Our own ideas and emotions draw in the negative and positive things that arises in our lives.  For every situation that transpires in your life, take responsibility for it.  You might be wondering, so how did I ask for that stubbed toe I got this morning , ran out of toilet paper and on top of that spilled coffee on my favorite blouse? Stubbing your toe created a sequence of incidents of bad thoughts that triggered a tough beginning to your day. Then again, having optimistic thoughts can lead to a chain reaction of positive events in your life.  Commencing every day with the positive perspective in your life can cause a wonderful morning.  You will need to believe that you have the power to control how good or bad your day is by keeping track of your thoughts and emotions.

There’s three steps that are important factors to the Law of Attraction.

Ask: It is crucial that you picture in your head what you want to occur. The world would not recognize what to provide you unless you request it.

Answer: You need to without a doubt believe that whatever you’re trying for is for sure going to happen.  Any lingering doubts or anxieties are just going to get in the way of you receiving what you want. Know that the Universe has answers for what you want.

Receive: You can’t expect to have what you’re asking for is going to be handed to you on a silver platter.  If you wish to achieve your goals, you will have to attempt to actively take part of manifesting your desires. Don’t miss out , when you get an opportunity, don’t hesitate!! Let life happen and be grateful for it as if you have already receive what you want.

If you found this article to be helpful, and you want to learn more ways to use the Law of Attraction into your life, also  check out What is the Law of Attraction? and Manifest Desires.

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Before we examine the reasons why surfing is so good for your ego, let’s explain just how the research was conducted. Over 150 non-athletes took part in the research which tested 15 popular sports. Participants completed an extensive psychological confidence test and then took part in a specific sport for 3 months, after which they completed the same confidence test. The research concluded that the participants who recorded the most improved marks on their confidence tests were the surfers, and by quite a margin.

The Masters students who conducted the research have suggested that there are many factors to surfing which promotes confidence. Firstly it takes place outdoors and participants are pitted against the elements. “This is something that we have seen promotes a great deal of confidence” suggests Tony Billingham of the Sports Sciences department, “as people are very empowered by being able to overcome elements that they have previously not been challenged by”. This is a trait that many other extreme sports have as well. Further more, surfing is a very physically demanding sport and participants gain confidence from not only being fitter but looking fitter to others. Surfers are often made to look even more healthy by the all-over tan that they often pick up from being outside in the sun for much of the day. Another reason that surfing helps people become more self-assured it that it has ethos of laid back, happy-go-lucky confidence at all times, which is something that rubs off on new comers very quickly indeed.

Runner up in the list of most confidence building sports was cycling, so if you’re in need of an ego boost grab your surfboards or mountain bikes, get outside, and start training today

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Someone once said to me that friendships are established the moment when someone says ‘wow that happened to me too….’

In most of the things that we go through it often feels like we are alone in our experinces. Talking to the people around you may help and you feel much better about letting it all out. Although it would be nicer to talk to someone who has at least been through an experience like yours rather than talk with just anyone.

For some really inspirational and uplifting words you could look up any of the following: letter of encouragement christian encouragement coping with death quotes

It is always good to get words of encouragement from someone who has been through what you are going through because they understand how it feels like to be in your shoes. Talking to someone who has never been in your shoes will likely get you the clichéd response that things are going to e fine

Besides giving you words of encouragement someone who has been through what you’ve been through will give you practical advice. Having thought it through I decided to try it out and talk to someone who had been in my shoes before. Would you believe at the end of it we were sharing tea and having a few laughs about it too?

you will get people who tell you that you should talk with a counselor, psychologist and I agree they are professionals but sometimes you just need to be around someone that is genuine you know. You need to talk to someone who will be at ease with you rather than quote you passages from a text book. Natural and meaningful words said at the right time are more than uplifting.

You are able to look at your situation objectively and come up with possible solutions. Even though the problem may still be there just knowing that someone went thorough it and made it goes a long way.You will be in a position to appreciate that even the most painful experiences can be lived through.

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Think back about any successful time in your life, anytime that you experienced success. Recall a success of anything in your past as long as it was a success. When you accomplished that success you were doing some success thinking and in a state of resourcefulness that you might not normally reach. You made the required changes to your thinking and beliefs so you could achieve the results you set out to achieve.

Times That You Had a Mindset of Success

Try to recall your state of mind when you made the decision to pursue and achieve a previous success. Did you feel like success was possible, did you believe that you could achieve successful results. There is no question you did. Maybe you don’t remember all the details of a past success, but I am sure you harnessed the power of a mindset for success. You consciously knew you wanted to achieve that goal and you would do what was needed for success. You achieved success because you were determined to do what was needed to be successful.

The Present Mindset of Success

Creating a mindset of success does not happen overnight, you can’t take a pill or wave a magic wand to get a success mindset. Making an achieving small goals will grow your confidence by adding one small success on top of the other and then you will know that you are capable of achieving anything that you want to achieve. That confidence along with a carefully selected goal will start you out with a success mindset. Now add the positive feeling of intense desire that you had when you achieved success in your past, along with the knowing that you will do what you have to do and you have an even stronger mindset of success.

You Can Create the Future with a Mindset for Success

Now that you have your well researched goal, confidence in yourself and your abilities and the powerful emotion of desire it is time to create your visualization of your goal already achieved. Feel the emotions that will go along with the achievement of your goal and all the benefits you will enjoy. See yourself doing things you can do, now that you have achieved your goals with a mindset of success and self confidence.

I want you to know that there will be times that you will get down or feel like you are not making progress on your goal. Should that happen to you go ahead and take a break and then visualize your coming success. You should realize this a like a test and one that you will pass with your determination and persistence for success. A success mindset is your reserve power to give you the energy to keep going until you achieve your goal. You can achieve success over and over, just like you did in the past. The person with a mindset for success succeeds.

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Nasal irrigation is used to remove any dry mucus from the nasal passages and also to help remove any dust and debris that can block our nasal passages on a daily basis. This process can also be very helpful to those people who suffer with allergies and sinus problems.

People who do suffer with sinus problems might want to use the hydropulse a lot more often that those people who do not suffer. If a person has a certain allergy then it is a good idea to use nasal irrigation when that allergy is at its strongest.

The process is a simple one that basically consists of cleaning out your nasal passages using a nasal solution, water or salt water. This process can be practiced at home so there is no need to seek a professional, unless your nasal passages are very blocked and you can not clean them out yourself.

One of the most simple ways to clean your sinuses is snorting water up through your nostrils by cupping the water in your hand, although there are other methods that are a lot more effective which consist of pouring water up one nostril and letting it leak out of the other or down the back of the throat which can then be spat out.

The best instrument to use when cleaning out your sinuses is called a neti pot. A very useful instrument thanks to its shape that will help make the process a lot quicker and also a lot more simple than it would be using a different object. Next: Learn more about therabreath and sinus irrigation and how it may benefit you by following the links below.

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I wrote a article a while back, “Time to Hate Lack of Integrity” and here is a add on to that, “Time to Hate being Scammed”.

OK, many of you know that my wife has been the main provider for our family since the middle of 2001…and Tarzan here absolutely Hates it and is doing every thing in his power to reverse this! Hopefully this site and some others I have will be one of the tools in doing just that…

In the mean while, I have been on craigslist…I’ve lost count of the hours…and looking and searching…

In the past week I responded to 2 post on craigslist and my hopes got pretty high! The first one was, “$2150.00 min. per month take home Cleaning Carpets”. So, I called and set up a appointment for a interview in San Diego just off the 805 freeway and Clairemont Mesa Blvd. There were 3 other guys there and we all filled out the applications and then we sat through a “pitch” of how awesome the company was and if we worked hard we could easily make 6 figures within one year! Yeah Baby!! Right!? Red-Alert all the way…

I go back home and google them and I can’t find them anywhere. Oh yeah, I was told to call back the next between 11:00 and 11:30 and say specifically, “I’m calling to see how the interview went,” to see if I was approved or hired etc. So I did, and wow, “Congratulations Alan, your application was approved”. Training was set for tonight actually. I asked the lady if they had a website and she said no but Kirby does. Well, to make a long story short what they are doing is recruiting people into their Network Marketing business to go door to door selling Kirby vacuums. I couldn’t believe it!

The second craigslist add really is just unbelievable and in my eyes I think should be against the law. “Warehouse workers needed, $45,000 per year. Needed 1st and 2nd shift, easy freeway access. If interested, email me at name@gmail.com”.

I shot an email off right away! Received an immediate response, so I know it was a auto-responder. The email, thanked me for my interest and was told to click on the link to fill out the application. Look legit at first. After filling out the application, down at the bottom, it said that polls show that prospective employers like the idea of employees furthering their education and if I was interested in doing so. I am, therefore I said yes and after hitting the submit button I was led to another site with various online universities where I filled in the forms etc.

Immediately I received 4 calls, 2 to my home and 2 to my cell from Phoenix University and Colorado Tech University. That afternoon and the next day my phones rang about 12 times from them. Now, they did nothing wrong. It is the guy posting those adds. There is no such job as he mentioned. It is a 100% Scam to collect your name, phone number and email and he then gets paid by the various Universities for providing them leads! I even got a text, yesterday morning telling me to call this number regarding the warehouse position. So I thought then, maybe this isn’t a Scam. I called and they told me my application was received and that it is being processed etc. and was then asked, “Now, Mr. Young you mentioned that you were interested in furthering your education, is this still correct?” and I quickly said this is no longer the case, that I was just trying to get this job and was cleverly Scammed into filling out this questionnaire…and the ‘gentleman’ immediately hung up on me!

All I can say is WOW! It really has blown my mind. Getting peoples hopes up and then smashing them against the rocks is one of the saddest forms of human behavior there is! And I think you would agree with me that this is one of those things where it is “Time to Hate being Scammed!”

Just a little something to think about. If you are out there and struggling somewhat, hang in there, keep your head up high. Focus on you Dream, Your Why, Your Purpose and March On!

And If you are doing just insanely Awesome in your life right now, Way to go and Congrats!! Go find someone today that you know could use a word of encouragement and give them a big hug!!!

You are the President of Your Own Nation and the Ultimate Dream Business…this is NOT MLM.

Two quick things today.

First, a word of encouragement…

You Are the President of Your Own Nation and it’s called “Imagination”. This particular nation is the driving force behind your life and is the underlying factor for your future. You have an enormous responsibility as the President of this nation, because you always need… to focus on the future and strive to make it the ultimate nation or simply the best place to be in the world!

As the President you will inspire others to create other phenomenal imaginations of their own.

The world needs you and me, who are proud of their own Imagination”. Each of us has the unique ability to imagine such powerful Dreams for our futures, which can and will change the Destiny of millions of people.

Here are 3 quick examples of a few who had unreal imaginations:

-The Wright Brothers imagined men could fly and then discovered a way to make it happen.

-Henry Ford imagined an 8-cylinder cat and then achieved it.

-John F. Kennedy said that we would have a man on the moon and you of course know the outcome there.

Where do you suppose they got those ideas or where did they all dream of those achievements first? They did their dreaming in their own nation called their “imagination”.

Now, I’m not saying that one of us is going to imagine personal flying cars (though it would be pretty cool) so when we are stuck on the freeway in bumper to bumper traffic we can just hit a button and the car rises about 30 feet and we take off…ha ha ha…yes, later suckers!

But what I am saying is to take some personal time and evaluate how you are handling your nation.

Are you excited about where you are going?

Does your heart skip a beat with pure excitement of the possibilities that await you, of what you can do and where you will be a few short years down the road?!

Take some time alone and journal your thoughts…Let your Dreams begin to fly and write them down.

You and I are empowered to create wealth for ourselves in every aspect of our lives and in our families and friends lives: spiritually, physically and financially.

I really want to encourage and challenge you today to utilize your God-given imagination and imagine and dream whatever you want to be and do. This can and will entirely change your life for the better, because you now have a great responsibility as a President of a Nation, and it’s called your “Imagination”.

OK, Now the second thing: The Ultimate Dream Business… and it’s Not MLM.

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You will learn How you can tap into this *64 Billion Dollar Industry* right now…

Go here now: The Ultimate Dream Business …But first, After you submit your name and email it takes you to the site where it  gives a quick overview and gives 2 options to get going etc. If you are ready, great. If not, that’s OK too. You will receive a email with a link that has the special webinar MP3 replay so you can listen to the call etc.

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“What is Life, But to Dream and Do” Margret Kirky

Make it a great week. Enjoy!!

I just came across a profile on Facebook, “I Hate Being Broke”. And it has 127,731 fans. Here are some of the comments on the wall:

“I am currently broke… until next Monday”

“so broke it’s no joke”

“I have to save up to be poor”

And it gets pretty heated too, one guy comments, “I would recommend a job”. Then someone replies, “Sure thing *%#hole…I hate you condescending rich snotbags acting like you know what’s up…”

The person who started this group on Facebook says, “Not liking the Rich people who join the group and commenting…If you don’t know How it Feels Like to be Broke, why join?”

Hate can be a very positive and passionate emotion! And I Hate…Being Broke!!! What is your definition of being broke?

I lived in the Indian Sub-Continent for 2 1/2 years while working with Youth With A Mission http://www.ywam.org and saw millions of broke people making only a few dollars a month!

Poverty exsist of course in every Third World Country but it also exsist right here in the good old USA. Poverty and Being Broke go hand in hand, don’t they? But you can be broke and not live in poverty. Basically if you are living from paycheck to paycheck (which I am) then you are Broke.

And I Hate Being Broke!

I’ve never met anyone who was thrilled about being broke or living from paycheck to paycheck, have you?

I have A lot to be Thankful for. I am pretty Stoked on life! But how do you get out of the rat-race of living from paycheck to paycheck? I think there would be a very small percentage of people who are content in life living this way. What do you think?

Here is why I Hate it and Despise it: Can you really do all the things in life that are in your heart to do for you and your family? How can you truly have a positive impact on others and the world around you by imparting to them, encouraging them, lifting them up and helping them when we are consumed with lack or anxiously waiting for our next paycheck to arrive?

I know, that you know, that success is always hidden by problems and in solving them, we acquire the skills that we need to be a leader. So, back to the question: How do you get out of the “rat-race” of living from paycheck to paycheck? Is it even really possible? How….

YES IT IS POSSIBLE!

And here I believe is the Starting Point. It begins with you. It begins with me. Does it happen over night? Of course not! It’s a journey…and you have to Start your journey new every day. Refresh your vision. Let your heart out of it’s cage. Release your heart to dream about an unimaginable future for you and your family. Focus on “Your Why”. Start internalizing your “Why” in your mind, your heart and your spirit. It will change your life forever, and you will never go back to that point you were at before you found your your “Why”.

I believe a genuine “Why” should blow your mind. It should scare a little bit. John Di Lemme says, “The sheer possibilities of it should blow your socks off!”

So what is Your Why?

It must be bigger than who you are right now. It should be so big that it actually scares you into success. When it seizes your heart, it takes over. It will drive you. You won’t be a passenger but behind the wheel and in charge of your now, and your future. It will ignite you and fuel your dreams. It will change your daily actions and thrust you to places you have never seen or considered before. I will set you apart from the crowd. It will impart to you that little bit of extra that makes you fulfilled, passionate, proud and prosperous in all areas of your life.

And you and I will make and are making a difference in our families lives, our friends lives and the world around us!!!

Have a great awesome weekend.

This is the Starting point to breaking the cycle of the rat-race.

Have you seen the Step Brothers movie starring Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly?

I’m not sure of your sense of humor but it’s a pretty hilarious movie about two middle-aged goof-offs who become members of the same family when one’s Mother marries the others Father, and sparks soon start to fly between the contentious New Step-Siblings.

First they absolutely hate each other, then they become best friends, then they hate each other again and then their friendship is restored when… after blowing the Catalina Wine Mixer show, the Father tells the sons, “When I was a boy, I always wanted to be a dinosaur and I would run around the back yard chasing and growling at the neighborhood cats pretending to be a Tyrannosaurus Rex dinosaur.  Then my dad yelled at me, Son, you’re 17 years old-grow up!”

The two “boys” said, “Dad, your a human, you could never be a dinosaur. What’s your point?”

He says, “The point is, Don’t lose your dinosaur…Don’t lose your Dream!”

So they save the day by John C. Reilly playing the drums and Will Ferrell singing in Spanish, “Time to say Good-bye.”

Have you seen Your Dinosaur lately? Have you lost your dream?

The following article below was written by an Unknown Author to those in the Network Marketing industry. Though I am not involved in this industry personally it is a really good read as it will inspire you lay hold of your dream or to start you dreaming once again! I sure hope it speaks to you in some way and encourages you to “Find Your Why and Fly.”

But first, check this quote out by Dale E. Turner: “Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born.”

“In the United States of America lies a large industrial city which is the site of one of the world’s largest slave labor camps. Located in and around the center of this city are community settlements where the slaves live. Each morning the slaves move herd-like from their quarters into the slave labor camps. Each one is at his or her station by 7:30 AM. Here they report to their master for the day’s duties. And here they remain chained until 5:00 PM when they’re released to go home.

The slaves have no choice as to how many hours they must labor. Sometimes they are required to work overtime until their master tells them they may leave and go home.

Each year the slaves are told when to take their vacations, for how long, and when they must return. They have little choice as to how much money they earn as they are paid not what they are worth, but what the job is worth. They are allowed very little time for lunch and coffee breaks during the labor hours.

The slaves will remain in their chains in great fear because the master can punish them with the “firing” or “layoff” whip. It is said that even some of the older slaves who have been good and faithful have felt the sting of the whip.

Day by day, year-by-year, the slaves toil and grow older until the master decides it is time to release them to the retirement camps where they’re forced to sit idle and wait for death.

It’s a well-known fact that the old slaves who try to keep working are sometimes whipped with a “stop-their-pension” whip.

I know these slave camps exist for I once was a slave. But now I am a free man who lives among the slaves. The reason I am free is because I am in business for myself as a Network Marketer. Yes, I am truly free. I arise in the morning at the hour called for by my schedule. I decide my own hours. I can even sleep in late while the slaves are at work. I can vacation when, where, and for how long I please. I’m free to take my coffee break and lunch when I decide.

And of course, I can decide my own paycheck because I am not a slave. I can choose to work when and where I please and with whom I please. I’m free to stay in the city for as long as I want, or to move on to greener pastures if I decide to.

I’ve seen many slaves sadly pack their belongings to leave their city in search of a new master, but it is always the same.

There is, however, a ray of hope for the slave. He or she can buy their own freedom. The cost is not high, yet it seems to high to those who do not have the courage to pay the price.

What is the price?

ONE MUST BE WILLING TO BE ONE’S OWN MASTER!

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Thanks and Hope Everyone has a relaxing great weekend!