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Overcoming Fear

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 22 Jan 2018 00:53:00 +0000

Dear Fellow Travelers,

Some of the wisest words that have ever been spoken are these:

THERE IS NOTHING TO FEAR, EXCEPT FEAR ITSELF.

So many of us were either raised by parents who had been through the Great Depression, or who had experienced the traumas of the second world war; maybe both. There were hard times all over the world and it has left its mark on us. From a sense of duty and love, our parents prepared us for adversity. The result is that many of us grew up with a very clear idea of what could go wrong in nearly every situation.

The goal was to make us cautious and forearmed. What they forgot to remind us, is that we had intellect and intuition and a Loving Spiritual Presence that was there for us to call upon, so we could probably get through most things that seemed like adversity. In other words; we learned to fear without knowing that we had the power to triumph over whatever challenges life put in our path.

All you have to do is to watch a news program or listen to the stories that friends and family are going through to know that challenges are all around us. There are two ways to confront those challenges. One way is by tackling them on the outer.

During the Vietnam war days, I was in college. My friends were being drafted to fight. Some went to Canada, some went into ROTC so that they could serve as an officer, and some just went to war. Many of us went to protests and rallies where we put our energy into changing things on the outer.

Another way to confront the challenges is on the inner. Prayer is one way to do that. Sending out a strong energy from your heart saying “No ! I do not allow this in my world.” Sending prayers to heaven saying "God, I trust that you will fill the world with your energy of peace and calm the storms of adversity.” This is most effective when you truly believe that your energy can combine with the Divine and bring things into balance.

Many spiritual communities take a vow of silence. They consider their work on the inner to be so important that they do not even speak. They hold the balance for the Light, every waking moment.

Most of us will do both. Just remember that each form is important, and no one way is better than the other. It is true that all changes start with energy, but it is the outer drawing attention to the problem that fuels those who use the inner way. So be gentle with yourself if you find that life’s obligations, or health conditions, or mobility make it difficult or impossible for you to join those who protest. You can do just as much good by taking a moment as you watch the evening news, or see need in your fellow man. Pray and take that Light that you are and stand against the darkness and say ‘NOT IN MY WORLD!”.

Fear is a subtle cancer that invades our hearts. It starts by making us feel righteous about issues and spreads by inclining us to feel critical; or even hateful toward anyone who holds a different awareness. This consciousness will never bring Peace to the world. It serves only to keep us separate. If someone seems really different, it may be helpful to try to understand why. There is a Native American saying “Never judge another, until you have walked a mile in his moccasins.”

We are taught by the media who we should fear. I remember when we were taught to fear Asians because Japan had attacked Pearl Harbor. Then it was spies, they were the bad guys. McCarthy nearly closed down Hollywood with the fear of communists. Anyone who was liberal was thought to be a communist sympathizer. Drug dealers were next, until states began selling drugs to make taxes, so now it's terrorists.

The terrorists used to be all Arabs, but that began to get out of hand and people were bombing mosques, so now they are Russians ( back to communists again?) nope more creative, the Russian Mafia. All you need to do is watch police dramas and you will learn who we are supposed to fear now.

Its time for us to stop judging others by their nationality or religion or political persuasion. We all want a good life for our children and to live in peace and harmony with each other. Any beliefs or behavior that take us away from those goals should be re-thought.

With much love and light as always

Mary

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If you would like further insight into what the future will bring to you, or help in manifesting your intentions, I am always here to support you in your journey. You can contact me by phone at 828-252-7573, but if you would like to book a 30 or 60 minute session, then please use my website. I now have a new convenient system where you will find a calendar, which shows my available time slots. You can also contact me at marypompeoservices@gmail.com if you prefer to have an email consultation.

You may also find my book, ‘Find the Force, Be the Light’ helpful in guiding you through these times of transition and harnessing the power of prayer to manifest changes in your life.

This is available in both hardcover and e-book versions on Amazon Click Here to go straight to Amazon. The e-book is also available for purchase through Barnes and Noble, Apple iBooks and Kobo plus many other popular e-book outlets.

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Relationships

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Wed, 17 Jan 2018 01:52:00 +0000

Dear Fellow Travelers,

What seems to be up for many of you at this time, is the dynamics in relationships. I’m not talking just about romantic relationships, but also those with parents and children, with friends, or maybe an employer or an employee. Anyone with whom we have a regular exchange of energy, may be my teacher or my student and sometimes both. Nowhere else do we have such an opportunity for growth and empowerment as we do in relationships.

Many of us give up our power in relationships. There are lots of ways that we can do this. One of the easiest is :

EXPECT OTHERS TO BE PSYCHIC

We expect those around us to know what we want or need. This happens a lot in close relationships, but it can happen with co-workers as well. I was a single mother and I used to believe that my children should see what needed to be done around the house. I thought if they loved me, they would notice what needed to be done and do it; so I wouldn’t have to. I began to equate their performance with how much they loved and appreciated me. I’ll never forget when my sensible Joanna said “Mom, why don’t you just tell us what you need?”

EQUATING ATTITUDE WITH LOVE

If we want someone to do something for us, we feel they should want to do that task with a cheerful heart … if they love us. Here is an example. “Will you stop at the grocery store on your way home and pick up a few things?” The one we love does pick up things, but not without grumbling about rush hour traffic and how much they hate going to the grocery store. They do the task, but we start to feel unloved because we do that task all the time and never grumble … even though we may feel like it. This particular task can escalate if the person we ask forgets one of the items. It often boils down to – ‘if you loved and appreciated me, you would have remembered and done it cheerfully’.

TO INSIST THAT OUR HAPPINESS IN THE RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON THE BEHAVIOR OF THE OTHER.

We are looking for a certain and often specific response from the other person. We believe that this response will determine our level of happiness. Talk about a way to give up your power! Unfortunately, when we chose this response, we often chose someone who is incapable of giving us the response that we seek. Why isn’t my partner more romantic, especially when I feel romantic? Where are the little surprises?

This is such a complex subject which we all struggle with, to one degree or another. There has been much written about it, and it’s something which I have been considering writing about myself. So much of my work is taken up with providing guidance, where I see that so many situations are unique, and yet have a common underlying premise at one and the same time. In this respect, I would like to put my wisdom and experience into something which would be available wherever there might be a need to have something close at hand. My many years of counselling have really opened my eyes to so many things. In my own circumstances, I have learned how to recognize when others were saying ‘I love you’ in their own way, and I have also learned to recognize what they needed from me. This, in part, is why I am able to help my clients so effectively.

KEEPING SCORE

This can be done in all relationships and it is the one thing that undermines the flow of love energy more than any other. If you are asking yourself ‘why you don’t have love in your life’, you might want to check and see if there is any score keeping going on. I have clients who can tell me every wonderful thing that they have done for everyone, and whether or not that person ever responded in a similar manner. And, if they were ever treated in a negative way by anyone … they can give me chapter and verse on this subject.

My question to them invariably is – ‘How does this help?’ All it does is reinforce your belief that you are not loved.

I’m not talking about mean people here. I’m talking about really nice people who have had some difficult times in life and have become vigilant in their dealings with another or others, and often have come to anticipate the worst; even before it happens.

I believe that the latest statistics are that seventy six percent of us have come out of families with some kind of disfunction. The rest are very lucky, but seventy six percent is a lot! So, it’s not surprising that many have had things to overcome in their lives.

Some of you grew up where love was based on performance, and what you did was never quite enough. So, you don’t see how wonderful you are, just because you are you. You may have missed out on Mr. Rogers saying, “There is only one of you and you are the best you that you can be. I like you just the way you are.”

Love draws love. Practice loving unconditionally, no matter what the response is. As you become the embodiment of love, love will return to you in more ways than you can possibly count. I would not tell you anything that I have not experienced myself as the truth. I’m very lucky. I have opportunities every day to give love to my clients. I may not hear from them from session to session, even though some of them have been clients for over twenty years.

I love my profession. It gives me the opportunity to express healing love. But more important, to help you all to be gentle with yourself. Because each of you is unique, and each of you try very hard to do the best thing.

I have been speaking with clients since I was twenty two, and I will be seventy five next April. In all of that time, I have never met anyone who was truly a bad person. The best part of my work is to love you through the rough times, and to facilitate you to see yourself as I see you.

You are truly unique beings and there is only one person in this world who has grown up with your experience and who has your talents. You are your gift to this world. What you do with that gift blesses all of us. Like Fred Rogers, I love you just the way you are, and the love that I have experienced in return from the Universe has been mind blowing. I do not teach what I have not experienced personally. If you can learn to love without keeping score, miracles will happen.

If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always

Mary

You may also find my book, ‘Find the Force, Be the Light’ helpful in guiding you through these times of transition and harnessing the power of prayer to manifest changes in your life.

This is available in both hardcover and e-book versions on Amazon Click Here to go straight to Amazon. The e-book is also available for purchase through Barnes and Noble, Apple iBooks and Kobo plus many other popular e-book outlets.

Please be sure to check out my newly updated website MaryPompeo.com where my book is listed.

From The Age of Pisces to the Age of Aquarius

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 08 Jan 2018 23:09:00 +0000

Greetings Fellow Travelers

The other night, I received a call from my good friend Diane Robinson. Rev Diane is the pastor of Unity of the Gardens, in Jupiter Florida and we have been good friends for thirty years. Diane had called to ask if I was noticing a difference in how my clients were. She felt that she was noticing a difference in her church.

Apparently, members didn’t have the time to volunteer as much and the fellowship, which has always made Diane’s churches wonderfully homey, seemed to be more difficult to achieve. She was savvy enough to hit on the reason herself, as she asked me if it was the difference between the Age of Pisces and the Age of Aquarius. We discussed this at great length.

I had already been meditating on ideas for my next blog, and as a result of Diane’s call, the following question popped into my mind. I was wondering how many of you, especially those of you who are over 40, have noticed that same difference in your lives.

The Age of Pisces was warm and fuzzy. Neighbors knew neighbors, brought casseroles over when people had trouble in their families. In small towns, most people knew each other and what was going with everyone too. Shows like ‘Father Knows Best’ and ‘Leave it to Beaver’ showcased an idealized family life that most people were encouraged aspire to. It proved to be appealing to our emotional needs at that time. Pisces is a water sign, so we were strongly ruled by emotion.

But things have changed. The Age of Aquarius is different. Its more logical Y2K was a good example, as it happened on the cusp between Pisces and Aquarius. The Pisces people were predicting the end of everything, including our computers’ ability to cope from changing to years starting in 2000. However, the logical air sign of Aquarius just figured it out, and so nothing catastrophic happened.

We are now moving farther into the Aquarian Age. I remember sitting in Astrology class back in the sixties and listening to the teacher speculate about what the New Age would be like. The suggestion was that somehow we would be ruled by technology, so much so that future wars would be fought with machines instead of guns. That sounded like science fiction, and so it was difficult to imagine.

Medicine would become more nuclear and diseases like cancer would eventually be wiped out. X rays would be a thing of the past. Technology would go right into our bodies with cameras. That also was a little difficult to imagine.

It all sounded promising and for the betterment of mankind, but people would feel isolated in their close relationships as their main push would be to save the world. Justice for all, equality, truth, global communication, but sometimes at the expense of communicating directly with a friend. In those days, we had no idea of things like text messages.

Many things are changing. We have been calling for change and it is here, but as the new comes in, something has to go out; and it is sometimes things that we have become attached to. Life is moving faster and people have difficulty keeping up with their own families … let alone friends and neighbors.

Change! As a species most of us don’t like it. We may dream of faraway places and we may visit them, but few of us take up residency there. We like what we know … it’s comfortable. But this change is a cosmic thing, and whether or not we like it, it is definitely happening.
We can shake our fist against the heavens, but it will still keep rolling along. We won’t be grounded until two thousand years from now, when the Age of Capricorn comes in and says OK enough of this. It’s all very well for existence in cyberspace, but someone has got to learn how to organize from the bottom up.

‘Chop wood and carry water, get close to the earth’. And two thousand years later, those who have grown up through the Age of Aquarius will be mourning the good old days when you could do everything on a computer.

I told my savvy friend that in her case, and with her knowledge of her church’s needs, she could figure out what an Aquarian Church would look like. We discussed what the needs of her congregation were now, which may not necessarily be what she would like them to be. I told her that people will still be in need of the church and the fellowship of church … it will just be different.

As many of you know, I taught a lot of psychic development classes. They often went from six to eight weeks long. Some even voted to extend those weeks. The last time I agreed to do a class, I could see that the old way was not going to work. It was difficult to get a group to commit for one night, let alone six to eight weeks of the same night and time.

We are in the midst of a massive change. There are those who believe that the next war will be a cyber war, and there are many who believe that we are already fighting it. It’s devastating to destroy lives and an infrastructure of a country, but certainly perhaps even more devastating to destroy a nation’s economy overnight … without shedding any blood at all

I’m old enough to remember sitting around the radio with my family and listening to Jack Benny and Fibber McGee and Molly. When television came along, people thought it was a fluke. They fearfully assumed that it put out rays and would never last. A lot of people feel the same way about computers, yet here they are and now in our phones and even on our wrists.

The key to surviving this change into the Age of Aquarius is mental and emotional flexibility. You don’t need to throw out all of those warm fuzzy memories of the good old days of Pisces. You can keep those memories of the past and still embrace the future, study it and learn how to use the traits of what is coming in to your benefit. As you surf the cosmic waves, who knows … maybe you will graduate from boogie board to surf board and ride the curl into the future. Can you tell I’m a Florida girl?

Each of you who are reading these words, chose to be born during this once in a two thousand year event. How brave, how adventurous and, okay, maybe a little impulsive. But you knew that you would have great opportunity for spiritual advancement. The good news is that whether you remember or not, each of you came with a set of tools and awareness. Everything that you will need to succeed brilliantly, maybe even ascend. So embrace this new age, or you can find a comfortable place to sit in the rocker and say, “Well … In my day we used to …”

If you would like further insight into what the new year will bring to you, or help in manifesting your intentions, I am always here to support you in your journey. You can contact me by phone at 828-252-7573 for a 30 or 60 minute session, or at marypompeoservices@gmail.com if you prefer an email consultation.

You may also find my book, ‘Find the Force, Be the Light’ helpful in guiding you through these times of transition and harnessing the power of prayer to manifest changes in your life.

This is available in both hardcover and e-book versions on Amazon Click Here to go straight to Amazon. The e-book is also available for purchase through Barnes and Noble, Apple iBooks and Kobo plus many other popular e-book outlets.

Please be sure to check out my newly updated website MaryPompeo.com where my book is listed.

Endings and Beginnings - The New Year Ahead

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Sat, 30 Dec 2017 18:20:00 +0000

Happy New Year fellow travellers

Another year has come to an end, and as with all endings, so comes a new beginning. This is the time of year for re-evaluating what we want in our lives, letting go of the old and setting our intentions for the new energy which we want to come into our lives.

For many of us, this has been a difficult year. Some of you may be feeling the heavy energy of a chaotic world. Remember to keep in mind that even the seeming chaos is in divine order and serves a purpose. Sometimes things need to fall apart before they can be rebuilt into something better.

Every struggle is just another lesson, and may in fact have been created by our higher selves as an opportunity for our souls to grow. Of course, when we are in the middle of those lessons, we may just want to tell the universe to give us a break and let us breathe. If you are feeling this kind of pressure, that is probably exactly what you need.

Take the time out of your day to sit in the silence, to breathe and reconnect with that inner self that knows just what you need. It is important to take care of ourselves in the midst of trying to care for everyone else. Even just a few minutes of quiet meditation can help us to rebalance ourselves. It gives us the strength to meet our challenges with a peaceful mind and a loving heart, instead of being weighed down by fear and stress. This is essential in lifting the vibration of the planet which, as spiritual warriors, is part of what we have come here to do.

The year 2018 is a number 11 year in numerology. This is a master number and is a powerful time for manifesting great change and growth. It also deals with the number 2 (as 1+1=2) which is representative of relationships and partnerships of all kinds. You might see opportunities for growth in this area on a grand scale, people coming together and working to create something positive and meaningful.

To find out what kind of energy 2018 will bring to you, you will need to calculate your personal year. You can do this by adding the year to your birth month and day. (example: for an August 24th birthday, you would add the numbers 8 + 2+4 + 2+0+1+8 = 25 = 2+5 = 7, giving you a 7 Personal Year.)

If you are interested in what these numbers will mean for you in your personal life, here is a quick overview:

Personal Year 1 : This is a year of new beginnings and fresh starts. It’s a great time to start something new and explore your individuality. Take advantage of this energy to make the changes in your life that you have been contemplating. Last year was a time of endings and letting things go. Now the way is clear for you to forge ahead into new horizons. Be confident, take charge, and get out in the world. This is a time of independence and fresh energy. You may find it difficult to compromise this year. Try new things, make new goals, and explore your interests. This year is all about you.

Personal Year 2 : This is a year for slowing down and reassessing. After all of last year’s impulsive energy, it’s time to re-evaluate and decide what changes you want to integrate into your life. Things may seem to be moving slowly for you, but try not to get frustrated. Patience is key. There is progress behind the seeming standstill. It is a time for slow growth. It is not the time for pushing forward to get your own way. You will accomplish much more with cooperation and tact. Work on balancing your life and your relationships. Cultivate your friendships. Be helpful, but try not to become a martyr to others. Maintain balance while you plan. This year could bring the possibility of a new partnership, or the deepening of an existing relationship.

Personal Year 3 : This could be a very creative year if you take advantage of the energy coming into your life now. It’s a good time to shake things up and get out of a rut. It’s time to lighten up and have some fun. Travel, go to plays, socialize, entertain. Try a new look, get inspired. If you’ve been itching to pick up a paintbrush, now is the time to do it. This year favors all kinds of creative endeavors. You may feel that you don’t get much done this year, but you may not really care. This is a year for optimism. Take up a new hobby. Draw, paint, play music, write stories. Give yourself time to daydream. Try not to make any important decisions at this time unless you are very sure. Be flexible and be careful of gossip. This is a year for exploring your creativity, so take advantage of this creative time as next year will be time to bring all those dreams into reality.

Personal Year 4 : This is a year of hard work and planning. You may have felt that you lacked direction for much of last year, but now is the time to settle in and get organized. It’s a great time for taking care of projects you’ve been putting off and building for the future. Buy a house, start a savings account, go to school. Don’t worry if you are feeling more serious-minded this year. It is just another step in your development and things will lighten up next year. Now is the time to build a foundation, make plans and work towards them. Keep your promises and stick to a budget. Take care of your health and think things through. This year may feel like a struggle and bring a lot of challenges, but if you take responsibility and do the work, you’ll end up with a feeling of accomplishment as the seeds you plant and cultivate this year begin to grow.

Personal Year 5 : This year could bring many changes. It’s now the time of action. After the responsibilities of last year, you may be feeling restless and restricted, but now you should begin to feel things open up as all that hard work pays off. Don’t be afraid to take risks. This is a year for surprises and lucky breaks. However, try not to make any impulsive decisions. Get out in public and promote yourself. This is a great year for networking. You have an energy and enthusiasm that people will be drawn to. Try not to make any promises at this time as you may find them hard to keep. Visualize success and manifest what you want. This year brings with it a new energy and you may encounter an opportunity for a new job.

Personal Year 6 : This year is a good time to think of others and give back to the community. You may find yourself very aware of your obligations and responsibilities this year. Your family and home life may take up a lot of your time and thoughts. Depending on your nature, this year may feel like somewhat of a struggle as you are asked to put others ahead of yourself. It is a year of commitment. It’s a good year for settling down, having a child, building a home. Marriage may be a theme this year. It’s a great time for planting a garden, learning to cook, volunteering for a local charity. This is a time to recognize in gratitude the blessings we have received and to begin to give back to the world with generosity. This will be a year of growth and maturity and a time to embrace forgiveness.

Personal Year 7 : This is a year for self-reflection. Look back on your progress, re-evaluate and decide what is working for you and what is not. Develop your skills and talents. If you are feeling worn out, this might be a sign that some rebalancing is necessary. This may be a time to reconnect with your spirituality. It is a good time for study and meditation. Go on a retreat. Therapy may be beneficial. Use this time to reassess what you value. Be patient and accept that this is a time for moving slowly. Recognize what needs to be cleared out of your life and make a list of new goals. Be mindful of your thoughts and careful that a tendency towards self-analysis does not turn into self-criticism. This is a time for going within, as the caterpillar goes into its chrysalis stage of development before emerging as a butterfly.

Personal Year 8 : This is a year for ambition and achievement. If you have done the work, this could be a year of great fulfillment. You may feel like taking on new challenges. Have faith in your own strength and intuition. Money may be a theme this year. It’s a good time to make investments, buy property, and cash in on what is owed to you. This year may usher in a period of success for you. You may be feeling more confident and sure of yourself and your place in the world. Try to keep a positive mindset and consider any problems that may arise as opportunities. You may be putting more energy into your career and could notice growth in this area or be offered a promotion. This is a year to realize how much progress you’ve made and how much you have grown. Avoid dwelling on past mistakes and instead look to the future. The energy of this year supports your success and you can be sure that any abundance that comes to you now has been well-earned.

Personal Year 9 : This is the final year in the cycle and signifies completion. This is a time for letting go of the old, tying up loose ends, severing ties with people who do not support your journey. Clean out your closets and put your house in order. This is a year of preparation. Next year will bring with it a new energy and now is the time for you to clear the way for that new energy to come into your life. This could feel like a difficult year for you. You may struggle with endings or perceived loss, but just keep in mind that this is all a necessary process in your growth and something better is waiting for you just around the corner. It is best not to fight the energy, but instead let things go with grace. It’s also a great time to rid yourself of past habits or thoughts that have been limiting to you. You might find yourself traveling long distances. This is not the time to hold onto past grievances or pettiness. Embrace forgiveness, both of yourself and others. Prepare the way for the exciting new changes that are waiting to come into your life.

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I hope this has been able to provide some perspective and insight for all of you. The turning of the year can be an exciting time. It would be good for us all to take some time and reflect on all the past year has brought us. Light a candle, meditate on all the lessons this past year has brought into your life. Then release those things which no longer serve you and turn your attention to the future. What do you hope this new year will bring? It’s time to set your intentions now and use the energy of the new year wisely in order to manifest the life you want.

If you would like further insight into what the new year will bring to you, or help in manifesting your intentions, I am always here to support you in your journey. You can contact me by phone at 828-252-7573 for a 30 or 60 minute session, or at marypompeoservices@gmail.com if you prefer an email consultation.

You may also find my book, ‘Find the Force, Be the Light’ helpful in guiding you through these times of transition and harnessing the power of prayer to manifest changes in your life.

This is available in both hardcover and e-book versions on Amazon Click Here to go straight to Amazon. The e-book is also available for purchase through Barnes and Noble, Apple iBooks and Kobo plus many other popular e-book outlets.

Please be sure to check out my newly updated website MaryPompeo.com where my book is listed.

Have a Happy New Year and a Truly Blessed 2018

Don't ever Underestimate the 'Power of You'

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Tue, 24 Oct 2017 01:29:00 +0000

Dear Fellow Travelers,

I’m aware that many of you felt disappointed in 2012, when you believed that nothing happened. However, that was the opening of the Great Portal of Change for our world and the momentum has been building ever since. I know that you may have expected to wake up to peace the next morning, but whenever great change comes, there needs to be a period where the old is gradually swept aside as the new is born.

It’s easy to look at the chaos in the world and think “What’s happening?” The energy of chaos is putting up a good fight, not only in our country but in our world. In this respect, it’s understandable to experience feelings of powerlessness when faced with forces that are fighting to maintain their position of long-held superiority. And, especially when we do so at the cost of feeding our own silent fears.

The reality is that each of you is more powerful than you can at present imagine. So I am here to help you remember. This is part of the change. It’s time for you to wake up and stand confidently in your power, while using it wisely. In this respect, it’s important to also remember that when you band together in groups for a common good, you square the energy; where four of you have the power of sixteen. This will help to speed up the changes that you want to see.

Never underestimate what you are capable of whenever you set your intentions in alignment with Love. You are created of the same energy as that of the Creator. Our whole world is too. But you are also capable of thinking and acting consciously where you are here to bring in the Light.

Some of you are like the town criers. You are alert to the troubled areas. This is an important role. It helps those around you to know where to direct their energy. The challenge is to see the darkness, but not give it any of your energy and to help others guard against it. However, I appreciate that it’s not easy to fight those issues that need to be fought, such as poverty and bigotry, without judging; and sometimes hating those who are seemingly standing in their ignorance or greed.

When I was raising my children, I used to tell them that I did not like certain behavior, but it didn’t mean that I did not love them. I just wanted the bad behavior to stop. Some of our world leaders are acting just like little children; or worse. It almost seems like they keep doing more and more outrageous things, so that we will get as angry as they are. When you catch yourself reacting in this way, make a conscious effort to stay centered.

Remember who you are and take charge of your emotional energy and where you direct it. Focus on their behavior while seeing it for what it is and visualize the change that you feel needs to happen. For example, Waging war for greed has got to stop. See this happening, rather than wasting your power on ranting at the perpetrators. This is not helpful and only slows down the process of change that you want to see.

I cannot tell you often enough how powerful you are. Your words, your thoughts and your feelings create. It doesn’t matter whether you believe it or not. It is cosmic law, very much like the law of gravity. You may be the most kind-hearted person in your world, but if you choose to fill your emotions with fear and anger, then you are helping to create and perpetuate the chaos that upsets you. So don’t do it!

Think of your forehead holding a giant beam of Light. Whatever you give excessive attention to, then this is what you will create. Be vigilant about what you are creating while always choosing to align yourself with the energy of Love; and be patient!

Change doesn’t happen overnight. We have been warlike for much of our history, going back to times BC. So, it’s like a giant ship at sea. It has to be turned slowly after going in a straight line for so long. This is what’s happening now, and you can feel it if you try. When I see all of the amazing children being born into our world right now, I know for sure that change is already happening. Be a part of bringing about this change for your children and your grandchildren.

Expand your Love, Expand your Light. You are so much more capable and powerful than you know. Help to turn the ship of life in a new direction. We are all on board and so every little helps. Be the change that you want to see. I am here to keep reminding you of this at every opportunity, and I am more than happy to do so.

I prayed a long time before writing this blog. It was my intention to tell you about my new book. But, as often happens, Spirit had another message in mind.

So, please, let me share my utter happiness with you. My book is out. I am so excited, I’m like a kid on Christmas morning. It took me three years to write and it has undergone a lot of fine tuning. I hope you will find it helpful on your journey. I wrote it from my heart to your heart.
As I read the back cover, I realize that this blog is right on point. So I want to share what I have written about the book:

‘I can confidently tell you that you are stronger, more resourceful and much more powerful than you give yourself credit for. There is a light within you which burns brightly, even though you have done such a great job of hiding it so well. You just need someone to help you find it, so that you can reconnect with the Universal Force; which constantly seeks to guide you back onto the path of enduring happiness and inner peace.

Prayer is a wonderful way to achieve this, and so, along with my advice, I have chosen to share with you my own special way of reaching out to a higher power. One that will strive to lift your spirits if only you have the will to manifest this. My aim, if you allow me to, is to show you how to regain control of your life and to fix the seemingly unfixable. There is nothing that you cannot achieve if you but just set your mind to it. Find that Force. Be that Light. Use this book to rise above your challenges, dramas and your apparent limitations. Be happy and feel loved. You absolutely do deserve it. The Divine Creative Force wants nothing else other than for you, as its precious creation, to be this way.’

My book, ‘Find the Force Be the Light’ has now been published in both hardback and eBook format. The hardback and Kindle are available from Amazon, where eReader versions are on sale at the Kobo and Barnes & Noble web sites. If you would like an autographed copy of the hardback then please email me with your details, or simply Paypal $25 for the book plus shipping. Your support is much appreciated.

If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always

Mary

Hardcover: 240 pages
Publisher: Thorne Publishing (August 21, 2017)
Language: English
ISBN-13: 978-0992609481

Reader’s comments :

Mary, thank you so much for sending me your new book. I love it - it is a very clever concept and I intend to read every sentence. You have touched my heart - the first two days I sat down to read the book, I just started crying (good crying).

Mary, your book is precious—not to be read cover to cover—and that is it— it is truly a treasure—to be enjoyed slowly and savored.

Chaos and Uncertainty - How do we deal with them?

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Wed, 08 Feb 2017 00:29:00 +0000

Hi Fellow Traveler,

There is a Chinese curse,

"May you be born in interesting times."

It certainly seems that we have hit the jackpot. Things are not dull, by any stretch of the imagination. I remember being in Astrology class when I was 18 years old. It was 1961 and I had been studying astrology for a couple of years, but when I had reached that age I began to take it seriously and studied with an excellent astrologer.

We were sitting in class trying to speculate what the Age of Aquarius was going to be like. We were looking at the ideal of Aquarius, the part that wants everything to be fair and equal. Everyone was ignoring the disruptive aspect, the part that says I don’t care what happens to people. We had all been raised in the Age of Pisces where people took care of other people. Families stayed close and everyone knew their neighbors. The isolation that some people experience in the Aquarian Age was unable to be imagined at that time.

As we speculated, all that we could foresee were developments. Nuclear medicine would find help for people. Cancer would no longer be a death sentence; some people would survive it. Technology was going to rule. People would suffer more from emotional illness than physical. Uranus rules Aquarius and Uranus also rules the internet, but the internet wasn’t even a dream in the early sixties. When we learned about computers, they took up an entire room and spit their data out of cards with holes in them.

Aquarius promises to rip down everything to establish -

Harmony and understanding
Sympathy and trust abounding
No more falsehoods or derisions
Golden living dreams of visions
Mystic crystal revelation
And the mind's true liberation

[ Lyrics of the Age of Aquarius from Hair ]

In the Tarot deck there is a card called The Tower. It shows a castle tower being struck by lightning. The tower bricks are falling, people are falling from the windows. The interpretation is; everything will fall apart, but what comes after is harmonious. That’s about where we are at in the world now.

There seems to be a lot of disruption and disharmony. Fear is definitely present in the hearts of many. No matter which side of the political fence you are on, its clear that this time things are very different, chaotic even. Many of you are finding yourself very aware of this energy.

On Dec 21, 2012 a huge energetic change occurred. I know many of you felt that nothing happened, but what did actually happen took place on the inner and not the outer. If you look back on your life from that point in time, note the changes. Now you are more sensitive to the energetic energy of the Earth. You feel the energy of anger, fear and hope which surrounds us. Between television and social media it's difficult not to know what is going on. There is no more time to bury your heard in the sand.

What can we do?

The answer is, we can do a lot. Each of you will be attracted to issues that call to you. Answer the call. Find out who your representatives are and let them hear your voice. Call, send postcards. Forget internet petitions, they are the least effective way. If you are concerned about your fellow man, see where you can help. Sometimes just a smile and a kind word will lift the vibration. We are all in this together.

As the great Parliamentarian Edmond Burke once said, “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” Find what you can do and try to do something every day. Don’t forget spiritual energy is powerful, so don’t neglect doing spiritual things as well as physical things.

Spiritual Exercise _ And The Violet Power of Transformation

I AM ONE WITH THE DIVINE FORCE OF CREATION AND I UNITE MYSELF TO BE THE INSTRUMENT OF LIGHT, SENDING DIVINE HEALING TO ___________ (insert your cause here)

THROUGH ME I FLOW OCEANS AND OCEANS AND OCEANS OF POWERFUL DIVINE LOVE AND I UNITE MY ENERGY WITH THE LOVE OF ALL OTHER LIGHT WORKERS

AS SURELY AS DAWN FOLLOWS NIGHT, LIGHT CONSUMES THE DARK

WITH ALL THAT I AM, I SEND THIS FORTH WRAPPED IN THE POWER OF DIVINE LOVE

AMEN

If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always

Mary

Happy New Year - 2017

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Fri, 30 Dec 2016 01:00:00 +0000

It’s that time of the year again. The Christmas festivities are behind us, the stores are already advertising Valentine’s Day along with post-holiday sales clearing out their old merchandise and making way for the new. In our life we are ending the vibration of 2016 which was a nine. The vibration of endings and loss. The loss is usually something we should lose, but we don’t always want to and that is where the trouble often lies.

To refresh your memory. You figure out your personal year by adding up your birthday and month. Unlike astrology you don’t need the year or the time of birth. So if you were born on April 15, the 4 of April added to the 1 and 5 of the day equals 10 or 1. In numerology we keep reducing until we get a single digit. Add that one to the vibration of the year, in 2016 it was a 9 and 2017 will be a 10 or 1. A person born on that day will be going from some serious losses or endings and moving into a vibration of new things and experiences, perhaps even new people.

These past years have been difficult. 2014 was a 7 and dealt with depression or at the very least a feeling of isolation. There is always a positive and a negative side to each number. So, while 2014 may have been isolating us, if we used that time to go within and get creative then exciting things could have come forth.

2015 was an 8 year, all about money. Look at the world economy during that year. We saw countries go bankrupt, something which never happened before in my history and, as my children will tell you, I am old. I have seen us go from an ice box to a refrigeration, which is something they can’t imagine. Often when we are watching old movies I hear them say, ‘Why doesn’t he just use his cell?’ When I tell them we didn’t have cells and that we had beepers if we were truly on the cutting edge, they look at me like I must be making it up.

A country which goes bankrupt must be normal because so many have done it. They don’t see the significance, because personal bankruptcy has become so commonplace. If we used 2016 correctly, it was as though we were cleaning out closets and getting rid of those things that were no longer serving us well. Emotions, jobs material possessions, beliefs; ‘Let it Go’ was the watch-cry for 2016.

If we cleaned that closet with enthusiasm then it was not a very difficult year. But if we were determined to keep all those things that might have a use some day, then we suffered losses that were difficult; because if you don’t let go willingly in a 9 vibration, then 9 will take it from you by force. 9 is determined to move you forward unencumbered by past baggage.

On Dec 31 we chimed in the new 2017. New experiences, new beginnings, sometimes new employment situations. A lot of what will come to you will depend on how comfortable you are with the changes. For example, quite a while back I had a client who divorced in late 1998. Early the next year she told me that she wanted to meet a nice man and be in a relationship by the new millennium. She saw this as a new beginning and wanted to take advantage of it.

I had to tell her that if she continued keeping track of all of her ex-husband’s activities, she would be much too focused in the past to welcome the future. Letting go was vital in order to make the space to let new things come into her life.

Another client at around about the same time lost her job and was looking for a new one. However, she was determined to get back in to her old company and so she kept applying only to the jobs which were advertised in that place. She was well educated with years of experience in her field, but she was so determined that her old employer should re-hire her. I could see that she was just trying to prove that she shouldn’t have been downsized in the first place; but in being focused in such a narrow way she was missing so many golden opportunities. Fortunately I managed to get her to see this.

Over the years I’ve been constantly surprised by the number of my clients who ‘get in their own way’ like that. I look at their auras and see that they have earned some good experiences, but often they are directing the flow of energy to the past instead of to the future. They want good things to be given to them and they want them in spite of negative thinking and poor opinions of themselves. Clearing out the ‘garbage’ is important, but recognizing that it’s there in the first place is vital. You can’t build a nice house on a refuse tip, so clean up your act whenever the opportunity presents itself.

As this year comes to a close then make a conscious effort to affirm your good points. Weed out those things that hold you back and then get ready to see what gifts 2017 has in store for you.

I wish each and every one of you a gloriously Happy New Year. May you be well prepared for the new experiences to come and the special people that 2017 will bring your way. May you recognize your highest good in all things while letting go of all the negative energies, thoughts and habits which keep you rooted in the past

If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always

Mary

The Universe Plays its Trump Card - What Does it Mean for Us?

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Wed, 09 Nov 2016 23:49:00 +0000

I have received many emails today expressing shock at the way the election went. Some ask me if I had picked up on the outcome psychically. My answer is that what I sensed was a lot of volatility, confusion and vacillation among a great many voters. Many seemed to have changed their minds at the very last minute. You can always count on the human race to be unpredictable.

You often ask me how much I can pick up for myself.

The answer is not much at all. I'm here to learn through my life experiences the same as everyone else. Also, what makes me a clear psychic is the fact that I am detached from the outcome; so I'm not trying to have it turn out the way that I would like it to.

You asked me if I was surprised. I was, but not for the reasons you may think.

Since Dec 21, 2012 the vortex of energy that opened has been pouring through us. It has two purposes - World Transformation and Balance. I know a lot of you believe that this will just lift you up in a shower of Light and into ascension. But ascension is only ever earned, it’s not an automatic entitlement.

It’s been crazy. Things that we thought we loved have been taken away, only to discover that what follows will eventually be our happiness. Transformation means change. Think about it, we are moving from one age to another and from one level of consciousness to another. If you take a moment to consider what it’s like to move your residence, a place that you are familiar with, then you appreciate how long it takes you to feel settled again. It takes a while to find things and adjust to the energies of your surroundings. With that thought in mind, try to imagine what would happen if everyone on the planet moved on the same day. That’s our world right now.

The energy at this time gives us the opportunity to change a lot of things. I'm surprised by how many people in this country are happy to support bigotry, and misogyny. Actually, I’m more than just surprised, I’m really shocked. I guess I live in a spiritual bubble.

How Could This Happen, she asked.

When I watched Donald Trump’s energy, I saw one thing. Stirring the crowd up like he did, I could see angry the crowd was; and also that they have been angry for many years. It was mostly about money, losing their homes, jobs gone overseas, personal purchasing power gone. Many feel that the government of the USA has betrayed them and failed to protect the American way of life.

They feel entitled to that way because of loving because they are hard workers and they obeyed the rules, and now a great many are living just one pay check away from being homeless. This fear and stress naturally fuels their anger.

Hilary to them, right or wrong, comes across as simply perpetuating the system while delivering more of the same. She represents a style of hidden government which deals in so many backroom agreements that do not serve the people’s best interests. She may as well be male as she symbolises the good old boys network so well.

Many people were scared of Washington cronyism and so they wanted a change. Change for the sake of change is not always wise, but angry people may not always be calm enough to think things through. Others who were thinking had reasons that were valid to them. Needless to say, emotions ran high right up to the point of actually making the final selection on polling day.

So, what Do We do Now?

My daughters are afraid that this will set women back on so many fronts. Back in the day, mine was the first militant faction of women who burned their bras at rallies in town parks. We picketed for ‘equal work for equal pay’ and we gained a lot of ground as a result. I trust the Spirit of women who fought that brave fight to persist and stand strong in its momentum. I feel certain that it will endure powerfully for all that women have gained.

I urge other groups to do the same. Whether you are an immigrant or part of the rainbow community, African American, or Native. Be a steward of your own group, expand your energy out to support the humanity of others. Thank Goodness for the next 4 years we can start to heal.

Remember that old saying -

THE ONLY WAY FOR EVIL TO FLOURISH IS FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO STAND AROUND AND DO NOTHING.

If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always

Mary

The Freedom of the Dark Moon

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Sat, 01 Oct 2016 16:30:00 +0000

Greetings Fellow Travellers,

Today I bring good news about tonight's events. I know it’s been a long time since we heard that from the Universe, but here we are and tonight and the next two days are the optimum time to set your intention. Then watch for miracles during the following days until the next new moon.

First of all let’s review the implications of our present circumstance. As you are aware, we all have a masculine side and a feminine side, no matter what our gender of choice in this life is. So when I speak of the Divine Feminine, I’m not just speaking of the women in our group. You males have a Divine Feminine too. It’s your nurturing side, your intuitive side and what contributes greatly to your ability to express compassion.

Now, the legend goes like this. In the beginning God created Adam and then an equally powerful being whom he called Lilith. Lilith was destined to be at Adam’s side while being his equal feminine counterpart, his companion and his friend. But, unfortunately, this didn’t work out as planned.

Lilith refused to be Adam’s subservient partner, whose purpose was stated as being that of nurturing Adam while also pleasing him sexually. I’m sure she might have done those things if it had been her idea born of her own free will, but she didn’t like to be ordered by Adam to submit. So, she took herself off to another part of Paradise and there she waited patiently for Adam to see reason.

Adam, however, told God that he was lonely and so God gave him another female who was called Eve. Adam must have made a list because Eve fulfilled everything on it. She embodied the Divine Feminine without any will of her own. She was a kind of Stepford wife, which is what Adam had ordered.

Lilith felt great compassion for her sister and so she turned herself into a snake in order to talk some sense into her. The rest of the story you know. They were all thrown out of Paradise. Lilith’s consolation was that every month which has two New Moons in it, she may come forth and give great energetic assistance to those who have had their Divine Feminine blocked by the energy of others.

So if there is any place in your life where you have been blocking your power, your emotions, your intuition, or perhaps all three, these next three nights are the perfect time to let those blocks be carried away by the energy of the Black Moon.

It’s called ‘Black’ because it is subtle and mysterious and it takes only the willingness on our part to let it go, to make the call.

PRAYER TO LILITH

I am sending love to the part of femininity that is strong and wise and protective

Help me to embrace those parts of me that need to grow stronger

Release for eternity all thoughts and feelings of inferiority

My feelings matter, my intuition accurate and the Light will lead the way to my future

Thank you for your help. I know that you can consume forever those self doubts which hold me back from my greatest happiness

Thank you Thank you Thank you

Bless you, Bless you, Bless you

I love you, I love you, I love you

The energy of Lilith will bless you within the next month. Based on your solar equal house chart these are the areas

ARIES

Relationships

TAURUS

Money that comes without labor

GEMINI

Foreign travel

CANCER

Career

LEO

Hopes, wishes and dreams

VIRGO

Childhood wounds

LIBRA

Self perceptions

SAGITTARIUS

Discovering what you value

SCORPIO

Communications with family

CAPRICORN

Your home

AQUARIUS

Love affairs that don’t lead to marriage or creativity

PISCES

Work

I know it’s easy to focus on the blessing, especially after the planets have been swatting us with a rolled up newspaper for so long, but please don’t ignore the areas where you have been blocking your power. Lilith will help you let those blocks go, but only if you are willing.

Omnia's Message for August 2016

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Fri, 05 Aug 2016 15:23:00 +0000

You are here to hold hands as One Force with every other being on this planet. Whether you know them, whether you don’t know them; with one force with one energy, one heart you are one. Om!

No matter what religion, no matter what nationality, or what part of the world separates you, whether you are friend or foe, you are one with that whole wave of souls that came in at this time at this moment to say, No more war, No more fear, No more cruelty, Peace! Harmony! Love! You are here, all of us are here, to bring this energy through.

You are here to learn that you are Divine. You are here to learn that there is not one drama you can mention to me that is going on in your life that can be a speck of an effect on the power of the Eternal Being that you are. There is no one who can say anything to you, there is nothing that can touch you. You are a force and you are unique and you are Divine. Why do you fear each other?

You were seeded in this world to get along. That story is told in many ways. One way that is familiar to many of you is the tale of Adam and Eve. Many believe that there great separation came through the discovery of sex. But that is false. Sex is a natural part of humanity made for the procreation of children and the relaxation of the nervous system.

There is nothing wrong with sex, but many of you have been brought up by those who are uncomfortable with it. I could spend a lot of time on this subject, but I won’t, at least not today. The difficulty in that story is not the male discovering the female or the positive energy molecules discovering the negative ones and then creating a spark. The mistake was in letting that separation mutate into ‘Us’ and ‘Them’. Every country on your planet feels that their land is superior and so they criticize those who seize the power as evil. They see those with a different way of life as wrong. You judge each other endlessly and you do it so habitually that you don’t know it.

You talk about ‘we are the world’. You even sing about it, yet those with a different way of life are considered as being wrong. You judge each other endlessly and you don’t know it. You speak of ‘one love, one heart’ and yet in the next breath you are talking about building walls. That worked when the Chinese did it, but people travel on faster things than horses and yaks today.

The separation came from seeing male and female almost as a different species. You are the same species in interesting interpretations of the same energy which causes a spark of creation that has birthed many things.

No, it was not the great separation of seeing yourself male and female, for you do know that at one time you were one; everything was. Then, like a bursting flower, many little seed pods came out to inhabit the world. They settled in what you now call many countries, when in fact your land mass was pretty solid before the first ice age. So it was really mostly one land. The egg of the seed contained two pods, which actually were connected with other pods

These kept growing and separating like ameba reproducing themselves. This was the result of the two pods discovering, in an ecstatic dance, the awareness that one was female and one was male. Again, I’ll say a bit about sex. This ecstatic dance has nothing to do with the genital equipment of either pod. It had to do with color and vibration. Color and vibration create sound and when that energy harmonizes with each other, Universes are created. It just expands and expands in synchronization and resonance until all atoms are at peace.

Synchronization is an agreement of energy. Yes, we are creating something that harmonizes with us in body, mind and spirit. That’s another long topic, but let me say this. Look around you and if where you are and the world you are allowing to exist is not in harmony with what you believe, then stop looking for us to come down and save you. You created this little by little in your daily lives, because let me tell you, Light, Harmony, Joyful pleasant existence with other Beings, cannot live as long as you recognize ‘Us’ and ‘Them’. There is only ever ‘Us’.

We prefer to live in certain way where we are close to people who vibrate like us, but when Vibration is understood, along with synchronization, you will understand that whatever our vibration is, creates what surrounds us.

The Democrats blame the Republicans and the Republicans blame the Democrats, but no one says, ‘Hey! I’m creating this vibration of energy’. Saying and doing are two different things. You say both, I want peace and comfortable coexistence, yet the war continues.

Now amidst you are many who would say, ‘Let’s leave it in the hands of the Divine, no matter; just jump in and go with the flow’. These people often end up in a military-like atmosphere because they really do want the flow directed by the Light. It’s all Energy and it’s all Light, as long as we don’t redirect it.

Do you realize that you are the only ones who can choose how to direct it? This has been called The Experiment of Free Will. What would happen if all of us have free will, because you know so most of us here have chosen to eliminate aspects of Free Will? That is also another long story, but you humans have free will.

From our perspective it gives moments of amazing courage and love for humanity, it is asserting peace while preparing for war, which confuses me. How could you hope to believe that this would be successful? But it is not my desire to get political here. I have come to speak of vibration, synchronicity and how it creates your world; just in case you’ve been wondering. Mary would say, ‘you digress’, and I do. Back to the point.

Your entire world is populated with beings who are essentially the same substance as you are. These beings had certain needs, depending on the climate they inhabited; for example, when things were pretty cold for you. You drew your energy together and all wished it was warmer or easier to live and so you created things with this energy because you were all in harmony. But once you were warm, and not worried about food or survival any more, you began to start losing your connection with things that were outside of your personal comfort zone. You lost the courage to live your spirituality. You lost contact with your source and so you learned not to trust.

Not trusting the outer is good advice, it changes constantly. When you build a strong connection with the material melodrama of all life, you become gradually lost. It is your Soul that is connected to eternity. It is Your Soul that will recognize your path back to the Source. Your fellow travelers are taking their own path up the mountain and they will find their spirituality through their own heritage.

It is arrogant to believe that yours is the only path to God. Others will sustain themselves with whatever their Soul needs at the moment. Do not judge each other. The ‘I AM’ is in all forms. It is a wise soul who sees that and bows to the fact that we play different roles in the drama, but we need each other to complete this journey and when the vibration of earth is Peace then all will be peaceful

I am here to remind many of you how far you have come in the past 20 years or more. It is time to spread your Light into wherever you feel called to do so. It is time to hold up the Lamp for those coming out of the darkness. It is time to correct your thinking when it comes to feeling mistrust of another’s spiritual ways or cultural heritage.

Yes, that part is different, but we are all eternal souls, striving for the Light in whatever way we can find it. We were all created from the same substance by the same Source. As Sly and the Family Stone tried to tell you years ago, ‘We Are Family’.

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If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always
Mary

Creation through Intention and Determination - a 'Must' for us all

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 18 Jul 2016 15:23:00 +0000

Greetings Fellow Travellers,

It’s getting closer and closer to the time that my book will be in print. I feel like an expectant mother waiting for those first signs of labor. Actually, the labor came in wondering whether or not to write the book in the first place. When the opportunity finally did arrive, I wondered if I had anything to say - and it seems that I really do; quite a lot in fact.

As you are aware, the main work that I do is a kind of spiritual counselling. Many years ago it started out as psychic readings and there is still a bit of that involved, but as my clients evolved spiritually, and you did, amazingly so, I found that what they needed was a chance to make sense of what was going on in their lives; and how best to use what they had learned spiritually in order to weather the storms.

As you all hear me keep saying, we are going through some powerful times. They are times in which our whole lives and how we live them are changing. Things that we counted on, banks, religious institutions, pensions, jobs, are no longer working the way they used to in the past. In short, the outer is in a state of flux and the only solid ground to stand on is the inner, our spiritual belief system.

For many, what we believe spiritually has been an intellectual journey that we began after feeling a sort of disconnect with the old spiritual ways. We wanted more involvement, more personal contact with the Creative Force of Life. I use that term because many have experienced a ‘disconnect’ even with the word God.

So the search began, and now we are at a time when it’s vital to take what we have learned and what speaks to our heart and put it to use. I feel that I am not in any way overstating the word ‘vital’ because if we do not find our form of God, and thereby establish a relationship where we know that we are a part of the Creative Process which is shaping our world, we are in danger of becoming isolatingly lost.

Inevitably we will be doomed to feel like the victims of this whole process. It will seem as if we are out of control with ‘Life’ happening to us instead of being created by us; with the help of Divine Beings who have only our highest good at heart.

The Light is always more powerful than the Darkness, If you are reading these words, you are already a Warrior of the Light. You are here to bring in this New Age, not by sitting and shaking your head and bemoaning what is happening to you as the Darkness tries to push you into a corner of Fear and take over the process of Creation. You are here to bring in this New Age by realizing what a Powerful and Magnificent Being you are and how your Goodness has attracted Loving and Light filled Beings to join with you to create peace, harmony, love and prosperity in a world where no one wants and no one is treated with inequality.

It was the desire of my heart, to write a book that would help all of us remember our Spiritual Power. To remember where we came from and to remember why we are here, no matter what our personal experiences are. Part of the anti-Light energy is to keep us so stirred up about matters which focus our energies on family, money, health and faith, that we end up becoming far too distracted to become the Blazing Light the we are; and to use that Light to Create a World of Love.

It is my intention and sincere hope that my book will help you and very many others like you to understand the problems that we all face. The very special energy which is contained within it will help you to remember that you are not a victim of these problems while encouraging you to establish your connection with the Divine Creator.

I have written many prayers to help you to see my own process for staying connected to this non-judgmental Force. We are all created of that same sublime substance and so we all have the right to call upon that Force for anything we need to help us stay calm, balanced and positively committed in our intent.

My book has been lovingly created with a broad audience in mind and I have been guided to adopt a style which will prove to be comfortable, beneficial and uplifting for people of all faiths and beliefs. It is a book for everyone, and something which should serve many generations to come.

One very important purpose of writing what I have, is to emphasize the message that we are all, first and foremost, Spiritual Beings. In the craziness of our lives we so often lose sight of this. Becoming much more conscious of this aspect of who we truly are will help to bring about the changes which we are undergoing in a much less confusing way. The many prayers which I have felt the inspiration to write are intended to serve as a reminder that we are eternal Spirits who are just here temporarily, while learning as much as we need to from the uniqueness of our Human experience.

Through using my book to refer to it whenever the need arises, hopefully it will prompt you to appreciate that you are the one who has created what currently exists in your life today. If it transpires that you experience an uncomfortable feeling as a result of this awareness, let’s get together so that we can figure out what you have learned and what can be done so that you can create something more fulfilling.

The writing of my special prayers comes from my heart with the specific intention of reaching out to yours. Its energy encourages your awareness to recognize the wisdom and peace which constantly flows from within. All answers are present within you if you just but choose to spend the time so as to listen; my sincerest wish is that you do this.

If you feel that you could use some help in dealing with any kind of issues that may be coming up for you then please get in touch. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

With much love and light as always
Mary

My New Book - Everyday Prayers for Everyday Miracles - will be out shortly. If all goes according to plan, it will be published in paperback at the end of July. An eBook is planned to follow soon after that.

I have created it with a lot of love so that you can have something to keep with you every day and then use it in these challenging times where it will be your little helper, like having me with you.

Just send me an email if you would like to reserve a copy, or look for it on Amazon etc. in a few weeks time.

Silence and Creation

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Tue, 05 Jul 2016 08:55:00 +0000

Greetings Fellow Travellers;

As I’m sure you are aware, we are all in the midst of some very unusual times. Never before in recorded human history has so much information been readily available to us. However, the sheer volume of material in and of itself creates its own problems, mainly through our efforts of trying to make sense of everything. As a consequence of this, never before has there been so much widespread confusion in the masses.

Our difficulties lie in the fact that we are in this time of transition which is creating conflict between the mind (or intellect) and the Higher Self (or Intuition). We have been told for years that the answers are within and yet we still have a tendency to seek them from without. Blogs, channelings, workshops and classes can all impart information which stimulates the receptors in your soul. You recognize it as truth, but you cannot tell your intellect why. The intellect will try to hold on to its supremacy by demanding reason behind your choice.

At this crucial stage of our evolution, there is precious little time for reason. In the past we have found proof in science or in ancient texts, but change is coming rapidly now and so it really is important to stay in sync with truth; and especially the way of the soul.

Each one of you has a knowing. It is a clear knowing and yet you may not be able to say why you know. All of these energy times starting back to the harmonic convergence in 1986 through the messages of the planetary configurations, Dec 21, 2012 up to this latest extended retrograde period of five planets are changing you in ways which it’s difficult to comprehend the full scope of.

You don’t need to be seeking it or even watching for it. It just happens to every living being on the planet. We are all in the truly amazing process of evolving at our own rate, but this doesn’t mean that we can’t exercise control over what’s happening to us. We each have gifts and are much more psychic or intuitive than we were ever aware of. This is important to remember as we progress on our journey.

In order to do so we must remain vigilant while ensuring that our intellect always makes make room for all of our talents. It can no longer be allowed to reign as king; as it has for so long. Balance must return in all aspects of our lives.

To enable this to happen, there is a feminine side coming forth in all of us; whether male or female, we all have both. We are destined to be the instigators of this process where the next several generations will learn to bring the male and female essence into perfect balance. This in turn will create the harmony on earth which we all long for.

What can I do now to ensure that I learn what I need to?

The reason that there is so much information is quite simply because many feel that they have so much to say. Wading through all of this is like searching for gold, so here are a few tips to help you make sense of things.

As you listen to new speakers and as you read new blogs, it’s important to ask yourself, ‘What in this communication is of any value to me?’

In respect of this, beware of these conditions which cloud the issue and only lead to more confusion -

1.    The speaker or writer uses a lot of spiritual words, but doesn’t really say anything clearly. If you find yourself having to work hard in order to understand what’s being said, then it isn’t a message that you need to hear.

2.    What is being said to you is either written or spoken with a lot of confusing rhetoric. Remember, truth is always simple and not to be found in empty words. One of the greatest truths ever expressed was carved on a temple archway. It simply stated – ‘Be Bold, Be Loving and Be Silent’. You don’t need a lot of complicated words to express the truth.

3.    If you sense a lot of ‘ego’ coming from the speaker or writer, run in the opposite direction! Egotists are invariably very confused, but speak their ‘truths’ in terms or absolutes. This is positively dangerous.

You may find this trait in those people who say that they, or their groups, are ‘chosen’. If the speaker or writer gives you the feeling that he or she is experiencing things that you will not experience in your lifetime, then their message will not be meaningful or of any use to you.

Truth and the ‘way’ are open to everyone who seeks them and are never exclusive.

The kingdom of heaven is within each of us and we know how to get there. It’s where we have come from and where we shall return to. Trust that quiet voice within you which recognizes the truth and the ‘way’ and don’t allow yourself to be confused by all the noise on the Internet

Follow the pathway of your truth to wherever your heart is drawing you towards and always beware of your intellect trying to change the direction that your intuition has set for your highest good. You deserve to be happy while finding the way forward which leads you to the place of your ultimate contentment.

If you feel you could use some help figuring out what is coming to you. If I can help you on your spiritual journey in any way, I am available to you in phone consults 30 or 60 min on 828-252-7573. Or if you prefer you can contact me by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

If you would just like to comment on this blog then psychic1@bellsouth.net is the best way.

Enjoy the journey
In Love and Light as always
Mary

The Solstice Energies and You

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 23:11:00 +0000

Greetings Fellow Travellers,

As you are probably aware, we are at that powerful time of year once more, the Summer Solstice. It seems to have come around so quickly again doesn’t it, but that’s because time is speeding by as we head relentlessly onwards towards our ultimate destination.

Many of you may be getting ready for graduation, or to send your baby out of the nest and off to college. Some are getting ready for weddings while others think about vacations or even just taking stock of their lives while making benefit from the renewed sense of optimism and promise.

June is historically a busy month and so, inevitably, it seems to come thundering through our life like a strong wind. This energy carries with it the encouragement to change while being faced with different and sometimes difficult choices.

Even if you pay no attention to the placement of the planets and the moon, it might be good to realize what is happening in the physical world. I won’t confuse you by telling you it’s the longest and shortest day of the year. Our brothers and sisters below the equator are enjoying the winter solstice and we in the north are enjoying summer; so perceptions are far from universal. It’s part of life and why we all see things so differently. This in turn contributes to the richness of experience which makes life such a challenge.

With this in mind I felt that it might be an idea to offer some guidance in the respect of what you can do so as to feel grounded at a time which may have its moments of seeming to be overwhelming. Here is what I would suggest –

ACTIVITIES TO BRING YOUR ENERGY IN HARMONY

WITH THE SOLSTICE

1)    Enjoy your family and friends – take the time to truly appreciate all that you have been blessed with. Remember that everyone in your life is there for a purpose so as to teach you valuable lessons ( whether you label them as being positive or negative. )

2)    Make a determined effort to leave your work at work; where it belongs – this is not a time to clutter up your mind with the energy of worry and stress. The Solstice brings the opportunity of renewal and re-energization so that you are able to see your chosen path more clearly. To help you do this -

3)    Get a very small plant and nurture it. As you put it in good soil imagine that it represents your hopes for the future. Tend it and watch it grow. If you don’t necessarily have green fingers, pick a hardy plant.

This is the time to think about dreams and where you might want things to go. Don’t stay in dreamland, come back to the power of the moment because that is where your dreams will manifest from.

This is also the time of year to renew your commitment to yourself. So many of you beautiful souls have spent your lifetime in care of others where you often give up your own desires so that everyone else will be happy. In doing so, you don’t even take a moment to ask what it is that your desire would be. This is so important, especially at this time of our year. So, I have a request.

I am asking you to write down three activities that would cost no money to do, but that would bring you happiness. Think about this please. Take some time to really search within yourself for what this means to you. Don’t be tempted to take the easy route and just say ‘world peace’; I know you all want that. Keep it intimately personal. What is it that would make ‘you’ really happy in a very practical and meaningful sense?

After having written your list, then ask yourself when was the last time you did these three things? You may be surprised to find out that it has been a while. So the next thing I would say is what is more important than giving yourself the same love that you give to everyone else. Try to make it a habit of giving your internal spirit the uplifting sense of joy, at least once a week; preferably every day.

So, as you nurture your solstice plant, talk to it while encouraging it to take the air that it needs and the moisture that it wants. If you over or underwater it, ask its forgiveness while doing the same for yourself in regards to the omissions and errors which have crept unconsciously into your life. Remember, growth is about progress, not perfection. We are all in a continuous process of learning as we mature and blossom, like your plant. Let it grow, prosper and achieve its full expression of beauty in the warmth of the life-giving sunlight as you do the same.

Happy Solstice and may your coming year bring health happiness and prosperity.

With much to you love and light as always

Mary

I have created it with a lot of love so that you can have something to keep with you every day and then use it in these challenging times where it will be your little helper, like having me with you.

Just send me an email if you would like to reserve a copy, or look for it on Amazon etc. in a few weeks time.

CHALLENGING PLANETARY ALIGNMENTS

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Sun, 29 May 2016 23:04:00 +0000

THE AMAZING PLANETARY ALIGNMENTS AND HOW THEY HELP AND BLOCK YOU

Love to All of You Fellow Travellers,

Just when you think it is safe to go out of the house, 5, count them, 5 planets went retrograde on you. Retrograde is when the planet appears to be going backwards from our stance on the earth. The planet actually continues in its orbit, but its energy hits us in a pushing inward motion rather than a pulling out of our inner reactions.

We have all experienced the fun that Mercury retrograde can cause with messages, appointments, travel arrangements, computers and automobiles; just to name a few things. Well just wait … it gets better.

Jupiter, which governs our prosperity, was retrograde, but has now gone direct. However, Mars, Saturn and Pluto remain in retrograde, although Mercury just joined Jupiter in direct motion. Now remember, all of this energy is directed into your heart and soul and requires quiet time from you to sort things out. If you do that, you should make huge inroads in your life direction. If you continue to fight the flow of the energy, you will find yourself swimming upstream and making progress at the rate of a Cohoe Salmon. Which, for those of you who did not grow up in salmon country, is pretty darn slow.

It’s wake-up time, and those of you who have bravely chosen to remain and see this grand transformation through, you need to get off the fence and quit waiting for the leader to come to show you the way. The time is now and the leader is you. What’s more, I see such amazing growth in so many of my clients that I am more than convinced that you all have whatever wisdom is needed to navigate this adventure.

I’m excited for all of us. I can’t wait to see where and on what adventures it takes you. I thought I’d drop some hints for those of you who may be wondering.

ARIES: Can we say explosion? You’re angry at yourself. You’re angry at others and the energy is directing you to take a good hard look at your life path. Anger and sexual tension may be disguising itself at the moment. It’s time to get clear.

TAURUS: You are probably navigating the storm better than most. Mercury was retrograde and messed you up a bit and your finances required some prudent attention, but Jupiter was the first to go direct and Mercury followed so for you the worst is over. Try to remember what you learned, particularly about money, because there will be a test.

GEMINI: Silence is golden for you right now, however; it may also be nearly impossible. You will find the need to share your insights. Please take a look at the pronoun, they are YOUR insights; take some quiet time to see how they apply. Mars and Saturn Oppose you right now, not to be mean, but to slow you down so you can process what you’ve learned.

CANCER: Time to look at finances and make some changes. Who is undermining you? How does the rug get pulled out from under your feet just when you are getting ahead? There is a pattern here. Go within and find it. I’ve no doubt you will figure it out.

LEO: This is an exceptionally good time for you. It is a time of great change and you may not like that you have to look at situations through new eyes. The energy is a Trine so it will be gentle, but you will see how you are undervalued and when the realization comes strongly into your heart, change will be right behind. You won’t have to do a thing. You will recognize it on sight.

VIRGO: You have just come through a time of deep contemplation of finances and how you want to have more serenity in that area of your life. Take a deep breath, it’s on your doorstep. Change may not always be peaceful, but if you let the bricks fall, the transition can be swift.

LIBRA: You are the peacemaker, the balancer. Let’s try to be a little more peaceful in relationships, especially those closest to you. You don’t have to carry it all by yourself. It’s time to realize that most of what you worry about never comes true. Like the song says … Let It Go!

SCORPIO: You never forget a slight or a snub, but try not to burn your bridges. There are those from your past who are willing to help you advance. You’re ready for the changes. Prosperity and travel bring happiness; if you handle these times well. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you are wrong, it just means you are done wasting any more energy on things that are far in the past.

SAGITTARIUS: Mars and Saturn are retrograde and opposing the Sun and Venus. Time to tread lightly, especially if you are in the mood to be critical; it is very likely to come out meaner than you intend. You like to have the last word, but right now silence is golden and meditation is crucial.

CAPRICORN: Although not a gambler by nature, in fact often cautious to your detriment, it is nevertheless important to think deeply about a proposed investment. Unexpected conditions may derail predicted profits. You are honest and hard working, but not everyone shares your integrity.

AQUARIUS: You the idealist of the zodiac. You want a perfect world, but often that perfect world starts at home. Many things have been challenging over the past few weeks. Finances, work, health issues and relationships have all caused their own brand of stress. Forget the world for a moment and look within to how you can improve relationships closer to home.

PISCES: This is a crazy time for you and yet you could not even know it. You take closing your eyes to personal truth to an art form. But, be gentle with yourself because the motivation is a fear of being alone and unloved as life goes on. You need to look within and look hard. Stop trying to prove to others that you are lovable; prove it to yourself to the point where you don’t need the approval of anyone except your own heart.

I hope this has been helpful and as always I am here to help you make sense of your challenges. Let your heart lead you and if you need me, you can call 828-252-7573 for an appointment.

With much to you love and light as always

Mary

I have created it with a lot of love so that you can have something to keep with you every day and then use it in these challenging times where it will be your little helper, like having me with you.

Just send me an email if you would like to reserve a copy, or look for it on Amazon etc. in a few weeks time.

The Solstice, Chaotic Times and You

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 15 Jun 2015 23:30:00 +0000

Hi Everyone,

So many of my clients have been calling to ask, “Is it just me, or are these days since the great change more difficult than ever?” The answer to their question is that if they are difficult then you probably have a pretty good chance of reaching 4th dimensional consciousness.

I think a lot of the channelled material kind of glossed over the difficulty of the transformation of our energy. They led us to believe that either they would send energy to do it for us, or they were playing with the strands of our DNA and we wouldn’t have to do much, except just be present.

Here are some of the characteristics that will be present when you are ready.

You won’t get angry. You will have such faith in the Divine plan and your ego will be so much in check that you will no longer be presumptuous to the point of figuring that you know best. St. Germain recommends that when you get challenged you simply say, “I have no opinion about this situation.” At this time when the political camps are beginning to let us hear the sounds of their engines, preparing to do battle, observe yourself and see how heated you can get about how things should be.

Negative thinking will have vanished from your consciousness. As you approach 4th dimensional consciousness, you will become more and more aware of how powerful your thoughts and words are. You will become conscious of your thoughts and words and energy. Not just when you are in prayer or affirming your desires, but in between when you are wiping out the energy you just produced in affirmations with an equally and sometimes greater force of fear. Your feelings, words and thoughts radiate out of your third eye like a giant grow-light, bringing the creative force to whatever they are focused on. Be careful where you aim that power.

Fear will also be gone. After all, you are very nearly an Ascended Master so what is there to fear? What do you care about how people interpret you? You know everything comes from love. This life is all ‘school’ and the situations are here for our growth, so how could any of it really hurt you? You are an eternal being of Light. That is the only thing that is real. Everything else is a story your ego is constantly telling you so as to justify fear. Everything in life is an expression of Love or an expression of fear, which is ultimately a cry for love and you very quickly can see the difference and you correct your energy with ease.

Politics and Awareness

Here in America we are moving into yet another political race for the presidency. Americans are very passionate in their political debates but they seldom seem to be about the issues; even when the vast majority of Americans care deeply about the issues. The political campaigns very quickly descend into personal attacks of what is known as mud-slinging, gossip and innuendo. I don’t know how it is in other countries, I only know how it is in the USA.

As you know everything starts with energy. We all look to schools or governments to change things, but change comes from within each of our hearts. I don’t care which side of the Obama debate you were on during that election, but let me just say this - if we could have got back even half of the energy that was extended trying to decide about his birth certificate, maybe those elected officials, elected by us, might have been able to find some answers to education or unemployment.

Try to go into this next campaign with mindfulness. Ask yourself with each commercial and with each debate if you can tell the intention that is being set by the energy. Is it positive or negative? Is it going to build a better country or is it seeking to divide us? Because negative energy also creates. I’m not sure we would like what it will create, but it will create and whether you believe that or not will not change the outcome of that particular cosmic law.

These are serious times for us right now and we have serious issues in front of us. Some of those issues will affect our very survival if we let them. Make your voice heard for a positive and creative energy intention. Let your political organizations know that you want them to talk about meaningful issues and not waste time on debating personalities.

Many of us are so in despair that we are calling for ETs to come down and save us. But it’s not up to them. Change starts in the heart of each of us and we have created a mess and it is up to us to do what we can on an individual basis. When I was a girl, people had a habit of littering the streets without thinking. Then the majority got disgusted with it and they began campaigns to make others aware. Along with that many would pick up a few pieces of litter which they came across and then put it in the trash bins. It didn’t take long for the consciousness to change and the country to be cleaned up.

You can do this. Use your energy. You don’t have to do it all yourself. Just do what you can. Send an email and be specific about what you didn’t like. You may even need to send it to your own party; after all, they are representing you. Are you really a mud-slinger or do you just let them get away with it? There is a quote which I have always loved. “The only way for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing”.

You are warriors of the Light. Pick up your Light Sabers and change the world.

What a powerful time to renew your intention

Happy Solstice
Mary

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

Get to know Mother Nature

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Thu, 04 Jun 2015 11:40:00 +0000

Happy Summertime Everyone,

The mountains of Asheville are lush and green and summer is here. The whistle pigs are poking their heads out of their holes and the bears are out of hibernation where the new crop of cubs can be seen running after and learning from Mama.

One of the things that I really love about living in Asheville is the closeness of nature. In so many places mankind pushes their presence in and pushes the wild life out, but in Asheville we live in harmony with bears. I suppose it helps that the bears are very sweet, very shy and vegetarians. Yes they get in the garbage and if you leave your garage door open, they may think it’s a cave, but there are bear proof garbage cans and it only takes finding papa bear sleeping in the garage one time before you learn to close the door. The long-time residents are also very helpful in sharing that kind of information with the newcomers.

When I was studying astrology back in the early 60s, I remember my teacher telling us that we were very lucky because we would live through an age change. It happens in astrology every 2000 years and that the disruption of the early 60s, were signalling the dawning of the Age of Aquarius. I also remember an ancient Chinese cryptocurse which states, “May you be born in interesting times”.

We were excited about the Age of Aquarius. As the song predicts,

Harmony and understanding

Sympathy and peace abounding

No more falsehood or derision

Golden living dreams a vision

Mystic crystal revelation and

The mind’s true liberation

But as every astrologer will tell you, each sign has positive and negative sides. So, along with nuclear medicine and cures for polio and some cancers, we got the ability to communicate with the masses on the world wide web. Unexpectedly, along with this boon of instant global connectivity came feelings of isolation and loneliness which spawned a whole raft of new emotional diseases that have millions of people taking Prosac.

How do we handle this? We don’t handle it by stopping progress. We deal with it by keeping ourselves in harmony with the world that we live in. We make friends with Mother Nature; no matter where we live.

Unfortunately, in today’s world of instant communication and city living, so many of us live far away from Mother Nature. We live and work in climate controlled buildings. We get to these places in air conditioned cars and we exercise in climate controlled gyms. How much silence in natural surroundings is there in your life? If there isn’t a lot then I’m going to ask you to try an experiment.

THE EXPERIMENT

For the next six weeks, promise to give yourself 90 minutes in nature. The very best way would be to seek out a natural setting that is far from others. I know that some of you will need to use a city park, but if that is the case try to look for an area that is as private as you can find.

If possible, take your shoes and socks off and let your feet touch the Earth. You can sit on a blanket or cushion if you like, but no newspapers or magazines, no cell phones or tablets and no computers; not even any books. You will want nothing to distract you from the experience of just being one with, and at peace with, your surroundings.

This is not a meditation, although you will be aware of your breath and your thoughts. Don’t try to stop your thoughts. Just watch what they are. There is no right or wrong way to do this, so you can’t fail. Just commit to a time and a spot and you only need to do it once a week. Surely you are worth 90 minutes of your time.

It will more than likely take you 30 minutes to just calm down. So often the first time is spent noticing just how much your mind and body are racing. You may not calm down until the last 10 minutes, but don’t extend the experiment. Simply notice how you feel but don’t journal it or record it or even talk about it much. Practice observing and remembering everything about your experience. This time is just for you. It’s not to impress your spiritual development class with how well or how poorly you did. You are your own observer and the progress you notice is between yourself and you.

CREATIVITY AND SILENCE

We all need creativity in our life. It doesn’t matter if we are in the arts or not. All new ideas, all improved organizational skills, all self knowledge and even all spiritual connection comes because you give yourself a time to be perfectly still and not to be distracted by people or media whether written or electronic. You may not feel inspired the first day but if you repeat this exercise on a weekly basis then your intuition will thrive.

So many of my clients are searching for their purpose in life, the right job, or love. But if you don’t make room for these things to find you, the Aquarian lighting bolt can be revealing many magical mysteries none of which you will see if you are too focused on your iPhone to notice. There is nothing wrong with playing games on the computer. It’s good to give your mind the opportunity to relax once in a while but it’s even better to give our whole energy a chance to relax and just be.

I want you to know that I believe in you. I’m so excited to have the opportunity to coach so many of you and to watch the shift in power which you manifest as a result. Nowadays you’re not coming to me for the old type of readings, although there may still be some of that at times. You are coming for confirmation of where your own intuition is leading you and you are coming for techniques to help you achieve your goals. This is a true sign of change; the positive indication of self-empowerment which is a hallmark of the Aquarian age.

I am so grateful to be a part of your journey.
Life just keeps getting better and better.

In Love and Light

Mary

Many have been telling me that they are having trouble responding to these blogs.You can always reach me at marypompeoservices@gmail.com or just call at 8282527573

The Equinox and its Important Message for Us All

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Sun, 22 Mar 2015 23:24:00 +0000

Happy Equinox Everyone,

It certainly has been an interesting Equinox with the eclipse bringing us some intriguing promises for the end of April. Eclipses grand slam the weather or world politics, so it will be interesting to see what this brings us around the 20th of this coming month. We certainly are living in some very exciting and transformational times.

I know I have written about this before, but I feel that I can’t remind you often enough. It’s important to do things differently from what you have been used to doing in the past. Our parents and even those of us who were born between the 30s and 80s had our impressions and opinions strongly formed as a result of the Age of Pisces. We have a tendency to glorify the “good old days” and so have been feeling increasingly uncomfortable with this new Age of Aquarius; with its technology and its upsetting of the old ways by virtue of its dramatic changes.

This last era was filled with messages from TV shows such as ‘Leave it to Beaver’ or ‘Ozzie and Harriet’, among others, which portrayed an ‘ideal’ two parent home which was strongly influenced by their permanence. The mother didn’t work, the father was the provider where he was always interested in what their two or three children did. Today is different where the reality of life has changed greatly.

Now we have a situation where many homes have single parent families because the father is absent from the lives of mother and child, or children. If you have grown up thinking that the ideal situation is ‘Leave it to Beaver’, but you are out there on your own as a single parent, then it’s very difficult not to end up feeling that you’ve got it wrong somehow. Blame and guilt are the natural responses to this apparent dilemma.

When you think that your children are going to somehow be disadvantaged or made less than what’s deemed necessary because you can’t give them this ‘ideal’, which isn’t even an ideal any more, then attitudes need to change. At this point it’s necessary to say ‘What is in my life here? What is the Age of Aquarius bringing me? We need to do this because it’s not ‘wrong’ it’s just ‘different’ and so we have to adapt to the ‘different’ by letting go of the ideals which existed in our parents’ days. Letting go of the past means allowing something new to come into our lives. Change doesn’t have to mean getting worse. It’s simply an opportunity to grow and expand if you are able to positively embrace it.

Whatever the ‘new’ brings then it’s important to approach it with the attitude of ‘I will be the best that I can without bringing forward the judgmental ideals of the past’. In the case of a single parent then it’s okay to say that I will do the very best I can while appreciating my limitations and not condemning myself for them. By stating that ‘I will be the best mother by giving all my love’ while knowing that it’s not possible to be the father as well, then this releases the restricting patterns of old.

Many of us watched our fathers work for the same company for decades while he looked forward to the prospect of retiring on a pension and then spending the rest of his days as a grandparent who often made a hobby out of tending the garden. Today’s Aquarian children have no such aspirations while frequently changing jobs because the Aquarian Age changes things quickly. That’s its purpose, so we have to adapt to a different ideology which the youth of today treats as the norm.

The Hopi Nation in Arizona spoke of this new era change and the energies within it. I have included their prophecy at the end of this blog. They are urging us to live consciously during these times and not out of habit in the ways that our parents always did things.

Don Miguel Ruiz writes in his book, The Four Agreements - Don’t Take Things Personally. We are in a time when everyone is changing and growing at a remarkable pace. Most people are too busy with their own transformation to bother observing and making comment about ours. Don’t assume that if people react oddly around you that it has anything at all do with you. You can notice this as you have conversations with work people and friends. People will happily tell you all of their challenges, but often let an entire conversation go by without asking anything about you. It’s not that they are unfeeling, it’s simply that they are overwhelmed by the speed that things are happening.

Have courage, push yourself away from the shore and let the current of the river carry you to its destination, which might not be your destination, but will certainly be the place where you will evolve most spiritually and where you will find the most peace.

We all wanted to be here for these times. We volunteered to experience them. Don’t hide under a rock, embrace these changes, they are evolving you towards your total transformation,

There is a River, Now Flowing Very Fast

We Are the Ones We've Been Waiting For
You have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour.
Now you must go back and tell the people that this is The Hour.
And there are things to be considered:
- Where are you living?
- What are you doing?
- What are your relationships?
- Are you in right relation?
- Where is your water?
- Know your garden.
- It is time to speak your Truth.
- Create your community. Be good to each other. And do not look outside yourself for the leader.

This could be a good time!

There is a river flowing now very fast. It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on to the shore. They will feel they are being torn apart, and they will suffer greatly.

Know the river has its destination. The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off into the middle of the river, keep our eyes open, and our heads above the water. See who is in there with you and celebrate.

At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally. Least of all, ourselves. For the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and journey comes to a halt.

The time of the lone wolf is over. Gather yourselves!

Banish the word struggle from your attitude and your vocabulary.

All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.

We are the ones we've been waiting for.

--The Elders Oraibi Arizona Hopi Nation --

In love and Light
Mary Pompeo

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

Happy New Year and What it Will Mean for You

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Fri, 02 Jan 2015 15:04:00 +0000

Hi Everyone,

Well here we are at the threshold of a New Year. I don’t think too many of us will be sorry to see 2014 wave farewell. 2015 has to be better, right? I’ve learned not to challenge the Universe with phrases such as – ‘it can’t possibly get worse.’

If you are curious about what kind of a year it will be for you - in other words, what the focus of your experience will be - simply take the month and day of your birth and add it to 2015. Then reduce it to a one digit number by adding the numbers horizontally. For example -

April 15 added to 2015 works like this. April is the 4th month so I start with the 4 and then reduce the 15 to 6 ( because one plus five equals six ). 2015 reduces to an eight ( 2+0+1+5 = 8 ). So I add the four and six and get a ten. Then I add the one and zero together and get a one. I add the one to the eight of 2015 and get 9. The numbers stop at 9 because 10 reduces to one. ( 1+0 = 1 ).

So the whole process for April 15th 2015 looks like this –
( 4 + 15 + 2015 changes to 4 + 6 + 8 which equals 18 - then 1 + 8 = 9 )

For each of the numbers from 1 to 9, there is a specific and meaningful significance which applies. Below I have listed a brief outline of what each number means in terms of its general influence on your life.

1.    The year of the self and examining who you are and where you are at the moment. Are you living in the past? Are you dreaming of the future? Or are you fully present in the moment.
2.    A two personal year will be about your relationships. It will be about all kinds of relationships, work, friendship, family and intimate relationships of the heart.
3.    A three year examines your place in the world. Career issues are large in this year. It’s a good time to start a business or write a business plan.
4.    Four year is a year of hard work. What you put into this year is what you will bet back. If you started that business last year. This year you will see it grow
5.    Five is a year of change. Change by design and change by chance. All changes which come to you, even the unexpected ones will lead to your highest good. If you are initiating the changes you will find they happen easily.
6.    Six is the year of the family. Issues regarding family can not be ignored during this cycle. If there have been arguments in the family this year will bring new understanding and the potential for peace.
7.    Seven year will bring your attention within, to your spiritual or perhaps your psychological life. Meditation or long quiet walks where you can have the peace to think is just what you need in a seven year.
8.    Eight is a money year. You will notice news about the economy and on a personal level your finances will require your attention. This is often the year of raises or money coming in from unexpected sources. Because 2015 is a global money year, this overlying vibration will effect us all, but more particularly and more personally those who have a personal eight year.
9.    Nine is the end of the cycle. It is a time of release from your life of things that are in the way of you realizing your highest good. Don’t fret over losses. In a nine year, nothing goes which doesn’t need to go. Loss of a job, breakup in a marriage, even loss of friends or family members is all according to Divine Plan.

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As always, if you need more help figuring out just how the vibration of the New Year will affect your personal life; just call 828-252-7573, and we can set a time to talk.

More than ever the Universe is speaking to so many. It is calling you, really, to have the courage to answer the call of your heart. So many of you were raised to be humble but part of humility is admitting what your talents are and what you’re good at.

In nearly fifty years of looking at your auras, I’m always amazed at how unaware you are of your unique specialness. When I see you or when I answer the phone and hear your voice and see your aura, I’m often blown away. I see an amazingly Unique being of Light. I feel I must be speaking with a highly evolved soul. That is the truth of your being, but circumstances of life have often hidden that from you.

Children are precious. I see that with my grandchildren and the children that they play with. The love and encouragement of their caregivers makes all the difference in how they grown up feeling about themselves.

My New Years Wish for all of you is that you come to truly know the magnificent being that you are and that you are able to throw off any critical conditioning that may have been a part of your past experience. You would not be here searching for the truth and for your spiritual destiny if you were not meant to take part in the evolution of this world. It’s time to accept your uniqueness and use it to transform your world.

Happy 2015
In Love and Light
Mary

You are the Person that You've been Waiting For

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 02 Jun 2014 21:59:00 +0000

Dear Friends,

As I write these words, the mountains of North Carolina are lush with infinite shades of green while being silhouetted against the backdrop of a gentle blue sky. Through observing them, I also become aware of a variety of energetic bird songs which I wish that I knew much more about. In thinking this, I am reminded of my admiration for those around me, and many others, who are able to not only recognize their species from simply hearing them sing but also interpret their language as well.

These gifted souls, who can hear this ‘bird-speak’, are able to eavesdrop on their communications. Some even know if they are telling us rain is on the way or that it’s mating season or if there are any threats in the area. Birds and animals have the ability to discern the natural order of things while appreciating that there is an order to the entire world; just as there is an order to the Universe.

You will notice that I use the word ‘order’, rather than predictability. There is an order to our lives as well, even though they are not always predictable. These days, many of you I’m sure would be more inclined to apply the word ‘unpredictable’ to your experiences. I hear from so many of you who are having to cope with unexpected challenges, whether it be in family relationships or change in career or health. Things are definitely unpredictable and many of us cling to the raft of life as it gets tossed about in strong currents. We may try to paddle or steer, but sooner or later we learn that it is best to let the current take hold and see where we land.

It sounds scary, but like my mountain neighbors, we too can learn to read the signs and omens. The Universe speaks to us very clearly. I find this again and again as I see clients in stress. Signs and omens are there all along but factors prevent those signs from being accurately read. The first factor is that many do not believe that they are worthy of being given signs. Somewhere in their past they have picked up the idea of unworthiness. They believe that the Universe just dropped them into a set of seemingly impossible circumstances and then just left them to fend for themselves; this same Universe that communicates with its tiniest creatures. When you think about it that way, it doesn't make sense.

The second factor is that their own ego or intellect has decided ahead of time what ‘should be’ and so it does not listen to the signs, no matter how often they are repeated or how strongly they are communicated. Each one of you has incarnated upon this earth in this life at this time for a purpose. Many are out of touch with what that purpose is. I can't tell you how many of my clients ask me to tell them what their purpose is. But the truth is that your purpose is a life long journey of discovery, and it starts with consciously developing an intimate knowledge of yourself.

The first step of knowing yourself is asking your heart what makes you happy and then listening to it. Your journey this life time can be divided up into one of two things. You are either searching for your purpose in life, or you are fulfilling your purpose. The other thing I should tell you is that while your purpose often becomes your occupation, it doesn't necessarily start out that way. So don't associate your purpose with a job.

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM FULFILLING MY PURPOSE

1. It is always in the present moment. It will not be found in the future, such as when I get rich I will open a shelter for the homeless. It is not something that you must train for, although once you begin it you may opt for more training.

2. If you have found it you will do it regardless of compensation. The activity itself will bring you such joy and happiness that you won't care if you make money at it. Of course when you let go of wanting something it often comes to you freely, so many people do make money fulfilling their purpose, but you must love it so much that you would do it whether there was money attached or not

3. You will lose track of time and troubles. The activity will absorb your attention so much that it becomes like a meditation and you lose track of time going by and you forget any troubles in the world that you may have. Your happiness is in the moment.

4. Your health will improve. Stress is at the root of many of our health problems. When stress disappears from our lives, so does illness.

If you want some hints as to what your purpose is, then here are some questions for you to ask yourself. I would suggest that you print this out and make a few copies. You may find that after you have meditated on your answers, you may want to answer differently.

QUESTIONS TO DISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE

1. What do I read about or watch on television?

2. If I could get a front row seat to hear a speaker on any subject, who would I listen to and what would the subject matter be?

3. What do I do for fun?

4. What have others told me I'm good at?

5. What areas do I feel confident in?

6. What do I wish I had an opportunity to learn more about or to experience?

7. If I had all the money in the world and all the time in the world and knew that I wouldn’t fail at it, what would I do?

You were born into this life for a purpose. You discussed what you wanted to get out of this life with a team of loving beings. You came with the help of an angel who was assigned just to you, to guard you and to protect you and to light your way to find your Highest Good.

We are in the midst of an Age Change. Many of you were disappointed because the Mayan predictions were misinterpreted by many. But make no mistake, there was an energy shift at that time and you are living with the results of that shift whether you acknowledge it or not. One of the consequences is change and that includes you.

It is no longer possible just to drift along in a state of unconsciousness. Every major event in your life is here to teach you something and every part of your life that disturbs you is a lesson. You can choose to see yourself as a victim as long as you appreciate that is indeed a choice. Certainly many have a history which makes that choice more than understandable. However; I have seen so many of my clients turn their lives around and achieve their happiness that I urge you to embrace your power. Learn to read the signs of your life. Make the course adjustments that you need to make and fulfill your destiny.

Remember, whenever you are facing your challenges, you never have to face them alone. Help is as close as your phone. I'm here to help you make sense of it all and to encourage you on your journey to express your highest good.

With love and light as always

Mary

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

Recognize, Acknowledge, Accept, Release

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Tue, 13 May 2014 16:16:00 +0000

Dear Friends,

With the combination of the full moon and this major cross still in effect, as the planets involved are slow movers, we are all experiencing a huge pull on our emotional and Akashic bodies. These subtle but powerful forces are completely irresistible where no one or no ‘thing’ is immune. So learn to accept what ‘is’ while going with the flow and giving up to the process which is now well underway.

This is a time to focus entirely on your own issues without feeling in any way guilty about doing so. It’s your time to find your true self without being concerned about whatever else is going on around you. There’s enough drama in your own experience to deal with and sort through without having to be concerned or conscious about that of others. As the energy intensifies and brings to the surface everything within us that holds us back from realizing our own Divinity, we need to look closely at our embedded belief systems and intuit whether or not they truly serve us well any longer.

Do they really support who we truly believe ourselves to be? If not, they have to go and this is the time to let this whole process happen while being an active and grateful participant in it. In doing so then it will serve to free us from this karmic-producing dance of longing and wanting for ‘ideals’ which were never of our making. Strive for acceptance of what is because ‘what is’, is perfect.

Yes I did say Perfect. And no, I'm not living a serene life with no bumps and precious little drama of my own. The difference is that over the years I have learned that the drama is a teacher and the lesson is to stay in my Divine consciousness. In other words, not to allow the drama to rattle me so much that I lose my cool and my objectivity. This is a time when keeping to the right path without straying from it is vital.

This is the path of freedom. It’s not an easy one, but it is a rewarding one. I urge you instead of hiding from the drama in your life to ask yourself, “What is this here to teach me?” If you are truly open-minded, and you can push the ‘ego’ to one side when you ask this question, the answers may well surprise you. The amazing thing is that we are all capable of getting those answers through a wonderful part of ourselves called The Higher Mental Body.

The sublime faculty of ourselves is the part that remembers and understands every life we have ever lived. It is keenly aware of each circumstance that has happened and what we hoped to learn from it and where we succeeded as well as where we are still a work in progress. The great thing is that you can communicate with this extremely valuable aspect of yourself whenever you feel the need to.

It’s best to do it right before sleep. There is no magic formula, simply say “Higher Mental Body, show me the truth of this situation.” Then take a deep breath and resolve that it will be okay for you to know that truth, even if it doesn't fit in with what you think it should be. Although the term ‘Higher Mental Body’ has the word ‘mental’ in it, in truth it’s more accurate to say that it’s aligned with the intuition than the mind. It will inspire you with the answer and you will feel its truth. It will never ‘dictate’ to you as the mind does.

Back in my earlier days, or as my kids call it … back in olden times, there was a song the lyrics of which really define a challenge that so many of us face today. Two of the lines were -

Tonight the look of magic's in your eyes

But will you love me tomorrow

In the musical Annie, she optimistically tells us that ‘Tomorrow is only a day away’. When times seem difficult it is sometimes easy to want to escape into tomorrow. We make plans for tomorrow. When the job comes, or when financial serenity is restored, when the relationship or our dreams is present in our lives. One wise being said “Life is what happens to us, while we are busy making other plans.”

Last week I talked about living consciously. It is so important to stay conscious and present in the moment. It is in the ‘moment’ where the power lies. A certain amount of visualization is healthy, but when most of our conversation and a great deal of our thoughts are centered around events that are not here yet, we tend to be ignoring what is right under our noses. This can very often prevent us from seeing the lessons that need to be cleared before we manifest what we desire.

So often I hear you say, I visualize every day. I say affirmations and decrees and nothing seems to be happening. If that is something that you are finding true in your life, I encourage you to explore staying in the now. Put down active visualization for a time. Tell yourself that you will have permission to pick it up later and then decide for yourself how long your experiment will last. Try it for a week. You may find it more challenging that you thought or it may be easy for you, but I do encourage you to try it.

An Experiment of Consciousness

Notice what you are doing.
Use your senses touch, taste, smell, and observe the color of the world that you live in
Take a deep breath of gratitude, “In this moment I have EVERYTHING that I need.” I don't have everything except a relationship or a prosperous bank account. In this moment I have everything that I need to be alive and sentient on this planet.
Look around and see all that you are grateful for. It’s true that there may be conditions of lack, but as we focus our Light and the energy of creation, it is the things that we are grateful for that we would like to empower with Divine Creative energy.
When you find your mind wandering to the future, bring it back. It may happen that you are making that call many times a day. That's okay. You are practicing a new skill.

Here is how it may go. You may be sitting at the table looking at the patterns of your dishes and cups and thinking “How beautiful this breakfast is! I am grateful for this food, especially when so many in the world go hungry. Thank you God for this wonderful food. … When I get my new job, I will donate to ‘Feed the Hungry’ and perhaps I'll plant a garden with my brother and we can share vegetables. '

Those two things are kind thoughts, but you have propelled yourself from the present, where things happen, to the future, which is just a dream, most of which never materializes. Think back on your life. Most of what you dreamed didn't happen and most of what you feared didn't happen, that’s because the creative energy for both loses its power when it is held there away from the present.

The Power for change is in the present moment. It may create a future for you, but you don't live in the future. Your power is in the now and, as I have said, ‘now’ is in a process of great flux where, more than ever, you need to pay attention and stay focused.

Remember if you are facing challenges you are not alone. Help is as close as your phone. I'm here to help you make sense of it all and to encourage you on your journey to express your highest good.

With love and light as always

Mary

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

Technology - Virtue or Vice?

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Wed, 07 May 2014 19:32:00 +0000

Dear Friends,

Are you enjoying this time of transformation? Aren't you glad that you signed up to incarnate during such an incredibly 'interesting' time? I can assure you that there really is a very good reason why we made the choice that we did but the trouble is for many of you that it's proving increasingly difficult to remember just exactly what it is.

Never has it been more important to meditate on this so as to connect with the core truth of your glorious infinite being. This is what provides you with the necessary degree of spiritual stability when you are so much in need of it. While doing this it will also give you lots of opportunities to practice being present in the moment; what the teachers call, Conscious Living.

At the very same time that we have this pressing need to engage in conscious living, we find ourselves being pulled away from this necessary state of awareness by all manner of electronic devices like phones, iPads and computers. Our lives can get to feel like one long immersion in thoroughly distracting 'can't-possibly-live-without' gadgetry.

This is the point where I hold my hand up and say that I'm not immune either. My iPhone recently disappeared. It is most probably in the house. If you asked me before I lost it, I would have said that I barely used it; my data and minutes bear this out. However, once it was gone then I realize that I actually get a lot of texts from my children; and of course with the grandchildren visiting for Easter it was my camera and my music not to mention it is where I keep track of all of my appointments.

I still want it back, but I am resolved to become more conscious of doing everything, including using my phone. The world is changing and that is part of it. Those of us who remember the world without smart phones smugly comment tsk tsk, just as our parents did over tv, but technology is here to stay, until it is replaced by something else. In the future it will probably be todays children saying the very same tsk tsk and in a similar manner while adding - 'In my day we held the device in our hand and had control over what went in it and now we have a computer chip in our arm and now its all controlled from another source'.

We aren't going to stop technology and things aren't going to go back the way they were when we were kids, that's not the way life works. Here are some tips for staying conscious as you use your devices

Breathe - Make it a habit to take a deep cleansing breath every time you pick up your phone or laptop or iPad. Take another deep breath when you change from texting to reading your e-mail.
Use the games as meditation. When your mind starts thinking of other things, go back to what you are doing in the game.
If you are using a hand held device, be aware of what it feels like against your hands.
If you are having lunch with someone, leave your phone in your purse; put it on silent and enjoy real human company

All of this is leading someplace. This is a time of transformation. Its important for you to discover what it is about you that is special, unique and joyful. If you are preoccupied, you will miss potential sources for happiness.

One of the great opportunities of this world is that we can go as far as our creativity and our persistence can take us. It is our feelings fear or unworthiness that limits us; that and distractions. Balance is the key. Work balanced with fun. Diligence balanced with humor, activity balanced with silence. Inspiration comes in those moments of silence when the television and the music are turned off and our technological devices are recharging. Take advantage of those moments of power to get involved in the world.

You are here for a purpose. So many of you who consult me already have a feeling of this. You sense that there is a purpose, you just have not discovered or remembered what that purpose is yet. The awareness of your purpose comes through the feeling world. Your body will give you hints, your heart might beat a little faster, your eyes might want to examine a little closer, you will feel excited, curious you will want to examine it and perhaps even to try. It is not important if you find your purpose with the first experience that draws your attention. The search and the journey is more important. Its more important because when you get used to what interest feels like, your own senses will lead you to where you are meant to be. Trust the journey.

Too often I hear things like, “ I took a class and I thought that was going to be it” this is almost always followed by a sad, downcast “ but it wasn't.” How wonderful. You got to scratch something off of your list. Perhaps it was something that you mastered in another lifetime, perhaps it was your last occupation.

There may be false starts, but those false starts will teach you something. They may teach you that you have more ability than you thought. They may be teaching you that it is safe to let the world know something about you, even if it doesn't lead to your true purpose. So many of you were raised in environments where it was necessary to fit in, otherwise you risked ridicule. It takes a while to overcome such things. Be patient with yourself.

That critical voice in your head has got to go. It doesn't matter if it came from mom or dad , or the school authorities, or your pastor or rabbi. It has to go. Whoever initiated it is long gone. Why carry their negative fears for them. The truth is, you were put here magnificent and unique to make a contribution to life. You may not know what that contribution is yet, but if you stay conscious you will find it.

The good news is that its never too late. Many of us who are enjoying the upper digits of aging will have another twenty years to discover what we want to do with our lives. More and more age is just a number and that is only going to get better.

Remember if you are facing challenges you are not alone. Help is as close as your phone. I'm here to help you make sense of it all and to encourage you on your journey to express your highest good.

With love and light as always

Mary

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

Inner Peace - another perspective

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 07 Apr 2014 18:57:00 +0000

Dear Clients and Friends

Today I have a real treat for you. Today's column is not written by me. It is written by someone I have come to have a great deal of respect for. When I asked him what it was I should put in his blurb, he suggested that I look on Amazon and see what was there. I did, but what I found there was so not the essence of the man I have come to know through his blogs, that I have decided to tell you why it is that I have chosen to share his work with you.

When I first moved to Asheville, I decided that if I was going to be a part of the spiritual community up here that I wanted to experience it as a member and not a teacher. I thought it would do my ego some good not to be the authority and I felt it was important for every teacher to spend time as a student, for perspective.

I searched for a group and the one that drew my attention was the Eckhart Tolle meditation group. The young man who led the group, did so with pure absence of ego, more so than I had ever experienced outside of India. Each week, the way he conducted the discussions and led us to experience the material taught me even more than the material itself.

I have great respect for Trey Carland as a man, as a teacher, as a fellow seeker. I encourage you all to read his blogs and his book A Seakers Guide to Inner Peace, which you will find helpful no matter where you are on the path.

Trey sees life as the experiences which teach us and in the following peace we can see how his young daughter is teaching him how desire gets so fixed in our mind that we decide things must be a certain fixed way in order for us to find happiness.

So without further hesitation. I share with you Trey Carland

Subject: I Want: The Birth of Desire

Dear Friends and Family,

I hope you and yours are doing well. Spring is in the air now, I think. We’ve been teased a bit here in WNC with dramatic swings in temperatures, but the flowers are waking up and reminding us it’s time for us to do the same :)

So, in case you hadn’t heard, our little Adorabella is almost two years old (hard to believe I know), and is learning the ropes of being a human. She is talking up a storm and it’s so much fun to listen to her pronounce things. It’s like she has a foreign accent that you can put your finger on, but she picks up on words so quickly. She’s a happy little sponge and loves to have fun singing, dancing, smiling, making funny noises, laughing, and let’s not forget crying. Despite what a happy toddler she is, she has her moments of frustration. The underlying cause seems to be the “desire” for something other than what’s happening at a given moment.

As best as I can tell, desire is born very early and just gets stronger and more well refined. At first it’s just preferences (i.e. I like this, not so much that). Then, entertaining activities enter the picture, like things that she seemingly can’t get enough of. For example, after we had our first big snow (which she loved), all she could say was, “I want walk snow all day.” She said this for weeks despite the disappearance of the snow. She would wake up and look out the window and say, “Hi snow,” even after it had all melted. It was sooo cute. She seemed okay with the snow leaving because we didn’t make a big deal out of it.

However, at a certain point desire brings on some attitude. “I want...” is the way our little girl begins most of her sentences these days. In some cases, if the want isn’t satisfied, screaming and crying can occur. That’s never fun, but it comes with the territory, and we’re all learning how to cope with a life that doesn’t always give us what we want. The only difference is that most adults don’t scream and cry if they can’t go watch DeeDee (Daniel Tiger) with Uncle NoNo (Shelby’s brother Norn).

It’s interesting to see the development of desire through an infant’s eyes. There can be such great intensity behind not getting what they want, and it’s just a magnified version of the human adult’s reaction. By the time we’re older, we’ve mostly toned it down a bit because we learn that we don’t get what we want by screaming and crying about it. In general, we’re taught to ask nicely for things and learn new ways of getting what we want (maybe even by being manipulative). Ultimately we become more civilized, but we are still adversely affected when all of our efforts fail to bring about the desired outcome.

Maybe I’m naive, but I think humankind has become worn down enough by not getting what we want for so long that we’re ready to be done with the pain that that causes. That readiness, that ripeness, is where real change can happen. When we run out of answers, when nothing we do seems to do any good, we may decide to open ourselves up to the unthinkable – give up on desires. We’ve been crafting them since we were knee high to a grasshopper, so that’s a tough pill to swallow. Our desires have become ingrained in who we think we are, so you may need to be at the end of your rope before you even consider giving up. Plus, once you’re ready to give up, it may be too scary or you may not even know how.

Here is what I can offer if you are up to the challenge. Things are not as bad as you think. Not getting what you want is more important than getting what you want. You are not being mistreated or punished by anyone other than yourself. Take a close look at a desire that seems out of reach and see if it’s actually a need or just a want. What’s the worst thing that could happen if a desire is not met? How would you feel if you wanted what you already had? How would you feel if you didn’t want anything other than what you have right now? Would you feel complete? Pick a desire and take a deep look at this.

The mind’s job is to step in here and say, “Without desire I wouldn’t have anything to work toward. I wouldn’t get anything done. I’d be stuck, complacent, etc.” What if your mind is completely wrong about all of this stuff? Have you ever been wrong about anything? Be honest now. What if Life has your best interest at heart and will not steer you wrong? What if you can’t steer at all? Can you trust Life enough to let it do the steering? It already is, after all.

There is nothing wrong with desire, but if you get too attached to the outcome it can lead to stress and suffering when things don’t work out. Desires come and go whether you like it or not, so let a desire serve as a sign post and watch to see if it was meant to be attained or not. If not, no big deal. You’ve just gained more insight by not getting what you want, and Life may have created a new direction for you, which has it’s own sense of desire. Life’s desire for you is for you to stop making your happiness contingent on attaining some future goal and to be happy Now. Everything else will fall into place just as it should and when it should. Trust me ;)

Yours Truly,

Trey

~

With love and light as always

Mary

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Tue, 17 Dec 2013 12:18:00 +0000

JOYFUL WINTER SOLSTICE

and a

VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS

Dear Clients and Friends,

Things have been exciting since the fall. My daughter Joy gave birth to a baby boy in Oct and mother and son are living with Nana, so my world is filled with gurgling baby sounds and watching for that first smile. Looking at him gives me hope for our future. I don't know how many of you have had the opportunity to get to know these new souls who have been incarnating for the past five years or more, but they are the ones with fourth dimensional consciousness and we can learn a lot by observing them. They all seem to be born with an amazing degree of alertness and looking into their eyes I see the old wise souls that they are.

Last Dec 21^st was confusing to me. I did definitely feel the energy change, but life, if anything, seemed to be more challenging. I guess I assumed that if fourth dimensional consciousness came in we'd all be in paradise. The truth is we would be. So many people who were posting on the internet were announcing that they were in fourth dimension or perhaps 5^th or more. I always found that interesting since way back in the 60's, Ledbetter, who was the ultimate teacher on the planes and their properties, reminded us that the higher the plane the more we merge with the Divine and the more we lose our separateness. So how could someone in 5^th or 6^th dimensional consciousness, even be able to have a separate thought.

Since Jacob has come into my life, and through my other four grandchildren, I've had the opportunity to be around children age five and younger. I can honestly say this advanced state of being is universal in that age group. I can't wait to see what they bring to the world. They are truly our teachers and the next time you are around young children, take a moment to look into their eyes.

I felt a bit disappointed after all the hype for 2012. It took me a while to even ask my guides and teachers what had happened. I kept hearing from my clients that life was challenging and my own life certainly bore testament to the truth of their statements.

I have a teacher who has been with me since I was four or five years old. He always appears when I need him and always if I call to him. So once I was over the disappointment of 2012, I called to him and asked him what was going on. He told me that many in humanity believed that they were ready for the transition, but that a few issues were holding them back. He said 'You can not fake your Divinity, you either operate from it, or you don't'. He also told me that we could not heal something unless we knew it needed to be healed. So life was showing us those areas that needed our attention and it would continue to bring them into our world until we handled them in a different way.

So as the year comes to an end and we sit around the fires of the solstice, keeping warm and waiting for the sun to return to us, it's a good time to take stock of what's been disrupting our peace and our harmony. It's easy when we do this to look at the others who are involved. If only my boss was nicer , or if only my spouse would act like I want them to. As we all know, change comes from within. So I encourage you to look at those situations and to say, 'How could I have handled this from my Divine'. No one is going to wave a magic wand and elevate us to a higher consciousness. We will have to do that for ourselves.

PRAYER FOR GREATER AWARENESS

Infinite Presence, help me to remember that I am created from Your Holy Energy

Enlighten my mind so that I only think loving and supportive thoughts

Infinite Presence, help me to remember that my actions and my words are either Your Actions and Words or they are motivated by fear.

Each day and in every situation I have only two choices, Love or Fear

Help me always to Be Your Holy Love

Let it Shine from my Eyes

Let it Form the Words on my Lips

Let it Be the Holy Essence so that those who meet me feel better for the encounter.

In the words of St. Francis, Make me an Instrument of Your Peace.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

To All My Friends and Clients

I miss you all and I hope the New Year brings us back together

Much Love

Mary

P.S.

Most of you know that my site does not take advertising, so I have to really feel excited to share the word of something you may like to have. I have just finished reading a wonderful new book about the concept of twin souls. It is written by a client of mine and it was during a joint reading she had with her husband that their past life came up.

She diligently researched the life and it turned out to be very accurate. Their love story is a beautiful part of the book, but even more are the messages that were brought back which answers questions of what happens when we pass over? What do we do with our time on the other side? The insightful wisdom which is revealed is both clear and precise while being very enlightening.

The Timeless Love of Twin Souls by Janet Darling and Phillip George is available from Amazon, in paperback and on Kindle. It would make a lovely gift for any of your friends who are interested and an uplifting gift to anyone who has lost someone that they have loved.

To see if it's a book that you would like for yourself or someone else then you can view a sample of it on the Amazon website or go to the Thorne Publishing website where there is a more comprehensive extract which gives you the opportunity to read several chapters.

Your and Your Aura

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Wed, 04 Sep 2013 17:54:00 +0000

Dear Fellow Traveler

I hope you have been enjoying your summer. It’s been beautiful here in North Carolina and we’re all looking forward to Fall in the mountains when Mother Nature will paint our surroundings with a beauty that is magnificent. As I began thinking about these spectacular colors that will soon be in our lives, I felt prompted to write about your aura.

The one question I get asked most is, “What color is my aura?” Like many children, I was born with the ability to see people's auras. I've seen auras as long as I can remember, so people ask me this a lot.

The answer to that question is not a simple one. Auras have many colors. They have a strong resemblance to egg shaped rainbows that surround the body; but particularly the head and shoulders. Unlike rainbows they are constantly in motion and some of the colors change when your mood changes.

There are areas or bands in the aura which correspond to parts of your life. It’s very much like the slices of pie in an astrology chart. One band tells the story of your relationships, another your health, another explains your psychological development, your intelligence. There is even an area of the aura which will reveal past lives and how they effect the present.

When someone asks me a question like “Will I get the job I'm seeking?” I simply look at the specific band of the aura which has to do with employment and then I simply let it tell me its story. Your whole life is written in your aura; your triumphs as well as your blocks, your flexibility and where you can be stubborn.

The amazing thing to me is that I don't need to look at you to see your aura. When I speak to people on the phone, it’s even clearer because I don't get distracted by facial expressions or body language. All the answers that you might ever want to know about your journey or your destiny are written in your aura. It’s a great tool, and like astrology and numerology, it can help you to navigate these interesting times that we are living in.

Before the colors of the aura appear there is a radiance which is about two inches or less in depth. This is composed of pure white light and surrounds the entire body. This is the life force and it’s where health concerns can be detected. It works a lot like an x-ray but psychics are not allowed to diagnose; so the most we can do is to encourage our clients to see a doctor.

Let me also reassure my friends and my family that I do not sit around reading peoples’ auras unless they come to me professionally. Or, in the case of my family, unless they ask me a direct question. Then, even if I tell someone what there aura is saying, they may not be ready to hear it. But the aura tells me that as well.

For example, someone can say “I want to switch careers. What would make me happy?” I always tell my clients that I won't make their decisions for them but that I can look and tell them what talents they brought into this life which their soul would like them to be able to use. Often those talents will lead them in a certain direction. However; if the client does not believe enough in their ability, or if those talents would put them in the public eye and they feel too shy to attempt that, then I can watch the blocks start to rise up in their aura. Even before the words are out I know that they will be rejected. When I was younger I found it frustrating but age has taught me that the soul’s journey is a marathon and not a sprint.

How You can see an Aura

I have taught psychic development classes all over the United States and I can assure you that most people can see at least a part of the aura. There are some things that will make it easier for you.

1. Indirect lighting. It is much more difficult to see an aura in direct sunlight or direct artificial lighting.

2. Keep the background simple. If the walls are white or beige it’s much easier.

3. Look with soft eyes – remember when it was Friday and your last class at school and you were pretending to look at the teacher alertly, but your mind was already on the freedom that awaited you. That’s how you look at an aura. If you wear glasses then take them off.

4. Focus on the forehead between the eyebrows, or just above the left or right ear; or if you are sitting behind your subject look at the center or the back of the head.

5. Look with your eyes half open until you begin to feel relaxed and almost sleepy

6. Let go of any preconceived ideas of what it will look like. In the beginning it may just be patches of color or you may just see the life force.

7. Try not to get too excited when you do see color. The key is to stay relaxed and sleepy.

8. The last thing you may see is the motion.

Good luck and remember, the more you practice the better you get. School, church and large meetings are good places to try this technique out.

With love and light as always

Mary

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com

A Fish out of Water

noreply@blogger.com (Mary Pompeo) — Mon, 15 Jul 2013 02:53:00 +0000

Dear fellow traveler,

Now that we are getting deeper into the ever expanding subject of energy, and our perception is starting to shift a little, then let's take a moment to assess our point of position along the measure of our paradigm shift. This may sound confusing at first, which is not my intention, so for the sake of clarity I want to make certain that you have no problems in understanding my words and expressions.

When I speak of a paradigm this is simply a shorthand way of referring to a set of conditions, an energy state, which creates your reality. In other words, the way in which you see and perceive your world is completely dependent on what you have come to accept as the energy constructs around you. Your memories are energy constructs which you have woven into your energetic being and which manifest as what we term your 'character'. You respond to your world as a direct result of what you have taken on board to make you who you are right now. You are a living breathing energy compendium which filters your experiences according to how you have integrated all your energy experiences. You have created for yourself what's called a 'paradigm'.

Imagine this. You are sitting on the sea bed of a beautiful tropical Atoll. Fish swim by and you observe everything that they do. You see their world where your experiences are the same. You feel the warmth of the water and the effects of the current while all the colors of the coral give you immense pleasure and fill you with wonder. You are wary of predators, just as the fish are, and you appreciate that life is precarious to say the least; especially in a setting which looks next to idyllic.

The fish are sensitive to much the same that you are but they have absolutely no idea at all of the world which you come from or the experiences which you use to base your choices on. They have no access to this and so their 'paradigm' is totally different – as you would expect. If you were able to discuss things with any of them then you would be amazed at how little they knew in comparison to you, and how limited their appreciation of the world which they inhabit is. They live in a world where their choices are all about survival and procreation but, in truth, it's not that far removed from our own because we do the same thing when it comes right down to it.

If you were to make your way up to the beach, and leave the water, then you would find yourself back in your own paradigm while coping with your world in the way that you have conditioned yourself to see it. When you were born, you had no preconceived ideas whatsoever. You were completely open to new experiences where the only choices you had were to act on instinct; which you did. In those times, your driving energy forces were - survival and feeling protected first, having fun and exploring your new world second. They brought you your experiences where your character and appreciation of the world around you evolved as a consequence. You still have all of those fundamental experiences with you where you used them as the foundations of making you who you are now.

You added energy to energy and in so doing you created a filter through which you view your world and your circumstances – good or bad. All the fish, which you are now observing from the beach, view their world in a similar way in the respect of the context which they have experienced.

Now then, we arrive at the important part. We have been talking about the shift in your consciousness as the new vibrational energies expand your awareness and what this truly means. There is, as I have said before, no way to describe it because your mind has nothing from the past to compare it with. You are moving to a new way of being which means allowing yourself to give up or at least change how you have been up to now. Look at the fish swimming in front of you and think what the response would be if you asked them how they liked swimming in the clear blue tropical waters of their world. The fish would answer – what's water?

They would have no idea what you're talking about as they have no way to imagine what living above the water is like – you do. You are aware of another world but how would you describe it to the fish? How would you explain what human life is like in terms that they would understand? You're not a fish but you are heading for another world the like of which is somewhat comparable to moving from the perception of a fish to that of a human. You are moving up to the next vibrational level but it's one where no human has been before; in living memory that is. I hope this gives you an idea of what's ahead.

So, to the point of all this. Your difficulty now is making the transition from asking what this has to do in practice with your everyday life. It's all great in an etheric sense and sounds really interesting but what does it do to address your daily problems where you have to deal with life as it comes at you. How does it help you manage your life when you're faced with downsizing and living on less money or potentially losing your home. How does it help you when you're faced with a problematic partner or relative who pushes your buttons and saps you of your energy and your joy. How does it help you when you have to agonize over a new or unresolved relationship which keeps you in perpetual anxiety where your happiness is permanently on hold. How does it help you when you have to deal with a job and people you don't like where you feel exhausted at the end of the day because life just doesn't seem worth living and your health is suffering.

To move the fish out of the water means making adjustments, the first of which is learning to breathe the new air and using this energy to change your world and yourself. This is what you have to do. Well, strictly speaking you don't have to do it at all. Yours is the gift of free will and so you can stay exactly as you are, if this is your choice, where you will continue to experience life as it is now. All that you don't learn in this lifetime you will reincarnate to recreate so that you can try again – or you can change now and learn it this time. It's up to you.

We have been looking at examples of energy and how it works and by now you should have a gained good idea of many different concepts as well as some practical tips. My suggestion of taking time out before acting on negative emotions is an important step towards heading up the beach and leaving the water; but are you able to do it? Is this something which you find yourself maybe thinking about once in a while or is it creeping into your mental processes frequently each day. If you're going to positively address your problems, as you see them, then it has to be an integral part of your day-to-day living. This is how you start the process of changing your energy and moving up and out of the paradigm which you are trapped in – and I do mean trapped in. Whether you agree with my statement or not, it really is the case.

By virtue of where you have found yourself for such a long time, then it's not possible to move quickly into a new state of being. More accurately speaking, it's not advisable to move quickly as the shock would be too great. Just out of interest, I once heard a being tell me that it would not be possible for me to hold even a fraction of the knowledge of our creator because I would literally explode. Obviously it made an impression on me but there was no way that I could even begin to understand what was meant by this. If I could have understood then I would have exploded. So, naturally, I choose to evolve gradually towards that level of understanding and still keep myself in one piece. That's what we're doing now. We're moving into a new level of 'being' which keeps ourselves in one piece as we progress; and I am guiding you.

Okay, here we move to the more practical, down-to-earth aspect of your journey. You walk outside your door and what do you see but the OFCOURSEWECAN taxi waiting for you. The driver enjoyed your company so much that he's come back because he wants to show you more of his home world while learning more about yours. He will take you through the barrier and up on to the beach while you learn to 'breathe' his atmosphere to experience what he does. Sounds great!

Reading these words you can allow yourself to fantasize but this is no use to you. In this energy construct which you're wrapped up in now, where my words are creating your experience, then it's fine; but if you really were to walk out of your third dimensional door and see what I've suggested then things would be hugely different. And yet this is what I'm trying to get you to appreciate.

In your reality, as it stands right at this point on your journey, then there is no way that you're even going to consider taking this ride; even if you accepted that it was possible in the first place. There are so many other demands on your time where many more important ( and no doubt relevant ) things that need to be paid attention to while choices are made in the process. Your day is full, even if you're sat watching TV, driving somewhere, reading the newspaper or a thousand other things which collectively make up your life. And besides, how would you explain to others what you would have done and where you went? God forbid that you should step out of character let alone your own world! Where would that leave you when you're trying to convince others to behave in a responsible manner for the good of their eternal soul! Oh my – what a dilemma. Does this begin to address the task in front of you.

Part of the reason that you find yourself in the situation you are in now, and how you feel about your family in general, is because you are different. You started out being different and it was for a purpose. You needed to experience an environment which would allow you the opportunity to propel yourself into this new paradigm. All of your life you have been facing challenges which others thought you were nuts to take on. In the process you have moved away from people who didn't share your view of life until you gathered those around you who at least accepted you for who you are.

Now you need to go one step farther because you need to show them the way. Will you be the fish who dares to clamber up onto the beach while all the others stay safely in the shallows? Will you go for the ride in the taxi and forget about the doctor's appointment, the letter to your lawyer that just has to be done, the bathroom remodeling which needs the builder contacting, the brat who demands your attention, the partner who you want to check up on in case s/he is cheating? All this is simply energy in motion and you need to realize that you're sustaining it. Just as the fish can't see the water, you don't see your part in what you're doing to maintain the energy of your experience. You have to get past this. The messages from spirit are that you inevitably will; the only option you have is just how long you will take to do it.

Part of the reason that you are here right now, at this point in our evolution, is that the energies which are coming to earth, and which are affecting us all, have the greatest potential to allow for the biggest shift in consciousness that we have ever known. You came to your present incarnation knowing this because it's what you wanted. In so doing you picked everything about your life so that you would be ready with all that you needed when the opportunity came. Well – it's here! It's staring you right in the face but you aren't looking at it if, in reality, you tell the taxi driver that you don't have time to make the trip with him. If you would rather sit and fret over your self-created circumstances, while your mind tries to project what it calculates the future holds for you, then that's fine. As long as you appreciate that this is what's happening.

As I said in my last blog - You cannot keep doing the same things as before and expecting to experience change. If you want to see true change then you must change first. What you are reading and what you have read, and will read, is all about how to do this. But if you don't put it into practice then it just isn't going to happen. You have to use your energy differently than how you have been up to now if you want to leave the lagoon. When you eventually sit on the beach and then look back at the water you will wonder why on earth you didn't see it before. It will be so obvious but right now it isn't. The only thing you need to trust at this moment is that you have the ability to get there. You can do it. The only determining factor is whether or not you have the will to do it.

The simple act of pausing before making choices when dealing with negative energies may sound ineffectual and irrelevant when faced with so many day-to-day circumstances which don't allow you the luxury of lapsing into meditation so as to find your answers; but where do you break the cycle? At which point can you jump off the merry-go-round so as to take stock of the situation and see it from a different perspective. Let's look at a practical situation and not something ethereal like interdimensional taxi drivers

You're standing in line at the checkout and late for an appointment or a rendezvous. The lady with three trolleys full of food eventually gets everything passed through the register and then produces a thick wad of coupons. People behind her moan and you see that it's going to take ages. One person gets irate and an argument breaks out which you feel is justified. What do you do? Your energy programming encourages you to 'join in' because you need that energy state dealt with. The other energies around are making yours vibrate in sympathy; but instead of recognizing this, you respond – as you always have. What would happen if you didn't or were even aware that you could opt out? What would be the consequences if your new awareness kicked in and you said to yourself. 'Okay, I see what's really happening here. I can handle this!”

You leave your shopping where it is, move out of the line, close your ears to the argument while all the time appreciating that your emotional energy is peaking and it needs to change. You step outside the store while thinking about what you're supposed to be doing but, instead of giving in to it, you just go for a walk to calm down while regaining your balance. The world isn't going to fall apart because you've done this but it surely is going to change for you as a result of your choices.

Let me explain. You could have chosen to soldier on at the checkout and eventually got through while feeling very irritable and frustrated at the end of it. This is an energy vibration which, if left in that state, will cause you to make choices as a result of its influence. You may have been snappy with the checkout person and then with someone who called you or even with someone you care about when meeting up with them. What you would have brought away with you from the store was more than just the items which you purchased. It was other people's energy which you then passed on, undiluted, to others. These recipients will almost surely react in a negative way as it impacts and influences them and so, in turn, they make choices accordingly - one of which may have been to start being snappy and arguing with you. Does this sound familiar? Think 'energy' if it does.

Each person in that checkout line is an energy 'being', just as you are. They exist in the same energy flow just as all the fish in the lagoon are being affected by the energy of the ocean currents. On a stormy day they get communally bounced around but in their wisdom they take shelter in places of comparatively tranquil refuge. We do similarly when faced with rainy/blustery weather but the energy storms of crowds, or disruptive individuals, remain all but invisible to us. The only 'barometer' we have to measure them by is how they make us 'feel'. As a consequence, we see no need to take an 'energetic umbrella' into the supermarket with us; but why not? It may be raining cats and dogs outside, which means that we'll surely get wet in the trips to and from the car, but we can dry the wetness off and get back to normal again. So why don't we do the same from being soaked with the energy of the store so that we can return to our preferred state of vibrational 'being' again? Why is this?

When a big long-haired dog climbs out from the lake, are you going to want to be near him in the first few seconds of his appearance? Not if you know what's going to happen or unless you're a child who thinks it's great fun to get soaked in the spray! Angry people at the checkout are no different where the 'body shake' can manifest as a burst of anger which is their way of trying to deal with the unwanted 'burdensome' energy. There's no need to expand on what repercussions this can have as everyone else attempts to do the same thing. It's just chaos – energy chaos and total disharmony which saturates you. Can you visualize this? I hope you can because it's very important.

By taking yourself out of that vibrational situation then you allow yourself the opportunity to regulate and 'retune' your own energy state. To function in a beneficial way then you need to bring your vibration into harmony with who you feel yourself to truly be. Temper tantrums often come when you feel prevented from doing this. It's a natural reaction to the need which you feel for making the world how you want it to be; but which always seems to elude your ability to manifest it. To do this in the meaningful way which brings you your greatest happiness, then disruptive energies need to be dealt with in your own space and your own time; in whatever way and however you can make this possible. This is your right! By being held captive to the turbulent energies of others, then you will inevitably be swept along with that same stormy tide where you feel completely out of control. Do not allow this to happen. Kill the robot and take over the conscious command of your ship. (See previous blog)

Returning to the store situation (the alternate scenario). You make the choice to abandon your shopping so as to go somewhere that allows you to change your vibrational state; it doesn't mater that you have commitments, this is important for you to do. You could go to a coffee shop and have something nice or just go sit in your car and close your eyes for a while. You may just take a walk or even browse another place which has a quieter atmosphere like a book store. Whatever you choose to do then your mood will be one that is difficult to cope with but, in the respect that you are somewhere which has a different energy to it, then you will be able to benefit from what you now find yourself surrounded by. Slowly but surely you will feel the positive change as your mood lightens and the day seems much less gloomy and challenging.

From this new state you will make your choices and so, when you meet up with the next person, you're going to respond to them differently. They may smile as a result but even if they don't then you will experience a lighter world because you are not bringing the disruptive energy of negativity to it. You will have consciously made the choice not to, and so the world of your experience will reflect the positive 'quality' of your intention. This is how you change your world. What you give out is what you get back. In other words, your vibration will attract similar vibrations. Contrary to popular belief, you don't get what you want, you get what you are. By now you should understand the wisdom behind this assertion. It's the law of attraction and you can't fake it!

In the supermarket, you experienced someone else's world where they attracted disruptive vibrations and you began to get drawn in. You decided not to be a part of it because it's not the way you choose to be and so you moved away in order to take the time out to readjust. Then you carried on with your intention to create the world which you feel happiest experiencing. Continuing to do this creates more and more of what you want and what your heart guides you towards manifesting. In so doing you will start to see the world differently and, before long, you will be looking back at the water in the lagoon and wondering why you didn't notice it in the delightfully new way that you are now. Suddenly the wonders of life will appear even more fascinating where a new joy will start creeping in to excite you. Life will start to feel really good and you will begin to experience a sense of fulfillment the like of which you'd not imagined possible before that time.

So what stops you from doing all of this? The fear of change? Being seen as somehow different where you often get asked - 'What's come over you? You've changed, are you ill?' Those around you may not like change but this is no reason for you to stay trapped in being who you don't want to be just to please others. You have a duty to yourself first. If you don't allow the energy of love to fully express itself in the very heart of you, then you won't experience that same quality returning to you. Be the love that you desire to receive. Don't wait for it to find you first, you already have it within you and waiting to be expressed. Live that love and let others deal with it in whatever way they choose. Almost certainly you will be helping them with their journey through doing it.

Sitting quietly on the beach you notice one particular fish which seems to have taken an interest in you. Being the kindhearted soul that you are, you take it out and show it your world and all the amazing things that you've come to understand about it. You explain to the fish about its own world and how vast it is, just like the Universe. The fish is amazed and can't take it all in but is fascinated and sees things very differently from that moment on. You put the 'enlightened' fish back into the water and it eagerly swims off to investigate the world of its new awareness.

Having read this, does your mind want to convince you of the fact that this fortunate fish may actually end up being very lonely because it now sees its world, and the other fishes, in a different light? Do you consider that, having been shown a different way of being then there is no going back from that point on where a life of isolation and disappointment is the only option? It's true to say that something cannot be unlearned and so this may well be a stumbling block to your stepping forward on the path towards a new way of viewing your life.

Okay, just consider the newly enlightened fish for a moment. It has gone back to its world but is still surrounded by all the other fishes it's known. Nothing is different except that there is now a greater distance between the scale of their vibrational harmony. The enlightened fish carries this higher vibration while choosing to live out its life in this way. Other fishes may decide to move up to match that vibration while many simply stay where they are and swim away so as to join others of a like mind (similar vibration). Neither matters to the newly aware fish because it sees the world which it enjoys and shares it with those who choose to do likewise. From its enlightenment comes a new level of companionship and enjoyment where sharing contributes a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction to its everyday life. Aloneness is a low vibration which sits very near to the bottom of the scale. Within the environment of the energy which gives rise to excitement, joy and happiness then none of the lower vibrations can exist. Aloneness cannot be felt or even imagined.

If you fear the loss of love through choosing to be different then let me remind you of the love which exists that is ever-present from your twin soul. This love is eternal and absolutely spectacular. No matter what you do, it is always with you and just waiting for you to discover it once again. Whenever you feel the possibility of loneliness creeping into your life, as you step forward onto this new path, then just allow yourself to reach out to this wonderful vibration. It will always respond so as to sustain you. The reuniting with it is your ultimate goal and this unique quest is the motivation behind your continued journey. To say that life is pointless is to miss this very point itself. To become fully aware is to appreciate just exactly what you're doing here.

Be the fish who gets put back into the water and can't wait to discover so many new things while having fun in the process. Part of that fun is sharing it with others and helping them to achieve a new level of happiness in their lives. You never know, one day you might venture to be the one that leads them out of the water and onto the beach. Won't that be a day to remember!

YOU CAN DO IT. TRUST YOURSELF.

Next time we'll look further into more specific ways that you can manifest meaningful changes to your world so as to begin creating what it is that you truly want out of life.

With love and light as always

Mary

NEVER FORGET HOW TRULY SPECIAL YOU ARE - YOU ARE UNIQUE - YOU ARE WONDERFUL - YOU ARE PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE POWERFUL

If you would like a private consultation to discuss this or anything else which is personal to your life then please contact me at 828-252-7573 or by email at marypompeoservices@gmail.com