It’s been quite a few months now, that most of you got the free copy of the Chinese Sex Manual report… (and the blog’s not updated… Sorry.)

How are things been going on for you in your sex life? Did it get better or maybe helped improve on your relationship with your love one?

I really want to know how things have been working out for you for the last couple of months. Well it’s been quite a few months now since I last updated the blog. Been pretty busy working on the new book.

I know I’ve been saying that for months and I’m really sorry. It’s just that I’m handling most of the translation myself and I pretty much penned everything down into English… from scratch.

But not to worry, the new book’s like 91.8% completed and along with the other special bonuses So, I’ll be having a lot more free time to get in touch with you guys here.

Anyway, the book is called Instant Pleasure Secret… I guess the name pretty much speaks for itself. I originally wanted to name it speed orgasms. But figured that it might actually not be that “Google friendly” and plus, there were a lot of other ‘critical areas’ being covered other than the speed orgasms techniques itself. So it kinda makes the original title looks inappropriate. That’s why I ditch it for the new one.

I know some of you can’t wait to get your hands on it. But it won’t be ready until around mid Oct. So, keep your heads up and check your emails regularly. I’ll be revealing some new and exciting orgasm tips from the new book. So you’ll know what to expect.

So, to kick start this blog again. I wanna share you a really funny video about premature ejaculation. Enjoy.

With all the controversy about whether women can reach orgasm through sexual intercourse at all… I betting that you’re just as eager to find out the truth!

So is it the stimulation of the clitoris that works best or is it G-spot stimulation… Or does it take stimulation to both of these areas that will drive a woman to wild orgasmic pleasure?

In this video, you’ll find out the REAL answers when the crew hit the streets, randomly interviewing women… Asking them if they can reach orgasms from intercourse alone.

It’s really important to understand how your breathing can actually affect premature ejaculation…

It’s been proven that short gasps of air can actually intensify and escalate ones’ orgasms much faster,  making you ejaculate prematurely.

When the air supply in your body is reduced… your anxiety level increases making your heart pump even faster.

This causes a surge of blood flow to your sexual organs as well. Thus, making you reach an orgasm, early.

To prolong the endurance for ejaculation… you’ll need to do the exact opposite. Instead of giving yourself in to immediate pleasure, you will need to control your breathing.

Take in slow and deep breaths and pause for a second, before you exhale. And when you exhale, pause for a second as well, before you inhale again.

Breathing naturally and in an unforced manner, further de-stresses your mind. By doing so, it gives you elevated control over your body (And your orgasm as well…)

Over anxious breathing massively cuts down your aptitude to control your sexual arousal, deep breathing does the contrary and gives you the control back.

The trick, is to pace yourself… And not rush into the excitement.

I hope you enjoy the tips that I shared with you on controlling premature ejaculation. Feel free to leave some comments below and let me know what you think =)

I’ll talk to you soon.

P.S. The techniques I’ve shared with you, are just some of the many techniques being taught in the  EjaculationTrainer Programme. Many men have already benefited from this programme (incluing myself) … And I just wanted to make sure that you didn’t miss out your share of the pie. Go ahead and try them out tonight, I promise you won’t regret it!

Squeezing Technique

A variant of this method involves the partner squeezing the tip of the penis just before orgasm. This pushes blood out of the penis and reduces the erection.

The squeezing technique is very effective in controlling premature ejaculation. This is done by masturbating the penis till the semen is just about to be released.

Once you are on the verge of releasing your semen, quickly wrap your first two fingers and your thumb around the top portion of the penis (also known as the head) and squeeze it tightly, holding it there for 20 seconds…

By applying pressure to the frenulum… (the strip of skin that connects from the tip of the penile head, to under the head)

You cause the blood flow to momentarily disgorged, thus reducing the erection… This trains your body to get used to sensation of a delayed ejaculation.

Once the urge to ejaculate passes, you can again repeat this process for a couple of times.

This method is also known to increase the volume of semen during ejaculation.

Diversion

Another way is to divert your attention… while you are masturbating or having actual intercourse… The purpose here is to create a temporal detachment from the body and the mind.

By distracting your thoughts… your body becomes slightly “unaware” of the sensations around it.

This is to pre-condition your body to get used to extended stimulation, without having the urge to ejaculate…

If done properly, this could dramatically improve on your sexual endurance.

You see, men are sexually stimulated by visual stimuli... Imagine getting a lap dance from a strip teaser and you’ll find yourself getting a hard-on quickly.

The idea here is to think of something non sexual… in the midst of having sex, especially when you know that you are going to ejaculate soon.

You could think of something really funny, boring, frustrating… etc… anything that can take your mind of the pleasure you are experiencing…

You will realize that your erection will start to subside a little.

If you have been practicing the squeezing method or the controlling method that we discussed in the previous blogpost, you’ll become more aware of your body mechanism… knowing the exact precision to stop and to continue thrusting.

I hope this is of help to you.. If you like what you read, please leave a comment… Don’t be shy to ask a question if you’ve one… =)

In tomorrow’s blogpost, I’ll be sharing with you how proper breathing can dramatically slow down your ejaculation process.

P.S Once you start to see improvements in your ejaculatory endurance… You may advance to the The next stage… ( Recommended for non-beginners)

Many guys would agree with me that Premature Ejaculation is one of the most depressing experiences any man can have, especially in the bedroom…

I too, had my own “unfair” share of struggles with this condition… where I would literally blow my load in a matter of just seconds into penetration.

It’s really depressing and embarrassing as well…

Do you remember that dreadful incident where your girlfriend or your wife begged you not to stop thrusting her, but the more you plunge your member into her vulnerably moist womanhood…

You find it even more difficult to control the urge to explode.

And before you know it, you’re already laying on your side of the bed… exhausted; while she is still good to go for the next round. (I’m sure you know what I’m talking about…)

That’s called premature ejaculation…

You probably won’t be surprised if I told you that there are also many guys like yourself, who also face the same dilemma… and also looking for that one cure to rid them of the “condition”…

Over the years, experts have argued over whether premature ejaculation is indeed a psychological factor or a physical disorder.

And the range of probable causes that could lead to a man’s premature ejaculation is almost uncountable…

• Early childhood experiences which provoked fear of discovery during masturbation may cause you to “rush” to complete sexual activity because you feel it is “dirty” or not permitted. Thus, it conditions the body to ejaculate quickly upon sexual stimulation.

• Impotence – while this itself, is a treatable physical condition. This may create an anxiety of the need to “get it done” before you lose your erection.

• Anxiety during the first experience of sex. Some men will develop a longer-term anxiety toward sex, which can cause a prolonged experience with premature ejaculation.

• A long period of abstinence from sex.

• Younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older men, as
experience seems to be associated with ejaculatory control.

• Stress: Financial problems, relationship problems, problems at work…

• Side effects of some prescription drugs

• Apart from psychological causes some physiological causes like inflammation of prostate gland or spinal cord problems may cause premature ejaculation.

• Staying up for long hours at night.

• Long gap between meals

• Under nourishment due to worries and grief

• Sitting for long hours in uncomfortable chairs… etc.

But here’s the thing… premature ejaculation is not a disease or a sickness for that matter. It cannot be cured.

But you can condition your body to unlearn the process of premature ejaculation. And train yourself to endure ejaculations and have harder erections… for longer periods of time.

In the next few  blog posts, I’m going to reveal to you 4 simple exercises you can apply, that have worked really well for my students and me…

First of all, you will need to have enough rest and sleep… maintain a balance diet of lots of fruits and water.

Next, you will need to be relaxed… if it means, playing your favorite classical cd in the background.. By all means, do that.

Training your body to get used to longer periods of erection and ejaculating duration is really simple. You can do it either alone or with your partner.

One of the best ways to combat premature ejaculation is by learning to control the sensations prior to orgasm. This method takes time and practice, but it is very effective.

Controlling ejaculations and erections for a longer period of time

If you’re alone…

Turn up your visual stimuli… It could be an adult video or magazine… Once you’re amply aroused, you can begin masturbating as how you normally would…

But here’s the tricky part… You need to stop jerking off immediately, the moment you feel that you are about to reach an ejaculating orgasm.

Do this a couple of repetitions until you are familiar with your body mechanisms… That way, you can easily pace yourself when you have actual intercourse.

If you were to do this exercise if your partner, you will need to practice going on to the verge of climax with your partner, by engaging in non-penetrative sex so that when you feel you’re about to come, signal her to stop… Then, allow your erection to subside.

This also needs to be repeated so that both your partner and you are familiar with the procedure.

Once you are ready, you can proceed with penetration… But if she’s on top of you… in a “Cow-girl” position, signal for her to stop “rocking” the moment you are near the point of ejaculation.

Go and try it right away! You are going to be pleased with the results!

P.S Check back tomorrow for two more ejaculation endurance exercises!

P.S.S The Ejaculation Trainer is one of the most sort after programmes that have literally transformed many men to become  much more confident in the bedroom… Check out their testimonials here and you’ll know what I mean. (I’ve personally used these techniques and have encourage my students to apply them as well… And we’ve never been prouder of ourselves…)

I recommend anybody who is looking for a quick and easy solution to prevent premature ejaculation, to give the Ejaculation Trainer a test-drive now.

Here I was in Bangkok, Thailand… The land of milk and honey. My homeboy, Richie told me that hooking up with the women here is easier than any of the places we’ve been to.

He says that there was something about being a foreigner here and being able to speak good English, that gives us an edge over regular Thai guys.

But I wasn’t too sure about picking up women, since language would be a huge obstruction.

Most of the Thais here couldn’t speak English for nuts.

And as far as speaking the thai language goes… I could only count, which helps when I’m paying for stuff. But that’s just about it.

We arranged to meet one of his girlfriends, at her apartment. Richie said something about his girlfriend wanting to introduce me to her roommate, which was cool…

That means I don’t have to sweat struggling with asking names from girls, who prolly won’t understand me, and getting caught in an awkward moment.

We were planning to hit one of the most happening clubs in the central district called RCA.

Richie’s eyes were gleeming as he kept his eyes glued to the elevator as We waited for the girls. Surprisingly, he had never met his girlfriend’s roommate before.

The girls came down a while later… I recognized Richie’s gal. She’s small and petite, exactly just like what Richie had shown me before, in an issue of Thailand’s very own FHM magazine.

She introduced herself politely. her name was Aoi. And her friend was Amy.

Her friend Amy, was way hotter. If you seen her, you’d think that she is the exact carbon copy of Shannon Elizabeth. (One of the hot babes from American Pie.)

Except that she’s the asian version. She has good curves and a nice ass. she had on a figure hugging tank top and she wore a jumper over… If I was gonna put a label on her… It would be, “Smoking hot”!

I clasped my hand together in front of my face, and greeted her… “Sawadee kap”, which means good day, in thai… She smiled. And she surprised me, when she spoke in fluent English.. “You look really cute when you do that, that’s too formal”.

We hit it off right away.

When we entered the club, I couldn’t believe my eyes. Richie was right when he said that Bangkok was a land of milk and honey! He wasn’t kidding…

There were more girls than guys in the club… And more than half of these girls are reasonably attractive! It was totally unbelieveable.

Things went went unexpectedly well. Amy and I were already dirty-dancing with each other. Then, we kissed.

Then we continued taking a couple more vodka shots and more vodka.

Here’s the thing about Thais, never challenge them to a drinking. They’re freaking good drinkers.

Amy and Aoi already had down more than 10 shots and they’ve only beginning to flush a little in their cheeks.

I know that if I had too much, I wouldn’t be able to work my magic in the bedroom.

For the rest of the night, I pretended to pour vodka into my glass. And I mixed it up with another “100%” of soda.

The club played its last song at 2am. And Aoi suggested to hit another club.

We shared a cab. Aoi took the front seat and Richie, Amy and I, took the back…

During the journey, Amy and I were making out like crazy. We totally ignored Aoi’s and Richie’s presence. I only remembered hearing him laughing.

I slipped my hand into bra and started fondling her breasts… Damn, she has good sizeable breasts. And I couldn’t tell by looking from the outside.

Amy starting speaking to Aoi in Thai… Richie turned to me and said… They’re coming back to our place.

I was like… “Man, this is really easy”… This turned out  to be much better,  than what I expected… indeed!

At the hotel room, I turned the audio system and played the cd, provided by the hotel.

Aoi and ritchie was already making out on their bed and Amy and I were dancing to the ripped off version of “I’ll never break your heart” by the backstreet boys.

Coming to think of it, its pretty hilarious… But being in tipsy mode… we were oblivious to the cheap music.

We took the other bed, and we made out wildly like two wild lions. within seconds, our clothes were off on the floor…

I went down on her… But I was taken aback… She had really huge labias… It was like a pair of pouting lips. I had to separate them, to be able to get to her clit.

Then I moved up on top of her… and I gently slipped my member into her mouth... I couldn’t believe that Amy couldn’t do a blowjob for nuts, I was kinda’ disappointed and I was still limp inside her mouth…

Then we were disturbed by the next bed… Richie was already snoring… And Aoi was also sleeping… not soundly but loudly.. I joked about them being truly to made for each other.

I pulled the covers over me, and I held her breasts against my member… She had just enough for me to do a ti.t-f.ucK.

“Orrick, come in my mouth… I want you to come in my mouth”, she whispered.

“What, are u serious”? I asked, Even though Jen and I had been together for a few years now, she never asked me to release my load into her mouth. She only did it out of love and reciprocation.

But Amy was different. She admitted to having a fetish for guys ejaculating  on her face. (Well, I’m not really into messy sex, I figured when the time comes… I’ll just blow my load into her mouth)

I tried even harder… thrusting her breasts.

But still, I couldn’t get it up…. My mind raced… I found myself screaming in my mind… “C’mon, get up”!

Again, she tried doing the “blowjob” thing… But it was to no avail.. After a couple more tries… She let out a sigh… “You bastard, you’ve got a hangover”... Then she excused herself to the washroom.

Damn, this has to be one of the most embarrassing sexual moments ever. I actually went limp on my first shag in Thailand!

I felt a sudden guilt… I knew it wasn’t a hangover. In fact, I wasn’t half as tipsy as I normally would… It was Jen. I couldn’t stop thinking about her -

How would she have reacted if found out about this… And the night of Wendy’s birthday celebration.

But I didn’t want to disappoint Amy as well… especially at a time like this.

When Amy came back, she said she just wanted to cuddle and talk. I told her everything about Jen and she was acually quite happy that I told her. Then, she made her confession as well.

She went on about all the other guys that she’d f.uck before, She told me the difference between each one of their attributes. I actually thought it was quite funny…

Here I was, talking to this gal whom I was close to f.uck.ing and she’s telling me all these other blokes whom she’ve bedded with. I went on to one of my old “interviewing” habit…

I asked if she ever had a vaginal orgasm before.. And she said, she’d never had one before…

I wasn’t surprised…

Her labia was covering her clit, she wouldn’t feel a thing even if I was rubbing my pubic area against it, during intercourse.

So, I explained to her what the guy has to do, in order to help her achieved and orgasm… She was getting so turned on, that when I touch her vagina… She was already soaking wet.

So I inserted two of my fingers into her vagina... Damn, she was tight as hell… And guess what she did? She actually use her vaginal muscles to push my fingers out of her vagina!

Amy, started jerking me again… But this time, I tried to imagine myself making love to Jen… Then I decided to push my luck, “Let me come into your mouth”, I said.

She positioned myself onto my member, and within minutes… I blew my load into her mouth…

Amy snuggled up close to my chest… and for the rest of the night, we just cuddled until we fall asleep.

The next morning, we hadn’t spoken much to each other. I walked her to the hotel lobby and sent her off in a cab.

I knew this was gonna be the last I’ll be seeing of her…. That sucks.

Women from earlier generations were brought up to be conservative, especially towards sexual issues. In the past, the women do not relate their sexual needs to their partners.

But, things have changed drastically ever since, as majority of present day women are expecting to gain sexual fulfillment from their partners. Women of today, no longer want to deny themselves the pleasure of a real female orgasm.

This makes it much more important that you equip yourself with the right techniques, to give her the orgasm she desires. A recent case study conducted on the women in America showed that, the number one cause for infidelity is sexual frustration.

Financial problems come in at second place. Ensuring your woman that she is sexually satisfied will not only keep her contented, but also keeps the relationship strong in the long run.

Below, are 3 very simple tips that you can apply to turn your sex life around for the better.

Tip 1: Variety is Bliss

If you continue to use the same position every time you make love to her, she will start to get bored after awhile. Do not be afraid to add variety to your love-making routine. Try alternative positions where she finds both comfortable and pleasurable.

The surprise of doing something differently and unexpectedly will certainly boost her excitement, and also help her to reach an orgasm much more quickly.

Tip 2: Creativity breeds excitement

Try to be creative. Modify some of the sex positions that you have always been using in bed. Instead of going into the regular missionary position where she spreads her legs wide while you get on top of her, lift up both of her legs and put them on top of your shoulders as you penetrate her.

You can also enter her from the rear, using one hand to reach down to her crouch and rubbing her clitoris at the same time.

By giving her simultaneous stimulation to both the g spot and clitoris the same time, it increases both her pleasure as well as the chances of reaching an orgasm.

You can also guide her to “sit” on top of you. This position allows her to take control of the speed and depth of the penetration; women know their hot spots better than you do. This is a good chance for her to pleasure herself without your help.

This position provides direct stimulation to her g-spot, which is where most women experience orgasm from.

Tip 3: Oral Sex – Escalated pleasure

Sexual intercourse is not the only a woman can get an orgasm from. In fact, you can give her an orgasm by gently licking on her clitoris and using your fingers to stimulate her g spot at the same time.

It’s true that there’s no such thing as a “one-size fits all” sex position. So don’t be too hard on yourself when your partner is not responding well to it. The shape of woman’s vagina varies differently from one woman to another.

So what may work on others may not necessarily work on your partner. The trick is to keep exploring and finding out where and how she likes to be pleasured. In this video, a group of women get together to discuss about their favorite orgasmic sexpositions… Enjoy!

The good news is that, once you have understand the principles behind these two types of multiple female orgasms, you will become more aware of what is needed to be done to give her multiple orgasms.

A woman experiences two types of multiple orgasms. One is called the “Serial orgasms” while the other is known as “Sequential orgasms”.

Serial orgasms:

As the name suggests, serial orgasms come rapidly. A woman can actually experience a forth coming orgasm just within seconds of the previous one.

The most effective way to give her serial orgasms is, applying direct stimulation to the most sensitive areas of her erogenous zones.

The more knowledgeable you are in the anatomy of a woman’s vagina , the easier it is for you to locate those areas. After all, when it comes to multiple orgasms, knowing where to stimulate her vagina is of the utmost importance.

It saves you time on figuring her out and it also maintains her momentum of pleasure.

sequential orgasms:

However, sequential orgasms have much longer intervals in between each orgasms. Unfortunately, many men are not able to last the entire duration of sequential orgasms. (Here’s a solution for you.)

On average, most men usually reach an orgasm within 10 minutes of thrusting. But instead, most women take at least 20 minutes before she experience her first orgasm.

In order for you to give her an orgasm, you are got to have to learn how to control the urge to ejaculate. This is something that not many men can do.

One of the best ways to so this, is to masturbate a few hours before having sex with your partner. Masturbation can temporarily desensitize your penis, which makes it easier to endure an erection much longer.

You can also escalate the intensity of her orgasms by teasing her. Stimulate her clitoris to the point where she is about to have an orgasm. Then, stop suddenly for a few seconds to let her catch her breath.

Do this for a couple more times before you penetrate her. She will probably experience her first row of multiple orgasms faster than you can imagine.

Marriage can sometime a toll on our love life.  Especially, when  there are more responsibilities to shoulder,  you will tend to focus more on career, finances and housework. This is where married couples start to neglect each other’s physical and emotional needs.

Lets face it! When sex begins to fail in your marriage, it’s only a matter of time before your marriage fails too. However, it does not have to be this way. There are small little things you can do to bring back the sizzle into your sex life.

1)  Boredom is your worst enemy in the bedroom.

If sex with your loved one seems to be going stale, it’s a clear signal that you’re getting to boring in bed. It’s time to do something different!

Try watching “Harry Potter” 10 times on your DVD player and see what you get? … Yeah, boring… duh! It’s the same thing for sex. If you keep on doing the same things over the past few months; not to even mention years…

She will soon lose the anticipation and will probably avoid sex altogether!

Believe me, it always work wonders to try something new in bed. Forget about “eating the same dish everyday”, go over to the main page and download your free copy of the  sex manuscript and learn some new interesting sex positions.

You can even take some time off together. Snuggle up next to each other in bed and watch an erotic video together. This is a very good way to turn her on.

2) Pamper her.

Surprise her with a trip to the spa buy her some sexy lingerie. Women love to be pampered once in awhile. Especially when she is still stressed up after getting off work, giving her a lovely surprise will definitely make her day.