Before you can look for the perfect way to celebrate, first take the time to understand what women appreciate in a gift; the effort. A woman likes to feel cherished. She likes to know that you spent time thinking about how to make her happy. And that’s how she will judge everything you do. Fortunately, even at the last minute, you can still pull off great ideas that will make her feel as if you had been planning it for years, just to wow her.

1. Full day at the spa. Don’t just give her a gift certificate, it will not do it. but instead, find out when she is free in the coming days, or go discreetly out of your way to free her day, then make reservation on that day for her. Get a blank card and write down why you think she deserve a day at the spa, praise her, finish by mentioning in some way that you made sure she was free so that she could really be pampered. Give her the card with breakfast in bed. To really impress her, send her with her best friend.

2. Send a scrapbook by mail. Not just any scrapbook. By a huge notebook and start a project. Fill in the first pages with some shared memories. Then a new date, the day you are celebrating for example, but don’t finish it. On the first page, dedicate the book to your life together and let her know you hope you will fill it together with many memories. Wrap the book and send it by mail to her, especially if you both live together.

3. Chick flick party for her an the girls. Is there a movie or TV series she always wanted to watch but hasn’t come around to it yet? Get her girlfriends on board and organize a night for her and the girls. take care of everything, it doesn’t have to be too much, just make sure she and her friends will enjoy what you provide. You don’t have to stay after the party start, but you will be the talk of the night.

4.Give her the key to you heart. Send her at the office a series of four small gifts with specific messages. For example, first send her a chocolate heart because her heart is so beautiful to you. Second send her a question mark because you hope you have her heart. Third send her a key because it belongs to her. Finally, send her a box that she can open with the key, inside you heart, because you love her.

5. Do something for her mom. Has she being talking about something she has to do for her mom but hasn’t been able to get to it? Go ahead and do. Go out of your way and make sure her mom is taken care for, but don’t tell her. She will find out soon enough and because you were humble about it, you will score higher.

Let’s be honest, no girl wish the day didn’t exist; she probably just wish it would be skipped from the calendar the year she is single. In any case, valentine’s day is not going anywhere, so a girl has to learn to not only survive it but actually enjoy it even more than her coupled fiends.

Valentine’s Day Equals Heartbreaks

Yes it is possible to have more fun being single on Valentine’s Day than your girlfriends. Think about it; how many times have you heard the same sad stories post Valentines? The promising boyfriend who didn’t show up because the relationship was actually just casual for him. The gift that was thoughtless and so obviously picked at the last minute from the drugstore around the corner. The ring that didn’t come, and instead the stuffed dog she got.

You may not realize it, but as a single girl you have a lot of allies: single guys. There are many guys out there who are in a worst position than you are, whether because they are not attached or because they don’t want to commit. What ever their reasons, you can take advantage of the fact that there are many single men in your circle that could use some fun on that day as well. Your couple friends will be all too glad to recommend you their single guys friends when you ask as they are always so eager to play the matchmaker.

Bachelors Party

So what can you do? Set yourself up to be their princess on that day. Get your single guy friends out of their misery by having a single guys party to celebrate the single life and a stress-free Valentine’s Day. Be clear that it is not a party to set them up, since the only female present will be you. It is an opportunity for you and them to laugh at all that will go bad that night as well if you want to or do anything else you all feel like.

Choose as theme for the party something the guys will enjoy and that you will too. You can rent a video of a famous game you enjoy, or organize an indoor game that is fun and entertaining for the guys and you. Have them bring something so you don’t have to spend too much. Let them know it’s fully casual, but make sure you don’t dress like one of the boys. You want to remain feminine so they will treat you like a princess, yet not so feminine that they will not feel relax around you.

Spice Up The Night

Let the guys know no subject is taboo so they don’t feel restrained but be prepared to hear some stuff you might not like. In any case, make it some sort of research project to understand how guys think. If you give them a great night on Valentine’s Day without all the mediatized pressure, they will not only be very grateful and make sure you are happy as well, but you might actually end up with more dates than you can handle.

To give the night the perfect ending, make your pick of anyone of those sexy bachelors in awe of you and have the sex of your life. Just don’t get too attached. The next day, when all your girlfriends will be telling you about their valentine’s day gone bad, you will have an unmistakable smile that will let everyone know you had the perfect night, yet you are single.

Look Matters and Always Will

First let’s get this out of the way; look matters. The first thing you see about anyone is the person’s look and everyone, including women, make split seconds decision based on what they see in the first few seconds of meeting someone for the first time. Those decisions are entirely based on physical appearance.

What look matters doesn’t mean though is that you have to be George Clooney to impress a girl. Your appearance, and this includes your demeanour as well, reveals far more about you than you are aware. Women look at you and make interpretation based on their experiences, background, culture, education, and more. What this mean for you is that, you have to be aware of what you are communicating with your appearance and make sure it is exactly what you want to project.

Women Are Looking For The Man Who Will Provide And Protect

Women are genetically programmed to look for the strong male, the one who will provide and protect. But the definition of provide and protect varies for each woman. Don’t assume that a strong man needs to have tons of muscles; many women find that threatening and will never feel safe around The Miz (Mike Mizanin). And the best looking guy who can’t provide will only be good as a sex toys.

What you need is do what you have to do to build the confidence that you can provide for your woman of choice. This can go either of two ways; You just decide what you can provide and how much you can protect and find the women that are satisfied with that, or you choose the women you want and work hard to be the kind of man they will feel safe and secure with. Either, girls find a man who believe in himself irresistible.

Inside Most Women Sleeps a Little Rebel

Blame it on years of repression or anything you want, but women want to rebel a little bit. They crave an existence that is not so boring, that’s a little more challenging, and sometimes surprise them a bit. And you have the ability to provide that, if you would just get over the fact that you don’t want to scare her away.

Women don’t really like bad boys; they know they will hurt them; they know bad boys are not for keep. They would like to find a nice guy who can knock them off their feet from time to time and yet is still decent enough to bring home to dad. Work on your sense of humour, stop worrying so much about what she will think, and start leading her a little more. Be less concerned about getting her approval and start teasing her a bit more. That’s really all it takes to be found attractive and interesting by women.

Valentine’s Day is About Celebrating Love

Yes Valentine’s Day is a couple celebration of their love, but more importantly it is the celebration of love and there is someone who loves you, or at least should love you, more than any one else; you. You are in love with yourself, in a healthy way of course, but you are. And valentine’s Day should be the day you remember to celebrate that love.

Remind Yourself Why You Love You

This is more important than it seems at first; if you don’t know why you love or should love yourself, how can you expect someone else to fall in love with you? Take the time to reflect, write it down, all the things you love about who you are. Go down the memory lane with you, revisit all those things that made you smile, all those moments that made you cried. Yes, embrace the past lovers, bad or good, and be grateful for each of them because they made you who you are and you love the person you have become.

Show Your Love For Your Beautiful Being

Send yourself flowers at the office with a romantic note attached, from you to you. By that gift for yourself, book that day at the spa, go on that romantic trip. If you can’t enjoy your own company, again, don’t expect anyone to. You see, you deserve to be pampered by you, not out of pity or defiance, but out of true love and gratitude for always being there for you when you need you. Do you know how many times you have picked yourself up on your own and kept moving when nobody else was able to do that? Show your wonderful being that you are grateful for your love.

Celebrate The Love Of Your Friends

If you have many friends who are in a relationship, help them with their own love lives. Not everybody in a relationship is happy on valentines day and you might just be the one who gives them the push they need. Send love notes to your coupled friends about what you love in their relationship and why because of them you still believe in love. They will be grateful for you and your card might just be the star of the day because it will help them remember why they fell in love. And they might be so grateful that will start looking for a wonderful guy for you.

Host a Single Party

why stay home alone on Valentine’s Day when they are so many singles who are also staying home? have a party either to celebrate or mock love, your choice. Whatever you decide make sure everyone understand it is for fun not to date. Your goal is to relieve the pressure from your single friends and make everyone laugh. don’t have enough friends? No worries, all your coupled friends know at least one single they wish they could help on that day. they will be happy to send that friend the invite and if you focus on fun, that person will happy to come. And who knows what might happen.

1. Ran Out Of Excuses To Say No

Yes, unfortunately, the most common reasons a woman go on a blind date is because they can’t say no anymore. Her friends have probably been trying to set her up with you for a while. This is not a bad thing; if her friends have insisted it’s because they think highly of you and that goes a long way with a girl. Just be aware that she is dreading the encounter as least as much as you are and her number one fear is to be rejected by a stranger that she may have to face again in the future because you have common friends.

2. Can’t Face Another Saturday Night Alone

Saturday nights can be difficult on singles, especially if you are the only one in your circle that’s not seeing anyone. Sometimes, many women will rather chance a stranger on a Saturday night than sit alone again in front of the TV watching people fall in love. And being out with a stranger is a lot easier than being out alone. Although no none will come out right and tell you that she’s going out with you because she is bored and lonely, you can sense it.  Just don’t assume it means she’s desperate; she might just want some company for this particular night and so do you. After all, you are on a blind date as well.

3. Like Your Picture

Yes and definitely yes, if she sees your picture after all the great things her friends told her about you, if she likes what she sees, then she will agree to the date because it suddenly promising. Unfortunately this also means that her expectations are a tad higher than it would normally be. However, if she has being dating online for a while, by now she is aware that you can predict attraction based on a promising profile. Find out if she’s seen your pic and if she has, ask to see hers to level things.

4. Desperate For a Date For a Special Occasion

There are some occasions, especially family ones, where a girl will do literally anything to not show up alone. I am sure some guys have those as well. When one of these celebrations come around, she will be going on blind date because she has to find someone. And all her girlfriends will be in on the scoop. She is not looking for someone to be in a relationship with; she is looking for the guy who will silence all the gossips she knows she is the object. She is looking for the guy she can show off with the right look, manner, and status.

5. Want To Broaden The Horizon

Let’s face it; we only know so many people and sometimes we don’t have time for online dating. That’s where the friends and acquaintances come in; they can help a girl meet new people without her investing her time and energy sorting through profiles online. And because she will have the matchmaker in common with the date, there is less pressure to come up with an interesting topic for a conversation. It’s also a lot easier to make new friends that way if there is no attraction.

6. She Is Doing a Friend a Favour

It doesn’t mean she is pitying you but yes a girl will go on a blind date as a favour to a friend. Maybe your friends are tired of seeing you sit alone every night refusing to do anything since the last girl broke your heart and they have finally convince you to give it a try. to boost your energy and just get you out of the breakup zone, they will ask a girlfriend to entertain you for a night and maybe more. But don’t worry great things can still come out of it.

7. Is Serious About Being In a Relationship

Finally a girl will on blind dates because she is serious abut getting in a relationship. And the more people she meets, the more likely she will get what she wants. She might actually be the one initiating them, calling all her friends and acquaintances and asking them to set her up with every single guy they know. This is a good thing for you if you are looking because she is a girl who takes initiative. But she also won’t waste any time on you if you don’t fit the profile.

Who Is Mr. Perfect

Wen all have these better notions of ourselves, I guess the person we think we would want to be. We live in some kind of lies almost all our lives, wanting to believe so hard that we are what we really aren’t. Just ask our friends. And sadly, and very unfortunately, we create someone for this ideal version of ourselves, someone who fits just perfectly with the picture, Mr. Perfect.

The only problem with that is that Mr. Perfect might be well, perfect, it’s usually not for the real us. He is the ideal mate for this fictional being we have created in our mind and whom we imagine is us, despite how many times our friends tells we are so not what we think we are. But well, what can a girl do? After all, she needs a decent dream, one she can be proud of.

Signs You Are Dating Mr. Perfect

Suddenly you find yourself trying a little harder, keeping those little habits that make you who you are in check when he’s around and telling your friends that he actually make you a better person. You are obsessed with what he thinks of you and you have never invited him to your place, even though you have been dating for five months.

You start second guessing yourself, the little pranks you and your friends used to pull and laugh so hard at now embarrasses you. You never invite him when you go out with your pals; God forbid they should do something that would shame you in his eyes. You are constantly worried that you will mess things up, and you certainly can’t afford that; why, he is so perfect.

Mr. Perfect Doesn’t Equate To Mr. Right

Some of use never wake up on hour own, usually Mr. Perfect, who has known all along that you were no Mrs. Right, tires of you, or meet Mrs. Right, or get attracted by the next shining thing. The result is the same; you are left hanging, wondering what went wrong. You had been so caught up building your dream life you missed the fact that your foundation was made of sand.

Mr. Right may not have the perfect hair cut, nor look like a god in jean, nor have a smile that makes you forget your name, nor drive your favourite sports car, nor have that apartment with the million dollar view. No Mr. Right may have none of those things that make Mr. Perfect perfect, but he has one thing that no one else has; with him you are simply who you are and happy. And if you would just gather the courage to introduce him to your friends, you will see just how perfectly he fits.

Men and Women Are Different

Men and women react differently during an argument.  This is simple human nature.  Men tend to react more strongly during an argument than women do.  By understanding how he reacts, you can start to change the way you argue to make it more productive.

A Woman’s Reaction

When arguing women tend to want to keep the conversation going.  We like to talk things out and get our thoughts out there.  Our focus is not really on solving the problem, but rather just telling how we feel.  We generally take the active role during a fight.

A Man’s Reaction

Men, on the other hand, are more reserved. They are passive.  They want to resolve the issue, but they are not as big on sharing how they feel.  They want to solve the problem and get to the solution as soon as possible.

Using this to Help During a Fight

Now that you know the differences in how men and women react during an argument you can see that if you want a fast resolution without adding fuel to the flames that you should focus on a solution.  That does not mean that you cannot share your feelings.  Rather you should focus on the problem first and then after you have calmed down and solved the problem, you can talk about your feelings.  Using this strategy should help you to keep arguments productive instead of destructive.

Charm His Taste buds

What guy doesn’t love food?  Whip him up something he will love.  When you make food, you know it is something he doesn’t have and when you make it yourself, you are going that extra mile to show him how much he means to you.

Get Crafty

I’m not talking a dorky project like you would have made your mom in elementary school.  Put together a digital picture frame with pictures of you or you and him together.  Make him a t shirt or pillowcase with your picture on it.  Make him something he can use and enjoy.

Do It Old School

Make him a “mix tape”.  Put together a play list for his mp3 player or burn a CD for him to listen to in the car.  Make it some of his favorites mixed in with some songs you know will remind him of you.

Coupons

I am sure there are a lot of things he begs you to do that you usually say no to.  Treat him to a coupon book full of coupons to use for some of his favorite things, such as a back rub or a Sunday of football with a promise not to bug him

These ideas are just a start.  You really have to get creative and start looking beyond the obvious.  Don’t go shopping the store.  Instead look inside your heart to find the perfect gift for your guy.

Watch her behavior.

If a girl likes you as more than a friend, then she will start to behave differently.  She will try to make eye contact more often and she will be looking at you more than usual.  She will also start to touch you more and react differently to touches from you.  She will want any physical contact to linger.  She may even start to act distant.  She may pull away.  This can happen if she thinks you do not like her beyond just a friend.

Watch for obvious body language signs.

Her body language will change.  She will start flirting with you.  She may seem nervous around you.  She will lean towards you when you are sitting near each other.   She may shows signs of being uncomfortable.  Basically, her body language is not going to be as relaxed as it used to be if she likes you as more than a friend.

See how she reacts to competition.

When you talk to her about other girls or you are around other girls does she act jealous?  If you mention another girl does she tend to shut down and not be so talkative?  These are good signs that she is jealous.  As a friend she would not be jealous, but if she likes you as more than a friend then that is why she is jealous.  Be careful here, though.  If you like her then do not make her think that you like someone else.

Ask her.

Sometimes all you can do is ask.  If she is having these feelings then she probably wants to let you know.  Ask her in a manner that is not confrontational.  You do not want her to be afraid to tell you the truth.  You also do not want her to be afraid that she will lose you as a friend.  If you like her then tell her that because it will make it much easier for her to tell the truth.

Tips:

• If you are going to ask her if she likes you then you need to make sure you really want to know the answer.  She could say yes or no.  You may want her to say yes and she says no or visa versa.  No matter what things in your relationship will probably change.

• Remember that she knows you pretty well since you have already been friends.  She will know if you are not being honest or if you are not comfortable with her feelings.

• Getting into a relationship with a friend is often seen as something that is to be avoided.  However, in reality, building up a good friendship first makes a great foundation for an amazing relationship.