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		<title>16 Books to Help You Learn Faster, Build New Skills, and Actually Remember What Matters in 2026</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 04:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The mind is a powerful thing. I say that as someone who has learned a lot from taking almost 300 &#8230; <a class="kt-excerpt-readmore more-link" href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/16-books-to-help-you-learn-faster-build-new-skills-and-actually-remember-what-matters-in-2026/">Read More</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The mind is a powerful thing.</p>
<p>I say that as someone who has learned a lot from <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/what-i-learned-from-taking-almost-300-online-courses-9-eugene-k-yiga-jevpf"><strong>taking almost 300 online courses in the last nine years</strong></a>. And while some might be worried about how <strong><a href="https://www.economist.com/letters/2025/09/19/is-the-decline-in-reading-books-making-us-dumber">the decline in reading books is making us dumber</a></strong> or that <strong><a href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/How-Post-Modernism-Broke-Our-Concept-of-Truth-Acumen-Magazine-November-2025.pdf">we live in a post-truth world</a></strong>, I’m excited about <a href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Universities-Need-to-Change-Skyways-Magazine-December-2025.pdf"><strong>how the education system can change for a better future</strong></a>, much like Rumi writes in <strong><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25187818">Mathnawi</a></strong> (also available on Audible).</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Wisdom and knowledge serve to guide the wanderers; were there but one road, wisdom would be needless.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>To keep growing, here are some of my favourite <strong><a href="https://seths.blog/">Seth Godin</a></strong> quotes from his 2025 blog posts, together with a recommended title from <strong><a href="http://eugeneyiga.com/blinkist">Blinkist</a></strong>.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Education is distinct from learning. Organised education is a form of indoctrination and certification. Sometimes it leads to learning, but not always.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/09/bringing-goodwill-to-the-conversation/"> Bringing goodwill to the conversation</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-education-of-millionaires-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>The Education of Millionaires</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Focus on the hard part.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/07/65-thoughts/"> Notes to myself</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/the-busy-brain-cure?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=66bfaad2d9ece4001180505a&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>The Busy Brain Cure</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;If you fail to show us the facts, it&#8217;s difficult to accept your analysis.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/analysis-facts-interpretation/"> Analysis = Facts + Interpretation</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/pragmatism-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=696761fde0d08800063073b3&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>Pragmatism</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;If you want to clarify our understanding, it helps to be specific.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/03/specific/"> Specific</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-reading-mind-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=67c1a9028081ae019e4f9d99&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>The Reading Mind</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Learning is hard. It creates tension. It takes time. Most of all, it requires a commitment to becoming someone else, a bet we&#8217;re making that might not turn out the way we hope.&#8221; ~</strong><a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/education-is-free-learning-is-expensive/"><strong> Education is free, learning is expensive</strong></a></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/productive-failure-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=673cba13a781f60007ac4199&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Productive Failure</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Logic is symbolic. Learning requires handholds to help us understand the symbols, but it&#8217;s the logic that remains.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/03/seeking-metaphor/"> Seeking metaphor</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/liminal-thinking-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=673ef196b6dc7f0007ca1675&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Liminal Thinking</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Once you find software that&#8217;s worth the time to learn, learn it.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/04/the-use-and-design-of-tools/"> The use (and design) of tools</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/hyperefficient-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=671f91b6c06980001123512b&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Hyperefficient</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Sooner or later, we are all self taught.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/08/aha/"> Aha!</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/limitless-en"><strong>Limitless</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The job of the teacher is to create the conditions for the student to explore their incompetence long enough to learn something useful.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/dont-steal-the-revelation/"> Don&#8217;t steal the revelation</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/uncommon-sense-teaching-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=6926c0c29ce037000785f0c1&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>Uncommon Sense Teaching</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The more experience, assets and privilege we have, the less excusable it is to do stupid things. And at the same time, the more useful it is to announce that we&#8217;re not smart (yet).&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/07/not-smart-vs-stupid/"> Not smart vs. stupid</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/wisdom-takes-work-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=691da3d9291802000d852723&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>Wisdom Takes Work</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The most difficult part of adult learning is choosing to learn.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/honesty-about-better/"> Honesty about better</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/the-little-book-of-talent-en"><strong>The Little Book of Talent</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The number of people reading a post or following an account is not a useful indicator of whether or not the ideas within are made up or not. Act accordingly.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/the-weekly-world-news-version-of-the-future/"> The Weekly World News version of the future</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/principles-of-human-knowledge-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=69676395465ae400072465ce&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>Principles of Human Knowledge</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The place you went to school or the number of followers you have online are credentials. If they help you create value, that&#8217;s great. But they&#8217;re not the same as expertise.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/expertise-and-credentials/"> Expertise and credentials</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/mastery-en-tony-wagner-ulrik-juul-christensen?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=68f888429ce0370007fa24ae&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>Mastery</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Upskilling is the path forward.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/12/use-your-best-judgment-2/"> &#8220;Use your best judgment&#8221;</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/microskills-en"><strong>Microskills</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When we choose to learn, our active participation makes a difference.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/what-the-world-teaches-us/"> What the world teaches us</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/primal-intelligence-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=68cd0e3a4786f80007bc0cc3&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Primal Intelligence</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Wonder is a choice, and we can find it if we look for it.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/04/an-eroding-sense-of-wonder/"> An eroding sense of wonder</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <strong><a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-fall-in-love-with-questions-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=681e3d479ce178010c91e2f5&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0">How to Fall in Love With Questions</a></strong></p>
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		<title>24 Books to Help You Build Trust, Deepen Connections, and Communicate Better in 2026</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2026 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Relationships are hard. But even though dealing with other people means dealing with conflict and complications, it&#8217;s worth the cost, &#8230; <a class="kt-excerpt-readmore more-link" href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/24-books-to-help-you-build-trust-deepen-connections-and-communicate-better-in-2026/">Read More</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Relationships are hard.</p>
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<p>But even though dealing with other people means dealing with conflict and complications, it&#8217;s worth the cost, much like James Baldwin writes in <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/406235.Giovanni_s_Room"><strong>Giovanni&#8217;s Room</strong></a> (also available on <strong><a href="https://eugeneyiga.com/audible">Audible</a></strong>):</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Not many people have died of love. But multitudes have perished, and are perishing every hour, for the lack of it.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>For more inspiration, here are some of my favourite<a href="https://seths.blog/"><strong> Seth Godin</strong></a> quotes from his 2025 blog posts, together with a recommended title from <strong><a href="https://blinki.st/b4313eeaaca0?referral=app">Blinkist</a></strong>.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;A convincing argument works when the recipient is convinced, not you.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/11/a-convincing-argument/">A convincing argument</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/the-art-of-persuasion-en">The Art of Persuasion</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Annoyance is the inflammation that occurs after a mild emotional injury or wound. Like a physical inflammation, if it&#8217;s not cared for it can become infected.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/annoyed-2/">Annoyed</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/the-relationship-cure-en">The Relationship Cure</a></p>
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<h5>&#8220;Culture works hard to maintain its status quo, and persistent community action can change our standards.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/uncomfortable-unspoken/">Uncomfortable/unspoken</a></h5>
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<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/tribal-en">Tribal</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Division is satisfying in the short run, and it might even draw a crowd. But the only useful reason to disconnect is if it opens up the chance to increase connection somewhere else.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/03/division-is-easier-than-connection/">Division is easier than connection</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/collaborating-with-the-enemy-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=672344c3cbc873000d112a99&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Collaborating with the Enemy</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Even at a distance, we can sometimes tell if someone is educated, rich, powerful or physically attractive. But that doesn&#8217;t always correlate with smart, kind or honest.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/confused-by-signals/">Confused by signals</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/reading-people-en">Reading People</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Everyone who disagrees with you is right to do so – based on who they are and what they see.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/12/building-blocks-of-marketing/">Building blocks of marketing</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/i-respectfully-disagree?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=66bc4bc318d5d600075fb02a&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I Respectfully Disagree</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Freedom, liberty and independence are human rights. But they depend on responsibility. Responsibility to others, to our future, to the community.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/07/refocusing/">Refocusing</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-secret-of-our-success-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=6979cd8acf3ccf00071124f6&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Secret of Our Success</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;If we want to change how others respond, we need to change their circumstances and how they see their options.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/09/under-the-circumstances-2/">Under the circumstances</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/mindwise-en">Mindwise</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;It&#8217;s really difficult to please everyone. Which means that we have to figure out which someone we&#8217;re here for.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/here-to-please/">Here to please</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/boundaries-en">Boundaries</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Making a point doesn&#8217;t take very long and it can be gratifying in the moment. Making an impact happens over time, and rarely brings the same sort of short-term glee.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/09/making-a-point/">Making a point</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/the-small-big-en">The Small BIG</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Our biggest commitments, the things we are most dedicated to, rarely pay us back in equal measure. That might be the point.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/reciprocity/">Reciprocity</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/real-love-en">Real Love</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Real gratitude requires empathy. Everyone is under the circumstances. Everyone does the best they think they can with the options they think they have.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/11/gratitude-and-empathy/">Gratitude and empathy</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/atlas-of-the-heart-en">Atlas of the Heart</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Selfish brutality might work in the short run, but it always breaks.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/08/get-outta-my-way/">&#8220;Get outta my way&#8221;</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/not-nice-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=673c3770a9570b0012d72f15&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Not Nice</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Someone else&#8217;s trauma doesn&#8217;t diminish yours. In fact, when we can find the space to see that others have their own mess to deal with, it opens the door for forward motion.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/03/worst-possible/">Worst possible</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/app/books/how-to-be-an-adult-in-relationships-en">How to Be an Adult in Relationships</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Someone will always be opposed to the change we seek to make. And there&#8217;s always someone who wants to help.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/and-when-it-breaks-2/">And when it breaks?</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-power-of-discord-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=67f8b898b1b7ce02070c445d&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Power of Discord</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Starting from the place that we&#8217;re all imperfect makes it easy to find empathy, for others and ourselves.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/04/we-are-all-goofballs/">We are all goofballs</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-be-a-friend-in-an-unfriendly-world-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=694272c54e13f9000d1953c8&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android" target="_blank" rel="noopener">How to be a Friend (In an Unfriendly World)</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Status shows up whenever humans do, and it is the invisible underpinning of our culture.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/status-and-the-grass-tax/">Status (and the grass tax)</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/status-games-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6849d32ff06aed0007a849bb&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Status Games</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The benefit of the doubt creates connection. When we exclude people based on surface judgments, we penalize each other.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/07/our-spot-in-the-universe/">Agency and contribution</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/supercommunicators-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Supercommunicators</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The first things humans invented, before fire, the wheel or baked brie, was trust.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/scams-at-scale/">Scams at scale</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/trust-matters-more-than-ever-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=690b6c72ffd261000771daf9&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Trust Matters More Than Ever</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;There&#8217;s a lesson in every interaction, if we want there to be.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/what-the-world-teaches-us/">What the world teaches us</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-listen-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=68d452624786f80007bc0d61&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">How to Listen</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;There&#8217;s usually an opportunity to be of service.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/07/65-thoughts/">Notes to myself</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/kind-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=67bac57577524001420a56c9&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Kind</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When we win by having someone else lose, we set up a conflict. It&#8217;s clear, direct but not generative. But when we win by confronting our fear, everyone benefits.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/two-kinds-of-confrontations/">Two kinds of confrontations</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/from-conflict-to-courage-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=677cd6c7fe7c5a00071d4bd6&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">From Conflict to Courage</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When you&#8217;re about to offer advice, ask a question or blurt out a response, wait five seconds. That pause shifts the way what you say next will be perceived.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/the-power-of-a-pause/">The power of a pause</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-pause-principle-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=67bc5426fb09c8017138ac9a&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Pause Principle</a></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;While it can be fun to change someone else&#8217;s position, it&#8217;s also a gift to learn enough to change ours.&#8221; ~ <a href="https://seths.blog/2025/04/how-to-win-an-argument-with-a-toddler/">How to win an argument with a toddler</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <span data-sheets-root="1"><a class="in-cell-link" href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/i-never-thought-of-it-that-way-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6729c51acbc873000d114c18&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I Never Thought of It That Way</a></span></p>
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		<title>18 Books to Help You Set Goals, Change Habits, and Actually Stick to Your Resolutions in 2026</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 04:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A new year brings new opportunities. No matter what your plans are for 2026, it pays to dream big, much &#8230; <a class="kt-excerpt-readmore more-link" href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/18-books-to-help-you-set-goals-change-habits-and-actually-stick-to-your-resolutions-in-2026/">Read More</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new year brings new opportunities.</p>
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<p>No matter what your plans are for 2026, it pays to dream big, much like Pau Auster writes in <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/447.Moon_Palace"><strong>Moon Palace</strong></a> (also available on<a href="https://eugeneyiga.com/audible"> <strong>Audible</strong></a>):</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Once you throw your life to the winds, you will discover things you had never known before, things that cannot be learned under any other circumstances.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>For more inspiration, here are some of my favourite <a href="https://seths.blog/"><strong>Seth Godin</strong></a> quotes from his 2025 blog posts, together with a recommended title from <strong><a href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/blinkist">Blinkist</a></strong>.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Become the self you&#8217;d be proud to be. Hang out with people and ideas that help you become that self. Act like that self every chance you get.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/03/be-yourself/"> &#8220;Be yourself&#8221;</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/i-could-do-anything-if-i-only-knew-what-it-was-en"><strong>I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Consistent, gradual and persistent are the unsung forces of cultural change.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/the-thing-about-pressure/"> The thing about pressure</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/make-change-that-lasts-en"><strong>Make Change That Lasts</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Easy isn&#8217;t the point. Better is. Challenging the status quo is difficult, and worth it.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/lulled-2/"> Lulled</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/charge-to-my-line-en"><strong>The Charge</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Going forward requires skills, attitudes and belief. A rare combination.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/05/the-biggest-thing-you-bring-to-the-project-going-forward-is-forward/"> The biggest thing you bring to the project is forward</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/get-it-done-en"><strong>Get It Done</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;If you&#8217;re always demanding a few more than whatever you have, you&#8217;re signing up for a journey that never ends.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/05/infinity-is-not-a-number/"> Infinity is not a number</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/the-success-myth-en"><strong>The Success Myth</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;If you&#8217;re serious, say, &#8216;yes.&#8217; And if it&#8217;s not for you, walk away. But endlessly reconsidering opportunities without forward motion is a place to hide.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/08/no-is-an-option/"> &#8220;No&#8221; is an option</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/ready-aim-fire-en"><strong>Ready Aim Fire!</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;No one is coming to pick you. Today&#8217;s a great day to pick yourself.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/09/ject/"> Ject!</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/who-better-than-you-en"><strong>Who Better Than You?</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Often, people will point to the velocity of the change they&#8217;re making without pausing to consider the direction of that change.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/what-sort-of-progress/"> What sort of progress?</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/switch-en"><strong>Switch</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Our actions become our habits, and our habits attract others. That becomes our community, and our community builds systems. Those systems feel awkward until they become normal, and then, once normal, they become the status quo.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/12/our-practice/"> Our practice</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/ritual-en"><strong>Ritual</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Spend enough time inventing possible futures in your head and you won&#8217;t have any time to build the future we will all share. Time to get to work.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/06/daydream-fatigue/"> Daydream fatigue</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/build-dont-talk-en"><strong>Build, Don&#8217;t Talk</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Start where you are. Start with what you&#8217;ve got. Start now.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/09/act-fast/"> Act now!</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/get-momentum-en"><strong>Get Momentum</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The future unfolds, with or without us, but that doesn&#8217;t mean we can&#8217;t bend it in a useful direction.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/01/memo-to-the-future/"> Memo to the future</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/winners-en"><strong>Winners</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The hard part isn&#8217;t finding proof before you begin. The hard part is beginning, knowing you might not succeed.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/03/the-opposite-of-a-good-idea/"> The opposite of a good idea…</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/tiny-experiments-en"><strong>Tiny Experiments</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The simple life hack is to lower your expectations, regardless of what you&#8217;re entitled to. Create the conditions for the outcome you seek, but leave yourself room if it doesn&#8217;t arrive.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/05/expectations-3/"> Expectations</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/effortless-en"><strong>Effortless</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;There are countless things we can do today to change tomorrow.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/10/the-future/"> The future</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/make-today-count-en"><strong>Make Today Count</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;There is no perfect moment to begin.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/07/65-thoughts/"> Notes to myself</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/skip-the-line-en"><strong>Skip the Line</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;We can&#8217;t change the past. But the future might be up to us.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/11/time-travel/"> Time travel</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/whats-your-dream-en"><strong>What&#8217;s Your Dream?</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When we get hooked on what we get next instead of focusing on what actually matters in the now, we sign up for a crash.&#8221; ~<a href="https://seths.blog/2025/05/getting-to-next/"> Getting to next</a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/the-motivation-myth-en"><strong>The Motivation Myth</strong></a></p>
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		<title>How to build a success mindset for 2026</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 04:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Here ends another year. As we look back on what’s happened and look ahead to what’s to come, it’s worth &#8230; <a class="kt-excerpt-readmore more-link" href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/how-to-build-a-success-mindset-for-2026/">Read More</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here ends another year.</p>
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<p>As we look back on <a href="https://www.firstrand.co.za/perspectives/the-echoes-of-history/"><strong>what’s happened</strong></a> and look ahead to what’s to come, it’s worth reflecting on a truth that feels both timeless and urgent, captured in <strong><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/325128.Kidnapped">Kidnapped</a> </strong>by Robert Louis Stevenson (also available on<strong><a href="http://eugeneyiga.com/audible"> Audible</a></strong>):</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>There are two things that we should never weary of: goodness and humility. We get none too much of them in this rough world and among cold, proud people.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>If you need more guidance, here are some of my favourite <a href="https://seths.blog/"><strong>Seth Godin</strong></a> quotes from his 2024 blog posts, together with a recommended title from <strong><a href="https://blinki.st/b4313eeaaca0?referral=app">Blinkist</a>.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Being annoyed is a concoction based on expectations and the stories we tell ourselves. We can change the story if we try. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/inverting-the-vex?utm_source=pocket_shared">Inverting the vex </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/free-books/master-your-emotions-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>Master Your Emotions</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Choosing to care about what other people care about surrenders your agency. You’ll find that success feels hollow, because it’s their success, not yours. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/choose-your-fuel-wisely?utm_source=pocket_shared">Choose your fuel wisely </a>  </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/lead-yourself-first-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=67840ae92767ff0007c0f020&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Lead Yourself First</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Control is elusive. If we accept the parts that are out of our hands, we can focus on the elements where we have leverage and influence instead. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/03/out-of-control?utm_source=pocket_shared">Out of control </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-little-book-of-stoicism-en-jonas-salzgeber?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=68d6e8a322a6900007b8fd4d&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>The Little Book of Stoicism</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Creating the conditions for success is a very different project than finding a heroic move that saves the day. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/analyzing-the-last-move?utm_source=pocket_shared">Analyzing the last move </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/its-on-me-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>It&#8217;s on Me</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Eliminate surprise and explain the circumstances and panic starts to fade. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/surprise-and-uncertainty?utm_source=pocket_shared">Surprise and uncertainty </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/building-a-non-anxious-life-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>Building a Non-Anxious Life</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>“Enough” is often attainable and always useful. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/05/the-challenge-of-n-1?utm_source=pocket_shared">The challenge of N + 1 </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/minimalism-en"><strong>Minimalism</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Everyone needs more chances, more benefit of the doubt, more opportunity. But what turns a chance into a big break is what we do with it once the chance arrives. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/12/what-do-we-do-with-our-chance?utm_source=pocket_shared">What do we do with our chance? </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-be-bold-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=68ff8396dcf74100078de563&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>How to Be Bold</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Fear might be for sale, but that doesn’t mean we have to buy it. Better is possible. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/kinds-of-power?utm_source=pocket_shared">Kinds of power </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/fear-en"><strong>Fear</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>If the story isn’t helping you move forward, focus elsewhere. Catastrophizing is contagious, but we can work to stop the spread and get back to work. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/catastrophizing-toward-action?utm_source=pocket_shared">Catastrophizing toward action </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/fear-less-en"><strong>Fear Less</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>If we’re so concerned about fiascos that we never play, we’ll never make anything better. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/08/reclaiming-fiasco?utm_source=pocket_shared">Reclaiming fiasco </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-make-your-brain-your-best-friend-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=68db8db922a6900007b8fde5&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>How to Make Your Brain Your Best Friend</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>If you don’t realize that you have power, you might not be able to exercise it. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/01/unaware?utm_source=pocket_shared">Unaware </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-power-of-self-confidence-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6768783ffe7c5a00071d483e&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>The Power of Self-Confidence</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>It’s easy to believe that in some moments, the world is out to get you. This is unlikely. The world hardly knows you exist. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/01/out-to-get-you?utm_source=pocket_shared">Out to get you </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/me-myself-and-us-en"><strong>Me, Myself and Us</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Owning our choices is a privilege that we can learn to dance with. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/what-should-i-do-now?utm_source=pocket_shared">What should I do now? </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-science-of-self-discipline-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=6929669ebf0a6f00079b3946&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>The Science of Self-Discipline</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Sometimes, a really good opportunity doesn’t actually have a catch. And spending a lot of time looking for one keeps us from the work we ought to be doing. ~ </strong><a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/whats-the-catch?utm_source=pocket_shared"><strong>“What’s the catch?”</strong></a></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/dont-believe-everything-you-think-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>Don&#8217;t Believe Everything You Think</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Tension is the feeling we experience just before we grow. Ironically, it’s what’s we seek, at the very same time we avoid it. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/10/please-create-more-tension?utm_source=pocket_shared">Please create more tension </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-upside-of-uncertainty-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>The Upside of Uncertainty</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>There are many forms of hospitality, but resilience, goodwill and gratitude are often the ones that matter. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/03/graceful?utm_source=pocket_shared">Graceful </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <strong><a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-live-an-extraordinary-life-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=675ac518ef555600086f73d4&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0">How to Live an Extraordinary Life</a> </strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Waiting for the world to get things just right is exhausting and frustrating, while taking responsibility for what we might be able to contribute or lead can be energizing and fun. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/06/what-does-the-world-owe-you?utm_source=pocket_shared">What does the world owe us? </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/sovereign-self-en"><strong>Sovereign Self</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>We’d like to think we can honor everything we believe in, every time, but of course, the difficult work of having principles is that we must put some ahead of others. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/at-all-costs?utm_source=pocket_shared">At all costs </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/the-way-of-integrity-en"><strong>The Way of Integrity</strong></a></p>
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		<title>How to overcome challenges, recover from failure, and fix your mistakes in 2025</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Have you achieved your big goals for this year? It’s okay if you haven’t. Everyone goes through hardships and difficulties, &#8230; <a class="kt-excerpt-readmore more-link" href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/how-to-overcome-challenges-recover-from-failure-and-fix-your-mistakes-in-2025/">Read More</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you achieved your big goals for this year?</p>
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<p><span id="more-4192"></span>It’s okay if you haven’t. Everyone goes through hardships and difficulties, to say nothing of <a href="https://www.eugeneyiga.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Seeding-Freedom-in-the-Age-of-Climate-Chaos-Acumen-August-2025.pdf"><strong>the challenges facing the wider world</strong></a>, much like Carol Shields writes in <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/74462.Unless"><strong>Unless</strong></a> (also available on <a href="https://eugeneyiga.com/audible"><b>Audible</b></a>):</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Happiness is the lucky pane of glass you carry in your head. It takes all your cunning just to hang on to it, and once it&#8217;s smashed you have to move to a different sort of life.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>If you need more guidance, here are some of my favourite <a href="https://seths.blog/"><b>Seth Godin</b></a> quotes from his 2024 blog posts, together with a recommended title from <a href="https://blinki.st/b4313eeaaca0?referral=app"><b>Blinkist</b></a>.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Being perfect is unattainable, and seeking perfection is a trap. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/non-fatal-errors?utm_source=pocket_shared">Non-fatal errors </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/love-for-imperfect-things-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6809fef3a9485301ff8f8f90&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Love for Imperfect Things</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Emotions are often tied to events and events feel absolute. But events are rarely absolute. They’re almost always relative. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/compared-to-what-5?utm_source=pocket_shared">Compared to what? </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/attitude-is-everything-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6762afb53fcb51000737ab46&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Attitude Is Everything</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Everyone is stumbling forward in the shadows. That’s part of the deal. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/01/stumbling-in-the-dark?utm_source=pocket_shared">Stumbling in the dark </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/finding-your-way-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>Finding Your Way</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Experiencing failure in advance is only helpful if the narrative causes us to take productive action. Better is possible, paralysis isn’t useful. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/catastrophizing-toward-action?utm_source=pocket_shared">Catastrophizing toward action </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/analysis-without-paralysis-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>Analysis Without Paralysis</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Fixing little dents is a commitment to quality, a constant quest against entropy as we seek to deliver with consistency. And living with dents is a way to focus on what really matters, not on what can be fixed. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/10/little-dents?utm_source=pocket_shared">Little dents </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/shatterproof-en"><strong>Shatterproof</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Giving up is a waste. Quitting, on the other hand, is a fine thing to do. Because quitting gives you tomorrow back. It opens the door for the next contribution you are able to make. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/07/giving-up-vs-quitting?utm_source=pocket_shared">Giving up vs. quitting </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/the-way-of-the-champion-en"><strong>The Way of the Champion</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>If a problem is vexing us, we can use that irritation as fuel, finding the energy to deal with it. We can turn the moment into curiosity and forward motion. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/inverting-the-vex?utm_source=pocket_shared">Inverting the vex </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/help-me-im-stuck-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=676bc6b5fe7c5a00071d48c5&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Help Me I&#8217;m Stuck</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>If you don’t want to get fooled again, think about why you got fooled last time. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/wont-get-fooled-again-2?utm_source=pocket_shared">Won&#8217;t get fooled again </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/brilliant-mistakes-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_campaign=book%253Acover&amp;utm_content=68f890999ce0370007fa24bb&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_source=bk_android"><strong>Brilliant Mistakes</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>It doesn’t matter how hard you try, you’re not going to change the direction of the wind. That doesn’t mean you can’t get good at sailing, though. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/08/the-prevailing-conditions?utm_source=pocket_shared">The prevailing conditions </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/passport-to-success-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=686a9a1a1f173e0007865ea3&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Passport to Success</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>It’s easy to make bitterness worse by seeking more reasons to be bitter. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/09/the-bitterness-loop?utm_source=pocket_shared">The bitterness loop </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/how-to-be-a-failure-and-still-live-well-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=67765336fe7c5a00071d4aa7&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>How to Be a Failure and Still Live Well</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>It’s possible to have a useful conversation about what to do about something that’s broken or needs improvement. But first, we must acknowledge that it happened. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/what-happened-vs-what-we-do-about-it?utm_source=pocket_shared">What happened vs. what we do about it </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <strong><a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/12-rules-for-life-en">12 Rules For Life</a> </strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Loosening the constraints always makes a problem easier to solve. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/04/other-peoples-problems?utm_source=pocket_shared">Other people&#8217;s problems </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/dont-sweat-the-small-stuff-dot-dot-dot-and-its-all-small-stuff-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=680cbcff362a40020491ef1d&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Don&#8217;t Sweat the Small Stuff</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Problems, by definition, can be fixed. But they might not be worth the focus and effort. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/11/broken-and-not-worth-fixing?utm_source=pocket_shared">Broken (and not worth fixing) </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/letting-go-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6729c7cdcbc873000d114c2e&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Letting Go</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>The end of the trail is usually difficult, but without the long and winding approach, there isn’t much of a mountain. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/08/the-steep-part-of-the-mountain?utm_source=pocket_shared">The steep part of the mountain </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/journey-of-awakening-en"><strong>Journey of Awakening</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>We can’t possibly control the future, but we can certainly focus on right here and right now. Any effort we spend on controlling the uncontrollable bits is wasted. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/12/youve-already-failed?utm_source=pocket_shared">You&#8217;ve already failed </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <strong><a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/mindset-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=5282429c3334640018470000&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0">Mindset</a> </strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>We need to look for the hard parts, not avoid them. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/07/sudare-sette-camicie?utm_source=pocket_shared">Sudare sette camicie </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/no-mud-no-lotus-en?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6752c67a7ba15b00081d5014&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>No Mud, No Lotus</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What’s on offer is never perfect, but what’s on offer might be exactly what we need right now. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/09/compared-to-perfect?utm_source=pocket_shared">Compared to perfect </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/have-a-beautiful-terrible-day-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>Have a Beautiful Terrible Day</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>When things don’t go the way we hope, one alternative is to look hard at the system that caused the problem. And another productive strategy is to figure out what to do with what we get, instead of seeking to find the villain that’s causing our problem. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/01/out-to-get-you?utm_source=pocket_shared">Out to get you </a> </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/questions-are-the-answer-en-hal-gregersen?utm_source=bk_android&amp;utm_medium=bk_referral&amp;utm_campaign=book%3Acover&amp;utm_content=6759506d6fa8a60007ac5d74&amp;referral_token=b4313eeaaca0"><strong>Questions Are the Answer</strong></a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Whining is a symptom, it’s rarely a cure for anything. ~ <a href="http://seths.blog/2024/06/what-spoiled-wrecks?utm_source=pocket_shared">What spoiled wrecks </a></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Learn more: <a href="https://www.blinkist.com/books/a-complaint-free-world-en?referral_token=b4313eeaaca0&amp;utm_source=pocket_saves"><strong>A Complaint Free World</strong></a></p>
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