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		<title>Coping With The Negative Effects Of Hip Implant Recall</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even though rare, hip implant recall however takes place. When you are on the checklist of people who received a defective replacement part it can be very frightening. In most cases every hurt and pain that transpired during and after the surgery will come back full force. It is something to be informed of that if this happens to you that you should right away see your surgeon. He or she will know exactly what kinds of signs to look for to diagnose the severity and be able to make you aware of the next steps to make you better as fast as possible.]]></description>
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<p>Even though rare, hip implant recall however takes place. When you are on the checklist of people who received a defective replacement part it can be very frightening. In most cases every hurt and pain that transpired during and after the surgery will come back full force. It is something to be informed of that if this happens to you that you should right away see your surgeon. He or she will know exactly what kinds of signs to look for to diagnose the severity and be able to make you aware of the next steps to make you better as fast as possible.</p>
<p> You need to check with an attorney or legal experts for making the company pay up along with taking steps to get the faulty implant taken out from your body. This will not be foremost in your mind but should be discussed with family somewhat soon after you realize what is happening to you.</p>
<p>Some signs of the need for hip replacement complications are severe to begin with while others begin slowly but become agonizing over time.  One dysfunction will develop either persistent inflammation or even a cyst like problem in a specific area. Fluid will build up in an attempt of the body to put a cushion between the bone and the new prosthetic. Pain will join the trouble. The bone will begin falling apart around the parts creating a severe problem. Once this takes place the hip will certainly move from the original position and begin creating problems during walking, sitting and even standing.</p>
<p>Simple loosening of the joint is yet another significant symptom.  Though this may appear ordinary to you, it is not. The problem is called osteolysis and is when there is loos of bone in the area. The body rejects the elements and it swells around the prosthetic. This will loosen and begin bursting down the bone structure.</p>
<p>Generally, fluids may run out at the stage of incision.  Keep an eye on it and if it begins to show signs of blood intertwined with the yellowish fluid there is a dilemma. It is created wherein the bone gains trauma from the part grinding against iself. There is not always blood but in some cases the bone will secrete a milky pus like liquid. This fluid created is poisonous to the tissue and needs to be removed immediately. These and more signs are signals that your hip replacement needs to be repaired or removed. Taking instant action will guarantee that you will retain as little trauma as possible during this time.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Nov 2010 13:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Success is Hidden in Challenges Take a good look at your life today: Is it a success? Is it perfect? Well here’s a newsflash, it’s not intended to be perfect and you really wouldn’t enjoy life without challenges. You&#8217;ll have your ups and downs, and while these things can be burdensome, it&#8217;s simply a part [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Success is Hidden in Challenges</h1>
<p>Take a good look at your life today: Is it a success? Is it perfect? Well here’s a newsflash, it’s not intended to be perfect and you really wouldn’t enjoy life without challenges. You&#8217;ll have your ups and downs, and while these things can be burdensome, it&#8217;s simply a part of life. What’s the answer? Should you live your life in fear and trepidation? No way! Expect the unexpected. Without life’s challenges you cannot grow as a person and reach your dreams. Success cannot be achieved without overcoming challenges.</p>
<p><strong>Life isn&#8217;t Perfect &#8230;and it shouldn&#8217;t be.<span id="more-727"></span></strong></p>
<p>You have your own dreams and goals for  success  and for what you wish to accomplish in life. Don’t you? Life can knock you about from time-to-time but never let go of your dreams—never. If you’ve forgotten your dreams I want you to take them out, dust them off and never forget them again. Whenever you encounter challenges and roadblocks on life’s journey, look at them as opportunities to challenge and expand your self. Do not let them stop you from reaching your dreams.</p>
<p>Focus on your dreams and think about them every day to remind yourself that overcoming new challenges are a means to get you where you want to go. Be patient and consider the things you need to do. Do your best avoid distractions that do not lead you in the direction of your goals and dreams.</p>
<p>Don’t get me wrong, you will at times have a bad day—perhaps some very bad days. When this occurs, don’t be too hard on yourself and remember that you can and will get through it. Life’s challenges, even the worst ones, all carry with them the seed of opportunity. It may be hard to find but its there, I assure you. That’s what makes life so exciting.</p>
<p>Understanding this is the true key to success</p>
<p>Possibility Guy</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Nov 2010 12:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is a fact that some people, your friends included, need to be reprimanded from time to time. But, you can do it right without ruffling their features and being overly offensive. Let me take it a step further and say that you owe it to your friends to be straight with them if you [...]]]></description>
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<p>It is a fact that some people, your friends included, need to be reprimanded from time to time. But, you can do it right without ruffling their features and being overly offensive. Let me take it a step further and say that you owe it to your friends to be straight with them if you truly care about them and your friendship. <span id="more-697"></span></p>
<p>The trick is to be diplomatic while pointing out what you see as a flaw in them while remaining cognizant of your own imperfections. But true friends will need to be blunt with each other from time to time. All too often we remain silent when we should speak because we may be afraid of losing our friendship or creating friction.</p>
<p>Please don’t take what I say here a license to be ruthless. Before you try to fix your friend’s life, be sure that this is not just your pride talking. A bit of introspection about your motivation may be in order. Remember the bible verse warning about removing the beam from your own eye before attempting to remove a splinter for another’s? That’s worth thinking about here to keep things in balance. If your motivation is less than pure, your friend is likely to perceive your misplaced help as being biased and selfish—and that will not benefit anyone.</p>
<p>So, what do you do? Well, there are a few ways to get the job done:</p>
<p><strong>Timing:</strong> The first thing is to consider your timing. That is to say that you need to wait for just the right moment to broach a delicate subject. You also need to be sensitive to what is going on in your friend’s life and give him or her space when they need it.</p>
<p><strong>Location:</strong> The other thing you need to consider besides timing is location. What I mean by this is that you must talk to your friend in private, not in public and in front of others. Doing this publically will only make your friend resentful. In private you can be straightforward.</p>
<p><strong>Method:</strong> Finally you need to consider your method or manner of delivery. Remember you are try to help, right. Well then you need to be tactful and not aggressive. Aggression will only aggravate the situation. In addition it’s likely to make your friend defensive instead of helping them see the problem.</p>
<p>Now go ahead and beat up your friends (verbally that is). If you do it right, they will thank you.</p>
<p>Possibility Guy</p>
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		<title>Tax Advantages of Owning a Small Business</title>
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<p>You can start your own business and excel in it. In today’s economy, you need to ensure and secure a good future for you and your family. But, you need to take sufficient time to look over a number of different business opportunities before plunging in.  One think that many who have only been employees of companies never realize is that there are some extraordinary <a title="Home Business Tax Savings MADE EASY! Book" href="http://www.kickstartcart.com/app/?Clk=4012899" target="_blank">tax advantages of owning a business</a>, even a small home based business.  Not only can you make money in business, but you should be able to significantly reducer the tax burden from the income earned from your regular job—in other words reduce taxes and get a bigger return too. <span id="more-672"></span></p>
<p>Anther reason to consider starting a business now is that it&#8217;s better to have something you can fall back on <em>if or when</em> the company you work for downsizes or closes altogether.</p>
<p>There are a number of businesses that can be started with very little money, for example, <a title="MLM Opportunity" href="www.FDIVoice.com/PeterLoughlin" target="_blank">MLM businesses,</a> consulting, and <a title="Affiliate Marketing Training Program" href="http://cbaa3efvgdt83oc9l7ucmfq9kg.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">affiliate marketing</a>. Other more traditional businesses may require significant upfront cash to get started. If so, what you need to do first locate a source of startup capital. You may borrow from a bank if you want, but nowadays this can also be an extremely risky and costly move. You can also borrow from a friend or family member, but are you prepared to do that? If the answer is yes, you need to <em>know</em> in advance that you will remain faithful to your promise to pay him or her back. To lose a friend or relative for money is something you should avoid at all costs.  Better to start small on your own than to lose a friend.</p>
<p>Whatever business you decide to start please consider whether you will work alone in your new business or form a partnership with friends or family. Many new entrepreneurs think they can never work with a friend—this is something you’ll want to give considerable thought because if you are not careful, partnering you could destroy the good relationships you have with each other. But, the fact is, if you plan properly, a partnership type of business relationship can work out very well and will help share the workload. BUT, you need to know where and when to draw the line when mixing business with friendship.</p>
<p>If you will be starting the new business with others, assign distinct roles and tasks that each partner will be responsible for. This way, you wont be stepping on anyone&#8217;s toes and create unnecessary problems. In the beginning months you will start to see who has unique abilities in the different aspects of your business. When this happens you can tweak things to make sure the workload is not only split evenly, but according to each others talents and skills. Once this is done, try to never interfere or cross over to the others “turf” unless it becomes absolutely necessary. And, if intervention and /or assistance should become necessary (and it will) be sure to be tactful and respectful.</p>
<p>Bottom line, owning a business, even a small <a title="Business Tax Essentials COURSE" href="http://www.kickstartcart.com/app/?Clk=4012898" target="_blank">home based business has tax advantages</a> that can provide security for you and your family in this unpredictable economy.</p>
<p>Possibility Guy</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 12:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>It&#8217;s time to break out of your shell to things happen in your life. You only have one opportunity to live and prosper and if you choose to live in fear, you will have regrets at the end of the day. Sure, you will have your share of ups &amp; downs, some people can not accept you for who you really are. You know what I have to say about that &#8212; <em>So what</em>? You still have friends you can count on and don’t forget all those who love you—the people who know you best. Nothing should stop you from making a life. As long as you know you’re doing the right thing, you can be proud of yourself.<span id="more-655"></span></p>
<p>More importantly, always treasure the people you&#8217;ve in your life right now. Achieve something will be meaningless when you don&#8217;t have someone to share it with. Have you noticed that winning isn&#8217;t as sweet when you know that no 1 sees you? The core of your dreams is the people you love &amp; love you back. So you can still work hard to strive to reach the top but at the same time, also you must devote and set aside time to the people who matter most. You just can&#8217;t have your work be the center of your universe. This unhealthy attitude is what gets you on the path of loneliness and despair.</p>
<p>Before you start to make things happen, you&#8217;ve to appreciate those around you. If you truly took a moment to look back on your most treasured memories, you will find that these are all the people you love. So, open yourself to new friendships &amp; relationships. As cheesy as it sounds, people still share the same joys and anxieties. Although these may vary in some ways, everybody is still on the hunt for happiness. &#8220;But then again, is not that what makes life so mysterious and exciting? While you&#8217;re working on making yourself a better person, you’ll soon discover that life does not revolve around you. Others too have their very own needs &amp; desires. If you want them to respect your dreams, then you need to show the same kind of respect in the end. Otherwise you’ll always be searching for a pat on the shoulder every time you accomplish something. But if you sincerely praise others, they too will sincerely praise you for your accomplishments.</p>
<p>Only when you come to value the friendships you have, you&#8217;ll be ready to work on your own dreams in a meaningful way. There is long journey ahead of you. At times the road will not be smooth. Take time to reflect on different areas of your life and set aside time for this each day.</p>
<p>Finally, go ahead and set up a short term and long term to-do list, so you can break down larger goals into smaller, doable ones—that’s what works best for me. Be patient. Take small steps and you’ll get where you’re going sooner. You’ll then find that you&#8217;re slowly inching closer to what you want out of life.</p>
<p>Possibility Guy</p>
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<p>If you could live purely on impulse, you’d want to punch the person who irritates you the most. For those who have truly hurt you, you’d want to humiliate them in front of the other people and give them a glimpse of how they make you feel. But then again, you can’t live your life that way. You just can’t act on emotions. Aside from looking entirely ridiculous, you’re going to end up looking like the bad guy. It’s hard to dictate your emotions when you want to do something so badly but you know that doing it doesn’t make you right. <span id="more-650"></span></p>
<p>If you’ve let anger dictate the way you react to every situation you get into, then maybe it’s time to look into yourself and see why you’re such an angry person. You can’t be the defensive one when you don’t like a person. You have to be more in control not just to protect yourself, but so you can live with no regrets. When things calm down, you usually look back on the situation and feel shame. Then, there are those who treat you with contempt. How are you supposed to treat these people? The best answer would be to not go down their level.</p>
<p>The negative attitude could permeate in your life and dictate how you should act in so many ways. The more you let it rule you, the worse things will get. You’ll have more reasons to get angry, thus, you’ll be trapped in this deadly spiral that just isn’t healthy for you. Your relationships will be destroyed until you find that you’re surrounded by people who don’t really respect you. The fight or flight mechanisms may have worked long ago, but that was before civilization came into play.</p>
<p>While, it’s nice to be vigilant, you will have your share of ups and downs. Like they say, you have to sometimes take things with a grain of salt. The very angry people are the ones who think that life has been very unfair. They see others leading very charmed life, but when it came to them, they had to work extra hard just to get things working their way. Little do they know that these “privileged” few have their own set of struggles. The difference is that they don’t let the whole world know about it. Realize this and know that while you do have problems and that you may have had your fair share of downers, there are still so many things you should be grateful for.</p>
<p>Not every situation warrants an outburst. It’s time to make a personality overhaul and create relationships that truly help you become a better person. It starts with acknowledging the fact that you do have a problem. You might slip every so often, but when you do know that you need to work on yourself, you’ll always show some effort. In the end, you’ll make yourself truly proud. Once you’ve mastered the art of anger management, you can sit back and watch how life can be so much sweeter.</p>
<p>Possibility Guy</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2010 21:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>It seems as if the world is moving at a faster pace. People now expect so much from you. Not only do you have to take care of things at home, but you also have responsibilities to fulfill at work. Having a family is no longer an excuse for you to slow down. In fact, you’re still expected to work equally harder.</p>
<p>That just makes things all the more difficult for you. While it’s tempting to quit and live in the lap of luxury, you know that this is so0mething that only the privileged few can enjoy. If you’re like most of the people, you need to learn the art of balancing life and work. This can be hard because you can’t afford to skip work every time you just can’t handle any more of it.<span id="more-624"></span></p>
<p>There are tricks to help you cope with the daily grind. You will still be able to fulfill all your responsibilities. In fact, you’ll be able to do them better simply because you’ve given yourself a way to cope with your stressful situation. It all starts with knowing what stresses you out the most. Could it be your supervisor? Is it the fact that you need money to pay for the bills? This is the most important part of the process because by recognizing the enablers, you will be able to come up with solutions that specifically target these.</p>
<p>Once you know why you’re so uptight, you will come up with solutions that will help you avoid these situations. Sure, you may not be able to get rid of your supervisor, but at least you’ll be able to become more productive at work so that your efforts are recognized. Or maybe, just maybe, you could put in a request for transfer. The thing you need to know is that there is always a solution. You can always ask a colleague for help because other people can give more objective advice.</p>
<p>With all that hard work, it would be nice to know that you can reward yourself every so often. Get a massage or go out with friends if you must. Whatever it is that gets you to appreciate the wonderful things you have in life, go get it. Before stress takes its toll on you, you need to step away from the situation and look into why you need to be grateful right now. You’re working hard for something and as long as that something is what you value most, you can always get back on your feet and face new challenges with your head held high.</p>
<p>Then, try to take a break. These don’t have to be grand vacations that require you to break the bank. In fact, it can be as simple as a walk outside or watching a movie. Most importantly, make sure that you get enough sleep. When you give your body the rest it needs, you’ll have the energy to do more. This is the most important thing you can do because you also have to think of your health and wellbeing no matter how tough things get.</p>
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<p>Nothing prepares you for the time your life will change. When it happens, you likely wont be looking for it.</p>
<p>I know this because it happened to me. I lost  jobs  and my relationships &#8212; sometimes  on the same day. Although I was largely the cause, when it happened I was definitely NOT ready for it.</p>
<p>I had to admit some tough things. Number #1 was if I don&#8217;t sort it out now, it will get worse down the line. I needed an income. I needed someone to talk to. I needed courage to deal with the fact that I had neither.</p>
<p>If it was going to get better it was going to be up to me&#8230;<span id="more-613"></span></p>
<p>I realized that it&#8217;s not the problem that&#8217;s the problem, its how you SEE the problem. You need to see it correctly before you can solve it.</p>
<p>Long before Michael Mack&#8217;s <a title="Power Self Esteem" href="http://lawbooks.sonomapop.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">Power Esteem</a> program became available I took the long road to get there, but eventually  surprised myself. By re-aligning the way I looked at everything I was able to change things. By reading and studying (even alone, on my own) I was able to find the courage and resolve to move ahead in my life.</p>
<p>Today I am ttally fulfilled and I have my own business&#8211;in fact I have several.</p>
<p>I decided to share what I learned with other people. If I can help even one person it will be worth the effort. I read a lot of psychological/motivational stuff that was difficult to get any value from. It was either clinical and technical, or full of &#8216;you can do it&#8230;&#8217; cheerleading stuff.</p>
<p>Neither really helped me.</p>
<p>I had to dig DEEPER, and I had to get info from VARIETY of places (psychological text, human interest, video, documentary, biographies, friends&#8217; advice, group and individual counseling, meditating, etc). I took all of this andused it to ask myself the right questions.</p>
<p>I decided that it wasn&#8217;t working to listen to someone else who didn&#8217;t know me try to give me ANSWERS. The answers didn&#8217;t work because they didn&#8217;t know enough about where I was in my life. Once I had the ability to ask myself the right QUESTIONS I found the answers for myself.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t believe this at first, but now I do: In the highest life-state you will welcome problems as challenges. The real question isn&#8217;t &#8220;what&#8217;s the problem&#8221;, but &#8220;how&#8217;s your life state&#8221;.</p>
<p>Some people actually seek out &#8216;the problem&#8217; (surfers, mountaineers, etc). They want the rush of getting through challenges. The &#8216;horrible stuff&#8217;, like losing relationships and jobs, is just part of life, you don&#8217;t control it.</p>
<p>We just need strength for the change that is inevitable.</p>
<p>Problems are just facts. Our attitude is what makes us suffer. If we feel bigger than the problem we cope, if we feel smaller we suffer. Many times problems just reveal our weakness, and that is what we can&#8217;t handle, that is what makes us unhappy.</p>
<p>Somehow, for me, it turned out BETTER that these things happened to me.</p>
<p>You life state is not fixed, it changes moment to moment, (like waking up and feeling better the next morning). And the path to understanding is not a straight one.</p>
<p>Everyone has wisdom, courage and compassion inside of them, they just need to remember how to use them. You can use them like weights, to get stronger and stronger. Your adversity is just the resistance that makes you grow.</p>
<p>Expecting to win or fail is just habit of thinking. We are in charge of this habit. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, getting fit and staying fit takes effort. But in the long run it DEFINITELY pays off.</p>
<p>Perseverance for the sake of good wins, try not to accept your natural, negative way of doing things.</p>
<p>So, to summarize (even if you don&#8217;t believe it yet):</p>
<p>Perseverance wins.<br />
Problems are good.<br />
What matters is life-state.<br />
What we need are wisdom, courage and compassion.<br />
You have a choice. When you feel you cant handle something, you can chose to give up, or you can try to turn poison into medicine (even if it&#8217;s not your fault).</p>
<p>I do believe in one thing, pessimism sucks away your life force.</p>
<p>Recently I learned about Michael Mack&#8217;s extraordinary program  <a title="Power Self Esteem" href="http://lawbooks.sonomapop.hop.clickbank.net" target="_blank">Power Esteem</a> that gets you directly to what took me years to uncover. I think you should take a look at it if you need, well, need what we all need.</p>
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		<title>Active Listening: Becoming a Great Listener</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 18:28:38 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>We live in a world were we are constantly bombarded with information via the Internet, cell phones and text messaging. In order to cope we tend to filter out most of it in. But personal communication should be different. Personal communication is all about giving and receiving. Communication by definition cannot (or at least should not) be one way.<span id="more-611"></span></p>
<p>As a result of living in this fast paced world we frequently fail to consider focusing on what others have to say and instead make the mistake of obsessively expressing our own thoughts. If you are in business or sales (and we all are trying to sell something to others even if it is just our opinions), you must begin to appreciate that others have something to say too—but most of the time we are preoccupied with our own needs to even really list to what the other person’s message.</p>
<p><strong>Communication is a Mutual Exchange</strong></p>
<p>Communication, after all, is supposed to be a mutual exchange of ideas. Instead of thinking about what we have to say next, we should learn to be an active listener and focus on the message of the person with whom we are speaking.</p>
<p>All too often, we try to outmatch each other as if communication were a competitive event. You know what I mean; we’ve all been guilty of half-listening to others while thinking instead of our rebuttal. But not actively listening and focusing in on the words of others actually breaks down communication. You’ve no doubt heard that to get what you want in life you have to help others get what they want, yes?  But when your main priority is to get yourself heard first, everyone loses.</p>
<p><strong>Fully Comprehend What Others Have to Say</strong></p>
<p>To succeed in life we need to master our communication skills, and that means understanding that communication is not just about expressing your needs and opinions. As important as being able to express is, it is infinitely more important to hear and comprehend what the other person has to say. It is only then that we can learn together and from each other. To become a great listener, you need to practice the lost art of active listening.</p>
<p><strong>Active Listening Requires Total Focus</strong></p>
<p>Active listening requires you to totally focus when you communicate with others. Stop thinking about what you are going to say to them in response. Communication is not a tennis match. You have to develop your communication skills by first paying attention of what the other person is saying.</p>
<p><strong>Benefits of Active Listening</strong></p>
<p>Actively listening offers many benefits. It opens a portal into to the other person’s innermost thoughts. When it comes to business related communication, it is our responsibility to make adjustments so that we can better understand our customers—making it more likely to close the deal. The better we actively listen, the more rapport we build with others.  Active listening sends out a signal that you respect and appreciate the other person and we all like and NEED to be appreciated, don’t we?</p>
<p>Active listening is a powerful business tool, but it really is just a matter respect. I say this because I want to impress upon you that this is so much more than a sales strategy. Try using active listening in all of your communications—with family, friends and yes, everyone!</p>
<p><strong>Are You an Active Listener?<br />
How has active listening helped you?</strong></p>
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When I was growing up things seemed so much simpler than they are today. Life was a lot less hectic back then. The world moved at a slower pace and the things that bothered us back then paled in comparison to the issues that trouble us today. You know what I mean, don’t you? <span id="more-607"></span><br />
I can remember when my good friend Tony Rondinelli was the first in town to get a cell phone. It was about the size of a brick and he had to lug around a battery pack with it that was twice that size. But today nearly everyone has a cell phone that weighs only a few ounces. Even computer notebooks and mini-notebooks can be easily carted around to give you on-the-spot access to the world (and the world on-the-spot access to you).</p>
<p>But modern technology is a paradox. It promises to make life simpler for us, but before you know it, it has actually added more stress and obligations to our lives because people now expect us to work faster and produce more. When more is expected of us we tend to get more and more frustrated. Life is not always easier just because of modern technology, is it?</p>
<p>We feel the ever-present pressure of others expecting us to be the best at what we do. I even see this in some parents that go overboard in expecting so much from their children. It’s great to challenge your children to achieve their best, but it’s all too easy to take this the extreme. As traumatic as this pressure can be for children, we adults are going through something even more troublesome. To be anything other that the world’s perception of the best is sometimes just not good enough for some people. When someone else does is better than us, we fall into despair and feel as though we have somehow failed.  But this is complete and utter nonsense. We must start to break away from this ridiculous notion once and for all.</p>
<p><strong>Challenge: Break Away From the Demands of Others</strong></p>
<p>Today I want to challenge you to take a few steps back and break away from the competition we unwittingly impose on ourselves.</p>
<p>Winning is great but it isn’t everything. I want you to begin to relax again and give yourself permission to be happy with doing the best you can—that is everything! If you feel the need to compete there is only one worthy competitor out there. It is YOU! It’s OK to just honestly do your best and not worry about what others think about your results. No matter what you accomplish, it will never be enough for some people.</p>
<p><strong>Peak Performance Comes From Within</strong></p>
<p>Rather than always being the best in the eyes of others you should learn look within to focus on your personal peak performance. Each day brings with it a new opportunity to achieve peak performance and YOUR personal excellence. In my opinion being the best is an accolade only you can place upon yourself.</p>
<p>Life’s expectations can sometimes cause us to react by to pushing ourselves way too hard. We all need to stop for a moment and ask ourselves what is it that we really want to accomplish. By all means go out and achieve everything you can in life—but do it for you and on your schedule—not because of the demands of others in this high tech, speed driven modern word.</p>
<p>Peter Loughlin</p>
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