<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1630119070739618475</id><updated>2024-11-05T19:00:22.319-08:00</updated><category term="addiction"/><category term="alcohol"/><category term="drugs"/><category term="recovery"/><category term="sobriety"/><title type='text'>Recovery for Life!</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1630119070739618475/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1630119070739618475/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Sure Haven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06512512164023536343</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='28' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMjQgoIFyFLeYfApnTQ-Ktv-13yNezq5JbprhO66GXE7P7hA5OpaFeNMAZWNX_0CN1tx04qac2RKF9OGZv8GPxQyY8FnCXekguj1D1Nc-NfFCBpUNsFmYcRk0ecULWAFs/s220/SureHavenLogo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>29</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1630119070739618475.post-6210723185179403123</id><published>2010-07-30T13:59:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-30T13:59:07.620-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>Lindsay Lohan headed to Rehab Orange County &lt;a href=&quot;http://ping.fm/HDl86&quot;&gt;http://ping.fm/HDl86&lt;/a&gt; from @HarveyLevinTMZ</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/feeds/6210723185179403123/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/2010/07/lindsay-lohan-headed-to-rehab-orange.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1630119070739618475/posts/default/6210723185179403123'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1630119070739618475/posts/default/6210723185179403123'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/2010/07/lindsay-lohan-headed-to-rehab-orange.html' title=''/><author><name>Sure Haven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06512512164023536343</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='28' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMjQgoIFyFLeYfApnTQ-Ktv-13yNezq5JbprhO66GXE7P7hA5OpaFeNMAZWNX_0CN1tx04qac2RKF9OGZv8GPxQyY8FnCXekguj1D1Nc-NfFCBpUNsFmYcRk0ecULWAFs/s220/SureHavenLogo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1630119070739618475.post-5983992331234719339</id><published>2010-07-30T11:33:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-30T11:33:43.475-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. - Dale Carnegie</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/feeds/5983992331234719339/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/2010/07/success-is-getting-what-you-want.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1630119070739618475/posts/default/5983992331234719339'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1630119070739618475/posts/default/5983992331234719339'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://surehaven.blogspot.com/2010/07/success-is-getting-what-you-want.html' title=''/><author><name>Sure Haven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06512512164023536343</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='28' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMjQgoIFyFLeYfApnTQ-Ktv-13yNezq5JbprhO66GXE7P7hA5OpaFeNMAZWNX_0CN1tx04qac2RKF9OGZv8GPxQyY8FnCXekguj1D1Nc-NfFCBpUNsFmYcRk0ecULWAFs/s220/SureHavenLogo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1630119070739618475.post-1649785526996958074</id><published>2010-07-19T16:30:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-19T16:30:29.470-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>I never teach my pupils; I only attempt to provide the conditions in which they can learn. - 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Common troubles include illness, death in the family, marital strain, financial problems, internal conflicts, and emotional or physical abuse.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#1&quot;&gt;1&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; These obstacles create stress that can contribute to increased alcohol and/or drug use. If sustained, this may contribute to an addiction.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#2&quot;&gt;2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; Alcohol and/or drug addiction is often a perpetual cycle among families, and this document discusses addiction’s affect on families, the benefits of recovery, and resources that can help.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#3&quot;&gt;3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;Children of parents who suffer from alcohol or drug addiction are four times more likely to develop a substance use disorder than those who weren’t raised in that environment.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#4&quot;&gt;4&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; Additionally, 1 in 4 children under 18 live in a home where alcohol misuse or alcohol addiction is hurting the family. Many thousands more live with parental drug abuse.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#5&quot;&gt;5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; To draw attention to this issue, the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.samhsa.gov/&quot;&gt;Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s &lt;/a&gt;(SAMHSA’s) &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.csat.samhsa.gov/&quot;&gt;Center for Substance Abuse Treatment&lt;/a&gt; (CSAT), within the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hhs.gov/&quot;&gt;U.S. Department of Health and Human Services&lt;/a&gt;, celebrates &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;(Recovery Month)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; every September. &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Recovery Month&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; celebrates individuals and families in long-term recovery and acknowledges those who provide recovery services. This year’s theme, &lt;strong&gt;“&lt;em&gt;Join the Voices for Recovery: Now More Than Ever!&lt;/em&gt;,”&lt;/strong&gt; emphasizes the need to reach all people who are susceptible to alcohol and/or drug use and relapse during times of stress. &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;       &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/default.aspx?hdl=H144275593&amp;amp;da=core&amp;amp;us=sitecore%5cdcoburn&amp;amp;la=en&amp;amp;so=%2fsitecore%2fsystem%2fSettings%2fHtml+Editor+Profiles%2fRich+Text+Full&amp;amp;id=%7bDAFB6459-3759-4EE6-A934-6B96BF69F033%7d&amp;amp;mo=Editor&amp;amp;sc_hidetrace=1&amp;amp;sc_hideprof=1#top&quot;&gt;Back to Top&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;h2 id=&quot;effects&quot; name=&quot;effects&quot;&gt;Effects of Substance Use Disorders on the Family and the Benefits of Recovery&lt;/h2&gt;     &lt;p&gt;The stress triggered by substance use disorders can have physical, emotional, social, and spiritual consequences on individuals and their families. Specifically, a parental substance use disorder greatly affects his or her children. Children who grow up in this environment often experience feelings of guilt, shame, anger, or isolation throughout their lives.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#6&quot;&gt;6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; Additionally, parents with a family history of addiction may have trouble establishing healthy and productive habits within their own families.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#7&quot;&gt;7&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;If highly stressful family situations persist, they can have an adverse impact on a child’s development and dangerous health consequences for the family and friends of the person with the substance use disorder.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#8&quot;&gt;8&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; This emotional stress can affect a person’s mood, appetite, and sleep cycles. In addition, it may ultimately lead family members to develop chronic anxiety, depression, or their own substance use disorder.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#9&quot;&gt;9&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; Creating communities that focus on the prevention of mental illness and substance abuse for children, youth, families, and other community members is one of SAMHSA’s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.samhsa.gov/about/strategy.aspx&quot;&gt;10 Strategic Initiatives&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;Fortunately, family therapy helps those affected by a loved one’s addiction to identify and resolve their problems. Through education and guidance, participants learn they can’t control their loved one’s addiction, but they can take accountability for their own health.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#10&quot;&gt;10&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; Family-oriented treatment programs and support groups are widely available and effective. In two recent surveys of individuals who had participated in family treatment programs: &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;strong&gt;82 percent&lt;/strong&gt; reported much improved mental health and well-being.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#11&quot;&gt;11&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;strong&gt;73 percent&lt;/strong&gt; reported a greater ability to function at home, school, or work.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#12&quot;&gt;12&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;strong&gt;68 percent&lt;/strong&gt; of women who stayed in comprehensive treatment longer than 3 months were able to remain alcohol and drug free, compared with 48 percent who left treatment within the first 3 months and did not remain alcohol and drug free.&lt;sup&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#13&quot;&gt;13&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/sup&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;     &lt;p&gt;       &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/default.aspx?hdl=H144275593&amp;amp;da=core&amp;amp;us=sitecore%5cdcoburn&amp;amp;la=en&amp;amp;so=%2fsitecore%2fsystem%2fSettings%2fHtml+Editor+Profiles%2fRich+Text+Full&amp;amp;id=%7bDAFB6459-3759-4EE6-A934-6B96BF69F033%7d&amp;amp;mo=Editor&amp;amp;sc_hidetrace=1&amp;amp;sc_hideprof=1#top&quot;&gt;Back to Top&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;h2 id=&quot;how&quot; name=&quot;how&quot;&gt;How to Get Help for Yourself, Your Family, and Others&lt;/h2&gt;     &lt;p&gt;A variety of options are available to help facilitate recovery. An abundant amount of information and resources exists on the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Recovery Month&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Web site at &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.recoverymonth.gov&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, including “The Social Services System: Supporting Treatment and Recovery for Individuals and Families” &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Resources-Catalog/2009/Webcast/The-Social-Services-System-Supporting-Treatment-and-Recovery-for-Individuals-and-Families.aspx&quot;&gt;television &lt;/a&gt;and &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Resources-Catalog/2009/Radio-Cast/The-Social-Services-System-Supporting-Treatment-and-Recovery-for-Individuals-and-Families.aspx&quot;&gt;radio &lt;/a&gt;program&lt;em&gt;.&lt;/em&gt; This program examines ways in which social services effectively deliver assistance to those in need, including children and families with substance use disorders. &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;Family members and friends can find supplementary treatment and recovery information through the following resources: &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;strong&gt;SAMHSA’s National Helpline&lt;/strong&gt; – Accessed by calling &lt;strong&gt;1-800-662-HELP&lt;/strong&gt;, or 1-800-487-4889 (TDD), the Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential information and treatment referrals in English and Spanish. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.samhsa.gov/treatment&quot;&gt;           &lt;strong&gt;SAMHSA’s “Find Substance Abuse and Mental Health Treatment” Web site&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;– This Web site contains resources about mental health, substance abuse, and treatment. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/&quot;&gt;           &lt;strong&gt;Al-Anon/Alateen Family Groups&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;– This Web site provides support groups for families and friends of people with alcohol problems. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.nar-anon.org/&quot;&gt;           &lt;strong&gt;Nar-Anon&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;– This group provides a community for family members to share experiences related to substance use disorders. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;         &lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.nacoa.org/&quot;&gt;           &lt;strong&gt;National Association for Children of Alcoholics&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;– This organization provides information and educational materials for children and families of people with alcohol or drug problems, as well as for treatment professionals. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;     &lt;p&gt;       &lt;strong&gt;         &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families/Long-Version.aspx&quot;&gt;           &lt;strong&gt;Click here for a more in-depth version of this guide for families.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;       &lt;strong&gt;Information about treatment options and special services in your area can be found by calling 1-800-662-HELP or 1-800-487-4889 (TDD), as well as at&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.samhsa.gov/treatment&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;http://www.samhsa.gov/&lt;wbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;treatment&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;       &lt;strong&gt;Inclusion of Web sites and other resources mentioned in this document and on the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.recoverymonth.gov/&quot;&gt;&lt;em&gt;Recovery Month&lt;/em&gt; Web site &lt;/a&gt;does not constitute official endorsement by the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hhs.gov/&quot;&gt;U.S. Department of Health and Human Services &lt;/a&gt;or the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.samhsa.gov/&quot;&gt;Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;       &lt;a href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Recovery-Month-Kit/Targeted-Outreach/Families.aspx#top&quot;&gt;Back to top&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;hr /&gt;     &lt;a name=&quot;sources&quot;&gt;     &lt;/a&gt;     &lt;h4&gt;Sources&lt;/h4&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;    &lt;ol class=&quot;sources&quot;&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;1&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;Family Therapy: Healing Family Conflicts. &lt;/cite&gt;Mayo Clinic Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/family-therapy/MY00814&quot;&gt;http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/family-therapy/MY00814&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Accessed September 11, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;2&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;Problems Arising From Drug Abuse.&lt;/cite&gt; eHow.com Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.ehow.com/about_5381571_problems-arising-drug-abuse.html&quot;&gt;http://www.ehow.com/about_5381571_problems-arising-drug-abuse.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; . Accessed December 16, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;3&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;Addiction and Family Treatment Programs.&lt;/cite&gt; ProjectKnow Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.projectknow.com/addiction-recovery/addiction-and-family-treatment-programs.html&quot;&gt;http://www.projectknow.com/addiction-recovery/addiction-and-family-treatment-programs.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Accessed September 14, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;4&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;         &lt;/cite&gt;Dayton, Tian, MA, PhD, TEP. The Set Up: Living With Addiction. The National Association for Children of Alcoholics Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.nacoa.net/pdfs/The%20Set%20Up%20for%20Social%20Work%20Curriculum.pdf&quot;&gt;http://www.nacoa.net/pdfs/The%20Set%20Up%20for%20Social%20Work%20Curriculum.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Accessed September 10, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;5&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;One in Four Children Exposed to Family Alcohol Abuse or Alcoholism. &lt;/cite&gt;U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA), Press Release, 2008. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;6&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;Facts on Tap: Prevention and Intervention Program for High School and College Students. &lt;/cite&gt;Phoenix House Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.factsontap.org/factsontap/family_substance_abuse/growing_up.htm&quot;&gt;http://www.factsontap.org/factsontap/family_substance_abuse/growing_up.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Accessed September 9, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;7&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;         &lt;/cite&gt;Dayton, Tian, M.A., Ph. D, TEP. The Set Up: Living With Addiction. The National Association for Children of Alcoholics Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.nacoa.net/pdfs/The%20Set%20Up%20for%20Social%20Work%20Curriculum.pdf&quot;&gt;http://www.nacoa.net/pdfs/The%20Set%20Up%20for%20Social%20Work%20Curriculum.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Accessed September 10, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;8&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;         &lt;/cite&gt;Ibid. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;9&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;         &lt;/cite&gt;Ibid. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;10&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;Parent Program–Addiction Recovery is Stronger When Family Members are Involved. &lt;/cite&gt;Hazelden Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.hazelden.org/web/public/parents.page&quot;&gt;http://www.hazelden.org/web/public/parents.page&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Accessed August 23, 2009. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li id=&quot;11&quot;&gt;         &lt;cite&gt;Member Survey Results.&lt;/cite&gt; Al-Anon Family Groups Web site: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://recoverymonth.gov/Disclaimer.aspx?url=http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/pdf/AlAnonProfessionals.pdf&quot;&gt;http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/pdf/AlAnonProfessionals.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. 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