Need to Get Some

Video Games

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sat, 31 Dec 2011 01:47:00 +0000

Aaaahhh....Christmas is over....so I thought.

Then the dreaded Boxing Day Sale showed up and (sighs) the kids had all of what they wanted from the local video game store all laid out. New games, new cheaper price tags, new consoles, new remotes, new books and guides....all for a really low, low price. Yup...right!!

All said and done it was loads of money spent on cheap day lol.

But I digress, it's but once a year...I hope.

All in all, I miss the good old days when we went to an arcade with a pocket full of quarters and played all day long, what great times that sadly this generation doesn't enjoy.

Half the time just getting out of the house was the best part. Nowadays video games are all the rage from the couch!! No exercise there huh ;) I guess the kids will have to keep teaching me their favorite games over at their favorite online popular games site. Christmas 2012 I will save much more money....gotta feeling its gonna get worse :)

Canadian Juniors Finnish Finland!!

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 22:58:00 +0000

Way to Go Team Canada Juniors

8 to 1. What a game!!! Awesome plays, awesome defense and well played indeed. The Juniors are off to a great start.!! Canada vs Finland ..... No Contest!!!

What is 2020 gonna be like?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 22:18:00 +0000

What is 2020 gonna be like?

It is a really great question that a friend of mine and I were discussing the other day, we really need to get lives ;), anyway, the way the world is changing in every aspect, the question is somewhat daunting. I mean really:

Will there be flying cars?
Will we even be alive? (Scary since we are both pushing 40)
Will we have found alien life?
Will the government finally admit we already have found alien life?

Etc, etc

On an even scarier note, how many people will be on our wonderful planet?

I think we just hit 7 billion....so add all the pregnancies over the next 8 years....WOW!!

Oh by the way folks, sorry I haven't been posting at all lately, I have been neglectful, my apologies. I guess just having a conversation regarding what is 2020 gonna be like refuelled my interest in blogging again.

My bad....

So, tell me in the comments section what you think the world will be like in the year 2020.

See who comments. please only real comments lol.

P.S Season's Greetings to you all!!

Can I Get a Cute Girl in Bed

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sat, 30 Apr 2011 17:44:00 +0000

Of course you can, whether your a guy or girl you can ;) What a great email question lol.

I remember way back, when I was younger, I used to stress about that all the time. So like anyone I started researching some articles, going online, asking friends etc. etc.

That is when reading was a pain to me, lol, anyhoo. Here is a great read on exactly how can I get a cute girl in bed.

Despite what you might think, the best dating advice in the world is actually pretty simple. There are simple mental changes that any man can make, which will result in more and more women becoming sexually attracted to him.

Have you ever noticed how some guys seem to get all the women? Even if they are unattractive, and you can’t really figure out what they have going for them? The reason some men are able to get the hottest women is because they have the proper mindset.

So what exactly does this mean, and how can you develop a similar mindset?

It means that you need to build a sort of quiet confidence, that let’s everybody know that nothing can shake you. I know that sounds a bit weird, but if you think about some of the most confident guys in movies are you’ll see that they all have this in common.

For instance, do you think anyone would question it if Bruce Wayne, James Bond, Tony Stark or even Rambo walked in to a bar and ordered a really girly drink?

Not a chance! The people around them wouldn’t ask, “Why is Bruce Wayne drinking that pink cocktail?” Instead they’d think to themselves “Hmmm, if Bruce Wayne enjoys pink cocktails, they must be pretty good”.

The reason for this is because Bruce Wayne is so confident in every part of his persona that people everywhere are in awe of his “coolness”. And thus, he can single handedly make pink cocktails seem a lot cooler then they really are.

When you sit there at the coffee shop people watching, and constantly question everything and everyone around you, you are instantly lowering the quiet confidence that people perceive in you.

Asking yourself questions like “How did that guy get that hot girl” and “Man, if only I was better at guitar, then girls would be all over me” are hindering your inner ‘Bruce Wayne’.

Instead, if you sat there, sipping on your coffee with the mind set that there is nothing cooler in the world then sitting right here in this very chair, drinking this cup of coffee; then other people will start to see the confidence in you.

When you can take that exact mindset and apply it to as many aspects of your life as possible, it will carry over to everything you do.

This holds especially true when it comes to meeting and sleeping with more women. We don’t want a guy who second-guesses everything; it seems weak and pretty wimpy. We want a man who will stand up, take us by the hand and let us know “This is how it’s going to go down” and then can lead us to the bedroom.

When you can make a woman feel safe, protected and excited anytime she’s around you, then she will be all yours any time you want. And when you are meeting a new woman for the first time, you shouldn’t feel scared to let us know that you are attracted to them. Too many men try to act too friendly for too long, and end up telling us “I’m sexually attracted to you, but I’m too scared to do anything about it.”

More than anything else, women want men who are strong, confident, and direct with their feelings of attraction and can keep us on our toes.

When you can show us that, then you can have pretty much any woman you want. If you want a killer head start towards building rock solid confidence and serious skills with women, you should check out his course here. The founder (Josh) is an amazing one on one instructor and his online courses are second to none.

Until next time,

Garret

Oh by the way, it really does have some great advice to learn. It won't take but a minute to check it out.

Here's that link again.

Kate William wedding

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 06:57:00 +0000

The Royal Wedding of HRH Prince William and Kate Middleton, or for us common folk Will and Kate Royal Wedding. ;)

The wedding, rather the Royal Wedding of the century is only a few short hours away. Having just watched some of the live updates via the news station it truly is all the rage right now.

It seems the coverage and the streets are wild with fun and excitement. How thrilled the citizens of England must be to see one of the Princes marry, especially to a young woman who indeed seems to have a good head on her shoulders.

The Royal Wedding will be in West Minster Abbey (only 15 Royal Weddings) have graced the Abbey, yet it is feverishly being redone and reorganized to suit the tastes of Prince William and Kate Middleton.

There are currently over 7,000 reporters providing coverage and it is estimated that there will be 5,000 street parties throughout the day and nights to follow. How bad I feel for the local bobbies (police). Still, a good time shall be had by all from what I have scene on the television.

Imagine how young Kate must feel. Her life is most certainly about to change into quite the whirlwind. Young William will also have a few things to get used to, however I am sure that English proper will ensure they hold true to the rules and values of the English ways. A great day for England indeed. I really would have loved to have been witness, even if just to have been standing on the streets, to say "I was there". I am sure many of you would like to have had that option as well.

The Royal Wedding of HRH Prince William and Kate Middleton almost seems to have brought the world together, especially Canadians. We are, after all, technically still a member of the Commonwealth, however most Canadians no longer see this as valid, and many new Canadians aren't even aware of it.

Still, it does amaze me how great this Royal Wedding has been to put a positive spin on world news, current events and trends. I actually have a few friends who bought the replica rings. Quite lovely indeed, even for a replica.

I didn't see myself staying up all night to see this play out, but curiosity has gotten the better of me and I must admit, the happy vibe from what I am watching has put me in a better mood than dare I say I have been in, for a long time. Odd isn't it?

The Will and Kate Royal Wedding Shut Up. Really, its wonderful :)

I wonder where they will spend their Honeymoon? I am sure news reports will tell us all soon enough. Prince William could only get two weeks leave for his Honeymoon, maybe they will come to Canada. Maybe, I will get to Toronto if possible to get a close up look of the happy Royal Couple, after the Royal Wedding and things calm down, that is of course if they do come for a visit here in Canada.

Whatever the case. I wish them well, long life and all the happiness life has to offer.

I'll be back with updates in a little bit. Back to The Will and Kate Royal Wedding Shut Up, it's nice to have Happy News these days :)

Right now I feel for a spot of tea, as it were. ;)

How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 02:53:00 +0000

Great guest post today, thanks Lisa.

It's like the old saying goes: "I just need some breathing room, hun"

But you still want to know How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space

We have all been in that place now haven't we? We feel as if we have found "The One". That one special person who will make us feel like we have a reason to get up each and every morning. Ahhhh, yes....everyday is as warm as the first day of Spring (provided you don't live in the North:)) The after awhile, one of us or both of us needs some space. Believe me it happens, sooner or later.

That doesn't mean that it is your fault at all.

There are loads of reasons as to why your partner needs a break, chances are pretty damn good that it isn't you. It's cliche I know but the reality when he says "It's not you, it's me" He's probably telling the truth.

There are countless different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need a bit of space or alone time, including family problems, insecurities, fear of commitment etc. Here are some great tips for answering the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.

You feel a loss of pride when the affection is gone, you feel you won't recover or the relationship won't recover. Yet, try as you may, you are still madly in love with him. You mustn't coddle him, give him space, don't call or text him. Make him see you are fine without him. It will make him question himself and why he needed the space in the first place.

After he has had some breathing room he will call you, at least the mature man will. When he calls, agree to go for lunch, not dinner. This way there is no after meal drink, which can lead to a place neither of you are ready for, just yet. A nice lunch, simply talking will accomplish more than either of you may realize. It could very well be a blessing in disguise.

However, if he isn't warming up the way you were hoping, don't push the issue. Be friendly, be there for him. Maybe the time he needs is to sort things out, maybe, just maybe he really needs you now more than ever, but doesn't know how to express it. The time apart can be very positive, or maybe it is not worth the fight. Only you will know.

A lot can be told by his body language, his eyes, hand movements and basic gestures. In the end you will know whether or not he simply needs time or not. Somethings simply need to run their course.

This is just a few things I learned from a good friend of mine whilst I went through something very similar, after reading my friends advice I won back the man of my dreams, so can you.

My friend T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.

So go ahead and see it here

Good luck!

A Letter To My Daughter

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 23:15:00 +0000

So, I first wrote this back in 2007, and originally published it on Scribd. Due to recent events I am re-publishing it. My daughter needs to read this. She's in the red. Happier times for her indeed!

A letter to my daughter

We are all looking to find that special person to share our lives with through the ups and downs and everything that comes with it and hopefully that person has a positive outlook and will truly love us for who we are.

Always remember that you can't have the sweet without the sour as it were.
When you say I love you; make sure you mean it because to say it and not mean it is truly the most painful of all lies.

Listen to your heart and not nay-sayers, our futures are defined by our choices and not by chances we may take along the way. Everyone in your world may have an opinion but the fact of the matter is that only we can decide where we want to be. What will make us happy.

If you make a mistake have the courage to admit it, it doesn't matter if you are forgiven or not, what matters most is that you took responsibility.

Always remember that no matter how bad of a mistake you may make, no matter how much pain and regret it may cause, the people who truly love you will see past it because you matter to them more than you may fully realize.

Live each day as if it were your last. One day it will be.

Don't wake up one day wondering what might have been. You made your bed so you must lie in it, if the choice was wrong then do something about it. There is nothing you cannot change or correct if you have the will to fight for what you want.

Believe in yourself and in your dreams, always have hope and love will most certainly find you.

Most importantly, never settle for less than what you know you are worth.

If someone tells you they love you and you are unsure in your heart then test their love.
Let that person prove to you that they love you.

Love is there for each of us, it is simply a matter of finding it, if it's meant to be it will be, but don't force it to happen, let nature take its course.

Never forget that I love you, I always have and I always will.

Love dad.
c/o Garret

www.need-to-get-some.blogspot.com

Women over 40 love online games

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 18 Apr 2011 10:28:00 +0000

That has got to be the craziest sentence I have ever read:

According to some silly old stats I found online...apparently Women over 40 love online games. True, I suppose.

But they also love their families, friends, pets, jobs, ex husbands, I mean come'on

Thats just funny.

But for those women over 40 who love online games. I will gladly send you a safe link that is hacker free, web safe certified.

If you get addicted DON'T blame me lol.

Its free to join. Go, have fun.

Spring Cleaning Tips

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 18 Apr 2011 09:49:00 +0000

Spring Cleaning Tips
Ahh...spring...its just around the corner. I still cannot believe we (up here in Timmins, Ontario) had a beautiful week, last week. Only to see the dreaded snow show yet again. I swear to the God Above we had all four seasons in one day.

Now, for those of you who read my blog regularly, you may or may not know that I also own to offline businesses. Both revolve around cleaning. One is geared towards homes and offices and the other is geared towards floors, mainly waxed floors.

So when it comes to cleaning, especially Spring cleaning tips, believe me I have no shortage of tips and advice. That being said I have decided to go and only run Spring cleaning tips on the site for the next few weeks, well, unless I get an email from someone or a comment with a specific area that they would like to see written about.

Moving forward. Whenever you begin to do any cleaning, be it in house or outside the biggest mistake I see people make all of the time is this:

They don't have a written plan!!

Seriously, spring cleaning is a pain in the rear as we all know, but when you go into it blindly, well my friend, you are simply setting yourself up for a long, long weekend...usually nine times out of ten, that ice cold beer that was supposed to be your reward becomes your "IQUIT" excuse.

Trust me, I have done it...much to my girlfriends anger.

So, first things first.

Decide where you want to start. Outside or inside.

Then outline the following, not in this exact order, its a basic guideline.

Outside:

Clean up garbage on ground, paper, puppy poop etc.

Clean out window wells, basement windows build up.

Clean out eavestroughs.

Clean out and RE-ORGANIZE the shed, if you have one.

Mow the lawn

Cut shrubbery

Note: The above two will increase your productivity ten fold, reason being once you see a nicer yard, you want to see more.
Wash siding, this will also help keep your home from any rusty problems.

Check your ROOF!!!! Is there damage? Proceed depending.

Okay, a rough outline for outside spring cleaning tips.

Now onto inside the house.

What rooms do you want to start with?

Go level by level on this one, much easier.

Pile up laundry, tackle that after the rooms, bathromms etc are clean.

So, clean bedrooms, then the washroom(s), then the kitchen, then the living room...always leave the rec room or t.v room for the LAST room. If that room is a mess, it lessens your desire to sit your butt down. ;)

Wash all windows inside first, you will have cleaner windows if you clean from the inside first, the sun shows the missed areas.

After all of this part of the inside spring cleaning is done.

Take a BREAK...RECHARGE
Now, start where you left off and continue.

Spring cleaning tips are only guidelines because I don't know how many rooms you have, or if you have laundry room, basements etc.

If you follow a well written plan you will find these spring cleaning tips to be most useful.

If you find things you no longer want or need, trust me you will, donate them. Someone else might need them Or sell them online, garage sale whatever.

More detailed spring cleaning tips can be found throughout the month.

Good luck!!

Happy cleaning day!!!

She left, what do I do?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 12:11:00 +0000

So, she left, what do I do?

This is really a bad situation to be in. We were so happy...

I didn't know what the hell to say. As I said before, it seems to me that I am becoming a relationship expert to my friends, coworkers and now a family member.

Before I get into the story, take a few minutes to watch this video.

Here is the skinny:

Sometimes in life we work crazy hours, sometimes in life we work 2 or even 3 jobs to make ends meet, sometimes, sadly our life partners (husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend...whatever) just can't stand the fact that we are away from home so much. We are away from home so much to pay the bills, put food on the table. You know survival things.

Another situation revolving around the ever infamous words I have been unfortunate enough to hear quite a few times this month:

She left, what do I do?

From the conversations I have had over the last few weeks I have come to the realization that her leaving depends on you, for the most part. Or if he left, same thing.

I don't know why she left, usually, but in the case of my family member, she left because of the hours he was working. It's a crappy thing, but well.....it's hard to blame her really.

Granted he is working alot, she can't find work, BUT that doesn't give her any reason to just walk out on him, at least not in my opinion, so there must be more to it. It turns out that Jimmy Boy was working alot but he was also spending alot of his off time out with the gang. Big problem Jimmy. He needs some time to himself, agreed. She needs time with him also. She can't find work, she feels basically useless and when he has the time, he doesn't devote as much of it as he should to her. See what happens when we look deeper into reasons?

She left, what do i do?

In this case, it seems pretty obvious what Jimmy needs to do. He needs to sit down with her, go over timelines, maybe pick a day that he can unwind and then pick the days that they spend together. Realistically, he has a work schedule, as we all do, so why not have a personal life schedule?

I truly think that after a good long heart to heart talk the two of them will be able to fix the issues that led to her walking out the door. It's by no means the worst case scenario I have addressed this month with people going through relationship issues and it certainly won't be the last. Judging by the last few weeks events.

Hope is never lost.

However, if you are still stuck and need further help to solve the question of she left, what do I do.

May I suggest you watch the video and take a look at the offer underneath it.

For what it's worth, this information saved my marriage not too long ago.

Best of luck!!

She left, what do I do?

You can find the answer here.

How the hell do I get her home?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 07:56:00 +0000

Just had a conversation with an old friend, this has definitely been "relationship" week at the house. I figured I'd sorta write about what went down. Solid advise for anyone trying to figure out how the hell do I get her home? or how the hell do I get him home?

Man, this really, really hurts.

Ya know how it goes when you mess up real bad and your gal just wants you to get gone, or she'll be gone?

That's what done happened with me and my gal.

Jeez, it was such a bad argument that it actually was almost like one of them there Jerry Springer episodes that ya see on the TV. Lots of yelling, things flying and tears a shedding. It darn near killed me to see my girl so upset. I'd gone out with the boys that night, spent a bit to much and had a bit to much more to drink. I plum forgot that it was the kids basketball championship and he was all excited for me to be there, but work happened and I plain forgot. Heck, I never have felt so bad in all my life.

After I sobered up, realized what I had done I knew I needed to do something...but what?

Flowers or chocolates weren't gonna cut it. Neither was some trinket of jewellery or anything like that.

I had to figure out how the hell do i get her home?

I was pretty much sure at this point that it wasn't gonna be all that easy, if even possible to get her home. I needed to do two really difficult things. The first was to apologize, not to difficult, but the second was to drive on over to her moms house and apologize to her while her mom would certainly be listening to every word. Y'all know how hard it is to apologize for something, well do it with a mother in law standing within earshot, especially a mother in law who don't really care much for ya.

See the difficult problem I mentioned?

I got up my courage and went over to see her but she wouldn't have none of it. She wanted me gone. Normally I would've yelled and screamed but I done figured the best thing to do was give her a few days to cool off. That there didn't work...days became weeks...man I was really starting to hurt at this point. Thats when I knew I needed to get some advice, not half assed friendly advise but real professional like advise, so I looked around my neck of the woods and found a gal who specialized in relationships, but she charged over $50.00 bucks an hour. I love my gal but in all honesty I can't afford $50.00 bucks an hour. I needed to find another way to get my gal back, to get my kids back and to be the man she always had wanted.

I knew I could do it, I knew there was gonna be a way.

How the hell do I get her home?

I figured that the only way to do it was to learn from people who had gone through the same thing, but support groups aren't that easy to find and they can take weeks to sort through the issue, I didn't have any more time to waste. I went online and I found a great focus group all on the same issue as me. After chattin it up with some members I got a private message from one of the guys on there that had been through the exact same thing as I was going through.

He knew my pain.
He knew that I was hurting.
He knew I was struggling to figure out how the hell do i get her home?

So after some talkin he told me about this book he bought and read...crazy thing was, after he read it he started doing what the book told him to do and he ended up getting back with his gal within a few days. It took them a long time to get throught their issues and stuff but they are back together and they are getting happier, heck he even said that it was starting to be like they was newly weds again. He knew that this book was gonna help me and it weren't gonna cost me an arm and a leg.

So I figured what the heck. I mean I needed to do something fast before I lost her forever.

That book was plum easily the best book I ever did purchase. It was straight to the point and was easy to see how there was hope on my way to getting my gal home.

If you wanna read it, you can take a gander over here and I really do hope that if you are going through what I went through that this will be the best thing you can do to get her home.

It worked for me, maybe it'll work for you. I hope so. There are some real good video's to that are worth a look see. Good luck.

You can find it here

What is a healthy relationship?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 06:40:00 +0000

How to make the man of your dreams fall madly in love with you!

The other day my wife and I were talking about the unfortunate situation a friend of hers is having. It seems that she has finally found that special guy, Mr. Right as she calls him, which I find so very cliche...but hey, it works for her and she is booming with "happy-ness". Seriously, the glow is so bright is wonderful to see and aso painful at the same time.

She is madly in love, but to no avail. It seems she hasn't the courage to go for it, so to speak.

She, sorry her name is Lisa. Lisa came over and was talking to Mona the other evening and Lisa flat out asked Mona:

What is a healthy relationship? How do I find the man of my dreams?

Mona, slightly stunned by the question, but seeing the angst and pain in Lisa's eyes replied:

I honestly don't know...do you see Johnny Depp here ;)

They shared a laugh and it eased the tension. For both of them.

Lisa was beside herself. SHe just wishes "if I could only understand men"

We aren't all that hard to figure out, believe me..just ask my wife.

Not wanting to send Lisa to a relationship expert, and take weeks to get her some professional help, Mona started asking a few questions regarding the man that Lisa adores.

What do you see in him?

What common goals do you have?

What type of life is he looking for, married or free spirit?

Just to name a few.

Have you ever said this to yourself, “It seems I can’t do anything right with men.”

Are you in a similar situation as Lisa perhaps? Is it that you’re open to advice, but where you should turn?

If you can relate to Lisa, you are not alone out there, we simply sent Lisa to a great resource that Mona's younger sister was reading about a year ago and in it Kim (Mona's sister) discovered several things about both herself and men, in general and in a way she could utilize the pages to now being happily married to the man of her dreams. It really is a wonderful book called, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” It has been a Best Sleer for over 4 Years helping women achieve the same goal that Lisa wants to but be warned these insights are powerful and might seem unconventional to a woman because they were designed by a man, to affect men. Please remember this very important rule: What works with women does not work with men.

If you’re a woman who feels frustrated in any of your relationships, there is good news. You don’t have to try harder, you simply need to know WHAT to try. What you need is a blueprint of what men find captivating in a woman and most likely did in you, as well. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” is a bestselling e-book that shows women exactly how to attract AND keep a man. This information can be yours simply by taking a read for yourself here

Adam Copeland retires

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 04:09:00 +0000

Adam Copeland, A great wrestle, a fan favorite in my home. He will be missed by his fans indeed!!!

RCMP Tasered an 11 Year Old in B.C

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 04:03:00 +0000

What the HELL is going on with the proud RCMP?

Trained officers can't control an 11 year old with a knife? Come on....Okay, the kid stabbed a 37 yr old man...but still....

They tasered a child!!!!! What the HELL!! Members of the RCMP Tasered an 11 Year Old in B.C

Used to be bng a member of the RCMP meant something......I dunno anymore.....

Then again you can't blame all of them for one instance I suppose.....

The story just baffles me.

Jenn Sterger...Who is She...and Why Does Anyone Care?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 11 Apr 2011 17:23:00 +0000

Apparently Jenn Sterger is a joke....she is Brett Favre's fiance, some are calling her a gold digger.

Check out the video's online and you decide.

I mean, really? With all the important things going on in the world, like Japan, election issues, wars, etc...etc...

This makes front page news????

Is it me, or what?

Weird Online Game Things

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 05:40:00 +0000

Just cruising around online, looking for some new games to play, kinda getting tired of the old Solitaire and PacMan, lol. I was thinking about trying some of those Facebook games like Farmville or Mafia Wars. It seems alot of my Facebook friends are really into these games. Takes alot of time from what I have seen, not to mention that you also get bombarded with crazy amounts of Facebook apps and Facebook requests.

Those are probably the main reason that I don't look at Facebook games, there just seems to be too many Weird Online Game Things out there.

If I really wanted to begin playing them I could pick up the idea rather quickly but another reason I am uncertain about joining any of them is that I also have noticed certain levels of addiction, so to speak. Every morning, before work, I check my Facebook first to see what's going on with my friends status updates, sure as shit there are a few people playing Farmville or some other Facebook game....moving along I check my emails, read the paper online, recheck and send emails, finish my coffee...etc, all of this takes about 45 minutes to an hour and then by that time my daughter is usually online, via Facebook, so I go back to Facebook to chit chat and the same people playing the Facebook games are still palying those Weird Online Game Things!

I don't get it. Sure it's most definitely fun...but how many hours do some of these people spend playing games online?

I don't know...I just know I don't want to be the one playing the games and then begin to get addicted to them....still....its a stuggle...do I try or do I simply stay away from them?

Hell...chances are I'll give 'em a go...if I like them to much then I will simply set up a timeframe of when I can and can't play them.

It's truly amazing the effect Facebook and Facebook apps have on us these days.

What do you think about all of these Weird Online Game Things?

Maybe I'll look at a few other sites that offer free trials without apps...if I can find any that is.

Test my Blogger Blog Security

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 02:46:00 +0000

So, recently I decided to test my blogger blog security, just for a bit of fun. My blog is just an online journal read by close friends but still...I figured it couldn't hurt to see if I could learn anything.

What I learned was a whole new respect for SEO, web-builders or web-masters. This is not an easy task when you aren't really sure of what you are doing. So, instead of going about it the old fashioned way I joined a few forums lurking for advice and help.

Currently I am sending out a few emails to some VA's that I found online just to see how long it will take to go through my fun little blog. I may even just switch it back to a normal addy. For now, I am learning a whole slew of new things related to website building.

I love blogs. I really do, they are (for the most part) idiot proof....but it just seems that I would really benefit by learning some HTML or SEo etc. Going into my late 40's, the future is the 'net so it can't really hurt for me to learn how to test my blogger blog security.

One day I may even venture forth and learn how to build a site all on my own, but in reality, with the family, time constraints, volunteer and charity work I do, it probably won't happen....only time will tell.

Still, if you blog and want to learn more check out Google Webmasters Tools or Google Online Security Blog. You need a Google account for the Webmasters Tools section, but not the Security Blog.

I blog for fun, but for those of who you blog for a living you can never be too careful I guess.

So go ahead and Test your Blogger Blog Security

Why doesn't ODSP properly investigate fraud?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 20:11:00 +0000

Why doesn't ODSP properly investigate fraud?

A lot has happened in the last few weeks. Alot indeed.

It has recently become my personal opinion, yes this is MY personal opinion only as far as I know, that ODSP (Ontario Disability Support Program) doesn't really seem to take issues of fraud all that seriously. Why you may ask?

Well, without going into too much detail....I will explain some of it.

Recently, (well 2008, he just told me the story) a friend of mine heard from the ODSP office that he owed back pay on Child Support.

Not a problem, so he thought. Then, all of a sudden he hears from his ex-wife. Happy to hear from his daughter, but as far as he is concerned his ex wife can drop off the face of the earth. She is nothing more than a lying piece of excrement anyway, who abuses the system, cheats, steals, lies...even tells horrible lies about her own family members. And well, yeah, pretty much uses her kids as payments from the government. Believe me, she is not trusted or liked by his family or most members of her own because of her lies and BS.

Why doesn't ODSP properly investigate fraud?

After hearing from the ODSP about child support arrears, he never hears or is informed that he is to make Child Support payments to their office. ONLY. Now, this is actually verifiable as I have seen the ORIGINAL copy sent by the ODSP office to him. So if any representative from the ODSP is reading this, please DON'T try to say that isn't true. IT IS!

So, moving along, his ex wife is now all of a sudden all nicey nice, she needs money. She had her Child Tax Benefit cut off due to overpayments and an investigation, according to her. So, she needs money and he wants to see his daughter. She asks for money and he provides it. Never once being told by his thieving ex wife that she was never planning on telling ODSP about it. She never claimed ANY of the money. NOT a single cent.

He drives 2 hours to pick her up for a day, she has no smokes, her boyfriend has no job at this time, he interestingly enough got booted off ODSP....hmmm...seeing a pattern here...aren't you?

After roughly 18 or 19 months of this stupidity, he confronts her to find out if she declared it and she laughed at him. So, he sent valid proof of receipts to the ODSP and so far it seems NOTHING has been done. He asks the ODSP questions at gets help from his local city, but no help from where his ex wife lives....odd isn't it?

We aren't talking about a few bucks here either, we are talking about a few thousand dollars.....Oh Well.....no big deal, right? He decided to send the rest of his proof to the ODSP fraud line directly to see what happens...if anything even does. I mean, he pays support to his ex, she doesn't claim it, how is he supposed to know he was supposed to pay the ODSP directly? So now he looks like a dead beat because of his lying ex wife. Seems really fair doesn't it? If you answered yes to that question, you are basically a thief and you can leave this page NOW!

The ex wife even got married before they were officially divorced and put photo's on Facebook!! Everyone in matching outfits, wedding dress, out door event, a couple hundred people...in short AN EXPENSIVE wedding!

Oh well, I guess you can afford a nice wedding when you don't claim what money you get.

To mkae matters worse, his daughter tells him that his ex wife's boyfriend/husband whatever the hell he is HAS A JOB...under the table, no one is supposed to know because then ODSP will take it off their cheque.

THIEVES!!

Again, this is reported to the ODSP office, in proof form from text messages and emails and Facebook messages....still, nothing is getting done!

WHY?

I have written enough, you get the picture!!!!

There is more, and it gets worse, but more writing is getting me madder that so many people abuse this system.

There are people who genuinely need ODSP, who play by the rules, who live within the requirements...yet because of people like her there are people who need ODSP who can't get it!

So, someone PLEASE explain to me why the Hell this is allowed to go on?

Why doesn't ODSP properly investigate fraud?

How would you describe a Casual Relationship?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 04 Apr 2011 14:49:00 +0000

That is one of several questions I am asking today...

Why do I reject EVERY boy/girl who asks me to be their girl?

Why am I seeing him/her everyday? Is it just a coincidence?

Why are we awkward after sex?

Am I Mentally cheating on my boyfriend/girlfriend?

How would you describe a Casual Relationship?

What should I do, how to get back the one you love?

How do you know if you love someone?

Why do I want him back so badly?

Does he/she like me or is he/she just being friendly?

What kind of compliments do you like to get?

Comments are welcomed

Robot Unicorn

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 22:42:00 +0000

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Why the hell do Dogs chase their tales like Politicians?

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 17:39:00 +0000

Or should the question be:

Why the hell do politicians chase their tales like dogs?

First and foremost, I mean no offence to dogs of the world.

Dogs are honest.

Dogs are loyal.

Dogs are true.

Dogs are (usually) house broken.

Dogs are Man's Best Friend.

Dogs have a sense of honor.

Dogs have a sense of family.

Dogs have a sense of pride.

Dogs have...well...sense.

On to Politicians.....

Politicians are (dis)honest....they know they are, so don't argue the point, not naming any politician in particular either....not even naming what type...so you guys and gals fill in your own blanks.

Politicians are not loyal...(same reasoning as above)

Politicians are truely untrue. To themselves if no one else.

Politicians are (usually) house broken...okay one similarity.

Politicians are certainly NOT man's Best Friend.

Politicians have very little sense of anything other than their own personal gain.

Don't agree?

Tell me of a politician who is everything a dog is with proof....sadly, I don't think I will get any comments on this one.

Homefront Video Game

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 11:54:00 +0000

How to play Homefront video game for those of us pushing our 40's......AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH

Yes, it's true. Tuesday I will be 39 years young, a shitty situation, relationship sucks, business sucks....mid-life crisis sucks, not seeing my daughter sucks, my ex wife is somehow ripping off OD (thats another story) and well.....life sucks....for now. I just have soooo much on my plate that I need to step back, rethink and reorganize...then life won't suck anymore. I need to left off some serious steam. So, I did some searching over at my favorite gaming site and found this pretty cool game. Its ALL about BLOWING SHIT UP!!!

Yeah, I needed that in a big way.

It's a pretty cool game and I played quite a few hours of it, still dunno know if I am gonna buy it. It's called Homefront Video Game. You might enjoy it if you have any love of removing stress from your life, who doesn't these days? Am I right?

So if you are wondering where to find homefront video game, you can find it over at this link here

Okay, I guess I can also let you know that if you go over to that link there is a video thats over 16 minues long to tease you into getting the game lol.

Homefront Video Game video and info to be found here. Oh it also has a seperate place for hHomefront video game Canada

She cheated and it pisses me off

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 17:35:00 +0000

Alright, Jesus....enough already....

Yeah, I know I should get over it but dammit....it really, really pisses me off. Why?

I mean, so what?! So she cheated and it pisses me off....I need to get over this but it is really difficult. I guess after all of the time spent or wasted, depending on how you look at things I should listen to my friends and just simply say it's a blessing....yeah...umm...NOT!

Anyway, not much else today.

Chat later.

Happy Birthday Keira Knightley

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sat, 26 Mar 2011 18:28:00 +0000

Keira is 26 today!!! Happy Birthday to Keira!!!

Keira Knightley is a very wonderful and beautiful young actress....

Is there a way to end my panic attacks

noreply@blogger.com (Garret Belisle) — Sat, 26 Mar 2011 18:15:00 +0000

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After the events with my relationship I discussed on my last post, this blog is about to get alot more personal. Helpful as well, I hope.

My anxiety shot through the roof over the "my wife cheated on me....again" issue and I needed to talk to someone badly. The problem is I live in Northern Ontario, a little town where secrecy is a bad joke, seriously. This town is so full of gossip hounds and talkers that speaking to anyone, including a specialist (with priviledge) would still have my issue going ALL over town.

I decided that I needed some help. I need to get some type of guidance. So I signed up for a 7 part email list to try and figure out what to do.

It was in general pretty basic, but it did give me some breathing techniques to use. God knows I don't want to crash my car because of an attack. Anxiety will kill you it seems.

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I hope it helps, now for my regular readers...as I mentioned this blog is about to become an online journal of how this plays out. I will still help if I can with other issues, please bear with me whilst I fix this very personal issue.

Is there a way to end my panic attacks, yes there is.

Garret