If you’ve been in the game for a while, you’ve probably already heard of Richard La Ruina aka Gambler, one of the top pick up artists in the world and the founder of PUA Training, the premier pickup company in the UK.

Today he is releasing his latest book about pickup for the general audience called The Natural: How To Effortlessly Attract The Women You Want. This isn’t just another ebook that are dime-a-dozen in the pickup world, but an actual hardcover book that you can get through Amazon.

At over 200-pages, this is a detailed step-by-step method detailing how to become attractive to women without having to rely on cheesy routines and pick up lines. It’s about how to create an attractive personality and lifestyle that will effortlessly get you women while being yourself.

If that sounds like something you’re interested in, check out the book on Amazon.com. The great thing about the book is that it’s only $16 bucks, so it’s not going to cost you and arm and leg like a lot of other pickup books out there.

Also, in order to help promote the launch of his new book, Richard is providing a set of special limited time bonuses for anyone who purchases his book through Amazon. These include a ticket to one of his live seminars and access to exclusive videos that demonstrate a lot of the concepts taught in the books.

The bonuses regularly cost several hundred dollars, so the bonuses alone make the book worth buying. To claim the bonuses, all you have to do is go to http://www.puatraining.com/naturalbonus/ and type in your Amazon.com order number.

So what are you waiting for? For the price of an expensive dinner, you’ll be getting a 200+ page pickup manual and a slew of bonuses. Buy the book now on Amazon.com.

Richard La Ruina Releases “The Natural” is a post from PUA Lingo, a glossary of PUA and Pick Up Artist terminology.

Quick Definition: A false representation of replication/survival value by a girl to seduce a man for his value, which is usually much higher.

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Honey traps exist in all forms. From the video girls to models who date athletes, a girl can trade in her “model” status for the equivalent or higher social status from a man. In situations where there is deception involved, the woman is often perceived as much higher value (replication) than she actually these. Honey traps include and are not limited by:

Asian girls makeup

The ugly Asian girl turned kawaii cute is a master of the makeup arts.

Chubbie cute angled camera blondes AKA Fattie Tuna

Chubbie blondes are great at hiding their full figures in online profiles. Fat Girl Overhead Photo (FGOP)

Cute?...

Definitely NOT cute...

Chubettes with cute faces

Lots of chubettes learn to curtail cute facial features as a balance for their weight.

Usage:

Don’t let Ray Ray lay the honey trap on you!

Related Terms: Avatar, Identity, Congruence, S&R Value, Social Value, Girl Code, FGOP, Secret Society, AI, Interest, IOI, IOD, UG, FUG

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Quick Definition: A representation, usually visual, of the external/public form of a person or brand entity.

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Image has become the icon of marketing success in the capitalistic world we find outselves in. In the entertainment industry, one could argue that “image” is everything.

The mass population growth in the last two hundred years has changed the world into a brand-awareness culture. There are simply too many things to pay attention to at once, and therefore we tend to silo things into different sections in our mind maps. An image helps the consumer quickly identity a product, celebrity, and attached it to a feeling that they are familiar with.

For example:

1. Britney Spears = teenage pop star and tabloid magnet
2. Ipad = sleek and sexy, expensive but worth it
3. Playstation = video games. Black box. Sleek.
4. McDonalds = Yellow. Hungry. Food. BigMac.
5. Mystery (PUA) = tall. Skinny. “A vampire that stopped aging”, magician, pick up artist

An image creates positive and negative emotions. Mostly, marketers want to hit positive emotions that make people buy their products. Sometimes, in industries like life insurance, negative messages can cause enough fear for a purchase. Example: “bujy your life insurance now before you die”.

An image is an important part of a PUA’s avatar. It needs to stand for something, and hit triggers quickly. Style consultants work with a person’s “Image”. Images that are not yet created, or people who are not yet famous have a chance to re-make their image. Such chances are also given between high school and college transitions. However, with the internet and the loss of our privacy, this is becoming more and more difficult to do. Rather than changing just an “image”, we now must change our core as well to stay congruent.

Usage:

What’s your image to these people in the audience? Think about it before you go on stage.

Related Terms: Avatar, Identity, Congruence, Style, Story, Grounding Sequence, Approach, First Impression, Accomplished Introduction

Related Links:

• What’s Your Image? on Seduce With Style

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Quick Definition: The underlying motivations and narrative details which combines to explain a character, or persons, actions within a given social frame.

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Grounding, Story Telling, Frame: these are all important inner game pieces to building a strong identity. Character develop is essential for any good story, especially TV series and books.

Harry Potter, Twilight, Boston Legal, Leverage, Lie To Me, The CSI series, Entourage, 24. Any successful show has a level of depth to its characters. They are relatable, memorable, and amplify our emotional responses to them.

In developing our own personas and understand out own underlying motivations, artists must constantly grapple (and sometimes struggle) between their core identity, their image, and what they truly believe of themselves. The reasons and ethics as to why they do certain things.

There are many great characters in movie and TV to emulate. Of those that come to mind, Jack Bauer from 24, Vincent Chase from Entourage, Edward in Twilight, Dr. Lightman in Lie To Me. One particularly fascinating TV character is Allen Shore from The Practice and Boston Legal. In Season 5 Jerry Espinson’s character says, “After watching Allen Shore practice law, I’m quite sure that there will never be another… quite like him.” Great characters in real life are also hard ti imitate, having enriched their own experiences and inner workings to the extent that they stand out from the masses as unique individuals with something to contribute to the world. To this extent, PUAs do it too.

“The character of Alan Shore deserves to be a character remembered with the likes of Atticus Finch. He is not a professionally ethical man, but he is a moral man. His personal code of ethics incorporates Machiavelli with a sense of “do the greatest good”. He is highly unethical, but rarely does anything for his own sake. In a way, he sacrifices his own ethical reputation for the sake of aiding people who have no other recourse. Sort of a legal Robin Hood.” - gdkzen

Another funny and powerful scene with Allen Shore:

Usage:

A good story always has strong character development plots

Related Terms: High Value, Grounding, Lifestyle, Value, Social Value, Social Value, Social Pressure, Social Conditioning, Modus Operandi (MO), Story Telling, Frame

Character Development is a post from PUA Lingo, a glossary of PUA and Pick Up Artist terminology.

 Disclaimer: Affiliate links are included in this review

Tao of Badass is the new product from Joshua Pellicer and it boasts and impressive list of resources for $97. Starting with the member’s section, you get access to the eBook Tao of Badass. Perhaps more importantly, you can access to his exclusive body language course and hacking attraction, videos of his ongoing seminars on dating. The membership area also allows new members to introduce themselves, and see map of other nearby TOBA customers.

The one thing that stands out right away about Josh is that he focuses on the things that matter. In this simplicity the reader is not taken on a tail spin in additional content, but rather, just the essential key ingredients of mastering a specific skill.

The section I enjoyed the most was his body language techniques. I did not know there were positive, negative, and dominant body language. The 5 week mastery course focuses on eyes contact, voice tonality, negative body language, positive body language, and using touch to aid you in meeting women and seduction.

Hacking Attraction was one of those eye openers – apparently, you can’t learn a skill properly unless you first figure out how you best learn. Josh talks about the different types of learning skills – by touch, sound, feel, and internal and externally-framed people and how each one has his own pro and cons of learning. In some ways I thought these videos was better than the actual book.

In finishing the TOBA videos, I saw my game develop to a new level (combined with proper going out and actually trying this stuff). For example, in realizing that my body language spoke 60% of my communication, I worked on exhibiting dominant and negative body language. In doing so, I saw my sets turn out differently and I realized that our body indeed speaks more than our words.

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to live in a training house with the world’s best dating coaches? Well Master PUA University aims to delivery this very experience to you, via online modules of their actual training sessions and inside the bedrooms of PUA Training’s London mansion.

This review has been long overdue as I was a beneficiary and loyal customer of Gambler’s original Master Pick Up Artist University DVD sets. I still have the collection stashed in my bedroom from years ago.

*As a disclaimer, we are an affiliate for PUA Training and they’re one of the companies we work with on the ads you see on the pages of PUA Lingo.com*

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The first thing you’ll notice is that production value of this entire experience is quite high. I still remember receiving the DVDs. They are neatly arranged from 01 – 12, along with specific instructions and illustrated CDs. The online portal demonstrates the same level of clean user interface as you get access to each of the month’s modules in training.

Gambler also throws in his original Stealth Attraction Videos, Social Circle Gaming, and Secrets of 9s and 10s. You can view clips of the Stealth Attraction module on YouTube to get a taste of what his style of seduction is like:

Who is Richard La Ruina?

Richard is the moderator and CEO of PUA Training. He’s known as Gambler in The Game and also published his own book on Amazon a few years ago called “The natural art of seduction”. His voice is very even and he has a laid back vibe (much like internet marketing guru Frank Kern). Gambler very rare boasts about his accomplishments as many other masters do, he simply tells it like it is. As such, sometimes people wonder if he’s really good, until they get to the actual material that he’s delivering.

Furthermore, Gambler does a great job featuring other artists and serving as a platform of useful information.

Stealth Attraction DVDs

This is a 3 disk set that teaches you a relatively new technique Gambler calls “Stealth Attraction”. The premise is simple yet subtle: to escalate the seduction model without triggering any of the woman’s conscious responses for rejection or stalling. He talks about how kino works to test her level of comfort, and a cool feature or how to force an IOI from across the room as you’re talking to another girl.

MPUA University series

You’ll notice his use of Guest Stars in the MPUA University Program:

Matthew Hussey – a confidence and public speaking coach in the UK. His lectures really left he inspired. He reminds me of a perfect match of Tony Robbins and Zan, spilling out useful advice about having the right attitude and mindset, and how to use it to further develop you game. Matthew’s contributions to PUA Training are substantial, as his specialty is lifestyle design from a positive mind set. Within the videos you can tell that he knows about pick up artistry as well, though his focus stems from bringing out a positive mindset as it pertains to game first, and then working on technique thereafter.

Adam Lyons – One of the most prolific and famous PUAs in the world, Adam is another character of the cast, featured regularly though the monthly videos. His speech is quick and sometimes you will need to rewind the video to listen to him again. His game is sick. Spilling out information after information, you will need to view and review his lectures a few times to capture all of the value he brings. Of particular interest is that Adam seems like a genuinely nice guy, who is trained extremely well in game.

Dharam – the master of the “nice guy” persona, Dharam proves that you don’t need to be an asshole to be dominant or to get girls. His section was particularly useful on the concept of the warm alpha / warm beta and being in your natural state without forcing a change of your core identity. He then calibrates how to game based on his natural vibe as “the guy you can always count on”

Yad – Yad doesn’t look like much, however it is precisely his lack of physical appearance that makes him good: the margin of error for his game is very low. He therefore spits a high level of game to get the girls that he desires. I found the Yad interview to be a tad long, however I enjoyed some of his insights into game, which I have not heard before in other PUA training videos or seminars.

Lesbian girl, bar girl, model: throughout the course, we get a glimpse of the girls that Gambler has in his life. He interviews them about their perspective on dating, guys, and how a perfect meeting would be experienced, from a woman’s perspective. I found one interview with the UK model Faye to be extremely insightful. She’s very sweet and at the same time, has a natural way about her when she almost “unconsciously” qualifies certain guys. Gambler’s calibration and his tonality draws our her secrets while making her feel very comfortable in his presence.

You can pick up a risk free of the Master PUA University DVDs here, exclusively on PUA Lingo.

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Whatever your stance is on the PUA community, one thing is clear: we seek the knowledge to be free from our fears with women and relationships. To me, this journey started years ago and continues to this day. For you, this exciting quest may have started recently.

I have met many PUAs over the years in seminars, workshops, through friends, and even as warm hosts during my travels to San Diego, Boulder and Vegas. Some wanted to find the right girl to marry, others wanted to play the field. The differences in our goals was connected through the commonality of seeking freedom in male to female relationships. While not everyone wanted to “lay 100 girls”, every one of them wanted to make decisions based on women from a place of security rather than fear.

To me, this freedom represents a healthier relationship with women and with oneself. If a man can make his relationship decisions not based on his FEAR of the loss of her and his inability to replace her with a girl of equal or higher value, then his decision criteria becomes one of validity around their true compatibility with each other as partners.

Too many times, we have seen AFCs hang onto broken relationships because “oh she’s so hot”. But the point is clear – the knowledge is now online and out here for those that want to master this skill set. Freedom of choice. That was the underlying principle this country was built on.

To me, this freedom extends beyond women to other areas of my life. Mainly, work. Too many of us toll away at jobs we do not like, not realizing that all this is related!

CHOICE!!!

The ability to exercise free will and do they things we want to do, in a way that adds value to a market-based economy, where money is generally made (on a mass level) by providing VALUE (good or service) to another person. Never has the ability to live freely been so available in the history of man.

Those of you who know me personally know that my dad was a diplomat and I stay far and clear from politics. Actually, I got into business specifically for my reasoning that supply and demand creates a fair marketplace, where governments do not and rely on the balance of power to force decisions to be made.

However, every now and then an issue that is so far reaching becomes a part of the fabric of our reality. I’m not going to tell you to “do something about SOPA or PIPA”. These are simply offsprings of a greater problem – the loss of our freedom. The incentives are irrelevant. They always stem from the same place: power, greed, control. These emotions can be good sometimes as long as others are allowed their own freedom. For example, you may have a crazy and power hungry boss. The marketplace allows you the opportunity to leave that boss, in a relatively short period of time, and find other employment with the skill set and value you bring to the table.

So tomorrow, as a very large base of the American population rally to defend its freedom on the new frontier of the Internet, take a moment to appreciate the freedom your enjoy, as you continue your journey to seek true freedom in your relationships.

-AW

On Freedom is a post from PUA Lingo, a glossary of PUA and Pick Up Artist terminology.

Quick Definition: The act of actively disagreeing or breaking existing rapport with a girl, for the purposes of showing individual dominance and creating attraction.

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Often times guys get “stuck” in a set because they run out of things to say. Another problem is that the set goes “so well and smooth”, and yet, no emotional triggers are being hit. One of the best ways to create attraction is to break rapport.

Like good friends do with each other, the ability to stand up for yourself and speak your mind is a powerful attraction trigger. It also shows dominance, and the willingness to walk away. Most guys are afraid to break rapport in fear of losing the girl, and therefore the guy who breaks rapport shows that he’s not afraid to lose her subconsciously.

Part of seduction is the ability of the seducer to see the girl for who she really is, and to gain control of her by gripping her mind. Without knowing a person’s boundaries or where they stand, it is truly difficult to know someone. As a natural friend once advised me: “I try to see where there’s a chink in her [social] armor, and a glimpse into her personality. From there, something eventually ‘sticks’, and we connect on that level going forward.”

Example Scenario:

HB: I am a marketing associate at Crane, Poole and Schmit

PUA: Very Cool. I like that you’re very ambitious

HB: I paint during spare time too.

PUA: That’s cool. I need a painter actually.

HB: Oh really…

PUA: No. Not really.

(HB should laugh or be slightly amused)

Related Terms: High Value, Lifestyle, Social Pressure, Social Circle, Body Language, Eye Contact, Rapport, Comfort, Compliance, Attraction, IOI, IOD, Disqualifier, Neg, Congruence

Breaking Rapport is a post from PUA Lingo, a glossary of PUA and Pick Up Artist terminology.

How Hook Up With Girls Consistently Via Craigslist

This interview sat on my desktop for over 30 days, as I hesitated to release the knowledge inside. After I got Aaron’s personal offer to help me as a coach on automating this system, I figured karma will reward me for sharing this piece of gem. Here goes…

Image takes you to the Secret Ebook page

Who?

Through the process of natural selection, one of the affiliate requests that came through our site got my attention. After a thorough investigation and deep dive into the authenticity of the product and subsequently, the author, I am please to present to you a very unique and valuable interview with the Craigslist Conquerer. (Affiliate Link)

He’s a self proclaimed “below average, bald, overweight guy” who has figured out a system to get hot women via Craigslist. Like anything of value, it takes effort. However, once mastered, this is a consistently way to get laid without always going out and doing cold approaches.

Why Listen?

1. Listen to Aaron’s about his rise from a divorced, 30+, bald, and overweight guy to a master of getting laid via CL
2. Learn the concept of “game” and how it executes via Craigslist
3. Learn about the woman’s idea of sexual fantasies
4. Realize the DRASTIC difference of how guys and how women think about sex on a deeper level
5. Learn How to get really hot girls via the Internet… yes, you can do it

1. What a “nibble” is and how to dangle it with your posts and replies
2. How to compete with the other guys who are using CL to hookup
3. How to visually draw our a sexual fantasy with your writing
4. How to “Speak to the woman“, and the user. A overwhelming focus on the user, and how you can do something for her. Take it from her point of view
5. How it is different city by city in the US
6. The number of email exchanges via the meetup
7. How timing works on CL
8. How to setup the meetup, and how to keep things safe
9. Troubleshooting #1 question: “you’re not an axe murderer are you?” question and other safety issues
10. How to use the phone and text
11. Daddy’s Girl, Mistress, Dominant Female roles
12. How to avoid Time Wasters and Freakers

Where?

Right here, exclusively on PUA Lingo!

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Video of Interview:

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Quick Definition: The failure to approach a viable target.

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Written by: Chai

Often a cause of AA (Approach Anxiety) and often regularly used with AFC’s, the person is either too scared to make the approach or has second thoughts and doubts/ indecisiveness whether to approach or not.

This ultimately ends up with having the AFC not approaching the target at all. In very rare instances this happens to PUA’s but on VERY rare occasions as PUA’s no longer have an anxiety about approaching targets as this does worry them.

Scenario:

Guy walks past HB10, guy thinks about approaching, turns around and starts walking in her direction to open and 1000 different reasons about how she could react to him start entering his mind, thus, causing internal conflict and self doubt, ultimately resulting in failure in the end and no approach was manifested.

Excuses then fall onto the girls lap as the AFC cannot be in the wrong for the approach. Excuses can often range from: “I’ll get the next one” “She probably wasn’t my type anyway” “She was too hot for me” to “She probably had a BF anyway…” “She looked like a bitch. I hate bitches!” etc.’

Source: Chai

Related Terms: High Value, Lifestyle, Social Pressure, Social Circle, Body Language, Eye Contact, Kino, Venue, Bounce, Blow Out, Sarging, Target, AA, AI

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