Divorce recovery blognoreply@blogger.com (DimO)Sat, 31 Aug 2024 08:49:20 -0700Blogger http://www.blogger.com14125http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/en-ushttp://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/despair-or-depression-how-to-control-it.htmlAfter DivorceSun, 23 Nov 2008 23:08:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-7844689906693746371Divorce causes so many different emotions that it can seem overwhelming at times. One of the strongest of these emotions is despair. It's easy to understand why despair comes along in the course and aftermath of a divorce. So many things are changing at once that it's difficult to be able to focus on all of them, let alone cope with them. After debris has settled though, holding onto despairing 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/hidden-divorce-assets.htmlDivorce ManagementFinancially RecoverMistakes To AvoidThu, 20 Nov 2008 19:46:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-1609708864512943799This checklist was adapted from one created by a Certified Financial Planner in San Diego, California. It includes common ways in which a spouse may undervalue or disguise marital assets. Be advised, however, that you may have difficulty finding some items or getting the proof you need to show they exist. As mentioned, a forensic accountant, formal discovery procedures, or both may help.• 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/financially-affects-ailment-and-child.htmlChildrenDivorce ManagementFinancially RecoverMon, 17 Nov 2008 19:43:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-6534597792091802675While child support is usually given until the child reaches the age of 18, alimony can be given for definite and indefinite periods of time. Alimony can also be reviewed, because it usually follows the income of both the spouses. If income increases, the alimony is also reviewed. Alimony can also affect pension money and where you live as both are taken as "marital property". A good family 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/financially-affects-dealing-with.htmlDivorce ManagementFinancially RecoverFri, 14 Nov 2008 19:40:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-8867680042308047166When filing for a divorce or if your spouse has filed for one, it is advisable to get a family divorce attorney. Divorce matters usually involve disputes, and even if they don't, it is best to remain on the safer side. The spouse might suddenly change their mind and decide to file a case for alimony, or things could actually not go as expected. A family attorney will guide you and advise on the 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/divorce-children-needs-for-love-of-both.htmlAfter DivorceChildrenDivorce ManagementTue, 11 Nov 2008 19:35:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-5289484053104726671The divorce papers have been signed, your lives have become separate and it is time to move on. The question is: how much time will the children spend with each parent? As much as you know that your children should have equal time with both parents, you have seen your ex's behavior one too many times and know this is not good for the children. Or is it?As long as both parents are offering a 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/divorce-who-really-suffers-it.htmlChildrenGeneralSat, 8 Nov 2008 19:33:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-2246477996316065564For most of the people divorce is a way-out that terminates the unpleasant spousal relationship but, without denying the fact, divorce is a painful process and is one of the most traumatic things of life one undergoes bringing a reeking blow of betrayal, annoyance, anger and doubts. Logically said, divorce is more hurting than a fired bullet for a heart suffering it because, the living conditions0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/remarriage-and-redivorce.htmlGeneralRedivorceWed, 5 Nov 2008 19:27:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-1503907235734208428“Over 60% of re-marriages end in re-divorce.” I frequently get asked, “Why is the divorce rate higher?” People state confusion over this because they believe that since they’ve been divorced once before, they’ll know the danger signs to look for and they are more determined to have what they call a “successful” marriage.All of that sounds good, but let’s look at what the realities are. The 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/divorce-support-for-men.htmlAfter DivorceDivorce SupportMenSun, 2 Nov 2008 19:23:00 -0800tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-7317229492410304620With the statistics showing that divorce is at an all time high the level of support for divorcees has skyrocketed to help people get through this very difficult time in their lives and find a way to move on. Unfortunately that level of support is extremely skewed to help women, not men dealing with divorce! So with divorce support for men so low what does a man after divorce do? Or perhaps more 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/10/divorce-mediation-relatively-low-cost.htmlDivorce ManagementFinancially RecoverTue, 28 Oct 2008 19:22:00 -0700tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-376802935096527797Is it possible to have an easy divorce? A low cost divorce? Or do all divorce settlements necessarily end in hard feelings and financial ruin? The truth is that divorce can be low-cost and easy… or it can be a long ordeal that can drag on for months. No matter how emotional things get, just remember that you always have a choice and that your willingness to negotiate through mediation can help 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/10/divorce-brings-changes-how-to-handle.htmlAfter DivorceChildrenSat, 25 Oct 2008 19:15:00 -0700tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-2555133472806319365Which usually includes a real sense of loss for children. Kids - and parents - grieve the loss of the kind of family they had hoped for, and children especially grieve the loss of the presence of a parent. Helping your children deal with stress will help to make the transition through the divorce process less difficult. Mourning the loss of a family is normal, but over time both you and your 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/10/divorce-and-children.htmlAfter DivorceChildrenDivorce ManagementWed, 22 Oct 2008 19:14:00 -0700tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-2590939636750514194Children have extremely fragile minds and divorce can cause feelings of depression and anxiety. Mostly children tend to get anxious about the living arrangement and not having one of their parents around. The most traditional approach for living arrangements for children has been for the children to live with one of the parents with the other parent having visitation rights. There are also times 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/divorce-mistakes-to-avoid-in-co.htmlAfter DivorceChildrenDivorce ManagementMistakes To AvoidSun, 19 Oct 2008 19:08:00 -0700tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-180385639335190004When Co-ParentingCo-parenting is much easier said then done. I mean you divorced this person because you didn't feel like you could live with them anymore. You no longer choose to have them be an important person in your life. But, when you have children together, you will always be connected. This is the often ignored dirty little secret of divorce with children. You can't just pretend your 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/11/divorce-how-to-survive-financially.htmlDivorce ManagementFinancially RecoverThu, 16 Oct 2008 18:57:00 -0700tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-4406971141377431317When considering divorce and its financial consequences, it may at times seem hard to believe that anyone can survive it. Vengeful wives have been known to max out their husbands’ credit cards prior to a divorce settlement and deadbeat dads have been known to refuse to pay alimony and child support. The consequences can be devastating and nightmarish.This is why, in many cases, it can be sound 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)http://divorce-recovery-101.blogspot.com/2008/10/divorce-rates-up-attorneys-in-demand.htmlDivorce ManagementMon, 13 Oct 2008 19:01:00 -0700tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296531017211438192.post-2090483748929304575Unfortunately, divorce is one of the harshest circumstances facing families today. In the past few decades, the divorce rate has skyrocketed. Much of this increase in divorce has been attributed to the strengthening of women's roles in the modern world. Other factors have contributed to the rising rate of divorce among both first and second marriages, not all of them revolving around the 0noreply@blogger.com (DimOpress)