If you haven’t seen the video above, you should watch it. Look how genuine he is. Look at the delight in the girls’ faces as they speak to him. He makes it look easy, doesn’t he? The Soul you see in that video was, during a time not long ago, only a dreamed up fragment, perhaps wishful thinking, in an inchoate part of his past self’s mind. Now he is a man shaped in the crucible of his own will and passion, a living testament to the power of a Love Systems education.

For years he has been opening a world of possibilities for students the world over. Who hasn’t had his heartbeat adjusted on his morning commute to work? What man has never experienced that briefest moment of eye contact while walking down the street, maybe seen a smile flashed shorter than a systole, and wondered what it might be like if he seized that speck of time and spoke to one of these women who would otherwise be merely ghosts.

For thousands of students around the world Jeremy Soul has helped them understand how to do just that, a quest he undertakes with obvious empathy, passion, and genuine joy. He needs no more flattery from me. His effusive student reviews and numerous accolades speak for themselves. Oh, and I should mention that if you are thinking about getting live training from him, move fast. His programs sell out FAST.

That guy? He’s written a book.

Daytime Dating with Jeremy Soul

It’s the summary of what he has learned over years of approaching beautiful women and teaching other men how to share his success. It is written with the same actionable and warm manner with which Jeremy conducts his workshops, and it’s hard to read a single paragraph without the sense that this is a man who speaks with earned authority.

You’re in for a real treat.

For the first week of its release Daytime Dating will be $79. After that, the numbers of the price cruelly switch places. Ever after the 11th of August, Daytime Dating will be available for $97.

Love Systems releases Daytime Dating with Jeremy Soul

Advanced Love Systems Boot Camp at the Playboy Mansion

The last time we held this program, 7 of the 12 students took beautiful women home. Many of them had tawdry naked pictures from the legendary grotto. If you’ve never been to the Mansion it’s pretty much exactly what you’d expect. It’s a sexually charged environment where sexuality and physicality in general are a lot more permissible and are even encouraged by the open bar.  Whether it’s exchanging numbers with Playmates or canoodling with porn stars, pretty much anything can happen at the Playboy Mansion.

Even better, you will be taught by some of the best in the business, bar none. No one, and I mean no one can talk about rapid escalation and threesomes the way Savoy can. Bonsai has spent the last year carving his niche as the go-to guy for strippers and silicone enhanced Los Angeles girls. And I’m a fucking ninja.

Look, if you’re reading this blog and you are on the fence, I’m not going to waste my energy trying to convince you. This is going to be a hilariously good time, it WILL sell out, and you have stunningly good odds to take home the most beautiful woman you’ve ever touched. You should have already clicked on the link.

Advanced Love Systems Boot Camp at the Playboy Mansion

Asia is weird because you’re always running face-first into a societally enforced limiting belief that is, as usual, highly destructible in the face of a strong frame, comfortable escalation, and an understanding of female psychology.

It’s a fun article.

7 MARCH 2010
“It’s been really nice talking to you ladies, but I think it’s time for you to give me your wallet.”

9 MARCH 2010
“At what point does caring what you look like become vanity, and at what point does vanity become a problem?”

“Whatever, I’m hot.”

18 MARCH 2010
[said to a half-black, half-Middle Eastern girl] DAN: “I find your lack of rhythm ethnically implausible.”

3 APRIL 2010
HER: “What sign are you?”

ME: “Aquarius. What about you. Are you a Gemini or a Leo?”

HER: “I’m a Leo.”

ME: “And what sign are your breasts?”

HER: “Sagittarius. December 12.”

23 APRIL 2010
ME: “Dan, we may have to invent new funeral procedures for you. I don’t think you should be burned or cremated. I think you should be bronzed.”

DAN: “I’m not going to die.”

25 APRIL 2010
“Lady, don’t ever take a walk of shame. That is the stride of pride.”

“She was so hot she was charred. I expected to find grill marks on her back when I took her shirt off.”

MAY 2010
GIRL: “I don’t even know you.”

Guy gets out his phone.

GIRL: “What are you doing?”

GUY: “I’m calling my mom, so I can get to know you before we go back to my place.”

2 JUNE 2010
GIRL: “You have B.O. You smell like a smelly man.”

GUY: “Bullshit. I smell like hunter/gatherer.”

8 JUNE 2010
GIRL: “What does your tattoo mean?”

ME: “What should I fear, so soon to die?”

GIRL: “So you’re saying you have HIV?”

Jeremy Soul on Quality vs Quantity in Love/Sex Relationships

I don’t think I have much to say to add to the discussion there except to say I am constantly torn between the virtues of quantity and quality. On the one hand, I have the libido of a 13-year-old boy, and I am constantly attracting women who want to sleep with me as a side effect and virtue of my job. On the other hand the reason I teach qualification the way I do is to help men develop standards for themselves and not go to sleep in the bed next to somebody while feeling utterly alone. There are only so many minutes in the day and so many days in our lives, and if you taint your moments with too many people the disappearance of whose numbers would not affect you, you need to unfuck your dating pool.

Qualification is how you do this, which is why I tell my students that qualification is the most important part of seduction, but that tends to fly out the window when I am faced with a beautiful creature staring at me adoringly through almondine eyes even though she can’t form a coherent sentence (if I’ve dated you and you’re reading this, I’m probably not talking about you. Unless it’s you. Yes, you. You know who you are, clown shoes. You’re the reason I had to develop standards for myself.)

I don’t have an answer. I’ve been on every conceivable side of infidelity outside of breaking the boundaries of my own marriage. I have dated up and down the social, intellectual, and aesthetic totem pole. While I’d love to say I have Soul’s restraint when it comes to spoon-feeding idiot children who were blessed with a visually pleasing phenotype, I cannot say so honestly. I’m a wunderkind when it comes to enforcing my boundaries, but I definitely find myself in situations where I should know better because, duh, I provided validation for inadequate qualification.

Anyway, yeah. Soul’s a genius.

While I’m pimping other instructors’ blogs, I have to single out Braddock’s post on having fun when going out. I try to hammer this point with my students, and I think Braddock’s example of the “Boo” game is arguably one of the funniest and best examples of group-based hi jinks I’ve ever heard of. I laughed out loud when I read that post. Braddock and Helicase are frigging hilarious.

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Beyond Words: Body Language and Physical Escalation with Cajun and Vercetti

Love Systems is not the Mercedes Benz of dating companies. We are the Maserati of dating companies. Not just any old Maserati. We’re so far ahead of the pack we’re the 2020 models. If you think I’m being hyperbolic, go read a review.

Even in our top notch teaching staff, some people stand out for their specific skills.  Soul, of course, has daytime dating on lock. Savoy is like the Threesome Whisperer. I have my forte, but I won’t toot my horn here. And no one can sleep in a soft feather bed at a comfortable room temperature the way Starlight can.

But we’re here to talk about Body Language

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Please don’t close this window just because there’s a Canadian in that video. That’s no ordinary lumberjack, friends. That’s Love Systems superstar instructor Cajun. Listen to what the man with the strange accent has to say.  It’s frigging gold.

Oh, but it doesn’t stop there.

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I understand if you’re having a moment to yourself. I get that you might be feeling your heterosexuality vaguely under assault due to the sheer masculine energy those dudes exhibit. I won’t even blame you for licking the screen. I know I did. Twice. When I recovered from the resulting electric shock I knew I had to see these DVDs, and I begged Savoy for an advance copy. (Oh, and the bloke in the video has a blog. His name is Vercetti. Get used to the name.)

Gentlemen, I’ve seen these videos in their entirety, and they are absolutely, utterly out of this world.  One of the most critical points all heartbreakers in training need to learn is good body language and good subtextual communications. I repeat this ad nauseum (literally; I once threw up on a student mid-sentence) during my boot camps: DO NOT ASK PERMISSION TO TALK TO WOMEN. I have often considered spending an entire workshop on the subject of body language.

Now I don’t have to. This is it: THE definitive product on good body language and effective physical escalation.

Why are you still reading this? Get with the clicking!

Beyond Words: Body Language and Physical Escalation with Cajun and Vercetti

I’ll leave you guys with another excerpt, this one from 5.0, with whom you may choose to roll after watching his video.

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Why are you still reading? Click the goddamned link and buy the DVDs already!

Beyond Words: Body Language and Physical Escalation with Cajun and Vercetti

There’s a lot of really cool stuff coming down the Love Systems pipeline this week.

First and foremost is the language and physical escalation DVD with Vercetti and Cajun. I already jizzed all over them yesterday, so I’ll hold back my effusion this time. I can’t put it more plainly than if you are reading this blog you want this DVD. It’s that simple.

Next I want to let people know Big Business is going to be teaching his Humor, Improv,  and Attraction seminar in Chicago this weekend. One of my best weapons in this art is my sense of humor, but I am not qualified to teach people how to be utterly fucking hilarious like me. Big Business is. He was teaching improv BEFORE he joined Love Systems, and he brings that knowledge to the classroom in a way that most people simply aren’t qualified to teach. Thinking on your feet and coming up with the next thing to say is most guys’ Achilles heel, so if you find yourself stumbling dumb through conversations with women,  and you’re in the Chicago area, make sure you sign up for BB’s program.

Finally, there are still spots for my Hong Kong program this weekend. Last time we had a program in HK we damn near blew the roof off the place. Don’t take my word for it. Here’s a review. If you want to see how we do it in Asia, make sure you sign up for the boot camp this weekend. There are only a couple spots left.

Braddock, Cajun, and Tenmagnet have programs this weekend, too, but if you’re too much of a pussy to take a flight to Hong Kong to learn this stuff, maybe you’re too much of a pussy for me to teach.

Just kidding! Ha ha ha! If you’re in Los Angeles or Toronto, you should take their programs.

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But ask any woman, and somewhere in her top three most crucial factors in sizing up a potential mate is going to be body language. I’m well-known for my prolixity, and my seductive style relies heavily on clever use of language, but in my travels across the world the power of strong body language has been a point of education over and over again when seducing girls who don’t know a word of English.

Beyond Words: The Art of Body Language and Physical Escalation with Cajun and Vercetti

Having made that case I can’t think of any instructors from whom you ought to learn body language beyond Cajun and Vercetti. Both of these guys are trained actors with serious credentials, and they’ve taken their knowledge and experience from the stage and screen and parlayed both into an actionable, sensible, and repeatable system to transform you from a shambling sub-person broadcasting your fear with every gesture into a suave gentleman with the deliberate, calm, and powerful aura that makes women shiver from across the room.

This product has been a long time coming, and with Vercetti and Cajun at the helm the end result is not only informative but also entertaining. Supplies are limited, not in a marketing gimmick way but in a way that I mean to explain there aren’t a lot of copies, so if you don’t get yours now you might be effed until demand requires we make more, whenever that might be.

Get with the clicking.

To this person I say, “First of all I will never arm wrestle you because your life long  masturbational excess grants you an unfair advantage. To answer your question, though: no. Unless you leave your parents’ basement and expose your pallid skin to the elements you will probably continue to hover in the gloom and sadness of perennial loneliness.”

Extreme Case of "Porn Arm"

Some people might take the extra step and invest in some seduction training from some of Love Systems (formerly The Mystery Method’s) more or less esteemed competitors and subsequently deem themselves Sex Sorcerors right before they continue to berates n00bs and insult opponents’ mothers because that M240 isn’t going to unlock itself.**

Stop being a drama queen and approach.

When I first started working on my game, this was one of the hardest parts to work on yet the least worthy of address. I did not have any instructors when I first found this stuff. I had a copy of Double Your Dating and what I thought might be priapism. All I knew was that whatever else happened, I wasn’t going to get better with girls by sitting around with my thumb up my ass. I don’t know why people don’t make this same realization before they attend my boot camps, but they don’t. This is silly because if you approach a few girls you’ll find out what everyone else discovers:

After a few sets you don’t feel any more anxiety.

Yep, it goes away.
No boot camp.
No instructor.
Nothing.

Now, your game might still suck– I eventually still needed to take my Love Systems program with Savoy– but you won’t have the problem with approaching girls after you simply ATTEMPT to approach. Usually it takes about three or four times. Sometimes as many as six. But the anxiety fades, and the approach becomes no big deal.

PROTIP: Approach as soon as you get in the venue, and wait as little as possible between approaches, or the anxiety tends to build back up.

Whatever else anyone else says, you must walk forward and open your mouth. There are a lot of tools to calm your brain down or say the smoothest thing. No one can make you do this. If you’ve taken a program, there is no instructor there on Sunday or Monday. If you haven’t taken a program, your instructor can help you a lot more if you nut up and approach without his directing you to do so.

You want some techniques? Why? Did you not read what I wrote above?

Walk up every girl you’re drawn to and give them a nice, specific compliment.

Say cheers to every group of people you see.

Ask every group who sings the song that’s playing.

Say anything. Do anything.

Anything except, uh, this scene from "Say Anything". Shit was cute in the 80s, but it'll get you arrested on stalker charges now.

Approach. If you don’t actually start speaking to the girls you desire, your game will never approve.

Oh and remember, cancelling your World of Warcraft account is the first step.