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	<description>Tom Hesley's Account of his Search for True Love</description>
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		<title>Foot Fetish, Low Self-Esteem, Cause, Effect</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2012/03/04/foot-fetish-low-self-esteem-cause-effect/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 03:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some say that a   foot fetish   is caused, and thus, preceded by a low self-esteem, while others claim that the foot fetish itself, rather than the cause, can actually be the effect of low self-esteem. Well, as a self-proclaimed life-long foot fetishist, I can certainly see situations both situations occur.  Let&#8217;s consider the first case, where [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Adult Foot Fetish Woes</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2011/05/04/adult-foot-fetish-woes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 May 2011 07:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My childhood foot fetish gave way to an   adult foot fetish.  In fact, to this day, it&#8217;s never gone away.  I&#8217;m thankful for that becuase foot play has given me some of the most pleasing sexual experiences I&#8217;ve ever had.  In dulthood, I got to indulge much more in foot worship than I ever did as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fall In Love, Lose Weight!</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2011/03/05/fall-in-love-lose-weight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2011 01:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lust]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The contents have been moved to   Best Weight Loss Plan.   Enjoy. Tom Hesley &#160;]]></description>
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		<title>Childhood Foot Fetish</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2011/02/16/childhood-foot-fetish/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Feb 2011 16:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=2639</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Lately, a near-insatiable desire to understand my own   childhood foot fetish   has occupied my thoughts.  The fixation has profoundly shaped the paths my love quest has taken.  Indeed I’ve often chosen women to date (or not) due to my estimate of how much fun worshipping their feet would be, once they came into my bed.  If [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Boyhood Foot Fetish</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2011/02/09/boyhood-foot-fetish/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2011 02:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Acceptance]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=2601</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[One complicating factor I’ve found while working my love quest is my interest in pretty women’s feet.  Yes, I have an adult foot fetish, and knowing that many women vilify  guys with foot fetishes as disdainful sub human in extreme cases, helped intensify my shyness over asking ladies out as a young man.  The foot fetish or more [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Happy Love Songs Playlist</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2011/01/29/happy-love-songs-playlist/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Jan 2011 22:20:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I thought I&#8217;d throw together this list of my favorite positive love songs.  Indeed, music has played a pleasant, teaching role in my love quest; everything from sweetening the memories of times with special women, to keeping me sane just after a breakup, to shaping my very preferences for women and romantic circumstances.  It&#8217;s helped make the sad parts [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Vulnerability And Love Go Together</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/10/06/vulnerability-and-love-go-together/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2010 15:20:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[ I believe that vulnerability is a necessary ingredient of true love, because you can&#8217;t fully enjoy another unless or until you lower those protective emotional barriers. You can&#8217;t love unless you trust. But when you trust, you open yourself up to potential pains should your lover abuse that trust. True, we give up fear when we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Attract Women</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/07/18/how-to-attract-women/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 05:09:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Deception]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Trust]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=2549</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Though I’m neither Don Juan nor James Bond, I have enjoyed some successful and fulfilling relationships.  In fact, I’ve shared my bed with sixteen intriguing women through the years, and while I acknowledge that far more women have rejected me, I nonetheless seem to know something about picking up women; given the successes I’ve enjoyed. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Bitter Sweet Attention</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/07/10/bitter-sweet-attention/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 16:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Gripes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lust]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Physical Attraction]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Self Esteem]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Special Ladies]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I heard from [Kar] yesterday.  She left me voicemail, curious about how Mom is doing since the heart failure diagnosis last week.  That was sweet of her to remember my family in these trying times. Now I do not normally let a call go unanswered.  In fact, on the seldom occasions that I do, I agonize over the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rethinking The Plusses Of Beauty</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/06/21/rethinking-the-plusses-of-beauty/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 16:13:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Myths]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Novelty]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[It occurs after years of dating, that perfect tens only stay that way for an instant. Then they become as human and flawed as the rest of us. Makes one wonder at the long-term advantage of a ten; particularly once the novelty fades. After it does, the tens feel just like fives and sevens; and twos sometimes. [...]]]></description>
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