Life at forty has never been so good there are now officially more forty year olds in the UK than at any other time, and with todays fast pace life and increasing hardships caused by the credit crunch unfortunatley there are more divorced forty somthings than ever before.  Many people who find themselves in this situation will feel that their life is over but it mose definitley is not! Online dating can help but more importantly you need to pick yourself up dust yourself off and move  on.

Divorce at any time can be very hard to cope with and it’s terribly important to find people who can give you a sympathetic ear.  Forties Fun has a great chatroom and we are certain you will find like minded individuals with whom you can share thoughts and ideas.

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Maybe you have only recently become a single parent and the whole experience is one you possibly never thought would happen; or maybe you’ve always been a single parent and have had enough of only ever thinking of your kids?

However, the next question is how do you go about finding someone to share your life with when you are always worried about how you are going to introduce the idea that you have children; and, more importantly, how do you go about finding that person in the first place?

Well thanks to the invention of the internet; that problem has many more solutions that it would have even a couple of years ago; and the solution is online dating!

And not only are there websites to meet new people, but now there are websites specifically for single parents; which is a great way of meeting someone new who understands the issues you might be facing while trying to bring up children on your own.

So why don’t you stop wondering how to go about meeting someone new; and start solving the problem today; it only takes a few moments to sign up and once you have a whole new world of opportunities will open up in front of you; you wont regret it that’s for sure! There is such a wide range of websites catering for forty somethings so gte hunting a good luck!

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Well stop!!!

It doesn’t matter what the world thinks; or even what your family and friends think; what matters is what you think; and if you are not happy living the single life; which many people aren’t ; then that’s ok too!

So if you have reached the conclusion that there is still room in your life for a new partner; or even just some new friends; the next question is how are you going to solve this problem; especially when family and work commitments can get in the way?

The solution is simple; and it’s sitting in the corner of your living room most likely; in the form of your computer.

The world of online dating and dating websites is probably not one that was around the last time you were single; and you are about to discover that it certainly makes the whole process far more fun, easy and enjoyable.

Meeting new people has never been so easy; whether it’s to meet new friends on a fun and flirty basis; or whether you are looking for something a bit more serious; it is no longer the scary prospect it might once have been.

Maybe you are worrying about involving your children in your search for a new other half; as many people at this age have got children; making the whole prospect that much more frightening; but with online dating there is nothing to worry about.

You can do it from the privacy of your own home and you never have to involve your children until you are really certain you have met the right person; and you don’t have to worry about meeting anyone until you really feel ready.

So start making your online application today and discover a whole new world that is out there just for you; as you never know; this time next year you could be thanking your lucky stars that you made that move!

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But maybe this is exactly the way it was supposed to be; as don’t forget, forty is the new thirty; and this has never been truer than nowadays in the age of the internet and the dating website.

You might feel out of practice; or you might feel that you’re too old for all that meeting new people stuff; or you might just feel that you don’t have time in your busy and hectic life to start looking for that perfect someone…

However, the world of online dating allows you to combat all your fears at your own pace; with no pressure to start anything or meet anyone until you are good and ready; and at a very minimal cost to your wallet and your confidence.

The perfect someone might just be out there waiting for you and all you have to do is take a small amount out of your time to pick a website; write yourself a profile; and then let the fun begin.

So stop moping around the house wondering where it all went wrong; the fact is, nothing went wrong, it just didn’t work out; and now its time to move and see what and, most importantly, who, is out there for you now.

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Just because you’re a single mum doesn’t mean that you are never going to need companionship ever again; and although being a single parent might be new to you; once you have taken the time to get used to the idea and old wounds have healed, then your desire to have someone in your life still remains.

But how do you go about looking for a potential partner without disrupting the lives of your children and making them feel perhaps more unstable than they maybe already do?

Well there is a great way to satisfy your need for company and to add a little fun into your life, without involving your children in any way; and it is by joining an online dating website.

Whether you are serious about finding someone who might potentially be your next life partner; or whether you just want to have a bit of fun and meet some new people along the way; online dating is the perfect way to go.

There is no commitment to talk to anyone if you don’t want to; but it allows you the freedom to search member’s profiles at your leisure and fulfil the maybe strict criteria that you have for any potential partners or new friends.

The cost is tiny compared to anything you might spend on a night out or a babysitter; and it is only when you are ready to take things further with someone that you might have met that you need leave your house.

It also gives you the added freedom of being completely upfront about your situation; whatever that may be; and safe in the knowledge that anyone who is interested in you is so for the right reasons; as long as you are upfront and honest on your profile; and what would be the point in not.

So what reason is there not to go for it?  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain; so why not make the most of your free time, however little you have; and start looking for that certain someone or new friend after you put the kids to bed tonight; you never know what might be waiting for you around the next corner.

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Socialising is rapidly coming back on the agenda as more people find themselves with less to do, due to being out of work or just the amount of work is throttling back.  Internet dating has seen it’s biggest growth through Dec 08 Jan 09 since records began.  Amazingly the most popular age range is gues what ? 40 -50.

Over forties dating is rapidly growing and at fortiesfun they have the biggest online databse available in the UK.  It’s free to join so get on in there and test the water.

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1. Punctuality : There is no excuse for arriving late and you need to be sure that you are always on time. If your date is late, do not make it an issue, be calm and composed and enjoy the evening. Any reaction from your side could dampen the spirits and spoil the mood.
2. Attire : You need to wear outfits that give you confidence. It need not be flashy and should not be garish. Avoid wearing suggestive attire as it might send the wrong signals. Your accessories like shoes, handbag, must complement your attire.
3. Be relaxed : You need to control your emotions and should not become a nervous wreck. While some nervousness is expected, channelise your energy towards excitement rather than becoming edgy.
4. Well read : Make sure you are abreast of the latest in news and current events so that you are not groping for issues to talk. You need to project an image of somebody who is well read.
5. Break the ice :  You need to convey warmth and happiness through your smile and be rest assured, the ice is broken and it will be easy from there on..
6. Transparency :  It is advisable to discuss your plans for the evening as well as ask him about his. It will set up the evening for you.
7. Observant : You must be alert and utilize the time to notice what your date is doing and to show relevant emotions through your comments. Make sure though that they are on the positive side like praising him, showing sensitivity etc.
8. Honest :  If, during the evening, you are faced with something uncomfortable or embarrassing, discuss it with your date and do not hold back.
9. Acknowledge :  If you’re enjoying yourself, ensure it is communicated to your date.
10. Keep in touch :  Do not forget to intimate him about things he would love to be informed about, something about his favorite hero or topic. It will create the proper wavelength and also prompt him to reciprocate with news that you would like to hear about. Overall, discussing about your personal achievements and encouraging him to talk about his will make the meeting far more engaging than talking about the recent TV soap. You also need to show that you care about him.

Dating Skills for Men

1. Speak the truth :It never pays to lie. While you may get by for the moment on that particular day, you will be caught and it will be very embarrassing. No women likes dishonesty and it is not at all macho to lie. Moreover, when you lie once, you need to be alert to be covering that lie with so many other lies and is not worth the effort.
2. Do not pretend : Nothing puts off women than somebody faking. It is always advisable to be yourself and that is the impression you need to convey to her.
3. Do not surprise : It is not a good idea to spring a surprise with a movie offer or a meal on the first date without knowing her preferences. It will be construed as a nasty surprise and is not in your favor.
4. Humor : Everybody likes humor and this quality can be your greatest asset, especially with women.
5. Grooming : Please ensure clean clothing, clean breadth, no body odor and clean nails.

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Being able to read body language can be a very beneficial skill. In fact, I consider it very important not only in dealing with women, but also with your mates or in your career.

In order to know accurately what a person is communication with her body language, we have to understand the person since there are some body languages that can be thought to be a sign of comfort.

Also, you can reduce your nervousness when you are around girls if you know how to read their body language. You can be able to tailor the answers and actions to your conversation in the right direction if you have an idea of how she is feeling. Trying to get clues from her verbal language will be a waste of time.

We know that women usually say one thing but in the real sense they mean another. If you know how to read body language, you can be at ease as you will always be ahead.

Eye Contact
Eye contact is an important sign of attraction between individuals. If you are seated with your friends at a club and you spot a girl seated a few tables from you eyeing you, what does it mean? What if she eyes you again and maintains the contact for a little longer? Look at the eye contact, is the ordinary supermarket look or it’s something more?

These signs should automatically tell you that the girl is interested in you. Get up, make your way to her, and start a conversation.

Her Body Posture
This is one attribute that most people find themselves doing a little more that they should. I am also guilty of this habit, and most of the times I find myself doing it unconsciously. The funny thing is that I cannot refrain from doing it.

Take a look at this example:

Let’s say you are walking in the middle of the town, not caring much about your posture. You have your shoulder laid back relaxed and your head downwards minding your own business.

Out of the blues, a sexy girl walks towards you, what is your first reaction? Probably, you get into an upright posture, push your chest out a little bit and try to portray the best you as the girl walks by, right?

This type of attraction signal is commonly used by both sexes, albeit unconsciously. It is mostly done through the body language that we display.

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You must also have come across guys who their brain stops to work when a girl that they fancy is within 100m from them. Some guys seem lucky as they just interact with girls very easily. Now we wonder, is flirting a naturally in-built talent or is it something we can learn and perfect with time?

Let’s look at stage performance and public speaking. Many people consider those who can sing and speak well to be talented. These are talents most of us have not been naturally given. We cannot deny that some people are gifted, but with enough training and practice, we can also learn to do equally as well as they do.

Nowadays, it is common for many parents to send their children for drama and public speaking lessons when they are young. When they are joining formal schooling, most of these children do not have stage frights and can speak in public very confidently. This shows that the right training can help us be more confident.

I feel that many guys fear chatting up the girls they fancy because they do not have self confidence and have no idea on how the girls will respond to the chat. They fear that the girl may reject them and as a result let chances of knowing her pass and disappear.

You do not have to remain in this situation if you are among the many guys that fear to chat up girls. With some little training, you can become a cool guy who is not afraid to talk to women.

You can use some of these tips below to get rid of your fears:

1. Get into a habit of smiling and acknowledging the women that you come across daily as you head to your office. A simple good morning or hi is a great way to start. These are great ice breakers you can use to ease the tension, especially if you are greeting a stranger. When you get into the habit of doing this, you will not be nervous when talking to strangers, or women for that matter.
2. Offer out your name for volunteer opportunities in events that are being organized or hosted by your company. These positions will get you to working with women from other departments of the company. When you are frequently around or in contact with ladies, you will start feeling more comfortable in their.
3. Picture yourself having a conversation with the woman that you fancy. Having a mental picture will help you when you actually interact with the woman. Since you will already be familiar with the picture from your brain, you will not feel much nervous.
4. Do not think that the girl you fancy has no flaws; do not entertain unrealistic imaginations about her. She is just a normal girl whom you can reach out to. She is not out of the ordinary or unreachable.
5. If you did not know, you have been socializing with the women since you were a baby. The first woman you probably interacted with was your mother. Other people grew up with aunts, sisters, and grandmothers, with whom they all shared the same house.

Therefore, technically speaking, women should not make you nervous when you are talking to them. Just imagine that you are talking to your sister or mother. Also, enough practice will make you stop being nervous on meeting and talking to women.

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Interestingly, in a survey in 2003, they discovered that people wanted to date primarily to talk to someone or to share things with that person. This was the view of over 50% of the participants.Of course, not everybody thought so. One of them felt that besides talking and sharing things, sexual attraction was also one key factor as to why women would want to date, the reasoning being for the former two activities, one could always find women. Need to have fun and enjoy, find somebody to marry again and also rekindle the need for sex were other causes that was highlighted in the survey. It is of utmost importance to have a clear perception and understanding of why you need to look for a date and this perception is useful to prevent wastage of time and effort in looking for an affair that is in divergence to your objective.

Other factors or incentives to be considered include whether the association is a short term one with no sex or with sex or is it a long-term commitment culminating in marriage. You also need to consider whether you require a partner without any strings attached or even a marriage with trust or divested of fidelity. There are many twists and combinations that you need to be clear about before seeking that date.
If you have made up your mind, then you need to be transparent and come out in the open about your expectations from the relationship and you will be surprised at the cooperation you might receive from your partner, who will also feel emboldened to be as honest with you.

Now that you know why you want to date, the timing assumes great importance. Broadly, separation from your partner and your own practical experiences over the years gives you the inspiration and zeal to decide your expectations from a partnership. You can however, keep some of these questions in mind:

• How is your mental make-up? Can you cope with situations that go out of hand?
• How good is your self-worth?
• Are you clear about your choice and would you stick to your decision?

Once you are clear on the above, you can go ahead and start it all over again.

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