Me, in a Word Cloud

This is a word cloud that I made using the many different words and phrases used to describe me by a few different personality/values tests.

The words are sized based on their frequency in the reports. I find it fitting that understanding is the biggest–I love to understand people and things. Other good fits are relationships, ideas, creative, work, and new. I am a person who is committed to developing new ideas to make things better; this shines through particularly well when I am at work or volunteering. I always want to make things work in new, interesting ways. Relationships are important to me, and I am very loyal. Of course, there are a few on there that I feel are more negative, such as irrational, pride, and withhold, but these terms do have their place in my personality and who I am.

I believe that the tests I took to get these results have described me well.  Have you ever taken any of these kinds of tests? Did the results fit you? Do you think they are worth it, or a waste of time?

Losing wisdom, only to gain it

Last week was certainly a week of firsts. It was the first time I’ve ever had any sort of surgery, the first time for an IV, and the first time I’ve had my wisdom teeth removed. Okay, so I won’t be having my wisdom teeth removed ever again, but hey, it’s still a first! As a result of said procedure, I have been in a little pain…not too much, but enough to have become quite friendly with my good friend Advil. Also enough to start having dreams where all I want to do is eat Chick-Fil-A, and then realize that I’m not allowed to eat anything of real consequence. On the plus side, I have tasted delicious smoothies created by Mark, as well as more than my fair share of pudding and ice cream. All of those tasty treats are getting boring though, and I’m already counting down the days until I have clearance to chow down on all of my favorite savory foods. It is definitely tough to sit by as Mark eats Chipotle and pizza commercials fill the TV screen. Oh well, only a week and a half more to go. Hope I can make it. :P

In all seriousness, though, this “ordeal” has reminded me yet again how truly blessed I am. There are millions of people in the world who do not have access to good dental care, for example. There are even more who lack access to any sort of regular food supply, much less a fridge and freezer full of all the soft foods they care to eat. There are people out there who suffer through a great deal of pain without any sort of medication to get them by. And there are people who have access to all the benefits I’ve mentioned above, but don’t have anyone to take care of them as they recuperate. I am so thankful for everything I have, and I need to make more of an effort to remember this.

I hope that you know how lucky you are, and that despite the trials you may be facing, there is someone out there who has it far worse than you do. Think about them, and be grateful for your blessings.

It’s been a while…

Hello, there. I realized the other day that it has been quite a while since I last visited my blog. The reason? I recently got a new job, and have super busy trying to get adjusted to all of the newness surrounding that situation. I’m working part time at our church doing admin work, and it has been a challenge for me learning/ remembering all of the steps and tasks that I’m supposed to do. I know I felt this way at my old job, but, whew! Being the new girl is exhausting! It’s hard to remember that it will get better, especially when there are times that I feel extremely overwhelmed. Despite these struggles, I enjoy my job and I am beyond thankful for this opportunity.

Let’s see…what else has been going on around here? It seems like practically every night is a different activity for us. We’ve never been so involved in things besides school and work, so it is fun to hang out with friends and engage in things that interest us. The holiday season doesn’t help in the busy-ness area, but it is definitely one of my most favorite times of year. Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas are part of such a fun season filled with friends and family. We’ll be headed up to the Frozen Tundra (Illinois) for Christmas this year, and we’re driving, which should be…interesting. I’m hoping we don’t get caught in any blizzards, but you’d better believe that I’ll have an emergency pack ready!

We have made a number of new friends from our new church, which has definitely helped in the transition into our new area (I know we’ve been here since March, but it still seems pretty short), but lately, I’ve found myself missing all of our other friends from Denton, Taylorville, DBU, Granbury, and Glen Rose. I wish I could have a giant reunion with everyone! Not plausible, but it would definitely be fun.

I guess that’s all I really have for now…my train of thought just jumped to the latest GOP debate, and I don’t really want to get into that right now! :) Thanks for sticking around through my blogging drought! Hopefully I’ll get back in the swing of things soon!

Listening Well

I recently watched a short TED talk about the art of listening, why we are bad at it, and how to become better listeners. I found the idea that our society has become terrible at listening to be very intriguing, and without a doubt, completely true. I hope you’ll take the <10 minutes it takes to watch this video and learn something.

Julian Treasure: 5 Ways to Listen Better

My Kind of Place

It rained this morning, which is a big deal. Not only because we so desperately need the rain, but also because a nice rainy morning just feels so right. When it rains in the morning, I feel relaxed and cozy…like I can stay in all morning, reading and drinking hot tea. Perfect.

However, I’m not a fan of entirely rainy days. I like my afternoons cool, crisp, and sunny. Just warm enough to where you don’t really need a jacket, but you bring one just in case. Okay, I’m definitely imagining a nice autumn afternoon here, walking under a bright sky, surrounded by changing leaves. Maybe you can sit outside and have coffee with friends, enjoying the breeze.

Now at night, I want it to be nice and chilly…start a fire, eat some soup, toast some marshmallows. I want to need a blanket, maybe two. And to have a nice view of the clear night sky where I can see the stars.

I’m not sure where I need to live to make my perfect environment a reality, but when I find out, I’m so there.

Paws and Effect

Our little family got bigger this week…but not too much bigger. Just about eight pounds’ worth. On Saturday, we adopted a new cat from an organization called Feral Friends. Our new cat, Cori, is as sweet as she could be. Quite different than Lucy’s mischievous personality. She is a tortoiseshell cat, mostly black, with orange mixed in and a few patches of white.

We haven’t really introduced the girls to each other, due to the fact that the time we put them together resulted in a 15 minute prelude to a battle. However, the time is coming where they will meet again. Hopefully, no battle will ensue. We are crossing our fingers, hoping that they will become fast friends.

What to do?

For the past couple of months, I’ve been feeling like I’m a a major turning point in my life, but I can’t see the direction I’m supposed to go. It is a weird feeling that is incredibly hard to describe, yet I know that it can’t be all that uncommon. I mean, there is a pretty good chance that everyone has had this feeling at some point in there life, right? Right.

The feeling really has to do with the direction I’m taking myself…that is, what do I want to do with my life? How should I go about doing it?…and other questions of the same ilk. I know that my ultimate vision is to start a nonprofit. Long-term vision: check. Despite this certainty, however, I feel a complete lack of knowledge about how to get there. Which path should I choose? How diverse should I be in developing my skills and talents (for example, I want to assist immigrants, but I am also developing a huge interest in technology and communications and their future applications)? I’m considering pursuing a master’s degree, but the areas I am considering are as diverse as my interests. Short term vision: …

I guess the real question I’m struggling with is this: is it okay to pursue a career that is not obviously aligned with my ultimate vison? Is that some sort of betrayal? Hmmm…food for thought.

I don’t really have a whole lot of thoughts that are fully developed on this subject (or I’d probably be closer to a solution of some sort!), so I thought putting it down on “paper” would be fairly helpful (I just realized that before too long, the phrase “putting it down on paper” will be obsolete. How sad.). We’ll see how that works out for me. I’m certainly open to advice/guidance/comments on the subject (as long as your comments aren’t spam, that is. I’m looking at you, spambots).

 

My Life’s Little Adventures

For the past several months, I have been volunteering at the Dallas Holocaust Museum/Center for Education and Tolerance (DHM). I have mostly done administrative tasks (read, boring office work), which have actually not been terribly boring, thanks in large part to the knowledge that what I’m doing is making a difference, no matter how small. It is satisfying to know that I am helping an organization do things that are furthering the cause of holocaust education.

I really love getting to see the way that a nonprofit organization works from the inside. There is quite a lot that goes on in the office that the museum patrons have no idea about. Since I want to have a nonprofit some day, this experience has been very enlightening, and more valuable than I can imagine. Seeing the different roles each administrator and employee must assume, as well as the importance of volunteers and members makes me feel as though I am getting a better education in the nonprofit arena than I could in any classroom. Another great benefit of volunteering at the DHM is seeing the passion people have for teaching the current generation about the horrors of the holocaust, an important step in preventing such atrocities in our time. I know that many people consider the holocaust a grim subject that should be swept aside, only mentioned in history texts. However, I feel as though we should talk about it and think about it, and consider why and how something so terrible could be allowed to happen. The holocaust isn’t the only cause I feel this way about, though. I am a proponent of preventing all terrible, preventable tragedies from happening. Anyway…

I love working in the West End of Dallas, amongst brick buildings so old that many have faded painted advertisements barely visible on their sides. The view of the city is great from our building, and the sense of history is palpable. We are just across a street from the Sixth Floor Museum, the place from which Lee Harvey Oswald assassinated President Kennedy (or not, depending on your belief). In fact, whenever I drive to the DHM, my return journey takes me right past the fateful stretch of road.

I haven’t been driving down regularly, though; I have become a patron of the Dallas Area Rapid Transit (DART) system. For three days a week, I spend about 80 minutes of each day riding the train downtown. It has been an interesting experience, to say the very least! ALL kinds of people ride the train, from young families headed down to the zoo to groups of senior adults, headed down to see the sights. There are usually several medical professionals, sometimes a homeless person, and occasionally someone who feels that the entire car should know all about their business. Once, a group of exuberant teens, all dressed in costume, chattered about Pokemon and video games for about 30 minutes, leaving the rest of us to sigh with relief when their stop finally came. The great thing about the DART train, though, is that I do not have to drive down and back, saving plenty of money that would otherwise be spent on tolls and gas. Also, I can read while onboard, which is always nicer than fighting traffic.

Well, I guess that is about the sum of my activities as of late. I am actually taking a small break from the museum to go to New England with my parents and brother for our family reunion this week. Unfortunately, Mark won’t be able to join us. I guess that’s what happens when you have a full time job and are going to grad school. It’s nice to know that he will be here when I get back, though!

Election Day Musings

As I type this, the votes are being counted in elections all across North Texas. Today, Mark and I voted in the Dallas mayoral and city council elections, and I am enjoying watching the results and updates roll in via Twitter. I always forget how much I love politics and the voting system until the season is upon me. I’m now getting excited to see what 2012 will bring (minus the campaign ads :p ), and I feel like this could be the best election season yet in terms of my interest and involvement.

The Internet is particularly useful in times like these. You can be as updated or as uninformed as you wish, and by utilizing tools like Twitter and Facebook pages, you can be involved without stepping out of your home. Of course, there are always the traditional ways to get involved, including supporting a particular candidate (like one woman we saw getting paid today to hold a prospective city councilman’s sign), as well as volunteering to man an election site. I may attempt to do so this year if I have a chance–it could be fun, and will definitely be informative!

The most important thing to remember about election times is the importance of voting and duty you have towards making an informed vote. I am always dismayed at the numbers of citizens who stay away from the polls. So many soldiers have given their lives to make sure that America remains a country where people can vote on their leaders and the issues put to the ballot. So many regular people, civil rights leaders and others in the past have fought to give a voice to every type of citizen. Not voting dishonors these brave people and the struggles they went through. We as Americans are truly blessed to live in a country with such freedoms.

In Washington DC earlier this year, I had an Ethiopian cab driver who said many inspirational things during the 20 minute ride; one that really stood out was his observation of the many Americans who do not seem to understand the amazingness of the freedoms and rights they enjoy. He was proud to be living here, and sad that so many born here don’t seem to understand what the rest of the world is like. I was forced to agree with him, although this is something I would love to see change in my lifetime (maybe 2008 was the beginning?).

The point I’m trying to make in all this rambling is that voting is exciting, interesting, and vital. Things really can change based on the votes (and voice) of the people. Please don’t sit around and take voting for granted. It is too important to be ignored. However, when you do vote (and I know you will), be sure to make an informed choice. You wouldn’t want to accidentally vote for someone you don’t agree with! :)

March and April Update

Well, we have been in our new apartment for about a month now (more like three weeks, but who’s counting?), and we both really love it! We are about 45 minutes closer to Mark’s office, and are now about five minutes away from the University of Texas at Dallas, where Mark plans on attending grad school.

Besides the great location, we are blessed to have more space than in our old place. We have two bedrooms now, one of which is our office/library/cat playroom. It is definitely great to have that extra room! :)

Lately, I’ve been getting into two new hobbies. The first is something I’ve kind of talked about for a while, and the second is newer in my scope of interests. I am learning more about web design and programming (as I’ve mentioned before in a few posts), and I have decided to take up gardening (sort of). I have several plants and flowers on the balcony, and I really like learning more about gardening. I have a few challenges, though, such as partial sun, high wind, and Lucy. I have to be sure that every plant I buy is cat safe because Lucy seems to think that the garden is an outdoor salad bar.

We are also testing out several new churches, due to the unfortunate fact that we are now just too far away from Glen Rose to keep going there regularly. We definitely miss our church family there, but I kind of like the search for a new church. It is interesting to see all the different churches out there. There are several Chinese churches in the area, and I jokingly told Mark we should check them out. :)

That’s all for now, I guess!