This is that chart. Below you'll find the full hiragana syllabary laid out cleanly: the 46 base characters, the voiced dakuten and handakuten rows, and the little yōon combination sounds, all with romaji. After the tables I'll walk you through a sensible learning order, a few mnemonics, the basics of stroke order, and the handful of look-alike characters that trip up every single beginner.

A quick reassurance before we dive in. Hiragana looks like a wall of unfamiliar squiggles, and that wall is exactly what scares people off Japanese in week one. But here's the truth: hiragana is a small, regular, learnable system. It's 46 base characters built on a tidy five-vowel grid, and most learners can read all of them inside a week or two. This is genuinely one of the fastest early wins in the whole language.

I've sat where you are. I took on Japanese as one of my language missions, and the moment hiragana clicked, the rest of the language stopped feeling like a code and started feeling like a language. You can get there faster than you think. So let's get you reading.

What Is Hiragana? (And How It Fits with Katakana and Kanji)

Japanese is written with three scripts woven together, and hiragana is the one to learn first.

• Hiragana (ひらがな) is the curvy, flowing script used for native Japanese words, grammar bits, and word endings. It's the backbone of the writing system and the script that holds sentences together.
• Katakana (カタカナ) is the angular sister script, used mainly for foreign loanwords (think コーヒー, kōhī, “coffee”), names from other languages, and emphasis. It maps to exactly the same sounds as hiragana.
• Kanji (漢字) are the characters borrowed from Chinese that carry meaning rather than just sound, used for the core of most nouns, verbs and adjectives.

A typical sentence mixes all three. Hiragana is where everyone starts because you can read and sound out real Japanese with it straight away, and because once you know hiragana, katakana is the same idea with different shapes.

When Is Hiragana Used?

In day-to-day Japanese, hiragana does most of the heavy lifting:

• Grammatical words and particles (は, が, を, に and friends) that glue sentences together.
• Verb and adjective endings that change with tense and politeness.
• Native words that either have no kanji or whose kanji is rare or deliberately softened.
• Furigana, the tiny hiragana printed above tricky kanji to tell you how they're read. Furigana alone is a brilliant reason to learn hiragana early: it gives you the pronunciation of words you can't read yet.

The Hiragana Chart: 46 Base Characters (Gojūon)

Here's the heart of it. The basic hiragana characters are arranged in a grid called the gojūon (五十音, “fifty sounds”). Five vowels run across the top, and each row adds a consonant in front of them. Learn to read the grid and you've learned the logic of the whole script.

A few things worth flagging, because they catch everyone:

• *し is shi, not “si”, ち is chi, つ is tsu, and ふ is fu*. These four are the irregular pronunciations in the grid, so give them an extra look.
• The y-row and w-row have gaps. There's no native yi, ye, wi, wu or we in modern Japanese, which is why those cells are empty.
• *を (wo) is special. It's pronounced just like お (o*) and is used only as a grammatical particle marking the object of a verb. You'll write it constantly and almost never inside a normal word.
• *ん (n) is the only standalone consonant.* It's the single hiragana that isn't a full syllable, and it's the one character that can end a word.

Dakuten and Handakuten: Voiced Sounds

Once the base grid is solid, you get a big batch of new sounds almost for free. Adding two little strokes (dakuten, ゛) or a small circle (handakuten, ゜) to the top-right of a character changes its sound in a regular way: k becomes g, s becomes z, t becomes d, and h becomes b (with the circle) or p.

You don't really learn 25 new characters here. You learn five small marks and where they go, and the shapes underneath are already familiar. A couple of notes:

• *じ and ぢ both sound like ji; ず and づ both sound like zu.* In modern Japanese the じ and ず versions do nearly all the work, so learn those as your default and treat ぢ and づ as the rare exceptions.
• The p-row uses the handakuten circle (゜), not the two strokes. It's the only row that does, which makes it easy to spot.

Yōon: Combination Sounds

The last piece of the chart is yōon (拗音), the contracted sounds you make by gluing a small や, ゆ or よ onto any character in the i-column. So き (ki) plus a small ゃ gives きゃ (kya), one single syllable. The small kana is written noticeably smaller than a full-size one, which is your visual cue.

Notice the s-row and t-row break the tidy pattern: しゃ is sha (not “shya”) and ちゃ is cha, because they're already built on shi and chi. Once you've spotted that, the rest of the yōon are exactly what they look like.

That's the entire hiragana system on one page: 46 base characters, the dakuten and handakuten rows, and the yōon. Nothing else to find.

Your Free Printable Hiragana Chart

The tables above are deliberately clean so you can use them as your printable reference. Screenshot the gojūon grid, send it to your phone's lock screen, or print it and pin it above your desk. Seeing the whole grid every day does more than any app for getting the layout into your head, because hiragana rewards repetition more than almost anything else in a language.

How to Learn Hiragana (the Fast Way)

Hiragana is a sprint, not a marathon. Here's the order and the approach I'd use.

A Sensible Learning Order

1. Start with the five vowels: あ い う え お. Everything else in the grid is built on these five sounds, so over-learn them until they're instant.
2. Add one consonant row at a time. Take か き く け こ, then さ し す せ そ, and so on. Five characters a day is a comfortable, sticky pace.
3. Learn to read before you learn to write. Recognising characters is the skill that opens up real Japanese fastest. Handwriting can follow once you can read.
4. Only then add dakuten, handakuten and yōon. They're small modifications of shapes you already know, so they slot in quickly once the base grid is solid.
5. Read real Japanese as soon as you can. Sound out signs, menus, song lyrics, anything. Using hiragana for real beats any drill, and it's exactly the speak-and-read-from-day-one approach that makes a language stick.

Mnemonics That Stick

The fastest way to bolt a character to a sound is to turn its shape into a little picture and a story. A few that have stuck for me and loads of other learners:

• き (ki) looks like a key.
• く (ku) is a bird's beak going “coo“.
• の (no) is a clear “no entry” swirl.
• め (me) has an eye in it, and you see things with your eyes (“me“).
• た (ta) hides a little t and a in its shape.

Build your own where you can. A mnemonic you invented sticks far better than one you were handed, because the act of inventing it is itself a rep.

Stroke Order Basics

Japanese characters are written in a set order, and following it makes your writing legible and your hand faster. The two rules that cover most cases:

• Top to bottom, and left to right.
• Horizontal strokes before vertical ones that cross them.

You don't need to obsess over this on day one, especially if you're learning to read first. But when you do start writing, learning the correct stroke order from the start saves you unlearning a messy habit later.

The Confusing Look-Alike Pairs (and How to Tell Them Apart)

A small set of hiragana look almost identical, and mixing them up is the single most common beginner stumble. Here are the usual suspects and a concrete way to keep each one straight.

The pattern across most of these is the loop: ね, る and friends close into a loop, while their look-alikes leave the stroke open. Train your eye to check for that loop and most of the confusion melts away. A few others worth a glance as you go are あ/お (the お has a little flag on top) and う/つ (the う stands tall, つ lies flat).

Where to Go After Hiragana

Once hiragana clicks, the doors swing open. The natural next steps:

• Katakana, the second script. It's the same set of sounds with different shapes, so it goes faster the second time around.
• A starter stock of vocabulary. Build out from a base of core Japanese words and some everyday Japanese phrases you can actually say.
• Your first conversations. Learn a few ways to say hello in Japanese and get a feel for how Japanese sentence structure works, then start putting words in order.
• The bigger picture. When you want to see how it all fits together, our Japanese language masterclass and our guide to how to learn Japanese map out the road ahead.

Hiragana is the first real foothold in Japanese, and it's a generous one: a couple of weeks of focused practice and you can read the script that holds the whole language together.

That last point about using it for real is the heart of how I approach every language. If you want a structured way to go from your first characters to actual conversations with real people, that's exactly what we build inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp, a community and a method where we coach you to actually use your Japanese with a human, fast.

For now, though, you've got the complete hiragana chart and a plan to learn it. Pin it up, start with those five vowels, and go.

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In this article I'll walk you through the full avoir conjugation: the present, the past tenses, the future, the conditional, the subjunctive, the imperative, and the participles, all laid out in clean tables. Then I'll show you the two things that make avoir the single most useful verb in French: it's the main helper verb behind almost every past sentence you'll ever say, and it powers a whole family of everyday expressions like avoir faim (to be hungry) and il y a (there is).

A quick reassurance before we dive in. Avoir means “to have”, and yes, it's irregular, so you can't just bolt regular endings onto a stem and hope for the best. But here's the good news: it's so common that the forms stick fast. You'll be using j'ai and il y a within your first hour of speaking French, and the rest follows from there. You really only need to memorise a handful of forms cold; the patterns carry the rest.

I've leaned on avoir from my very first conversations in French. When I was living in Paris finding my feet, j'ai and il y a were doing most of the heavy lifting in everything I said, long before I had the fancier tenses. That's the whole point: a couple of avoir forms get you talking for real on day one.

Let's get into it.

Avoir in the Present Tense (Présent)

Start here. These six forms are the ones you'll say most often in the whole language, so over-learn them.

A couple of pointers. J'ai is pronounced like “zhay”, and that little ai sound comes back again and again, so it's worth nailing now. Watch ils ont (they have) carefully: that final -ont is the giveaway form, and it's easy to confuse with ils sont (they are) from être. One letter, completely different verb.

Example sentences:

• J'ai un frère et deux sœurs. → I have one brother and two sisters.
• Tu as raison. → You are right. (literally “you have reason”, more on that later)
• Ils ont une grande maison. → They have a big house.

Avoir in the Passé Composé (j'ai eu)

The passé composé is the everyday past tense, the one you'd use to say “I had”. And here's a lovely twist: avoir is its own helper verb. So “I had” is j'ai eu, literally “I have had”.

The past participle of avoir is eu (pronounced like a short “uh”), which looks nothing like the infinitive, so just learn it as a one-off.

• J'ai eu peur. → I was scared. (literally “I had fear”)
• Nous avons eu de la chance. → We were lucky.

Avoir in the Imparfait (Imperfect)

The imparfait is the “used to” / “was having” past tense, for ongoing or background states. The stem is av- and the endings are the standard imperfect set, so this one is beautifully regular.

• Quand j'étais petit, j'avais un chien. → When I was little, I had a dog.
• Elle avait toujours faim. → She was always hungry.

If you want to go deeper on this tense and when to reach for it over the passé composé, we've got a full guide to the French imparfait.

Avoir in the Futur Simple (Simple Future)

The future stem of avoir is the irregular aur-. Learn that stem and the rest is just the standard future endings.

• Demain j'aurai le temps. → Tomorrow I will have time.
• Vous aurez des nouvelles bientôt. → You will have news soon.

Avoir in the Conditionnel Présent (Conditional)

The conditional is the “would have” tense. It uses the same aur- stem as the future, but with imperfect endings tacked on. Learn the future and you get the conditional almost for free.

• J'aurais besoin d'aide. → I would need help.
• Avec plus d'argent, nous aurions une plus grande maison. → With more money, we would have a bigger house.

Avoir in the Subjonctif Présent (Subjunctive)

The subjunctive turns up after expressions of doubt, emotion, wishing and necessity, very often after que (“that”). Avoir has irregular subjunctive stems (ai- and ay-), so this is one to memorise rather than derive.

• Il faut que tu aies de la patience. → You need to have patience.
• Je doute qu'il ait raison. → I doubt that he is right.

For the bigger picture on when and why the subjunctive shows up, see our guide to the French subjunctive.

Avoir in the Impératif (Commands)

The imperative is for giving orders and encouragement. Avoir borrows its subjunctive stems here, which makes these forms look unusual, so they're worth a quick memorise. There are three forms (tu, nous, vous), and the negative simply wraps them in ne … pas.

• Aie confiance ! → Have confidence! / Trust me!
• N'ayez pas peur. → Don't be afraid.

Avoir in the Passé Simple (Literary Past)

You'll mostly meet the passé simple in books, fairy tales and formal writing rather than in conversation, so you only really need to recognise it. The forms come from an e- stem and look quite different from everything else.

You can safely file this under “read, don't speak” until you're well along.

The Participles: Ayant and Eu

Two forms worth pinning down, because they show up constantly:

• Participe présent: ayant (having). As in Ayant faim, il a mangé → “Having been hungry, he ate.”
• Participe passé: eu (had). This is the form you've already met in the passé composé (j'ai eu), and it's also the one you use in every other compound tense.

The Big One: Avoir as the Helper Verb for Past Tenses

Here's why avoir is the most valuable verb to learn early. Most of the time, when you talk about the past in French, you do it with avoir plus a past participle. This is the passé composé, and the vast majority of French verbs build it with avoir.

The recipe is simple: avoir (in the present) + past participle.

Get avoir solid and you've essentially opened up the past tense for thousands of verbs at once. That's a huge return on six little forms.

The same avoir + participle pattern also drives the other compound tenses. Swap the tense of avoir and you change the tense of the whole thing:

• Plus-que-parfait (had done): j'avais mangé → I had eaten (imparfait of avoir + participle)
• Futur antérieur (will have done): j'aurai mangé → I will have eaten (future of avoir + participle)
• Conditionnel passé (would have done): j'aurais mangé → I would have eaten (conditional of avoir + participle)

One verb, every compound tense. That's the payoff.

Avoir vs Être: Which Verbs Don't Take Avoir

Now the one catch, and it's a small one. A short list of verbs use être (to be) as their helper instead of avoir. These are mostly verbs of movement and change of state, plus all reflexive verbs.

The classic memory trick is DR & MRS VANDERTRAMP, where each letter is a verb that takes être:

So you'd say je suis allé (I went), not j'ai allé. On top of these, every reflexive verb takes être too: je me suis levé (I got up).

The simple rule to walk away with: if a verb isn't on that short list and isn't reflexive, it takes avoir. That covers the overwhelming majority of French verbs, which is exactly why avoir is the helper verb you'll lean on most.

Avoir Idioms: Where French Says “Have” and English Says “Be”

This is the part that surprises every learner, and it's pure gold once it clicks. A whole set of everyday feelings and states that English expresses with “to be” are expressed in French with avoir (to have). You don't are hungry in French; you have hunger.

Two of these deserve a special mention because you'll use them constantly:

Telling your age with avoir. In French you don't are a certain age, you have it. “I am thirty years old” is j'ai trente ans (literally “I have thirty years”). Forgetting this and reaching for être is one of the most common beginner slips, so lock it in early.

Il y a → “there is” / “there are”. This little phrase is built from avoir (the a in the middle is “has”) and it's everywhere. Il y a un problème means “there is a problem”. Il y a deux chats means “there are two cats” → note that French uses the same il y a whether it's one thing or many. Bonus: il y a also means “ago” when you put a time after it, as in il y a deux ans (two years ago).

These expressions are the kind of thing that makes you sound genuinely French fast, because natives use them in every conversation.

Common Mistakes with Avoir (and How to Dodge Them)

A few traps catch nearly everyone. Spot them now and you'll skip the usual stumbles.

1. Using être for feelings and age. This is the big one. It's j'ai faim (not je suis faim) for “I'm hungry”, and j'ai vingt ans (not je suis vingt ans) for “I'm twenty”. When the meaning is a bodily state or your age, French reaches for avoir.
2. Mixing up ont and sont. Ils ont (they have) versus ils sont (they are). Same rhythm, one letter apart, opposite verbs. Slow down on that o sound.
3. Forgetting the past participle is eu, not avé. The participle of avoir is the irregular eu, so “I had” is j'ai eu, never j'ai avé.
4. Using avoir where the verb actually takes être. It's je suis allé (I went), not j'ai allé. When in doubt, run through that short être list above.
5. Dropping the de after besoin and envie. It's j'ai besoin de and j'ai envie de, with the de baked in. J'ai besoin un café is wrong; j'ai besoin d'un café is right.

How to Lock In Avoir (the Fast Way)

Avoir rewards a little focused effort more than almost any other verb, because you use it constantly. Here's how I'd approach it:

1. Over-learn the present tense first. Those six forms (j'ai, tu as, il a, nous avons, vous avez, ils ont) are the foundation for every compound past tense, so make them automatic.
2. Grab il y a and j'ai … ans straightaway. Two phrases, instantly useful, and they make you sound natural from your very first conversation.
3. Learn the idioms as whole chunks. Don't translate avoir faim word by word in your head, just learn “j'ai faim = I'm hungry” as a single ready-made unit.
4. Learn the être exceptions as a set. Once the DR & MRS VANDERTRAMP list is familiar, you know that everything else takes avoir, which is most verbs.
5. Use it out loud, today. Order food (je voudrais…, j'ai faim), say your age, point things out with il y a. Real speaking beats any drill, and avoir gives you loads to say from day one.

Once avoir is solid, build out from there. A stock of common verbs, a handful of useful French phrases, the difference between tu and the formal vous, and a sense of when to use the imparfait versus the passé composé. Avoir threads through all of it.

That speaking-from-day-one approach is the heart of how I learn every language. If you want a structured way to go from your first French words to real conversations with real people, that's exactly what we build inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp, a community and a method, with coaching, that gets you speaking French with a human being, fast.

For now, though, you've got the full avoir conjugation and, more importantly, the two big jobs it does: powering your past tenses and giving you a stack of everyday expressions. Go and put avoir to work.

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In this article I'll give you the full katakana chart, every character with its romaji, laid out so it makes sense rather than just sitting there as a wall of symbols. We'll cover the 46 base characters, the voiced ones (the dakuten and handakuten rows), the little combination sounds, the long-vowel mark that's unique to katakana, and the extra characters Japanese invented to handle foreign sounds. By the end you'll know not just what each character is, but when and why katakana gets used.

A quick reassurance before we get going. Katakana looks intimidating because it's a second whole alphabet on top of hiragana. But it's really the same 46 sounds you already know (or are learning) from hiragana, just dressed in sharper, more angular clothing. So if you've met hiragana, you've already done the hard conceptual work. Katakana is a fresh set of shapes for sounds you've seen before, and most learners get it down in a few days.

I learned my kana the same way I tackle everything in a new language: I stopped treating it as something to admire and started using it straight away, spotting katakana words on signs, menus and packaging all over Japan. That's where it clicked. Half the fun of katakana is that loads of the words are borrowed from English, so once you can read it, you'll be sounding out words you already know.

What Is Katakana (and How It Differs from Hiragana)

Japanese is written with three scripts working together: hiragana, katakana and kanji. Hiragana and katakana are the two phonetic alphabets, together called kana. They cover exactly the same set of sounds. The difference is the job each one does.

Hiragana handles native Japanese words and grammar. Katakana is the script for everything that comes from outside, plus a few special jobs. Most of the time, if you see those sharp, angular characters, you're looking at:

• Loanwords borrowed from other languages, especially English. コーヒー (kōhī) is “coffee”, テレビ (terebi) is “television”, and パン (pan, from various Latin languages) is “bread”.
• Foreign names, both people and places. Your own name will almost certainly be written in katakana when you're in Japan.
• Onomatopoeia, the sound-effect words Japanese loves. ワンワン (wanwan) is a dog's bark, ドキドキ (dokidoki) is a thumping heart.
• Emphasis, a bit like italics in English. A word that would normally be hiragana or kanji gets written in katakana to make it pop.
• Scientific and technical terms, including the names of plants, animals and chemicals.

That “foreign and borrowed” angle is the key to katakana. Hiragana is for the inside, katakana is for the outside. Hold onto that and the whole script makes sense.

If you'd like the bird's-eye view of how all three scripts fit together, our guide to the Japanese alphabet walks through hiragana, katakana and kanji side by side.

The Full Katakana Chart: 46 Base Characters

Here's the heart of it: the gojūon (“fifty sounds”), the base katakana chart. Read it like a grid. The five vowels run across the top (a, i, u, e, o), and each row adds a consonant in front of them. So the K row gives you ka, ki, ku, ke, ko, and so on down the chart.

A few notes so nothing trips you up:

• Three sounds break the tidy pattern, exactly as they do in hiragana: シ is shi (not “si”), チ is chi (not “ti”), and ツ is tsu (not “tu”). Worth flagging now so they don't surprise you later.
• The y row and w row have gaps. There's simply no yi, ye, wi, wu or we in modern standard Japanese, so those slots sit empty.
• ヲ (wo) is vanishingly rare in katakana. You'll meet its hiragana cousin を all the time as a grammar particle, but the katakana version barely turns up.
• ン (n) is the one lone consonant, the only katakana that isn't a full syllable. It's the n sound at the end of words like パン (pan).

That's the full base set. Forty-six characters, and every other katakana on this page is built from these.

Dakuten and Handakuten: The Voiced Sounds

Here's where katakana rewards you for the work you've already done. You don't learn a fresh batch of characters for the voiced sounds. You take characters you already know and add a small mark.

Two little strokes in the top-right corner (called dakuten, or informally tenten, “dot dot”) switch a sound to its voiced version. So カ (ka) becomes ガ (ga), and サ (sa) becomes ザ (za). A small circle (called handakuten, or maru, “circle”) only ever appears on the H row, turning it into P sounds: ハ (ha) becomes パ (pa).

A couple of things to know:

• The d row has a quirk: ヂ is pronounced ji and ヅ is zu, exactly the same as ジ and ズ from the z row. In practice you'll almost always see the z-row versions; the d-row pair is rare. Don't let it worry you.
• Only the H row takes the handakuten circle to make the P sounds. No other row gets it.

So the voiced sounds are really just five rows of “characters you know, plus a mark”. That's the whole trick.

Yōon: The Combination Sounds

The last piece of the standard chart is yōon, the contracted sounds. These are made by taking a character from the i column (キ, シ, チ and so on) and tacking a small ヤ, ユ or ヨ onto it. The small ya/yu/yo glides into the first sound to make a single syllable.

The thing to watch is size. A full-sized ヤ is its own syllable, but a small ャ tucked beside another character forms one blended sound. キヤ would be ki-ya (two beats); キャ is kya (one beat). The shrunken character is the tell.

The Long-Vowel Mark ー (Chōonpu)

Here's a feature that belongs almost entirely to katakana, and it's a lovely simple one.

When a vowel sound is held longer, katakana marks it with a single straight line: ー. It's called the chōonpu, and it just means “stretch the vowel before me”. Write it horizontally in horizontal text, vertically in vertical text.

This is genuinely different from hiragana. Hiragana shows long vowels by adding an extra vowel character (so a long “o” is written おう, for example). Katakana skips all that and just draws the line:

• コーヒー = kōhī (“coffee”), with the line stretching both the “ko” and the “hi”.
• ラーメン = rāmen (“ramen”), holding the “ra”.
• ケーキ = kēki (“cake”).
• スーパー = sūpā (“supermarket”, from “super”).

Once you spot the ー, you know the vowel in front of it is a long one. It's one of the easiest wins in the whole script, and it shows up constantly because so many loanwords have long vowels.

Extended Katakana for Foreign Sounds

Because katakana's main job is importing foreign words, Japanese needed a way to write sounds that don't exist in native Japanese, things like “fa”, “ti” and “va”. The solution is clever: take an existing character and pair it with a small vowel (ァ, ィ, ゥ, ェ, ォ) to nudge it into a new sound.

You don't need to memorise these the way you do the base chart, but it helps to recognise them, because they turn up in names and modern loanwords all the time.

A handy detail: the ヴ (vu) series is the formal way to write a “v” sound, but in everyday Japanese the “v” often just gets softened to a “b”. So “violin” might appear as either ヴァイオリン or バイオリン, and “Venus” as either ヴィーナス or ビーナス. Both are correct, and you'll see both in the wild.

The Most Confusing Look-Alike Pairs

Every katakana learner hits the same handful of characters that look almost identical. The good news: each pair has a reliable tell once someone points it out. Here are the ones that catch people, and how to keep them straight.

シ (shi) vs ツ (tsu). The classic trap. Look at the two short strokes and the direction of the long one. On シ (shi) the short strokes are stacked more horizontally and the long stroke sweeps up from the bottom. On ツ (tsu) the short strokes sit more vertically at the top and the long stroke comes down. A memory hook: shi smiles up, tsu drips down.

ン (n) vs ソ (so). Same idea, different angle. ン (n) has its short stroke low, with the main stroke sweeping up from the bottom-left. ソ (so) has its short stroke high, with the main stroke coming down from the top. The trick is the same as the シ/ツ pair: think about whether the line goes up or comes down.

ク (ku), ワ (wa) and タ (ta). A trio built from similar bones. ク (ku) is the simplest, two strokes. ワ (wa) is rounder and more open on the left. タ (ta) is ク with an extra little stroke through it. Read them as “ku, the open one is wa, and the one with the extra dash is ta”.

ナ (na) vs メ (me). Both are a cross-ish shape. ナ (na) is a clean plus sign with a vertical stroke through a horizontal one. メ (me) is two strokes crossing like an X. Plus sign is na, X is me.

The fix for all of these is the same: write them out by hand. Stroke order and direction are exactly what separate these pairs, and your hand learns the difference faster than your eye does.

How to Learn Katakana (the Fast Way)

Katakana is a small, finite set, which makes it one of the most satisfying early wins in Japanese. Here's how I'd go after it:

1. Learn it in rows, one consonant set at a time. Five characters a day (the vowels, then the K row, then the S row) and you've got the base chart inside a fortnight. Don't try to swallow all 46 at once.
2. Write each character by hand. This is non-negotiable for the look-alike pairs. Tracing the strokes builds a muscle memory that reading alone never will.
3. Lean on the loanwords. Katakana's superpower for an English speaker is that so many words are borrowed from English. Reading コーヒー and realising it says “coffee” is a genuine little thrill, and it turns practice into a game.
4. Read katakana in the wild. Menus, signs, packaging, brand names. Japan is covered in katakana, and decoding real words beats any flashcard drill.
5. Use spaced repetition. A flashcard app like Anki keeps the characters fresh while they bed in. Ten minutes a day is plenty.

Once katakana feels comfortable, you've got real momentum. Build on it with our guide to 101 core Japanese words, get your head around Japanese numbers, and learn how to tell the time in Japanese. For the full lay of the land, the Japanese language masterclass ties it all together.

Reading the script is only ever step one, though. The real goal is using Japanese with actual people, and that's exactly what we build inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp: a community and a method for getting you speaking your new language with real humans, fast, with me coaching you through it.

For now, you've got the complete katakana chart and everything you need to start reading it. Go and find some katakana out in the world, you'll be amazed how much of it you can already sound out.

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In this article I'll walk you through the Arabic numbers: how to say them, how to write them, and the handful of quirks that make Arabic numbers feel trickier than they really are. By the end you'll be able to count out loud, read a price tag in a Cairo market, and rattle off your phone number.

A quick reassurance before we start. Two things tend to scare people off Arabic numbers: the unfamiliar little digit shapes (٠ ١ ٢) and the reputation Arabic number grammar has for being fiendish. Neither is as bad as it looks. The digits take about ten minutes to learn, and the grammar mostly evaporates the moment you start speaking a real dialect. So let's get counting.

I've been down this road myself. A few years ago I took on a three-month Arabic mission in Egypt, going from a standing start to holding real conversations. Here's an unscripted, unedited chat in Arabic from the end of that mission, so you know the tips below come from someone who has actually sat in the deep end:

By the way, the word for “numbers” in Arabic is أرقام (arqam), and a single “number” is رقم (raqm).

Arabic Numbers 1-10

Here are the cardinal numbers from 1 to 10 in Modern Standard Arabic, with a simple pronunciation guide:

And zero is صفر (sifr). Keep an eye on that word, because it has a brilliant backstory we'll come to in a moment.

A couple of pronunciation pointers worth flagging early. That apostrophe in arba'a, sab'a, tis'a and ‘ashara stands for a sound called ʿayn, a throaty sound made deep in your throat with no real English equivalent. The kh in khamsa is the rasp at the end of “loch”. And the th in thalatha is exactly the th in “three”. More on all of these later, so don't worry about nailing them yet.

You'll also hear اثنين (ithnayn) far more often than ithnan for “two”. They're the same word in two grammatical forms, and ithnayn is the one that wins in everyday speech, so that's the one I'd learn.

The Other Way to Write Numbers: Eastern Arabic Numerals

Here's something that catches every new learner off guard. Across much of the Arabic-speaking world, the digits on price tags, number plates, shopfronts and bank notes don't look like ours. They look like this:

These are called Eastern Arabic numerals (sometimes “Hindi numerals”), and you'll meet them all over Egypt, the Gulf and the Levant. In Morocco, Algeria and Tunisia, the Western digits you already know are standard, so you can relax there. (If the Arabic script itself is still new to you, start with our guide to the Arabic alphabet and come back to the numbers afterwards.)

Two of these will trip you up more than the rest, so drill them now: ٥ is five (it looks like our zero) and ٦ is six (it looks like a backwards seven). Get those two straight and you're most of the way home.

One thing that surprises people: even though Arabic reads right to left, numbers are written left to right, exactly like ours. So ٢٠٢٦ reads as 2026, not 6202. The big digit goes on the left. A price written ١٢٥ جنيه is 125 pounds, with the number on the left and the currency word on the right.

Why we call our own numbers “Arabic numerals”

Quick tangent, because it's a good one. The digits you've used your whole life (1, 2, 3…) are called “Arabic numerals” in English. They were actually invented in India, then carried into Europe by Arabic-speaking mathematicians in the Middle Ages, which is how they picked up the name.

The scholar most responsible was al-Khwarizmi, writing around 825 CE. His name, run through Latin, gives us the word “algorithm”. And remember sifr, our word for zero? It travelled into Latin as cifra, which split into two English words: “zero” and “cipher”. So every time you say “zero”, you're speaking a little Arabic.

Arabic Numbers 11-20

The teens are built from a unit plus the word for ten, said as two words. Eleven and twelve are one-offs you'll just have to memorise; from thirteen on, the pattern is steady.

See the ‘ashar riding along on the end of each teen? That's “ten”. Learn your 1-10, recognise ‘ashar, and the teens more or less read themselves.

Counting to 100 in Arabic

First, the tens. These are lovely and regular: take the matching small number and add an -un ending.

You can hear the family resemblance: thalatha (3) to thalathun (30), khamsa (5) to khamsun (50), and so on. (You'll often hear the -in ending instead, like ‘ishrin and thalathin, which is the same numbers in a different grammatical form. Both are right.)

Now for the numbers in between, and here's the one genuinely fun twist. To say a number like 21, Arabic flips the order and says the ones first, then “and”, then the tens. Literally “one and twenty”:

• 21 = واحد وعشرون (wahid wa-‘ishrun), literally “one and twenty”
• 35 = خمسة وثلاثون (khamsa wa-thalathun), “five and thirty”
• 47 = سبعة وأربعون (sab'a wa-arba'un), “seven and forty”
• 99 = تسعة وتسعون (tis'a wa-tis'un), “nine and ninety”

That little و (wa) means “and”, and it's the glue holding every compound number together. Once you've got your 1-9 and your tens, you can build everything from 21 to 99 with this one move.

100, 1,000 and Beyond in Arabic

One hundred is مئة (mi'a). You'll also see it spelled مائة, which is the older spelling, so don't be thrown when both turn up.

A few notes. Two hundred (mi'atan) and two thousand (alfan) use a special “dual” ending rather than literally saying “two hundred”, which is a neat feature of Arabic. The hundreds from 300 to 900 join the unit and “hundred” into a single word: thalathumi'a (300), arba'umi'a (400), and so on.

“Million” is comfortingly familiar: مليون (milyun). For “billion” you'll hear مليار (milyar) in most of the Arab world, though بليون (bilyun) crops up in the Gulf. Both are understood everywhere.

To build a big number, you string the parts together with wa (“and”), working from largest to smallest. So 1,250 is “one thousand and two hundred and fifty”: ألف ومئتان وخمسون (alf wa-mi'atan wa-khamsun).

The One Grammar Rule Worth Knowing

You may have heard that Arabic number grammar is a nightmare. It has a reputation, and there's a kernel of truth to it, but for a beginner the honest answer is: you can safely ignore almost all of it and still be understood perfectly.

Here's the one rule worth meeting, because it surprises everyone. For the numbers 3 to 10, the number takes the opposite gender to the thing you're counting. Counting a masculine noun? The number takes its feminine form. Counting a feminine noun? The number goes masculine. Grammarians call it “polarity”, and yes, it's as backwards as it sounds.

A quick example. “Book” (kitab) is masculine, so “three books” is ثلاثة كتب (thalathat kutub), with the feminine-looking thalatha. “Car” (sayyara) is feminine, so “three cars” is ثلاث سيارات (thalath sayyarat), with the shorter thalath. Same number, two shapes, chosen by the gender of what follows.

And now the good news. In every spoken Arabic dialect, whether Egyptian, Levantine or Gulf, this rule is mostly or entirely dropped. People in a market, a taxi or a café aren't applying case endings and gender polarity, and nobody will blink if you don't either. This is a rule for reading formal writing and passing exams, not for ordering two coffees. So learn your numbers, get speaking, and let the grammar settle in later.

How to Pronounce Arabic Numbers

A few sounds in these number words don't exist in English. Here's how to handle the four that matter:

• ع (ʿayn) turns up in arba'a (4), sab'a (7), tis'a (9) and ‘ashara (10). It's a tight, throaty sound made by squeezing the back of your throat, almost a strained vowel from deep down. Don't skip it: dropping the ʿayn is the number-one giveaway of a beginner.
• ح (ha) is the h in wahid (1). It's a breathy h made far deeper in the throat than the English one, like fogging up a window from your throat.
• خ (kha) is the kh in khamsa (5), the same rasp as “loch” or “Bach”. Let the air hiss; don't soften it into a plain k.
• ث (tha) is the th in thalatha (3) and thamaniya (8). Good news: it's just the th in “three”, a sound you already make every day.

Here's a neat overlap with the script. In our Arabic alphabet guide I point out that the letters ت and ث differ only by their number of dots, two and three. That lines up perfectly with the numbers: ت (two dots) carries the t sound that starts “two”, and ث (three dots) carries the th sound that starts “three”. Learn the numbers and you've quietly learned two letters as well.

The single biggest favour you can do your Arabic numbers is to honour the ʿayn. Get that throaty sound in and the rest falls into place.

Arabic Numbers in Dialect

Everything above is Modern Standard Arabic, the formal version used in writing and broadcasting. The moment you're chatting with actual people, you'll hear the local dialect, and the numbers shift a little. Egyptian Arabic is the most widely understood, so it's a great one to tune your ear to:

• 2 becomes اتنين (itnein) rather than ithnan
• 3 becomes تلاتة (talata), since Egyptians swap that th sound for a plain t
• 8 becomes تمانية (tamanya)
• 100 becomes مية (miyya)

Levantine Arabic (Syria, Lebanon, Jordan, Palestine) does something similar with the th. None of this should worry you. Learn the standard forms first, and your ear will adjust to the local flavour once you're in the thick of it.

Reading Arabic Numbers in the Wild

This is where your numbers earn their keep. A few real-world pointers:

• Prices. In Egyptian and Gulf markets, price tags are usually in those Eastern Arabic digits (٠ ١ ٢…). Being able to read them is the difference between confidently haggling and squinting hopefully. Remember the ٥/five and ٦/six trap.
• Haggling. Hearing numbers matters more than reading them here. Learn your tens and hundreds out loud, plus the word نصف (nisf, “half”), and you're equipped to talk a price down.
• Phone numbers. Mobile numbers on business cards and shop windows are often written in Eastern numerals. Egyptian mobiles start 01 (٠١), Saudi ones 05 (٠٥).
• Bank notes. Most Arab currencies print both numeral systems on the note, which makes them a handy free flashcard while you travel.

How to Learn Arabic Numbers (the Fast Way)

Numbers are one of the best early wins in any language, because you use them constantly and you get instant feedback every time. Here's how I'd tackle the Arabic ones:

1. Lock in 1 to 10 first. Everything else is built from these, so they're worth over-learning. Say them out loud, in order and out of order, until they're automatic.
2. Learn the tens as a set. Once ‘ishrun, thalathun, arba'un and friends are solid, the wa (“and”) trick unlocks every number up to 99 for free.
3. Drill the Eastern digits separately. Spend ten minutes matching ٠-٩ to 0-9, with extra reps on ٥ and ٦. This is a reading skill, not a speaking one, so treat it on its own.
4. Use them every day. Count stairs, read prices out loud, say the time, recite your phone number. Numbers reward repetition more than almost anything else in a language.
5. Say them to a real person as soon as you can. Buying something, sharing a number, telling someone your age. Real use beats any drill, and it's exactly the kind of speaking-from-day-one practice that makes a language stick.

Numbers are just the start, of course. Once they're solid, build out from there: a stock of core Arabic words, a handful of useful Arabic phrases, a few ways to say hello in Arabic, and a sense of how to learn Arabic without getting overwhelmed. If you'd like somewhere to practise, there are loads of free online Arabic resources to get you started.

That last point about speaking is the heart of how I approach every language. If you want a structured way to go from your first words to real conversations, that's exactly what we build inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp, a community and a method for getting you speaking your new language with real people, fast.

For now, though, you've got everything you need to count in Arabic from 1 to 1,000 and well beyond. Go and put those numbers to work.

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Don't worry. By the end of this guide you'll have every tense of ser laid out in clean tables, with example sentences for each, plus the one mnemonic that tells you when to use it. But first, the hack that saves you weeks of work.

The Ser Conjugation Hack: Learn These First

Here's the honest truth about conjugation tables: you do not need to memorise all seventeen tenses before you can use ser in real conversation. Native-sounding beginners lean on a tiny handful of forms.

If you learn nothing else today, learn the present tense of ser by heart:

• soy (“I am”), eres (“you are”), es (“he/she/it is”), somos (“we are”), sois (“you all are”), son (“they are”)

That single row of six words will carry you through introductions, descriptions, where you're from, your job, the time, and your relationships. Add the preterite (fui, “I was”) and the imperfect (era, “I used to be”) for talking about the past, and you've covered the vast majority of everyday speech. Everything below that is for rounding out your Spanish over time, not for blocking you today.

Right, now let's build the full picture.

Ser at a Glance

A quick note on the pronouns I'll use in every table:

Ser Conjugation: Indicative Mood (Simple Tenses)

The indicative is the everyday, “stating facts” mood, and these five simple tenses are the backbone of ser. Here they all are in one place:

And here's each one in action:

• Present – Soy profesora de español. – “I am a Spanish teacher.”
• Preterite (a finished past event) – La fiesta fue increíble. – “The party was incredible.”
• Imperfect (a past description or repeated state) – De niño, era muy tímido. – “As a child, I was very shy.”
• Future – Algún día serás un gran músico. – “One day you'll be a great musician.”
• Conditional – Sería un honor conocerla. – “It would be an honour to meet you.”

Ser Conjugation: Indicative Mood (Compound Tenses)

Good news here: the compound tenses are the easy part. Every one of them is simply the verb haber (conjugated) plus the past participle sido. Learn haber once and these fall into place for every verb in Spanish.

• Present perfect – Has sido muy amable conmigo. – “You have been very kind to me.”
• Pluperfect – Antes de mudarse, había sido pescador. – “Before moving, he had been a fisherman.”
• Future perfect – Para diciembre, habremos sido socios durante diez años. – “By December, we will have been partners for ten years.”
• Conditional perfect – Habría sido un buen médico. – “He would have been a good doctor.”

(There's one more, the pretérito anterior, hube sido, but you can happily ignore it. It's so rare in modern Spanish that even native speakers go their whole lives without using it.)

Ser Conjugation: Subjunctive Mood

The subjunctive is the mood of doubt, wishes, emotion, and things that aren't (yet) facts. It feels intimidating at first, but with ser you really only need two forms day to day: the present subjunctive and the imperfect subjunctive.

The imperfect subjunctive has two forms, the -ra and the -se. They mean exactly the same thing and are interchangeable; the -ra form is more common in speech, especially in Latin America, so lead with that one.

• Present subjunctive – Espero que seas feliz. – “I hope (that) you are happy.”
• Imperfect subjunctive – Si yo fuera rico, viajaría por el mundo. – “If I were rich, I would travel the world.”

The subjunctive also has compound forms, built (again) from haber plus sido:

There's also a future subjunctive (fuere, fueres…), but you can safely file it under “nice to recognise, never need to produce”. It survives only in legal documents, old proverbs, and the fixed phrase sea lo que fuere (“be that as it may”).

Ser Conjugation: Imperative Mood (Commands)

Telling someone to “be” something, be brave, be quiet, uses the imperative. The one to watch is the informal tú command, sé (with an accent, to tell it apart from the pronoun se).

• ¡Sé valiente! – “Be brave!”
• No seas tan duro contigo mismo. – “Don't be so hard on yourself.”

When to Use Ser (and the DOCTOR Trick)

Conjugation is only half the battle. The other half is knowing when Spanish wants ser and when it wants its twin, estar. Both translate as “to be”, but ser is for the permanent, defining, essential stuff: who and what something fundamentally is. The classic way to remember it is the mnemonic DOCTOR:

• Descriptions – El cielo es azul. – “The sky is blue.”
• Occupations – Ella es ingeniera. – “She is an engineer.”
• Characteristics – Mis hermanos son muy simpáticos. – “My brothers are very nice.”
• Time and dates – Hoy es lunes. / Son las tres. – “Today is Monday.” / “It's three o'clock.”
• Origin – Somos de Irlanda. – “We're from Ireland.”
• Relationships – Tú eres mi mejor amiga. – “You are my best friend.”

If what you're describing fits one of those six boxes, reach for ser.

Ser vs Estar: The One-Line Rule

The quickest mental shortcut: ser is for who you are; estar is for how you are.

Ser gives the permanent identity, estar gives the temporary state or location. Compare:

• Soy aburrido – “I am boring” (a personality trait, so ser)
• Estoy aburrido – “I am bored” (a passing mood, so estar)

Get those two mixed up and you can accidentally call yourself dull, so it's worth nailing. We've got a full deep dive in our guide to ser vs estar, which is the perfect companion to this page.

Why Is Ser So Irregular?

If ser‘s conjugations look like they were stitched together from three different verbs, that's because they were. Ser is what linguists call a suppletive verb: over the centuries it absorbed forms from more than one Latin root, and they never smoothed out.

• The s- forms (soy, somos, sois, son, sea, siendo, sido) come from the Latin verb esse, “to be”.
• The era / eras imperfect comes from the Latin imperfect eram, which slid into Spanish almost unchanged.
• The fu- forms (fui, fue, fueron, fuera, fuese) come from a completely different Latin root, fui.

That last family hides a famous quirk: the preterite of ser is identical to the preterite of ir (“to go”). Fui means both “I was” and “I went”, and only context tells you which. Fui médico is “I was a doctor”; fui al médico is “I went to the doctor”. Spanish learners panic about this for about a week, then realise context never lets it stay ambiguous for long.

Common Mistakes with Ser

A few traps that catch nearly everyone:

• Using ser for location. Where something is located takes estar, not ser: El museo está en el centro (“The museum is in the centre”). The one exception is the location of an event, which takes ser: La boda es en la playa (“The wedding is on the beach”).
• *Mixing up fui (ser) and fui (ir).* As above, they're spelled the same. Don't fight it, just read the context.
• *The accent on sé. The tú command “be” is sé with an accent. Without it, se* is a different word entirely. Small mark, big difference.

Ser Conjugation FAQ

Is ser regular or irregular? Irregular, and one of the most irregular verbs in the whole language. Its forms come from three separate Latin roots, which is why soy, fui, and era look nothing alike.

What are the six present-tense forms of ser? Soy, eres, es, somos, sois, son, which is “I am, you are, he/she is, we are, you all are, they are.”

How do you conjugate ser in the past? Spanish has two main past tenses. The preterite (for finished events) is fui, fuiste, fue, fuimos, fuisteis, fueron. The imperfect (for descriptions and ongoing states) is era, eras, era, éramos, erais, eran.

What's the difference between ser and estar? Both mean “to be”. Ser is for permanent, essential qualities (identity, origin, profession, characteristics); estar is for temporary states, moods, and locations.

Is the preterite of ser really the same as ir? Yes. Fui, fuiste, fue… are identical for both verbs. Context always makes the meaning clear.

¡Ya Eres un Experto en Ser!

Ya eres un experto means “you're already an expert”, and after all that, you genuinely are. You've got every tense of ser in front of you, an example for each, the DOCTOR trick for knowing when to use it, and the backstory behind its lovely chaos.

The fastest way to lock these in isn't to stare at the tables again, it's to use them. Build a few of these forms into flashcards (we love Anki for exactly this), then start dropping ser into real sentences out loud. While you're at it, you might pair this with our guides to ser vs estar, por vs para, and Spanish numbers to round out your foundations. If you'd like to hear ser used naturally by native speakers, SpanishPod101 is a great listening resource.

But the real goal was never the table. It's the conversation. The whole point of learning soy, eres and es is to walk up to a real person and say something true about yourself, which is exactly what we get you doing from day one inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp. So go and be something in Spanish. ¡Sé valiente!

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Greek is the language that gave us philosophy, democracy and the alphabet, so it's no surprise it also gave us some of the most quotable lines in human history. In this article you'll get two things. First, the famous quotes from the ancient thinkers everyone has heard of, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle and friends. Second, and this is the part most articles skip, the living folk proverbs that Greek people still say to each other today.

Every single one comes with the original Greek, a pronunciation guide so you can say it out loud, and the meaning behind it. That makes this more than a list of pretty words. It's a shortcut into how Greek speakers actually think, and a genuinely fun way to pick up real vocabulary in context. If the Greek script is still new to you, keep our guide to the Greek alphabet open in another tab, and our list of essential Greek words is a good companion too.

One quick heads up. The internet is full of “ancient Greek quotes” that the ancient Greeks never actually said. I've flagged the worst offenders in a section near the end, so you don't end up quoting a meme as if it were Aristotle.

A note on the Greek you'll see below: the ancient quotes are written in the older polytonic spelling, with its extra accent and breathing marks, exactly as Greek scholars still print them. The modern proverbs use today's simpler monotonic spelling. So if the accents look different between the two halves of this article, that's correct, not a typo.

Let's get into it.

5 Greek Quotes About Wisdom and Learning

We'll start where Greek thought started: with knowing things, and knowing how little you know.

1. Γνῶθι σεαυτόν – “Know thyself”

Pronounced gnóthi seaftón, this is probably the most famous two words in all of Greek philosophy. It was carved into the Temple of Apollo at Delphi long before Socrates was born, so it isn't really his line, despite what half the internet tells you. Socrates simply made it the heart of everything he taught. As a motto for a language learner, it's hard to beat: know your own habits, know what trips you up, and you're halfway to fixing it.

2. Ἃ μὴ οἶδα οὐδὲ οἴομαι εἰδέναι – “What I do not know, I do not think I know either”

Pronounced ha mi oída oudé oíomai eidénai, this is what Socrates actually said in Plato's Apology. The snappy version you usually see, “I know that I know nothing”, is a later remix that Plato never wrote. The real line is sharper: Socrates is wiser than the people around him only because he doesn't pretend to know things he doesn't. Worth remembering the next time you're tempted to nod along to something you didn't quite catch.

3. Πάντες ἄνθρωποι τοῦ εἰδέναι ὀρέγονται φύσει – “All human beings by nature desire to know”

Pronounced pántes ánthropoi tou eidénai orégontai fýsei, this is the very first line of Aristotle's Metaphysics. It's a lovely thing to keep in mind when learning feels like a slog: the urge to understand isn't something you have to manufacture, it's built into you. You were born curious.

4. Οἰκοδομοῦντες οἰκοδόμοι γίνονται – “People become builders by building”

Pronounced oikodomoúntes oikodómoi gínontai, this comes from Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics, where he points out that we become what we are by doing it first. You become a builder by building, a harp player by playing the harp. There is no better summary of how language actually works. You become a Greek speaker by speaking Greek, badly at first, then less badly, then well. You can't read your way there.

5. Μάλα γὰρ φιλοσόφου τοῦτο τὸ πάθος, τὸ θαυμάζειν – “Wonder is very much the mark of a philosopher”

Pronounced mála gar filosófou toúto to páthos, to thafmázein, this is Socrates speaking in Plato's Theaetetus. The Greeks believed all thinking begins in wonder, in being struck by something and wanting to understand it. Hold on to that feeling of being amazed by a new language, because it's the engine that keeps you going.

4 Greek Quotes About Change and Life

The ancient Greeks were obsessed with time, change and what lasts. These four have aged remarkably well.

1. Ποταμοῖσι τοῖσιν αὐτοῖσιν ἐμβαίνουσιν ἕτερα καὶ ἕτερα ὕδατα ἐπιρρεῖ – “On those who step into the same rivers, ever-different waters flow”

Pronounced potamoísi toísin aftoísin emvaínousin étera kai étera ýdata epirreí, this is the genuine fragment from Heraclitus. The popular version, “you can't step in the same river twice”, is actually a paraphrase by Plutarch centuries later. Heraclitus's real point is subtler and more beautiful: the river stays the same river precisely because the water is always different. Change is what keeps things alive.

That idea of ever-changing water has stuck with me ever since I went island-hopping around Greece. Looking out over the Aegean in Santorini, Heraclitus made a lot more sense:

2. Ὁδὸς ἄνω κάτω μία καὶ ὡυτή – “The road up and the road down are one and the same”

Pronounced odós áno káto mía kai ofytí, this is another Heraclitus fragment, and one of his best attested. Opposites, he's saying, aren't really separate things. Up and down, gain and loss, easy and hard are two faces of the same coin. A good thing to remember on a bad study day.

3. Οἵη περ φύλλων γενεή, τοίη δὲ καὶ ἀνδρῶν – “As is the generation of leaves, so too is that of men”

Pronounced oíi per fýllon geneí, toíi de kai andrón, this line is from Homer's Iliad. Generations of people come and go like leaves on a tree, one falling as the next grows. It's a humbling, oddly comforting image that poets from Virgil to Keats have borrowed ever since.

4. Κάθε εμπόδιο για καλό – “Every obstacle is for the good”

Pronounced káthe empódio yia kaló, and here we cross from ancient Greek into modern, because this one is a proverb Greeks still say today. It's the Greek version of “everything happens for a reason”, reached for whenever a plan falls apart. The fact that the older philosophers and ordinary modern Greeks land in such similar places tells you something about the culture.

3 Greek Quotes About Friendship and a Life Well Lived

1. Ἡ τῆς φιλίας κτῆσις – “The acquisition of friendship is the greatest good”

Pronounced i tis filías ktísis, this comes from Epicurus, who ranked friendship above almost everything else wisdom can offer. People often picture Epicurus as a man chasing pleasure, but for him the deepest pleasure was good company. Learning a language is one of the great connectors between people, so he'd approve.

2. Μήτε νέος τις ὢν μελλέτω φιλοσοφεῖν, μήτε γέρων κοπιάτω – “Let no one delay philosophy when young, nor grow weary of it when old”

Pronounced míte néos tis on melléto filosofeín, míte yéron kopiáto, this is Epicurus again, and it's the line I'd hand to every adult who tells me they're “too old to learn a language”. He's saying the examined life belongs to every age. So does learning. Nobody is too young to start and nobody is ever too old.

3. Τὴν πᾶσαν πόλιν τῆς Ἑλλάδος παίδευσιν εἶναι – “Our whole city is the school of Greece”

Pronounced tin pásan pólin tis Elládos paídefsin eínai, these are the words Thucydides gives to Pericles in his famous Funeral Oration. Athens, Pericles claims, is the teacher of all Greece. A bold thing to say about your own hometown, and a reminder that the Greeks took learning seriously enough to build a civilisation around it.

3 Famous Greek Sayings You Already Half-Know

Some Greek wisdom has travelled so far that you've met it without knowing where it came from.

1. Ὄμφακές εἰσιν – “They're sour grapes”

Pronounced ómfakés eisin, this is the fox's line from Aesop's fable of the fox and the grapes. Unable to reach the fruit, the fox decides it must be sour anyway, and gave English the phrase “sour grapes” for pretending you didn't want what you couldn't have. The Greeks have been side-eyeing that fox for over two thousand years.

2. Μία χελιδών ἔαρ οὐ ποιεῖ – “One swallow does not make a spring”

Pronounced mía chelidón éar ou poieí, this one also traces back to Aesop and was later quoted by Aristotle. A single good sign doesn't prove the whole trend, so don't get carried away by one easy day with your flashcards. The hard days are coming, and so is spring.

3. Σπεῦδε βραδέως – “Make haste slowly”

Pronounced spéfde vradéos, this paradoxical little motto was a favourite of the ancient world. Do things urgently, yes, but don't rush them into a mess. For a language learner it's perfect advice: show up every day, but don't expect to swallow the language whole in a weekend.

3 Greek Proverbs About Patience and Time

Now for the living language. These are folk proverbs you'll genuinely hear in Greece, and dropping one into a conversation is a guaranteed way to make a Greek speaker grin.

1. Κάλλιο αργά παρά ποτέ – “Better late than never”

Pronounced kállio argá pará poté, this is the exact twin of the English saying, which makes it an easy first proverb to memorise. Use it on yourself the day you finally restart the language you've been putting off.

2. Τα παθήματα μαθήματα – “Sufferings are lessons”

Pronounced ta pathímata mathímata, this is one of the most loved proverbs in Greek, partly because it rhymes so neatly in the original. The idea is that our painful experiences are exactly the ones that teach us most. Notice how close pathímata (sufferings) and mathímata (lessons) sound. That near-rhyme is the whole point, and it makes the proverb stick in your head instantly.

3. Μάθε τέχνη κι άσ' τηνε, κι αν πεινάσεις πιάσ' τηνε – “Learn a trade and set it aside, and if you go hungry, take it up again”

Pronounced máthe téchni ki as' tine, ki an peináseis piás' tine, this is folk wisdom about always having a skill in your back pocket. No skill you learn is ever wasted, even one you don't use right away. Languages are the ultimate example, sitting quietly in your memory until the day a job, a trip or a new friend brings them roaring back.

4 Greek Proverbs About Wisdom and Caution

1. Άμα καείς από χυλό, φυσάς και το γιαούρτι – “Once you're burned by porridge, you blow on yoghurt too”

Pronounced áma kaís apó chiló, fisás kai to yiaoúrti, this is the Greek “once bitten, twice shy”, but far more vivid. Burn your mouth on hot porridge once and you'll nervously blow on cold yoghurt forever after. Greek proverbs love this kind of kitchen-table imagery.

2. Καθαρός ουρανός αστραπές δε φοβάται – “A clear sky is not afraid of lightning”

Pronounced katharós ouranós astrapés de fováte, this means a person with a clear conscience has nothing to fear. You'll hear it used to reassure someone who's been unfairly accused, or pointedly aimed at someone whose conscience is anything but clear.

3. Κάλλιο πέντε και στο χέρι, παρά δέκα και καρτέρει – “Better five in the hand than ten and waiting”

Pronounced kállio pénte kai sto chéri, pará déka kai kartérei, this is the Greek “a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”. Take the sure thing over the bigger maybe. As a bonus, it's secretly a numbers lesson, so if your Greek counting is shaky, our guide to Greek numbers will sort you out.

4. Από μικρό κι από τρελό μαθαίνεις την αλήθεια – “From a child and a madman you learn the truth”

Pronounced apó mikró ki apó treló mathéneis tin alíthia, this captures the idea that the people least worried about being polite often say the truest things. Children and the uninhibited blurt out what everyone else is thinking.

3 Greek Proverbs About Words and Truth

As a language site, these are our favourites, because they're all about the power of the thing you're learning to use.

1. Η γλώσσα κόκαλα δεν έχει, αλλά κόκαλα τσακίζει – “The tongue has no bones, but it crushes bones”

Pronounced i glóssa kókala den échi, allá kókala tsakízei, this is a brilliant warning about the power of words. Speech is soft and boneless, yet it can break a person. There's a lovely bonus here for learners: the Greek word glóssa means both “tongue” and “language”, so this proverb is quietly about the very thing you're studying. (When you're ready to put those words to work, our must-know Greek phrases are the place to start.)

2. Αλήθεια χωρίς ψέματα, φαΐ χωρίς αλάτι – “Truth without lies is like food without salt”

Pronounced alíthia chorís psémata, faḯ chorís aláti, this is a wonderfully Greek take on honesty. A little tact, like a little salt, makes the plain truth easier to swallow. Pure bluntness, the proverb hints, can be hard to digest.

3. Μάτια που δεν βλέπονται γρήγορα λησμονιούνται – “Eyes that don't see each other are quickly forgotten”

Pronounced mátia pou den vléponte, grígora lismonioúnte, this is the Greek “out of sight, out of mind”, and it's used about friendships and romances that fade with distance. If your own heart is in Greece, you might also enjoy our roundup of how to say I love you in Greek.

3 Greek Proverbs About Friendship and People

1. Ο καλός ο φίλος στην ανάγκη φαίνεται – “A true friend shows in times of need”

Pronounced o kalós o fílos stin anángi fénete, this is the Greek “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. Real friendship, the Greeks say, reveals itself in a crisis and not over a relaxed coffee. And if you want to tell those friends how you feel, our list of Greek terms of endearment will help.

2. Αγάπα τον γείτονά σου, αλλά μη γκρεμίζεις και τον φράχτη – “Love your neighbour, but don't knock down the fence”

Pronounced agápa ton yítoná sou, allá mi gkremízeis kai ton fráchti, this is a beautifully practical bit of advice about boundaries. Be warm with the people around you, sure, but keep a healthy line in place. Friendliness and naivety are not the same thing.

3. Τα βόδια τα δένουν απ' τα κέρατα, τον άνθρωπο απ' το λόγο του – “Oxen are tied by their horns, a person by their word”

Pronounced ta vódia ta dénoun ap' ta kérata, ton ánthropo ap' to lógo tou, this says your word is your bond. An ox is held by its horns, but a person is held to account by what they promised. Say what you mean in Greek and the Greeks will respect you for it.

3 Fun Greek Proverbs for Everyday Life

1. Ο βρεγμένος τη βροχή δεν τη φοβάται – “The one who's already wet isn't afraid of the rain”

Pronounced o vregménos ti vrochí den ti fováte, this is for the moment when things can't really get any worse, so why worry. Once you're soaked, a bit more rain hardly matters. It's the Greek shrug in proverb form.

2. Όταν λείπει η γάτα, χορεύουν τα ποντίκια – “When the cat's away, the mice dance”

Pronounced ótan leípei i gáta, chorévoun ta pontíkia, this is the near-perfect twin of the English “when the cat's away, the mice will play”. Whenever the person in charge steps out, the fun begins. An easy, recognisable one to add to your collection.

3. Απ' έξω κούκλα κι από μέσα πανούκλα – “On the outside a doll, on the inside the plague”

Pronounced ap' éxo koúkla ki apó mésa panoúkla, this is the Greek “all that glitters is not gold”, and it rhymes gorgeously in the original (koúkla / panoúkla). It's aimed at something or someone that looks lovely on the surface but is rotten underneath.

Greek Quotes That Are Wrongly Attributed (Don't Get Caught Out)

Before you go quoting any of these at a dinner party, a quick warning. Some of the most shared “ancient Greek quotes” online were never said by the people they're pinned on. Here are the worst offenders:

• “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” Almost always credited to Aristotle. In fact these are the words of the historian Will Durant, written in 1926 while summarising Aristotle. Aristotle never wrote that sentence.
• “I know that I know nothing.” Pinned on Socrates everywhere, but it's a tidied-up later version. What Plato actually wrote is the fuller line you saw above in quote number 2.
• “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” Frequently dressed up as Socrates or Plato. It almost certainly comes from a Scottish writer, Ian Maclaren, in 1897.
• “You cannot step into the same river twice.” Attributed to Heraclitus, but it's Plutarch's paraphrase. The real fragment is the richer one in quote number 1 of the “Change and Life” section.

None of this makes the sentiments worse. It just means you'll be the rare person who quotes them honestly.

Αγάλι αγάλι γίνεται η αγουρίδα μέλι – “Little by little, the unripe grape turns to honey”

I've saved my favourite for last, because no proverb sums up language learning better than this one. Pronounced agáli agáli gínetai i agourída méli, it means that good things ripen slowly, and there's no rushing them. Your Greek won't be sweet on day one. But show up little by little, agáli agáli, and one day you'll realise the sour grape has quietly turned to honey.

If these have whetted your appetite, the natural next step is to start using the language for real. Learn how to say hello in Greek, how to say thank you in Greek, and you'll already be holding the bones of a conversation. To hear these proverbs spoken by natives and build from there, our friends at GreekPod101 are a fantastic resource, with lessons for absolute beginners right through to advanced.

And if you want to go all the way and actually have a 15-minute conversation in Greek, that's exactly what the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp is built to get you to. Pick a proverb from this list as your motto, and let's get you speaking.

Which Greek proverb is your favourite? Come tell me over on Instagram @irishpolyglot.

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In this article I'll give you the full estar conjugation in clean tables, tense by tense, with example sentences so you can see each one doing its job in a real sentence. I'll also walk you through what estar actually means, when to reach for it, and the one thing that trips up nearly every Spanish learner: knowing when to use estar and when to use its twin, ser.

A quick reassurance before we start. Estar looks irregular and a bit intimidating, with that odd estoy and a scattering of accent marks. The good news is that almost all of its irregularity lives in just two places: the present tense and the preterite. Learn those two, and the rest of estar behaves itself beautifully, following patterns you can predict. So you're learning far fewer surprises than the tables might suggest.

I've leaned on estar in every Spanish conversation I've ever had, and I learned it the way I learn everything, by using it out loud from day one and getting things wrong until they stuck. Estar is one of the first verbs you'll genuinely need, because the moment someone asks ¿Cómo estás? (“How are you?”), you're already in estar territory. So let's make it second nature.

What Does Estar Mean?

Estar is one of the two Spanish verbs that both translate as “to be” in English. The other is ser. English gets by with a single “to be”, but Spanish splits the job in two, and estar takes the half that deals with states, conditions, locations and feelings, the things that are true right now but could change.

If you remember one idea about estar, make it this: estar is for how and where something is, not what it fundamentally is. Estoy cansado (“I'm tired”) describes a passing state. Estoy en casa (“I'm at home”) describes a location. Both could be different an hour from now, and that “could change” quality is the heart of estar.

We'll come back to the ser vs estar question properly further down, because it's the single biggest source of confusion. First, the conjugations.

Estar Conjugation: The Quick Reference

Here's estar in its non-finite forms, the building blocks you'll use to make the progressive and the perfect tenses:

Notice that estado is completely regular, so every compound tense (the he estado, había estado family) is easy once you know how to conjugate haber. The gerund estando is regular too. The only real irregularity is in the simple tenses, which we'll go through one at a time now.

Estar in the Present Tense (Presente)

This is the big one, the tense you'll use constantly and the one with the most surprises. Watch the irregular yo form (estoy) and the accent marks on four of the six forms.

Those accents aren't optional. Está with the accent means “he/she is”, while esta without it means “this”. Dropping the accent changes the word, so it's worth getting into the habit early.

Examples:

• Estoy en la oficina. (I'm at the office.)
• ¿Cómo estás? (How are you?)
• El café está caliente. (The coffee is hot.)
• Estamos listos. (We're ready.)
• Los niños están cansados. (The children are tired.)

Estar in the Preterite (Pretérito Indefinido)

The preterite is the past tense for completed, bounded actions, and here estar throws its second curveball. The stem changes to estuv-, and the endings are the irregular set Spanish uses for a whole family of verbs (you'll meet the same pattern in tener and andar).

Use the preterite when you were somewhere for a defined, finished stretch of time:

• Estuve en Madrid tres días. (I was in Madrid for three days.)
• Estuvimos muy contentos en la fiesta. (We were very happy at the party.)
• ¿Dónde estuviste anoche? (Where were you last night?)

Estar in the Imperfect (Pretérito Imperfecto)

After the preterite, the imperfect feels like a holiday. It's completely regular, with no accent surprises beyond the nosotros form. Use it for where you used to be, or for the background state behind another action.

The accent on estábamos sits on the second syllable (es-tá-ba-mos). It's a form even some published charts get wrong, so picture it clearly.

• Estaba cansado cuando llegaste. (I was tired when you arrived.)
• De niño, siempre estaba en la calle. (As a child, I was always out in the street.)

Estar in the Future (Futuro Simple)

Regular again, and refreshingly so. Take the full infinitive estar and add the future endings. Every form carries an accent except estaremos.

• Mañana estaré en casa todo el día. (Tomorrow I'll be home all day.)
• Estaremos allí a las ocho. (We'll be there at eight.)

Estar in the Conditional (Condicional Simple)

The conditional is your “would be” tense, for hypotheticals and polite softening. Like the future, it builds on the full infinitive, and every single form takes an accent.

• Estaría encantado de ayudarte. (I'd be delighted to help you.)
• Sin el ruido, estaríamos más tranquilos. (Without the noise, we'd be calmer.)

Estar in the Present Perfect (Pretérito Perfecto)

Now we're into compound tenses, and this is where that regular past participle estado pays off. The present perfect is haber in the present plus estado. It means “have been”, and it's everywhere in spoken Spain.

• He estado muy ocupado esta semana. (I've been very busy this week.)
• ¿Has estado alguna vez en España? (Have you ever been to Spain?)

Once you've got this pattern, you've quietly learned the whole compound family. Swap the present haber for the imperfect and you get the pluperfect (había estado, “had been”); swap it for the future and you get the future perfect (habré estado). Same participle, different haber.

Estar in the Present Subjunctive (Presente de Subjuntivo)

The subjunctive is the mood for wishes, doubts, emotions and things that aren't certain. Estar in the present subjunctive keeps an accent on most of its forms, and those accents are easy to drop in writing, so give them attention.

You'll meet this after triggers like espero que (“I hope that”) or cuando pointing at the future:

• Espero que estés bien. (I hope you're well.)
• Cuando estés listo, empezamos. (When you're ready, we'll start.)

Estar in the Imperfect Subjunctive (Pretérito Imperfecto de Subjuntivo)

Spanish gives you two interchangeable sets of endings here, the -ra forms and the -se forms. Both are correct. The -ra forms are a little more common in everyday speech, while the -se forms feel slightly more formal or literary. Pick whichever you like and stay consistent.

• Si estuviera en tu lugar, lo haría. (If I were in your place, I'd do it.)
• Me pidió que estuviéramos a tiempo. (He asked us to be on time.)

The Estar Imperative (Commands)

When you want to tell someone to be (or not to be) somewhere or some way, you reach for the imperative. Note the split: affirmative and negative commands use different forms for tú and vosotros.

• Está tranquilo, todo saldrá bien. (Stay calm, everything will be fine.)
• No estés triste. (Don't be sad.)
• Estad atentos. (Pay attention, plural.)

One small thing worth knowing: when estar is used reflexively to mean “stay put” or “keep still”, the affirmative tú command becomes estate (as in ¡Estate quieto!, “Keep still!”). It's a common form to hear from a parent to a fidgety child, so it's handy to recognise.

The Main Uses of Estar

Tables tell you the forms; this section tells you when a Spanish speaker actually reaches for estar. There are four big jobs it does.

1. Location and position

Estar tells you where something or someone is. This is true even for permanent things like cities and buildings, which surprises loads of learners.

• Estoy en el aeropuerto. (I'm at the airport.)
• Madrid está en España. (Madrid is in Spain.)
• La llave está en la mesa. (The key is on the table.)

2. Temporary states and conditions

Anything that describes a current condition rather than a permanent trait calls for estar.

• La sopa está fría. (The soup is cold.)
• La tienda está cerrada. (The shop is closed.)
• Estoy enfermo. (I'm ill.)

3. Emotions and feelings

How you feel right now is estar territory, because feelings come and go.

• Estoy feliz. (I'm happy.)
• Están nerviosos antes del examen. (They're nervous before the exam.)

4. The progressive: estar + gerund

This is one of the most useful patterns in the language. Pair any tense of estar with a gerund (-ando / -iendo) to say something is in progress, exactly like English “to be …-ing”.

• Estoy aprendiendo español. (I'm learning Spanish.)
• Estaban comiendo cuando llamé. (They were eating when I called.)

Ser vs Estar: The Confusion Everyone Hits

Here's the part that causes more head-scratching than any conjugation table. Both ser and estar mean “to be”, and choosing the wrong one is the most common mistake Spanish learners make. I made it constantly when I started, and the fix that finally worked for me was a simple rule of thumb rather than a long list.

The short version: use ser for what something fundamentally is, and estar for how or where it is right now.

• Soy alto. (I am tall.) Permanent trait, so ser.
• Estoy cansado. (I am tired.) Passing state, so estar.
• Ella es simpática. (She is nice, as a personality.) Ser.
• Ella está enojada. (She is angry, right now.) Estar.

Some adjectives even change their meaning depending on which verb you choose, which is where it gets genuinely interesting:

This distinction is worth a deep dive of its own, so if it's still fuzzy, read our full guide to ser vs estar in Spanish. It's the single best thing you can do to stop second-guessing yourself mid-sentence.

Common Mistakes with Estar

A few slip-ups come up again and again. Catching them early saves you loads of relearning.

• Using estar for permanent traits. Estoy alto is wrong; tallness is a trait, so it's soy alto. When in doubt, ask whether the quality could change by tomorrow.
• Dropping the accents. Esta, estas and estan without accents either mean something else or simply look wrong to a native reader. The accents on está, estás and están are load-bearing.
• Mis-stressing estábamos. The stress and accent fall on the second syllable, not the third. It's estábamos, never estabámos.
• Confusing the reflexive command. ¡Estate quieto! (keep still) uses the reflexive form; the plain está is the everyday “be” command. Recognising the difference stops you mishearing parents in the park.

How to Make Estar Stick

You won't memorise these tables by staring at them, and you don't need to. Here's how I'd actually drill estar:

1. Nail the present and preterite first. Those two hold nearly all of estar‘s irregularity. Once estoy / estás / está and estuve / estuviste / estuvo are automatic, the rest follows predictable patterns.
2. Learn it inside whole sentences, not as a bare list. Estoy en casa and ¿Cómo estás? are far easier to remember than a column of forms, and they come out of your mouth ready to use.
3. Use it out loud, today. Describe where you are, how you feel, what you're doing right now. Every one of those is an estar sentence, so you'll get reps without even trying.
4. Keep ser nearby. The two verbs define each other, so practise them as a pair and the contrast will teach you both.

Once estar feels natural, build out from there. A stock of basic Spanish phrases gives you sentences to drop it into, the Spanish numbers pair neatly with estar for telling the time and place, and getting your Spanish accents right will keep all those está and están forms looking sharp. If punctuation is on your list too, our guide to the Spanish question mark clears up why ¿Cómo estás? opens the way it does.

The thing that turned estar from a chart into a reflex for me was using it with real people, early and often, and being corrected in the moment. If you want a structured way to go from these tables to actually speaking Spanish with someone, that's exactly what we do inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp, where I coach you through real conversations with a community learning alongside you, so verbs like estar stop being something you recite and start being something you say.

For now, you've got every tense of estar in one place. Go and put it to work: tell someone where you are, how you're feeling, and what you're up to right now.

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I've always found that the fastest way into a language is to speak it from day one, and the fastest way to start speaking is to learn the phrases you'll actually use in real conversations. Not a grammar table you'll forget by lunchtime, but the words that come out of your mouth when you order a coffee, ask for directions, or meet someone for the first time.

German has a reputation for being hard, and I think that reputation is mostly unfair. Yes, the grammar has a few corners that take getting used to, but the phrases below need none of that. You can learn them as whole chunks, drop them straight into a conversation, and sound friendly and capable from your very first day. That is exactly how I'd want you to start.

A quick word on how to read this article. German makes a real distinction between a formal “you” (Sie) and an informal “you” (du), and it matters more than you might expect, so I've given that its own section near the top. Read it first and the rest will make way more sense.

Let's get into it.

Table of contents

• 15 Must-Know Basic German Phrases
• “Sie” or “du”? The German “You” You Need to Get Right
• German Greetings and Starting Conversations
• Saying Goodbye in German
• Polite Phrases in German
• Introducing Yourself and Making Small Talk
• Common Questions in German
• Asking for Directions and Getting Around
• Eating and Drinking in German
• Shopping Phrases in German
• Emergency and Survival Phrases in German
• German Signs You'll See Everywhere
• Regional Greetings: North, South, and Austria
• German Slang and Filler Words
• Du schaffst das! You're Off to a Flying Start

15 Must-Know Basic German Phrases

If you only take 15 German phrases away from this article, make it these. They'll carry you through a surprising number of everyday situations:

• Hallo – “Hello”
• Guten Tag – “Good day” (the safe, polite greeting for daytime)
• Ich heiße… – “My name is…”
• Wie geht es Ihnen? – “How are you?” (formal)
• Bitte – “Please” (and also “you're welcome”, more on that below)
• Danke – “Thank you”
• Entschuldigung – “Excuse me” / “Sorry”
• Ja / Nein – “Yes / No”
• Sprechen Sie Englisch? – “Do you speak English?”
• Ich verstehe nicht – “I don't understand”
• Können Sie das wiederholen? – “Can you repeat that?”
• Wie viel kostet das? – “How much does that cost?”
• Wo ist die Toilette? – “Where is the toilet?”
• Können Sie mir helfen? – “Can you help me?”
• Tschüss – “Bye”

Get comfortable with those and you've already got a foothold. Now let's build it out.

“Sie” or “du”? The German “You” You Need to Get Right

Here's the one thing an English speaker has to wrap their head around early. German has two words for “you”:

• Sie – the formal “you”, for strangers, older people, shop staff, officials, and anyone in a professional setting. Note that it's always capitalised.
• du – the informal “you”, for friends, family, children, and people who've invited you to use it.

This isn't just politeness fluff. Using du with a hotel receptionist or a shopkeeper you've just met can come across as a bit presumptuous, while Sie is never wrong with a stranger. My rule of thumb: when in doubt, use Sie. A German will happily invite you to switch to du when the moment's right, often with the lovely phrase Wir können uns duzen (“we can use du with each other”).

You'll see this play out in the phrases below. “How are you?” has two versions:

• Wie geht es Ihnen? – “How are you?” (formal)
• Wie geht's? – “How are you?” (informal, and a casual contraction of Wie geht es dir?)

Wherever it matters, I'll give you the formal version first, because that's the one that keeps you safe with someone you've just met.

German Greetings and Starting Conversations

• Hallo – “Hello”
• Guten Morgen – “Good morning”
• Guten Tag – “Good day” / “Hello” (daytime)
• Guten Abend – “Good evening”
• Hi – “Hi” (casual, and yes, Germans say it too)
• Wie geht es Ihnen? – “How are you?” (formal)
• Wie geht's? – “How are you?” (informal)
• Gut, danke – “Good, thanks”
• Sehr gut – “Very good”
• Es geht – “So-so” / “I'm OK” (literally “it goes”)
• Und Ihnen? / Und dir? – “And you?” (formal / informal)
• Willkommen – “Welcome”

Related learning: if you want a whole toolkit of openers, we've got a full guide to breaking the ice in German conversation.

Saying Goodbye in German

• Tschüss – “Bye” (the everyday goodbye you'll hear most)
• Auf Wiedersehen – “Goodbye” (formal, literally “until we see each other again”)
• Bis bald – “See you soon”
• Bis später – “See you later”
• Bis morgen – “See you tomorrow”
• Schönen Tag noch! – “Have a nice day!”
• Gute Nacht – “Good night”

A quick reassurance: textbooks lean hard on Auf Wiedersehen, but in real life Tschüss is what you'll hear all day long, from the bakery to the bus. Use it freely.

Polite Phrases in German

• Bitte – “Please”
• Danke – “Thank you”
• Danke schön – “Thank you very much”
• Vielen Dank – “Many thanks”
• Gern geschehen – “You're welcome” (literally “gladly done”)
• Entschuldigung – “Excuse me” / “Sorry”
• Es tut mir leid – “I'm sorry” (a sincere apology, heavier than Entschuldigung)
• Kein Problem – “No problem”

One word worth pausing on: Bitte. It does triple duty in German. It means “please”, but it's also the standard reply to “thank you” (“you're welcome”), and it's what you say when handing something over (“here you go”). One little word, three jobs. Learn it well and you'll reach for it constantly.

Introducing Yourself and Making Small Talk

• Ich heiße… – “My name is…” (literally “I am called…”)
• Mein Name ist… – “My name is…” (a touch more formal)
• Wie heißen Sie? / Wie heißt du? – “What's your name?” (formal / informal)
• Freut mich – “Nice to meet you” (literally “it pleases me”)
• Woher kommen Sie? / Woher kommst du? – “Where are you from?” (formal / informal)
• Ich komme aus… – “I'm from…”
• Ich wohne in… – “I live in…”
• Ich lerne Deutsch – “I'm learning German”
• Sprechen Sie Englisch? – “Do you speak English?”
• Ich spreche nur ein bisschen Deutsch – “I only speak a little German”
• Können Sie langsamer sprechen? – “Can you speak more slowly?”
• Ich verstehe (nicht) – “I (don't) understand”

That Ich lerne Deutsch is a small phrase with a big payoff. Say it early in a conversation and most German speakers will instantly slow down, simplify, and root for you. It's one of the most useful sentences in this whole article.

Common Questions in German

• Wie viel kostet das? – “How much does that cost?”
• Wie spät ist es? – “What time is it?”
• Wo ist…? – “Where is…?”
• Was ist das? – “What is that?”
• Wann? – “When?”
• Warum? – “Why?”
• Wer ist das? – “Who is that?”
• Haben Sie…? – “Do you have…?”
• Können Sie mir helfen? – “Can you help me?”
• Was bedeutet das? – “What does that mean?”

These question words (wo, was, wann, warum, wer, wie) are the workhorses of conversation. Learn the handful above and you can ask for almost anything you need, even if you have to point and mime the rest.

Asking for Directions and Getting Around

• Wo ist…? – “Where is…?”
• Wie komme ich zum Bahnhof? – “How do I get to the train station?”
• Wie komme ich zur Innenstadt? – “How do I get to the city centre?”
• Links – “Left”
• Rechts – “Right”
• Geradeaus – “Straight ahead”
• Ich habe mich verlaufen – “I'm lost” (on foot)
• Eine Fahrkarte nach…, bitte – “A ticket to…, please”
• Fährt dieser Zug nach…? – “Does this train go to…?”
• Wo ist die nächste Haltestelle? – “Where is the nearest stop?”

A useful pair to know: der Bahnhof is the train station and die Haltestelle is a bus or tram stop. And if someone gives you a rapid-fire set of directions, don't be shy about following up with Können Sie das wiederholen? (“Can you repeat that?”).

Eating and Drinking in German

• Ein Tisch für zwei, bitte – “A table for two, please”
• Die Speisekarte, bitte – “The menu, please”
• Ich hätte gern… – “I would like…” (the polite way to order)
• Ich möchte… – “I would like…”
• Was empfehlen Sie? – “What do you recommend?”
• Ein Bier, bitte – “A beer, please”
• Ein Glas Wasser, bitte – “A glass of water, please”
• Ich bin Vegetarier / Vegetarierin – “I'm vegetarian” (male / female speaker)
• Ich bin allergisch gegen… – “I'm allergic to…”
• Guten Appetit! – “Enjoy your meal!”
• Prost! – “Cheers!”
• Lecker! – “Delicious!”
• Die Rechnung, bitte – “The bill, please”
• Zahlen, bitte – “I'd like to pay” (a more casual way to ask for the bill)

Two cultural notes that'll save you. First, when you say Prost! and clink glasses, make eye contact. German custom is quite firm on this, and skipping the eye contact is supposedly seven years of bad luck. Second, plenty of smaller cafés, bars, and bakeries in Germany are still cash-only, so it's worth asking Nehmen Sie Karte? (“Do you take card?”) before you order, and keeping a few euros on you just in case.

Shopping Phrases in German

• Was kostet das? – “How much is this?”
• Das ist zu teuer – “That's too expensive”
• Ich schaue mich nur um – “I'm just looking around”
• Haben Sie das in einer anderen Größe? – “Do you have this in another size?”
• Kann ich mit Karte bezahlen? – “Can I pay by card?”
• Nehmen Sie Karte? – “Do you take card?”
• Ich suche… – “I'm looking for…”
• Ein Geschenk – “A gift”

Emergency and Survival Phrases in German

• Hilfe! – “Help!”
• Rufen Sie die Polizei! – “Call the police!”
• Rufen Sie einen Krankenwagen! – “Call an ambulance!”
• Ich brauche einen Arzt – “I need a doctor”
• Wo ist das Krankenhaus? – “Where is the hospital?”
• Wo ist die Apotheke? – “Where is the pharmacy?”
• Ich fühle mich nicht gut – “I don't feel well”
• Ich habe meinen Pass verloren – “I've lost my passport”

Hopefully you'll never need these, but they're exactly the phrases you want already sitting in your memory rather than scrambling for in the moment. The pharmacy, die Apotheke, is worth singling out: German pharmacists handle a lot of minor ailments that you might take to a doctor elsewhere, so it's often your first stop.

German Signs You'll See Everywhere

These aren't phrases you'll say so much as words you'll read, on doors, stations, and shopfronts all over the German-speaking world. Knowing them on sight saves a surprising amount of confusion:

• Eingang – “Entrance”
• Ausgang – “Exit”
• Notausgang – “Emergency exit”
• Geöffnet – “Open”
• Geschlossen – “Closed”
• Drücken – “Push”
• Ziehen – “Pull”
• Damen – “Ladies” (toilets)
• Herren – “Gentlemen” (toilets)
• Kein Zutritt – “No entry”

Regional Greetings: North, South, and Austria

Standard German (Hochdeutsch) is understood everywhere, so everything above will serve you well from Hamburg to Vienna. But half the fun of travelling is the local flavour, and German greetings change loads depending on where you are:

• Moin (or Moin moin) – “Hi” in the north, especially around Hamburg and Bremen, used at any time of day despite sounding like “morning”
• Grüß Gott – “Hello” in Bavaria and Austria (literally “greet God”)
• Servus – a friendly “hi” or “bye” in Bavaria and Austria
• Grüezi – “Hello” in German-speaking Switzerland
• Baba – a casual “bye” in Austria
• Pfiat di – “take care” / “bye” in Bavaria and Austria

You don't need to learn all of these to be understood, but recognising them means you won't be thrown when a shopkeeper in Munich greets you with Grüß Gott instead of the Guten Tag your textbook promised.

German Slang and Filler Words

Real conversation is held together by small, casual words, and sprinkling a few in is the quickest way to sound less like a textbook and more like a person:

• Na? – an all-purpose “Hey, how's it going?” (a whole greeting in one syllable)
• Alles klar? – “All good?” / “Everything OK?”
• Genau – “Exactly” / “Right” (Germans use this constantly to show they're following)
• Ach so! – “Oh, I see!” (the sound of a penny dropping)
• Quatsch! – “Nonsense!” / “No way!”
• Krass – “Intense” / “Wow” (can be good or bad)
• Geil – “Cool” / “Awesome” (very informal)
• Doch – “Yes it is!” (a brilliant little word for contradicting a negative; if someone says “you don't speak German” you can fire back Doch!)
• Es ist mir Wurst – “I don't mind” / “I couldn't care less” (literally “it's sausage to me”)
• Ich verstehe nur Bahnhof – “I don't understand a thing” (literally “I only understand train station”)

Those last two are pure German, and dropping one at the right moment will always get a smile. If you've enjoyed these, we've got a whole guide to everyday German slang to take you further, plus some German memes if you fancy a laugh while you learn.

Du schaffst das! You're Off to a Flying Start

That's your 101 German phrases, and honestly, it's more than enough to start having real exchanges with real people. Du schaffst das means “you can do this”, and you genuinely can.

If you want to keep building, here are a few natural next steps on the blog: learn to count in German, pick up your German colours, put some German adjectives to work in conversation, and when you're feeling brave, twist your tongue around a few German tongue twisters. If you'd like a structured course to practise with, we're fans of GermanPod101, which is brilliant for hearing these phrases used naturally by native speakers.

But the single most important thing you can do with these phrases is the simplest: say them out loud, to an actual human, as soon as you possibly can. That's the whole heart of how I approach every language, and it's exactly what we build inside the Fluent in 3 Months Bootcamp, a community and a method for getting you speaking with real people, fast.

For now, you've got everything you need to start speaking German today. So go and use it. Viel Erfolg!

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There are currently 51 countries with my name on them. The thing is, about 40 of these are countries that I feel like I genuinely know; I lived in them for several months or even years, tried to learn the local language and made genuine friends. But for about 10 of them, I caught myself doing something I don't like to see others do, of just visiting them for the tick. Adding them up like Pokémon. Visiting small, easy countries because they got me closer to a bigger number. Or visiting a single place in a huge country and then scratching the entire landmass off one of those country scratch maps.

I know people who have visited over a hundred countries, and even a couple of people who have visited every single one, but for my own 23-year and continuing trip, I don't want the number of countries to be a metric I think about.

I prefer much deeper travels, so instead I'm chasing every state. Every province, every region, sometimes every county, sometimes every major island; basically every little dot on the map most people fly straight over. There are roughly three thousand of them in the world, so the point isn't actually to tick every single one. I'd need to live to be really old for that. The point is the journey and the people I meet on the way.

If you'd rather watch than read, here's the full video version:

Now I know what you're thinking. “Benny, that's mad. Three thousand? You've finally lost it. You can barely do the countries, never mind every state inside every country.”

And you're right, I'll never finish. But here's what 23 years of doing this has taught me. The end goal of some number was never the point. Counting countries was never actually making my travel better. If anything it made it worse, because a scoreboard rewards speed, and speed ruins everything that makes travel worth doing.

Let me show you what I mean, because I've been both kinds of traveller.

The country scoreboard is shallow

When you're counting countries, you optimise for the tick. Fly into the capital, see the one or two most famous things, get the stamp, leave. I've met people who'll proudly tell you they've “been to” a hundred countries, and when you actually talk to them, they've seen a hundred airports, a hundred hotel breakfasts, and taken the most typical Instagram shot in front of the most typical tourist spot of the country.

I'm not judging them, because I did it too for a handful of my country visits.

Countries are wildly different sizes, but they all count the same. Ticking off Monaco scores exactly what ticking off Brazil scores. One of them you can easily walk from one side to the other in an afternoon. The other is the 5th largest country on earth, bigger than the continental United States, and holds entire worlds that have nothing to do with each other.

So the scoreboard lies to you. It tells you you've seen the world when all you've really seen is the thin top layer of it. The bit that's easiest to reach and looks best on a postcard.

Brazil: the whole-country project

Instead, as an example, I've had a project spanning two decades of visiting every corner of Brazil, piece by piece. Not the tick you get from just going to Rio. All of it. Every state. As much exploration as I could within each state.

And if you've never looked at a map of Brazil properly, that's an absurd thing to attempt, because a huge chunk of it is mostly the Amazon rainforest, the northernmost point of Brazil is closer to Canada than to the southernmost point, and the East of Brazil is way closer to Africa than it is to the west of Brazil, it's so huge. And most of the states aren't so well connected between one another if you wanted to fly between them.

So I went mainly overland. Tens of thousands of kilometres by bus. Boats from the very start of the Amazon river in Peru, entering Brazil, all the way to where it meets the Atlantic ocean.

I got to states most Brazilians have never set foot in. Roraima, right up on the Venezuela and Guyana border… Acre, which Brazilians joke doesn't even exist or is full of dinosaurs… On the equator at Amapá.

And every single one of them was extraordinary. Not because they're famous. Precisely because for loads of them, no other foreigner typically goes, so nothing's been sanded down for tourists, and often you are the first foreigner not from the country right next door they've ever met in their lives. You're just in a real place, with real people, who are genuinely delighted that some Irish fella has turned up speaking Portuguese.

If I'd been counting countries, Brazil would've been one tick. One. Same as Luxembourg or the Vatican City, or Macau. I'd have flown into Rio, had a lovely weekend, and flown home convinced I'd “done” a country I hadn't even begun to understand. Instead, I'm proud to say that I've been able to visit every single one of Brazil's 26 states, meeting people in every one and having a truly unique experience every time.

The honest trade-offs

Obviously, I'm aware that I'm very lucky that I get to do this; unfortunately, I don't have loads of money saved up because of multiple problems I went through in my life that I talked about a few years ago. But I work online and I earn in a strong currency, where an average salary gets you very far in loads of countries, and since I'm nomadic and travel with everything I own in the world, I'm not paying rent or a mortgage in a far off country.

And fortunately, I did the vast majority of an expensive country like the United States before inflation started getting out of hand, back when it was still relatively affordable. Because of that, I've also visited all 48 contiguous states of the US!

South Korea is a relatively small country, but I've visited every single province of it regardless!

And last year, I spent most of the year visiting all the major islands of the western half of Indonesia, where it was incredibly affordable as a nomad working online, but I really did need to speak Indonesian to make it worthwhile.

And this isn't some finished achievement I'm telling you about from a rocking chair. It's happening right now, even as I write this.

Mexico, state by state, right now

I'm currently working my way through Mexico, state by state. Next week, I'll reach my 20th state, out of 31. And because I'm going slowly, one state at a time, I'm not doing the entirety of any of the big countries in one go. I'll be coming back to Mexico for the final 10 states some time later.

And I'm still getting valuable experiences every time, especially thanks to making sure I speak the local language.

For instance, last week I was in San Luis Potosí. My eighteenth Mexican state. I arrived knowing nobody. There was this tiny café near my place, actually a converted front room of the house of a lovely couple. I went in on day one. Went back on day two. By the end of the week they knew my order, they knew my name, and we were having proper conversations in Spanish about their lives and mine. They were very surprised to meet an Irish guy in their city and very curious to chat with me, which is quite different to the more touristy spots in Mexico where they get a little overwhelmed with the amount of foreign visitors.

I'm not going to pretend it's all magic and café owners learning your name. Going deep is slower. Since meeting people is my priority, sometimes I do miss the iconic touristy sites. And occasionally, the unique experience I have in a place may well be a bit more superficial, since meeting people on the road all the time is incredibly challenging depending on the place and the local culture. But I'll take it.

I've really been enjoying this theme of visiting every state in these recent years. I don't know how long I'll be able to travel for, so I want to have a more unique experience while I can, and despite the vast number of people travelling now compared to when I started in 2003, I'm still actually able to have a unique experience, surrounded by mainly locals, by travelling this way. I can highly recommend it!

What's coming next

Like I said, I'm back again after a really long break, and there are a few things I want to talk about as I get back into recording videos. When I talk about deep long-term projects like this, loads of people ask me how I actually do it.

How do you travel with everything you could possibly need? How do you walk into a city where you know nobody and end up with friends and social events, even if you're not super outgoing?

So over the next few videos (and associated blog posts like this), I'm going to show you exactly that. The real logistics. How everything I own fits in one suitcase. How I find the events and the people that turn a strange city into somewhere I belong. The unglamorous, practical, genuinely useful stuff underneath the whole “every state in the world” idea.

I'll also return to some of the things I talked about a few years ago when I was sharing the darkest point of my life, in terms of how I escaped from such a dark place.

If that sounds like your kind of madness, subscribe to my Benny Lewis channel, because that's what's coming. And if you followed me for my language learning advice, don't worry, because I've just uploaded a new video on the Fluent in 3 Months YouTube channel too, and I still help people who want to learn a language intensively in a supportive coaching community at the Bootcamp.

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For years people had been sending me his name like it was the end of an argument. “Benny, you tell people to speak from day one, but Krashen proved you wrong.” He was the renowned linguist, and I was the loud Irish guy telling you to go embarrass yourself in a café. So I'll be honest, part of me sat down to that call ready to defend myself.

And about ten minutes in, he reached off-screen, held up a copy of my book, and told me the thing I want to talk about today: that speaking from day one was never against his theory at all.

Here's the video version of this blog post, including parts with Krashen in his own voice:

“I tried speaking early and it was miserable”

I know what some of you are thinking, because I've been hearing these arguments for years. “I tried speaking early and it was miserable. I'm an introvert. I froze. I sounded like an idiot and I never want to feel that again.” I get it. I'm not going to pretend that first conversation feels lovely. It doesn't.

But here's what I've come to believe after twenty-three years of learning languages as an adult. The thing that makes early speaking miserable isn't the speaking. It's the stakes. It's the exam, the teacher waiting for you to conjugate, the sense that you're being marked. Take that away, make it a friendly chat where nobody's grading you, and the fear has nothing to feed on.

What comprehensible input gets right

Let me start by giving the other side its due, because most articles on this topic don't.

Comprehensible input is real, and it's powerful. The idea that you grow a language mostly by understanding loads of it, rather than by memorising grammar tables, is just true. It's true for me. It's true for every fluent person I know.

And I'll go further. That call with Krashen actually changed how I learn. He's mad about graded readers, these easy little stories pitched just above your level, and he talked about them with such joy that I realised I'd been skipping reading until I was already intermediate. I was wrong about that. I now read far earlier than I used to, and it's because of him. So this isn't me versus input. I'm a fan.

Why I still speak from day one

So why do I still tell you to open your mouth on day one?

Because speaking is the thing that tells you what to listen for. The moment you try to have a real conversation, you find out, instantly, what you can't say yet. The word you reach for and it isn't there. The sentence that comes out backwards. That little stab of “oh, I needed that” is the most valuable feedback in language learning, and you cannot get it from your sofa.

One of my viewers put it better than I can. He said attempting a conversation reveals the things you can't say, thought you could say, and want to say, and then you go and learn exactly those. That's not output replacing input. That's output aiming your input.

And the crucial thing is that a beginner conversation is itself full of input. When you talk to someone patient, they slow down, they simplify, they react to your face. You're not just producing. You're getting a custom-made, comprehensible version of the language, built live, around exactly what you're trying to say.

What Krashen actually told me

Which brings me back to that call. I put this to him directly. I said that people treat what I do as the opposite of comprehensible input, and I asked him what the overlap really was. Here's the full conversation, the original podcast episode I recorded with him:

And this is what he said:

“As long as it includes speaking early and often, that's the main thing, no question. As you point out in your book, you make sure beginning stages the other person is comprehensible, you're slowing down, and so on. You're still managing to control the input to some extent, and I suspect you got a lot more input than you let us see in the book, because you're always talking to people. You're getting lots and lots of input all the time, and that totals up. So yes, it's an input-output idea.”

And then, a little later, the line that settled it for me:

“We're using both. That's really how it is. We're not doing things that the theory doesn't allow. It's all within the theory. Just different weights to each.”

Different weights. That's the whole fight, right there. It was never input versus output. It's input and output, and all anyone's really arguing about is the dial. The linguist who built the theory put speaking from day one inside it.

He even went out of his way to be generous about the book itself: “Here's a free commercial message for Benny's book, which I read every single damn page twice.” He credited it for changing his own habits, saying he'd started finding people to talk to on the computer because of it. The father of comprehensible input chasing conversation practice is not the picture most people have of him.

The affective filter cuts the other way

There's one more piece of Krashen's own theory that matters here, and it's the affective filter. That's his idea that when you're stressed or embarrassed, your brain basically shuts the door and acquisition stops.

And that's the bridge. A friendly, low-stakes chat where you're allowed to be rubbish lowers that filter. It opens the door. The exam raises it. So “speaking causes anxiety” has it backwards. Bad speaking situations cause anxiety. A kind first conversation is the cure, not the cause.

The dinner I forgot was in Spanish

I want to tell you what's on the other side of all that awkwardness, because it's the best feeling I know.

A couple of weeks ago I was at a dinner here in Mexico. Locals, all in Spanish, a few hours in, the jokes flying. And somewhere in the middle of it I noticed something strange. I'd stopped noticing the Spanish. The little background process I usually run, the one checking the language, holding it up, just wasn't on. I was only there. Laughing, arguing, being a person. I genuinely forgot I was speaking Spanish!

That's where speaking consistently takes you. Not to a perfect accent or a flawless verb table, but to a dinner you forget was even in another language. And you don't get there by waiting until you're ready. You get there by speaking early and speaking often.

Your one task this week

So here's the one thing I'd love you to actually do this week. Not a hundred hours of anything. One short conversation. Friendly, low stakes, with a real human, in your language, where you're allowed to be terrible at it. That's it. It can even be over Zoom, and they don't even need to be a native speaker, because you still get loads out of practising with other learners.

If you want a hand turning that into a plan, I've got a completely free Speak in a Week course that walks you through exactly how to get to your first conversation, even from zero. You can sign up for it here.

And if you want me coaching you through it directly, with live calls to help you intensively learn a language over the next three months, that's what my Bootcamp is for.

This is the stuff I actually believe about learning a language, even when it's unfashionable. So go and have that awkward conversation. It's the fastest thing you'll ever do for your language, and the linguist who invented comprehensible input is, it turns out, on my side about it.

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