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		<title>Enlightr - Smart Self Improvement Updates</title>
		<description>Self improvement at Enlightr. Your place for productivity, motivation and more.</description>
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			<title>Lazy Man's Way to a Great Blog</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/858-lazy-mans-way-to-a-great-blog</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/858-lazy-mans-way-to-a-great-blog</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/858-lazy-mans-way-to-a-great-blog"&gt;&lt;img src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/blog-post-title-generator.jpg" alt="blog-post-title-generator" width="598" height="251" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;Aim of the post is to alert you to the importance of titles on blog posts and to introduce you to a awesome blog post title generator that’ll do it for you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you run a blog or write anything you know how important a great title can be. It can easily make the different between 10 people flocking to read your post or 10,000.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’ve recently joined the band wagon of great title writing and noticed there’s nothing really out there that can help you along and create titles for you. That’s where my nifty &lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/ptg-blog-post-title-generator"&gt;little &lt;strong&gt;blog post title generator&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; comes in. It’s designed for blogs but it can be used for anything really.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I created the title templates from research I carried out on Digg homepage and other sources such as &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.copyblogger.com/magnetic-headlines/"&gt;Copybloggers Magnetic Headlines&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/strong&gt;At current it will help you carry out the manual task of thinking up great titles by supplying you with options that work. You’re only job is to select those options which best describe your new post and wolah!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/ptg-blog-post-title-generator"&gt;Check it out for yourself and test its functionality...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;P.S&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;If you like it, please leave a comment here, &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/contact-us"&gt;contact me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; or link to it from you blog.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;P.S.S&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;I’m quite new to PHP and this was my first project attempt which I believe came out very well in functionality but I’m not overly pleased with design just yet. I plan to be working on it more to add more title templates, functionality and design elements in the new coming days. I decided to release because I want as much feedback as possible!  Have fun trying to break it! &lt;img title="Smile" src="http://enlightr.com/plugins/editors/jce/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:58:47 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Here Is a Method That Is Helping Everyone Take Control of Their Lives</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/279-psychology-of-you/636-why-you-are-in-complete-control-of-yourself</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/279-psychology-of-you/636-why-you-are-in-complete-control-of-yourself</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: center; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://psychology.enlightr.com/psychology-of-you/here-is-a-method-that-is-helping-everyone-take-control-of-their-lives.html"&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/complete-control.jpg" alt="complete-control" width="600" height="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;The aim of this post is to alert you to your behaviours relating to control and how you are giving away your control to people around you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://psychology.enlightr.com/psychology-of-you/here-is-a-method-that-is-helping-everyone-take-control-of-their-lives.html"&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; Read full post here &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/XBxneGKMNPc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>10 Best Selling Dating Books</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/294-reviews/857-10-best-selling-dating-books</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/294-reviews/857-10-best-selling-dating-books</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e300ff;" href="http://dating.enlightr.com/reviews/10-best-selling-dating-books.html"&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/10-best-selling-dating-books.jpg" alt="10 best selling dating books" width="600" height="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;The aim of this post is to list the top 10 dating products available on Amazon today. I find it interesting to see the variety of dating products out there and I’m going to filter out all the crap and create a top 10 list full of only the most useful.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://dating.enlightr.com/reviews/10-best-selling-dating-books.html"&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;Read full post here&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Community Upgrade!</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/856-community-upgrade</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/856-community-upgrade</guid>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;As you’ve probably noticed there’s been a community upgrade! Many a feature has been added and many a new options has been made available for you to play with!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;Facebook integration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/facebook_int.jpg" alt="facebook_int" width="200" height="100" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Facebook integration has been added so from now on you don’t even need to register to experience the fine community here at Enlightr. All you’ve got to do it click ‘connect with facebook’ and you’re facebook information will be added to the community and you’ll be logged in.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Facebook chat like integration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/facebook_chat.jpg" alt="facebook_chat" width="600" height="150" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To make it feel a little more... homely to those people who migrate from facebook I’ve added a similar toolbar to facebook which houses the community features your most likely to use as well as a live chat interface where you can chat to your new friends you pick up from Enlightr.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Videos&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/videos_comm.jpg" alt="videos_comm" width="600" height="170" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The community has also received the ability to host videos from all around the web. From now on, once you find a useful video you believe would benefit the self improvement audience here on enlgihtr you can simply link to or upload and have it available for viewing in minutes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;New Groups&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/group_img.jpg" alt="group_img" width="200" height="100" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To promote more community chitter-chatter I’ve added a few groups which I believe would be highly interesting to chat about. They are –&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/community/groups/viewgroup/3-Dating"&gt;Dating&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;– This group revolves around bringing together all the users who are interested in the dating side of the site and would enjoy sharing knowledge and stories with each other.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/community/groups/viewgroup/4-Psychology"&gt;Psychology&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;– This group focuses on the psychological minded amongst us. Here you can discuss different theories you have or link to other psychology knowledge you find absolutely fascinating. Everyone who joins this group can learn from each other!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don’t think I’ve missed anything but I may have... if so I’ll update them here when necessary.  Have fun using the new features and spread the world that Enlightr is an awesomely fun &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://enlightr.com/community"&gt;self improvement community&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; to be involved with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:63t7Ie-LG7Y"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=63t7Ie-LG7Y" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:l6gmwiTKsz0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=l6gmwiTKsz0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:TzevzKxY174"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=TzevzKxY174" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9QgB0Tvv6Zc:eQfPQB33-t0:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
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			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 22:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>LAUNCH!</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/855-launch</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/274-site-news/855-launch</guid>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://paymyphd.enlightr.com/"&gt;&lt;img src="http://paymyphd.enlightr.com/images/logo.png" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Finally it’s time to let my little idea out of its cage and see its effects on the Internet population. I’ve got good optimism for the future and I can’t wait to see what happens.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’d like to &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://paymyphd.enlightr.com/site-news/about-me-and-my-crazy-plan.html"&gt;learn more&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;please go ahead and then either &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://paymyphd.enlightr.com/donate.html"&gt;donate&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; or &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/PaymyPHD"&gt;follow me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; for future updates so you can see how my little idea fairs in the big world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:63t7Ie-LG7Y"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=63t7Ie-LG7Y" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:l6gmwiTKsz0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=l6gmwiTKsz0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:TzevzKxY174"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=TzevzKxY174" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=Ciw0eJiB5Wc:FZ4EEG-qMq4:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/Ciw0eJiB5Wc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 18:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>9 Types of Men That Fail With Beautiful Women</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/284-how-to-attract-women/51-the-9-most-unsuccessful-personality-types-for-meeting-women</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/284-how-to-attract-women/51-the-9-most-unsuccessful-personality-types-for-meeting-women</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: center; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://dating.enlightr.com/how-to-attract-women/9-types-of-men-that-fail-with-beautiful-women.html" style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e300ff;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/9-types-of-men-who-fail-with-beautiful-women.jpg" width="600" height="200" alt="pua training 9 types of men who fail with beautiful women" style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;The aim of this post is to give a list of the 9 worst dating personalities for meeting women. You can effectively think of this post as PUA training since you’ll find out if you’re personality is successful in the land of female attraction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://dating.enlightr.com/how-to-attract-women/9-types-of-men-that-fail-with-beautiful-women.html"&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; Read full post here &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:63t7Ie-LG7Y"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=63t7Ie-LG7Y" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:l6gmwiTKsz0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=l6gmwiTKsz0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:TzevzKxY174"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=TzevzKxY174" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=9pHAn8TOMoU:zKHfpxOH8ZY:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/9pHAn8TOMoU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Cure Your Comfort Zone</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/281-motivation/627-cure-your-comfort-zone</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/281-motivation/627-cure-your-comfort-zone</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: center; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://productivity.enlightr.com/motivation/warning-this-post-will-make-you-uncomfortable.html" style="text-decoration: underline; color: #e300ff;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/warning-this-post-will-make-you-feel-uncomfortable.jpg" width="600" height="200" alt="warning this post will make you feel uncomfortable" style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: center; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;em style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 8pt;"&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 8pt;"&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bymrt/" style="text-decoration: none; color: #9a01a6;"&gt;somewheretropical&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;The aim of this post is to delve in and take apart your comfortable inhibitions so you can move forward with a more successful, confident and rich life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://productivity.enlightr.com/motivation/warning-this-post-will-make-you-uncomfortable.html"&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; Read full post here &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:63t7Ie-LG7Y"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=63t7Ie-LG7Y" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:l6gmwiTKsz0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=l6gmwiTKsz0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:TzevzKxY174"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=TzevzKxY174" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=tM15YO1uC-s:2RefSBFU5IY:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/tM15YO1uC-s" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Beat the Casino with Card Counting</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/93-memory/669-remember-a-pack-of-cards-card-counting</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/93-memory/669-remember-a-pack-of-cards-card-counting</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://psychology.enlightr.com/memory/beat-the-casino-with-card-counting.html" style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/beat-the-casinos-with-card-counting.jpg" width="600" height="200" alt="beat-the-casinos-with-card-counting" style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;This post will teach you how to remember a pack of cards by guiding you through a few winding roads of visualisation, peg words and maybe even a little loci. Once you've remembered the cards you could, if you wish, card count and have a higher success rate at casino games such as blackjack.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://psychology.enlightr.com/memory/beat-the-casino-with-card-counting.html"&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; Read full post here &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:63t7Ie-LG7Y"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=63t7Ie-LG7Y" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:l6gmwiTKsz0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=l6gmwiTKsz0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?i=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:TzevzKxY174"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=TzevzKxY174" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?a=04liHbay2nc:24wracNiujY:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/enlightr?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/04liHbay2nc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Does she like me? 13 Female Gestures to Prove It</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/282-dating-101/93-the-13-most-common-female-courtship-gestures-and-signals</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/282-dating-101/93-the-13-most-common-female-courtship-gestures-and-signals</guid>
			<description>&lt;span style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://dating.enlightr.com/dating-101/does-she-like-me-13-female-gestures-to-prove-it.html"&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" alt="does-she-like-me-13-gestures-to-prove-it-2" height="200" width="600" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/does-she-like-me-13-gestures-to-prove-it-2.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;This post aims to answer does she like me with the help of 13 of the most common female courtship gestures. These gestures are presented through body language which can determine whether or not a woman is interested in you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://dating.enlightr.com/dating-101/does-she-like-me-13-female-gestures-to-prove-it.html"&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; Read full post here &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;h3&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
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			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>How Over Planning Keeps You Fat</title>
			<link>http://enlightr.com/blog/291-organisation/640-over-planning-and-its-dangers</link>
			<guid>http://enlightr.com/blog/291-organisation/640-over-planning-and-its-dangers</guid>
			<description>&lt;p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://productivity.enlightr.com/organisation/how-over-planning-keeps-you-fat.html"&gt;&lt;img style="border: 3px double #cccccc;" src="http://enlightr.com/images/stories/how-over-planning-keeps-you-fat.jpg" width="600" height="200" alt="productivity - how over planning keeps you fat" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt; The aim of this post is to alert you to the dangers of over planning and guide you away from excessive future plans and their creation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://productivity.enlightr.com/organisation/how-over-planning-keeps-you-fat.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; Read full post here &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/DJVQIWLnIUY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
			<author>Webmaster@Enlightr.com (Craig)</author>
			<category>frontpage</category>
			<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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	<item><title>Which Way are you Motivated? [del.icio.us]</title><link>http://productivity.enlightr.com/motivation/which-way-are-you-motivated.html</link><category>motivation productivity negative positive morivation</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Desparanso</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 09:47:54 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://productivity.enlightr.com/motivation/which-way-are-you-motivated.html</guid><description>The aim of this post is to talk a little about motivation and how theres actually two ways to be motivated.&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/enlightr/~4/eliJ_JzAMIY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><taxo:topics xmlns:taxo="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/taxonomy/">
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