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If It Was Easy, Everyone Would Be Doing It...

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:43:00 +0000

I love @ChrisBrogan 's perspective on competition in this video. THE REAL COMPETITION IS YOU.

Success comes to those that overcome and endure. The fact is, most people are just not built to deal with disappointment, set-back and failure. We all deal with these seemingly negative experiences; however, it's only those that recognize the value of these experiences that can harness the power it provides... a strong foundation to build a successful life on.

The depth of your foundation is essential and it's established by the lows in your life, not the highs. That depth will ultimately determine the heights you can achieve. This is where most people can get stuck in a rut. By not completely understanding this truth, many get discouraged during the lows and convince themselves that success is just not for them.

What YOU "accept and tolerate" will determine the quality of life and level of success you achieve. If you are unwilling to accept anything less than the complete and total success you've always dreamed of, than you shall have it. If you're willing to settle for less - than you'll have that too. Ultimately, that decision is completely in your hands.

It's Not What You Know; It's Who You Know That Matters

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 13:03:00 +0000

Some know, some don't know, some think they know, some don't want you to know...

Those that know (Leaders) - These are those who are doing it. They have stepped out and have, or are in process of proving their theories and strategies. The rest of the world follows them because the have the battle scars, temperance, and skill set to kill it and they possess a deep desire to share their knowledge with others. They take full responsibility for their own life as well of those around them - it’s not what leaders know that makes them leaders, its what they do that does.

Those that don't know (followers) - These are people that have a desire to learn. Good followers are invaluable, as they validate our leaders - and it is here that ALL Leaders are born. All leaders have at some point been exemplary followers. If you follow the right people, you're pretty safe here - although, if you're not careful, you can follow the wrong people into a ditch.

Those that think they know (imitators) - These are those that think they are leaders, promote themselves to positions of leadership and just use the material of leaders to prop themselves up. The problem with these folks is they contain very little substance when it comes to navigating through troubled waters and making the necessary adjustments to weather the storms and arrive safely at the desired destination. Plenty of shipwrecks take place as a result of poor leadership.

Those that don’t want you to know (Reprobates) - It's not about leading or following here, its all about ME. What’s in it for me and how it benefits me, with absolutely no thought as to how it will affect others - taking advantage of weaknesses in others, scheming their way to the top at all costs - representing themselves to be all that is good and decent in the world, when reality, they'll do or say anything just to get in your pocket or get ahead in life.

In today's social media age and the transparency it provides, there really is no excuse to get caught up with imitators, flakes or reprobates. It's very easy to get information or even a recommendation on people you would like to do business with or just connect with. There are established trustworthy leaders with an army of good soldiers willing to give, serve and protect anyone that has a desire to learn, grow and better themselves in any area of their life. It's not what you know that matters, it's who you know that does.

Aligning with the right people can be an uplifting, fulfilling and enriching life experience and social media provides this opportunity for all.

Google's Got Vision...

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 13:01:00 +0000

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Slide Presentation Provided By: Valeria Maltoni

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:53:00 +0000

PR, Not Propaganda - Web 2.0 Expo

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Communications, Social Media and The Tower of Babel

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 12:43:00 +0000

Genisis 11 - And the whole earth was of one language and of one accent and mode of expression... And the Lord said, "Behold, they are one people and they have all one language; and this is only the beginning of what they will do, and now nothing they have imagined they can do will be impossible for them."

I'm not going religious here - just hope to get you thinking of the possibilities...

From the beginning of time until now, everything that exists was born from people communicating. There is nothing that exists that didn't come forth from communication. To consider what can be accomplished in the world by united communications and coming together with one mind one purpose and one goal is a pretty phenomenal thought.

As a divided people, we have made breath-taking advancements in technology. Things that were once thought to be impossible are now becoming a reality everyday. It won't be long before we're living for a thousand years, traveling at the speed of thought, communicating through brain waves… and what, you think I’m nuts? We’ll see...

We are enterning an age where once again, nothing shall be impossible to us - no more divisions, no more nonsense and no more blindness. Accomplishing the impossible will become a daily routine. We've only been limited by our ignorance and communication breakdown.

Social technologies are rapidly changing this. These applications may not be the end-all technology breakthroughs, however, they are having a significant impact on our social behavior and the way we communicate. It's bringing people together and fulfiling a desire for many who want to be connected and understand others in distant places - to be united and understand the common threads which bind us together as one people.

At some point in the not so distant future, communication for the entire global population will once again be made possible by language technology. This fluid transparent form of communication will remove barriers, dispel misconceptions and misunderstandings and reveal the folly of our ways. Problems exist and thrive in our divisions - 100% of the solutions lay in embracing and uniting our diversity, our uniqueness and the brilliance found in all.

I wonder where we would be today had they finished building that tower? Certainly down the road jack...

How to Build Wealth

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 13:37:00 +0000

It's a lot easier to make money than it is to keep it. It's not what you've made in the past that matters, but what you've managed to keep that does.

Instant Gratification

Saving for the moment is no fun; we are raised in a society that wants instant gratification right now! A typical scenario that is played out over and over again by business owners and Entrepreneurs alike is when they began to have monetary success, the tendancy is to go into to debt in order to live an 'upgraded' lifestyle... to have all those things they've always dreamed of, but never had. This short term thinking can lead to a broke future.

This usually develops into the "keeping up with the Jones" mentality, where success is measured by the car you drive and house you live in. Every dollar made pays debt service that is sustaining a certain lifestyle that, in most cases, is above and beyond your means. More is never enough to fulfill an out of control appetite for more stuff and saving is not even an option at this point.

Building Wealth

Unless you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth, in order to start securing your financial future and build wealth, you need to make a comitment with yourself to put a certain percentage of every dollar you ever make in this world into savings. No matter what, even if death is the price to pay, you don't touch your savings. Period. Anyone that can do this has the ability to accumalte wealth, even with a nominal income, that can provide for a comfortable retirement, or be preserved and passed on to your children.

You don't have to make millions to become wealthy and just because you've made millions doesn't guarantee you'll be wealthy. Acquiring wealth initially comes down to the disipline and commitment to saving money. If you can't do this, managing wealth will be irrelevant in your future.

The Most Important Characteristic of a Successful Entrepreneur

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 14:18:00 +0000

Ordinary people thrive on positive reinforcement, while Entrepreneurs thrive in the face of skeptics and doubters. It's not natural to thrive in this environment, however, for the Entrepreneur, it defines their character. It inspires the sheer act of will and tenacity that drives them beyond the ordinary to the extra-ordinary and it empowers them to literally create the future for all.

Every building you see, every community, city, village, business, product; EVERYTHING started in the mind of an Entrepreneur that first imagined something out of thin air and then dressed it with reality. In most, if not all cases - they accomplished these feats while being ridiculed by naysayers. Now that is unnatural, or supernatural, depending how you see it and that is what sets Entrepreneurs apart from ordinary people.

Being an Entrepreneur requires obvious talents, including vision - the ability to perceive opportunity - the motivation, drive and ability to inspire and move people and resources to make things happen; and most importantly - you must not only be impervious to the negativity and criticism of others, but inspired by it.

If you possess this quality - you either are, or have the potential to be a great Entrepreneur.

A Message From My Mentor

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:20:00 +0000

I had asked a dear friend and mentor of mine for some advice on a blog post I had written and he sent the reply below. I thought you might enjoy it. This comes from a man that has has been wildly successful in business, marriage, family, friendships and life in general...

Mark,

One can only be true to the ideal of LOVE of FAMILY!!!

For all things done are insignificant without the desire to provide for those who we cherish. After that comes friendships that we hold dear. Consequently, the grind comes down to many additional sacrifices that each of us must endure.... or, the trials of a life's journey. I truly believe in the ideology of the Behaviorist, B.F. Skinner, who put forth my daily mantra which is as follows: "SUCCESSIVE APPROXIMATION". I try to come close, but never ever come near any type of perfection.

Thus, I am imperfect, yet ever searching for wealth of spirit, desire, and a sense of worth on every front. It does not control me, but Capitalism does create an opportunity to provide a means to an end. I embrace the ideology, but am never controlled or entangled in its web. My belief is that the statement "power corrupts absolutely" is a truism. The true measure of a human being is what they do with power. Most with power abuse same.

Though I don't know the future of issues, I do know that I am unable to control others with any certainty. So, I will attempt to interact and handle my sphere of influence as positively as humanly possible. That is all I can do!!!

America is an enigma. Yes, a puzzle and "one of a kind". Often the attempt is to emulate our way of life. And, on the other hand hate us for what we possess. The dichotomy of Freedom for those that have it often times do not embrace its amazing virtues. Those that do not have Freedom know that they want it and will sacrifice all that they have and are to enrich their lives.

Mark, convince yourself of your real worth. You are all things in this universe of man.....to your family.

Love You Brother,
Greg Chapin

Capitalism, The Digital Age and Freedom

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:19:00 +0000

Capitalism, in its purist form, is driven by the nature within the free human spirit. It’s not an opinion thing, it's not a man-made thing, it's not a rich or poor thing - it's a God thing. Nothing can quench, stop, or prevent the God given nature of the free human spirit to pursue the right to exist unto itself – and not under the thumb of a minority who desire to control it.

Not all may embrace, believe or pursue this God given right, however, the few men and women on the planet that are persuaded by its power will continue to change the world for the better; because those who are free will always be stronger than those who are enslaved.

It's the same spirit that a few men in world were persuaded by and embraced that founded the greatest country in history. It's the same spirit that has drawn millions from every corner of the planet and every nationality in existence to travel from afar to take advantage of the opportunities, benefits and freedom capitalism provides. It’s the same spirit that has fueled the greatest economic development throughout the entire free world. It is an eternal trait that will never cease to exist within the human spirit. That’s why there will always be men bound by its power and be willing to die for it – and this freedom will always prevail because the nature within the free human-spirit is stronger than the will of men who attempt to suppress it.

Capitalism isn’t bad; men have corrupted capitalism and every other ism that ever was. Whenever any economic system is controlled by a few; there you’ll find corruption and an out of control lust for money and power.

What’s the answer? The Digital Age is here – and becoming more relevant everyday… the internet and social media platforms are bringing about significant change in the global economy, providing new opportunities for all people throughout the world to participate in global commerce. This is naturally spreading the wealth, not by taking from those that have earned and accumulated wealth with brains and hard work; but by leveling the playing field and creating new opportunities for those desiring to be part of it. This trend will not be hindered or controlled by any government; but will be fueled and empowered by the people.

While the negative effects from greed perpetrated on our capitalist society are painful at the moment; it is a necessary process that we must endure in order to maintain and expand the freedom it provides. Government is not the answer – they have contributed to and are part of a broken system; Socialism is not the answer – killing the entrepreneurial spirit that drives business and commerce would be ignorant; free, law abiding citizen's on the planet, excersizing their God given right to live, love, compete and do business is the answer.

What is the outlook? The future is bright indeed. The season of change and transition we are experiencing in the world is having adverse effects on many; however, the good news is, this season will pass. With change comes new opportunity’s waiting for those with the vision and desire to seize them.

What are the risks? The very freedoms that we’ve enjoyed are under attack. The days to be a “free” American are numbered. If you buy into the message of those “transforming” America, you’ll miss out on the opportunity to participate in preserving and maintaining freedom throughout the world and the benefits that will come to those responsible for spreading truth, justice and freedom to all.

What is the conclusion? Freedom will prevail – and that freedom will be preserved by informed passionate Americans unwilling to give up their freedom and who remain steadfast in their liberty; along with those throughout the world who hunger to be free and are willing to stand up and exercise their unalienable God given rights to attain that freedom. Freedom will once again be won by those who fight for it.

Manipulate and Take vs. Give and Serve

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:48:00 +0000

What we experiencing in the economy are the results of a manipulative and take mindset that was fueled by greed. The introduction and popularity of social media platforms into society and business is certainly changing the landscape.

In the past, mainstream media outlets have been controlled by money. If you had the financial wherewithal to utilize the power of all forms of media, including TV, radio, billboards, newspapers, magazines, to name a few, you could buy a market. Today, social media is rapidly changing this. The power to reach the masses is transitioning into the hands of the people. I like that. I don't think that power should be controlled by just a few. It's been abused. Maybe not by intent, but it is what it is. That much control over the power to influence the masses on the planet is bound to the warp the minds of those with the best intentions.

Society is changing. I believe in people. I believe the majority of people have integrity. I think most people in the world have something to give. They want to make the world a better place. They haven't been corrupted by large sums of money and power that can corrupt the purest of souls. I'm not against money, or making a lot of money. However, money and power does seem to go hand in hand with corruption.

Individuals that recognize the irrelevance of self, self-interest and self-promotion in business and recognize the vast opportunities that are available to serve the needs of others and society as a whole; these will be the business leaders of the future. Here’s a post by @MatthewCrow and he gets it, or is getting it… How Do I Serve?

In business, especially if you are a start-up, if you don't contribute value, or have willingness to serve others needs for little or no compensation; you won't gain the trust of consumers. It's not because you shouldn't make money or be compensated for your efforts, it's because until you've proven yourself to be a valuable resource willing and able to serve and provide for a need in society, you won't gain the trust of the consumer. Being in business for the sake of making money isn’t enough. Why? Because there too many people in business that are passionate about what they do and in this day and age, consumers can tell the difference. Trust is earned and the days of buying trust are over. @JDeragon has written an in-depth post regarding this subject: Can You Market Trust?

Today, consumers are smarter, more informed, connected, and plugged in to the pulse of people and business throughout the world like never before. They have many choices based on trusted relationships, trusted feedback, and an army of servants that want to make the world a better place. The quick buck, fast talking, manipulative and self-serving mentality is dying and being replaced by humanity serving humanity for all the right reasons - to make the world a better place and the lives for all better… and that’s a good thing.

Being True To Yourself

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:48:00 +0000

I just listened to Gary V’s Business Week interview and he really hits the nail on the head. It inspired the following thoughts…

The secret to living a successful life is to invest your life into things you’re passionate about. You’ll never find true happiness and success until you fulfill the burning desires that drive the passion within you.

Doing what you hate because you believe it’s necessary in order to be responsible is only true if you believe it. This couldn’t be farther from the truth. It’s a death trap that once it gets a hold of you, can rob you of years and even an entire lifetime.

The responsible thing to do is be true to yourself first… a bit self-centered – yes, but the truth is, the quality of your own life will have a significant impact on the influence you have, good or bad, on every person that is part of your life.

Ever been around someone who hates what they do? Ever been around someone that constantly complains? Ever been around people that have many regrets? In being “responsible,” they’ve lost their passion for life – they’ve lost their way and as a result, the influence they have on others is very negative. Worse yet, is they attract other people with the same attitudes, regrets and complaints. RUN!

We all have the ability to make choices; we just sometimes make choices for the wrong reasons, or let our immediate circumstances, or the opinions of others limit our options. The truth is, there are only two options; live a life fueled by your passions, or live a life of regrets – that’s about it folks. The good news is you can start living a life fueled by your passions immediately! Stop thinking of all the reasons you can’t and just do it. Don’t let anything stop you from pursuing your passions. Escape the bondage of negative people, negative environments and the death spiral and take your life back. Enough is enough already…

Life can be just like you imagined… it’s not too late; all it takes is the courage to make a decision, take necessary steps in your new direction and not let anyone or anything get in the way of being true to yourself. PERIOD!

I'll Hit it Hard Tomorrow...

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 15:29:00 +0000

The problem with "hitting it hard tomorrow," is tomorrow never comes!

While believing tomorrow, with all its potential and possibilities, holds the keys to your future, the underlying behavior of putting things off until tomorrow is procrastination. This debilitating habit will lead you to a lifetime of tomorrow's that never come.

Two underlying causes of procrastination are a fear of failure and setting standards so high that they can never be reached. Procrastination gains strength over time, getting progressively more paralyzing as the years go by, unless you do something about it.

Is your subconscious undermining the things you desire in life?

Many people avoid getting started for fear of failure. They are always questioning themselves; "Can I really do this?" or "Do I really have what it takes?" Self-doubt kicks in right around this time, which inevitably leads to the wrong answer, which is "no" or "I can't."

Do you strive for excellence or are you a perfectionist?

Striving for excellence is the genuine pursuit of high standards, which results in the improvement of ones-self and of those around you. Being a perfectionist on the other hand is motivated by fears of disapproval, ridicule and rejection. Perfectionist's are always on the lookout for weakness in themselves and the weakness of others, which leads to a long road to nowhere.

In order to overcome procrastination in your life, you need to have a brutally honest one-on-one self-evaluation session with yourself and IF you can accomplish this, you can then set sail on a course of revolutionary change. You need to stop worrying about what other people think, say, or do. You can't be afraid of criticism, you must learn to embrace it and welcome it. Understand, criticism taken from a constructive point of view can only lead to growth and progress. It will make you smarter, stronger and more capable in this life.

Once you get your mind right, you need to TAKE ACTION! Getting STARTED IMMEDIATELY is the key to your new future.

What have we learned in 2,064 years?

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 19:49:00 +0000

“The budget should be balanced, the Treasury should be refilled, public debt should be reduced, the arrogance of officialdom should be tempered and controlled, and the assistance to foreign lands should be curtailed, lest Rome becomes bankrupt. People must again learn to work, instead of living on public assistance.” Cicero 55 BC

Evidently, nothing...

keep Pressing On!

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 21:43:00 +0000

When I was a young man, I read the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Nepoleon Hill. The story that vividly sticks in my mind is "Three Feet From the Gold". It was the story of R.U. Darby, a man whose conviction and determination got him three feet from one of the largest gold discoveries in U.S.

The moral of this story is; YOU are closer than you realize to embracing the success you hunger for, if you don't quit.

After securing the funding, acquiring the necessary equipment and years of hard work, he quit three feet from making millions of dollars and getting paid for the work and effort he put into the project. A junk man he sold his equipment to picked-up where Darby had left off and he made millions of dollars from all Darby had invested into the gold mine.

A tough lesson in life for sure; although, all was for not. It gave Darby the "stick-ability" required to become a multi-millionaire. By simply saying to himself, "I stopped three feet from gold, but I will never stop because men say 'no' when I ask them to buy insurance," he went on to make millions in the insurance industry.

There is no straight line to success. There will be defeat and even failures along the way. Count on it. Just write it into the plan. The easiest thing to do in these situations is to quit and that is precisely what most people do, because they're not prepared for it.

As Mr. Hill writes - "failure is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. It takes great delight in tripping one when success is almost within reach."

The important thing to see here is that failure is a trick. Things are not what they appear. More importantly, the success you've been searching for is found in the temporary disappointments from the defeat and failures that have over taken you. If your emotions are being stretched and if you're experiencing overwhelming situations, just know this; you are closer than you've ever been to attaining your dreams - SO DON'T QUIT NOW OR EVER - just keep pressing on!

Living in The Moment

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 14:52:00 +0000

Where do you find clarity?

The total sum of ones being and the fullness of your life exists only in the moment. This very moment.

The mind races, it never shuts down - and for most part it's either dwelling on things of the past or envisioning the future. It's the moment that is neglected most. When older folks share their life experiences, more often than not, I hear how they wished they had spent more time with their children, their family and friends, doing those things they missed out on, because, well, they were just too busy. Most people would do things completely different and be much more thoughtful of the gift of life, if given another chance.

Life flies by as we get older. What seems like yesterday was decades ago. How many cherished moments have passed you by? Slow down, stop thinking and start BEING. This day may be your last; the last time you spend time with your kids, the last time you see your spouse, the last time you see your friends and co-workers. If you knew today was your last day, how would you live it? What would you say to your loved ones? Are those problems really as big as they appear to be? THEY ABSOLUTELY ARE NOT.

Evaluate those things that occupy your energy, your time and your attention - you'll find that many of those things don't deserve that much of you. If you're not careful and thoughtful, every moment that is WORTHY your time, energy and attention will be consumed with other crap that ISN'T.

Don't be someone that has to look at pictures from years past to re-live cherished moments... be aware and intently conscious of every day, every relationship and every minute that you have the privilege of being part of; otherwise, your moments will be stolen from you and you won't even notice it until they've passed you bye.

Clarity is only found in the moment. The past is done and tomorrow may not come. Right now, everything that is, is... so embrace and enjoy every minute of it, because you'll never get this moment to do over again.

Only The Strong Survive

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:49:00 +0000

Only the strong survive - well not exactly; only the strong survive on their terms.

It's a frightening place to be when the only thing that consumes your thought-life is the fear of what the future holds... ultimately the unknown. Truth is, fear is paralyzing... it builds up a feeling of anxiousness that makes doing the necessary things to ensure the quality of your future nearly impossible to do. The strong and the weak go through the same struggles of life and both survive; however, the strong excel and grow through it and the weak toil their way through.

The strong have a sense of who they are and a vision of where they desire to go and don't stop until they reach their destination; they have no choice, they have to be (come) what they are. The weak are tossed to and fro by the storms of life - landing wherever life blows them and then they blame their circumstances for all their problems. They have no sense of who they are, why they are, or what they are suppose to do in life. On one hand, it's easier to be weak - you don't have to own up to your mistakes and flaws and always have an easy way out... just blame someone else. However, on the flip-side, it sure can be a tormenting existence. Confusion, emptiness, defeat and depression devours the weak. The strong feed on challenges, excel in change, and always look inwardly to change their circumstances. Their strength is found in the people's lives they make better, not tearing others down as the weak do.

We are all just individual pieces of life that have the ability to create our life as we see it, or be dominated by it through ignorance - and yes, that choice is 100% completely in your hands. Yes, I know, it's hard to make a choice if you're not aware you have one; however, there are strong people all around you that would be more than happy to share their strength, experience and time with you... if you're looking for it and ask for it.

Traits of the strong:

The strong don't settle for less, don't buy into "can't," always look to improve themselves, have the courage to see themselves as they really are - the good and the bad, always look for opportunity to help others, see the good in every circumstance - because there is good, especially in things that appear bad, always consider what they can give to all situations and not take from them, never quit, are in their element when serving others, don't measure their success by the size of their wallets, are always in pursuit of being a better parent, spouse and friend, and... what am I missing here?

The Right or Wrong Way To Participate in Social Media

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 13:11:00 +0000

Is there a right-way or wrong-way to participate in social media? That's news to me... I'm sorry, but I wasn't aware that the rules, standards and practices have already been fully realized and established. Who makes up the rules, standards and practices anyway? And... when, or if they are established, is everyone going to agree? Is everyone going to follow the rules? Will everyone do it the same? I doubt it...

I thought would be fitting to include a link to Kyle Lacy's latest post - "What The F**K is Social Media?"

It seems to me that you can participate in social media communities anyway you see fit. If you're doing business and making no money, you'll probably adjust your strategy. If you're just participating to meet new friends and chat about your favorite hobbies and no one talks to you, you'll probably figure out a more effective way to make friends online. The point is, there is still discovery in progress and there is much to learn about how to effectively participate in social media.

Even the strategy of social media rock stars are changing as a direct result of their experience as pointed out in this post by Jim Connolly - "Scoble, Twitter and the wisdom of the crowd!"

While there may be positive results being realized in certain business uses of social media, i.e. marketing, networking, generating traffic, etc., the reason people buy products remains the same. I mean, people buy a brand because that brand resonates with them. They like the brand or they wouldn't spend money on it, right? So, in today's social media age, brands will have to figure out how to communicate effectively with consumers in order to stay relevant... just like they did when they communicated through television, radio and print. Social media is just another communication medium for brands to communicate with consumers - albeit, much more interactive; regardless, the results will be determined by how effectively they do this.

The largest segment of participants in social media are just ordinary people living life and sharing their opinions, asking questions, sharing knowledge, learning new things, keeping in touch with friends and just communicating and connecting in general. There really isn't anything earth-shatteringly different about real-life and cyber-life relationships. Social media is about people. Before social media, it was about people. After social media, it will be about people. Social media isn't going to change people. I mean, business people will hang out with other business people, extremist with extremist, optimist with optimists; we are drawn to other like-minded individuals through communication. There will also always be idiots to deal with too, as pointed out in this post by Valeria Maltoni - "Work-in-Progress" (well, she didn't point them out as idiots)

The one thing that social media has done is break-down the barriers of access to meet and build relationships with other like-minded people all over the world. That small business providing products or services to the local community can now expand without borders; that small group of friends you have off-line can turn into an international tribe online. You can pretty much contact and converse with anyone, anywhere, anytime on the planet. But, the end result is the same. People, personalities and relationships drive the human experience and it will continue to be so until life as we know it comes to an end. Whether for business or recreational use, social media is driven by human-beings communicating - and the results will be determined by how effectively, or not, that you do this.

Am I missing something here? Please do share : )

Your Environment Determines Everything About You

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 13:10:00 +0000

You are a living expression of what you believe, which is literally framed by the environment, i.e. people, relationships and conversations you engage in daily. In order to bring about change in your life, you must change the environment you're in. If that doesn't change, nothing will change. Your environment is shaping you and either enabling, or preventing the results you desire out of life. Yes, I am talking about family members and old friends. I am not suggesting to stop loving these people, but I am suggesting that if they are not driving you closer to your goals, they are keeping you from them.

Have any of those people in your close circle ever told you that you're just a dreamer?

How about you'll never amount to anything, or that's just not for people like you?

Have you ever been told to stop dreaming and get a job, or that's just too hard, or too risky?

You can't afford to subject your dreams and desires to people that don't appreciate and support them. The truth is you'll never grow beyond your current circumstances if you don't change your environment. This is not easy, it is very difficult; but being a self-made success story isn't easy either. If it was, everyone would be living successful fulfilled lives. Most people just don't understand, or are unwilling to make the changes that are necessary to get the desired results.

The first step is to remove yourself from the old crowd and influences and surround yourself with people that will contribute to your vision for life. You can elevated your life experience by simply and purposefully changing your environment. Productive people talk about constructive fulfilling things that carry them forward in reaching their next goal and building upon their last success. Avoid conversations that trip you up, take the wind out of your sails, or sow doubt in the very things that inspire and bring out the best in you. At some point, you'll have to accept full responsibility for the quality of your life and make a determination of who you will allow to be part of it. You must protect your gifts and only share them with those that respect them.

So what shall it be - success & fulfillment or mediocrity & disappointment? The decision now rests in your hands and yours alone. No more blaming others for the quality of your life any longer. Making a simple and conscious decision and taking action is all that is required in order for you to start creating and living the life you dream of.

Inspiring Your Business Start-Up to Success

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 01:40:00 +0000

In business, I'm in my element most when there is nothing but an idea and then framing that idea with substance - inspiring the right people that will be necessary to make it happen - partnering with the right companies, suppliers and distributors that can deliver - assembling a plan of attack with input from the entire team involved, combined with a well thought-out long term plan for success - and in some cases, attracting the seed capital to finance your idea based solely on the plan, people and companies you've assembled. There is nothing more exciting then launching the marketing campaign, firing up the call center campaigns, assembling the dealer networks, growing your distribution channels and generating cash!

Starting a business will require inspiring others. The key is instilling a deep desire within the right individuals and companies that have the resources, wherewithal, capabilities and most importantly belief in the vision and ideas you have. Now, these people can help make your dream a reality.

There really is no more work, hours, or effort in launching a local business, national business or international business. It's all a matter of your vision and the people and companies you're associated with. Keep that in mind, as you will want to associate yourself with those that have already arrived at the destination you want to go - been there, done that... They will actually have the road map, experience and conversation necessary to get you where you want to go.

People want to be inspired, people want to believe in something and people will need to believe in you... If you believe in yourself, others will too; if you don't, they won't. Inspiration is what gets the ball rolling, keeps the ball rolling and eventually gets you to the desire goal.

Are you in the right environment that will give life to your vision?

What about the people you associate with daily - are they moving you closer to where you want to be?

Are you reaching out and meeting with successful people that can help you get you closer to the desired result?

Do you have a mentor or mentors that have built successful lives and businesses that are advising you how to do the same?

If your answer is no to any of these questions, this post by Jim Connolly is the answer - "Take Action Now"

I'm sure there are many things I'm leaving out here and it would be great to hear those things that are vital to inspiring not only successful businesses, but successful lives.

Are You Living in a Box or Living Your Dreams?

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 19:54:00 +0000

I read this post by Danny Brown recently and it really inspired me! It took my mind places I haven't gone for quite sometime. You can read it here: Are You Holding Back Your Creativity?

I remember growing up as a kid and how me and my friends could be anyone we wanted to be - Batman, Superman, Spiderman... ANYONE we desired! We played for hours, living out these characters in our fantasy world... we took on their persona's, stomped out the bad guys and had victory EVERY TIME :) It's amazing how everything is possible when you're a kid. There is nothing holding you back from your dreams or the possibilities life holds. As we grow older, our life experiences can take away that child-like faith. The ability to dream and be whatever you desire to be, is no longer possible in our minds. We stop thinking as a child and start thinking like adults.

I can remember my mom and dad telling me as I was growing up that life wasn't fair... it's a tough world out there. And, of course as you get out there in the real-world, it isn't easy. Those things mom and dad once took care of are now your responsibility. This is the starting point of putting yourself in a box; where your creativity dies and your belief system can begin to work against you. It's a mental prison that says "thats just not for me" or "I can't do this or that". For the most part, this is where most people spend their entire lives, letting past experiences and circumstances dictate what life has for them, rather than believing and understanding that by simply changing how they view things and embracing life with that child-like faith, the quality of their life could radically change.

Everything people deal with in life - other people, circumstances and their past (good and bad), are developing one of two distinct belief systems; they are either stepping stones and small victories that graduate you to the next level in the evolution of life, or they become stumbling blocks to growth that dulls hearing, crushes your vision and takes away the ability to believe and dream like a child. If you find yourself here, take a moment to reflect on the things written above, internalize this truth - because it is true - and just know that you don't have to accept the cards life seems to be dealing you - you can BE and DO whatever you put your mind to; but it will require a commitment to change and a willingness to fight your way out of the box you're in... and by the way, you can break-out, you really can. JUST DO It and don't look back. I hope to hear about your journey and insight to finding and building a rewarding life.

Sticking With Your Business Aspirations

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 01:14:00 +0000

@MatthewCrowe posted this short presentation on entrepreneurship - Going Into Business.

It reminds me of the many businesses I've been involved with throughout the years and Matthew pretty much sums up the entire process in in this short presentation.

Just be aware; patience is a virtue - nothing happens overnight. It takes tremendous determination and a no-quit attitude to finally get to the "it was all worth it" part. Some original ideas don't work out, plans have to be re-thought out, re-worked and re-written and in some cases completely trashed! The point is, if you stick with it, hard work and a little luck will bring you to the desired result you're after; success in a business you started.

Now that you've arrived at the semblance of success you envisioned, a whole different set of challenges awaits you that will test your vision, patience, tolerance and mental strength. It takes a unique person to fight their way to the top and establish a successful business, and it takes a unique person to operate, maintain and grow a big business. In most cases, these two distinct functions are, more often than not, handled by different people.

Enough of that for now. Needless to say, you're definitely off to an exciting and at the same time hair-ball experience and sticking with your business aspirations is the key. If you don't give up, you absolutely cannot be denied and there are few things more rewarding than building a successful business.

Happy 4th of July!

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 18:56:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered what happened to the 56 men who signed the Declaration of Independence?

Five signers were captured by the British as traitors, and tortured before they died.

Twelve had their homes ransacked and burned. Two lost their sons serving in the Revolutionary Army; another had two sons captured.

Nine of the 56 fought and died from wounds or hardships of the Revolutionary War.

They signed and they pledged their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor.

What kind of men were they?

Twenty-four were lawyers and jurists. Eleven were merchants, nine were farmers and large plantation owners; men of means, well educated, but they signed the Declaration of Independence knowing full well that the penalty would be death if they were captured.

Carter Braxton of Virginia, a wealthy planter and trader, saw his ships swept from the seas by the British Navy. He sold his home and properties to pay his debts, and died in rags.

Thomas McKeam was so hounded by the British that he was forced to move his family almost constantly. He served in the Congress without pay, and his family was kept in hiding. His possessions were taken from him, and poverty was his reward.

Vandals or soldiers looted the properties of Dillery, Hall, Clymer, Walton, Gwinnett, Heyward, Ruttledge, and Middleton..

At the battle of Yorktown, Thomas Nelson, Jr., noted that the British General Cornwallis had taken over the Nelson home for his headquarters. He quietly urged General George Washington to open fire. The home was destroyed, and Nelson died bankrupt.

Francis Lewis had his home and properties destroyed. The enemy jailed his wife, and she died within a few months.

John Hart was driven from his wife's bedside as she was dying. Their 13 children fled for their lives. His fields and his gristmill were laid to waste. For more than a year he lived in forests and caves, returning home to find his wife dead and his children vanished.

So, take a few minutes while enjoying your 4th of July holiday and silently thank these patriots. It's not much to ask for the price they paid.

Remember: freedom is never free!

Avoiding Risk Can Be Risky

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 16:06:00 +0000

What is Risk?

Risk pretty much is a figment of your imagination (it's all in your head). The reality is, there isn't anything safe out there... just waking up and going about your day can be risky business. Taking risks just provides opportunities to be more productive, to give more to society and stake your own claim in this life. There is a certain piece of mind that comes from living in this position and there isn't anything you can imagine or dream that isn't within your reach. The real risk is giving your trust and the responsibility of your future over to others who can't guarantee you anything and will more often than not, disappoint.

Is There Security?

Security comes with a price... the quality of your life. Seeking safety is a direct result of avoiding your fears and more often than not, it means settling for less. The problem with this is, you'll always know in the back of your mind that life could have been so much more if you hadn't settled for less. You've let your dreams die for the sake of security. Ever heard the saying, "live each day to the fullest, because we're not guaranteed tomorrow?" I'm not suggesting to live stupidly. I am suggesting that living a life seeking security can be a limiting and unfulfilled existence.

A Growing Trend...

I recently read this report: "Start-Up Explosion On The Horizon With The Baby Boomer's"- This is good news...

Whether out of desire or necessity, it is good to see so many people starting their own businesses as opposed to getting a job. Many people work jobs they hate because it's "safer" than starting their own business. While this may appear to be a safer route to go, many people are finding that things are not what they seem to be. Just ask the millions of people out of jobs in just the last year and you'll discover the reality.

Mentors and Inspiration...

I Just read this post by Chris Brogan; I really love Chris – he always inspires... “A Different Kind of Independence”

The safest investment people can make is in themselves. I would rather fall short reaching for the stars and doing my own thing then wake up one day only to find the company I worked for was going bankrupt or downsizing me right out of a job. I would rather invest in furthering my education, acquiring knowledge, working under mentors that can assist me with building my own businesses then put my money and financial future in someone else's hands that can't guarantee me security, or that I will even get even my principle back. If you don't believe that, just ask the hundreds of thousands of people that have lost everything investing in what they thought were the best companies in the world or the most reputable bankers on Wall Street. It will require that you accept full responsibility for your future; but isn't that better than giving that responsibility to some company, organization or putz that really doesn't have your best interest at heart? To be in business for yourself is to believe in yourself and believe you have something to contribute to your community, your country and/or the world. It's a position of independence, not reliance.

Many people don't believe they are built for this; however, everyone has the ability and opportunity to be independent and in business for themselves. The good news is, our current economic circumstances are driving people beyond the limits in their mind and they are doing things they would never have done otherwise. Independent ordinary people will do extraordinary things and it will be interesting to see this chapter of our history unfold... change has come indeed and it will be molded by courageous independent thinking people.You should join the movement : )

Entrepreneurs Have the Power to Make a Difference

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 15:28:00 +0000

I love Entrepreneurs! They possess a vision beyond themselves, extraordinary courage, the will to not quit, a desire to build something meaningful and great and give birth to innovation and new ideas… They have the power and desire to make a difference.

Cheers to all Entrepreneurs out there!

“True Transparency” – Is There Any Other Kind?

gacconsultants@gmail.com (Mark Harai) — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 22:22:00 +0000

I read a post by @davidspinks – discussing transparency and if people were being real or overly kind and complimentary just to appeal/conform to the community here. It inspired this post below...

People are driven by the nature thats in them... they can't help themselves, they don't know why they do the things they do, it's just the way they have always been. Some are good, some are bad, some are helpful, some aren't, some have honor, some don't, some have character, and some – you get the point. So then, at the end of the day, what you see is what you get. You can't fake to be something that you're not; at least not for very long, just give it a little time.

Overall, there is only a small number of people that consistently serve up value to the on-line communities they are part of. The majority of people are not leveraging the tools to enhance and better themselves and/or the lives of those they are connecting with. They don't know the people following them any better than they did before they got started in a social community.

Over the last year that I have been participating on Twitter, it has changed dramatically. There are a lot more spammers and numbers players vs people organically growing their mutual following. Long term value will only be created through developing relationships. The stronger the relationship, the more value that can be created. NO relationship = NO value.

Social media tools have enabled millions of people to develop a presence on the Web. Most of these folks are the consumers that drive revenues for companies across the globe. It is my belief that in the new relationship economy, people will spend money with people they know, maybe not personally, but certainly recommended by a contact, friend or community that they are part of. This by no means is a new business concept; but it is new with respect to sheer numbers of people that can be reached and influenced by ALL business owners, big or small, who are now benefiting greater than ever before from the new buying habits of consumers. Those that don't take the time to build on-line relationships won't be providing products or services to consumers in the future.

Money and wealth, for the most part, has been accumulated by greedy, self centered, self willed individuals that for the sake of the all mighty dollar, and this thinking/behavior has driven the economy, peoples savings, lives, hopes and dreams into the ground. The success stories of the future will come from people that are contributing value to others, not for the sake of making money; but because its the right thing to do. If you practice this, the financial rewards will come.

Wishful thinking? Maybe; ever heard of the old cliché “nice guys finish last?” That won't stop me from believing that good people will win in the end... cling to the good and run from the rest; they have nothing to add to your life and will take whatever they can.