tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16076910590147983172024-02-19T02:02:45.843-05:00Standing Firm in QuicksandStanding firm while in quicksand is no easy feat!
My desire is to "stand firm" in my faith in Jesus Christ when the world is pulling down like quicksand (during tough trials or just everyday life!)Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.comBlogger748125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-7941136497546264272012-01-04T09:00:00.000-05:002012-01-04T09:00:13.467-05:00thank you's<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Everyone have their thank you notes written? Yeah... they had a full extra week after Christmas off from school, and I still haven't had my kiddos sit down and write (ok, draw, for Zane) their thank-you's. While surfing today, I came across these <a href="http://www.organizinghomelife.com/archives/1663" target="_blank">free printables</a> from Organizing Homelife. I'll let Lynn off the hook this year and just let her fill in the blanks. They are super cute! <br />
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I always get comments from my mom and grandmother, about how much they appreciate thank you cards from all of us. My husband and I still write them as well. I enjoy receiving cards in the mail for any occasion, so to write a simple thank you note is definitely something I aim to remember and get out, especially at Christmas and birthdays. <br />
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So now it's a new year... I don't really do the whole "resolution" thing, but I do think there is value in evaluating our lives/routines, and seeing what needs changing. Our pastor spoke from <a href="http://www.biblestudytools.com/esv/romans/passage.aspx?q=romans+12:1-2" target="_blank">Romans 12 </a>this weekend and pointed out that when Paul said not to be conformed to the world, it's not necessarily a conscious choice, whether we choose to be effected by the world - we can't just say "yes" or "no" - but, honestly, we are always being worked on by the world. It shapes us, but our choice is in regards to <i>how much</i>. Will it skew our focus, change our priorities, and lead us to set up idols in our lives? In that regard, I think it's important to be aware - to evaluate our priorities and make changes where they are needed. If you choose to call those resolutions, then that works. A resolution is <i>a firm decision to do or not do something. </i>Usually those things that we feel so passionate about are the things that we succeed in changing. I hope we do feel resolved to change... just maybe more than exercise and organization... <br />
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So this year I finally tried the <a href="http://www.diyphotography.net/diy_create_your_own_bokeh" target="_blank">"shaped bokeh" camera trick</a> that you see posted this time of year a lot. Well... my kit lens isn't the most effective at this, but by putting it in manual focus, I was able to manipulate it and get a heart shape to my lights!<br />
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Here it is without the heart shape over the lens:<br />
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Not bad at a first attempt, but maybe in the future (next year, maybe/hopefully!) I will have better results with a lens with an aperture of greater than 4.0! And maybe I'll get creative with more than just the tree. See what others have done <a href="http://www.iheartfaces.com/2011/12/holiday-bokeh-photos/" target="_blank">here</a>. There are some <i>very</i> impressive results! <br />
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I got to thinking about all the world "offers" in competition to the One that offers something so much sweeter. There exists plenty of "pretty" in this world today. But we would be challenged to find anything <i>pure</i>, <i>holy</i>, or <i>perfect</i> outside of Jesus Christ. Our society gives so many other alternate things to follow and strive towards... money, success, popularity, good looks, fame, or even just a sense of control of one's life. I completely understand how one of these could look more appealing. In fact, I can't say that I, as a believer, don't struggle towards these things myself. That struggle will always be there. However, I have hope in the something Greater that is fighting for me and helping me overcome those temptations.<br />
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It almost makes me mad - mad that the world could be so enticing. It scares me with my children. I understand why some parents are overprotective or try and keep their children in a little "bubble" their whole lives. I guess some might say I <i>am</i> doing that by having my daughter in a private, Christian school. I think there's a fine line, though. They have to be brought up and trained to honor and learn about God, but not completely oblivious to the world they live in. My husband and I are trying to do that, but my heart almost stops when I think about what they might choose instead of a relationship with Jesus.<br />
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"...the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour" (<a href="http://www.biblestudytools.com/1-peter/5-8.html" target="_blank">1 Peter 5:8</a>). We are told to be self-controlled and alert. I am praying that those people on the prayer list, including my children, will have open eyes and an awareness of that prowling lion and that they will run to the open, safe arms of the Savior, Jesus Christ. May you too find that safe, saving relationship this Christmas season. Merry Christmas!<br />
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It dawned on me that in these days of Pinterest-inspired <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/12/rearranged.html" target="_blank">projects</a>, I hadn't yet shared a project that we completed <i>before</i> I got addicted, er introduced, to <a href="http://pinterest.com/hmommy/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a>. </div>
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My daughter is a budding artist and has many, many creations. The problem is that my refrigerator isn't big enough to hold all of her artwork ;) I basically have one clip on the fridge and rotate new projects through - for both her and her brother, who has picked up on how to use a pencil pretty fast.</div>
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I wanted her to be able to display her artwork in her room. We have two bigger projects within poster frames, but still needed something for the smaller stuff. Just for safety reasons, I didn't want a bulletin board with pushpins. Zane is in her room all too often playing with her and I didn't want him to come across a stray pin. So I thought - let's go magnetic. I couldn't find a "real" magnetic board that wasn't crazy expensive, so I got to thinking... what about coming up with our own, diy style? But then entered in the question of how to adhere it to the wall without using adhesive. </div>
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A quick trip to the supply store yielded us with a flat strip of steel (found it in varying lengths & just got the one that worked best for us) along with <b>mirror hangers</b>! Forgive the blurry photos - just took quick snaps - but you can see how it is attached to the wall. No adhesive (just holes, lol). We also got some strong magnets from the store and they hold several layers worth so that she can overlap pictures. </div>
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Ta-da! The completed project. It can get quiet crowded, so occasionally I have to come in and guide her in paring down, lol, although generally it's her wall space so she can "decorate" it how she wants. <br />
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Coupled with the <a href="http://vimeo.com/33886929" target="_blank">sermon</a> this Sunday at church, I am just humbled at God's sacrifice... At the love displayed through the life of His son here on earth, ending with the horrific death He had no reason to experience. He sees us, in our "good deeds," and in our "shameful acts," and would've sacrificed His son even if it were just us alone on this earth in spite of all that we (can't) offer.<br />
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Heavy stuff because it is so humbling.<br />
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Something so simple, yet we can't wrap our mind around it sometimes.<div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-10435108810435719342011-12-12T17:49:00.001-05:002011-12-12T17:50:32.142-05:00balanceThe kids are screaming, ready to get out of the tub. The house is a mess. Christmas decorations still sit in the middle of my living room in boxes to be unpacked. The load of laundry in the dryer is continuing to toss every few minutes, having now made it to the "fluff" part of the cycle, but waiting for me to unload it. Half of dinner has been thought out and is in the works, but no clue on the veggies to go with the meat. I have been up to my ears in photography. Just one more session to finish up.<br />
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Good problems to have... this means I have a growing business and my continued blessings of a place to live and a family to love. However, it means that I have been very obviously absent here on the blog.<br />
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Well, my daughter is of course 8, so there is no crib in her room... she does however have a fantastic bed that has drawers underneath so it sits a bit higher. We turned her bed and gave her some space between it and the wall (hidden from the door to her room), that being the best "fix" for an impossible goal. We then arranged every other piece of furniture in her room and cleaned off all dresser and desk tops, so it's picked up and looks new.<br />
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I love rearranging rooms. It just freshens a space. My master bedroom and living room are pretty much situated in the only possible way available - not much empty wall space - too many doorways, closets, and a fireplace in the living room. Boo :( So, that leaves me rearranging the kids' rooms. :) Yesterday, I was able to give <i>Zane</i> the above type space (and goodness, Lynn is jealous). His bed was already in the perfect spot, I just had to move a piece of furniture out of the corner (relocated to his closet!) Sooo... I'm hoping my hubs will give me the go-ahead to put together the pvc framework to give him the curtains. We tried a tension rod and that is not quite the best idea for a 2year old boy! :) Not only doesn't it stay up long, it then becomes a sword that he swings around! (Where do they learn this stuff? I really think it's just in the genes for boys - swords/guns, cars, balls. It's all there - with no teaching from us!) Anyway, I was trying to think of what to do with the "secret hiding spot" to make it more "boyish." I thought about putting a small tent in that space, but it's really too small for that. I thought about making it more of a teepee hideout, which would work, I guess. But, after passing along this idea to my dad, who enjoys making things, I think I'll just stay with the curtains and have this on the wall inside the "secret spot":<br />
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That is very cool! Gadgets to fiddle with. Zane will be all over this. He's into figuring out how things connect and work. He has already disassembled things, due to curiosity vs a destructive nature. Thanks, <a href="http://pinterest.com/hmommy/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a>, for some fun ideas to feed my rearranging addiction. ;) <br />
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Ok, so I'm a week late, but I forgot to post about that Thanksgiving favorite recipe <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/11/mild-fall.html" target="_blank">I promised</a>. As typical, this<i> Baked Pineapple</i> got rave reviews. This recipe has become my go-to for potlucks and parties. It is sweet (diabetics beware - 1 whole cup of sugar!) but is still considered a side dish. It can be assembled the night before and then baked the next morning (which is great for those Sunday after-church potlucks). <br />
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1 large can of crushed pineapple<br />
2 heaping tsp flour<br />
1 c. sugar<br />
2 eggs, beaten<br />
1 stick butter<br />
5 slices of bread, cubed<br />
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Yes, I am back at it. After our great experience with <a href="http://www.gdiapers.com/" target="_blank">gDiapers</a> had to come to an <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/08/might-be-end.html" target="_blank">end</a>, I plunged back into the world of purchasing disposable diapers. Well, that lasted several months, and countless bags and boxes of diapers later, I headed back into researching cloth. What I discovered was the <a href="http://greenlinediaper.flyingcart.com/" target="_blank">Green Line Diaper</a>. Because I had problems with fit, I was immediately drawn to them because of their drawstring/adjustable leg. They have the tiniest little fasteners (barrel locks, I think they're called?) to cinch the sides tighter based upon your individual child's leg width. At 29 lbs, my 2 year old can fit into these. The velcro closer is close to needing an extender, but they offer those, and for right now it's not necessary. I love the high rise in the back. I think it's for newborns and their explosive-up-the-back potty tendencies, but I find it's perfect for my toddler, as it reduces the "plumbers crack" occurrence. On <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Green-Line-Diapers/122411517039" target="_blank">Green Line's facebook page</a>, you can see all sorts of customer photos, and babies of all sizes wearing them. (They also have a link to a page where owners can sell their used covers). They are a one size fits all cover. You then put in the <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2010/02/cloth-diapering-with-gdiapers.html" target="_blank">insert</a> of your choice. I have tried two new types of inserts with them. What I had been using for my gDiapers when Zane was still an infant, was no longer working as a toddler, so I had sold all of <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2010/02/adventures-in-cloth-continue.html" target="_blank">those</a>. I am now using the <a href="http://www.greenlinediaper.com/index.php?p=detail&pid=287&cat_id=" target="_blank">bamboo/cotton soaker</a> that Green Line sells as well as <a href="http://www.nappyshoppe.com/store/gflappers%C3%82%E2%84%A2-and-inserts-gflappers%C3%82%E2%84%A2-hemp-microfiber-and-microchamois-c-68_637.html?zenid=1db1sekuo5582n8flog4nohue3" target="_blank">hemp/microfiber/microchamois gflappers</a> from The Nappy Shoppe. They both work wonderfully! The covers that I have from Green Line have cotton on the outside and a breathable waterproof liner on the inside. I am waiting for one of their cotton/fleece covers to ship to me to try as well. The combination of everything has been terrific for Zane. I am so excited and he absolutely LOVES the patterns. He tells me "'digger diaper' momma." (That's his favorite pattern - the one in the photos above). <br />
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If you're looking for a cloth diaper option, I encourage you to check out this "mom and pop" (literally) store in Canada. All the covers are hand-sewn and of fantastic quality... <a href="http://www.greenlinediaper.com/" target="_blank">Green Line Diapers</a>.<div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-56046181201582501942011-11-30T10:27:00.001-05:002011-11-30T11:00:15.984-05:00when stuff becomes too muchDo you ever wonder sometimes if those in under-developed countries are really more blessed than we are? Is America truly blessed just because it can walk into the nearest big box store and purchase anything our little hearts desire? And even delay the payment with this nifty thing called credit nonetheless. I was in Walmart today, which I just despise, for toiletries and other products not available at Aldi. I like to shop, when I have money. When I don't, the best course of action for me is just to avoid. So that's what I try and do - avoid. When I can't avoid it any longer, I despise the trip because I have to be "careful." No browsing aisles, just the list. Shopping with a 2 year old that wants to walk (or should I say run) the aisles makes just shopping in general no fun - on or off the list!<br />
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So as I was pulling out of the parking lot, contemplating how $60 was spent so quickly on a cart of less than twenty items, I just felt so defeated. Defeated that I can't make it within our budget. Defeated that items cost so much. To counteract that, I prayed. I prayed prayers of gratefulness for all I do have. Which lead me to think about what I just bought. Things that were truly basic "needs" (toilet paper, baby wipes, ground beef, yogurt). And then my thoughts turned to those out of the country. Pictures of African villages entered my mind. What their "needs" look like. How do they do it? Maybe it's "easier" to live like that (and yes, I say that tongue in cheek) because it's all they've ever known. When do all our conveniences become inconvenient?<br />
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I don't really know where I'm going with all this. I just thought I'd put it out there as my thoughts still wander... what I have, what I need, is it possible to exist in America with little? How is it possible to live in such a materialistic society but not be surrounded with things?<br />
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With black Friday and cyber Monday, the "deals" and "sales" and "specials" are overwhelming. I am tired of hearing about it all. I can stay away from stores (to a point) but they are all over the internet. So I avoid the internet. But then what? I miss out in other ways. Ugh. Just so sick of consumerism. <br />
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Does anyone know what I mean?<div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-22381716269841820712011-11-23T08:48:00.001-05:002011-11-23T09:02:49.872-05:00mild fall<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This warm weather sure is making this a mild fall... and I confess, I like it! :) I've had several photo sessions lately, with two more next week. The milder temperatures make it easier on my clients, as not many people want to wear outerwear for their photos (although I love a good photo of people all bundled up with hats and scarves - the layers add such dimension and color). </div>
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Not sure what your plans are for Thanksgiving, but I want to wish you a happy holiday weekend! I am going to take some time to celebrate with family, so my time online will be sparse. I'll catch back up with you next week and maybe share a recipe from the weekend that got rave reviews. Always fun to see how the meal comes together with everyone's contributions :)</div>
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<br />Since we don't have any family or friend birthdays until March (weird, I know, but there aren't many winter babies in my family), I decided I would get this card...<br />
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...and put Zane's photo in the photo spot (with no wording under it). I'm then going to cut
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This would be super fun for your little fairy. Who doesn't like a great maze to go along with a birthday wish?<br />
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This cupcake tree would be perfect for my best friend. Ah, to feast on a tree's worth of cupcakes... oh man, yumminess. <br />
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Have fun... and happy birthday to whomever will receive your <a href="http://www.shareasale.com/r.cfm?B=346435&U=550694&M=12808&urllink=" target="_blank">personalized creation</a> :) <br />
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<a href="http://vimeo.com/31788809">Rescued: The Heart of Adoption and Caring for Orphans - Trailer</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/rescuedthemovie">Rescued The Movie</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com/">Vimeo</a>.<br />
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A couple of things that stood out to me: <br />
-Every 18 seconds, around the world, a child becomes an orphan. When the church leaves their care up to the state, we are missing out on impacting their lives for the gospel of Christ. <br />
-God doesn't say <i>natural born</i> children are a blessing from the Lord, but <i>children</i>.<br />
-Not everyone is called to adopt, but we are called to help.<br />
-James 1:27 defines pure religion as one that takes care of orphans and widows.<br />
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For more information on adopting, I would direct you to Show Hope's <a href="http://www.howtoadopt.org/" target="_blank">"How to Adopt" website</a>. A known, reputable non-profit organization (associated with adoptive parent and singer/songwriter, Steven Curtis Chapman), <a href="http://www.showhope.org/home.aspx" target="_blank">Show Hope</a>, is a good place to start. If you prefer just to <a href="http://www.showhope.org/Donate.aspx" target="_blank">donate</a> financially, they offer a variety of ways that can be done as well. If you are sitting there like me and think, what else can I <i>do</i>? They <a href="http://www.showhope.org/Mobilize/GetInvolved.aspx" target="_blank">answer</a> that question as well.<br />
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Open up your heart and mind. God might just be whispering something to your heart. Could you have room in your family for another child?<div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-44766153021727480452011-11-19T12:24:00.001-05:002011-11-19T13:08:33.519-05:00adoptive families in action<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have several in-real-life friends that have adopted children into their families. One of these lives in our town and our husbands are friends, both involved in youth ministry. They adopted 2 babies from the Congo. I had the opportunity to <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/04/coming-home.html" target="_blank">take photos</a> of each of their "gotcha days" - the day they arrived <i>home</i>, just off of the airplane with their new mom and dad. I later then took photos of the siblings and even looking at those photos now, I think, "There is the definition of family. There is the definition of caring for orphans." The meaning of family surpasses blood and skin color, it goes much deeper than that. When I look at these families, I am reminded of that.<br />
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The journey of adoption is never "pretty." One couple, unable to have children of their own, adopted a little girl from the US, and have now been waiting four years for an opportunity for a son. They <i>just</i> got word that they have been selected as parents for a baby boy, due the end of next month. I am beyond thrilled for her family. There is a big sister that is so ready to have a brother!<br />
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Another family's <a href="http://lifeaccordingtothechristians.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">adoption story</a> I have followed online. A youth pastor and his wife, with three natural born boys of their own, felt the call to adopt. In God's amazing timing, two baby girl twins practically "fell" into their family. (Although the actual process was <i>much</i> more complicated). Ashley's also given us a glimpse of real-life, sharing that the addition of two more (girls were 1 yrs old when they moved in with them) isn't always easy. It's been hard on the girls to adjust to their new family and the big brothers have had slight challenges of their own as well. <br />
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I am blessed to have these families as my friends. They have displayed obedience, in action, to God's call to take care of widows and orphans (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=James+1%3A27&version=ESV" target="_blank">James 1:27</a>). They remind me that I need to do my part as well. <br />
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By the way, today is officially <a href="http://adoption.about.com/od/celebrationinspiration/a/adoptionday.htm" target="_blank">National Adoption Day</a>. If you have had any thoughts regarding adoption, I encourage you to stay in prayer about it, but also to find another family that has been there and start to discuss the idea, whether international or in-country. <br />
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<b><i>Have you left a comment on my giveaway post? I am extending the contest until Monday, Nov 21st. Click <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/11/come-out-of-hiding-giveaway.html" target="_blank">here</a> to see details!</i></b> <br />
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<br /><div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-69397533611937629992011-11-18T08:26:00.001-05:002011-11-18T09:58:30.320-05:00Adoption... and a book reviewAdoption is on my mind this month... not for my family personally, but just in so many different ways it has come across my path lately. It also happens to be National Adoption Month. All the more reason to talk about it! I'll touch on the subject of adoption for the next couple of posts. If you or someone you know has been involved in adoption, leave a comment, I'd love to rejoice over another orphan becoming part of a family!<br />
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The book's main storyline revolves around a young Chinese girl, Joy, who was adopted by an American family (a pastor and his wife). After readers are taken through the adoption scene, the story fast forwards seven years to the troublesome teenage years. Although my children are too young to have "been there," having served with teens in youth ministries, my heart went out to these characters and the troubles they are having with their daughter.<br />
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At the same time, as the story continues, we are learning about Joy's blood sister, a now-doctor named Kai, who is living in America, searching for her long lost sister. What makes this search so compelling is the fact that their mother died of a hereditary kidney disease. One that impairs the quality of life quite quickly. It's urgent that Kai find Joy to have her tested for the disease.<br />
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Winding throughout the story is Kai (and Joy's) spiritual search. Kai has grown up relying on the "fates" and Joy has grown up in a Christian home, but both find themselves on a journey to the truth.<br />
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I really enjoyed learning more about the country of China within the storyline. Kai shares much of what she went through growing up in the late 60's, early 70's. It also puts a "real life" spin on what it's like to believe in something so un-reliable as "the fates." <br />
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I highly recommend this book. It had a great storyline that wasn't filled with "fluff." I truly enjoyed each chapter.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: italic; line-height: 18px;">Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/search/label/www.bethanyhouse.com/bookreviewers">Bethany House</a>,
a division of Baker Publishing Group. I was not required to write a
positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am
disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16
CFR, <a href="http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html">Part 255</a>: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”</span><br />
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<b><i>Have you left a comment on my giveaway post? I am extending the contest until Monday, Nov 21st. Click <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/11/come-out-of-hiding-giveaway.html" target="_blank">here</a> to see details!</i></b><div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-24412944957063788492011-11-16T10:00:00.000-05:002011-11-16T10:00:01.056-05:00free Tiny Prints Thanksgiving card<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Re-posting this today as Tiny Prints is again offering a one-day offer for a free <a href="http://www.shareasale.com/r.cfm?B=339807&U=550694&M=12808&urllink=" target="_blank">Thanksgiving card</a>! And, since I have already received mine from when they offered this two weeks ago, I can add that the quality is great! The color of my photo turned out right on target and I was impressed with the thick, nice quality of the cardstock used. It was also pretty nice to have my return address already printed out. I wasn't sure which grandparents would be getting this, otherwise I could've had them type the recipient address as well - free of charge. Their quick turn around time will get this to you in time for Thanksgiving for sure. <br />
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Here's the <a href="http://www.shareasale.com/r.cfm?B=339807&U=550694&M=12808&urllink=">link</a>. Go check it out yourself. Huge selection, not just for Thanksgiving, but for holidays throughout the year!<br />
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The promo code that you'll need to use is: FREETHX11. It expires tonight so get creating!<br />
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<i>This is my second post of the day - be sure not to miss my <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/11/come-out-of-hiding-giveaway.html" target="_blank">giveaway</a> which also went live this morning!</i><br />
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Nothing too significant about it being blog post number 741 or the date of November 16th, so I'm going to spice it up and host my first-ever blog giveaway!<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUUGCPr-l7QQ9hLJ5pgPWOTuzWQ2XNYOo_oUJXo3miKglqwCGB89ZU2k0KB2v8d4OHAQjkCpLNtvFLlfkbOhYthH-1e-Sr1F9KxyGBHFpJL8eLKegRWcV7VUbzKnCX8lATmIlrZyNfero/s1600/lunchbox.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUUGCPr-l7QQ9hLJ5pgPWOTuzWQ2XNYOo_oUJXo3miKglqwCGB89ZU2k0KB2v8d4OHAQjkCpLNtvFLlfkbOhYthH-1e-Sr1F9KxyGBHFpJL8eLKegRWcV7VUbzKnCX8lATmIlrZyNfero/s320/lunchbox.jpg" width="240" /></a>A few weeks ago I <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/10/sew-its-time-to-craft.html" target="_blank">wrote</a> about my friend Sarah's etsy business, <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/Livingstonsnc?ref=pr_shop" target="_blank">Living Lady</a>, how she makes reusable snack bags (& more) and how I thought about dusting off my sewing machine, now inspired to do a little sewing of my own. Well, alas, with the whole PUL plan crashing (<i>it's not food safe</i>), Sarah came to my rescue and gifted me several individual pieces from her store to try with my children and then review with you all.<br />
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Lynn was absolutely in love with the prints when she first saw them. The flowers coordinated quite well with her flower lunchbox. She was all into the idea of having a <i>much</i> prettier way to hold her goldfish, chips, cookies, etc than a plastic ziploc bag. She's had various teachers and students admiring them and asking her about them. She feels like a star :) <br />
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Zane had a blast with the tractor print, but at 24 mos, was still having a bit of a problem pulling open the velcro. After a week of use, he's got the technique down and can almost get it. He's a man with a one-track mind though, and prefers <i>instant</i> access to his snacks (even if that means half are spilled on the floor next to him because of his enthusiasm, sighhh). <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjG2NkRfaAHQgpTseZPYuVi_ouuZbozoHYKS1Qpqmx505JWQh2Fcrtx3xb7v4pACBzOYNyp5sD_hBDjVei6IjT4hAdJih6QAuU2y3v8NawxOFfs3rL_dufVHbj3bZzwvmjwX4VPNQKgUQY/s1600/lunchbox3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjG2NkRfaAHQgpTseZPYuVi_ouuZbozoHYKS1Qpqmx505JWQh2Fcrtx3xb7v4pACBzOYNyp5sD_hBDjVei6IjT4hAdJih6QAuU2y3v8NawxOFfs3rL_dufVHbj3bZzwvmjwX4VPNQKgUQY/s320/lunchbox3.jpg" width="320" /></a>I must admit, I didn't think I'd like the sandwich wrap as much as I do. I'm a wax paper gal. I grew up eating a sandwich on a piece of wax paper every day at school. It was easy to toss all the crumbs when I was done. I'd spread my chips on it and everything. Well... (duh) this sandwich wrap is all the same but without the tossing :) It's just the right size and includes a good-sized amount of velcro for adjusting closure tightness.<br />
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I have found all to be very easy to clean. I've just wiped down the sandwich wrap each evening and handwashed the baggie in the kitchen sink with some dish detergent every few days or if I'm switching from crackers to cookies in it. They are machine washable if needed as well, although I have not tried it.<br />
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Now to the good part... Sarah has put together this set for one of my readers to enjoy for free! It consists of 2 reusable snack bags, one sandwich wrap, and one coordinating reusable napkin. Honestly, these prints are beautiful and look adult friendly enough for you to use as well.<br />
I mean, If Lynn hadn't already taken over Zane's, I'd be using it for me (even if it is tractors!). They are very purse-friendly.<br />
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To enter, all you have to do is leave a comment. Use this as a way to de-lurk and say "hi"! I'd enjoy meeting more of you!<br />
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<strike>Contest is open for 2 days - I will close comments and pick a winner at naptime/lunchtime <i>friday</i>! </strike><br />
*I am extending this contest to run until Monday, Nov 21st. I will close comments and announce winner 12 noon EST.<br />
Please make sure to leave your email if you don't have your address listed in your blog/profile.<br />
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Can't wait that long? Sarah has offered my readers 10% off with the promo code "Sarah" at checkout. <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/Livingstonsnc?ref=seller_info" target="_blank">Go check out her products.</a> The quality is first-rate; you won't be disappointed.<br />
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Be sure to go visit and "like" her facebook page as well - you can find LivingLady <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/LivingLady/125778710853161" target="_blank">here</a>. <br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>disclaimer: I was given several products for free in exchange for my honest review.</i></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-67988720647978951842011-11-15T13:59:00.001-05:002011-11-15T17:12:59.749-05:00this and that... babiesShew. Little man fought nap today, so after giving him a few books, to no avail, I finally scooped him up and carried him to cuddle in the recliner with me. Curious George was on, so I turned on the tv, and promptly fell asleep, while he continued to be awake! Crazy kid. He turned two this weekend, so he better not be getting any big ideas on skipping naptime now.<br />
Funny how life goes like that. Kids grow up. They change. We change to keep up/accommodate.<br />
On the subject of children, I just found out that two of my close friends are now expecting babies, after both suffering miscarriages. I am so excited for them, and turn to God as I also fear for them, keeping my hope in a God that is sovereign that they don't have to face loss again. I also just received an email from a support group that I volunteer for, that there's a mom needing a support parent who just delivered a stillborn child at 41 weeks. I'm transported back to <i>our</i> weeks following our stillbirth loss and again turn to that same God that is in control over the loss as well as the new lives.<br />
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We are just wired as women for nurturing and motherhood and I think that's why losses and struggles with infertility hurt so much. I know for me, as weird as it sounds to type, I almost felt a disconnect with my body after we lost Nathan. Oh it had done a fantastic job carrying him to term. All of my pregnancies have been "perfect" with very little symptoms other than some of the smaller, pesky things like nosebleeds, some heartburn, and discomfort sleeping. But after it had failed to give me my baby, failed to sustain life until he was delivered, it was almost like I didn't know who it/I was anymore. I needed those following few months to get "my" body back, to re-trust it almost, before I felt ok with trying for another child. The Lord, in His graciousness, allowed my body to carry another full-term, and deliver a healthy, alive baby. My body had done what I expected it to. I guess we're friends again :) No, but in all seriousness, it was different. That disappointment in my body. That disconnect from who I thought I was versus what it was doing/had done.<br />
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I know that some of you are suffering from that disconnect. Your heart is crying out c'mon body, work like you're supposed to! To those, I wish I could squeeze you in a big hug this moment... you and your body. <br />
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<br /><div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-80238954731502986022011-11-11T18:52:00.001-05:002011-11-11T19:04:23.409-05:00honoredBeing Veteran's Day, I can't help but think about my grandfathers. Both are deceased. Both never wanted to talk much about the war while I was growing up. But, spending time with them during their last few years of life, I could see that they were very obviously effected by their war time experiences, as it was beginning to change who they were outwardly. It was in those last few years, when the mind started to weaken, that they began speaking harsher "soldier" language and becoming consumed with memories of those horrible times in active duty overseas. It's amazing how the mind holds on to those experiences, feelings, and visual images from so long ago. God brought them through those times but it impacted who they were, raising my mom and dad as children in their respective families. It just further raises my awareness, though, of what they and other veterans (as well as current day active duty) servicemen and women went through.<br />
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It makes me honored to call myself an American. To be a granddaughter, a daughter-in-law, a neighbor, and just a fellow citizen to those that care so much for our country that they risk their lives and sacrifice they and their families' futures (physical & emotional well beings) for the freedom of the United States. <br />
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Thank you.<div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-54296999770015606942011-11-08T14:30:00.004-05:002011-11-08T14:30:49.861-05:00what if?On the heels of writing my "what to be" <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/11/what-to-be.html" target="_blank">post</a> from yesterday, I just read about the Duggar's <a href="http://moms.today.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/11/08/8684372-20-kids-and-counting-michelle-duggar-announces-shes-pregnant-again?fb_ref=.TrlFqjgvEws.like&fb_source=profile_oneline" target="_blank">announcement</a> of baby number 20. First thoughts? "Wow." "Really?" "Ok..." & then a gentle whisper of, "What if?"<br />
Not what if I had <b>20</b>, but what if I had <i>one more</i>? My husband would have another. I am not quite so sure. But, honestly, what is determining that for me? Is it my selfish desires of being ready for a quiet house during the day? That it's just <i>hard work</i> raising children? Is it just practical reasoning that if the next one's a girl, she's got no where to sleep, as her then 9+ year old sister can't really share her room with such a young sibling? I guess whatever the reasoning, I need to get to the heart of it, reflect, and take it to the Lord.<br />
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Some posts I have been digesting lately come from the <a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog" target="_blank">Desiring God</a> website blog. Both are authored by Rachel Jancovic. I believe I also referenced another article of hers <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/08/motherhood.html" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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In an article addressing seeing our children as a <a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/motherhood-as-a-mission-field" target="_blank">mission field</a>, she writes:<br />
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But I’d like to challenge you to look at it differently. Giving up what
you cannot keep does not mean giving up your home, or your job so you
can go serve somewhere else. It is giving up yourself. Lay yourself
down. Sacrifice yourself here, now. Cheerfully wipe the nose for the
fiftieth time today. Make dinner again for the people who don’t like the
green beans. Laugh when your plans are thwarted by a vomiting child.
Lay yourself down for the people here with you, the people who annoy
you, the people who get in your way, the people who take up so much of
your time that you can’t read anymore. Rejoice in them. Sacrifice for
them. Gain that which you cannot lose <i>in them</i>.</blockquote>
Sacrifice. Laying self down. Hard things to digest, even when done for our own offspring.<br />
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<a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/motherhood-is-application" target="_blank">Here</a> is a section from a second article, regarding motherhood being all about the "transformations" and "application" of the Gospel through those... <br />
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Mothering is a job that is full of difficult moments. Diapers blow
out in stores when you have too much in your cart to just walk out.
Sudden carsickness can leave you pulled over on the side of the road
wondering just how much can be done with half a bag of wet wipes. You
need to take what you believe and apply it to these difficult moments.
Does the Bible teach us that God is disgusted by our frailty? That he
doesn’t want to carry our burdens? That he doesn’t have the energy to
deal with us? <br />
The good news is, you don’t need to have been through some elite
mother’s training camp to apply the gospel in your life. You need to
believe. Trust God, give thanks. Laugh. Believe — and that will feed
your children. Rest in God, and your children will learn to. Extend
God’s kindness to you, to them. Forgive them the way God forgave you.
You have everything you need to spiritually nourish your children,
because you have Christ. <br />
The gospel is not just something to talk about Sunday morning while
you are in clean clothes and the kids are looking orderly. It is not
limited to quiet times and reflective moods. It is something to apply
while you are in a difficult position in the back of the car trying to
buckle a child up who is playing the kazoo and needs their nose wiped. <br />
God is not above these moments. He is teaching us, and leading us,
and refining us, in them. He wants to see our faith in action. He wants
to see us feeding our children with the grace that he has given to us. </blockquote>
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So what is my view of motherhood? Do I see myself as an important player in this thing called life? Do I see that my <i>children</i> are my mission field, my focus, when it comes to teaching the Gospel? Do I really and truly even act as if the <i>Gospel</i> is my purpose and reason for living in the first place? Heavy stuff, this heart-introspection. </h4><div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-34644633208235382102011-11-07T13:48:00.000-05:002011-11-07T13:48:30.929-05:00what to "be"I stole a few moments of extra nuzzling before nap today and as I sit down to write this, my heart is just overflowing with love for my son. He didn't do anything out of the ordinary, didn't give me any extra squeezes before laying him down for nap, but he is just who he is. My son. Given to me by God, temporarily, to raise, alongside my husband. <br />
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When I think of the struggles my son (& my daughter!) might one day face, living in this fallen world, my heart seizes up and my almost trips over itself (if it could) streaming out prayer to God for their souls and their purity. The days that I forget what a place I have in my children's lives, God gently reminds me. <br />
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I have several working (some p/t, some f/t) friends who share, almost secretly and <i>ashamedly</i>, that their heart's desire is just to stay at home with their children daily. In a conversation just this weekend, I said, "And that would be ok. In fact, it was God Himself who put those desires there. That is what He planned for you to do." Society tells women, like my friend, pursue a career. She is actually working on a bachelor's degree right now. She's a wife, a mom, and a part-time working woman in addition to this. When questioned by her husband why she wants to continue to pursue her education when she ultimately wants to stay at home, she answers that she can use it with their children. She confessed that she used to be career-focused, but now that she's got a three year old that she drops off for childcare three days a week, she's realizing that career isn't the most important thing to her any more.<br />
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I remember during my senior year in college, I was in a panic that I didn't know what I wanted to "be" after graduation. Oh, I had completed all the requirements for a major (psychology) and a minor (human resource management), but I thought I needed to pick a career title as my ultimate goal. As it was, I had also taken all the classes beside "Elementary School Methods" for a teaching certificate in addition to my major/minor when I decided that wasn't what I wanted to do. When senior year got here, I was giddily planning a wedding without much thought to the career I'd hold after marriage. But when it came down to applying to positions at businesses in the town where we'd live, I became breathless with fear. I didn't know what I wanted to do. I was going to be a wife. Wasn't that enough? The job would come along. Or wouldn't it? I became panicked and began looking at graduate schools in the area instead of jobs. Maybe I needed more specializing before I picked a lifetime career. The Lord finally spoke to me that my "title" just needed to be <i>His child</i> and that my fear was ill placed. I went on to get married and obtain a position within the Human Resources field. Not quite so "coincidentally" my position had to be pulled back to part time while I was pregnant with our first child, after we had decided I would stay at home with the baby (even with hubs completing seminary). <br />
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Almost eleven years later, I have had a handful of part time positions at different locations/stages in our marriage. During those times, my mother (when we lived with them for six months) or my husband were caretakers for Lynn. Blessedly, we are (still) learning the best ways to live and manage what we have to allow me to continue to be home for the, now two, children.<br />
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I still have doubts on whether we can do it. I still have little nags that I need to be using my degree "for something." I still wonder if this is "all" I have been called to do right now. Mercifully, instead of pursuing work outside the home, my husband stays consistent with his encouragement and desire for me to be home and God brings me into conversation and counsel with yet another working friend who misses raising her children.<br />
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There's to be no shame in wanting to stay home to raise your child(ren).<br />
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On this topic, I found my way to the blog <a href="http://www.blogger.com/%20http://www.feminagirls.com" target="_blank">Femina</a>, where Nancy Ann <a href="http://www.feminagirls.com/2011/11/01/cultural-cliches/#more-3732" target="_blank">writes</a>: <br />
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At the end of the day, it’s not prestige and a paycheck that rise up
to call you blessed. Those things burn up. The things that last, the
eternal things, have fat faces and messy hands.
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Christian women must be counter-cultural and think like women of
faith who take the Bible seriously and don’t mind who knows it. The
flesh is weak, but God gives more faith. Cultural cliches come and go,
but God’s Word remains our standard and authority for life.<br />
This means that Christian women must accept the fact that God has
designed them for a set purpose. Eve was created because Adam needed a
helper. He was no good without her. A man needs a woman to accomplish
all God is calling him to do. She is his glory. She is his crown.
There’s no need to feel apologetic about being a crown and a glory. What
an absurd idea!<br />
So, young women, get yourself an education. Learn all you can because
you’re going to need it. You want to be one efficient, brilliant helper
so this guy you married can get it done. He needs a home and he needs a
family and you are the means God has appointed to bring this amazing
thing about. What a delight and privilege our calling is.<br />
Are there exceptions? Always. But there is also a norm. Don’t be afraid of embracing the norm of God’s design. It is good.</blockquote>
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<br /><div class="blogger-post-footer">What do you think? Feel free to click on over to the actual post and leave me a comment.</div>Mrs. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067758149483541809noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1607691059014798317.post-26199521144679851552011-11-03T08:44:00.000-04:002011-11-03T12:54:10.371-04:00holiday cleaningI am on the email newsletter list for Living on A Dime. I don't think I've actually ever been to her <a href="http://www.livingonadime.com/">website</a>, but I thoroughly enjoy the (frugal) tips and recipes that she sends out weekly. She's got several ebooks that look fantastic, although I've not purchased any.<br />
Anyways, since I wrote about breaking up my cleaning into <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-13-15-mins-day.html">15 minutes per day</a> chunks (and having so-so results... I'm not sure I actually <i>like</i> that method. Weird, I know) and am still tackling my fall cleaning list, this was a great prompt to remind me of a few things.<br />
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I'll copy and paste the article here for yall. Maybe it'll inspire you to tackle some early preholiday-cleaning.<br />
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<pre style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.livingonadime.com/holiday-cleaning-prepare/">Holiday Cleaning - Preparing Now For The Holidays</a>
Halloween is over, which means it is now officially time to kick it
into gear to get ready for the holidays and to get your house ready
for company. It really helps to get your house in order now because
if unexpected company comes you won't get caught off guard. Then
you can concentrate on baking, finding gifts and organizing
activities without having to worry about deep cleaning your house
again until after the New Year.
Hopefully by now you have been inspired to start getting things
done a little at a time so this won't be too big of a job. Here are
a few things to work on:
* Get your closets in order. Put summer clothes away and take
winter clothes out, tossing as you go.
* Don't forget your linen closets. Get your guest towels, sheets
and extra blankets aired out and put the linens in a handy spot so
they are easy to grab when you need them.
* If you have a guest room, get it cleaned and prepare everything
for your first guests.
* Get your holiday linens prepared. Wash them if necessary and make
sure they're ready to go.
* Hopefully you have cleaned your pantry. Now you need to make sure
it is stocked with everything you need for your holiday recipes,
for some quick and easy to fix snacks and dinners for unexpected
company or food to take to social events.
* Make sure your fridge and freezer are in order. The refrigerator
and freezer are going to work overtime for you over the next couple
of months so make sure they're cleaned, organized and prepared.
* I don't worry about cleaning my oven at this time. I use it so
much for baking that it's silly for me to clean it right before
having a baking fest. I usually wait and give it a good cleaning
after the holidays. If it's really bad or you have company coming
and it looks awful you may want to go ahead and clean it anyway.
* This week and next week is the time to do any deep cleaning that
you don't want to have to mess with again until after the
holidays-- things like washing your windows, deep cleaning rugs and
carpets and dusting mirrors, picture frames, lampshades or ceiling
fans.
If you have been keeping up with your cleaning you may not have to
do any of these. Basically just clean your house enough for
company. Then you'll know it's done and you will be prepared for
the unexpected.
Part of the stress that comes at the holidays is the result of not
being prepared, especially for the unexpected things that always
seem to come up. Think of it like being prepared for a disaster. If
I have a wood burning stove, firewood, lots of candles, blankets
and food prepared, I am not too stressed if we lose power from an
ice storm. If I wasn't at all prepared, I would be in a total panic
if an ice storm hit.
If you are prepared, you have something you can whip up for company
in just a few minutes or if the kids need treats for school, you
have dough frozen and ready to be baked in the freezer. I'm not
saying that I have everything prepared like Martha Stewart but I do
try to have everything together enough so that I'm reasonably
prepared for the unexpected. My idea of the perfect woman is a
cross between Martha Stewart and Erma Bombeck! Some days I am more
one than the other and on other days I totally miss the mark, but
that's okay, because I tried. :-)
-Jill
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This jointly-authored novel by Tracie Peterson and Judith Miller was an easy, pleasant, "typical" Christian fiction read. Set in 1886, a young Southern-roots single gal and her "formerly"-alcoholic father move down to their ancestral home in Georgia after residing in Pennsylvania. Shortly after their relocation, they learn their island has been purchased for development into a resort. What happens thereafter includes false assumptions - turned - romance for this single, young main character named Audrey.<br />
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I chuckled at the character Aunt Thora and her animosity towards the "Yankees" that came to work on the island. Her quirkiness added a lot to the story and despite her sometimes odd actions, there was love for the family at the heart. <br />
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I enjoyed the fictitious setting of BridalVeil Island and the obstacles and uniqueness that living on an island added to the storyline. It was interesting to compare the plans within the novel of their "grand resort" versus what an equivalent idea would play out to include in today's society. <br />
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This book was a clean, quick read but lacked any real "can't put it down" drama. <br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: italic; line-height: 18px;">Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from <a href="http://inquicksand.blogspot.com/search/label/www.bethanyhouse.com/bookreviewers">Bethany House</a>,
a division of Baker Publishing Group. I was not required to write a
positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am
disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16
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