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<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><strong><em>&#034;If you think your remarkable, You Are&#034;<br />
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<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">WELCOME ALL !</p>
<p>In this issue of the Rev Stuart Bronson International online newsletter, my goal is to offer valuable, relevant, leading edge, and interesting content, with some innovative and refreshing ideas to expand on what you may already be receiving.</p>
<p>Regards,Rev Stuart</p>
<p>Many thanks&#8230;</p>
<p>In This Issue&#8230;..<br />
<a href="#1.nothing_has_changed">1. Nothing Has Changed</a><br />
<a href="#2.Ideas_To_Think_Upon">2.Ideas To Think Upon</a><br />
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<h2><a name="1.nothing_has_changed"></a>1.Nothing Has Changed</h2>
<p>Well here we are into 2010 already and nothing has changed.Most if not all of us have dropped or forgotten our new-years resolutions and fallen back into the same old mediocrity as last year,the same old habits.Wow how sad is that to know that come 2011 new-years most people will be looking in the mirror wondering what happened,wondering why nothing has changed except their age.</p>
<p>Well it will be easy to answer,you didn&#039;t take any new or different action from last year whether it was new thinking or new external action to create change you just did the same so you now have the same.</p>
<p>Anyway this is just a quick hello and have an awesome new year 2010.<br />
Talk next month as I&#039;m very busy putting the finishing touches to my latest exciting new book which will be available from this site shortly.ok chao :)To Your Success,<br />
Rev Stuart</p>
<p>Rev Stuart recommends the book, &#034;THE PSYCHOLOGY OF WINNING&#034; by Dr Denis Waitley</p>
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<h2><a name="2.Ideas_To_Think_Upon"></a>2.Ideas To Think Upon</h2>
<p>To be concious that you are ignorant is a great step tp knowledge</p>
<p>Benjamin Disraeli (1804 - 1881),</p>
<p>Mankind have a great aversion to intellectual labor; but even supposing knowledge to be easily attainable, more people would be content to be ignorant than would take even a little trouble to acquire it.</p>
<p>Samuel Johnson (1709 - 1784)</p>
<p>The only good is knowledge and the only evil is ignorance.</p>
<p>Socrates (469 BC - 399 BC)</p>
<p>I have enjoyed greatly the second blooming&#8230; suddenly you find - at the age of 50, say - that a whole new life has opened before you.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[EMOTIONS..USE THEM OR THEY WILL USE YOU?
By
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&#034;LIVE OUT YOUR IMAGINATION,NOT YOUR
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HISTORY&#034;</em></strong></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><strong><em>Stephen Covey<br />
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<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">WELCOME<br />
ALL !</p>
<p>In this issue of the Rev Stuart Bronson International online<br />
newsletter, my goal is to offer valuable, relevant, leading edge,and interesting content, with some innovative and refreshing ideas to expand on what you may already be receiving.</p>
<p>Regards,Rev Stuart<br />
Many thanks&#8230;<br />
In This Issue&#8230;..</p>
<p><a href="#1">1. Emotions..use them or lose them</a></p>
<p><a href="#2">2.  Things To Think Upon:</a></p>
<p><a href="#3">3.  As A Man Thinketh</a></p>
<h2><a name="1"></a>1.<a href="Emotions..Use%20them%20or%20they%20will%20use%20you"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Emotions..Use them or they will use you ?</span></a></h2>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Emotions which are the result of your thinking are the most uplifting or<br />
destructive forces inside us. Under the power of emotions, people have<br />
performed some of the most amazing things.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">To a large degree,civilization itself can be defined as the intelligent channeling of<br />
human emotion.  Emotions are fuel and thinking is the pilot,<br />
which together move you forward to success or failure.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">There are four major Emotions; each, or as a combination, can trigger the<br />
most incredible activity, or lack of activity. The day that you choose to<br />
fuel your desire with these emotions is the day you&#039;ll move toward<br />
your true destination.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">As we all know,Action creates results,and  Only correct action can creates correct results.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">1) Frustration:<br />
One does not usually equate the word &#034;frustration&#034; with positive<br />
action. And yet properly channeled, frustration can change<br />
your life. The person who feels frustrated to the extent of<br />
exploding has reached a point of no return.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">He or she is ready to throw out the challenge to life and say, &#034;I&#039;ve had it!&#034;</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">That&#039;s what most people say when they reach the end of their tether which is usually<br />
followed by the statement of &#034;I don&#039;t want to live like this anymore.<br />
I&#039;ve had it with being broke. I&#039;ve had it with being embarrassed, and<br />
I&#039;ve had it with lying.&#034;</p>
<p>Yes, productive results of frustration come when a person says, &#034;Enough is enough.&#034;</p>
<p>When one has finally had enough of mediocrity, when you&#039;ve had enough<br />
of the feelings of fear, pain and humiliation Then one decides he is<br />
not going to live like this anymore. Living life like a loser. Call it what you will.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">The &#034;I&#039;ve had it&#034; day, the &#034;never again&#034; day, the<br />
&#034;enough&#039;s enough&#034; day. is hugely powerful! There is nothing so<br />
life-changing as gut-wrenching frustration.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">2) DECISION:</p>
<p>Most people are pushed to the wall before they make decisions. And once<br />
they get there, they have to deal with the conflicting emotions that<br />
they refused to deal with prior to impact. We reach a fork in the road<br />
and have to make a choice to go left or right.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">No wonder decision-making can create knots in stomachs, keep us awake in the middle of the night,<br />
or make us break out in a cold sweat.</p>
<p>Making life-changing decisions can feel like a war is going on inside<br />
your head 24/7. Conflicting voices of emotions, each with its own<br />
reasons, they fight each other for supremacy of our minds.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">And our resulting decisions, whether bold or timid, well thought out or<br />
impulsive,will either stimulate a course of action to freedom or blind us to it.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I only have one idea to share with you about decision-making&#8230;</p>
<p>Whatever you do, don&#039;t stop at the fork in the road. Decide. It&#039;s far<br />
better to make a wrong decision than to not make one at all. Everbody<br />
has to confront their emotional turmoil and sort out their own<br />
feelings.So get on with it&#8230;NOW</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">3) DESIRE:</p>
<p>How does one gain desire?</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I can&#039;t answer this directly because there are many ways. But I do know<br />
two things about desire:</p>
<p>a.  It comes from the inside not the outside.</p>
<p>b.  It can be triggered by outside forces.</p>
<p>Almost anything can trigger desire. It&#039;s a matter of timing as much as<br />
preparation. It might be some music that tugs at the heart. It might be<br />
a<br />
memorable sermon. It might be a movie, a conversation with a friend, a<br />
confrontation with the enemy, or a bitter experience. Even a book or an<br />
article  can trigger the inner mechanism that will make some<br />
people say, &#034;I want it now!&#034;</p>
<p>Therefore, while searching for your desire, don&#039;t build a wall to<br />
protect yourself from experiencing life. The same wall that keeps out<br />
your disappointment also keeps out your opportunities to engage. The next<br />
idea-desire could be the one that moves your life ahead so seek and ye shall find..</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">4) RESOLVE:</p>
<p>Resolve ( To decide firmly on a course of action ) &#034; I Will&#034; These two<br />
words are among the most potent in the English language. Benjamin<br />
Disraeli, the great British statesman, once said, &#034;Nothing can resist a<br />
human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its<br />
purpose.&#034; In other words, when someone resolves to &#034;do or die,&#034; nothing can stop him.</p>
<p>Tiger Woods the golfer says, &#034;I will WIN&#034;. They told me it&#039;s too hard,<br />
it&#039;s too steep,, it&#039;s too difficult. But it&#039;s my mountain. I will ascend..</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">You&#039;ll soon see me waving from the top or you&#039;ll never see me,<br />
because unless I reach the peak, I&#039;m not coming back.&#034; Who can argue<br />
with such resolve?</p>
<p>When confronted with such iron-willed determination, I can see Time,Fate<br />
and Circumstance calling a hasty conference and deciding, &#034;We might as<br />
well let him have his dream. He&#039;s said he&#039;s going to get there or die trying.&#034;</p>
<p>The best definition for &#034;resolve&#034; I&#039;ve ever heard came from a Jim Rohn<br />
story he shared about a schoolgirl in Foster City, California.It follows&#8230;</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">&#034;As is my custom, I was lecturing about success to a group of<br />
bright kids at a junior high school. I asked, &#034;Who can tell me what<br />
&#034;resolve&#034; means?&#034; Several hands went up, and I did get some pretty good<br />
definitions.  But the last was the best. A shy girl from the<br />
back of the room got up and said with quiet intensity, &#034;I think resolve<br />
means promising yourself you will never give up.&#034;</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">That&#039;s it! That&#039;s the best definition I&#039;ve ever heard: PROMISE YOURSELF YOU&#039;LL NEVER GIVE UP.</p>
<p>Wow how awesome was that Jim Rohn extract, now think about this,</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">How long should a baby be allowed to learn how to walk? How long would you give the average<br />
baby before you say, &#034;That&#039;s it, you&#039;ve had your chance&#034;? Any<br />
and all mothers would say, &#034;My baby is going to keep trying until he<br />
learns how to walk!&#034; No wonder everyone walks.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">And yet we continually condem ourselves because we have&#039;nt succeeded in 15 minits or less..lol</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">So the lesson is &#034;How long are you going to work to make your dreams come<br />
true?&#034; maybee, &#034;As long as it takes.&#034; because that&#039;s  what<br />
these four emotions are all about. So stop bullsh&#8230;ing yourself and<br />
get going NOW</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I know Your frustration is at it&#039;s peak, you&#039;ve hit the fork so</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">CHOOSE NOW..NOW..NOW</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">To Your Success,</p>
<p>Rev Stuart</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Rev Stuart recommends the book, Think and Grow Rich,  probably one<br />
of the most quoted books on success, next to the Bible.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">To read previous articles and quotes from Rev Stuart Bronson Archives <a href="http://www.RevStuartBronson.com/" target="_blank">click here</a>.</p>
<h2><a name="2"></a>2<a href="#2_Things_To_Think_Upon:"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> Things To Think Upon:</span></a></h2>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">The wise man will love; all<br />
others will desire.</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Afranius..</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">The first step to getting the<br />
things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Ben Stein</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their<br />
lives.</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">William James</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">The wisest mind has something yet to learn.</span></p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">George Santayana</span></p>
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<h2><a name="3"></a>3. <a href="#3.%20As_A_Man_Thinketh:"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">As A Man Thinketh:</span></a></h2>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">&#034;Thoughts sow seeds in the fertile soil of the mind and by the law of things,<br />
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<p>We focus a lot on how powerful our thoughts and actions are and in so<br />
doing, we overlook one of the most powerful determiners of dreams &#8212;<br />
our words.</p>
<p>In fact, many of the words we use in casual<br />
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our emotions and actions. If you listen closely when  someone<br />
is asked how they are they will usually answer with a comment like &#034; oh<br />
not bad&#034; or &#034;i&#039;m ok &#034; or &#034; I will be better when&#8230;&#034;.</p>
<p>Suffering is allways the the effect of wrong thinking in some direction and as<br />
they have discovered , suffering and misery, not lack of material<br />
possesions, are created from wrong thought so what are you constantly<br />
running over and over in your mind creating what you don&#039;t<br />
want,  like a mantra.. ?</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">The proof of these truths is in you and it&#039;s easy to discover<br />
through systematic introspection and self analysis. The moment you<br />
radically alter your thoughts is the moment you move into a rapid<br />
transformation of yourself and hence your external circumstances will<br />
transform.</p>
<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Remember, a particular train of thought persisted in, be it good or bad, cannot<br />
fail to produce it&#039;s result on our character and circumstance and since we<br />
cannot directly choose our circumstance it&#039;s imperative to take control<br />
of your thoughts so you can indirectly,yet surely, shape your<br />
circumstance.</p>
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<p style="margin: 15px; font-size: 9pt; color: #07256b; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">THINK..THINK&#8230;THINK&#8230;and then THINK again..GOTT<br />
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consequences of every deed, word, and thought throughout our lifetime.&#034;</em></strong></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you&#039;ve imagined.  -Henry David Thoreau</p>
<p>Dear Friends,</p>
<p>Have you heard that perseverance is a key to your success.?  We can always benefit from being reminded of our basics!</p>
<p>Imagine what would happen if we set out on a goal and a week later we gave up on it. Is it likely to come to fruition ?</p>
<p>It has been shown in the evolutionary models of creation of life, that every life form has its time. It has a beginning and an end. Everything that we create in our life has a beginning and an end. If we do not hold our vision and hold our goals long enough, they are not going to manifest. PERSEVERANCE is one of the keys to SUCCESS.</p>
<p>I have had a dream to lead the people since I was a teenager.  I also wanted to be involved in healing.  Those are two areas of life that I wanted to master.  In the process, I have helped many through a kind word which many of us seem to find so difficult to share with another and yet it could change our whole day if we would just share those kind words with anothergive instead of take.</p>
<p>I am taking my practice to the world, not just to a local area.  I am planning on speaking to the world, bringing healing in a different form.  I plan on making income doing that.&#034; Funny thing happened when i shared my dream with others, they told me to get a normal job and fit in as  &#034; You&#039;re not going to succeed that way.&#034; they said, &#034; and i replied that i will lead the people and i am going to hold my dream no matter what they say.  I am not going to give up on it, because I know in my heart that this is where I am going.&#034;  I knew!</p>
<p>If we trust our intuition and inspiration, if we hold onto our visions, and we PERSEVERE toward our goals, our dreams come true. Today the smart people who new what i should do are sadly in most cases broke&#8230;.financially&#8230;.spiritually&#8230;&#8230;.emotionally while i am talking to people all over the world, speaking around the world Because I held that vision!  I held that dream!  I did not give up on my mission!  I did not give up on the vision that I have had since I was 24 years old!</p>
<p>PERSEVERANCE conquers all obstacles. Like the Law of Certainty, the Law of Perseverance is one of the secrets to making things happen!  The person who is willing to continue, no matter what, succeeds.  Like Michael Jordan who goes out and continually shoots baskets, he perseveres!  He continuously does this, no matter what the obstacles.  This is the person who succeeds.</p>
<p>The Law of Perseverance is the willingness to take actions every single day on your dreams and never stop.  Even if these are little baby steps, every single day you make another step toward your dreams.  The Law of PERSEVERANCE means, &#034;Let neither pain nor pleasure interfere with perception of purpose.&#034;  I have said before that if you are not being stretched, you are not on purpose.  You will be challenged in life.  You will be ridiculed.  You will be told you can&#039;t succeed.</p>
<p>Pay attention to the vision you have!  Hold on to the dream!  Do not lose the dream.  Those who lose their vision perish.  Those who hold their vision conquer!  It is the Law of Perseverance that makes things possible and makes all of your dreams come true.  Never give up on your dreams.  Follow the Law of Perseverance.<br />
All that we are is the results of our thoughts.</p>
<p>ALL THAT WE ARE IS THE RESULT OF OUR THOUGHTS<br />
-Buddha<br />
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Meditation is the practice of focusing your attention on a particular object - something simple, like a word or phrase, a candle flame or geometrical figure, or the coming and going of your breath.</p>
<p>Everyday your mind is constantly processing a barrage of sensations, visual impressions, emotions and thoughts.</p>
<p>When you meditate, you narrow your focus and calm your mind in the process.</p>
<p>To meditate,  choose a time and a place where it&#039;s unlikely you&#039;ll be disturbed for  the length of your meditation session. It&#039;s not the end of the world if you are disturbed, but it&#039;s better if you&#039;re not.</p>
<p>Before you start meditating, you need to decide on a length of time. Say 10 or 15 minutes.</p>
<p>If you&#039;re using a pre-recorded guided meditation then that will determine the length of your meditation session.</p>
<p>Many people find that meditating  first thing in the morning is awesome. Other people like the calming sense induced by doing their meditation before they go to sleep. Whatever works best for you is good. After a while, you may even decide to treat yourself to a couple of meditation sessions each day.</p>
<p>Like most things in life, it&#039;s important to make meditation a habit. Like any new habit, chances are that the first few sessions will involve reminding yourself to meditate. Then, gradually, like cleaning your teeth, meditation will become part of your daily routine.</p>
<p>Steps to meditating:</p>
<p>• Choose a meditation method.</p>
<p>• Choose a time and place when you are not likely to be disturbed.</p>
<p>• Choose somewhere you can relax.</p>
<p>That&#039;s all.</p>
<p>As I shared earlier, one of the easiest ways to start meditating is with a guided meditation.</p>
<p>It removes all the (perceived) hard work out of meditating. You just play your CD or MP3 and listen to it.</p>
<p>There are certain things that can help you in the beginning of your practice.</p>
<p>All techniques have been perfected over the ages. All of them are functional so it is you who will have to decide which technique you are most comfortable with..</p>
<p>When you pick a technique listen to your feelings while sitting in meditation. The answer will come from within that will let you know if this technique is right for you.</p>
<p>The second thing you need to do is prepare a meditation space. If you sit at the same time in the same place it will become easier to enter the meditation state over time.</p>
<p>Of course the best choice is to meditate outdoors. However it is not always possible  therefore choose a room or a corner in your house that will be devoted only for meditations. Very soon just sitting in this place will bring you into the right state of consciousness.</p>
<p>Meditation is a quality of the consciousness and your being.</p>
<p>This process can be described by the following example:</p>
<p>(1) Deep relaxation -<br />
(2) Quieting the mind -<br />
(3) Witnessing without making any judgments -<br />
(4) Entering the meditation state.</p>
<p>Traditional methods of meditation can take years if not decades before you can fully enjoy the benefits of your practice because the self talk intensifies as you move in to the silence.</p>
<p>However there is an easier way to practice meditation using binaural beats so invest the time and find out how you can Accelerate your progress of mediation practice with music.</p>
<p>Remember&#8230; don&#039;t believe anything i say, this is true for me, that dosen&#039;t make it true for you so go out and apply it. If your results arn&#039;t what your looking for throw it away and go find something that does work&#8230; GOTT IT ?</p>
<p>Regards: Rev STUART  <img src='http://www.revstuartbronson.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can you<em> imagine</em> being comfortable with the unknown and uncertanty.</p>
<p>Uncertainty provides an opportunity to make powerful choices &amp; clear away what&#039;s no longer useful, so you have more mental space for working on your dreams that are aligned with who and what you want to be. As we become comfortable with uncertainty we gain more clarity about what we want our life to be. This clarity enables you to attract and create your desires.</p>
<p>During these great times it is extremely important to stayed focused on where were going and why. There is comfort in being focused when others are slipping away due to no direction and it leaves your mind open to attack from fear if you are confused. True power comes from the inside and deeper fulfilment comes from asking questions that keep you focused and moving forward.</p>
<p>The person�  you are now is definately different from the person you were last week, year, decade and the<strong> self talk</strong> you use now is totally different so it is benificial to keep updating your self awareness and knowledge base as you move through life or else your making decisions about now and the future�  based on the past experiences so you can never create a new future with old ideas&#8230; can you ?</p>
<p>Practice relaxation with a few deep breaths. As you relax your mind will clear and forgotten or new and different resources will be revealed helping you move forward which is immposible from a tense mind.</p>
<p>Constant visualizationand<strong> self talk</strong> monitoring practice will increase your mental strength to stay focused on your outcome rather than getting�  distracted by things of no value. Even though you may be unsure of how to get there the act of <span style="text-decoration: underline;">visualizing</span> immediately sends a�  frequency out in to the ether and starts sucking in to your vortex all the things you need to achieve it.</p>
<p>Attitude of <strong>grattitude</strong> is one of the most well known powerful tools available to humans for <span style="text-decoration: underline;">attracting</span> things/ people and knowledge to help you succeed. It never fails only we fail through refusing to stay focused,�  which allows us to get distracted and consequently our vibrational energy is quickly depleted. The constant speaking and thinking about our outcome is called Faith.</p>
<p>Faith is the key so surround your self with fellow believers because they will support you when your energy is low as you will them. Turn off the distorted news broadcasts and go inward and listen. Choose to connect with like minded people, honour your core while visualising a greater you which in turn will create a greater external world for you an others.</p>
<p>Start each day by focusing internally on what will serve you now/today to move your closer to your outcome ? Thinking about external circumstances will only hold you in emotional pain as you struggle to control the un-controllable. Remember life is only choices we make from moment to moment so if you want more good stuff then choose more good thoughts as thought is the creator of all things.</p>
<p>Your mind and the law will do the underlying work for you to attract what you need when you need it.</p>
<p>These are just ideas and are my truth which means they may not be true for you,�  so don&#039;t believe anything i have said, go out an test these ideas for your self. If they work for you great, if not just throw them and move on to finding what does�  work for you.. GOTT IT ?  <img src='http://www.revstuartbronson.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Regards: Rev Stuart</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now you may wonder why I would write an article about developing better relationships.</p>
<p>The reason is&#8230;.. I believe that people who are in a relationship of any kind, whether it&#039;s family, work, or friends will be significantly affected in all areas by their mental health if they <em>spend time</em> <em>focusing</em> on the external issues rather than <em>taking</em> personal <em>responsibility</em> for their own <em>thinking</em>.</p>
<p>Research has proven that those who choose to be happy are more productive at home and work. Developing a better relationship with yourself will help you develop a better relationship with others! Here are some ideas to think on for developing a strong and healthier mental state.</p>
<h2>LISTEN :</h2>
<p>Communication is the key to understanding, and listening is the key to communicating. Too often we are not listening, but waiting to speak. Instead of listening to what people are saying, and working to understand them we are making mental notes of what we will say in response.</p>
<p>This is particularly true for males. We often are trying to find the weakness in our partners argument, rather than really listening to the words they&#039;re saying and the manner in which they&#039;re saying them.</p>
<p>Why not invest time this week to understand your partners words and feelings?</p>
<h2>SCHEDULE Your Growth :</h2>
<p>A regular time to go out or spend time together is extremely important to the growth of your relationship. With today&#039;s busy lifestyles, it is too easy to put our relationships on the back burner and take them for granted. While we might have every intention of spending regular time with our partner, we often find ourselves driven by a schedule that leaves us little time for our most important work&#8230; Relationship Building. Work fills our time, the kids need loving and attention. our hobbies consume us.</p>
<p>Once we understand the value of the relationship with our partner and its effect on our overall life we will make time with our partner a major priority and schedule a specific time each week to be alone together, talk, and simply renew our relationship.</p>
<p>Be sure to set some time aside each week to rediscover each other and enjoy your time together.Set a specific time and commit to it. In fact, it is probably best if you and your partner sit down and decide what time will work for you both and then put it in your day timer. If someone asks you if you&#039;re available at that time, you advise them that you already have an appointment. Decide that development of your partners interests are just as important as your own.</p>
<p>When each person has decided to give of themselves to the other, you form a reciprocating relationship of love, respect, and devotion. When you come to a place where you disagree or where the two of you have differing opinions, step back long enough to allow individual thinking from both sides which will enable you to come back with a new point of contact.</p>
<p>Then move in to a state of deeper listening where you can consider what your partner is sharing from an open mind. The simple decision to do this goes a long way toward developing a healthy relationship!</p>
<h2>Your partners love language :</h2>
<p>There is a lot of talk recently of love languages&#8230;..What IS IT ?</p>
<p>IT is the way that each individual receives/understands love from other people. Some people like to have time spent with them. Others like gifts, small or large. Still others respond best to personal touch. Others appreciate verbal affirmations etc etc.</p>
<p>Our tendency is to show love the way we like to receive love, but what will recharge our relationship fastest is to find out how our partner likes to receive affirmations of our love.<br />
The next time you get a chance to listen to your partner, observe which of the above ways they like best to receive your demonstration of love. Then make a conscious effort to show your love in that manner. Do the small things you did when you first fell in love with your partner.</p>
<p>Do you remember when you were first in love? Remember the small things you did to show your love? But as time went along, you probably began to get weighed down with living life and forgot the small things that made the difference in the beginning. Things like a phone call in the middle of the day just to talk or say &#034;I love you,&#034; an appreciative note, flowers, gifts, and opening doors. Recharge your relationship by consciously going back and doing the small things that you did when your love first began to grow.</p>
<h2>FORGIVE Yourself :</h2>
<p>I&#039;ve done a lot of work with couples who were having issues, one of the most common issues I find is that they are holding something against the other and they aren&#039;t willing to forgive. The fact is that your partner cannot live up to your expectations nor you theirs. We need to understand that when we get to that point we need to ask ourselves&#8230; am i angry because im trying to get my partner to behave the way i want and if so , who says my way is the right way ?</p>
<p>So there is nothing to forgive them for&#8230; forgive yourself for not having recognized that you are stuck until now and then celebrate your awareness of that fact and move on.</p>
<p>If a relationship is to grow and last, the people involved must be committed to self awareness of their patterns so they can forgive themselves and ask for forgiveness from others then move on another. Those whose relationships last longest, and are the healthiest, are those who are committed to forgiveness.</p>
<p>I believe these thoughts and ideas will be helpful in recharging your relationship providing you take time to understand them and then implement them. I truly believe that if you put these principles into practice you will see your relationships grow in ways they never have before, and that in turn will improve the quality of your life and others around you.God Bless</p>
<p>Your friend,</p>
<p><strong>RevStuartBronson</strong> <img src='http://www.revstuartbronson.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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