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		<title>Painful Sales Call Prompts 3 Fashion Insights</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 11:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
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		<description>You try to forget the many embarrassing moments in selling. Even so, one of my more uncomfortable incidents stays in mind 20 years later. Maybe that&amp;#8217;s because I managed to salvage it &amp;#8212; more or less.
Here&amp;#8217;s what happened. 
I was heading to New York for first-time meeting with a client I&amp;#8217;d been chasing for two [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/S0qHkemLOg8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>Grab Their Interest Early and Don’t Let Go</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 17:12:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
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		<description>Have you ever been on the receiving end of a sales presentation that made you wish you were almost anywhere else?
In the business-to-business software industry where I work, we&amp;#8217;re guilty of heinous neglect of basic communication principles.
What&amp;#8217;s so bad about our presentations? Nothing &amp;#8212; if you don&amp;#8217;t mind excessive length, jam-packed PowerPoint slides, lack of [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/EA5ctkNLaqk" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>When Senior Executives Hijack Your Sales Opportunities: 11 Reasons</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 12:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Internal Politics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sales Management]]></category>

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		<description>Two earlier articles explained what happened when a senior executive in my company briefly grabbed control of my recent sales opportunity. It appears to have cost us the sale.
Because I&amp;#8217;ve seen the same thing happen multiple times in the years I&amp;#8217;ve been selling, I&amp;#8217;ve given some thought to why it happens. When you understand the [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/ruH_YGi2sDE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>Stop Creating PowerPoint ‘Slideuments!’</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 16:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Books Mentioned]]></category>
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		<description>Steady. I feel a rant coming on&amp;#8230;
Last week the sales team in my company was working on revising our core sales presentation.
That frustrating experience made me think of a little-known idea that I believe is one of the most important points both Cliff Atkinson and Garr Reynolds make in the books I mentioned [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/Qh4ow5A1id4" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>3 Solid Resources to Help You Make Better Presentations</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 16:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
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		<description>This short article introduces three solid resources that can help you make dramatic improvements in your presentations.
Read on for a quick list of free online resources and books where you find great ideas on how to maintain your audience&amp;#8217;s interest and set yourself apart from your competitors.
Strong Medicine for People Who Misuse PowerPoint
The Cognitive Style [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/vG54q6q4JRo" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>The Art of the Pitch: An Appreciation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 12:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
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		<description>Previous articles have focused on the importance of asking good questions in nearly every kind of selling.
One obvious exception came to mind as I idly watched QVC for a few minutes while I waited for my wife to get ready for an evening out.
As she pulled on her jacket and checked her purse for her [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/5OA-XW7mUpg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>How to Screw Up a Nice Sale</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 12:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Internal Politics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sales Management]]></category>
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		<description>A prior article set the scene. This one makes you privy to an explanation that most people in my company haven&amp;#8217;t heard.
First, a quick review of the situation.
I&amp;#8217;d been working on a million-dollar deal for about five months. Jim, a senior executive in our company (and my boss&amp;#8217;s boss), slid into the driver&amp;#8217;s seat on [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/IgKux6f3dIw" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>When a Senior Manager Steps into the Driver’s Seat of Your Deal</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 13:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Internal Politics]]></category>
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		<description>Tell me if this story sounds familiar. It&amp;#8217;s about a senior executive who can&amp;#8217;t let go of a deal that someone else is responsible for.
I&amp;#8217;ve been working on an opportunity for several months. My prospect is a well-known global brand with worldwide annual revenue north of $2 billion.
Our team did a good job of working [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/ZREWcpS61NU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>7 Ways to Improve Your Sales Questions Instantly</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 12:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Power of Questions]]></category>
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		<description>Maybe you&amp;#8217;re not ready to wade through the 19 books that an earlier article recommended to help you ask better sales questions.
Or even to read one book, for that matter.
I know. You&amp;#8217;re restless, and you&amp;#8217;ve come to the right place.
So here&amp;#8217;s a short list of seven easy improvements you can make immediately.
1. Be clear in [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/zpi4tYGQhG4" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>19 Great Resources for Asking Better Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 14:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Silverback</dc:creator>
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		<description>Are you picking up the track I&amp;#8217;ve been laying down in the last few articles? Do you agree with me about the importance of asking better questions ?
If so, then you&amp;#8217;re probably chomping at the bit for more specific ideas on how to do it.
You&amp;#8217;ll get plenty of that in future articles.
But we assume you&amp;#8217;re [...]&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thissellinglife/Dggd/~4/5UnVGl3Jgxg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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