Sexy woman waiting for you this Halloween! BOO!!!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• How to balance work and play
• Using Money as a Tool for Time and Energy Management
• Great First Date Ideas
• Choosing the Right Woman among many
• And much, much more!

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0097 Great First Date Ideas, Balancing Work and Play… and Much More!!!

Sexy Woman can't take her eyes off you! Find out how to make this happen... TODAY!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• All about my new nightclub!
• The key differences between Masculine and Feminine Anger that you need to know about
• How to cultivate Masculine Presence starting today
• Enlarging your metaphorical PENIS!
  

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0096 Enlarging Your Metaphorical Penis… Masculine Presence… New Insights from Deida… and More!!

Is your girlfriend, frustrated, horny, angry? All of the above?? Find out now!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE

• An interesting article about the bass in men’s voices
• Joseph breaks down the Female Tickle Spot like you’ve never heard before!

The Female Tickle Spot is the "Xiphoid Process" in this illustration

• More depth on Shinzen Young’s The Science of Enlightenment
• Some brand-new insights on how Meditation Practice is changing my emotional experiences right before my eyes
• How cultivating Equanimity will change your life dramatically, how to cultivate it, and where to start
• How you can start to observe all internal emotions and external events in slow motion, like in The Matrix

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0095 The Female Tickle Spot… And much, much more!!!

What this means is that before you worry about how to have sex with a woman, or how to get her into a relationship, you must first master the basics of human interaction. That means you have to practice, and you have to practice on everyone. If you only look for that one perfect woman when you’re out, and she’s the only woman you interact with, then you will be extremely nervous. Not only will you not learn to be comfortable, you will in fact train yourself to be less comfortable. Talk to everyone you come across. Make them laugh. Touch them. Make these things natural for yourself. Then when it comes time to that attractive woman, sure you’ll still feel nervous, but at least “what do I say” and “when and how should I touch her” won’t be on your list of preoccupations. You can instead focus on getting to know her and having a good time.

For those guys who already have a girlfriend, you may think that you’re done and you can just relax. No! You have to continue to practice and demonstrate your comfort with women. This will show your girlfriend that you don’t need her in your life, and she will appreciate you as a result. If she only ever sees you sitting around at home playing video games, she will take you for granted. There will be no tension or challenge for her. Also, if you’re not used to relating to people in a normal way and you see your girlfriend flirting with other guys, you risk becoming very jealous, which will damage the relationship. However, if you flirt with other women just as much (if not more so), you will realize that it’s not a big deal, and it will make the relationship better for the both of you.

If you are not comfortable around women, then that is the first thing you need to fix.

~Tubarao

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Be Comfortable With Women

This Man is Surrounded by Beautiful Women every time he goes out. Find out how you can do this too!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• All about my new Classic Rock Show
• Man in Madrid, Spain believes he is being Lovingly Dominant but his woman doesn’t want to meet up as often as he does. Learn what he is doing wrong
• Sixty’s “Escalation is Attractive” doctrine, which will change your whole way of thinking about meeting women and dating them
• Why you want to “Risk Creepy” when interacting with a woman you’re attracted to
• Learn all about Seductive Listening, and the difference between that and being an Emotional Tampon
• Learn an insider’s secrets about when, how and with whom women are willing to get affectionate
• Have you ever wondered why men go for porn over actual real-live sex? The real answer will shock and surprise you!

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0094 Interview with Sixty Part II … Man in Madrid wants to see his GF more often … My New Classic Rock Show… and more!

Sexy woman about to move in to your apartment. Are you really sure you're ready for this?

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• Do you understand the difference between being Lovingly Dominant vs. controlling?
• Hear about the best way to use “opinion openers”, if you use them at all
• You need to know the two key ways women give feedback, as there is a huge but subtle difference between the two
• I reveal the appropriate way to touch a woman that will change your relationships immediately and for the better
• A man in San Diego wants to know how to set up a polyamorous relationship and I tell him about my experiences
• Some information on my upcoming Pay-Per-View Special, Room 101
• The first half of my interview with Sixty, which you must not miss!

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0093 Interview with Sixty Years of Challenge (Sixty) … how to touch a woman in a way that pleases her… What I think about “opinion openers”… and more!!

Where will you be?

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Burning Man — Black Rock City — The Playa

Not only do most men believe that they can only be in a relationship with one woman at a time (I don’t subscribe to this belief myself), but many feel that they can only pursue one woman at a time. Partly it’s because society brands any man who loves talking to women as a “player”. And partly it’s because we’re raised to believe that there’s “one special woman” out there for us. The fact is, if there is that special girl, we’re ten times more likely to meet her if we meet ten times as many women. It’s statistics.

Movies may teach us that love is a matter of fate. But why sit around your house, playing video games, waiting for “fate” to drop a woman in your lap, when you can go out and start meeting many beautiful and incredible women immediately? And you know, for those of you who are nervous about approaching an attractive stranger, it’s less nerve-wracking when you know that there’s ten more women just behind her, eager to meet you. Not every woman is a perfect match. But contrary to what the movies may teach, the fastest way to find a great match is to quickly sift through all the not-so-great matches (I won’t say “poor matches”, because every woman can offer you something wonderful if you let her).

My life is full of fantastic women: Acquaintances, friends, lovers. None of them judge me for being the man that I am. In fact, they appreciate that I have so many women in my life, because they know that they can be utterly comfortable with me. I don’t see my relationships with women as an all-or-nothing venture. And by dropping my expectations of them, I find I have a lot more women choosing to be in my life.

~Tubarao

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It’s OK to Date More than One Woman at a Time

Porfirio Rubirosa was a big hit with the ladies. You can learn all his secrets!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• Why it’s important for you to work on yourself from the inside out
• How your mind-body yoga effects all that you do in life
• Learn about manly presence in the face of powerful, feminine energy
• Find out what women really find sexy in a man
• The conclusion of my interview series with Brent Smith

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0092 Interview with Brent Smith Part III… Learn how to work on yourself from the inside out… Become a better looking, sexier man, today!

This stunning woman can't get enough of her sexy boyfriend... could this be you?

NOTE: I am speaking in generalities here, as every human being is unique. For example, there are a certain percentage of women who prefer to dominate men in bed, as opposed to being more submissive. No judgment is made either way; I love all kinds of people and I am simply speaking from personal experience. Also, it should be noted that I am not a psychiatrist or medical doctor, and none of the following should be construed as medical advice in any way.

Throughout history, women have often been judged harshly for expressing “too much” interest in sex; even by their boyfriends or husbands! However, if you look at things from a strictly-rational perspective, most healthy women have – almost at all times – these two very powerful desires:

• to eventually procreate. For that, her instincts cause her to become aroused by the sexiest man available to her (lots more below)
• to procure security for herself and her offspring. For that, typically, she needs money, men who are willing to come to her rescue when push comes to shove, and friendly alliances with other women. In other words, she seeks Physical, Emotional and Social Safety

So understand that when a woman is checking you out and sizing you up, she is (unconsciously) trying to ascertain where you fit into the grand scheme of events, people and circumstances that make up her life.

WHY GOOD SEX IS SO IMPORTANT TO WOMEN

Women love sex as much if not more than men do. There is enough scientific literature published on this topic but – anecdotally and as an experienced lover – the noises women make when in the act of making love; the intensity, duration and repetition of the orgasms for many of them; the importance they often place on the relationship that surrounds the sexual aspect – all lead me to believe that sex is one of the most powerful forces on earth, from the female perspective.

WHAT MAKES FOR EXCELLENT SEX?

Like with many things in life that I became competent at, becoming a great lover was a matter of stripping away bad habits, much more so than learning a pile of fancy new techniques. Here are some common complaints I have heard from women, both when I was much less experienced and they were complaining about me, and more recently when they were complaining to me, about other guys:

• Guys come too quickly
• Guys are too repetitive (aka predictable) as to motion, procedure, and location
• Guys seem to be totally absent (as opposed to present) once they pass a certain level of arousal. A woman in this position can easily fake an orgasm with you
• Guys place too hard of a distinction between foreplay and intercourse. For women, “sex” starts with the EYE CONTACT
• Guys are basically ignorant as to a woman’s anatomy
• Guys don’t take the time to get to know her body and preferences. If that takes an experienced lover 10 minutes, that’s totally fine! But ignorance about how she gets aroused as the unique woman she is, is really frustrating for her.
• Guys are too passive, asking her permission for every move they make, instead of boldly and lovingly dominating her*
• Guys have the Madonna/whore Complex. They fantasize about getting their woman into threesomes with other women, but if their woman notices a handsome man they explode with jealous rage
• Guys do not understand the biological secret I just told you! That women actually get greater physical pleasure from the act, with the right man, than even a man does. If he is ignorant about just how much women love sex, then he will be unable to employ this simple but powerful technique:

TEASING

The art of teasing is one of the skills I sought to master when it comes to female sexuality. Teasing means subcommunicating so many wonderful, sexy things, such as:

• You are enthralled with her body, but you remain in total control of your own. Remaining in control of your own body shows:
• that you’re really paying attention to her body and her emotions. If you’re not paying attention, you won’t be able to walk that fine line of holding back just a little from what she is craving, and pushing and pulling that effect in a rhythmic, undulating, and unpredictable fashion. Ravishing her, and occasionally making her say “please”, with both her words and her body, in all sorts of delicious ways. By doing this, you’ll have a shot:
• that if humanly possible, you’re going to make her come, and come hard.

Now, it’s important at this point that you understand that if your motive anything less than her relaxed pleasure, you will most likely fail. If you want to give her an orgasm to validate your own ego, you’ll probably fail. If you care too much whether she achieves one or not, that will create pressure on her, meaning you will likely fail. Yes, causing her to orgasm is a wonderful thing, and you take it seriously, but if she’s not ready or not able, it’s no big deal, you’ll still show her a great time.

I cannot overemphasize this point: your best shot at giving her the orgasm that she craves is by having a Zen-like detachment from the outcome: you’re fully present, fully aware, and yet, not dependent on the outcome for your own happiness, in any way whatsoever. You are interested in the outcome as an exciting and happy learning experience, above all else.

WHAT GREAT SEX MEANS FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Female Orgasm has been linked to greater fertility in women. And when a woman is audibly enjoying what I am doing to her, that pushes me towards my own orgasm. We can see nature at work here! Franco and many others have written that sexual intercourse releases natural human bonding and relaxing chemicals like oxytocin. Experienced lovers from around the world report that whenever they are able to give their woman the sex she really craves, arguments and drama are reduced substantially (at least temporarily… after all, nature requires us to perform this act repeatedly!). Perhaps there is no better way to sum up the situation than this cool graphic designed by David Clare:

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Good Sex = Better Relationship