tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15575210677075965332024-03-05T02:19:35.080-05:00Open Your Heart to the LoveRelationships, Love, Sex, Romance, Dating, Sexual Health, Passion, Humorsearchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.comBlogger125125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-71769874318497048302009-08-06T16:44:00.005-04:002009-08-06T16:59:10.551-04:00Air Your Dirty Laundry At HomeWe all have fears, and insecurities, lost hopes and dreams, that we don’t allow most people in on. We aren't perfect, we have faults and warts, we would rather others not see. When you have a bestfriend(s) that you feel comfortable with, you can more closing relate your true self with them, because you trust them with that part of you. You are having the faith in them to honor, and keep those searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com30tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-83655528162372004622009-07-13T17:34:00.003-04:002009-07-13T18:06:15.654-04:00Balance of Power Among EqualsFor everything, there must be balance. Giving and receiving; when the balance begins to go off kilter, then the foundation begins to wobble.I went out with a group of friends the other night and was watching a couple dancing to one of the fast dances. They used a large part of the floor because they were displaying a push/pull type display that is very real in our lives. She would move away from searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-18828336879708428952009-07-02T15:15:00.006-04:002009-07-02T15:46:04.887-04:00I Am Not Tempted By Anything But TemptationThis is one of a series of articles that talks about seduction, and how we can fall prey to its grasp. Some of these tactics and games have the powerful ability to cause immense emotional torment and anguish to the player(s), if used when you are already in a relationship, or used for the thrill. It is not the intention of these articles to teach you how to use these tactics, but rather to informsearchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-5017377025926555512009-06-29T21:03:00.015-04:002009-07-04T11:15:07.986-04:00The Love Triangle - The Ugly Side of Human NatureThis is one of a series of articles that talks about seduction, and how we can fall prey to its grasp. Some of these tactics and games have the powerful ability to cause immense emotional torment and anguish to the player(s), if used when you are already in a relationship, or used for the thrill. It is not the intention of these articles to teach you how to use these tactics, but rather to informsearchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-18991304359815881312009-06-25T09:19:00.006-04:002009-06-25T10:22:19.161-04:00Thumb Sucking What Does Forgiveness Have To Do With It?When I was a child I was a thumb sucker when I was tired, or sleepy. Whether it is sucking your thumb, or carrying around Linus’s security blanket, they are used for just that, security. Rather than crying for attention and security from elsewhere, the child will sooth themselves by clinging to their method of choice. For one of my sisters, it was rocking. No necessarily in a rocking chair, but searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-77140124070776106312009-06-21T13:19:00.005-04:002009-06-21T13:42:03.075-04:00It's Time to Jump Right In With Both FeetI have been holding myself back. I have not been allowing the things I want the most to come into my life.I was praying the other day, something I have not done in a very long, long time, and I found myself saying, “Please Universe, let me have thus and so. I deserve these things.” I realized that the word ‘let’ kept coming up. Then I was reading the article “How to Get Out of Hell”, which speakssearchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-73161477153472681442009-06-15T07:28:00.009-04:002009-06-30T09:14:55.296-04:00Trust In The Power of Your FemininityHaving grown up in an era where feminism was taking off in leaps and bounds, and being a “daddy’s girl”, I never found my feminine grace. I grew up believing, and setting out to prove, mostly to myself, that I didn’t need a man, or anyone, and I could do anything on my own, and I had to do it with perfection, and above all, I could not be weak, or display weakness. Not only could I not ask, I searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-34973797008882461482009-05-24T08:25:00.008-04:002009-05-24T14:45:31.531-04:00How Will We Love?Here is a video that I found and really enjoyed. It is quite long, but I found it well worth the watch.Although there were many good things said throughout the video, one of the speakers, Dr. Harville Hendrix said some things that really spoke to me.He was talking about how we go through stages in our marriages, one of them being the power play stage, which is where so many couples get into searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-33655224263964150792009-05-20T18:15:00.017-04:002009-05-22T15:26:35.252-04:00What's Emotional Maturity, Needs and Denial Got To Do With It?First off, I am not against casual sex, if that is what you want for yourself. For me, it is unfulfilling, because it is all about the physical, and it's missing the most important ingredient, in my opinion...emotion, not to mention trust.I recently wrote the article, “The Casual Sex Debate – Just Had to Add My Two Cents”, which created some opposition. Not as much validation as I had hoped for, searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-89729508989537626922009-05-12T18:23:00.004-04:002009-05-12T18:33:27.248-04:00Love Is In the Air - LovebugsI always know when it is time for their arrival. When the “snowbirds” are making their way to our State for their Winter stay, and then again when the “snowbirds” begin to pack up, and head back home. Here they come, like clockwork.Here in Florida, twice a year, we become bombarded by these pesky little bugs that insist on going around connected ass to ass, and on first appearance, appear to be searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-78130925918448574912009-05-06T09:43:00.008-04:002009-05-27T12:43:43.183-04:00The Casual Sex Debate - Couldn't Help But Add My Two CentsHoney over at Lance and Honey, and Hammertime are having a difference of opinion regarding the topic of casual sex. This all began over an article written by Hammertime, where he wrote about, how after working the room, and encountering several flops, apparently, in his game and technique, finally found a pathetic, drunk female, and they had a quickie, in the bathroom, and then went on their searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-67228252695678686312009-05-01T07:26:00.004-04:002009-05-01T07:46:40.011-04:00TGIF Love American Style - #5I know...I know. I haven't even been able to keep up with my weekly favorites, any better than I have at getting over my writers block. Instead of around thirty unfinished articles, I now have around forty. Hang in there with me everyone.But...here is this weeks.Ideal Relationships, wrote “When Someone You Love Is Hurting and You Don’t Know What to Say” - I know my gut reaction is to want to helpsearchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-43157408199262615932009-04-23T13:57:00.005-04:002009-06-25T09:35:00.331-04:00Seeking Validation and Love Through Men's ApprovalMy last three relationships have been a complete and total disaster. Above all, I want you to know that all of these men are beautiful people, none of which ever consciously set out to hurt me…I did that all on my own. We are all doing the best we know how, to fulfill what we think we need, and to self-fulfill our core beliefs. I must be grateful to all of these men, because if they had not searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-56082381931758628192009-04-13T08:10:00.003-04:002009-04-13T09:10:49.629-04:00Writer's BlockI have had the worse case of writer’s block the past couple of months. It’s not that I can’t think of anything to write about, my head is brimming with subjects. I have started at least thirty articles, and I just can’t seem to finish any of them. The words are not flowing out of my head on to the page in a way that pleases me. When I read the last few articles I have posted, aside from these, searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-83649252231135445272009-04-04T10:09:00.012-04:002009-04-04T12:35:31.422-04:00TGIF - The Five Best Love and Relationships Articles From Around the Web - #4Wow, it’s Friday again. Well, Saturday, I'm a day late.Grab a cup of coffee, and enjoy this weeks journey. Ready for a good hearty belly laugh? Head on over to The Queen of Relationships and read “How to Get Your Ex Back” - It is way too funny, and gives you the right way, and the wrong way. Although the wrong way is hilarious, I have seen people, and unfortunately had a few tried on me. *sigh*searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-15853259401686497412009-03-28T12:31:00.008-04:002009-03-30T12:40:45.912-04:00Love Means Never Having to Say Your Are Sorry, Or Does It?In 1970 the classic movie “Love Story” came out with one of the most memorable phrases, “Love means never having to say you’re sorry”. But does it?In a perfect World where everyone has unconditional love for one another, you might be able to say this is true. But even in this scenario where everyone would love each other unconditionally no matter what the offense, would we still not need to say searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-64245815176690580962009-03-27T11:57:00.001-04:002009-03-27T12:00:03.191-04:00TGIF - The Five Best Love and Relationships Articles From Around the Web - #3Wow, it’s Friday again. This weeks journey, grab a cup of coffee, and here goes:Realizations and Redemptions of a Recovering PUA– “Flow Like the Ocean” - describing the essence of a woman.Yeh! A contest! Head on over to Dad’s House and enter his contest “Spring Fever – Contest With Prizes” - I just love prizes, how bout you?All Men Are Liars wrote “Exes the rules”, - check it out while you are searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-24597640971483180422009-03-20T16:05:00.008-04:002009-03-27T12:02:06.331-04:00TGIF - The Five Best Love and Relationships Articles From Around the Web - #2I decided to attempt a new Friday ritual, and pick my favorite five articles on love and relationships I read around the Web for that week. So here goes:Over at How To Tell If A Guy Is A Jerk – “In Honor of All the Great Men” - most all of the relationship blogs spend most of their time telling you which men to stay away from, and it is refreshing for someone to take the time out and honor the searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-91878716051588928392009-03-17T12:41:00.005-04:002009-03-17T21:04:23.011-04:00Happy St. Patrick's Day CheersHere's to you and here's to meI pray that friends we'll always be, but if by chance we disagree,The heck with you and here's to me.Her's to the four hinges of society;May you fight, steal, lie and drink,When you fight, may you fight for your country.When you steal,m may you steal away from bad company.When you lie, may you lie at the side of your sweetheart.And when you drink, may you drink with searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-65598109753341787012009-03-16T11:39:00.005-04:002009-03-16T11:48:42.884-04:00Little Girls Grow Up With Their DreamsWe play with Barbie’s and Ken as children, which supplies us with lifelike dolls that we can live out our dreams and fantasies through, and we grow up with fairy tales, where the handsome Prince comes and saves the sweet, loving damsel from those that are evil, and want to destroy her, and her goodness. Then we grow up, and we hold on to those dreams and fantasies, waiting for our Prince to come,searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-64603376303904939532009-03-13T22:34:00.005-04:002009-03-27T12:00:45.903-04:00TGIF - The Five Best Love and Relationships Articles From Around the Web - #1I decided to attempt a new Friday ritual, and pick my favorite five articles on love and relationships I read around the Web for that week. So here goes:Over at Em and Lo’s – “The Top 5 Breakup Cliches" - where they tell us to take these clichés and play the fortune cookie game with them, you know the one I’m talking about, where you read your fortune and add “in bed” on the end, only in this searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-3675091757453106252009-03-06T08:46:00.003-05:002009-03-06T09:15:30.501-05:00Sexercise An Intimate Way to ConnectI found this video over at Buzzfeed. It is a sensual, intimate and erotic exercise routine you can do with your lover. What a wonderful way to stay fit, and become closer with your lover.searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-52651979871972200632009-02-23T17:53:00.007-05:002009-06-25T09:32:58.453-04:00Is Your "Attraction Radar" Broken?Attraction.All over the internet, you find articles revolving around attraction; what creates attraction, how to draw attraction, the bodies chemical reaction to attraction, and the law of attraction. We all have certain things that we find attractive in the opposite sex (or same sex, if that is what you are in to), and a "type", we are drawn to.I was reading a couple of articles that really searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-59985806008504150022009-02-19T09:51:00.005-05:002009-02-19T10:07:55.373-05:00Me2Everyone The Virtual World of Social NetworkingOh what World. Social Networking is changing its face to Virtual Worlds.I was hanging out at Blog Catalog this morning and someone asked if anyone had joined me2everyone. At first I thought it was some sort of multi-level marketing scam, because the person who presented the concept was writing about shares. I have absolutely no desire to be a part of any type of multi-level marketing, which is searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557521067707596533.post-1089437648282400892009-02-18T09:16:00.004-05:002009-02-18T09:52:24.103-05:00Your Soul-Mate Will Honor Your Core ValuesIf you are going to find your soulmate, there are some things you have to do. First and foremost, you have to learn about yourself, and you are going to have to do some sweeping, and clean out the baggage in your life, that surrounds and motivates your ego. You have to love the person that you are, but in order to do that you have meet yourself, before you are going to meet and keep the man or searchingwithinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03890682204527957628noreply@blogger.com3