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		<title>Getting Her to Ask For Your Number</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:12:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1375</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was talking to my friend Travis the other day, and we were talking about the process by which you get a girl to ask for *your* number.  It's a fun turn of the screw… as men, it's within our gender role to ask for the number, and for as long as I've been at this, I'd say that I'm the one taking the number 80% of the time.  In the long run it doesn't make a difference - you still have to follow up well - but pulling it off means you're making great progress in your game...]]></description>
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		<title>How to Use Cocky Funny Correctly</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Asian Rake</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1336</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve all heard about the ubiquitous 80/20 principle first developed by Vilfredo Pareto in the context of the distribution of income and wealth. My experience and observations have shown that the 80/20 rule applies to push-pull and cocky-funny as well.
After closely observing naturals who are masters at crazily rapid escalations and seductions, and after a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Interview with Rich la Ruina</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 03:43:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1307</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Rich is a UK-based instructor who leads PUATraining.  We&#8217;ve hung out a few times &#8211; very cool, down to earth guy &#8211; and one of my best friends is also one of his best friends.  Every time my friend comes back from the UK, he&#8217;s telling me new things that Rich is doing, and I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is UP, yo?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 04:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1303</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Man, all sorts of things are up, except for our site.
I did some work on the backend last week without our developers&#8217; blessing, and totally screwed up our template system.  It doesn&#8217;t help that our developer had a big, big bad thing happen in his personal life (miss you, and God Bless, J)&#8230; so everything [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Speeches from the 21 Convention</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 19:30:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1221</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Gotta love Anthony and his team&#8230; free HD hosting of all the videos from the 21 Convention we spoke at not long ago.  Nick talks about college game, and sex, and I talk about some more high-level concepts (i.e. what it is to grow up and be a man), as well as some technique stuff [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Universal Secret – And why we can’t live without it</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:46:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nick Sparks</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Could it really be that simple?
Could the answer to all of our consistency issues be right under our noses?
Why is it that sometime&#8217;s we can light up a room, while other times members of the opposite sex turn away in disinterest?
I&#8217;ll tell you the answer right now but I&#8217;ll have to explain myself for it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Throw a Big Party</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 15:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our party last week was a massive success: about 200 guests through the door, over $3000 raised for the charity and we met our bar guarantee.  One of my co-hosts &#8211; John G &#8211; also had the good grace to stop the party and get everyone to sing me happy birthday &#8211; absolutely something I&#8217;ll [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tonight…</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 14:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1209</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
I turned 30 on Sunday, and to celebrate, I&#8217;ve been planning a charity event that is taking place tonight.  Drop whatever plans you have&#8230; this is going to be a fantastic party.  You can get details and buy tickets at: www.karmaparty.org
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		<title>Some Takeaways from the Convention</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 14:55:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1188</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last weekend, Nick and I sojourned down to Orlando to speak at the  &#8220;21 Convention,&#8221; an incredibly well-organized get-together in the  city that Disney built.  Besides a fun trip to Disney world with our friends Francis and David, we met some cool people, and hopefully inspired and educated a few more.

I personally had some takeaways [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ask The Social Man: Is Dating Cooperative or Competitive?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 21:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
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