Time-out can be an effective strategy when dealing with difficult behaviors if the parent/professional thinks through how to use time-out as a brief time-away from an unpleasant situation rather than punishment.

Time-out can give both adults and children some needed time away from a challenging situation. Some children need only a brief time away in order to make better choices. Proper use of time-out can help a child to learn self-control.

On the other hand, time-out can be used ineffectively and can easily become punishment, or feel like punishment to a child. Below is my personal list of do’s and don’ts, followed by a list of issues to think about before using this strategy.

Do…

• Put thought into the purpose of time-out and how/when you will use this technique
• Use time-out to help a child to regain self-control
• Use time-out for short periods of time
• Tailor your family’s use of time out to your individual child
• Devise a plan for consistency with other family members
• Involve your child in discussions of rules, guidelines along the purpose of time-out
• Use time-out before the situation escalates and child is uncontrollable
• Be sure your child is aware of specific guidelines and clear expectations
• Be sure your child is clear about specific undesirable behaviors that are not appropriate
• Be firm, fair and a positive role model
• Be sure your child feels safe while using this method
• Be available to talk with your child before s/he returns to play/work
• Be aware of the need to give yourself time out

Don’t…

• Think of time-out as punishment or an alternate to spanking
• Expect your child to quietly sit still for a long time with nothing to do
• Try to reason with your child or engage in discussion during time-out
• Misuse or overuse this strategy
• Use time-out as a form of humiliation
• Use time-out as a threat
• Use fear-based strategies with time-out
• Leave your child alone

Issues to think about:

• Will you go with the standard time-out – one minute for each year of age?
• Will you allow your child to engage in a quiet, calming activity or expect him/her to simply sit quietly?
• Will you involve your child in choices in how s/he uses time-out?
• What if your child calms down before the established time is up?
• What if your child refuses to go to time-out or to stay in time-out?
• Where will the time-out area be located?
• Will you keep a written record to see if the targeted behavior is reduced?
• Can you avoid time-out by using redirection strategies?
• Will you give your child a prompt or warning first?
• What if your child engages in unsafe unkind behaviors?
• How will you make sure your child does not think of time-out as punishment?

Children need help with learning about appropriate and inappropriate behaviors. They need help with learning self-control. Some children require more patience and perseverance than others. Sometimes they simply need a little time-away from a situation in order to make better choices.

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Following are some strategies and key questions that you can share with your child as you work together to solve word problems. Keep in mind that different problems may call for different strategies and, depending on your child’s learning style, some strategies may or may not be helpful.

Read and work to understand the problem.
Ask your child to read the problem aloud.
Suggest that s/he try ignoring the numbers at first and focus on the story.
Try to find a way for your child to relate to the problem.
Can s/he rewrite or retell the problem in his/her own words?
Can s/he use a formula that s/he already knows?

Look for and highlight clues and key words.
Key words for addition:
increased by,
more than,
combined,
together,
total of,
sum,
added to,

Key words for subtraction:
minus,
less,
less than,
fewer than,
reduced by,
decreased by,
difference between/of

Key words for multiplication:
of,
times,
multiplied by,
product of,
Key words for division:
per,
a,
out of,
ratio of,
quotient of,
percent (divide by 100)

Sort needed information from distracting information.
Cross out all information that is not needed.

Identify the problem and ask key questions.
What information do you already know?
What else do you need to know in order to answer the question?

Visualize the problem.
Draw and label a sketch of this problem.
Make a list.
Make a table or graph.

Translate the information into a math equation.

Guess
Predict the answer using the information provided before solving the problem.

Solve and check
Work out the problem one step at a time.
Asks/he pay attention to units?

Encourage your child to reflect on the process of solving this problem. Can s/he come up with a rule that will help with solving similar problems?

Daily life is full of problems that need to be solved. Learning to solve math word problems is a useful skill that relates to real life problem-solving, and is a skill that can improve with practice.

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Read the information below to find out what specialist(s) are qualified to administer, interpret and make suggestions for building skills and/or remediating weak areas.

Vision/Hearing and General Health Assessments: Vision and Hearing Screenings are often available through your child’s school. Medical doctors conduct health and physical exams, and administer vision and hearing tests that can provide additional information after questionable screenings conducted through the schools. Depending on the concerns and severity of sensory issues, some children are referred to vision and hearing specialists.

Occupational Therapy Tests assess a child's motor skills: fine and gross motor, visual-spatial, visual-motor, sensory processing, sensory integration and self-help skills. Occupational therapists are specialists who are trained to observe, test and work with children on remediation of weaknesses in the areas relating to motor, sensory integration and processing.

Physical Therapy Testing: Physical Therapists assess a child’s balance, coordination, movement and muscle strength. Like occupational therapists, physical therapists provide remediation in the areas they assess.

Emotional/Behavioral Tests are designed to assess a child’s emotional, behavioral and social functioning. Observations, interviews, behavior and rating scales, and drawings are some of the methods used by psychologists to assess a child’s functioning in this area.

A lack of familiarity with testing terminology combined with other unknowns relating to the testing process make it an extra challenge for parents to make good decisions for their child(ren). This information is simply an introduction to some of many testing instruments and specialists who may be able to help you to help your child to achieve his/her potential.

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Parents who consider having their child tested, quickly discover that there is a large amount of specific, unfamiliar vocabulary used by testing professionals that they need to learn in order to be a better advocate for their child(ren).

Some of the common terminology used with the different types of evaluations for the common problems that lead families to request testing are listed and briefly explained below. This information is simply an introduction to typical tests and related testing terminology.

Unless you have a photographic memory for food or just really, really love your accountant, you probably don’t recall exactly what you had for dinner two Sundays ago or where you stood when you last spoke to your accountant. However, chances are good that you know what you had for dinner last night and that you could name the exact day, time, and place your spouse proposed. That’s because we remember things that happened recently, and we remember things that had a major impact on our lives. Making memories is a very important part of the human thought process, and it’s a very important part of learning.

While some people might contend that certain individuals are just born with good memories — and while that’s true to some extent — it’s also true that powerful memories can be created. During your tutoring sessions, work with your child to improve her memory skills. A good memory is an incredibly valuable tool in virtually all academic areas, and it’s also integral to strong social skills (e.g., remembering names and faces, and remembering important things about people).

There are many simple, fun ways to incorporate memory-enhancing activities into everyday tutoring sessions. One effective, and often amusing, way to practice memory skills, particularly with a younger child, is to “change character.” You can enter the room wearing a certain shirt and certain pair of glasses, with your hair parted a certain way and a ring on a certain finger. Then, leave the room and change things around. Ask your child if he can identify all of the things that are different between the “before” you and the “after” you. The classic game of Memory (available on Amazon, at many toy retailers, and also in Internet versions) is also a wonderful, time-tested tool for memory improvement.

Regardless of how you choose to teach your child memory-improving skills, you will be helping her get ahead both in school and in life. And, who knows, your own memory might benefit in the process!

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Different testing instruments can help to pinpoint specific problems and the information from these assessments can lead to helpful interventions. A good pediatrician can help parents to pinpoint issues and concerns, and to discover resources and options available in the local community.

If it is determined that pre-screening and psychological testing is a next step, the question of where to go follows. Families vary in the reasons they choose one method over another. Finding answers to the questions such as the ones below, as parents explore the pros and cons to testing options, can help parents to make the best decision for their family.

Who pays for the evaluation?

What if we are not satisfied with the results?

Who conducts the evaluation?

How long does the process take?

Who has access to the report and personal/private information?

Will the school use the information from a private evaluation?

What are the pros and cons of going through the school district compared to private testing?

Public School Testing

Pros:

Testing is available to families at no charge.

Services are provided at no charge.

Parents may make requests for specific tests and/or pursue additional testing through the school or through an outside evaluator.

Cons:
Parents are not able to choose the evaluator.

The school/evaluator is limited in what evaluations are used/available.

The evaluation process can take months.

The results are kept in your child’s permanent file.

Private Testing

Pros:
All or part of the cost for testing may be covered by insurance.

Through your private clinician, you have access to all testing results.

Parents may request that personal information be removed from the report.

Parents have more control of who has access to the report.

Parents can choose the evaluator.

Private evaluations can be more thorough.

Cons:
The school may not accept the outside evaluation.

Depending on the tester, wait time for an evaluation can be 3 months or more.

The evaluation may or may not be covered by insurance.

Parenting children can be a continuous learning experience. Interpreting test results and making decisions about interventions is the next important step of this process – and another area to explore after going through with the evaluation.

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At its most basic level, a WebQuest is a lesson that gives students support as they develop research skills. WebQuests are frequently utilized in differentiated-learning environments, as the levels of support can be increased for students who need additional help and, conversely, decreased for students who are working above their grade level. A tutor can create a WebQuest for a student on nearly any topic although science and social studies lessons can make for particularly robust WebQuests. For example, if a student is studying the plant and animal kingdoms, a WebQuest could require him to name the levels of taxonomy and to share interesting facts about certain members of each species. A more structured WebQuest would provide clues about where to look, while a less structured WebQuest would leave it up to the student to choose the appropriate sources.

Teachers across the nation have been using WebQuests, with great results and plenty of student engagement. Below are a few of my favorites from around the Web.

The Copacabana Restaurant: This WebQuest combines a nutrition lesson with plenty of practice for English Language Learners. Students are asked to search the Web — and to interact with one another — in designing a menu for the fictitious Copacabana Restaurant.

Space Science Academy: Students must develop an experiment that will be taken aboard a shuttle mission. Then, they must defend their experiment to a group of laypeople who also happen to be the project's financial backers. This WebQuest provides great experience in "translating science" into everyday language.

Students United for Humanity: In this WebQuest, students learn about the United Nations' humanitarian policies, and think of ways to make sure that their student body is treated as fairly and respectfully as possible.

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Billy's pictures and patterns changed as he used ChalkTalk

Today’s post is a follow-up to a previous post about the risks and benefits of sharing an iPhone with a young child. I am sure that I am not alone in wanting to be protective of my phone, but after communicating and reinforcing specific guidelines, have shared this handheld learning tool with my five year old nephew. I carefully found and downloaded several learning apps for Billy, and enjoyed watching his response, with the goal of informally discovering what app(s) resulted in the most learning.

Although he was presented with some of the best learning apps that I could find for his age level, along with some “fun” games, Billy’s FAVORITES were ChalkTalk and Flick Fishing. I believe that that the MOST learning resulted from his interest and motivation to keep using the programs that HE wanted to use. It seems that it is more motivating for Billy to engage in games that are more challenging and/or games that invite creativity and extra options with an added element of surprise.

With ChalkTalk, Billy created patterns with the stamp feature. The feature of creating a background, and then adding stamped patterns held his interest – and his funny patterns changed and improved. The sound effects of each different stamp added to the fun of creating pictures and patterns. When prompted, he had a silly story to go along with each of his pictures. With practice, he learned to “screen capture” his art, and enjoyed reviewing and comparing his pictures/stories.

I did not expect that the most learning would result from the Flick Fishing app because this game was designed for children above Billy’s age level and was not advertised as an educational game. Because of the complexity of the game and the need to read text in order to play the game, I did not expect that he would be able to use this game on his own. I am surprised and pleased with Billy’s desire to play this game independently, resulting in the need to read directions and to recognize similarities and differences in the fish he caught. Billy compared, contrasted and noticed details in the fish body parts, colors, sizes, names, and locations! He decided to use the “screen capture” feature to create a photo album to keep a virtual collection of his fish.

The interest in this technology game inspired Billy to want to look at books about fish, listen to me read facts about different fish, and to do some real fishing. So far, he has not caught one live fish, but he enjoys the challenge of casting and reeling in the line over and over again with and/or without bait or a nibble.

Due to this new interest in learning about fish, Billy and I have worked together to create a fishing game with a stick, string and magnets. He has engaged in drawing, coloring and cutting out all varieties of fish and he continues to enjoy catching, releasing and thinking about his growing collection of self-created fish. He enjoys moving like a manta ray, and trying to role-play the actions of EVERY fish we read about. Lately, he is careful to not place favorite fish next to sharks, swordfish, or fish that eat other fish before fishing. It is interesting to watch his natural desire to mix creativity and make-believe actions and thoughts with his growing storage of factual information about fish.

I am glad that I took the risk to share my iPhone with Billy. I feel that Billy has reminded me that when given interesting tools and choices, kids can surprise us. They might go above and beyond our expectations – learning much more than we could imagine or measure.

But just how can you help your child become an independent learner? You can't — or, at least, you shouldn't — just plunk a big pile of books in front of her and expect her to teach herself useful skills. Rather, you (or another good tutor) should guide her toward independence.

Think of it this way: A student who struggles with addition problems is unlikely to automatically understand complex algebraic equations. Rather, he can only come to an understanding of more complicated math by taking smaller steps and receiving structured help. This same approach works for students who are learning to be independent in their thinking and studying.

First, a learner must build skills. We can't work independently without plenty of skills in our "tool box." Help your child build her skills by assigning her small tasks during tutoring sessions, and by monitoring her ability to comprehend and follow directions. You may want to ask her to explain her process to you, so that you know for certain whether she understands what is being asked of her. During this first step toward independence, you certainly can give her the opportunity to make her own choices; just be certain that her options are fairly simple (e.g., the choice to underline a text or to use a highlighter, the choice to work a problem out by hand or use a calculator).

Next, your child can enter the phase of "structured independence." There's more freedom here than in the skill-building stage, but you're still offering plenty of scaffolding and support. One way to make structured independence work is to provide your child with a list of options. For example, you can give him a choice between creating a written description of a science concept or drawing a diagram of that same concept. The choice gives him a taste of independent learning, but the prescribed options provide the structure that is necessary at this stage, when a student is not yet ready to determine his course of study entirely on his own.

After your child seems comfortable with structured independence, she can move from having tasks assigned to her to being the creator of those tasks. If she wants to learn more about the Cold War, for example, she could do an archival search at the library and write a report. Or, she could interview someone who lived during the Cold War and write a newspaper-style article about that person's experience. Once she has completed this activity (or as she works on it), she can turn to her tutor for guidance and feedback. In this way, her work is independent, yet it does not exist in a vacuum — she gains valuable insight from an instructor that helps her revise or refine her work.

Finally, after moving through the three previous stages, your child is prepared for "self-guided independence." In this phase, he selects the area of study that interests him and pursues a project of his own design. (He can, of course, ask for help if he needs it — it's just not required to solicit help at this stage.) Independent study is both intellectually satisfying and confidence-building, and it prepares students to make reasoned decisions in all areas of life.

Simplification of algebraic expressions, exponential expressions, radicals, absolute values, factoring and expanding expressions, finding the LCM and FCF, rationalizing complex denominators, solving linear and quadratic equations and inequalities, using Cramer’s rule and solving linear expressions, graphing curves including parabolas, hyperbolas, circles, ellipses, equation and inequality solutions, operations with functions, simplifying logarithms, basic geometry and trigonometry, linear algebra, etc.

Successfully passing algebra coursework in order to meet graduation requirements is a challenge for many upper level students. Many algebra students need specific help with homework. Some can benefit from a quick way to check their work to see that they understand concepts. Others are barely able to keep up and need specific help reviewing step-by-step procedures.

Concerns about algebra grades are a common issue for students in public and private schools, and although educators and experts are working to solve common learning issues with algebra classes, their proposed solutions will not help the student who needs help NOW.

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