This week we move to the third step in the creative process for changing your life which is Acceptance.  Just to recap what we have done so far, first you read the Understanding Stress e book, then you listened to the 7 Steps Interview.

The next week you started getting clear about the one thing that you are choosing to create for yourself now.  We spent the week with the Clarity Step, getting as clear as you could about exactly what you are choosing to create.  Then last week I asked you to create three pictures in your mind that showed your choice a reality in your life.  That was the second step Visualization.

And the idea from the beginning is to write everything down and read it and/or visualize it every morning when you first wake up and then again in the evening right before going to sleep.

If you missed any of this just click on the earlier blogs explaining each in detail.

Now it is time to be sure you can accept this choice into your life.  You would think that would be the easiest step because who wouldn’t accept what they want?  Unfortunately, it is the most challenging for most people, because this is where all of our limiting beliefs come in.  We are not even aware of many of these beliefs because they have been programmed into our sub-conscious by people around us or the media and many times we have not made a conscious choice to accept them, but they are still there running our lives.

Actually we can have anything that we can accept, but most of us have lots of beliefs that block our ability to accept what we want in our lives.  That is why I said in the beginning of our experiment that it would be good if you chose something that you believed you could achieve within the next 6 months.

Beliefs are only information that we have accepted as true.  We actually make them up or accept them without much thought.  They are usually what the other people around us believe, but that does not make them true.  We can actually reject these limiting beliefs and create new ones that are more helpful in creating what we want.  However, this usually takes some time.

In order to change a belief we must first become conscious of the belief and make a conscious choice to change it.  So, what we need to do in this third step is bring to the conscious level any limiting beliefs that you may have.

Do you believe this process will work for you?  Do you believe that you can actually create whatever what you are choosing to create in the next 6 months?  Do you deserve it?  Will the manifestation of this choice create a problem?  Do you see anything that could be an insurmountable problem that you must face in order to create this choice?

After reading your choice morning and evening, ask yourself if you have any beliefs that are not in harmony with the creation this vision.  As any limiting beliefs come to mind write them down then consciously change them and write down the new belief that you want to replace it with.

If you are working with the UF stress relief process daily you are becoming more and more capable of becoming conscious of your limiting beliefs and more capable of understanding how they need to be changed.

Be sure to work with this step daily for the next week, then I will send you more information about how to work with the 4^th step.

When you are totally successful with the acceptance step it is a done deal.  You know without a shadow of a doubt that your vision is taking form. However, we still need to work through the remaining steps.  So, until next week enjoy this wonderful process for changing your life.

It is time now to begin working with the second step in the creative process to create what you want to create in your life now.  As I promised, I will be acting as your personal coach over the next 6 months to help you create one thing that you want now, so you can understand how the creative process works and how valuable this knowledge can be in creating the life you want for yourself.

Just to be sure we are all on the same page I will lay out what we have done so far.  The first step in changing your life was to read the Understanding Stress e book, then you listened to the 7 Steps Interview, so you were clear about how stress affects us and the relationship between stress and our ability to create the lives we want for ourselves.  And the process we can use to create whatever we want.

If you missed the 7 steps interview get it now by clicking here http://unlimitedfutures.org/steps-creative-process/

Next you wrote down the one thing you are choosing to create for yourself and are reading it when you first wake up in the morning and the last thing before you go to sleep at night.  You are also expanding your description of your creation as you get clearer.

The second step in the creative process is Visualization.  You need to be able to clearly see in your mind’s eye the manifestation of whatever you are creating.  Visualizing is just like day dreaming.  It is just using your imagination.  Einstein said that imagination is more important than knowledge.  So, just like professional athletes do, we are going to use our imagination to visualize what we are creating.

We want to start with creating 3 pictures of something that you will see when your choice is manifested.  Put yourself in the picture and imagine you experiencing whatever you are creating.  Use as many of your senses as possible to make it as real as possible.  This is an experience that you are having.  We must first live the experience in our minds.  That creates a form for the law of attraction to fill with the necessary energy for it to manifest in the material world.

As an example, if you were creating a new home for yourself, you could see the surroundings, imagine what it looks like, and also put in some sounds and smells.  Walk inside, what is the feeling you get as you enter?  What is the view like?  Walk into the different rooms, see the furniture and the décor, how does it look, feel, smell?  Maybe there are some fresh baked cookies in the kitchen that you can smell and even taste.  Get comfortable on the sofa or the bed or in your favorite chair.

You get the idea; just let your mind wonder and experience as much as you possibly can in relationship to whatever you are creating.  Give yourself some time to create the 3 pictures that you will be working with, then re-live each of these scenes right after you read your choice first thing when you get up and the last thing before you go to sleep.

It is absolutely amazing how effective this is, so be sure to follow through with this second step daily.  The third step is Acceptance, which we will get into next week.

And be sure to share this new knowledge with all the other people you care about by giving them the link for downloading the stress e book, which is www.unlimitedfutures.org/stressebook

You may also download a free introductory session of our Core Course by simply clicking in the box, on the side of each page on our web site, requesting it.

Until next week, enjoy your visualizing as we continue work with the process that will change your life.

As I promised, I am going to help you change your life by first creating something that you want to create in your life in the next 6 months.  Hopefully you have downloaded the complimentary 7 steps interview listened to it and are ready to start creating something for yourself.  And hopefully you have been thinking about what you want to create.  In case you have not received you complimentary 7 steps interview, go now to

http://unlimitedfutures.org/steps-creative-process/ and listen to this interview.

As you know, the first step in the creative process is Clarity so to start the process write down what you are choosing to create and explain it in as much detail as you can.  Then put it on your night stand and read it when you first wake up in the morning and the last thing you do before going to sleep at night.

I can just hear you saying, “I do not need to write it down I know what it is”, but do it anyway.  It is important.  We are going to create something that is important to you, so you need to follow each step exactly as I explain it.

When you describe what you are creating, be sure to write it in the present tense.  Do not write, I want or I am going to create.  You can write something like I chose to have, be or experience (whatever it is) or I am now creating (whatever it is).

It will be good if you believe that it is possible for you to create what you write down within the next 6 months.  We can change beliefs and we will be working on that also, but it is a process over time.  For starters we do not want to make it too complex.  It also needs to be something that you are willing to accept in your life now or any time within the next 6 months.  It also needs to be something that’s important to you personally, not something for someone else.

From reading the Understanding Stress e book you know how stress blocks your ability to create what you want.  If you have not read this e book go now to www.unlimitedfutures.org/stressebook download it and read it.  You will be able to see why you need to be working with the UF stress releasing process on a daily bases.  This process is clearly described in my book Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want.

If you are working with the UF stress relief process daily your energy will increase and your mind will be becoming clearer.  As this happens your thoughts become stronger and you are becoming more and more capable of creating what you want.

As your mind gets clearer you will gain more insight on how to describe what you are creating for yourself, so expand on what you have written as more clarity comes to you.

This is going to be a fun experiment.  I believe that everyone will be able to work with this process to some extent, because that is how we create, but how well and quickly you can create depends on the condition of your nervous system.  I can tell you how to create what you want, but knowing how to do something and actually doing it is very different.

You will make lots of great discoveries as we work through this process.

Dean and I are also going to join you in this experiment.  What we are choosing to create is attracting at least one thousand more people joining the Unlimited Futures Community each month for the next 6 months.  As we all come to greater levels of understanding and share this understanding with others we can make a difference in the world at large.

Therefore, we are making a complimentary copy of the stress e book available to everyone.  And you can help us fulfill our vision of spreading this information by copying this link and sending it to everyone in your address book.  www.unlimitedfutures.org/stressebook

Everyone needs to know what stress does to us and what we can do about it.  Then it is up to them what they want to do about it, but if they follow through and start working with the stress releasing process they will be forever grateful to you for giving them the information.  And we will be forever grateful to you for helping us fulfill our vision.

The second step in the creative process for changing your life is Visualization and I will be sending you an e mail next week to help you work through that step.  Until then enjoy working with the Clarity step.

I have described the stress release process in detail and provided diagrams and step-by-step guidelines in my book on changing your life entitled Unlimited Futures: How to Understanding the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. 

I have also created a Companion Workbook, a CD with relaxation/visualizations and a DVD demonstrating the energizers to help you get started.  In addition you may download a free introductory session of our Core Course which we now have on DVDs so you can experience it right in the comfort of your own home.

We also provide courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

My husband, Dean, and I firmly believe that if a group of us are willing to work together we can make a great contribution to raising world consciousness.  So, to this end we are beginning an experiment.

I wrote an e book entitled Understanding Stress and I am giving a complimentary copy to anyone who is interested.  In it I explain what stress does to all aspects of our lives, our health, abilities, relationships and our overall wellbeing.  I want people to clearly understand why it is so important for us to release this stress that gets built up in the mind/body system on a daily bases.

If you do not have your copy yet you may simply click here www.unlimitedfutures.org/ebook

Once you start releasing the stress the entire mind/body system starts to heal itself from the damage of the stress and strengthen itself.  As this process continues we become more and more capable of taking charge of our lives and creating whatever we chose.

There is a 7 step process for creating anything.  I have explained this process and how to work with it in an interview which we are also giving complimentary copies to everyone who wants one.  To download your complimentary copy of this interview just click here http://unlimitedfutures.org/steps-creative-process/

We are going to teach everyone, who is willing to make a commitment to working with the process, how to create something that is important to you.  Once you are able to manifest one thing you can repeat the process to create more and more of the things you want in your life.

If you would like to be a part of this experiment then immediately read the Understanding Stress e book and listen to the 7 Steps Interview.  And start thinking about one thing that you would like to create as an experiment and a way to begin to understand that this is a possibility for you.

The first step in the creative process is Clarity.  So, next week I will write about how to get as clear as possible for beginning to create whatever you have chosen to create.

I must warn you that knowing how to do something and actually doing it is very different.  I can tell you how to create, but actually doing it requires you to be strong enough to work with the process, and willing to do it on a daily basis.

How effective you will be in creating what you want is determined by the condition of your nervous system.  If you have not yet started working with the Unlimited Futures process you will want to get started now.

I have explained the stress release process in detail and provided diagrams and step-by-step guidelines for working with this process in my book entitled Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. I have also created a Companion Work to help you get started, along with a CD with relaxation/visualizations, and a DVD where the energizers are demonstrated.

Our mission statement is; Unlimited Futures provides programs and an environment which allows each of us to discover who we are, how we function, our purpose and how to accomplish it.  Thereby creating a network of people around the world who are creating the lives they want for themselves and are actively helping others to do the same.

 We are now inviting you to become a part of the Unlimited Futures community.  You can do that by clicking in the box on the side of the page registering for my free monthly newsletter.

We are asking everyone who wants to participate in this experiment to share the stress e book and/or the 7 steps link with their friends and associates.  We believe that if all of us are willing to share our discoveries we can make a difference in world consciousness.  We would love to have you join us.

We are all looking for happiness.  We think all kinds of things will make us happy.  We think if we just had enough money or went to right school or worked at the right company, had our own business, or met the right person we would be happy.  But when we get the things that we believe will make us happy we find that it still eludes us.

We keep looking outside ourselves for the happiness and fulfillment that we long to experience.  Or we might even think that it is a psychological thing.  We are about as happy as we expect to be, right?  It is true that we usually get what we expect, or find what we are looking for, but there is something that very few people understand about happiness.

Happiness is a physiological condition.  It is actually the result of high level wellness.  When all areas of the mind/body system are functioning properly the right chemicals create an inner state of happiness.

When I first experienced true happiness I had none of the external things that we believe we need to be happy.  I had reached a level of very high level wellness.  I was in love, but not with another person.  I was in love with life and felt totally at peace, yet filled with joy and enthusiasm.  I saw the world from a totally different perspective than I had experienced before.

Without knowing what I was doing, I had discovered a process for releasing stress and strengthening my nervous system to a point where I automatically moved into a much more advanced level of understanding and functioning.

I clearly saw that everything in existence is love expressing intelligently through energy.  We are all that and so is everything else.  We are not separate; we are all expressions of this one wholeness.  I could see that everything is connected and that this love, intelligence and energy is simply being expressed in different forms.

The process that I was working with develops all areas of life, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.  And it simply moves one into a whole new level of understanding and functioning.  It is a process that removes the stress that gets built up in our nervous system which blocks our ability to know who we are on a deeper level.

As we develop all areas of ourselves simultaneously we automatically awaken to a full realization of who we are and our relationship to everyone and everything else in the world.  This is a state of high level wellness in all areas of our life.  This awakening creates permanent happiness.

Sure we all feel moments of fleeting happiness, but to find lasing happiness we simply need to know ourselves.  This is actually our natural state of being.  This doesn’t mean that we wonder around in bliss constantly.  It simply means that we are centered and are aware of our wholeness.

I have described the process that I discovered in detail and provide diagrams and step-by-step guidelines in my book entitled Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want.

I have also created a relaxation/visualization CD and an exercise demonstration on a DVD along with a Companion Workbook to help you get started working with this process.  In addition we now have our Core Course on DVDs so you can experience this wonderful course in the comfort of your own home.  You may download an introductory session absolutely free by simply clicking in the box on the side of each page on our web site, requesting it.

Once you begin to experience this growth process, we also provide courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

This week I want to continue the discussion about creating your ideal life.  Many years ago I discovered a process for releasing stress and strengthening our nervous systems.  This is what we call the Unlimited Futures process.

When you make a commitment to do the Unlimited Futures process twice a day, every day, you are releasing the stress that is built up in the system and giving the nervous system (mind/body connection) the opportunity to heal itself.  As the system heals you become healthier and more capable.  Once the healing is done the system just continues to strengthen itself and you automatically move into a much more advanced level of functioning.

Your energy increases, you mind becomes clearer and you become capable of seeing and understanding greater and greater possibilities.

We know that everything in existence is energy and it is our thoughts or deepest beliefs that moves and forms the energy, and there is a law of attraction that is always having an effect on how it all works, but we can only do what we are capable of doing.  It really doesn’t matter what we know if we are unable to follow through with whatever we know to do.

I also discovered that there are 7 steps which we can work through for creating anything.  First you must be able to get very clear about what you want to create.  Next you must be able to visualize it or see it clearly in your mind’s eye. Then comes the acceptance step. You must not have any old beliefs that block the energy necessary for creating what you want to get through to you.  Then you must be able to stay focused on what you want to accomplish until it manifest.

The next step is intuition. Your nervous system must be strong enough to allow you to become so quiet and settled that your conscious mind can merge with universal intelligence and clearly bring into your conscious awareness what you need to do to accomplish your goal.  Next comes the action step.  You must have the energy, the focus and clarity to follow through with the action.  Our visions do not manifest until the action step has been completed.

Knowing what to do doesn’t help if you are not capable of doing it.  That is why we provide the Unlimited Futures process to release the built up stress and strengthen your entire mind/body system.  The daily practice of this process will make it possible for you to create the ideal life for yourself.

What we are talking about is huge.  In fact, it is the only reason we are all here.  I am so grateful that I discovered this process for releasing stress and strengthening all aspects of our lives, and as I said it is a lifetime process, but that is really all any of us has to do.  We are either, growing and our lives are getting better, or we are stuck on a destructive path.  I so much want to share what I have discovered with you.

This is why I wrote the book Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. I also created a Companion Workbook, A CD with relaxation/visualizations and put together a DVD which demonstrates the exercises to help you get started working with this process.  We have also recorded the Core Course and it is now available on DVDs so you can experience it right in the comfort of your own home.  You may download a free introductory session to this course by simply clicking in the box requesting it on any page of our web site.

Once you start experiencing this growth process, we also provide courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

Today I want to talk about creating your ideal life.  Do you believe that this is even possible?

We all see and hear all the hype about how easy it is to create whatever you want, and according to much of the information we get it only takes about 5 minutes.  If we just do this or that quickly it will all be great.  People may have good intentions, but they tell you what they think you want to hear so you will buy their products.  Some of the information they are selling is valuable but totally overstated in their promises.

I know it is confusing.  How do you know who to believe?  Well I am not going to tell you what you want to hear, because it simply is not true. Nor will any of the quick fixes bring you lasting results.

The whole purpose of our being here is to grow, discover who we are and become a master of life and it is totally possible, but it is a lifetime process.  The most important thing for you to do is chose a path that you can feel is leading you in the right direction, make a commitment to the process and stay the course. Relax, be patient and expect great things to unfold in your life.

The ability to create the life we want for ourselves is a matter of high level wellness.  The healthier we are the more capable we become.  There are several levels of health that we must work with simultaneously.  We must create physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health and they are all connected and work together.  Since the intellect can only see parts of the big picture people have tried to separate these different aspects of our being, but they are all connected and it doesn’t work to develop one without the others.

The most important thing for any of us to do is work with a process for releasing stress every day, because it is the stress that damages our nervous systems, ruins our health and diminishes our abilities.

You can think about it in terms of how we have all felt after a very stressful day.  You then get a good night’s sleep and you feel much better the next morning.  If we never had more stress than a good night’s sleep could repair, we wouldn’t have all the problems we do.

Unfortunately, a night’s sleep can only release so much stress.  The remainder gets stored in our nervous systems (the mind/body connection) and it builds up over the years of our lives.  This stress damages the functioning of the entire mind/body system.  The longer it remains in the system the more damage it does, and the less capable you become of fulfilling your dreams and desires.

Fortunately, years ago I discovered a process that releases the stress that gets built up in our nervous systems and allows the entire mind/body system to heal itself.  Once the healing has taken place it continues to strengthen the nervous system and brings us into a much more advanced level of understanding and function.  As we get stronger we become more and more capable of creating the life we want for ourselves.

I have described this process in detail and provided diagrams and step-by-step guidelines in my book entitled Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want.

 I have also created a CD, DVD and Companion Workbook to help you get started experiencing this personal growth.  Once you see and feel the changes that take place in your life when you start working with this process, you will be ready to experience our Core Course, which we now have on DVDs so you can experience it right in the comfort of your own home.  You may download a free introductory session on this course by simply clicking in the box requesting it on any page of our web site.

In addition we also provide courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

]]> http://unlimitedfutures.org/creating-ideal-life/feed/ 0 http://unlimitedfutures.org/creating-ideal-life/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/UnlimitedFutures/~3/WhHB4qaOnEI/ http://unlimitedfutures.org/choices-change-life/#comments Mon, 19 Mar 2012 19:37:46 +0000 Dr. Bobbie Stevens http://unlimitedfutures.org/?p=1491

We all make many choices everyday and the choices we make determine our future.  Have you ever thought about how different your life would be if you had made a particular choice differently?  Your choices do change your life, and you are the one who gets to make all of them and experience the consequence of the choices you make.

We each have the potential to be able to create the life we want for ourselves, but the condition of our nervous systems determines our ability to make good choices for ourselves.  If we do not have a very strong nervous system fear takes over our thinking and we make choices from fear rather than from a clear vision of what we want to create.

The only way we are able to create the life we want is to have a strong enough nervous system that we can clearly see in our minds eye what we want to create and be strong enough to override the fear and make choices that keep moving us in that direction.

It is fun to create visions of what we want, but in order to manifest that vision we have to overcome fear, make a commitment and follow through with the action step.

There are 7 steps in the creative process which are (1) Clarity about what you want (2) Visualization (3) Acceptance (4) Focus (5) Intuitive guidance (6) Action and (7) Manifestation.

When we are strong enough to work through these 7 steps the last one as you can see is manifestation.  This is how it works but few people even know what they want, and if you can get a certain amount of clarity, do you know what it would look like?

In order to get through # 3 acceptance you must be able to get past all of your beliefs in failure, and all the negative programming we all get about what we have to do, and how life works. Before we are able to accept our visions we have to be strong enough to overcome the scary thoughts about what might happen if we actually took the necessary steps to create our vision.

When we are in a state of fear we are afraid to let go of what we know and understand that if we hang on to where we are, we will never get to where we want to be.  We must let go of the old to make room for the new vision to manifest in our lives.  As long as we hang on to the old we cannot move forward.  Change is inevitable in creating something new.

This is why there are two parts to the Unlimited Futures programs.  There is not only a how to create what you want, but there is also a process that, when practiced on a daily basis over time, brings you into a whole new level of understanding and functioning that makes it possible for you to actually create the life you want.

I would like to share with you parts of an e mail I received over the week-end from a man who is now working with our Core Course on DVDs.  This is what he said,

“Due to my previous job’s crazy schedule I had stalled in the early stages of the course. Only once I took a leap of faith and quit the technically ‘best’ job that I have ever had, did everything open up and provide me not only with the time to do the course but a vastly better job and the perfect partner to do the course with.”

This is typical of what happens when we get in line with our purpose and are strong enough to move toward our visions regardless of the fear I am sure he felt when he quit the job that was getting in his way of doing what he was committed to do.

I am not suggesting that you quit your job, I am just saying amazing things can happen when you start making the right choices for changing your life for the better.

I discovered a process many years ago that moved me into a much more advanced level of understanding and functioning and totally changed my life.  This is the reason and purpose for our company Unlimited Futures.  Over the years I have shared this process with thousands of others who have had similar experiences.

I have described it in detail in my book Unlimited Futures: How To Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. I have also created a CD, DVD and Companion Workbook to help you get started working with the process.

In addition we now have our Core Course on DVDs so you can experience this process with others on the DVD right in the comfort of your own home.  You may download a free introductory session of this course by simply clicking in the box requesting it on the side of any page on our web site.

Once you start experiencing this growth process, we also provide courses you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

If you want to change your life, the first step is to use your imagination to visualize what you would like your life to be like.  One of the biggest challenges here is to decide between the many options you could have, and the wonderful opportunities that may present themselves in the future.  So, I admit it is a challenge.

You have probably heard that it is important to be specific about what you want to create.  But you only want to be specific about the things that you are sure about.  For instance, if you are open to living in another place, but do not have a strong desire for it to be a particular place then just see yourself in the picture that includes the things that are important to you.

Maybe you know that you want to have a great view from your new home, but if you like the mountains and the water or other views let your imagination wonder through different areas and see what feels most comfortable.  If nothing feels like the perfect place for you then do not get specific about the location of your new home.  You do not want to visualize things that really do not matter to you.

The clarity step in creating whatever you want is very important, because as you create a vision of the new life you are creating for yourself and focusing your attention on that vision you are working with the law of attraction and repulsion.  It is your thoughts, deepest beliefs and your attention that moves and forms energy into whatever you are imagining and focusing your attention on.

I have had people tell me that they know the law of attraction works because they have been able to visualize and create things for themselves, but after they got them they decided that it wasn’t what they wanted.

Therefore, it is best to leave open any areas that are not really clear to you.  Create your vision around what is really important to you.

As you let your imagination wander you will probably also discover some beliefs that you were not aware of having.  It can show up in imagining things that are familiar rather than being open to greater possibilities, maybe possibilities that you are not even aware of yet.  Being fully open to possibilities is also a challenge.

The question arises, do I need to be specific to create what I want or just chose a general direction?  Again let your imagination wonder and be specific only about the things that you are sure matter to you.

Ask yourself if you really care about what you are doing as long as you love doing it?  Maybe you feel that you have a purpose in life and just want it to be revealed to you.

Spending some time just dreaming can be very beneficial in getting clear about how you want to change your life.

The Unlimited Futures process that I discovered includes a 7 step process for creating whatever you chose, and the first step is clarity.  However, in order to be really capable of working with this 7 step process and creating the life you want, you will most likely need to release some stress and strengthen your nervous system.

I discovered a process that when practiced on a daily basis not only releases stress, but it also strengthens the nervous system which automatically moves you into higher and higher levels of consciousness and functioning.  It is a simple easy process that can totally change your life.

I have described this process in detail and provided diagrams and step-by-step guidelines in my book Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. 

I have also created a Companion Workbook, a demonstration of the energizers on a DVD and a CD of relaxation/visualizations to help you begin to experience the changes that need to take place within you to make it possible for you to take charge of your life and change it to be the life you want for yourself.

In addition we also now have our Core Course on DVDs so you can experience this transforming process and see how it is working with others right in the comfort of your own home.  For a free introductory session of this course simply click in the box requesting it on any page of our web site.

Once you start experiencing this amazing growth process, we also provide courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

Relationships are one of the most important things in our lives, especially intimate relationships.  We all want to find our soul mate and create a happy harmonious partnership for life.  That is our desire, but sometimes we have a hard time understanding how it all works.

Our friends Dr. Lara and Johnny Fernandez of Life Launch Training are helping women to understand and work with this all important part of our lives, and we are happy to tell you about a series of free video interviews that they are providing to help single women realize that there are still some good men available and how to find them and recognize them when you do.  To register for this series just go to http://bit.ly/BobbieS

It sounds like something you wouldn’t want to miss if you are a single woman still looking for your soul mate.

Fortunately, I found my soul mate many years ago and we have had a wonderful life together.  We have now been happily married for 32 years and I can assure you that you do not want to settle for anything less than a loving relationship with the right person.

I was single for 21 years between my short marriage of 4 years and my present marriage.  I doubted that I would ever find my soul mate, but I wasn’t willing to settle for anything less than a totally loving relationship.  Fortunately, I had been in love and I realized that it is the most precious thing in the world.

It wasn’t until I was working with a process that I put together to help me quit smoking that I discovered that it relieved the stress that I had stored in the mind/body system then continued to strengthen my nervous system moving me into a whole new level of understanding and function.

I begin to understand that we are each creating our own experiences through our beliefs, and I realized that I had lots of beliefs that didn’t help me create the kind of life I wanted for myself.

Fortunately, at that time I could see how it all works.  I could see that there are laws of nature of principles of life that governs how we all create our experiences.  I could also see that there is a process for creating anything.  That is what we call the 7 steps in the creative process in the Unlimited Futures material and courses.

So, after experimenting with this new found ability and creating a new business for myself, a new townhouse, all new furniture including my grand piano and a new car, I decided to work with this process to attract my soul mate.

It works exactly the same for creating anything.  I then realized that I had discovered something of great value and I must share it with the rest of the world.

That is when I created Unlimited Futures, an organization that provides books, tapes and courses to help people discover the ability we all have to create whatever we chose for ourselves.

This ability is still in the “potential” phase within most people, but I discovered how to activate that potential and I would love to share it with you.

I have described this process in detail and provided diagrams and step-by-step guidelines in my book entitled Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want.  I have also created a CD, DVD and Companion Workbook to help you get started working with this process.

In addition we now have our Core Course on DVDs, so you can experience it right in the comfort of your own home.  You may download a free introductory session of the course by simply clicking the box on the side of any page of our web site, requesting it.

Once you start experiencing this growth process, we also provide courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.