise through and above trials is to believe that there is a "balm of Gilead".

"The Lord has promised: "I will not… forsake thee."

Quotes Monson "A foundation of faith in the reality of those promises takes time to build"

"If the foundation of faith is not embedded in our hearts the power to endure will crumble."

"My purpose today is to describe what I know of how we can lay that unshakable foundation."

"…the ground must be carefully prepared for our foundation of faith to withstand the storms that will come into every life."

"That solid basis for a foundation of faith is personal integrity."

"Our choosing the right consistently whenever the choice is placed before us creates the solid ground under our faith."

"Those choices, hundreds in most days, prepare a solid ground on which our edifice of faith is built."

"The metal framework around which the substance of our faith is poured is the gospel of Jesus Christ, with all its covenants, ordinances and principles."

"Trouble itself can be your way to strengthen and finally gain unshakable faith."

"The particle of faith most precious and which you should protect and use whatever extent you can is faith in the Lord Jesus Christ."

"When hard trials come, the faith to endure it well will be there…"

"You built a foundation of faith from loving as the Savior loved and serving for Him."

"It is never too late to strengthen the foundation of faith."

"In their perfect love for you, Heavenly Father and the Savior want you fitted to be with them to live in families forever."

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Kathryn Skaggs

Saturday Afternoon April 2012 General Conference Highlights
The Saturday afternoon session of the April 2012 General Conference brought with it plenty of Church business with, among other positions, the release and call of the Presiding Bishopric and the General Relief Society Presidency. On the lighter side, the Internet was frantically trying to confirm rumors that David Archuletta was part of the MTC choir, singing during the session -- which he was -- made evident by snapshots taken by attendees, flying across cyberspace!

Millions to View Mormons’ 182nd Annual General Conference

"Millions of Church members, friends and invited guests are expected to view the 182nd Annual General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon). All five conference proceedings will be held Saturday and Sunday, 31 March and 1 April 2012, in the Conference Center in Salt Lake City and can also be viewed live via television, radio, satellite and Internet broadcasts."

LDS members prepare for conference, social media explosion

"Countless LDS members and others will also be “noising abroad” their thoughts, impressions and comments through various social media tools this weekend during the 182nd Annual General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Through its website, the church is encouraging members to use Facebook, blogging, Google+, Twitter, and other social networks to promote the conference and invite others to listen to living prophets."

Noising Abroad All things Mormon...

There's a lot of people of our faith, not of our faith, that don't like our faith, want to misrepresent our faith, online. Many of 'them' are talking about 'us' and writing about 'us' -- and too often what they're saying is not what we would want 'John Smith' to first come in contact with, about Mormonism -- when he does his Google search to learn more about Mormon beliefs.

New Relief Society President: Sad Good-bye and Happy Hello!

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Sun, 01 Apr 2012 03:56:00 +0000

With yesterday's long awaited release of the Mormon Mommy blogs interview with Julie Beck, via the Mormon Channel, which prompted speculation about a possible release today, I'm sad to say 'they' were right. I've loved Sister Beck's inspired counsel over these past five years and will forever credit her for the inspired work on Daughters in My Kingdom. She has left a legacy for every sister in Relief Society, which so many of us already cherish. For me personally, she was/is a modern-day prophetess. Her power and spirit are emblazoned upon our hearts, and forever we are knit together as sisters in Christ.

One thing those of us who have been members of the Church, for many years, knows, is that with every call there comes a release. Although such knowledge and acceptance does not always make it easy. Another thing I have learned is that God is in control, and it's now time to move foreward and welcome our new general Relief Society president, Linda Burton. She and her two counselors will need all of our prayers to sustain them in the great work they have been called to do.

About Linda K. Burton:

Linda Burton was born in Salt Lake City, Utah, to Morris Ashton and Marjorie Castleton Kjar. She is the second child of six, having two sisters and three brothers. She met and married Craig Palmer Burton in 1973 when she was studying elementary education at the University of Utah. Brother and Sister Burton are the parents of six children—one son and five daughters—and have sixteen grandchildren (eight girls and eight boys).

Sister Burton accompanied her family as a teenager when her father presided over the New Zealand South Mission. She has been privileged to work in the Primary, Young Women, Relief Society, and Sunday School auxiliaries as well as serving for a brief time as a seminary teacher. She and her husband recently returned from Korea, where he presided over the Korea Seoul West Mission. LDS.org

I have a testimony that Sister Burton's call is to work equally along side of our priesthood leaders, and under their direction, to accomplish the exact same work of Lord -- and to accomplsh it with power. I look forward to hearing from her in General Conference on Sunday. What a thrill that will be, to feel her spirit and allow the Spirit to confirm her call to our hearts. I trust that each of us will be blessed with that gift.

It is no small thing to be called to lead the women of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We are living during a time that women, even within the Church, struggle to find their place in the world -- and even understand their roll as women in the Church. It requires strong, faithful and powerful women to lead us. As LDS women we respect strong, spritual leadership. Dare I say we crave it? We need a woman who we know is inspired of the Lord -- and these are exactly the kinds of women that the Lord is setting before us in these Latter-days. I'm excited to get to know Sister Burton and her counselors.

As we say thank you to Sister Beck, and her counselors, we thank them for their inspired service and tremendous examples of faithful daughters of God -- and welcome our new leadership with enthusiasm as we go forward to continue this extraordinary work that the Lord has placed before us.

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LDS Newsroom:

New Presiding Bishopric, Relief Society Presidency and General Authorities Announced at Mormon General Conference
"Sister Linda K. Burton was serving as a member of the Relief Society general board when she received her call to serve as the organization’s president. In her Church callings, she spent three years serving with her husband as he presided over the Korea Seoul West Mission. They returned from Korea in 2010. She also served on the Primary general board, and in various callings in the Young Women, Primary, Sunday School and as a seminary teacher."

WBMW: Julie B. Beck on Mormon Bloggers - It's a Great Opportunity

Sister Julie B. Beck answered member questions, on the Mormon Channel, about how to best spend our leisure time, focusing on activities from what kinds of books we read, movies we watch, and of great interest to this WBMW -- the subject of blogging -- discussed in detail.

We Talk of Christ, We Rejoice in Christ: The Beckoning of Sister Beck
"My parents taught me not to put anyone on a "pedestal," but in my mind and heart Sister Julie B. Beck keeps making her way up there for me with every word of wisdom that spills forth from her lips!"

Noising Abroad All things Mormon...

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 06:43:00 +0000

This blog post is task specific to those members, online, who love to use social media to share the gospel and, in so doing, also help broaden the "official" presence of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) on the Internet. Maybe you didn't realize, but that is exactly what you're helping to accomplish whenever you share a Mormon Messages video, link to a General Conference talk, pin a cool LDS infographic, etc...

Not only are you sharing your faith with those that you have a direct influence, but the combined efforts of many sharing these same videos, links, etc... emanating from official LDS websites, sends an important signal to search engines, like Google.com, that where they come from is relevant to a specific topic -- and for our purposes here, all things credibly Mormon.

So, when John Smith, not of the Mormon faith, wants to know more about what Mormons believe and uses Google to search: What do Mormons believe? Google is going to give him search results that it has determined are the most authoritative and relevant. And of course this is exactly why we all use Google to search for the 'things' or 'terms' we want information about, feeling confident that our search results will be among the best on the Internet -- for what we are trying to find.

For those planning to share General Conference, online, by posting on your favorite social network, such as tweeting #LDSConf on Twitter, it has recently come to my attention that by posting these same things on Google Plus,(G+) a fairly new social network, Google search is much more inclined to give the type of authority, in search results, that we desire.

Jesse Stay, LDS Church social media strategist, and friend, explains why we might want to spread our influence beyond Twitter: "Twitter is good for promoting conference, because there are more people using it (although the numbers are close). However, for long-term effects, Google+ will have a better effect. Mostly because of search."

In other words, if we really want to help, and are strategic, we can accomplish both goals: Promote and share General Conference in real time, on Twitter, and build authority for official Church websites in Google search results, on Google+.

In this way, those that 'follow' us and 'John Smith' will benefit by our efforts. And if we do this right, they might eventually be one in the same person!

We want to keep this very simple. You can do this in one of two ways:

1. Share #LDSConf quotes, thoughts and links on both Twitter and Google Plus by alternating posts.

2. Use a third party application, such as Manageflitter - PLUS, which enables what you post on G+ to automatically post on Twitter.

A few days ago Jesse was kind enough to share an example of how this works using Google Plus, in order for what we post to be considered relevant in Google search results:

"Here's a good example: search for "Earthquake" on Google+:

https://plus.google.com/u/0/s/Earthquake/posts

Posts come through in real time (you can pause any time you like). If you post anything in the box, as those things are streaming by - even if you don't include the term, "earthquake", all those searching for "earthquake" will see your update in their similar search results.

The advantage to using Google+ is not only the more effective search, but its advantage in Google.com search as well. For instance, if your post on Google+ includes the term, "jesus christ", or links to an article about Jesus Christ on LDS.org, your post, as well as that article, will rank higher in Google.com search over a similar post or article shared on any other social network.

The fact is Google ranks Google+ posts higher than similar posts on other social networks. This happened since Google started incorporating your Google+ network into their search results. So, while the conversation may be happening in greater volume on Twitter, Google+ has greater long-term effects due to its inclusion of Google+ in search.

If you want to participate in a larger conversation, Twitter may be a better choice. However, you may consider cross-posting this conference, since it does have that greater effect.

It should also be noted that Google+ has a slightly less-religious audience than Twitter and Facebook. You may cater your message to that audience. You may also want to warn your audience ahead of time so they are aware they're going to get a higher volume than on Twitter.

Another approach may be to post fewer posts on Google+, but post in a format that allows for conversation using the threaded conversation available on Google+.

Think on Google+ of every post being to start a conversation around a particular topic. This can be a great way to start an intellectual discussion about Gospel topics being discussed at Conference. Google+ is more about conversation, while Twitter is more about broadcasting."

I have to say that Jesse Stay is one of the best members, online, for knowing how to begin and have gospel conversations. If I were you, I would subscribe to him on Facebook, just to watch him in action.

General Conference is a great opportunity to create these conversations, and as Jesse mentioned, G+ , among other things, provides a good climate for allowing that to take place, naturally.

One of my Church callings is to serve as the Stake Social Media Specialist on our Public Affairs Counsel. It's a great fit for me. In preparing for our up and coming Mormon Helping Hands service day, I attended an excellent training Webinar. One of the presenters, in relation to the use of social media, shared this great scripture:

"And it was noised abroad among the people immediately, before it was yet dark, that the multitude had seen Jesus, and that he had ministered unto them, and that he would also show himself on the morrow unto the multitude.

Yea, and even all the night it was noised abroad concerning Jesus; and insomuch did they send forth unto the people that there were many, yea, an exceedingly great number, did labor exceedingly all that night, that they might be on the morrow in the place where Jesus should show himself unto the multitude." (3 Nephi 19:2-3)

I can't stop thinking about how we "noise abroad" today, to share the message of the gospel of Jesus Christ, in preparation of His Second Coming. More on that in an upcoming post.

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Easter Video: The Atonement and Little Children

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 02:20:00 +0000

How little children understand and experience the Atonement is a question that LDS songwriter, Shawna Edwards, found herself pondering when she felt inspired to create a new Easter song for the children in her ward Primary titled: The Miracle.

After I heard the song and was deeply touched by it, I was fortunate to be, through a mutual friend, introduced to Shawna, via Facebook. I told her that I wanted to share her beautiful song with my blog readers and that -- I'd love to quote you about what inspired you to write the song, create the video and your hopes for when people see/hear it -- along with any other thoughts/information you'd like to share. I love adding a personal touch whenever possible.

I am so glad I asked her those questions, because today she messaged me and let me know that she "took some time and wrote the story of the song this afternoon. It's on my website at http://www.shawnaedwards.com/

She begins her story by explaining how the idea to write the song came about:

"“Jesus is a God of Miracles.” That was the primary theme of the month, and I wanted a song to go with it. I scoured all the typical sources to find that song, but no luck. So I decided to write one.

We often talk about the wondrous miracles of Jesus Christ — walking on the water, healing the blind, raising the dead. Even when we say the word “miracle,” that’s what we think of. So of course, I began the first verse with the typical lyric lines…. And then I got to the chorus. What more could I say about His miracles? And what could I say that would help the children connect to those stories, two thousand years ago and half a world away?"

She goes on to share:

"I know that’s not a terribly unique or profound thought. True believers understand that the Atonement is the most significant and central act of all time. True believers understand that without it, all mankind would be hopelessly, eternally lost. But that, again, is a difficult concept for children. It’s a difficult concept for anyone! And so, I made it personal. Not the miracle that rescues US, but the miracle that rescues ME.

I wanted to make it clear how personal the Atonement is, how uniquely suited to individual needs, inadequacies, and struggles. I could talk forever about how Jesus Christ atoned for the sins of the whole human family, but until I understand that Jesus Christ atoned for ME, I don’t begin to understand the Atonement. I wanted the children to know that He loves each one of them every bit as much as He loved the children of his time and place, and that just as He ministered to them one by one, so He does to us. MY name is graven on His hands. And yours is, too."

Read Shawna's entire story about how The Miracle came to be, HERE.

Easter Video: The Miracle

If you would like a free download of the sheet music or the recording, Shawna requests that you visit her blog and leave a comment and she will send it to you within 48 hours.

As I said, I was so touched by this beautiful Easter song, The Miracle, and now I love it even more after Shawna has so kindly shared her very personal experience of how it came to be. I am so grateful for the Atonement of Jesus Christ and what His great sacrifice means to me and my family. I have said many times that Eternal Life would have little meaning, to me, if it was not possible to be with my family. And for that "miracle" I am profoundly and deeply in debt to our Savior, for making it possible for each one of us to be clean, whereby we might enter into the presence of the Lord, once again.

As this Easter Season is upon us, may each of us take the time to ponder the Atonement, for ourselves this, the greatest love story of all -- and how we might also share this message with our friends and family.

This special Easter video, I feel, is a lovely way to share our testimony of Jesus Christ and what His Atonement means to us personally. Perhaps when you share it, you could include your own simple testimony as a brief comment.

Thank you, Shawna, for your testimony of Jesus Christ, as shared with all of us, through your special gift of music.

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Kathryn Skaggs

Easter Message to the World From Living Prophet of God
Thomas S. Monson, a living prophet of God, has an Easter Message from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, that he wants to share with the world! And he's hoping that you and I will help him, by sharing the video entitled"His Sacred Name - An Easter Declaration" with your family and loved ones.

Tell Me the Stories of Jesus - Neil L. Andersen

"Do our children know about His perfect life, His selfless ministry, His betrayal and cruel Crucifixion? Have we testified to them of the certainty of His Resurrection, of His visit to the Nephites in the Americas, of His appearance to the Prophet Joseph Smith in the Sacred Grove?"

That Our Children Might See the Face of the Savior - Cheryl C. Lant

"It is our sacred responsibility as parents and leaders of this rising generation of children to bring them to the Savior so that they might see His face and the face of our Father in Heaven as well. As we do so, we also bring ourselves."

The Miracle of the Atonement April 2011 General Conference

The Messiah came to redeem men from the Fall of Adam. Everything in the gospel of Jesus Christ points toward the atoning sacrifice of the Messiah, the Son of God.

Once Again #TwitterStake to Gather for #LDSConf

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 23:56:00 +0000

With only days away from the 182nd General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) members of the, unofficial, #TwitterStake are, once again, gearing up to share #LDSConf on Twitter. Tweeting LDS General Conference, every six months, has now become an established, favorite online tradition of many faithful Latter-day Saints, who have come to love social media because of its power to share the gospel online.

I've come to really look forward to tweeting General Conference, and gathering, online, with so many great members who enjoy it as much as I do. I love it because of the great spirit that attends, what many may find surprising, digital missionary work. But trust me, it's real and for many of us who regularly participate, countless experiences leading to more extended gospel conversations are often the result.

Tweeting General Conference on Twitter is not for every member. Some prefer to follow the tweets via the hashtag #LDSConf and when inspired retweet a favorite message. Either way, it is a thrill to see the words of living prophets take center stage, on Twitter, and know that many outside of the Mormon faith are being touched by their inspired messages.

During the last General Conference members on Twitter got a huge thrill when Dieter F. Uchtdorf sent a shout-out during his talk:

"With so many social media resources and a multitude of more or less useful gadgets at our disposal, sharing the good news of the gospel is easier and the effects more far-reaching than ever before. In fact, I am almost afraid that some listening have already sent text messages like “He’s been speaking for 10 minutes and still no aviation analogy!” My dear young friends, perhaps the Lord’s encouragement to “open [your] mouths” might today include “use your hands” to blog and text message the gospel to all the world! But please remember, all at the right time and at the right place.

Brothers and sisters, with the blessings of modern technology, we can express gratitude and joy about God’s great plan for His children in a way that can be heard not only around our workplace but around the world. Sometimes a single phrase of testimony can set events in motion that affect someone’s life for eternity."

For LDS members, who gather to tweet General Conference, this is exactly what we are doing. We are focused and understand our purpose. It is more than a social activity. Each of us have a testimony of using technology to build the kingdom, and in a sense, it is a personal offering to do so.

As a brief reminder of how to tweet LDS General Conference, most effectively, I am reposting some tips that I created previously:

Tips for Tweeting #LDSConf

1. For those following the hash tag #LDSConf let's try to keep the stream loaded with quality content specific to the conference.

2. Avoid excessive idle chatter using the #LDSConf hash tag.

3. If you must chat, drop the #LDSConf hash tag. That way, for those who decide to check out what #LDSConf is all about, they will find an amazing stream of inspired content that makes sense!

4. DO use the hash tag #TwitterStake to chat with other Mormons on Twitter!

5. Tweet #LDSConf with a purpose -- to share the gospel with those outside of our faith.

6. If you tweet over 120 characters it makes retweeting difficult.

7. Resist urge to tweet every six seconds... ; )

8. Share personal feelings about #LDSConf alongside tweeting the conference message.

9. Consider sharing LDS resources throughout the conference, i.e. LDS.org, Mormon.org, Mormon Messages, etc...

10. Have fun!

To learn more about what Mormons do on Twitter, why, and how -- you can read some of my previous posts:

LDS Twitter Stake Gathering for #LDSCONF

I've been asked a number of times WHY I tweet General Conference on Twitter? Many concerns have been raised, -- one being that you can't get as much out of conference if you are focused on reading other tweets and deciding what you want to tweet. This can be true, if you look at it that way... but I don't.

About all those #LDSConf Tweets via #TwitterStake

I don't have any stats as to how many tweets went out over General Conference weekend using the hashtags #LDSConf, (update below*) but what I can tell you is that once again the efforts and interaction of Mormons on Twitter brought attention, worldwide, to the the reality that we truly have living prophets upon the earth!

I believe it was during the Sunday afternoon session of conference that our dear Prophet and President of the LDS Church's name, Thomas Monson, was trending on Twitter! Such wonderful exposure to the eternal truth, that God speaks to His children, today! I hope you'll excuse me for not recalling exactly when this happened, but I was busily engaged throughout the entire weekend, while I tweeted as best I was able, with nine rambunctious grandchildren, and their parents! It was a glorious weekend!

Mormons On Twitter and What We Do!

Some very cool Mormons on Twitter, known as the #TwitterStake, are getting a bit of attention from Deseret News. Why you may ask, is this particular group so cool? Well, because these Mormons are using social media to share the gospel, online. That's why! And they're doing it in a big enough way, to get noticed! For those of you who know how I feel about sharing the gospel online, this is beyond cool!

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Noising Abroad All things Mormon...

This blog post is task specific to those members, online, who love to use social media to share the gospel and, in so doing, also help broaden the "official" presence of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) on the Internet.

General Information for April 2012 General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
This much anticipated meeting will be held in the LDS Conference Center, Salt Lake City, Utah. This is an exciting time for Mormons worldwide! We have the opportunity to hear from our Prophet and President of the Church, Thomas S. Monson, as well as many other prominent Church leaders -- to receive relevant counsel and direction to help strengthen us as individuals, and as a people, committed to living the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Fun NEW Ways to Share General Conference using Social Media

With the April 2012 General Conference only days awayLDS.org have created some cool NEW, and fun, social media tools -- to help you invite others to come listen to living prophets speak. You can choose to use the video invitation, an awesome widget, various banners and/or blog buttons in deciding the best way for you to share the gospel online.

Julie B. Beck on Mormon Bloggers - It's a Great Opportunity

noreply@blogger.com (A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman) — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 04:14:00 +0000

Sister Julie B. Beck answered member questions, on the Mormon Channel, about how to best spend our leisure time, focusing on activities from what kinds of books we read, movies we watch, and of great interest to this WBMW -- the subject of blogging -- discussed in detail.

Disclaimer: I've utilized my mad transcription skills to transcribe quite a bit of the interview with Sister Beck, and hope you enjoy being able to read and ponder her great counsel. (But please ignore the lack of editing.) However, I don't recommend you using the quotes just in case I've not been 100% accurate, and would not want to misrepresent her words around the blogosphere. So, if you're tempted, before you do, make sure and listen to the interview yourself -- to make sure we both have it right. : )

So, how does Sister Beck spend her leisure time?

Video: Julie B. Beck on Leisure Time

"My first priority is to spend time with my family, but I feel oftentimes the need to do something that isn't so intense, and that isn't so mind challenging, that it gives my mind a rest. It's sort of like Nephi losing the spring in his bow I need to do something that helps me keep my soul in balance. I love good books and I love to sleep, but I don't get enough of either of those. I love and enjoy old classic movies, particularly now when I hear so many weighty and difficult problems I like old classic movies that are humorous and have happy endings, and that invite the spirit into my home."

"It's wonderful for us to have opportunities to renew our spirits. For me it's connected with the Spirit -- how is it building my spirit and my personal spiritual strength -- and there has to be some of that. I am a compulsive reader. I always have to have something to read...."

Member Question: How can we have downtime and not feel bad if we're not doing genealogy or journaling, or reading the scriptures or planning a lesson or something else. How do we find a balance?

Sister Beck responded by acknowledging this as the "age old question of women". She said that there are always ten things we could be doing in every moment or hour that we have. We have to make choices about the things that are essential and necessary, and the things that are nice to do.

"For me, I sort of categorize my life in those categories. The essentials have to be taken care of first. There are a lot of necessary things that need to be done. If I have to write a talk for a major broadcast no one is going to write that talk for me. I have to force myself to sit down and study and do the reading and the writing that gets that done. It's a necessary task. And then there is some nice to do things that add beauty and variety, and lift to our lives. They lift our spirits."

Sister Beck shared this quote by Ezra Taft Benson: "When we put God first all other things fall into their proper place or drop out of our lives. Our love of the Lord will govern the claims for our affection, the demands of our time, the interest we pursue and the order of our priorities." She said, "I love that. It's our love of the Lord that does that. I try to choose things where I can feel the Lord's approval in that choice. I don't think He wants me to be working, working, working every minute. He wants me to be a whole person."

Mormon Channel: We are speaking specifically today about media because in the last 10-15 years our choices with media have exploded. There is a lot more options to ways we use our leisure time because of the media. It's in our homes and in our purses and with us as we go along…. (Close quote)

Sister Beck:

"This extends not just to the use of the media. We are focusing on that a little bit today and I hope what we talk primarily, are principles that will help us and maybe some examples on that. But some people spend their leisure time in lots of physical activities, outdoor activities, sports and so on… So the principles apply in all things -- but those things often feed our souls"

Member Question: Spending free time reading. Is it a good thing? Is it a waste of time if the book is not spiritually based?

Sister Beck:

Quoted 2 Nephi 9:51 and explained it as the principle that can be applied to answer this question. She confessed that she is a "big reader", a "compulsive reader".

"Wherefore, do not spend money for that which is of no worth, nor your labor for that which cannot satisfy. Hearken diligently unto me, and remember the words which I have spoken; and come unto the Holy One of Israel, and feast upon that which perisheth not, neither can be corrupted, and let your soul delight in fatness."

She went on to explained: " I love the concept of climate and establishing a climate in my home where the Spirit can dwell. The books I read contribute to that climate in me, in my heart. They contribute to the climate in my home. It's the same with movies, its the same with media. If we think of establishing a climate where the Spirit can be nurtured and dwell. I know that there are a lot of popular trends in books and people tend to chase after a reading trend because they often don't know what to read. I generally have something going in the scriptures, something that's of a church book nature, or church magazine, something in current events, something nonfiction and something fiction -- generally a classic or it's a classic to me.

I have sort of established some rules for myself: tone of the language have to be elevated enough, and the story line enough, and well written enough that it will increase my vocabulary and elevate my thinking and enrich my mind. I have to read. There is something in me that makes me have to read. So I make time for that. I don't know where the time comes, usually from sleep. If I can't sleep I read something."

I've quoted a number of times, Eliza R. Snow, where she says "We're here trying to be fit companions for the gods and holy ones." So we wouldn't want to fill our minds and thoughts with things that don't elevate, that don't feed our spirit, so to speak. I've also heard that classics are classics for a reason. They are timeless for a reason. They are well written. They promote good thinking. They push us to things.

I remember a conference where President Hinckley stood up and prefaced his remarks by saying, "In preparation for this talk I read…" and then he gave this list that was probably two thousand pages long, if not more. Other times he quoted from Shakespeare or other writers or poets. He loved Tennyson. That taught me something about President Hinckley. I remember sitting in conference once listening and thinking "My goodness, Pres. Hinckley loves to read". Another time he said, "I love the heft and feel of a good book". So reading isn't evil. Reading is a blessing and the Lord has created records for us to read and to study. A lot of good things have been written to elevate us, so I don't think reading is a waste of time, and I don't think we can only read church sponsored books. There is a lot of good out there. It's on us though, to learn to make the choices that will create the climate in us that enables the Spirit to grow and flourish."

Sister Beck then shared this sweet tidbit about how she raised her own children to love reading:

As a young mother when needing to get up in the middle of the night, she thought 'oh good' I can read for 20 minutes! She always had something that she wanted to read that she saved for those quiet, in the middle of the night hours, when no one would bother her.

I love that! And this...

She never told a child to turn out the light if they were reading a book before bed. She let them read as late as they wanted -- even if they were young children. She wanted to foster a love of reading.

I quote her here: "A reading child is a child that will stay out of trouble. That's a belief that I have. There's something wholesome in a child wanting to feed their mind. You have to imagine things when you are reading, that only you can see. And visualize things that only you can see. That's why it's important to select good things. I don't know that there's enough great literature for younger children. I wish there was more of that. But I encouraged my children to read and put a lamp by the side of their bed. They always had a little bookcase by the side of their bed. Yes we read the scriptures. Yes we read The Liahona, and The Friend, and The New Era..."

One thing noticed during the interview was that much of Sister Beck's leisure time is spent with her family, whether through outdoor activities or reading together as a family -- they are often included. Reading together as a family contributed to the culture of their family and what is familiar to the group.

Member Question: Another sister called in wanting to know how to look for the principles behind deciding what to watch or what to use when you're using media? How do you make decisions about what you will consume in regard to the media and how do you choose to spend your free time?

Sister Beck shared that she doesn't consider "time" free. She feels it's all part of building our spirit and nature. For the Strength of Youth pamphlet gives us guidelines: We stay away from things that are vulgar, immoral, violent and pornographic. We know why those things are. We're adult enough to know what they are. It's just about establishing a climate within ourselves where the Spirit can dwell and you know when that is going away. President Packer just spoke to the youth, seminary commemoration, he said: "You'll always be warned if something is wrong. You know what that waring sounds like in your head. You feel it. You've felt it. It's the Holy Ghost."

"I have had to get up and walk out of a movie or a broadway show, or something that was not correct. We've turned off the t.v. We've sent back a DVD that isn't appropriate. Oh well… In our day we can watch so many things on our own and nobody would know, but the Lord will know and the Holy Ghost knows, and then your spirit knows. We just do the things that feed and bless the Spirit. It's not that hard."

"Some nights I'm so tired I want to watch something that makes me not think of anything at all, so maybe I'll watch people cooking."

I, myself, fall prey to decorating shows or real estate of the rich and famous. : )

Member Question: "I was at a Relief Society luncheon where I mentioned that I had a blog and one of the ladies in my ward said, "You blog?" And then she went on to tell me all the other ways I could be more involved at home and at church, if I just didn't waste so much of my time on the computer. My question:

What do you think about blogging? Do you think I'm wasting my time?

(And of course I'm really listening at this point... but of course my heart already knows the answer.)

Sister Beck:

Video: Sister Beck on Blogging

"I think we need to think back in time about how women communicate. Blogging is a way to communicate with somebody who doesn't live next to you or isn't in your same neighborhood. When I was a young mother we spent time on the phone, a lot. I remember calling a friend or a sister and saying, "help me clean my house" and then we would talk while we cleaned -- and then we'd say "thanks, my house is clean" and we'd hang up. Women have always connected to each other. In the days of ancient scripture they would gather at the well and they'd exchange information, opinions and ideas.

Martha Washington spent two or three hours a day writing letters and that journaling and writing letters was part of the daily life of a woman, in her day, who had the means and the time to spend that. So she made a lot of connections in writing in those ways. But the need to communicate is not new. In my mother's day they would go out to the backyard, hang up their laundry and share information over the back fence. So again, it's the principles behind this -- how much time is it taking?

I just read a study that said young mothers are spending about three hours a day blogging because it makes them feel more connected and less isolated as they are making this transition between being an independent person to being a mother. Three hours? I don't know. Is that too long to spend away from your family and your children and what's happening? Are you to the neglect of fixing dinner and nurturing people and putting children down for naps? Just like watching t.v. shows, it can draw you in one after another, so can a blog draw you in one after another. Some people might need to set timers and say, "I'll spend a half hour on my blog and when the timer goes off I'm finished". Or, "I can do 10 minutes, or I can invest this much -- this is my one day this week I am going to work on this". But again, it isn't the blog, per say, that is the problem. Women have always needed to do this kind of thing. It's a new medium. So, how are you using that time? What's it doing to invite the Spirit? And maybe we can talk about some other things about that, too. It's an opportunity."

Member Question: "I listened to a talk by Elder Ballard and he really encouraged us to use the Internet to share the gospel. So in the past I started a blog and a Facebook account but I found that I spent too much time on them and I'd get distracted by them. My question for you is how can we use the Internet to share the gospel and be a force for good without getting caught up in the time consuming trap of the Internet?

Sister Beck:

Video: Sister Beck Blogging for Good

"Again, who's driving this? Are you in control or is the blogging in control? We have our agenda and our agenda should be the Lord's agenda -- which is to prepare ourselves for the blessings of eternal life and help other people receive the blessings of eternal life. If you study section one of the Doctrine and Covenants, the Lord says: I need faith to increase in the earth. I need to establish my covenant. He talks about people who don't give heed to the words of the prophets and apostles and have strayed from the Lord's ordinances and they seek not the Lord, or to establish His righteousness -- and every man walketh in his own way in the image of his own god. Now, a blog could do that, but if we are walking in the image of 'our' God and we're walking in His way, then His Spirit will guide us and help us prioritize this work.

The scriptural example of a great blogger, so to speak, is Abish. Abish is someone who had a personal conversion, a personal testimony, and then when the opportunity was right she went from house to house telling people and collecting them in front of the missionaries. So the principle is great. Blogging is a new opportunity. It also comes with a responsibility. A lot of people dived in with the idea of the opportunity, without recognizing it has this other side of the sword. There is a responsibility and an accountability that comes with it.

Another quote that I would teach from this is one that President Kimball gave and we read it in "Daughters in My Kingdom". This is a quote all the sisters should know, where he says:

"Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world (in whom there is often such an inner sense of spirituality) will be drawn to the Church in large numbers. This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulateness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are seen as distinct and different—in happy ways—from the women of the world."

"Where does a blog fit into this? Think about the influence Latter-day Saint women could have if they are articulate. Not just about anything, but they are articulate about the things they stand for, which are encapsulated here (holding up Daughters in My Kingdom) and in the scriptures. If they can express their faith. If they can express what families mean to them. If they can serve in a way to seek out and help those who are in need of those covenants and ordinances and the blessings of the gospel in a distinct and different and happy ways, from the women of the world -- those are some principles.

So we look at, one, the time -- the amount of time it takes. It shouldn't distract us from the essentials or the necessaries, but is something that we can do to share the gospel if it is focused correctly. What is the tone of our conversation on a blog? I've read a lot of blogs, just to become acquainted with this. Are we representing ourselves as harried, as silly, as distracted? Or are we representing ourselves as who we really are? Latter-day Saint women are generally well informed, intelligent -- we're challenged by our life experiences, but we triumph. We are problem solvers -- we know how to do that. So we come from a long line of strong, faithful, purposeful women. Some of the stories in here (Daughters in My Kingdom) can maybe influence the tone of how we represent ourselves.

This is a great opportunity, but we also have the responsibility. We're accountable for managing it in a way that will bless others and will show us as being distinct and different in happy ways.

Mormon Channel: Comments on how Sister Beck shared that her mother communicated back in her day, but that the stakes are much higher between those two activities because what we said over the fence, there's no record of it, there's no record that exist, but what you write on the Internet it last forever and it is always searchable and people, thousands and thousands of people have access to that, not just one person that you have a conversation with. And so it means the stakes are higher.

Sister Beck:

"They are higher. And we will be accountable for that. If you read 2 Nephi 26 -- this is a sobering one, when we're talking about blogs. I hope sisters look at this and think about this in terms of this opportunity -- and I'm calling it an opportunity, that in verse 29 the Lord commanded that there shall be no priestcrafts, "For behold priestcrafts are that men preach and set themselves up for a light unto the world that they may get gain and praise of the world, but they seek not the welfare of Zion". Then we hear a little bit more, "but the laborer in Zion shall labor for Zion". We've covenanted to give all that we have to help the Lord and bless His kingdom.

There is such an opportunity to build and labor for Zion, to help the Lord establish His Kingdom on the earth and I think that our women understand in their heart about this covenant we've made in the temple -- to help the Lord build His Kingdom. What a chance...

Before we close and as we talk about this covenant keeping, I'd like to also read a quote on page 66 in "Daughters in My Kingdom", from President Joseph F. Smith. This provides some great guidance and leadership. We are all part of this Relief Society so the focus is on 'relief' -- that we're helping. Relief means to lift and make better. President Smith said he didn't want to see the time when our Relief Societies would follow or co-mingle and lose their own identity by mixing up with these women-made organizations that are coming to pass. So think in terms of blogs in this. He said "It is for you to lead the world and to lead especially the women of the world in everything that is praiseworthy. Everything that is godlike. Everything that is uplifting and that is purifying to the children of men. You are the head, not the tail. " So as we look at these opportunities of how to use time, how to evaluate ourselves, we think of the words of prophets. We think of the words of Belle Spafford in here (Daughters in My Kingdom) that says "It's time to get out of the things that don't help us with eternal consequences.

We are a covenant making people. That means we know what's ahead. We know what we are aiming for -- we are aiming for Eternal life. And it's establishing this climate, this spirit in ourselves where the Spirit can grow and then with that conversion that we have we now have opportunities to show that we are distinct and different in happy ways. We can keep those covenants and we can lead the world in these things. I hope that our sisters will do that."

To listen to the entire interview with Sister Beck, which I highly recommend, you can do so on the Mormon Channel.

I was so touched by Sister Beck's inspired counsel and direction in this interview. I wish I could personally hug her and thank her for addressing these topics. I will be pondering and praying about so many things that she said, that touch me personally, to better focus what I do as a Mormon blogger -- and how I spend my own leisure time.

What specifically caught your attention? I would both love and appreciate your thoughts, so please comment.

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Kathryn Skaggs

Note: Did you know that you can email Sister Beck questions for the Relief Society program on the Mormon Channel at mormonchannel@ldschurch.org and they could be answered in an upcoming Relief Society question and answer episode (she records them monthly). You may also record your question by calling 1-877-MYLDS32 and leave your question.

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Stepping Stones or Stumbling Blocks

In blogging about Mormonism I am not, nor do I try to be, the voice of the Church. However, like many other members, I do feel a strong responsibility, and desire, to make sure that I represent what I believe to be mainstream Mormon beliefs -- of which some might refer to as orthodox Mormonism. The only agenda that I have is to help others understand and discuss what the LDS Church teaches and faithful members, as a whole, believe.

How to Use Daughters in My Kingdom: New Relief Society Resource

How to use the new book Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society is now available on LDS.org. Specific training for LDS leaders is the initial focus, but also included in this training are suggestions for how all Mormon Womencan best utilize this Relief Society resource in their own personal study of the gospel, and in their families.

LDS.org: Sharing the Gospel Online - Blogging
"Publishing your life through a blog can be an excellent way to share with the world what being a member of the Church means to you."

Photo used by permission: Mike Licht, NotionsCapital.com

Fun NEW Ways to Share General Conference using Social Media

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With the April 2012 General Conference only days away LDS.org have created some cool NEW, and fun, social media tools -- to help you invite others to come listen to living prophets speak. You can choose to use the video invitation, an awesome widget, various banners and/or blog buttons in deciding the best way for you to share the gospel online.

Let's start with this video invitation that you can use to invite others to view the April 2012 General Conference to experience first-hand what it's like to hear modern-day prophets. As with all of these tools you can decide how and where you will share your favorite ones, online.

Video: Come Listen to Living Prophets

You can either use the embedding code to post this video directly on your own blog, or you can share the video link directly on your favorite social network, such as Facebook, Twitter, Google+, etc... You could also share this video via email with friends and family.

Next, you might have noticed the cool 2012 General Conference widget on my right-hand sidebar. You can get one, too! This widget includes the above video, as wells as great information pertaining to General Conference, what it is, and the importance of living prophets. It's pretty darn awesome! If you've got a blog, you definitely want to add the 2012 General Conference widget.

Last but not least is a cool selection of beautiful designed blog buttons and banners, like the ones posted below -- that when clicked will take you directly to Mormon.org.

Okay, so now that you see how cool my blog looks with all of these awesome new LDS social media tools, to help share and invite others to watch General Conference -- where and how will YOU use these over the next few days, leading up to the big event?

"In order for the messages of general conference to change our lives, we need to be willing to follow the counsel we hear. The Lord explained in a revelation to the Prophet Joseph Smith “that when ye are assembled together ye shall instruct and edify each other, that ye may know … how to act upon the points of my law and commandment.” But knowing “how to act” isn’t enough. The Lord in the next verse said, “Ye shall bind yourselves to act in all holiness before me.” This willingness to take action on what we have learned opens the doors for marvelous blessings."Paul V. Johnson

Go HERE to grab all the links and necessary codes to start sharing General Conference, via this new social media, now!

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Information: April 2012 LDS General Conference
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Noising Abroad All things Mormon...
This blog post is task specific to those members, online, who love to use social media to share the gospel and, in so doing, also help broaden the "official" presence of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) on the Internet.

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Coming up Mormons have an opportunity to invite those outside of the faith, to take a sneak peek into what Mormons believe. And for many, this could be an intriguing opportunity. Today's technology allows people, in the comfort and privacy of their own home, to learn about other's beliefs, without ever having to step inside a church.

10 Tips for Tweeting #LDSConf on Twitter

This is big. I mean this is really reallyBIG! Just around the corner the unofficial #TwitterStake, who are members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints , will once again gather to tweet and share the April 2012 General Conference -- using the hash tag #LDSConf.

Information: April 2012 LDS General Conference #LDSConf

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Information for April 2012 General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints: This much anticipated meeting will be held in the LDS Conference Center, Salt Lake City, Utah. This is an exciting time for Mormons worldwide! We have the opportunity to hear from our Prophet and President of the Church, Thomas S. Monson, as well as many other prominent Church leaders -- to receive relevant counsel and direction to help strengthen us as individuals, and as a people, committed to living the gospel of Jesus Christ.

About General Conference:

"General conference is a semiannual gathering of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. During general conference weekend, Church members and others who are interested gather worldwide in a series of two-hour sessions to receive inspiration and instruction from Church leaders.

Information for viewing and listening to The 182nd General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints.

General Conference sessions will be held March 31st and April 1st at 10am and 2pm MDT, both days.

The four general sessions will be held on Saturday and Sunday at 10:00 a.m. and 2:00 p.m. mountain daylight time. The priesthood session will be held on Saturday, March 31, at 6:00 p.m. mountain daylight time.

All sessions of General Conference are available, live, on the Internet HERE , excluding the General Priesthood session.

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You can also follow the Twitter hashtag #LDSConf HERE.

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With the April 2012 General Conference only days away LDS.org have created some cool NEW, and fun, social media tools -- to help you invite others to come listen to living prophets speak. You can choose to use the video invitation, an awesome widget, various banners and/or blog buttons in deciding the best way for you to share the gospel online.

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LDS Newsroom Blog: General Conference

Following the April 2012 General Conference, you can watch, listen or read, as well as download all sessions -- HERE.

Here are some great links that will inspire and help you and your family better prepare for General Conference:

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"Why is it important to participate in general conference? The First Presidency, sustained as prophets and apostles, have repeatedly given reasons why it is important to attend, listen to, or watch the broadcasts of all general conference sessions and then, following conference, to review the messages during the ensuing months and live according to the inspiration received."

Behind the Scenes of General Conference
"An extraordinary amount of work requiring the coordination of many Church departments and hundreds of people around the world goes into preparing for general conference. The five sessions of conference draw a total of about 100,000 people to the Conference Center every six months and are broadcast to millions more around the world."

General Conference Activities for Children
Fun activities from the Friend and other LDS resources.

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Learning to Love General Conference
"When I was young, I did not look forward to general conference like I do now."

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"The world was different a century year ago. Automobiles and motion pictures were relatively new inventions. A man could buy a nicely tailored wool suit for less than $30 dollars, and a bottle of Sarsaparilla made all of a person’s aches and pains go away."

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"As the family gathers for general conference, it's a time to be prepared to be spiritually filled. But there still are three meals that a family expects to be fed. From breakfast to desserts, here are a few recipes from LDS cookbooks that can help."

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"Most people who know me know how I feel about General Conference. Love. It is my semi-annual recharging of the spiritual batteries. General Conference weekend makes me happy. I have found that I get so much more out of conference when I intentionally prepare for it. Here are a few quotes and ideas to help you get in the General Conference mindset."

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If you have wiggle worms in your house, this is a must click!

You might also enjoy watching this video of highlights from the most recent General Conference...

"General conference is intended to be a revelatory experience as participants learn from living prophets and apostles through the power and influence of the Holy Ghost. Proper preparation will help ensure that you get the most out of your conference experience." LDS.org

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