Rose Is A Rose

And then there was strep throat

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Holiday fav

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"Lena, what's your favorite thing about the holidays?"

"Decorating the Christmas tree!"

Of course!

Lena and Oma

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Enjoying the bench near Mango's memorial

First solo swim

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Carrots

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A sweet harvest!

Lena finds an egg

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Aunt Eve's yard birds have a surprise for Lena!

Vintage LPS joins the house

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Hooray for great Valentine's presents, Frog and Turtle (circa 2008 and "out of print") from Grammy who joined our Littlest Pet Shop collection today.

Imagination and character play are a favorite activity around here. It's healthy, creative, and something kids and grown ups can both enjoy together. The new friends were immediately introduced to each member of the LPS household and then invited in to take a nap in the house.

Welcome additions! (And hours of great distraction!)

Lena in the Leaves

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Ice Day Art

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Icy weather has us staying inside, so what better way to spend the time together than by making some art? Great use of color!

Materials: Wax pastels on paper
Artists: Lena and SLD (*aka* Mama)

Couch Surfing, Toddler Style

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It's great to hang out with friends for Sunday dinner and enjoy a little couch surfing, toddler style!

A conversation with a 3yr old

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Lena: "Mama, can I be your best friend?"

Me: "Yes, absolutely."

Lena: "Can you be MY best friend?"

Me: "I would be honored.." (sniff sniff)

(I think I just got something in my eye.)

What's for dinner tonight?

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I watch a lot of cooking shows on public television. It's weird because I hate to cook. I don't like food, in general, really. My idea of feel-good mac and cheese comes out of a blue box and I would rather order take-out than shop for alien veggies like radishes or beets. Of course, anyone responsible for balancing the family budget (and diet) will tell you, that kind of meal plan is not sustainable!

Collected Recipes

Instead of collecting recipes on little notecards or slips of paper, I have been using the Evernote app. As I go, I'm collecting recipes, notes, pictures and other tid bits into this notebook.

Sign up for Evernote (I get a referral credit!)

Or just browse my Recipes notebook here:
https://www.evernote.com/pub/tomatosld/recipes

Please read, use, and enjoy! Got a recipe? Share it!

Never Too Late To Re-Train

My re-training began about a month ago with some leftover breakfast sausage. It was a Wednesday and I knew there was no way we were going to make breakfast anytime before the weekend. I didn't want it to go bad, so then and there I made a decision to start my journey to becoming a cook. Nothing fancy. Just family dinners and weekly meal planning.

Subject Matter Improv

All those episodes of Julia Child, Martha Stewart, and America's Test Kitchen suddenly fell into place. Heat up the oil in the pan, onions first, then carrots, saute the sausage, add garlic (don't let it burn!), a couple of can of tomatoes and some herbs from the garden, stick it in the oven and wait for dinnertime. I didn't follow a recipe, but even as the ingredients varied slightly, I did follow a pattern repeated countless times by television chefs over the years. I hadn't studied it, but simply by being familiar with the subject, I was able to improvise with good results!

Shopping Efficiency

Not only was it delicious that night, but later that week, I made baked ziti with the leftover sauce that has become a new family favorite. It felt great to be so efficient, and by keeping it up, I've been able to reduce our food bill by over 30% every week! My husband makes great food, but he does not generally have a plan for weekly meals nor for re-purposing leftovers. Frequent trips to the store are costly, in both time and money.

Dishwashers Don't Work Here

I am also taking control of our kitchen. As I said, my husband makes great food, but he uses every dish in the cupboard to prepare his meals and does not clean any of them as he goes--I think this is a result of working in restaurant kitchens staffed with paid dishwashers. The chaos of after-dinner cleanup of one of his meals often bleeds into the next morning. Keeping things neat as I go, helps to minimize clean up later.

Travel Tips for Families: Austin and Chicago

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Traveling with families can be a joy that creates a lifetime of memories. Travel expert, Kendra Thornton and I have created these guides to each of our respective home towns. You will find this article full of tips for anyone traveling to Austin or Chicago with their families!

Part 1: Local’s Guide to Austin, TX

By Stacy Dyer

Austin is famous for its music, food, and sports; yet it’s the distinctively “weird” Texan culture that reverberates through visitors, young and old. Families visiting Austin can visit these top spots to get a taste of the quiet beauty and unique culture locals enjoy year-round.

Walk in the Park: Zilker
Zilker Park is one of Austin’s best-loved parks. While swimming in Barton springs can be refreshing, there are plenty of other attractions at Zilker. Don’t miss the long-running Zilker Zephyr miniature train ride and for a little touch of local Austin musical history, visit the statue of Stevie Ray Vaughn next to Lady Bird Lake. There are plenty of sports including weekly soccer tournaments during season and an 18-hole disc golf course. Depending on when you visit, Zilker Park plays host to a variety of special events and performances, some of which are free. In the spring, you can find free Shakespeare in the Park at The Sheffield Hillside Theater and in the summer, Blues on the Green provides regular musical performances. Austin City Limits music festival, hosted at Zilker every fall, provides an intense, immersive experience for every musical taste. During the holidays, a magical Trail of Lights culminates in the towering Zilker Holiday Tree.

6th and Lamar: A "Whole" lot of Weird
Not just a grocery store, Whole Food's world headquarters is an experience! Even if you aren’t doing your weekly shopping, there is plenty to enjoy at Whole Foods flagship store. Beer lovers can walk through the refrigerated beer aisle. And those with a sweet tooth will enjoy the chocolate fountain in the bakery. Park in the below-ground garage and have your groceries delivered to your car with a special elevator! Top off your shopping expedition by grabbing a quick sandwich or salad bar to enjoy on the outdoor patio. Wash down your lunch with a locally-brewed Sweet Leaf Tea. Stroll across the street to shop at Austin institutions such as Bookpeople or Waterloo Records and buy a “Keep Austin Weird” t-shirt to commemorate your trip.

Where to Stay: Driskill Hotel
The historic Driskill Hotel is a luxurious downtown hotel that provides everything travelers need with distinct Austin style. Young guests are “deputized” upon check-in with an official Driskill Deputy sheriff's Badge and presented with a certificate signed by Colonel Jesse Driskill, the hotel’s founder. Kids also get a coloring book and crayons, and free cookies! No historic hotel would be complete without a haunting or two; ghost hunters should ask for the official list of ghost stories at check-in.

Where to Eat: Food Trucks
Who wouldn’t want to be served gourmet-quality dishes from a restaurant on wheels? Austin food trailers are unique and delicious. Sample different menus in a kid-friendly lot at the Midway Food Park on S Capital of Texas Hwy, which even boasts a playground! For more, try the food trailer parking lots on South First Street, East Sixth, West Campus, or in the Mueller district. Wherever you go, don’t be afraid to sample something that sounds bizarre! (East Side King serves deep-fried beets so delicious, even the pickiest eaters will love them!)

Check out this map for more spots to bring your kids in Austin, TX!

View Austin kiddo spots in a larger map

Part2: The Local's Fun Guide to Chi Town

by Kendra Thornton

There's a lot to love about Chi Town. It's one of the birthplaces for American history, and it's a vital mecca for food, arts, culture and music. Travelers from all over the world find the history and sports magnetism of Chicago to be an incredible adventure. From a local's perspective, there are a few things that people can miss on the big tours that run the tourism show in Chi Town. Whether you are just stopping in for your first trip or this is your second trip, there are some amazing places to check out next time you're wandering the Windy City.

Check Out Those Dinosaurs
The Field Museum in Chicago is located right off South Lake Shore Drive, and it's one of the best places to see some art, culture and history for an afternoon. It's also a good place for fun recreation if you're traveling with kids. The Field Museum is most well known for its dinosaur fossils exhibitions, but there are all kinds of seasonal, yearly and one-of-a-kind exhibits that you'll love to explore. If you've visited the museum in the past, you're guaranteed to find something new the next time you go.

Sail the Waters
If you have the time on your next trip to Chicago, you should definitely take a trip out to see on the Tall Ship Wendy, a pirate boat tour on Lake Michigan. This adventurous ride is made for any sea lover who loves some adventure and lots of good humor. While educational, it's also quite fun to explore with the entertainers on board, and you'll get to learn about the area while taking in some incredible sights. There are tons of photo opportunities along the way as well.

Where to Stay in Chi Town
Whether you love the old historic hotels like The Drake or you want something more modern like The Peninsula, there are a variety of different hotels in downtown Chicago that offer incredible views and quick trips to wherever you want to go. To compare all of their rates and get the best ratings on hotels in Chicago, I’ve found Gogobot to be one of the best sites to find information. You can check out all of the four-star and five-star luxury hotels as well as cheap bed and breakfasts and highly rated three-star hotels that may interest you.

Eating Rich for Cheap in Chi Town
Chefs love Chicago. Whether it's the sports, beer or just that deep-dish pizza, there are a ton of different world-renowned chefs who have started restaurants here. You'll find some of the best restaurants while exploring the streets of Chicago, but one of the ultimate places to go any time of day is the South Water Kitchen in the Loop. A native Chicagoan makes food here, and the menu reflects that kind of flair and pizzazz. It's also got all types of classic dishes, which is perfect for those picky eaters in your party.

Special thanks to Kendra for her contribution to this article!

Christmas ornaments!

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Today's art project is nearly complete. Watch for these fabulously original designs to be hitting a tree near you soon.

Reading to her cat after dinner

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"Lion" by Lena Rose

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Lena lately

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Lena enjoyed her trip to Maine!

Grammy and Grandpa visit and Green Gate Farms

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Lena and Grandpa

Pigs aren't pink

Green Gate Farm Store

Feeding goats and horse

Horse likes lettuce more than kale

At the playgrround after the farm

Lena Rose

Grammy and Grandpa should be here for a while so we'll see them again soon!
Want to see more pics from our visit to the Farm? Check out the Picasa gallery here:

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Two Best Friends

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Lena and Rae

Lena Rose x 9

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Nine times the cuteness! Who could choose just one?

Click here to download this collage in widescreen for your computer desktop. Or let me know if you want it in a custom size!

Easter 2013

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This year, we celebrated the annual turning of spring with a little egg hunting in the morning (loot included: yogurt melts, buttons, fuzzy worms, and misc SXSW booth swag giveaways (who knew the Easter Bunny was a nerd?) Then we had brunch with close family and relaxed in the garden.

Happy Easter/Vernal Equinox/Beltane!

Easter basket goodies

Lena Rose

Found one

Finding eggs is fun

Enjoying loot with Aunt Eve

Lena Rose

Time to play!

Want to see more? Click below to view the entire album!

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Lena's First Haircut

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Just in time for Lena's appearance in Owen and Eve's wedding next week, Lena got her first haircut!

We choose a salon here in Austin that specializes in kids cuts. It was a very stimulating place with lots of toys and videos and other distractions to keep the kids happy. Lena got the special "first haircut" package with a certificate and photo. After the cut, kids get to drop a card in the machine to get a prize. Well, Lena was on to that in about 2 minutes, needless to say! And she kept trying to steal the other kids toys whenever the machine spun up. She was very happy and patient the entire time. I'm so proud of my BIG girl!


Lena needs a haircut!

Sitting in the chair

Yeah, I could get used to this

Final result, complete with green bow, glitter, and strawberry smelly spray. What a treat!

For more, click below to view the entire album on Google+

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New Videos!

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Sorry we've been dark for a while. Catch ups to come--starting with these new videos!

Bubbles at Brandifers

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Catch up! Apologies in advance for the back-dated post.

Here are some photos of Rae and Lena from Julia's B-day party at Brandifer's last month. Rae loved her Hello Kitty bubble maker and Lena (finally) tasted chocolate cake! Links to videos of the chocolate-cake eating in the album.

Click to view album on Google+

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Toddlers and Emotions

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Ms. Liz did some fantastic research this weekend, regarding toddlers and emotions. (Thanks, Liz!) Here are some of her findings:

First, check out this article by Heather Turgeon called Why Kids Have Temper Tantrums | Babble

About half-way down, you can read her explanation of how toddler brains develop. I was surprised to learn that her brain is already starting the process of "pruning" unused connections and that this "pruning" is actually the "heavy lifting" of developing emotional maturity.

This second article Teaching Toddlers About Emotions - Parenting.com by Rita T. Wallace has some more practical advice, including these 3 tips:

Name emotions seen in others
Name her emotions as she feels them
Name your own emotions to her

Words are important, and children listen, so putting words to the feelings she is having is an important developmental step.

I realize that this doesn't just apply to toddlers, of course. In fact, I have recently been studying the concept of Emotional Intelligence, as it applies to developing my own interpersonal and professional relationships. Clearly, these principles apply as well! If I can teach Lena to recognize her own emotions and not be hijacked by them, she will be able to use those skills for the rest of her life!

Perhaps by helping my daughter through this learning process of her own emotions, I will be able to better understand and acknowledge my own and become a better person through her.

Now, will somebody please remind me I said that next time we throw a tantrum in the grocery store? Ha!

Love always,

Mama