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    <title>weighty secrets | Secrets are things we give to others to keep for us.</title>
    
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        <title>Weighty Secret:  He preferred me fat.</title>
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        <published>2009-11-05T15:17:53-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-05T15:17:53-05:00</updated>
        
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            <name>Melting Mama</name>
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    <content type="html">I think my boyfriend loved me more physically when i was 100 pounds heavier...I love him so much that it hurts that he pays less attention to me now...
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        <title>Weighty Secret:  Baby you can drive my car.</title>
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        <published>2009-11-05T15:16:54-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-05T15:16:54-05:00</updated>
        
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            <name>Melting Mama</name>
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    <content type="html">Can anyone tell me if your sex drive increases after surgery? I believe that mine has diminished because I am so self conscience. Married just two years, my husband is older than me and I don't know if it is...
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        <title>Weighty Secret:  Throw up.</title>
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        <published>2009-10-27T21:39:44-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-10-27T21:39:44-04:00</updated>
        
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            <name>Melting Mama</name>
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    <content type="html">I just ate an entire Breakfast Jack. I feel like crap...and wish I could throw it up..
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        <title>Weighty Secret:  I dump therefore I drink.</title>
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        <published>2009-10-27T21:39:04-04:00</published>
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            <name>Melting Mama</name>
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    <content type="html">I dump therefore I drink. I've been at goal weight for over two years and have developed a nice vodka problem because I can't drown my sorrows in a two liter Mountain Dew and a tub of Duncan Hines cake...
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        <title>Weighty Secrets:  Judged</title>
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        <published>2009-10-27T21:38:11-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-10-27T21:38:11-04:00</updated>
        
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            <name>Melting Mama</name>
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    <content type="html">I get tired of being judged for what I eat. "Normal people" don't understand my wls diet. Low carbers don't understand I don't' need to have just 20 carbs a day. Organicists don't understand that I need to use artificial...
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