Hello JeJe

A lot going on......updates, updates, updates

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 09:26:54 PDT

First, I am saddened by the loss of Michael Jackson. May he find the peace in death that alluded him in life. I weep for my future children to be left with only the "oldies" and nothing they can look to. Music industry, you MUST do better!

The wedding is coming up fast and I am getting nervous, excited and everything all at once :)

Still working out and getting fit. I am focusing on toning now. I will be keeping you updated on that too. The biggest help came from eating cleaner. Most of weight loss can be attributed to healthy eating.

Law school is coming along. Taking two courses in summer school in an effort to lighten my load during the year. I will be done a few weeks before the wedding.

I am working on a new website. I am so unimpressed by the traveshamockery that is this blog and want to do something a little nicer. Stay tuned.....

Beginning of my 30 day EA Sports Active Challenge

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 12:03:24 PDT

I am a wii lover and I am trying to get back to the size/weight where I felt most comfortable. I went through a lot at once that contributed to me gaining a lot of weight. Being a former athlete, I am so not accustomed to this and wanted my body back. I felt like a stranger in my own body.

I always talked about losing weight but was never really motivated. Now, I have the ultimate motivation: WEDDING! I started eating clean/healthy and it's great. Lost a great amount of weight just changing my eating habits. And the bad stuff does not even taste the same. But I want MORE! lol So it's time to exercise. For me, I have to enjoy the workout or I get bored. I found a few things that I like and have begun rotating with them.

Yesterday, I added a new, great workout. It's the EA Sports Active for the wii. I love the wii and wii fit is cool, but this game takes it to a whole new level. I did my first workout yesterday and was drenched with sweat and that was just medium intensity. I loved the boxing and really used it to release some stress. The running and walking is something I will have to get used to because I still don't think my mii was moving as fast as I was. The strength training exercises with the resistance band are great except it seemed to have a hard time registering all of my movements. For example, when doing the squats, I would be standing straight up and it kept telling me I was squating too low and to stand up. I'm 5'9 lol. But I will figure that out and keep going. It also has a journal so you can track how your day went and you will notice things like if you need more sleep, you are not eating right etc.

I will be blogging the entire 30 days of the challenge and will share my progress. In the end, I may just share pics too! :)

Dare to Dream Challenge

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Thu, 21 May 2009 20:47:44 PDT

I was twittering and having fun doing some random questions with friends. I asked "Name your 3 dream jobs". EVERYBODY responded with at least one realistic goal. But there was NO reason that could not be overcome that would keep them/us from attaining it. So that led to my next question: Are you bold enough and do you want it enough that you can dedicate yourself to doing ONE thing a week to achieving that goal? If so, sign up and share your dream and one thing you can do this week. Why not encourage and support each other while living our dreams?

Get Me Bodied Challenge

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Sun, 10 May 2009 18:53:02 PDT

I started a challenge to help us lose a few pounds and sculpt those sexy bodies we want. Dancing is a great workout and it's fun. My challenge, I would make us a playlist every week and 5 days a week you must do the whole playlist. There's always going to be a Beyonce song or two (since her stuff always tends to get you to dance in a way that works you) and some warm-up and cool down songs. There will be a mix of genres sometimes so open up your mind lol. Sometimes you will want to pop it, drop it like it's hot, move like a stripper and if you are not sure what to do, ask yourself WWBD? What would Bee do? lol Oh yeah, if you have ever taken a strip areobics class in heels, you know it intensifies the workout immensely and is great for the legs. I am thinking 1 month for this first round. Anybody in?

Blogtalk radio time!

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 21:25:43 PDT

I have started my blogtalk radio account! What topics would you like covered? Would you like to be a guest? Need advice? If you want to be anon., you can just e-mail your question.

Also, what would you like me to blog about right now?

New show alert!

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 12:42:36 PDT

So the dude and I are channel surfing the other day and we stumbled upon a new show called Cupid. We were sucked in within the first few minutes. Let me give you a little background info:

Trevor Pierce is a larger than life character who insists that he is Cupid, the Roman god of love. He claims that he has been sent to New York City by Zeus to bring 100 romantically challenged couples together before being allowed to return to Mt. Olympus. His persistence eventually lands him in a mental institution.

Three months later, Trevor is found to be harmless to himself and others and is released -- but under certain conditions. Placed under the care of psychiatrist and self-help author Dr. Claire McCrae, he must attend her singles group therapy sessions on a regular basis so that she can monitor his progress.

Trevor returns to his rented room upstairs from the struggling Tres Equis Cantina, owned by Felix Araiza and his sister, Lita. In exchange for rent, Trevor becomes a bartender and creates an atmosphere for singles looking for lasting love. His ideas, such as half-price margarita nights and mariachi karaoke duets, could help him bring couples together and ultimately take him closer to the day that he gets to return to Mt. Olympus.

No one believes Trevor's story, but everyone finds him to be quite charming. Although he possesses a great knowledge of Greek mythology, Claire finds that Trevor constantly interferes and contradicts her when it comes to her pragmatic style of helping lonely hearts find their soul mates. In true love, Claire believes it's all about friendship and mutual respect; for Trevor, heat and passion conquer all. Only time will tell who will win this battle for love.

Cupid stars Bobby Cannavale (Will & Grace) as Trevor, Sarah Paulson (The Spirit, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip) as Claire, Rick Gomez (What About Brian) as Felix and Camille Guaty (Las Vegas) as Lita.

The romantic dramedy was created by Rob Thomas (Veronica Mars), who serves as executive producer/writer, along with executive producers Jennifer Gwartz (Good Behavior, Veronica Mars), Danielle Stokdyk, (Good Behavior, Veronica Mars), Dan Etheridge (Good Behavior, Veronica Mars) and Diane Ruggiero (Dirty Sexy Money, Veronica Mars). Cupid is produced by ABC Studios.

Watch the pilot/premiere episode here: http://abc.go.com/primetime/cupid/index?pn=about

In such a jaded society, this show is really light-hearted and funny. Even the love cynic is on the show as a lead and we have our traditional romantic. Both of these appeal to everyone and it gives you hope, lifts your spirit and makes you smile. At the very least, you will get a good chuckle.

Check it out and let me know what you think. What are your favorite shows? If I like it, I may blog as I watch. I will likely do a few reality shows and The Game and maybe CSI.

FINALLY doing something with this and getting consistent

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 12:18:45 PDT

Hey! There has been ssoooooo much going on. If you didn't know, I am getting married and have been planning the wedding. I am also in law school. Most recently, I am one of the admin of a message board (www.divasdollsmisfitsforum.com Come join!). The board and the blogs are a great way to pass time at work or school or just something cool to read on the net. Needless to say, I have been VERY busy, but I want to get back to my blog.

So now what? I'm taking this blog to the next level. My dude and I will be doing advice questions together and are thinking of doing a relationship podcast/call-in show. Women love his advice and he LOVES to give it lol. Also people swear that he and I are hilarious to watch or listen to so I will let you be the judge.

I want to profile members, subjects, celebrities, stories, businesses and things that are of interest to you. Do you have a suggestion of something to profile or want to be profiled? E-mail me at hellojejelive@gmail.com I will also do interviews, reviews and other assorted things.

The Dating Game! I am going to try to play matchmaker for one of my friends using an online website. We will keep you updated here and on DDM and you can also weigh in. We can match you up too! :)

Please visit my favorite sites and subscribe to my blog! Please share the link to my blog with your friends....e-mail, facebook, twitter, e-mail...just some ideas! lol Let's support each other. There's enough negativity in the world, time to uplift instead of tear down.

If there is anybody out there who wants to get their name out there and help me and possibly a few other bloggers fix up their blog, let me know. Thanks!

Get ready......

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 09:00:02 PDT

Here we go ladies and gentlemen! We are about ready for the next level where I will do advice, coaching and whatever you need in real time on an individual basis. There will also be my random ramblings and musings but this is your opportunity to get privately whatever it is you need. These questions or information will only be posted with your permission.

What can you do to help? Well before the full lunch, you can email me any questions or discussion topics to hellojejelive@gmail.com And as always, spread the word.

You have some nerve

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Fri, 07 Dec 2007 10:54:05 PST

This should be a quick one. If you take this personally, you must see yourself in it. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE AND YOUR OPINIONS!

Words are POWERFUL. Think about what you say and how you are putting your words together. I am admittedly politically incorrect and comfortable with that. But I know that I have to be prepared with what may come with that. If you are rude and nasty or just fly off at the mouth without thinking, be prepared to catch the hell that comes with it. Don't try to stomp with the big dogs if you still eatin' puppy chow. Also, stop trying to bait people, just come out with it. Everybody knows what you are doing, just come out with it already!

For those folks giving advice about hair, looks, beauty, etc.....Sit yo silly ass down if you are not together or getting it together. Nobody wants your unsolicited opinion unless it's to know what NOT to do. You trying to tell me what to do with my hair when it looks like your ish is so dry you are about to start a brush fire. When you go to the beach, you come equipped with your own inner tube but you want to tell somebody else how to eat or what is healthy or how to exercise.

Just some food for thought...carry on.

News, Updates and Seasons Greetings

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Fri, 07 Dec 2007 10:25:15 PST

Hello folks!
Happy Holidays! I hope that you and yours will be blessed and safe during this holiday season. Sorry I haven't been updating much, but I am on top of it now. I am so excited because I am working on a few new things and when it's time, you guys will be the first to know. Just know that 2008 will be the YEAR OF THE RABBIT!

I'd love to have more of your questions, comments and feedback. What topics would you like to see discussed? Anything you need answered? Please e-mail me at askjessicarabbit.com

Lastly, some of you know that I have a message board. I am looking to add new members and update it. I want it to really grow. So please visit, join post and contribute: www.grownandsexyboard.com. It's pretty basic as of now but as we grow, so will the board layout/features. Like the name says, it's grown and sexy so we discuss any and everything. Also, let me know if there are any forums or things that you want to see there.

Thank you for supporting me and praying for me and I will continue to do the same for you.

Daddy's Little Girl,
Jessica Rabbit

Do I stay or do I go?

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Fri, 07 Dec 2007 10:17:04 PST

Dear JR,

I need some relationship advice. I have been with my guy for 4 years- we met right after college. He is a wonderful person and we have both grown together in so many ways. We have discussed marriage and both of us want to take that next step. However, he is looking for a better-paying job and I will be relocating 1,300 miles away in a week for my job (transfer). He has expressed interest in moving to another state too but says he can't and we won't live together until he has my ring.

Would you stick around? Hope he gets a better job in that state? How would you try to keep the rlshp together long distance.

Thanks in advance.

A relationship takes two people. You both would need to work at it. You have an opportunity and you are taking it. He is looking for a better opportunity and that may be found with relocating. He claims he may be willing to relocate, you need to really discuss this. YOU ARE leaving to improve yourself. How much is this relationship worth to each of you? Is it worth working on? Four years is a long time and if you are truly serious, sacrifices need to be made. It's not fair to hold you back professionally and personally when he has said he would consider moving. You can keep the relationship going with open communication, trips, emails, little surprises...any and everything. But I will not lie to you. It takes work and things will not be easy. Tell him to pack his raggedy duffle bag and relocate before he loses the best thing that ever happened to him! (Just joking, don't scare the man off) Hope this helps and feel free to follow up.

A reader asks about going natural...

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Wed, 10 Oct 2007 11:32:57 PDT

have been contemplating going natural, and I have decided to do it. I am scared that I will not look good with short hair, and weaves look so ridiculously fake to me. What do you suggest I do?

Well, try braids. There are 8,003 (I don't really know the number) different types of braids that you can get until you are ready to cut off your relaxed ends. Or do protective styles and flat twists. Have fun!

Welcome to my show

noreply@blogger.com (JeJe) — Mon, 08 Oct 2007 21:47:22 PDT

This blog is dedicated to my thoughts, opinions, feelings and advice. This is where you can ask me questions and I shall answer them. They can be personal or general. I will offer my candid, colorful insight/advice and some commentary on current events and entertainment You can post it here or send me an email at AskJessicaRabbit@gmail.com. Come in and sit on my couch. I have refreshments and the relaxation aromatherapy candles going and I am here for you.

Coming soon......video replies