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FR-E-E Rejection Report

By NightVision

This is AWESOME.

My friend Rich La Ruina 'Gambler' just put together an fr-e-e report about how to game girls without triggering their automatic rejection mechanism.

http://www.seductiontuition.com/stealthattraction

In other words, how to go *every step of the way* without having to risk her blowing you out.

http://www.seductiontuition.com/stealthattraction

Rich regularly pulls models from London's top nightclubs - his facebook photos are insane and the stories he's told me are even better.

I'm shocked he's even sharing this stuff publicly but it's now YOURS (and, well, mine).

Pretty cool, huh? This is "ninja" level stuff. Get up on it.

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NightVision

Everyone Loves Everyone

By Brad P

It's easy for new dudes to get caught up in cocky/funny and negs/teasing and all that. It's hard to know what to counter-balance it with. So, if you're new you should try this. And for advanced guys, this vibe might be something you're already doing; you just need to understand why it works so you can calibrate it properly.

I call this vibe "Everyone loves EVERYONE!" and women get really into it.

What is it?

It's basically a mixture of friendliness, building commonalities, and over-exaggerating connections with people.

Step 1 - Agree with something she says. Get excited about how much you agree.

"You love Canada? Oh my god I fucking love Canada so much!!!" (Go into a long story about Canada.)

Anticipate whether she will love or hate something, based on her character, and then agree with it instantly.

"Atlantic city? I hate it. You hate it too? Yeah, it sucks!! So scummy! Dirty! Yucky! Never going back again..." (Lead into a long story about AC.)

Step 2 - Play up commonalities, even if it's a reach.

"Wait, you're from Nebraska? My Mom used to tell me bedtime stories about Nebraska. She said the sky in Nebraska was made of gumdrops and magical bits of candy corn. I've always wanted to go there."

If it flops, you play it off as ironic. "Ha-ha, just kidding. My mom's never even heard of Nebraska."

Play up real commonalities too. "You have a dog? What is its name? I used to have this dog Chico, he'd jump through a hoola hoop and do all these cool tricks. You're a dog person? Me too!"

Play up commonalities that everyone has (these are the easiest).

"You like movies? Me too! What kind? Oh yeah I love those! I saw it on TBS."

Step 3 - Talk about all the people you know and how you love them all.

"I've only been coming here for 2 weeks, but I feel like I know everyone here and they are like my old friends. You ever get that feeling?"

"Everyone is so nice in Los Angeles. I've only been here 2 months, and people are asking me to party every night. Man, it's the most party-happy town I've ever been to in my life."

Step 4 - Tell stories.

Start stories with the following phrases:

"When I was little..."
"My Mom used to tell me..."
"When I was in high school..."

She says she has a boyfriend, you say "Oh sweet, tell me all about it baby" while physically escalating.

She says "I'm not having sex with you" you say "That's a great idea, 'cause then I can finally have a female friend. I've always wanted a purely plutonic friend" while physically escalating and sending mixed signals.

Yeah I know a lot of this stuff sounds like ass-kissing, but it's a good mix with some of the harder game tactics. And you can use it on the peer group if you get good at it.

Why is this appealing?

Women are always looking for more and more friends, more and more orbiters, more and more social resources. It seems their hunger for this never subsides. It's never enough. That's why they keep building to 123865 friends on MySpace. Their instinct tells them that if you can build your social resources, you will always have a backup plan if something goes wrong. You will always be able to regain social value, or get a new guy, or provide for children, or get help taking care of children, or get protection from danger... the list goes on and on.

Some important motivators of female behavior are:

Fear of abandonment - this affects women's decision making processes all the time. Even little things in daily life are affected by this.

Preservation of relationships - women try to preserve relationships all the time, even when it seems pointless to men. That's why a woman says "we can stay friends" after a breakup and "let's just be friends" when she's discussing some guy who only wants to sleep with her. They just can't let it go. They want to preserve every relationship. They want to always have the potential for some social advantage... a backup plan... someone to help her... someone to say good things about her and build her overall popularity.

So when you mix all that together, a lot of women go ga-ga for this kind of a vibe. It makes them feel like everyone loves everyone when you're around. If you watch closely how women interact with their female friends, they're always trying to create this utopia of everyone loving everyone. The utopia actually occurs for brief moments on Oprah and The View from time to time.

Throw the occasional hard-game tactic in. Play some hard to get. Ignore her for a while. Then come back to this. Throw sexual game in too. And always keep the physical escalation going.

Brad P

Check out Adventures of Brad P , The Shocker , Planning The Perfect Date and Brad's The Fashion Bible

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I've read the book. It's killer. And I've seen a ton of guys get
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Anyway - this is pretty cool!

NightVision

P.S. Here's the link again:

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..oh yeah, there are limited copies i think, so pick yours up ASAP!

PUA Super Conference

By NightVision

Q&A with Savoy on the Love Systems Super Conference

Nick Savoy is President and Program Leader of Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp). We did a Q&A with the author of Magic Bullets to find out what the upcoming Super Conference is about.

Q: What is the Love Systems Super Conference?

The Love Systems Super Conference is the big annual event for people learning, teaching, or studying how to attract, date, and seduce beautiful women. It's where the best of the best dating coaches come to share ideas, network, and of course to present their newest and best breakthroughs. It is three days filled with seminars, live exercises, and infield (going out to meet women with dating coaches instructing you).

It started as the Mystery Method Super Conference back in 2005 but renamed to Love Systems Super Conference in 2007. Past speakers have included:
- Mystery (aka Erik Von Markovik, of VH1 The Pickup Artist)
- Style (aka Neil Strauss, author of The Game)
- Savoy (author of Magic Bullets)
- Cajun (winner on Keys to the VIP)
- Braddock (appeared on Tyra Banks)
- The Don (appeared on Dr Phil)
- Sinn (Sinns of Attraction)
- Brad P (Brad P Presents)
- Carlos Xuma (Alpha Lifestyle)
- Daniel Johnson (Pickup 101)
- And more….

All Love Systems instructors will be flying in to be at the [[Super Conference]]. There will also be other guest speakers and so far Brad P, Dr Paul, and David Wygant have confirmed to come. We have a couple more in the works with a surprise guest lined up.

There are two packages: Silver and Gold. The Silver level attendees will be able to attend all the live exercises and seminars during the Super Conference. The Gold level attendees will also be able to do live exercises and seminars, but will also go out two nights with infield coaching by our instructors. The price for Silver is $947 and Gold is $3,797.

Here’s a video of the Love Systems Super Conference of last year:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9kkpNCUwzY

Q: When and where is the Super Conference taking place?

It will take place in Las Vegas, NV, USA at the Hard Rock Hotel. The exact date is October 9-11 (three days). We chose Vegas because it’s affordable for people come to Vegas and there are plenty of beautiful women from all across the globe partying it up.

Q: What sessions can we expect at the Super Conference?

What’s great about the Super Conference is that we will have two rooms booked. There will be two sessions running at the same time in the seminar and breakout room.

The breakout room will all be interactive. That’s where people will be able to talk to instructors and work with them on a particular part of their game. These live exercises include:
• Approaching and Transitioning – Get your approaching skills down!
• Teasing and Bantering – How to think on your feet and build attraction FAST!
• Physical Escalation – Touching gets results and prevents you getting in the friendzone!
• Body Language – Project confidence with your walk, posture, and gestures!
• Frame Control – Steer interactions the way you want it to go!

The seminar room is where the instructors and guest speakers will reveal their latest breakthroughs, give lectures, and talk about specific topics on dating. Past subjects have included:
• Social Circle Mastery
• Advanced Attraction
• Deep Comfort
• Inner Game
• Relationship Management and Multiple Relationships
• Callback Humor
• Day Game
• Strippers and Hired Guns
• And lots more…

You decide what you want to do because there are always two sessions running at the same time. If you want to work with an instructor, you can go to the breakout room. If you want to listen to a lecture on a specific topic, the seminar room is where you want to be. You can tailor the whole weekend to your own level of game. If you’re new to the game I would suggest you mix it up with breakout and seminar sessions.

Q: Do you need to have taken one of your bootcamps or seminars before you go can go the Super Conference?

It is true that the Super Conference will be covering a lot of advanced techniques and never before revealed secrets. However, you do not have to have taken a bootcamp or seminar of ours to go to the Super Conference. Even if you are completely new, if you take the Gold level (which includes infield) you will get the same experience as a normal bootcamp. The added bonus is that you will work with more instructors than a normal bootcamp, so you will get to see a lot of different styles of game and get feedback from a lot of different instructors.

One day before the start of the Super Conference we have set up an optional introductory program for new students. The Head Start seminar is about getting the foundations of solid game right. It will allow you to walk into the Super-Conference confident that you fully know and understand the underpinnings behind the game and to enable you to get the most out of the advanced theories that will be put forth throughout the weekend.

Q: Will there be a DVD of the Super Conference?

Short answer: no.
When we release our latest breakthroughs, we want to keep it to the people who will be at the Super Conference. Normally we release sensitive information only on the Lounge, a private forum for people who have done training with Love Systems, but we will be discussing all new theories, routines, and techniques in person at the Super Conference. That’s why we have people sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) to prevent our secrets and breakthroughs from leaking to the public.

Q: It’s too expensive for me. Anything I can do to still make it to the Super Conference?

We understand that in this tough economy money can be tight. We normally don’t offer payment plans but we want to help men out as much as we can so we are making an exception for this Super Conference.
If you can’t afford the Gold level ticket, you might want to consider the Silver level ticket. You can attend and participate in all seminars and live exercises, and are only restricted from the night-time bar and club live training.

Click Here if you want to find out more on the Love Systems Super Conference

Here are some reviews of students on the past Love Systems Super Conferences.

Sinn - One of my favorite things about Super Conferences is being around all of the instructors. Every one of them is a really cool guy. Can't wait till next year!

Psilite - I had a lot of fun and thought this whole Super Conference was genius! Especially the way the rooms were set up. There was A LOT of information that was gold in the entire Super Conference! Much of it helped me a lot when I went out that same day. I wish I had a gold or higher ticker to go out with the instructors.

J The Ripper - My brain is still on overload as I’m trying to sort out all the knowledge that was handed down by the Love Systems instructors. They had a really cool format where you could basically choose your own schedule. The upstairs auditorium was dedicated to seminars, which was one speaker after another. Each speaker would discuss a different topic (ie Approach Anxiety. Routines, Day Game, Qualification, 10 Min. lays, Female Psychology, etc...) The side room and downstairs room were dedicated to group exercises, where the instructors would go over a certain aspect of game, and then coach you on it and give you instant feedback (teasing and bantering, storytelling, frame control, etc). I had a great time and recommend everyone check it out next year.

Capo - What can I say? I mean... the Super Conference offered way more than I thought, I mean, it was way better than I had anticipated, even having read all of what was posted on the site. I thought it was going to be a really fun and educational weekend... it turned out to be one of the funnest and coolest (educational as well) weekends I've ever had, it was really awesome. Every single instructor that took the stage or got to be in charge of the workout room was very knowledgeable and they all took as much time as needed to answer all the questions they were being asked. The Super Conference was awesome, I met a lot of really cool guys and got to hang out with some of the best instructors in the world, what more can I ask for?

SirSlick - Whatever you want, LS has instructors that are experts on different areas and you can just walk up to them and ask them whatever you need to know. I never had the idea that the instructors "were better" than the attendees. My impression of them was they were genuine in helping people and were just like "us". I'd highly suggest for everyone to get a SC BC, it's worth the money. I'm college student and tight on money, but the investment was totally worth it. It totally opened my reality on what I can do now and in the future. The BC definitely cut my learning curve by several months up to maybe a year, because it eliminated two sticking points and now I know what weaknesses I have in my game. With that I also have exercises and notes on how to improve my success with women.

Goodrake - While it's great to hear someone talk about it, seeing the instructors do it, answer questions, and then watch and evaluate as the students did it was a great learning process. Almost without exception each of the presenters showed both a real depth of knowledge and experience about the subject matter, and a genuine passion for sharing this with the attendees and seeing it benefit them. If you come to one of these or a bootcamp, be sure to be prepared to take a lot of notes, in a quick and organized fashion. When the instructors are in their groove, the information is flowing. If knowledge is water, think of it as trying to drink from a fire hose. Even though I've been studying and applying this stuff for about a year, there's still plenty of new insights to be gained from attending, as well as retouching on foundational stuff, and the occasional "light bulb over head" moment, when the clouds part and you see something you didn't see before. How much is a "breakthrough" worth to you?

Monk - As I began talking to other attendees, I realized the lengths community members were willing to go to to attend this event. I met guys from all over CA, from the east coast, and instructors from London, Sweden, Paris, Thailand and other exotic locales. Everyone. Thank you. My life is different. Fears and doubts I've had since adolescence are gone, perhaps forever.

Guythano - I really had quite a bit of fun, but more importantly conquered some sticking points. It all just suddenly clicked. A week after I returned, it just started raining women. I would just like to thank everyone again for all their efforts to make the superconference possible and if you have the chance to go, I highly recommend that you do!

Xander - Let me just say that Love Systems truly is dating science. It’s an accurate term. It’s the most cutting edge, advanced stuff around and it’s constantly being refined by great tactical seducers. Overall a life-changing weekend and a total bargain.

Jiggawha - I was so surprised at everyone's high levels of positive energy, and when I heard the instructors speak, I was instantly blown away. Every word that they spoke struck me with an "AHA!" moment, and shot my motivation up the roof. They were so down to earth that I felt I had a chance of becoming like them. I had already gotten my money's worth. I usually never talk to my parents deeper than an informational level, but I called my mom Monday night, and we had a deep conversation for half an hour about my life and about her's. It literally almost brought me to tears when I got off the phone with her; also making me realize how much I've changed over this past weekend. She told me how much she enjoyed the conversation, and I agreed. A conversation beyond an informational level hasn't happened in over 5-10 years. Before that, I had dinner with a good friend of mine and we also had a really deep conversation about everything. He commented on how very different I am now, after coming out of this conference. All the attendees and instructors have changed my life and my eyes have been opened to new perspectives once more. Coming into the conference, I couldn't even open a set properly, but after that first failed set, the learning has never stopped. Every single one of you has had an impact on me. Life has meaning again. Thank you so much.

Cleanface - The conference this year was nothing short of amazing! What an awesome event!

Zyder - The Love Systems Super Conference in Vegas was a really exceptional experience. Considering that I only first started reading Magic Bullets on my flight over from Paris then to say I was a newbie to all this material would be a bit of an understatement! The seminars covered pretty much every aspect of gaming women. Three days of seminars with the instructors often around and between sessions to answer your questions was such a great deal. I was genuinely shocked by how articulate and knowledgeable the instructors were.

Tenorio - I walked away from EVERY presentation having learned something -- and that's saying a lot, since I've read everything. Going out both nights in Gold Level groups...well, I don't know what to say. There's no better way to put theoretical lessons into action than through practice, and Gold Level was a perfect way to do this. I left the weekend with some sticking points nailed and a concrete gameplan for my evolution going forward. There's not much more I could ask for.

SSnake - There was lots material that I had never heard or read and getting it straight from the horses mouth made all the difference. Of course, there is already more good material on-line, in books, and on CD then you could ingest in a life-time. I went to actually hang out with these instructors and network with other students. You can’t get that from media.

If you want to attend the biggest dating conference, you better sign up NOW. There are only a finite number of seats available and seats will be selling out soon. To find out more information on the Love Systems Super Conference, click here.

Empathetic Listening

By Brad P

I'd like to elaborate on what to do besides teasing in an interaction.

Here's the deal - the seduction community teaches you to tease so you don't come off as a nice guy and a doormat. Why? Because that's how most of us start out. But not everyone. Maybe you're not a nice guy doormat. That's why this stuff doesn't work for you as well.

The real truth is that different kinds of women require different kinds of techniques. Some women I can get simply by being a cocky scumbag. With others I can go direct, others just natural convo and comfort building. It's all about recognizing what kind of a woman you're dealing with.

As someone who is just beginning your studies, you haven't developed a set of different skills you can apply to different women, so you're just trying the one that we all learn first - teasing.

Let me give you something else to try that may work in some situations: Empathetic Listening. This is something that most people are encouraged to build as part of the passive social skill set. I know it sounds very 'Dr. Phil,' but it's a deeper concept than you might think.

Sometimes women go into stories, and as a PUA, you look for something to misinterpret, or tease about. But you haven't considered the reason why they go into stories.

Men tell stories to exchange information, or for a laugh. Women tell stories for a different reason. When one tells a story to her girlfriends, she is going on an emotional journey through that same event all over again. She relives the event in order to recontextualize the feelings that happened during the event. She needs to put those feelings into a new place in her brain where they won't cause her a disturbance. Storytelling is emotional housekeeping.

Sometimes, when women listen to each other, they don't offer advice, or wait for the punch line; they just help each other along on the emotional journey. They empathize. Sometimes they just say 'uh huh.' Sometimes they repeat the same thought back in slightly different words, sometimes the exact same words. All of these are examples of empathetic listening. Phrasing stuff back makes the person speaking feel like she is understood, like someone is listening. In PUA language, it's giving that person validation. Women go on emotional journeys all day long, and sometimes a little validation will help your cause. It's not ass-kissing; you must understand the difference.

If you can be good at empathetic listening, it's a good counter-balance to being good at teasing. It shows that you have a multi-dimensional personality. That's the kind of guy a woman wants to sleep with on the first night. So, be cool and confident sometimes, and understanding at other times. It cannot be faked.

Brad P

Check out Adventures of Brad P , The Shocker , Planning The Perfect Date and Brad's The Fashion Bible .

Supermodels Actresses Pornstars

By Brad P

I can tell you a bit about getting the mid-level models/actresses/dancers/porno girls.

By mid-level I mean girls who are in a magazine or a show here and there but they're not full time professionals, and they're not famous. Well, they often try to pretend like they are!

These mid-level girls are not that hard to find in NY and LA. So for starters, make sure you're in a town that has these girls. Once you're there, you have to make sure you have a well-developed identity or game won't help you all that much. You have to be the guy these girls can picture themselves hooking up with. I know a ton of these girls. They hang out with rich guys sometimes, but if you're cooler they sell the rich dude out in a second. They make fun of those guys behind their backs. It's pretty funny.

If you have done well with social networking and your identity, you can meet these girls without teasing that much and they will respond. Of course you can't come off as needy, but there are situations where you will have so much social proof that models will be super nice to you and you can be nice back. Believe it or not, there are model/actress type girls who are really nice people. I was hanging in a place the other day where this model chick kept buying me drinks and offering me cab money just 'cause I was friends with her friends. These girls love certain kinds of guys - dirty musicians, bad ass guys, alpha types, cultured educated guys who know about cutting edge fashion/music/etc. "Scene-ster" type guys. Okay, so that's not really new information, right? But, I think a lot of people tend to disregard the effort that needs to go into becoming one of those guys. They'd rather just work on the routines and stuff. Your identity is an important part of your game.

As for some of the technical stuff:

If they are slightly famous, never admit you know who they are. For example, one of my students has gone on a few dates with a famous female newscaster. I told him to just kind of skip over the whole topic of her job, and that is working well. He's not advanced enough yet to get her in the sack quickly I don't think, but ignoring the element of fame will keep you on an equal level of social value, and keep you in the game so you can improve.
Treat her like any other girl. This is easier said than done. The hard part is projecting comfort. You must become accustomed to hanging out with super hot girls. Then you will always project comfort.
I know this may sound lame, but it helps to be in a job or community where these girls are plentiful. For example, lots of photographers bang models. As part of their job, they have to boss hot chicks around all day. This is a great start. I used to have a job where I was around actresses all the time. It was cool because they automatically accept you since you're in their world... but it also resulted in me being accepted by actress types I just met 'cause they could tell there was a reason I was so comfortable with them. The reason was that I was so used to them and most men are not.
David D. says make fun of the model thing, like "ooh cool, do you have really sexy toes? Are you like a toe model?" I like this. It's worked well for me.
Have specific knowledge of your target girls. For example, most ballet dancers are heavy smokers, they do coke, and they hang out with gay guys. They are bad-ass chicks who revel in the dichotomy of presenting a good girl ballerina image to the outside world, then they like to be really bad behind closed doors- do drugs, puke up their dinner, then get roughed up in the sack. Knowing stuff like that helps you relate to these girls in a way that is attractive. For me, I like ballet dancers more than models and actresses so I looked into it. I find actresses to be high maintenance and attention-needy. Models are too skinny for me and they have poor muscle tone sometimes from the eating disorders. But, to each his own. Let me repeat the most important point here: find out about your target girls!

For more great tips on interacting with the hottest women, check out our Interview Series volume on "9 And 10 Game" with Braddock and Mr. M.

Brad P

Be A Risk Taker

By Tenmagnet

As you guys probably know, we talk a lot here about three "Attraction Switches," which are the core traits that women find attractive in men. The three switches are:

    1. Preselected by women
    2. Leader of men
    3. Protector of loved ones

I've been thinking about this for a while, and I think we should consider adding a fourth attraction switch: Successful Risk-Taker.

Why the successful risk-taker? Think about it. What is the most unattractive title that a woman can pin on a man? It's loser. Being a loser is the most unattractive thing that a guy can be. Dumb, player, weird, badly-dressed, dorky: all these are bad enough, but loser is the king of the insults when coming from a woman.

In a game of chance, the odds of success depend simply on what game you're playing, and your strategy. There are no world-champion blackjack players, because, aside from counting cards, there's no strategy you can use to win. But in real life, there's an extra factor: you. Some people, when they take a 1 in 10 risk, win every time. Some people, when they take a 50/50 risk, tend to fail a lot. The first group of people are winners, and the latter are losers. Which category of person you fall into says a lot about your character and ability to succeed in the world. You can also tell which kind of person a man is by the risks he takes.

For example, there's a common statistic out there that says two-thirds of all small businesses fail within the first two years. From that statistic, you might reasonably assume that starting a small business isn't really a smart idea. You might read that statistic and think "I'm better off here in the office, working for the man," but that's loser thinking. That two-thirds statistic is only relevant if you're just as smart, competent, and hard-working as the average small business owner. If you're brilliant, talented, and you have a good small business idea, your chance of failure might very well be zero.

The same applies to sports. The chance of a high school basketball player making the NBA is probably 1 in 1,000... unless your name is Michael Jordan, in which case it's 100%. So when you say to yourself "going for that goal is a big risk," think to yourself - is it really a big risk? For you?

And this is why the willingness to take risks is attractive to women. People who are willing to take risks do so because they are winners, and people who are afraid to take risks don't because they are losers. By taking risks, you are demonstrating to a woman that you are a winner... (well, either that or really stupid, but once you show you're not stupid, you look like a winner), and when you chicken out - you're a loser.

Let me give you guys some real-life examples of simple risk-taking and what it says about you.

You won't eat Indian food - You're a wimp and will barf.
You think Mexico is too dangerous to visit - You're a chump and people like to rob you.
You would never play the stock market - You're not smart enough to win.
You're cheap (even if you're rich) - Deep down inside you fear losing your money.
You perform Jackass-like stunts - You're confident enough in your physical and mental prowess to do things that would otherwise be considered stupid.
You're trying to be a rock star - You're confident enough in your musical abilities that you're willing to risk it all.
You drive too fast - You're confident enough in your abilities that you're willing to bank on it.
You have a bad habit of being loud and abrasive in bad neighborhoods and seedy bars - you're confident that if things go down, you could handle yourself.
You have a healthy contempt for rules and punishments - You're smart enough not to get busted, and tough enough to risk the consequences.

Even risks that might otherwise be considered "stupid" can often make you look cool. If I were to do a bunch of Jackass-style stunts, I would probably hurt myself pretty bad, and for me, they would be stupid. But if you're tougher than the average guy and if you have the fortitude, then one of those stunts might be a perfectly acceptable risk. They only look dangerous to wimps.

So what do you do now that I've enlightened you with this information? First, you have to go out there and take risks, and live a risk-taking life. That might mean a few failures here or there, but if you keep at it, you'll become a winner. Second, when you're talking to women, you want to convey this information. Talk (in comfort) about how you did something that might seem foolish or rash, and how it worked out. Finally, just remember guys... it's successful risk taker, not stupid risk taker. I don't want you guys poking your eyes out and coming back to yell at me!

For more information, check out Chapter 7: Attraction in Magic Bullets .

Tenmagnet

Tenmagnet is a training instructor for Love Systems . Check out their flagship material Magic Bullets and the Routines Manual .

Buying Drinks

By Tenmagnet

A lot of guys ask me the question "is it okay for me to buy her a drink?" It's actually a controversial subject among guys who teach others how to meet women. Some people will say "never," because it makes you look supplicant, or needy, while others say you should always do it.

Personally, I don't think it's a big deal.

You certainly don't want to give the impression that you are bribing a woman into talking to you. That's why I generally advise that you don't open a conversation with "can I buy you a drink?" However, at a certain place in an interaction, it's totally appropriate to do this.

Usually, when I buy a woman a drink, it's 5-10 minutes into the conversation. At this point, we're moving past small talk and silly jokes and entering the "getting to know you" kind of conversation. When she says something funny, or interesting, trying to impress you a bit, that is the time to buy a drink for a woman. By waiting until the right moment, you make her feel as though she has earned your interest (buying a drink shows interest, obviously) by impressing you.

I also don't just say "what do you want?" and walk off. Buying a drink is a good opportunity to go for a little walk around the bar, and perhaps speak to her in a more private situation. If she's surrounded by friends (and most beautiful women are), a walk to the bar is the easiest and most natural way to get her away from them so you can speak with her one-on-one. Getting a woman one-on-one is a very important step in building the kind of deep attraction that you need in order to meet up with her again.

One disclaimer though - if she's already drunk, don't buy her another drink. Not only is it morally wrong to ply women with alcohol, but it's much more likely to ruin your interaction with a woman than make it better. There's nothing worse than meeting a really sweet woman at 10PM, only to find out at 1AM she's a rambling, annoying drunk. Sober women are more fun, more interesting and much more likely to answer the phone when you call (or come home with you, for that matter).

Tenmagnet

Tenmagnet is a training instructor for Love Systems . Check out their flagship material Magic Bullets and the Routines Manual .

Tyra Banks and LoveSystems

By NightVision

Did you see the two dating coaches that appeared on the Tyra Banks show?

Nick Savoy and Nick Braddock, both dating coaches for Love Systems , appeared on the Tyra Banks show. In case you have missed it, here's a video of the show:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y02bMMOIcFU

The name of the episode was "The Secret Code of Men" where the Bro Code was discussed. This was actually copied from the show How I Met Your Mother where Barney Stinson (played by Neil Patrick Harris) is one the best pickup artists. But Love Systems was there to show how men can learn to pickup women like Barney does.

Super model Tyra Banks critiques the approach of Love Systems to meet and attract women. These are field tested techniques and routines that can be found in Magic Bullets and the Routines Manual . In the video you will see Savoy and Braddock take an average Joe from zero to hero. He learns some Love Systems techniques and ends up getting phone numbers from girls.

Tyra was now convinced of the power of Love Systems.

Check out the video if you want to learn more about Love Systems . If you want to learn the lines, routines, and techniques, you should grab a copy of the Routines Manual .

NightVision

Phone Conversations

By Tenmagnet

I get the impression that a lot of guys out there are doing decently well at getting phone numbers and building attraction, but are getting a lot of flaking after acquiring the phone number. This challenge is to help you guys improve your phone game so that you're able to turn your phone numbers into dates. Your goal is to spend the maximum amount of time talking to women on the phone. First, let's talk some phone game theory. Men and women view the telephone very differently. Men view the phone as a tool that allows us to schedule our lives and arrange meet ups with our friends. For a woman, talking on the phone is almost as good as meeting up with a friend. For example, when two guys chat on the phone, the conversation usually goes something like this:

"Hey Dave, what's up tonight?"
"I'm going to Skybar at 9. Wanna come?"
"Yeah, totally.... Hey, I'll see you there, man!"
*click*

Now, I ask you guys this: have you ever heard a woman talk on the phone like that? No! A woman would think that a conversation like the one above is weird and unnatural, and it's exactly the way that a lot of guys come off when we call a woman and immediately change the subject to meeting up. Women want to chat on the phone, even if it's silly small talk. When we understand this, we can change our phone habits so they make women enjoy our calls, and feel comfortable and natural meeting up with us. So, here are some rules for a little phone game exercise. Please don't see these rules as hard and fast laws that need to be followed all the time, but techniques designed to improve your natural phone game.

Contact women the next day or the same day that you get their number.
For the first call, don't even mention a meet up (unless you timebridged for that day). Just vibe and build comfort. [For more on time-bridging, check out Interview Series CD Vol. 4: Timebridging and Dates with Future and Ajax]
For subsequent calls, don't mention the meet up until you have chatted for at least five minutes.
If you get her voicemail the first time, leave a message.
If the woman you're calling is busy, at work, or being distracted, just say "hey, I'll call you back when you're not distracted." If she tries to get you to stay on, then stay (unless the distraction is really annoying).
If you have a phone number, call it every two days, even if you keep getting the answering machine. Don't give up until you have called at least five times.
If a woman is picking up the phone, continue to call her every two days, or more (especially if she is investing in you by calling back). Do this with all of the phone numbers you have!
Don't be afraid to make small talk. If you have the phone number, you are in Comfort! You can get away with mellow chit-chatty conversation. Talk about any topic you want, just try and make it interesting!
Try and get into deeper conversation. “What were you like in high school?” “Tell me about your family.” Etc...
Call your female friends and women who have "let's just be friends"-ed you and talk to them!

The goal of this is to make you into one of those people who is constantly talking on the phone, getting phone calls and socializing over the phone. You want to get calls back while you are on dates, and constantly interacting with a wide group of friends. You'll be amazed at how this changes your social dynamic. Good luck, guys!

For more information on Phone Game, you can check out Interview Series CD Vol. 10: Phone Game with Savoy and Sinn , or Chapter 22: Phone Game in Magic Bullets .

Tenmagnet