The family members who are doing the talk about the need for senior assistance should be prepared.  Your senior family member has probably spoken to their friends and has learned all the excuses used for saying  NO.  Many senior citizens simply feel embarrassed about needing help.  As the family member, or caregiver,  your first step is to be prepared to debunk this stereotype.

In Home Care

Make sure that you are properly prepared about the benefits of in-home care that go beyond the assistance of daily tasks, such as social stimulation and companionship. Let your loved ones read some of the materials.

You cannot get the entire conversation, and decision making about in home care in one sitting.  Give your senior time to ask questions, read the contract and do not assume that any hesitation on their part means a NO. Give them time to digest that assisted living or in home care is a lifestyle change, and talk with them over several days.

Do not make your senior family member feel like he or she is losing a battle. Let them know that you feel that this lifestyle is positive. Stay away from adversarial context.

Having multiple talks about in home care can instill a sense of comfort and trust that the senior may be seeking before they jump to sign a contract. Let your family member know that they will participate in the decision and when the senior is comfortable going forward with help will be a good decision.

1. Eat three healthy meals during the day, including a good breakfast. Skipping meals causes increased hunger and may lead to excessive snacking.
2. Focus on fruits and vegetables.  Top off your morning cereal with sliced strawberries or bananas. Stir berries or peaches in yogurt or cottage cheese. Liven up your sandwiches with vegetables, such as tomato, lettuce, onion, peppers and cucumber. Eat 5-9 servings of fruits and vegetables daily.
3. Weigh yourself regularly. Monitoring your weight can tell you whether your efforts are working and can help you detect small weight gains before they become even large.
4. Don’t keep comfort foods in the house. If you tend to eat high-fat, high-calorie foods when you’re upset or depressed or bored, don’t keep them around. Availability of food is one the strongest factors in determining how much a person eat.
5. Plan a family activity. Get the family together to go for a bike ride, play disc golf or kick the ball around in the yard.
6. Eat healthy foods first. Eat foods that are healthy and low in calories first so that when it comes time to enjoy your favorites- sweets or junk food, for example- you won’t be hungry.
7. Pay attention to portions. Serve meals already dished onto plates instead of placing serving bowls on the table. Take slightly less than what you think you’ll eat. You can always have seconds, if really necessary.
8. Create opportunities to be active. Wash your car at home instead of going to the car wash. Bike or walk to the store. Participate in your kid’s activities at the playground or park.
9. Sit down together for family meals. Avoid eating in front of the television. TV viewing strongly affects how much and what people eat.
10. See what you eat. Eating directly from a container gives you no sense of how much you’re eating. Seeing food on a plate or in a bowl keeps you aware of how much you’re eating.
11. Vary your activities. Regularly change your activity routine to avoid exercise burnout. Walk a couple of days, swim another and go for a bike ride on weekend. Seek out new activities- karate, ballroom dancing, cross-country skiing, tennis or Pilates.
12. De-stress your day. Stress can cause you to eat more. Develop strategies that can help you relax when you find yourself becoming stressed. Exercise, deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques and even a good laugh can ease stress.
13. Don’t  have seconds.
14. Use low fat or fat free dairy foods.
15. Drink water instead of sugary drinks.
16. Eat slowly.
17. Use the stairs instead of elevator.
18. Park your car farther out in the parking lot.
19. Get out a bus stop early and walk the last two blocks.
20. Walk the mall.
21. Doggy bag after a big restaurant meal for another day.
22. Treat yourself! Have a small serving of your favorite food once in a while

You may have noticed that nutrition for the elderly is not much different from nutrition for people of any age.  The idea is to be sensible and incorporate exercise with proper dietary habits to lead a healthier lifestyle.  Not overdoing it at the dinner table and enjoying aerobic activity are the key.

Awareness of age -related changes and compensation for them can keep you driving safely.

Accidents increase with age.  From 60 to 70 the accidents increase the more that elderly drivers are on the road.  This statistic gets higher after the age of 75 according to the American Geriatric Society.  The functions essential to safe driving deteriorate with age, such as visual acuity, hearing, and reaction time.  This does not mean that all senior citizen drivers should hand in the keys.

Keep in mind that medical conditions and the numbers of medications taken can both increase the risks for accidents for the senior driver.  But, you can remain safe on the road by understanding how age-related changes effect your driving abilities.  And of course,  do not use alcohol prior to driving.

The following strategies can help the senior cope with the challenges of driving as he/or she ages.

1.  Be aware of your own limitations. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.

2. Get yearly visual and hearing screenings. Wearing the corrective devices will increase the seniors safety and others on the roadways.

3.  Pay Attention to other risks such as snow storms and other poor weather conditions.  These include fog, ice,  eating, drinking  or use of a cell phone. Seniors need to focus their full attention on the road.

4. Always Drive the posted speed limit.  Driving to fast or slow is dangerous.

5. Do take a refresher driver safety class.  Know the rules of the road.

Following these simple steps can go a long way in making elderly driving much safer for everyone on the road, and keeping senior citizens behind the wheel while maintaining independent living.

Further examining the predicament the 50% of patients being readmitted within 30 days reveals something interesting.  Most had not been seen by their outpatient physician. This raises the question of how patients are following discharge plans and whether or not their families are realizing the importance of reading them and following up on their loved one.

Being responsible for these critical issues is an ominous undertaking for anyone.  Not to mention grocery shopping, medication management, bathing, dressing, and safety in the home.  Figuring out what your parent needs is not easy.  Finding the services they need can be even more challenging. But, stopping the in and out rehospitaliztions is a primary need which will help your parent redevelop his or her resiliency.

HELP IS THE ANSWER. Prevention of these round robin readmissions will make life easier for your loved ones and all of the family members.

Ivory House Health Services is a Geriatric Care Management company which specializes in keeping persons out of the hospital and emergency rooms.  This is accomplished by establishing an accurate Geriatric Care Plan.  This plan of care includes collection of all pertinent information, coordination of all medical services, integration of home care, assessment of needs regarding activities of daily living and instrumental life skills.  The Ivory House staff is highly educated  with a total of 200 years of professional experience. For a phone consultation please call 410-823-3153 or e-mail Hazel Kuchinsky APRN-BC. You can also use this website to ask your questions.

Makes 6 servings, about 1 1/3 cups each ACTIVE TIME: 40 minutes TOTAL TIME: 40 minutes EASE OF PREPARATION: Easy

8 ounces whole-wheat egg noodles 1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil 1 medium onion, finely chopped 8 ounces mushrooms, sliced 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/2 cup dry white wine 6 tablespoons all-purpose flour 3 cups nonfat milk 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground pepper 12 ounces canned chunk light tuna (see Tip), drained 1 cup frozen peas, thawed 1 cup finely grated Parmesan cheese, divided 1/2 cup coarse dry whole-wheat breadcrumbs (see Tip)

1. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Cook noodles until just tender, 6 to 8 minutes or according to package directions. Drain and rinse.

2. Position rack in upper third of oven and preheat broiler.

3. Meanwhile, heat oil in a large ovenproof skillet over medium-high heat. Add onion, mushrooms and salt and cook, stirring often, until the onion is softened but not browned, about 5 minutes. Add wine and cook until evaporated, 4 to 5 minutes. Sprinkle flour over the vegetables; stir to coat. Add milk and pepper and bring to a simmer, stirring constantly. Stir in tuna, peas and 1/2 cup Parmesan until evenly incorporated. Then, stir in the noodles (the pan will be very full). Remove from the heat.

4. Sprinkle the casserole with breadcrumbs and the remaining 1/2 cup Parmesan. Broil until bubbly and lightly browned on top, 3 to 4 minutes

TIP: Tips: Chunk light tuna, which comes from the smaller skipjack or yellowfin, has less mercury than canned white albacore tuna. FDA/EPA advice recommends no more than 6 ounces of albacore a week; up to 12 ounces canned light is considered safe.

To make fresh breadcrumbs, trim crusts from whole-wheat bread. Tear bread into pieces and process in a food processor until coarse crumbs form. One slice of bread makes about 1/2 cup fresh crumbs. For dry breadcrumbs, spread the fresh crumbs on a baking sheet and bake at 250°F until crispy, about 15 minutes. One slice of fresh bread makes about 1/3 cup dry crumbs. Or use prepared coarse dry breadcrumbs. We like Ian’s brand labeled “Panko breadcrumbs.” Find them in the natural-foods section of large supermarkets.

MAKE AHEAD TIP: Prepare through Step 3, spoon into an 8-inch-square glass baking dish, cover with foil and refrigerate for up to 1 day. Sprinkle with breadcrumbs and cheese (Step 4) and bake, covered, at 350ºF for 50 minutes. Uncover and cook until browned and bubbly, about 15 minutes more.

Nutrition For Seniors

NUTRITION INFORMATION: Per serving: 406 calories; 8 g fat (3 g sat, 3 g mono); 53 mg cholesterol; 47 g carbohydrate; 32 g protein; 5 g fiber; 684 mg sodium; 593 mg potassium.
Nutrition bonus: Calcium (30% daily value), Potassium (17% dv), Iron, Vitamin A & Vitamin C (15% dv), good source of omega-3s.
3 Carbohydrate Servings
Exchanges: 2 1/2 starch, 1/2 nonfat milk, 3 lean meat

Makes 2 serving

Assemble this dish ahead, refrigerate, and bake the next morning while the coffee brews. The more texture the bread has, the better the French toast will be. Thick slices of home-made bread, hand-sliced bakery bread, and whole wheat or multi-grain bread are all good choices. Serve with butter, syrup, blueberry sauce, or flavored yogurt to boost the calorie count.

Preparing Fluffy French Toast

In a medium bowl, combine the eggs, milk, sugar, and cinnamon and mix well.

Lightly butter a medium baking dish. Arrange the bread quarters in the dish in single layer, overlapping the edges if necessary. Pour the egg mixture over the bread and press down on the bread with a fork so it is completely submerged. Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour overnight.

Preheat the over to 375. Back, uncovered, for 20 minutes, or until the bread has absorbed all the liquid and lightly browned on top and puffy. Serve warm, with syrup, butter, fresh fruit, or flavored yogurt. Cover leftovers and refrigerate up to 2 days.

Nutrition For Seniors

Nutrients per serving: 175 calories, 9 g protein, 7 g fat, 19 g carbohydrate,14 mg iron, 107 RE vitamin A, 1 mg vitamin E, 90 mg calcium.

There is more to choosing a walking cane than you might think and its very important that you choose one that can be adjusted you and it is comfortable to grip.

The top of the cane should line up with your wrist, when your arm is hanging at your side  so that your elbows bends at an angle of about 30 degrees when you grip the cane. Most canes can be adjusted in one-inch increments in order to achieve this. The grip  should feel comfortable in your hands, a rubberized or foam grip is ideal and some are ergonomically molded to fit your palms.

As far as materials and style are concerned a wooden cane will be light weight and durable but unlike aluminum, it may not fold. Graphite and fiberglass canes are particularly strong if you need a higher weight limit (a typical cane can support up to 250 pounds) but they cost more check that the cane you have has a rubber tip at the bottom to prevent slipping.

How To Use A Cane

When you walk with your cane you can hold it in the hand opposite the side that needs support, so that the walking cane and your weaker leg make contact with the ground simultaneously. When climbing stairs, lead with your good leg but when descending them, put your cane on the step first and then step down with your weaker leg.

Credit to, Rosanne M. Leipzig, MD,PHD Geriatric Medicine

Caring for persons with dementia can be a demanding task. It requires time and energy.  Even care sprinkled with lots of love can be extremely wearing and difficult.  It is essential that as a caregiver you take care of yourself.

Recognizing the signs of stress in yourself or someone you care about is the first step in taking action. Finding ways to reduce the stress helps to lessen the long-term emotional and physical toll of care giving. Research has shown that caregivers suffer many health issues when they don’t take care of themselves or allow persons to help them.

There are things you can build into your daily life to help maintain your health and well being.

1. Learn about the disease process and giving care.
2. Be realistic about the disease.
3. Be honest to yourself and what your expectations for your care giving will be.
4. Accept the difficult feelings you may be experiencing.
5. Share your feelings with others and do not feel upset about how you do feel.
6. Look for the good things in your life
7. Remember your preventative wellness routine
8. Look around every corner for humor.
9. Get help, support and practical help.
10. Make plans for the future.

Remember the Geriatric Care Managers can be very helpful.

11.  Be sure to give yourself relief time daily and a day off per week.
12.  Hire help when necessary.

Life Can Be Easier, We Promise

Caregivers now have a new resource, the ask Medicare website launched by the centers for Medicare & Medicaid services is designed to provide help with Medicare.

• The site (www.medicare.gov/caregivers) includes information on navigating through Medicare, health care services, link to partner organizations that assist caregivers and personal caregivers’ anecdotes.
• Kerry Weems, CMS acting administrator, says the new site provides valuable one stop resources for caregivers which will help them to better assist Medicare beneficiaries.
• The care that more than 44million Americans provide for  their family members friends or neighbors is valued  at 350 billions annually, according to a recent AARP report. -Rebecca Kern

We know navigating the Medicare System can be challenging for anyone so resources which help with Medicare are extremely useful. “Ask Medicare” provides caregivers with valuable information for Medicare benefits for clients and loved ones.  The site itself is set up in an easy to use fashion with Medicare Basics, Caregiver Support and Care Option sections which are clear and concise.  Ivory House is pleased to share such a wonderful Elder Care resource.

Triglycerides are a type of fat some come from food and some are made from carbohydrates and other substances. Your body needs some Triglycerides, but high levels can be harmful to your heart.

High levels can be the result of:

• Being overweight
• Not enough exercise
• Drinking alcohol
• Smoking cigarettes
• Certain conditions like diabetes and kidney disease

Triglycerides are measured with a blood test:

• Normal: lower than 150 mg/dl
• Borderline-high: 150-to 199 mg/dl
• High: 200-to 499 mg/dl
• Very high: 500 mg/dl or higher

11 measures for older adults to lower heart risk

1. Daily aspirin (81 mg one baby aspirin) for women over 65 or men of any age.
2. Lower LDL to less than 160 mg/dl in low-risk individuals.
3. Lower LDL to less than 130 mg/dl in high risk individuals.
4. Lower LDL to less than 100 mg/dl in patients with coronary artery disease.
5. Lower LDL to less than 100 mg/dl in diabetic patients.
6. Lower blood pressure to below 140/90 mmhg in non diabetic individuals.
7. Lower blood pressure to 130/ 90 mmhg in diabetic patients.
8. Lower hemoglobin A1C to less than seven percent in diabetic patients.
9. Reduce fasting plasma glucose to less than 110 mg/dl in all older adults.
10. Quit smoking.
11. Reduce weight to a body mass index of less than 30. (Calculate your BMI by dividing your weight in pounds by your height in inches squared and multiplying the result by 703. A BMI between 25 and 29.9 is considered overweight, a BMI of 30 or greater is considered obese.

Signs & symptoms of heart failure:

By themselves, according to the American heart association, the signs of heart failure may not be cause for alarm. But if you have more than one of these symptoms, report them to a healthcare professional and ask for an evaluation of your heart:

• Shortness of breath
• Persistent coughing or wheezing
• Buildup of excess fluid in the body tissues (edema)
• Tiredness, fatigue
• Lack of appetite, nausea
• Confusion, impaired thinking
• increased heart rate

The information in this article is not intended to be substitute for medical care or advice provided by a doctor. Always consult your physician for appropriate examinations treatment and care recommendation .if you have any questions about this information you should call your physician. Specific treatments and therapies may not be covered by your health plan. For questions about your benefits, please consult your health plan. Any references in this material to other  organizations or companies including their internet sites, is not an endorsement or warranty of the services, information or products provided by those organizations or companies  All models are used for illustrative purposes only.