why

Anger is always there to lead to evil

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 04:14:00 +0000

Psalm 37:8

“Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil.”

There is always something that causes repeated anger to make you want to have that person disappear in your life. Either you disappear or he/she/it disappear.

Why, How, When, Where

In my case, in my work, its my manager.

My working hour being hectic is norm.

Instead of working 24-8 .. 8 is seelping hours + driving to work. The rest is working time.

What work would i have ? i just admin when applied, suddenly told me it was a mistake im a Personal Assistant, But my boss STILL think im admin as well ??

Mostly of my current working style would be whole day in Manager room. Doing what? Filing, Stapling, Talking. Ok, maybe 30 min - 2 hours just to do my own job task.

=.=ll files are just in front of her, Staple just beside her, talk... one of MY HOMEwork is finding ghost movie for her.

I really dont know which staff I am.

But i never thought of resigning because the work is to my liking, deduct the Manager.

There always a phrase around :

When you find the work enjoyable, superior is a B**** instead

When you find the work hard, superior is an Angel.

My case would be, mine is Doom for me.

Today, i went out of her room earlier because i got a lot to rush, I dont have time to babysit her. So, I went back my place and do my own work to prevent need to work OVERTIME (no OT pay) till 11pm, and work normal as usual the next day.

Just because I'm doing my work, my Manager keep on coming my seat place messed up those papers and asked which to shred which not to.

All are needed to do invoicing and sent out to client. In stiff tone to control anger i replied her that, If shred this, no need charge the customer already. And kept on messing with me.

Luckily my heart is always at good condition.

When i planned to write "how to Murder your Manager" on my next Novel, i reflected ?

Psalm 37:8

Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil.

Ya ... evil... evil thoughts to kill her...

And i meditated and keep repeating these words, YES, anger lost.

but of course my Novel chapter is still going to be updated. =P

My closing prayer

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 03:53:00 +0000

Few weeks back,

I was asked to say closing prayers for the cell group meeting.

the environment was like, its ok. Just try your best. But still, I was stressed.

Majorly due to COVID-19, being state of "always at home", out of outside contact,

made me reduce my face-to-face interaction with outsiders except family members.

But still, there are something that family wont be the choice for my talk. God would be the patience listener. Hehe

Back to topic, 5 min preparation, i already had in my heart, just add some sentence and beautify only. Usual prayer of gratefulness for food and learning.

But ... However... pressure of the presence of people getting heavier, the words, jumble, ended short... its was a disaster.

It was said when you talk to God, focus. But usually i pray, i "talk" to him 1 on 1. So, im used to I pray that, so to change it, I cant fully focus, as need to divide attention to the wording.

But doing so, attention divided to other people being there.

So, i just prepared one...
As my instinct, sixth sense been telling me

(just "Dear God" when just me praying)

God wont care how you present your words, just your heart (sincerity) is most important, God know what you are thinking and knows what you want to tell him but waiting for you to tell him.

But people cares, so word matters. So, beautify it. The end.

Dear Lord, our heavenly father, we pray in the name of Jesus, with the power of Holy Spirit,

we ask that the words we have heard today preached by (name) speaker, through your grace, be grafted in our hearts,

(that they may bring forth in us the fruit of spirits, to honour and praise your name)

And thank you, Lord, for this food before us. Bless (name) host for kind hospitality, the preparation for the food (and those who are sharing it with us). May it nourish our bodies and bring us together in gratitude and love.

In the name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.

Songs that interested me

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Wed, 30 Dec 2020 08:08:00 +0000

Heard some song & searched for it :

1) Harry Styles - Sign of the times

2) Sam Smith - Diamond

3) Sia - Cheap Thrills

4) Anna Kendrick - Cups

(May heard this song & Cheap Thrills by Sia if you have seen Perfect Pitch)

5) Radiohead - Creep

6) The Cranberries - Zombie (Original) (Remake - Bad Wolves, released on 2018)

This video is remake - by Bad Wolves, which made me feels like "The Cranberries Feat. Bad Wolves"

They added a "grungy & metalic-tinged" feel.

Basically I love both the remade and the Original song which composed & sang by Dolores (The Cranberries). I don't have any extra opinion for this, just its a very good song, and all the proceeds from the tracks will be donated to her three child, so I'm good.

My Dear Lappy

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Wed, 30 Dec 2020 07:48:00 +0000

Lappy = Laptop, I dont know why I named it that, haha.

At first, I wanted to have a laptop cz there are many games that I wanted to play. Though I like games but I'm not that.. till Otaku level...

Before I get my lappy, I've made a list of game & passed to my brother.

The games that I wanted & Things i remember bout the game:

1) Starcraft

Cheat code -

Whorunbattertown (Resources)
Catfoodforprawnguns (Speed-immediate)
hanshotfirst (no cooldown required - useful for those without energy)

2) Skyrim

My beloved game...

Cheat code -

player.modav carryweight 1000000 =p (modav -permanent, setav-have to key in everytime play)
player.additem 0000000F 1000000 (too much, money will be negative instead)
player.placeatme (Items appear outside, but not in inventory. eg . for horse)

3) Fallout Shelter~

Since both Skyrim & Fallout shares the same developer Bethesda, so the cheat also the same = ) But this game made me dizzy =.=ll

4) Left4death...

I like to use Katana... feels like clean cut..
i hate Charger, i always get caught T.T

5) Witcher..

the graphic is really really pretty...
>< I forgot the control, so need replay again.

6) Styx..

a game of utilizing stealth & be sneaky.. not my type of game, but wanted it cz its very funny & cute, cz after you (the player) died, theres a death scene, Styx will say some insulting / scornful.

Hmm.. i probably a bit of M? hahahhaha

Video from you tube

7) Middle Earth : Shadow of War

Middle Earth : Shadow of Mordor won the best game of the year 2015. Shadow of War is sequel of Shadow in Mordor. But since not much difference between the 2, Shadow of war didnt win the Game of the year.

Interesting storyline, reader of lord or the ring & the hobbits may find this game interesting because this game's storyline is adapted from Tolkien's novel, era between hobbits & lord of the ring.

Definitely not my type. You need to kill the Orc & by killing the Commander, one of benefits is may get skill. Each time you accept the mission, but failed to kill & died by the hand of the Commander, when u re-take the mission, the orc will get stronger... basically u die, he become stronger, so play new game to reset everything.

advice : train & hunt freely before accept of do mission, play stealth, every orc commander got weakness, intel can be known by lower orc.
BTW, my bro told me, can dominate the orc, but may be betrayed, just a matter of time.
Can unlock, riding dragon... & summon

8) Diablo 2

press enter, /players 8
then will see a message players set to 8
difficulty level, harder to kill enemy, easier to level up.
I like to increase difficulty to Max (8), so when proceed to Act II, I will straight go to Halls of dead, to get Horadric Cube, haha

Advice from my bro - aura using meditation, increase cleansing & using skill Zeal, Dex do not be too low, as accuracy in Zeal depends on Dex.

This is an old game for me. But I wanted it because, I stuck at Duriel >< due to wrong skill invested, then after my bro teaches me, i completed it. A game of memory. ^^

9) Dynasty warrior 6

The horse.. i wan get a perfect horse to my preference T.T renbu & musou
Im using Sun Jian to train horse , cz he got the Horsemanship skill.. I dont like using guan yu, cz feels like to bulky to run, hehe (i like shun shang xiang, increase speed every few sec, haha - her skill)
To get horse, i like to use liu bei lady luck.

But while playing other charac, you may get horse as well. I barely raise the horse to max, my horse list full, but i get a new horse..

10) Doraemon, story of seasons

Nobita & his friends travel through dimension to Story of Season. (Similar to game - Harvest Moon) You will be playing as Nobita, earn money through farming & rearing cow, sheep & chicken. Required to send gift to all, to increase the friendship in order to proceed the storyline. Difference is that Nobita wont be getting married in this game, but Story of Season of other & harvest moon can get married.

Mid Autumn Festival

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Tue, 16 Sep 2014 07:02:00 +0000

Mid Autumn Festival is also known as Moon Cake Festival. Families would be eating Moon Cake while watching the full moon. This festival is related to some old legend or stories. But nowadays, many youngster only remembers the name of Moon Cake Festival instead of Mid Autumn Fesival and there are lesser people been taking stroll with the lantern.

Actually kind of sad because this year I couldnt play with lantern. As, each year after my mom lit up the lanterns, I would be the one taking care f it in case it get burn down. So, it quite fun at some point.But sadly, this year been working,no holiday for the festival. Sad. But the moon still always the same, the same round and full as each year.

My family and I celebrate Mid Autumn Festival earlier, went to restaurant celebrate.

The apple cider and Smirnoff were bought before we went for dinner. The apple cider is a bit bitter so I prefer the Smirnoff . It taste a bit like tonic and the most important thing is it's sweet and not bitter. haha

Actually I'm not quite sure how much is the alcohol content. Because while we were eating, I was told my cheeks are red and some picture are taken. Hmmm... Probably because either drink with empty stomach or I was drinking too fast. haha =p

Welcome back =p

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Tue, 16 Sep 2014 05:28:00 +0000

Welcome back to myself.

Lol, i even forgotten what my previous post about and when is the last time i posted stuff.....

About one month already I'm having a new job...
It's complicated. Especially when you having few trainer. One thought another taught you already and another forgotten that they haven teaches you yet...

And ow everyday, after work, iron shirt for tomorrow, then sleep.
Yup, working life is boring and tiring.

yeah, and today is public holiday, blogging ad singing my favourite song aloud. The Giving Tree by Plain White T .

有一种爱叫做放手

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Tue, 18 Mar 2014 09:56:00 +0000

i found this music video while i was surfing you tube searching for a song in my previous post. This song is called' Got a kind of love called letting go"

quite enjoyed this song when i first heard it... its nice...
no wonder i like to hear oldies...
though its a sad song....
n kind of touching.... the girl met an accident but the guy stays by his side despite she cant walk
then the guy knew he got terminal illness later on and made an act to break p with her...
the guy ended died while the girl married to another...

Song: I just wan to be here

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Sat, 15 Mar 2014 06:37:00 +0000

Last post for today bout my favourite songs
this song is one of the songs that I heard from the Hong Kong movies "Triumph in the skies II".

i only remembered in that movie, there's 2 songs that captivate my heart... and after through some hardship, i found only one ><

the first one is I just want to be here by Andy Powell. In fact i tried to find others songs that she sand but couldn't find any of it.. kind of sad ^^ but at least i found this song... ^^
lol, but i better download it incase this song broken or disappear...

Song from a secret garden

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Sat, 15 Mar 2014 06:27:00 +0000

"song from a secret garden'..

it's a really sad instrumental song...
but dont know why, when i hear it when im sad, its kind of cheers me up after the song finished...
though this song is sad, but i never cried when hearing this song before...
maybe im not sad enough??
people always said that your mood affects the feeling and the way you hears a music

My current favourite song.... ^^

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Sat, 15 Mar 2014 06:05:00 +0000

Knocking by Freddie Stroma...
Became my favourite after i watched the 'A Cinderella Story : Once upon a song"
i like it cz of his voice, the tone... and of course the melody....

Lyric

I lost in a world that rattles my brain

im cleaning my life from the mess you made

uh, oh

woah, uh ,oh, oh

my soulds are in debt but my bills are paid

i can give anything just to make an escape

uh, uh, oh

woah, uh ,oh,oh

so, you can keep knockin' knockin' knockin'

baby you're knockin' but there ain't way im ever letting you in

not again

so keep on knockin' knockin' knockin'

but baby you're better off walking

cz i ain't gonna let you in

never again

no,not again

So, so long honey there's no one to blame

but we lived in a dream then faced to fade

uh, oh

woah, uh ,oh, oh

And im scared of someone's gaze so i stared at the stage

and pour out my heart to the blank of a page

uh, oh

woah, uh ,oh, oh

repeat

I went on a limb again

i guess i had to lose to win

i was too confused to know which way to turn

and she could be a millionaire, be a model i dont care

cz there's nobody home

nobody's home

yeah

repeat

Pondering in the bus

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Sat, 15 Mar 2014 05:37:00 +0000

After the incident in the bus, i was thinking...

Some guys were being looked down because they were letting the girls to get what they want... which we would normally called that 'attitude' as gentleman'.

But actually when you treat someone with wholly heart... you probably would do anything...
does it really sounds stupid or incorrect to do so?

because There are some girls that i met before.. were taking advantage of a guy because the guy would let them to do so... and they stopped being friend with him and saying he is not gentleman as he refuses them ONCE...
from my point of view, its not about gentleman or not rdy in this case... its about using each other....

well, its kind of funny after summarize those who has told me about this world.... probably because i have a brother and i think from his point of view...
if a girl would do anything for a guy = she stupid
if a guy would do anything for a girl = he's a chicken cz he scared of her...

felt pity for those guys actually...
wrong for doing that and wrong for doing this... n din do aso wrong =.=ll

Is he really a gentleman?

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Sat, 15 Mar 2014 05:23:00 +0000

This morning, while i queue for the bus... There is a guy let me cut his cue....

that time i was thinking " hmm~~ he quite a gentleman"
but =.=ll

once he entered the bus, he lie on the pole.. which basically used for public to hold while standing...
its quite crowded in the bus.. but his action led me reviewing my point of view on "gentleman"

Memories

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 04:56:00 +0000

For me,

Time is numbers. Counting one till 60 is seconds

but after 60 seconds, it would become 1 minute instead of 61 seconds
and 60 minutes = 1 hours.

1 day is 24 hours = 1440 minutes = 86400 seconds

1 year is 8765.81 hours = 525948.6 minutes = 31556916 seconds

(source: https://support.google.com/websearch/answer/3284611?hl=en-MY#unitconverter)

Memories are the events that happened and it stays as our memory.
Some memories are sad, some are happy...

but no matter what they are, they have their value....
happy memories let us be cheerful
sad memories help us be learn appreciates and be tough

but no matter it is what kind of memories, it's the best if we are not lock at the time of that memories regardless how sweet or how bitter it is, we must learn to let go of the past and go on... this is life...
as
yesterday is history
today is a gift
and tmr is mystery...

Learned from the Kung Fu Panda (the turtle ) =)

without bitter, we wont realize sweetness....
so if there isnt sad incident, we wont be happy when one's occurs... where we would probably treating it as normal or as usual boring incident.....

and currently there is a part of memories i wished to erase or forget coz
If remains the sweet memory, it would always remind me of the bitter part. Being struggled and stayed at between is kind of suffocating.. the bitterness is much stronger than the sweetness.
i would prefer to erase that whole part... the 'avoid' method.. many may find me as coward...
but this is one way for helping me be become stronger and avoid from being hurt further...

Been trying to erase that part of memories for 4 months rdy... and its really kind of hard...
actually, is there any problem in choosing whatever or how you will be handling your life?
Isnt the most important point is being happy?
If its isnt us to choose how we want to handle but following others order or advice or ____, then if we ended being unhappy and sad, who can we blame? ourself for following or that person who we choose to follow?

huh~~ suddenly felt its kind of weird for typing such deep stuff, lol...
but then, my current option will be always towards a path that would always makes me happy and stay cheerful... = ) but i know that the path I would faces rough time in future =.=ll...

These is what i think...

Saw junior made me missed the past

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 04:13:00 +0000

Currently at the college CITC...
the girl beside me is doing her tutorial...

seeing her doing the matrix made me missed the time when i was doing it when in Diploma lvl...

then i looked up of her tutorial paper and i saw
mathematics for economics dec/dfi

its the exactly the subject i had in the past... hehe, my junior..
>< i hated maths cz my maths always EPIC fail .. lol
but the only thing that i liked is matrix...
always found myself enjoy doing that tutorial..

but now,forgotten how to solve the equation rdy...

my current breakfast

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 03:51:00 +0000

actually except my 'owl' sleeping time...
i considered myself as healthy because every morning, my breakfast would be an apple (green) and either milk or soy milk... yummy ^^

then lunch would be waffle =p better than din eat...

dinner would be spaghetti >< yummy.. but sometimes would be desserts.

these considered as ok rdy since not with family, studying outstation. Things would be different with having parents at home.....

decided to bring rice-cooker from home ^^ yeah~~ then i can eat can food rdy =p hehe ^^

Home sweet home

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 03:46:00 +0000

Haha, as usual, still have problem in thinking TITLES~~~~

hmmmm~~~
this morning bought bus ticket back to hometown~~ so happy ^^

the only thing im worried about is assignment =.='' and couldnt wake up tmr....
these days been disaster... totally become just like an owl...
sleeps in the morning 6 or 7am and but wakes up at 6 or 7 pm.. =.=ll 12 hrs.. wonder how i sleep so soundly till din hear the alarm...

things must be bought before tmr departure...
1) anti motion.. Forgotten the name... (for motion sickness purpose)... thanks for my sis for introducing this med to me... very useful... esp having the bus driver with rough driving skill

2) sour plum

^^

Cyber Cafe gave me bad memories

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Mon, 24 Feb 2014 10:39:00 +0000

=.=ll currently being in the college CITC, there's a guy who gave out scary and creepy aura..

which made me feel like leaving soon but i had no option, needed to finish my assignment ASAP so i stayed

huh, but luckily he left....

actually he reminded me the bad experience i had when i was at Cyber cafe last semester,
that night i stayed late at the cc doing assignment,...
to avoid disturbance, i chose a seat at far end which the seat is kind of isolated...

i still can withstand the noisy or smoke scent in the CC,
but the problem is, a foreign guy chooses the seat beside mine, opened a porn website and
to my horror, he masturbating.. =.=ll

its like a nightmare to me.. first time =.=ll

although i was concentrating, i tried to finish the parts in hurry and decided to leave because i sensed that guy keep looking at my direction.. =.=ll the seat he sat is at the left side of mine but he kip looking at the right side, either me or the toilet...

that time realizes, better not to got to cc alone esp at night.. =.=ll

Chinese New Year Celebration 2014~~

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Mon, 24 Feb 2014 10:30:00 +0000

I always had the feeling that living in KL really bores me to the deepest...

but~ having CNY trip with my family to KL isn't so bad....

When think about CNY, i know i will grow fatter since my house got two professional chef.. haha
(but actually i became fatter before the CNY since my mom cook everything that i liked)

hehe, these aren't the only dishes but I didn't capture cz bzy eating.. hehe =p

then CNY trip to KL~~

when reach KL, hehe, we took a long time to the hotel U-Pac as the road really complicated...

at night, we went to watch movie (sun wu kong starring by donnie yan, aaron kwok and chow yun fatt)

then, next day

KL Bird Park

im sure the name got pearl but not sure is the the pearl chicken =p
my sis n me was guessing is it called pearl cz of the white dot looks like pearl...

ostrich and emu~~

only i realizes there is diff between ostrich and emu~

ostrich is bigger in size, about half the size of the emu (from what i have seen)

cute birdie but scary cz its red eyes

Peacock =.=ll

at first its fascinating to see them... but after a while its really tiring to see them.. cz in the bird park, theres a lot of peacock, one at a place.. =.=ll

Suddenly i remembered something, the peacock in the right picture is somehow scare of the crowd, so its keep going to the worker for some protection, but the staff keep on kicking the peacock away... its really kind of cruel, but of course i do not know the story behind it.

EAGLE~~ they really cool ><

cozy waterfall = )

Next is

Aquaria

really like this pic ^^

my sis kip ask me take this pic for her, really dun understand why she like this ANIMAL ?

Moth ^^

river rat ? ( forgotten the name,at first i tot its sea otter T.T)

This damn scary, electric eel =.=ll

hermit crab, reminded me of pokemon, hehe

Tarantula, =.=ll another favourite of my sis...

That's all for today bye bye~~ ^^

Long time....

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Mon, 24 Feb 2014 09:18:00 +0000

Its been really long time since i posted stuff in this blog...

maybe due to lazy and busy with college life... everyday bzy with doing research, study, eat and sleep... actually its kind of boring doing the same stuff~~

BUT i guess i would miss that feeling when i starts working.

now i starts again just because i heard someone said 'i havent save my blog'
hmmm... reminded me of mine~ and decided to post something instead leaving it untouched...

I met the irritating guard again!

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Fri, 02 Aug 2013 06:59:00 +0000

In my college, the guards are divided into two sides.... One is strict and the another aren't...

Today is my unluckiest day because I met the irritating guard again... Hate her.. This ' hate her' story begins a month after I commence to my current college...

One day, I tripped nearby the condo that I'm living... It's so pain..I went to see doctor the next morning... I'm advised to move my leg often since it will let blood flows...

My swollen leg look so FAT with the bandage ...

I went to college the next day... With that piggy leg, it was swollen that I'm forced to wear slipper... But able to wear jeans...

The guard at main gate let me enter n offered to fetch me to my class by motorcycle as I was slowly dragging my leg... Then after class, I went to library to borrow a book that I have made booking... That book is very important... I just want to go to the counter and borrow the book but a female guard said she wasn't allowed to let students with slipper and shorts to enter since it will disturb other ppl..

I told her I was forced to wear slipper because my leg sprained , i just want to go to the counter and I even begged her

But she still refuses...

Zzz... When I was about to leave, I saw that guard allowed other girls with short pants and slipper to enter....

That time I was so "hate" her.. N thinking if she discriminate ppl with sprain leg...

In the end that book is borrowed... N I'm unable to do booking as its too late.. There are bookings till end of the sem...

Asking myself.. Should I blame the guard or my sprained leg....?

Today met her again... I was wearing slipper this time but without sprain leg... I wasn't allowed to enter by her again... I know this time is my fault but once again she allowed other girls with slippers to enter....

Did I step on her tail? Kip asking myself n the answer is no... Controlling myself from cursing her..

Really dislike the college's main branch... Guard say this n do that and exclaim they din wrong and did it to increase efficiency... But why it isn't same towards all ?

Telling the truth

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Thu, 25 Jul 2013 07:16:00 +0000

This world is weird...

Some people tends to believe to what they think is the truth although they have been told...

They might not notice that this act has greatly hurt those who told them the truth...

While some others people will chooses to believe what they see or what they heard from others as the truth...

I felt funny and frustrated when I was told about one thing and believes it, then being told by others "don't be so naive" ...

I was wondering that time, u think it is a lie, hence is must be a lie....?

Why some of the people treat certain things as a lie because they felt its impossible?

And why when they didn't believe it cz they didn't think it is impossible, those people want to affect other people to think as them too??

Don't judge a book by its cover...

Not all the peoples in this world aren't honest. Just because they aren't honest this doesn't mean u are not as well....

Just because one's does not trust may affect others not too trust as well .. What would u feel if the one closest to you, being affected and didn't believe you?

This is the question I thought after watched a movie that I forgotten the title?

Have you been telling the truth but not being believed, ended with being upset and felt that what is the purpose of telling the truth to them?

Why Mixpod closed?

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Tue, 08 Jan 2013 19:40:00 +0000

>< quite sad for having Mixpod to close down
hmmm... perhaps because used to using it rdy....

Mixpod is where you able to create an account, you can create your own playlist and the songs can be found there too... It really makes my life easy because I only need to create the playlist and then save the html. Then "WHY" would become lively...

Now wonder why suddenly my blog becoming silent though I keep having the page refresh....

Actually, having Mixpod to close down, really makes me thinking why does certain Facebook games that are fun to play would have to be closed down instead of the boring and uninterested games...

But then, the most important is Blogspot wont be closing down ^^

Im Back~~

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Tue, 08 Jan 2013 19:30:00 +0000

haha
Finally, back rdy....
quite miss my blog ^^

Hmmm.... the day i stop blogging is the day i forgot the password...
Just changed the password... I still wondering my previous password is what
but i still cant remember =.=ll
zzzz

Quite scare becoming a forgetful person before become an old hag...

Crying when sad...

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 03:53:00 +0000

Hmmm...

I decided to write about crying in this post, i thought from a status that I shared in the fb...

NEVER believe in 3 people : Sagittarius, Aries, Pisces. They are the most selfish and mean.
NEVER lose 3 people : Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn. They are the most sincere and true lovers.
NEVER leave 3 people : Virgo, Libra, Scorpio. They can keep secrets, friendship , and they can see your tears.
NEVER reject 3 people : Leo, Gemini, Aquarius .They are true, honest friends. :)

Of course, when we see this, we will see in which we ourselves will be categorized first then our frens

Crying =

Crying (also called sobbing, wailing, weeping,whimpering, bawling, and blubbering) is shedding tears as a response to an emotional state in humans. (Adapted From wikipedia)

When you saw someone cry in a public, some may chooses to think that its humiliating o cry in the public and some may comfort them and so on...

I think would be the best is let them cry, as it is one of the emotion release..
Through crying, the sadness would be reduced, depends on the severity of their matter..
Enduring the tears from being flow out, keeping the ""emotion"" inside will affect the person physically though may be a bit only..

But, it is indeed true that , it is best not to cry in public as ppl will be seeing you, that time you will felt that why everyone looking at me like im an alien..
By this, some may stop crying, while some may cry more worst..

If a person is crying, high possibility is they are sad, if you going to scold her stop to cry, you better don't .. coz this will made her sadder. In the end, she either scare of you or cry even more worse...

psps
According to the German Society of Ophthalmology, which has collated different scientific studies on crying, women cry on average between 30 and 64 times a year, and men cry on average between 6 and 17 times per year. (Adapted From wikipedia)

No wonder ~~
so, cant blame girls for crying. It not what we want, we just need to release our emotion

fren

noreply@blogger.com (Flurrply) — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 04:28:00 +0000

After read my sis blog, i got a question of writing this pot....
That question is in my mind all this long....

For me, people are weird... if i treat a guy nice... wouldn't it because im nice... muz it be coz i love him?? =.=ll

if im not being nice, people will say me no manners... =.=ll more worse

If being nice, ppl will say me stupid as being nice wont get repaid....

For me, being nice is important, its like respect, u wan respect u muz respect others...
so does being nice, if you aren't nice to other, how they want to treat you nicer... then you will exclaim they are ur enemy =.=ll

sometimes really think that shud i be nice??
but cant be not nice, haha
in the end prefer not to talk... coz if din talk , then no need to be nice, then no gossip.....
lol, one gossip could coz a person really pity.... haiz~~~