tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-170863862024-03-07T19:46:11.799-08:00My Bottom SmartsSpankings Make Our Good Lives Even BetterBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comBlogger2081125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-76304645639747992552024-02-24T15:19:00.001-08:002024-02-24T15:19:36.231-08:00Ask Bonnie: Wishing for Spring Edition<center><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJeOIjhx2_7430stRU-THs4X1_cFBk92shidQ3qv_gbIkf4W5MxfjUMdevYRT1rjY3k8Iajag9RYJXZDIRjOr2hsvL4ZZ7g0ITqRdqVTWpMb5F9XSPjnKhcKHyEZLHAuJXUhs6LQ/s1600/ask.jpg"></center>
<i>Happy Almost Spring, friends. We've been busy with lots of stuff, so I've been away from the blog. But I'm here now with some reader questions.</i><br><br>
<b>Question</b>: When did you first know you have a large bottom?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I guess we'll start with this familiar topic. I don't recall anyone phrasing the question this way before. I think it's an inherent design feature. I always knew. Back in junior high, I learned that boys knew too. Not a happy memory.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Would you sell your paddles/thongs?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: That's not business I want to transact. You can order paddles through any quality internet vendor. Thongs are available everywhere.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: You say you get spanked because you are bad. What bad things make you so deserving?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I give discourteous answers to questions like this one.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Dear Mrs X – do you have any suggestions how a man can find a lady with the same interests and Pleasures regarding spanking as you do?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: You might want to check out local kink groups or online forums.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Do you know anyone in ____ that would be willing to spank me<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I’m sorry. I don’t know anyone who lives there. I suggest you seek like-minded people in your area.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: you referenced a cane that was more useful for less intensity than a standard school sized cane. Could you point me in the right direction in terms of size? Length, material? <br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: We bought that cane from a store named <a href="https://www.cane-iac.com">Cane-iac</a>. They are still in business, but in the process of closing. The cane I described is wooden, fairly light, and about 24 inches long. It is well suited for OTK use.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: How can you permit a man to beat your body with a stick?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Yeah. OK. Explanation time. I don’t permit this, we agree in advance. Second, that man is my husband to whom I’ve been married for my entire adult life and with whom I share many wonderful memories, both spanking and otherwise. Third, it’s a spanking not a beating. The focus is my bottom, not my whole body. My spankings happen for a specific purpose. It hurts, but I sustain no lasting damage. Finally, he doesn’t use some random stick he found along the highway. Most often, it’s a paddle that we purchased to deliver spankings. I consent and I am an active participant.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: how do i create my own spanking bench <br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: We bought ours, but you can search for "spanking bench" plans or "spanking bench" blueprints. There appear to be several choices. Good luck! <br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Is spanking a turn-on?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: That’s a big 10-4 good buddy<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Have you ever had to sign a paddle after you were paddled with it?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Yes, that’s a dynamic we enjoy. I have signed the paddle to memorialize a hard punishment gratefully accepted.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Are you thinking about retiring? <br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Retiring from what? Spankings: No, Blogging: Who knows?, Work: It’s on the table.<br><br>
That's it for now. If you want to send me a question, click the <a href="mailto:bottomsmarts@yahoo.com">Ask Bonnie</a> symbol near the bottom of the right column.<br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-87156561302840484042024-02-23T12:19:00.000-08:002024-02-23T12:19:08.692-08:00In Search of Heroines<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3z1M3WDYkBqeeTJ4aGMsSbXFltu3C0LanSJSTpLul6nxmYXpPKdD9Y50KH2tOaGCUZn-1SbrApsZntAL4EDQjQg_a47tlv9WA3OhfbXNf_ylSflz1N9YT9mqA3zWUW7efbv_5rrXyCKkT0OS8FScSdY2cQ-6QNteed8MhECWbmOBo0PEwRE2s/s1000/PenelopePitstop.webp" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" width="400" data-original-height="750" data-original-width="1000" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3z1M3WDYkBqeeTJ4aGMsSbXFltu3C0LanSJSTpLul6nxmYXpPKdD9Y50KH2tOaGCUZn-1SbrApsZntAL4EDQjQg_a47tlv9WA3OhfbXNf_ylSflz1N9YT9mqA3zWUW7efbv_5rrXyCKkT0OS8FScSdY2cQ-6QNteed8MhECWbmOBo0PEwRE2s/s400/PenelopePitstop.webp"/></a></div>
When I was a girl, about sixth grade, I became aware that things were changing. I was suddenly different and the way people treated me was diferent too. As if overnight, my girl body became a woman body. But I wasn't a woman, not even close. It was all hard to understand. My parents were supportive, but I didn't think they understood. I searched for a guidepost, an inspiration. I found one in the most unlikely spot.<br><br>
Like most kids of my generation, I grew up watching Saturday morning cartoons and munching the sugar cereal they pitched. Amongst the vast wasteland of television (as dubbed by the Chairman of the Federal Communications Commission), I found a character with whom I could identify. She was Penelope Pitstop.<br><br>
Penelope appeared first in a cartoon show called the Wacky Races and later in her own spin-off show. Penelope was determined and honest and loyal. But she wasn't very bright. She was a cute southern belle who gratefully accepted assistance wherever she could find it and she seemed to need a lot of assistance. Especially from another driver named Peter Perfect. He was as handsome as Penelope was beautiful, but again not too smart.<br><br>
Why did I connect with this imaginary character with a silly personality? I think it was because she looked like me. I had wide hips and a big butt. So did she. Today, we talk about the importance of representation. We didn't know that word, but that's what she was for me.<br><br>
What's strange is that I didn't consciously get the connection until years later. I just liked Penelope. I wasn't a driver, or blonde, or Southern, or dopey. But she was the only female driver, so I rooted for her.<br><br>
Those cartoons were made two generations ago. I doubt anyone involved gave much thought to their effect on girl viewers. But today, we know better, or at least we should.<br><br>
We have a teenage granddaughter. She is bright, beautiful, clever, and funny. And she has the same shape as her mom and me. She's athletic, healthy, and definitely not overweight. But she got the family blessing/curse.<br><br>
This sweet girl is barraged with social media messages that define feminine beauty as something she doesn't have and never will. Yet she attracts lots of interest from guys. This conflict causes her great distress. She thinks there must be something wrong with her. If only girls had contemporary role models who could tell them straight - I'm all right and you are too. There are curvy celebrities like JLo or Beyonce, but those women are both older than her mother.<br><br>
She thinks I don't understand, but maybe I do. I tell her how beautiful she is, but she says I'm supposed to say that. My wish for this amazing young woman is that she comes to accept herself as she is, and in time, loves her mind and her body. She has so much potential. I don't want to meddle, but I wish I could do more.<br><br>
PS - Randy reminded me that Penelope Pitstop used to get tied up a lot. I guess she did. That probably appealed to me as well.<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-2216757241680404282024-01-21T09:21:00.001-08:002024-01-21T09:21:36.693-08:00A New Year Brings Change<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUkwrxI-Q54t3d-P7-PrDjX1cXUTzSJbYyM95IZZ9XRXk3DsbP9NCT0EFNgu9enppSG37fITg-CoJ0q5J41kgWlX90k_ckiUK_LLD6ohyphenhyphenf_qYpe_iGs0ziuSF3v254BUA6rjYCrDDLo-eVnfcAgjD0dAj8yKKa0roA6mSrnAXmV4oT4MgUpjSz/s1600/2024.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="175" data-original-width="500" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUkwrxI-Q54t3d-P7-PrDjX1cXUTzSJbYyM95IZZ9XRXk3DsbP9NCT0EFNgu9enppSG37fITg-CoJ0q5J41kgWlX90k_ckiUK_LLD6ohyphenhyphenf_qYpe_iGs0ziuSF3v254BUA6rjYCrDDLo-eVnfcAgjD0dAj8yKKa0roA6mSrnAXmV4oT4MgUpjSz/s1600/2024.png"/></a></div>
As I’ve described, Randy and I settled into a comfortable routine where we are both mostly working from home. Spankings that once had to be carefully scheduled have become frequent and impromptu. We enjoy this arrangement where at almost any moment I can be invited to flip my skirt or hoist my nightgown for a hearty dose of stinging correction. I can defer, and sometimes I do, but it’s exciting to know that my next paddling might be just around the next bend.<br><br>
But I get cold. The climate where we live is lovely for part of the year, just not this part. The long billowy skirts I wear are cool and comfortable all summer long. But come the rainy season, they don’t insulate me from the cold. <br><br>
Back in November, I complained to Randy and he went into problem solver mode. He ordered me three new pairs of <a href="https://www.lee.com/shop/womens-side-elastic-jean-35061.html">jeans</a>. Nice, except they didn’t fit. I could have told him that. So back they went and he sent me on a mission to find those same jeans in a store. I eventually found the appropriate size and brought them home. <br><br>
This style is notable because there are no back pockets to impede the forceful contact of spanking implements. The color is dark indigo, which to me is the original color of jeans. They fade with time and wear and washings to become soft and comfy. <br><br>
I wasn’t surprised to learn that my dear husband had plans beyond just protecting me from the cold. Once before, he tried to see if he could create a pair of my jeans where two spots on the seat were far more worn than the rest of the pants. He loves the idea of sending me out into the world with jeans that scream, “I get spanked right here!” But last time, he became impatient. He used drastic measures like sandpaper and bleach. This didn’t create the organic look that he wanted and those jeans were eventually discarded. <br><br>
The experimentation has begun again. Randy discovered that implements like canes and straps seem to distress the fabric more than the paddles he normally relies upon. I get a layer of fabric to protect my butt from the falling flails, but he has taken the opportunity to turn up the intensity. You needn’t be concerned, dear reader, that I am being deprived of my thorough spankings. I feel the burn. <br><br>
So far, my legs are warmer and so is my bottom. The jeans are starting to wear in the desired fashion and I’m beginning to think this plan might work. Randy really wants to send me out shopping or to the library sporting distinctive marks both inside and out. <br><br>
So I guess we’ll see. <br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-18415964778331477942024-01-15T08:43:00.002-08:002024-01-16T06:02:13.984-08:00Spanko Granny Rap<center><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRUb6KD1q2vDfI19jnRzjN7e1X0NePiHmsOOqeVlX5rqyFDZ_sw7VnzWMwgifZkvmSuD1NLx7hDolhjnnfK-O6Zv2ZcuqCLCeN8Akjza0WcnKLuKaWZRWaA04ebrGov-tPNbUs/s250/Note.png" imageanchor="1" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0px;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRUb6KD1q2vDfI19jnRzjN7e1X0NePiHmsOOqeVlX5rqyFDZ_sw7VnzWMwgifZkvmSuD1NLx7hDolhjnnfK-O6Zv2ZcuqCLCeN8Akjza0WcnKLuKaWZRWaA04ebrGov-tPNbUs/s0/Note.png" /></a></center>
<i>OK, I hear you. I need to post.</i><br><br>
<table><tr><td width="10%"></td><td><big><center><b>Spanko Granny Rap</b></center></big></td></tr></table><br>
<table><tr><td width="20%"></td><td><big>Swattin' my tail<br>
Doin’ it right<br>
Blowin’ full gale<br>
Saturday night<br><br>
Strippin’ me nude<br>
Bendin’ me down<br>
Heat continued<br>
Stings all around<br><br>
Livin’ the life<br>
Punishment time<br>
A lucky wife<br>
Pay for my crime<br><br>
Those paddles burn<br>
Right where I sit<br>
Lessons I learn<br>
Finally submit<br><br>
My soul's alive<br>
My pain is real<br>
Could not contrive<br>
It hurts to heal<br><br>
Here together<br>
Life in the now<br>
Makin’ it better<br>
Showin’ me how<br><br>
My correction<br>
New attitude<br>
Our connection<br>
Big gratitude<br><br>
End the evening<br>
So sore and red<br>
Go with my king<br>
Lead me to bed</big></td></tr></table><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-8489806286158143792023-11-23T06:58:00.000-08:002023-11-23T06:58:15.497-08:00Spanko Bingo Card<br>Happy Thanksgiving, everyone. Here's some goofy fun. Who will be the lucky winner?<br><br>
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During our weekly percussive instruction session, Randy reminded me that MBS is a spanking blog. He thinks I should be writing about my spankings. And he is only too willing to provide any necessary motivation.<br><br>
So, let’s talk about spankings…<br><br>
Before Covid, we had settled into a comfortable pattern – Scheduled spankings on Friday evening with occasional extra bottom warmings when the opportunity arrived. We both eagerly awaited Friday and Randy planned various special events for us.<br><br>
In March 2020, we began working from home. Randy decided we should make some changes. He suggested that I start wearing skirts every day with a thong underneath. I was happy to comply. This was the beginning of our lunchtime paddlings. As part of our lunchtime together, I bend over the back of our couch with skirt lifted and target exposed. We kept a leather paddle in the drawer of a side table in our living room. It was just as accessible as my bare bottom.<br><br>
This new dimension reawakened our spanking fun. A couple dozen quick pops changes my whole perspective. How great is it to go back to (virtual) work with a warm, stinging butt? I love it.<br><br>
All was well until the summer of 2022. We managed to avoid Covid, but another health threat shook our world. Randy found himself exhausted by even minor exertion. The problem crept up on him over several months, but he fought through it until July when it affected his ability to work.<br><br>
He consulted with a doctor, and another, and another. There were lots of tests. The third doctor diagnosed Randy as having a type of blood cancer. We were told it was “mostly treatable” with chemotherapy drugs. His age was a concern, but the fact that he was otherwise healthy gave the doctor cause for optimism.<br><br>
We endured months of difficult treatment. Through it all, my spankings continued. But things were different. Randy insisted upon doing his part, even when he felt tired or sick or discouraged. He compensated for his physical deficits. When the situation called for a leather paddle, he used a wooden paddle. Wooden paddles were replaced with a Lexan paddle. He joked that I shouldn’t have to suffer because of his illness. He didn’t want me to feel neglected, and I didn’t. I never minded caring for him because I love being his wife and this life we’ve built together.<br><br>
Even at the lowest point, my dear partner was able to singe my seat by flicking a crop. I recognized his dedication to me and our beloved kink. When the treatment concluded and he began to recover, he revived some of our favorite spanko traditions. For a couple of months, I wasn’t certain whether I could even hope that he was recovering. But he did improve. He became stronger and found more endurance in his daily activities. His hair mostly returned. He went back to work, part time initially. All the while, I fought the urge to rejoice. In the back of my mind was the possibility of a relapse.<br><br>
I think I accepted that Randy was back on the day he led me downstairs and strapped me to our long-neglected spanking bench for a caning. He lit me up. I was so happy I cried, and that’s something I almost never do in that situation. I savored the resulting sting for the rest of the day and didn’t miss an opportunity to kiss him. I was so grateful to still have my life mate. He wasn’t ever really gone, but that didn’t prevent me from feeling joy at his return.<br><br>
Our spankings now have a celebratory feel. We always knew this dance cannot last forever, but now we have a lot more insight into how that approaching storm will affect us. Every time I hoist my skirt and bend over the back of the couch, I do so with humble gratitude.<br><br>
There is one emergency measure that remains in place. Randy replaced the nice warm stinging leather paddle in our side table drawer with an unforgiving wooden model that hurts a lot. It’s still there and used frequently. I’m not about to complain, but ow! (rubbing bottom)<br><br>
We’ll continue with this new routine for the foreseeable future. Randy mentioned holiday spankings and I can’t wait!<br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-65233758519927325662023-11-05T10:16:00.000-08:002023-11-05T10:16:02.040-08:00OK, That was Strange<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjFeZeBj0IiUyrAEo2NPL9XQ3fz9R4XCE4bTqAzI61wJz6UzBAwtVrzOD4D8Yr8LzbK65lah29BtDD7HOmA_r4hAk8FosCDHtstPCPro1SsYaMCQwavLlimC5sSKHwtn38rlcxX_k6XW2_0sPMnGEu-IHLgfbs5mCvQjEMUzWuTGiKUrPntH2B/s1600/Letter.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="253" data-original-width="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjFeZeBj0IiUyrAEo2NPL9XQ3fz9R4XCE4bTqAzI61wJz6UzBAwtVrzOD4D8Yr8LzbK65lah29BtDD7HOmA_r4hAk8FosCDHtstPCPro1SsYaMCQwavLlimC5sSKHwtn38rlcxX_k6XW2_0sPMnGEu-IHLgfbs5mCvQjEMUzWuTGiKUrPntH2B/s1600/Letter.png"/></a></div>
If you read the recent mailbag post, you probably know I get a lot of unusual email. Most of it, I either ignore or save for the mailbag. Yesterday, I had an exchange for the ages.<br><br>
It started with an email from someone whose name was one letter different from a well-known spanking model. Most models use stage names, so I thought nothing of it. She politely asked me to remove all links to her. This happens occasionally when someone wants to return to civilian life, though this model has been so successful that it would be impossible to disappear from the Internet. But no matter, I found a handful of posts from ten or more years ago and excised her links.<br><br>
I wrote back, told her it was good to talk with her again, said I deleted her links as requested, and wished her well. This was clearly not the desired response. My correspondent, now clearly unhappy, said she had no idea what I was talking about and demanded that I remove her links immediately.<br><br>
I recognized that my correspondent was not the famous spanking model. I wrote back explaining that I was unable to provide what she requested. I have no control over [famous spanking model]’s site. <br><br>
I hoped that might be the end of the discussion. Instead, the <b>*not*</b> famous spanking model insisted that I remove both my site and that of her doppelganger.<br><br>
I wrote back that my blog is eighteen years old and contains over 2000 posts. Deleting it all because she was offended didn’t seem like a reasonable solution. And I couldn’t delete [famous spanking model]’s site if I wanted to, and I don’t. That seemed like a clear answer.<br><br>
But no, apparently not. The response said only, “it needs to be removed.”<br><br>
OK, one more time I thought. I explained what I thought should be obvious by now. There is a popular spanking model whose name is very similar. She has a web site, and she controls the content that appears there. This was what my correspondent found when she Googled her name.<br><br>
I told her again that I cannot help her. I have never met [famous spanking model] and have not even talked with her in at least a decade. I suggested she could contact [famous spanking model], but it seems unlikely that she will take down her site because one person doesn’t like it.<br><br>
I resisted the temptation to say, “That’s not how any of this works,” but she was already upset and there seemed no point.<br><br>
At this stage, my insistent pen pal finally gave up and wished me, “Good luck.”<br><br>
After a total of nine messages exchanged, I am left with one question. “Why me?”<br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-59667006579526291182023-11-03T20:23:00.000-07:002023-11-03T20:23:09.295-07:00Keyword Chaos: The Return<br /><center><img border="0" src="https://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/394/1639/400/key.jpg" /></center>
These are keywords that strange people used to find MBS.<br>
<ul><li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b> ai spanking</b></i></span> – I'm starting to get the idea that ChatGPT doesn't like me</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>assume the position</b></i></span> – Yeah, yeah, I know</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>bed alignment chart</b></i></span> – Are we aligning the bed or the person on the bed? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>best hairbrush for spanking</b></i></span> – Depends which side you're on</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>big booty bonnie spanked</b></i></span> – My reputation is intact</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>bonniesblog</b></i></span> – Maybe I should have used that name</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>bratting</b></i></span> – The express train to sore butt city</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>bubble butt bonnie spanking</b></i></span> – Some things never change</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>chaos position spank bottom</b></i></span> – I really want to know what this is</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>cheerleaders paddled</b></i></span> – Is there no love for the majorettes? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>contemporary spanking</b></i></span> – As opposed to archaic spankings? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>cotton panty spanking</b></i></span> – Profoundly ineffective implement</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>crazy spanking in hot and cute secretary dress</b></i></span> – Don't let crazy spank you</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>edward scissorlegs</b></i></span> – I know that move</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>equestrian spanking</b></i></span> – I thought spanking horse meant something else</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>extra large panty gusset</b></i></span> – You won't find those in my top drawer</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>first adult spanking</b></i></span> – Fran was pleased to receive a paddle for her birthday</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>formica spanking</b></i></span> – 1960s answer to the lexan paddle</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>game show spanking</b></i></span> – Who Wants to be a Spanko? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>granny spankings</b></i></span> – Don't laugh, it's a thing</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>hollywood spankings</b></i></span> – The old casting bench</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>i got a spanking</b></i></span> – Small world. Me too</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>interactive spanking game</b></i></span> – It's a first person swatter</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>international spanking</b></i></span> – Her butt has been stamped more times than her passport</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>little house on the prairie spanking</b></i></span> – I think Paw's building a bigger woodshed</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>lost bets paddle</b></i></span> – A whole different fantasy sport</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>message spanking</b></i></span> – I definitely got the point</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>most humiliating spanking</b></i></span> – Do I really have to play Mrs. Potatohead? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>naughty secretary spanked</b></i></span> – They made one film and now all the secretaries want to get spanked at work</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>paddle board sayings</b></i></span> – My favorite is Attitude Adjuster</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>perry masonry flintstones</b></i></span> – I couldn't invent stuff this goofy</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>punishment equation</b></i></span> – Force = mass * acceleration</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>real hairbrush spanking</b></i></span> – Wouldn't want an imitation hairbrush spanking</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>road trip spanking</b></i></span> – Beat on the street</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>self spanking girl</b></i></span> – auto-percussive</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>sitting after spanking</b></i></span> – The second punishment</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spank your wide</b></i></span> – I get spanked in my widest region</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanked bottom art</b></i></span> – Randy talks about painting my seat</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanked in a girdle</b></i></span> – Tried it. Totally overrated</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking auction</b></i></span> – How much would you pay? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking bling</b></i></span> – On my wish list</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking board</b></i></span> – They voted unanimously to spank you</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking bonanza</b></i></span> – Is this the old TV show or the defunct steakhouse? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking branch</b></i></span> – Flipping a switch</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking chart</b></i></span> – Acme Hairbrushes up two points</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking cyoa</b></i></span> – Covering is not a good strategy</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking game</b></i></span> – I never know whether I am the winner or the loser</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking in chicago</b></i></span> – Loopy John is not public transportation</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking karen</b></i></span> – She deserves it</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking knickers</b></i></span> – I like the ones with a target on the back</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking ladies bottoms</b></i></span> – If they acted more like ladies, they wouldn't be spanked so often</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking laps</b></i></span> – Who knew this was part of cross country training? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking posse</b></i></span> – Those silly vigilantes are back</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking punishment quiz</b></i></span> – Q1: With a right handed spanker, which butt cheek will hurt more? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking rituals</b></i></span> – Wait until you see what we do for Bastille Day</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking tournament</b></i></span> – Sort of like a chess tournament but the board is a different shape</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>sting spanking</b></i></span> – Got to respect the bee costume</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>the jungle book wedgie special edition</b></i></span> – I don't understand this, but I love it</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>weight gain spank</b></i></span> – Does this ice cream make my butt look big? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>why do women like spankings</b></i></span> – We like what we like</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>wire hanger spanking</b></i></span> – Stop right there, Mommy Dearest</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>woodshed spankings</b></i></span> – Line forms at the left</li></ul>
I hope these visitors found something here they liked.<br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-69245137892630849102023-10-31T15:26:00.000-07:002023-10-31T17:28:06.909-07:00Bonnie's Mailbag<center><img src="https://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/394/1639/1600/mailbag.jpg"></center>
<i>I have an impressive backlog of interesting mail. Let’s take a peek.</i><br><br>
<b>Request</b>: Show me your naked, spanked bottom, please.<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I give you points for spelling, grammar, punctuation, and politeness. But my answer is the same.<br><br>
<b>Statement</b>: wishi was there<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Kilroy’s sister perhaps.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Would you get spankings while wearing these panties?<br><br>
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<b>Bonnie</b>: Sure, if Randy asked me, I would.<br><br>
<b>Comment</b>: I don't get spankings but would love one or more.<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I hope you get all the swats you desire.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Do wet spankings really hurtmore?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Yes, they really do.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: What is yr most embarrassing spanking ever?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I don’t know. That’s hard. Once, long ago, I rolled off Randy’s lap and landed on the floor. I felt pretty dumb that time.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Have you ever been spanked with a sandal?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Ever is a long time. Yes, I have on a number of occasions.<br><br>
<b>Statement</b>: …spanking videos are used for training future prostitutes to meet the demand for paying customers.<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: This guy used two thousand words to tell me that spanking videos are evil. So don’t watch.<br><br>
<b>Questions</b>: Your husband spanks you frequently? <br>
What misbehavior gets you discipline spanked? <br>
Spankings are on the bare bottom only? <br>
Husband ever spanks you completely nude? <br>
What implements does husband use on your bare bottom? <br>
Husband spanks you very hard? <br>
Do you usually bawl like a baby on hard discipline spankings?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Yes, Whatever he decides, Usually, Sometimes, All of them, Sometimes, No.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: What is the maximum amount of time before and after someone's birthday that you can give them their birthday spanking?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Does it matter when the result is the same?<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Does it hurt to sit on a toilet seat right after you've been spanked?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: I invite you to use your imagination on this one.<br><br>
<b>Question</b>: Are you still getting spanked?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b>: Yes.<br><br><hr><br>
That's it for now. If you want to send me a message, click the <a href="mailto:bottomsmarts@yahoo.com">Ask Bonnie</a> symbol near the bottom of the right column.<br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-34804822146510289252023-10-30T14:03:00.000-07:002023-10-31T10:56:26.286-07:00Old School Video<center><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRD5vlelmJ7tMWRY-toA2xmB-sv5dYO7qHU3umERdmXMFvZbkiBZSDV5c9ZlkioVyV5xzx5W8yIXh1M4H3-O664A7AHFoXbaXRgAHdLrlTg5G8h0m6H5OuYz5gwCTjO7lI8D2N/s320/Screen.png"></center>
I mentioned that Randy had a leave of absence from work while he was recovering from his illness. Even when ailing, this guy isn't one to sit around and do nothing. He had projects because of course he had projects. One in particular appealed to me.<br><br>
Randy has always memorialized as many spankings as possible. Originally, he used a Polaroid camera to help us remember how red my bottom was. This solution was workable and private, but it was expensive and the photos faded with time. When digital cameras became available, Randy jumped at the opportunity. Suddenly, there were dozens of pictures to chronicle each punishment. Randy eagerly scanned our old Polaroids to preserve those images.<br><br>
In the late eighties, we bought an early camcorder, ostensibly to capture our daughter's childhood adventures. Randy soon found another use. The results were often disappointing, but he was able to record actual spankings as they happened rather just the results. Ever the geek, Randy later bought one of the first-generation digital video cameras and found much better results. Those old VHS tapes spent the next twenty years in a box, until Randy decided to digitize their content.<br><br>
He spent days moving data from the tapes to his computer, converting analog to digital video, scrubbing the images, and curating the sessions. It was a mess. He had no editing capabilities in those days so sessions were sometimes recorded on top of one another. Others were too distorted to restore. Finally, he told me he was ready for movie night.<br><br>
Movie night at our house is when we screen our spanking videos. In most cases, I haven't seen the videos beforehand. I knew this movie night was different. I probably saw those old tapes, but I had only fuzzy memories.<br><br>
Here's what I learned from our long-ago spanking videos:<br>
<ul><li>My fuzzy memories are attributable to more than just the passage of time. The overall video quality was poor - grainy, blurry, and choppy. The sound was often unintelligible.<br><br></li>
<li>I used to worry about my privates being exposed. That concern was misplaced. It's difficult enough to make out my butt, and it's huge.<br><br></li>
<li>I looked shapely in those days, curvy and smooth. Randy looked incredibly hot as the cruel spanker.<br><br></li>
<li>I have a better appreciation for the equipment Randy acquired since then - tripods, microphones, lights, not to mention the HD digital cameras. Back in the early days, we had a camcorder sitting on the dresser propped up by a book, and it showed.<br><br></li>
<li>It was funny to see our daughter's stuffed animal visible in our spanking video.<br><br></li>
<li>OMG, he spanked me so hard! I must have been a bad girl. In video after video, he really punished my bottom. With a bathbrush! These spankings were more severe than anything we do today, and with no real warm up. We had no leather toys, just unforgiving wood. Ouch! This was a revelation for me.<br><br></li>
<li>I was more stoic in those days. My dear husband abused my bare skin and it hurt incredibly. But my reaction was just a few muted squeaks. I kicked a few times, but stopped after he smacked my thighs.<br><br></li>
<li>The sound quality was lousy, but I think I heard him call me a MILF. That made me laugh. I couldn't make out much of his dialog, but I really liked Randy's tone when he lectured as he spanked.<br><br></li>
<li>I was surprised that I wore a thong in several spanking sessions. I forgot that tradition started so early.<br><br></li>
<li>I'm glad Randy provided this glimpse into our spanking history. I felt grateful for him sticking with me through all years and delivering what I need.<br></li></ul>
Randy is delighted to have his entire collection unified for the first time. I told him I hoped he had that backed up.<br><br>
This was a fun spanko adventure and a very enlightening one too.
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-50517405684058684072023-10-29T09:11:00.000-07:002023-10-29T09:11:49.107-07:00A Different Dawn<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiODwqj683DiR5t4Qfv877GZ5yF55osfTNGGiau1Sd0nqNADTWyI8NUNuTgKiugjk0sprXeUZZ1TFwk7wCkOdVcp-qEQT1IlXCNs2BWtQ_RJGwitqmz4LgKfA6I7A9urOsnekhyphenhyphenbrEPFtCqOlrlpNz1jbuLEzlgVYFgDMuh18ncD-X0uIimiIvR/s1600/Earthrise2.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="362" data-original-width="487" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiODwqj683DiR5t4Qfv877GZ5yF55osfTNGGiau1Sd0nqNADTWyI8NUNuTgKiugjk0sprXeUZZ1TFwk7wCkOdVcp-qEQT1IlXCNs2BWtQ_RJGwitqmz4LgKfA6I7A9urOsnekhyphenhyphenbrEPFtCqOlrlpNz1jbuLEzlgVYFgDMuh18ncD-X0uIimiIvR/s1600/Earthrise2.png"/></a></div>
Yeah, it's me. I know I've been gone for almost a year. But here we are. A lot has changed, but much is the same.<br><br>
I am grateful to everyone who expressed concern or wrote to check on me. The short explanation for my absence, call it an excuse if you must, is that my husband Randy was diagnosed with a blood cancer in the summer of 2022. We were told it was often treatable, though his age was a concern. He survived chemotherapy and despite some tough times, he is now in full butt whacking remission.<br><br>
This experience changed both of us in ways we are only now beginning to fully comprehend. He looks ten years older and closer to his chronological age. But he is back to his smiling self. His employer allowed him to take a leave of absence and he's back working again, though mostly from home.<br><br>
I feel less certain about my role and purpose. I faced the crushing possibility of finishing my life alone. His mortality reminded me of my own. I pondered how I've spent this life I was gifted and what good I have done for the world. As I emerge from this time of reflection, I think publishing a spanking blog was probably a positive. I once had a spreadsheet full of post ideas. Now as I type this, I have no specific plans. I'm not even sure I'm back. But I think I might try this again for a while.<br><br>
I have dozens of questions and comments that readers have sent. Apparently, they were here even when I wasn't. I will end the suspense by answering the number one question. <span style="color: #ffdfdf;"><i><b>YES</b></i></span>, I am definitely still getting spankings. It still stings and I still love it all. You needn't worry another minute about that one. I will answer more questions later.<br><br>
Until then, have a lovely week!<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-71851165499715069552022-11-18T10:23:00.000-08:002022-12-07T08:57:16.937-08:00So, I Guess This is It<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO1SwfWBQdFcBfuWsSc8UyAxf5kde2Hsjb4JZk5j_v-B2bYAFvL1eUPxNDi42BIYIAdRk9NNZofzYM2850mzhp6RdQvRsznhC82FYKtppNQiiymIv-nzHbFypiXuxtxpZ_-c5RmlC-_PHYWb4zwicqiNuLI304WiZKFsmL31zbyof-dngFRQ/s1600/Sunset.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="234" data-original-width="449" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO1SwfWBQdFcBfuWsSc8UyAxf5kde2Hsjb4JZk5j_v-B2bYAFvL1eUPxNDi42BIYIAdRk9NNZofzYM2850mzhp6RdQvRsznhC82FYKtppNQiiymIv-nzHbFypiXuxtxpZ_-c5RmlC-_PHYWb4zwicqiNuLI304WiZKFsmL31zbyof-dngFRQ/s1600/Sunset.png"/></a></div>
Hi friends. Thank you to everyone who contacted me to inquire about our wellbeing. That means a lot to me.<br><br>
To answer the questions, we’re OK. Life has thrown some challenges in front of Randy and me, but we are coping. Our experiences have driven me to re-evaluate a great many assumptions.<br><br>
For most of the past 17 years, this blog has been my home in cyberspace, my refuge from the insanity of daily life, and the place where I could share all my kinky thoughts with like-minded friends. It served me well.<br><br>
But things have changed – My priorities, our lives, readership, politics, technology, and the world. After lots of thought, spirited conversations, and a few tears, we’ve decided it’s time to walk away.<br><br>
I promise I won’t delete the blog or remove any posts, but I can make no promises about our sometimes surprisingly puritanical host. MBS will live on as a kind of spanko mausoleum, a monument to days of spankings past.<br><br>
For readers who enjoyed the two blogrolls, I regret to say that they had to go. I can no longer maintain them properly and such neglect would lead to malicious hijacked links that could get the entire blog deleted. If anyone wants the HTML, <a href="mailto:bottomsmarts@yahoo.com">email</a> me and I will send it to you.<br><br>
I remain forever grateful to everyone who contributed to My Bottom Smarts. This was a blog about consensual adult spankings, but we know there was always much more. The memories of our time together will sustain me and always make me smile.<br><br>
Bonnie<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com52tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-44616368128042348162022-10-25T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-25T09:00:00.231-07:00TMI Tuesday Rides Again<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="279" data-original-width="352" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png"/></a></div>
Here's another dose of <a href="https://tmituesdayblog.wordpress.com">TMI Tuesday</a> questions and answers.<br><br>
<b>What is one thing your significant other could do to you to rock your world?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Come up with an original reason to spank me</td></tr></table><br>
<b>2. You have been granted the super power you always wanted. How will you abuse that power? Why?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>My superpower would be time travel. I would abuse it by telling off kids who harrassed me in junior high</td></tr></table><br>
<b>3. For sexy play, would you rather be tied up or tie someone else up? Why?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Tie me up, tie me down, or tie me round and round because I love it all.</td></tr></table><br>
<b>4. What is your best physical and non-physical asset?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td> I would say it's my face and my imagination. Randy will probably say it's my butt and my butt</td></tr></table><br>
<b>5. Referring to Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, if they were naming new dwarfs beyond the seven what would your name be and why?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>I'd probably be called Spanky because that's kinda me</td></tr></table><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-66407977568450664002022-10-21T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-21T09:00:00.220-07:00Bonnie's Spankologue: Part Twenty Seven<br>Let's explore more of the creative world of spanko blogs!<br><br>
<table width="100%" cellpadding="5"><tr><td><img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/394/1639/1600/seamap.jpg" border="0"></td><td align="left"><b><a href="https://allfairuse.com">Contemporary Life</a></b> - The predominate theme of this site is spanking and submissive women. The purpose is to promote criticism, comment, teaching, scholarship, and research.<br><br>
<b><a href="https://journeyofaredbottom.wordpress.com">Journey of a Red Bottom</a></b> - This blog provides a look into the mind of a spankee and an outpouring of her soul. She describes in delightful detail her feelings and sensations when the hairbrush falls.<br><br>
<b><a href="https://martinet21.tumblr.com">Fessée & Discipline</a></b> - Soaring imagination, raging desire, blazing reality, painful punishment, and joyous aftermath - All the aspects of adult spanking are captured in photos and video.</td></tr></table>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-59625578198415639402022-10-19T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-19T09:00:00.275-07:00Fun with Artificial Intelligence<br>I've been playing with an AI art site called <a href="https://creator.nightcafe.studio">Night Cafe</a>. I started with a picture of myself, added some inspiring keywords, and let the program work. Here's the result:<br>
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I think it turned out well for a first effort.<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-50022149488844864792022-10-18T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-18T09:00:00.240-07:00TMI Tuesday Once More<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="279" data-original-width="352" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png"/></a></div>
Here are some more <a href="https://tmituesdayblog.wordpress.com">TMI Tuesday</a> questions and answers.<br><br>
<b>1. Have you ever cheated at a board game?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Not that I recall</td></tr></table><br>
<b>2. In which board game are you unbeatable?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>I'm pretty good at Trivial Pursuit, but I still get beaten</td></tr></table><br>
<b>3. Which mythological creature would be your worst roommate?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>When I lived in the dorm in college, my friend briefly roomed with Medusa. She was stoned all the time.</td></tr></table><br>
<b>4. Give us a three song playlist.</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPRrHyXchEY">Supertramp - Take the Long Way Home</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUW6G5QdyYU">Dire Straits - Walk of Life</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5XtK5dCFqyE">Electric Light Orchestra - All Over The World</a></td></tr></table><br>
<b>5. What famous person have you met or been within a few feet?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Bill Gates - Many years ago, I heard him speak at a conference and got to sit right in front</td></tr></table><br>
<b>6. Is a hot dog a sandwich?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Yes, I believe it meets all of the requirements</td></tr></table><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-47515880268474660592022-10-17T09:00:00.001-07:002022-10-17T09:00:00.218-07:00Keyword Chaos: October Edition<br /><center><img border="0" src="https://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/394/1639/400/key.jpg" /></center>
Here are some favorite examples of keywords people used to find MBS, along with our reactions.<br>
<ul><li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>adult spanking positions</b></i></span> – Great work if you can get it</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>attitude adjuster paddle</b></i></span> – Sometimes a good paddling helps a lot</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>bent over waiting for bare butt paddling</b></i></span> – No one appreciates how boring this can be</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>brat tamer phrases</b></i></span> – Bare your bottom, turn around, bend over, hold still</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>can i spank my wife</b></i></span> – Yes, but the better question is whether you should</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>chicago spanking party</b></i></span> – They told me the Loop is not an implement</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>choose your own spanking implement</b></i></span> – I would love to be able to pick</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>disciplinary wives club</b></i></span> – I'll bet the initiation is quite something</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>diy spanking</b></i></span> – Here's a stick</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>elven kingdom spanking</b></i></span> – This could take a really long time</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>embarrassing nurse spanking stories</b></i></span> – Linda didn't even know how to use an oral thermometer</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>embarrassing spanking story</b></i></span> – Written in Crayon on the inside flaps of a HappyMeal box</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>equestrian spanking story</b></i></span> – Watch where you step</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>estimatedspankings</b></i></span> – Libby figures she's been spanked at least 400 times for forgetting her medicine</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>g string spanks</b></i></span> – Try a Loopy John instead</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>getting my stripes</b></i></span> – I have the impression this wasn't a military ceremony</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>hairbrush in my ass</b></i></span> – Getting it out was the worst part</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>happy spanking</b></i></span> – A versatile phrase like Aloha - could mean hello, good bye, have fun, good luck, or do you like my panties?</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>hard spanking quiz</b></i></span> – If you miss this differential calculus question, you're really going to get it</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>how to give yourself a spanking</b></i></span> – Tell your husband he's a big wimp who won't even spank</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>magical girl alignment chart</b></i></span> – If she's so magical, let her align her own chart</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>most painful spanking moments</b></i></span> – Those were times when I wasn't ready</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>motivational spanking</b></i></span> – Whatever that was that you wanted me to do, I'm ready now</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>ottoman spanking</b></i></span> – Is that Turkish you're speaking? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>ouch is not a safe word</b></i></span> – Though there is a certain style of enunciation that can be convincing</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>paddled over jeans</b></i></span> – Always a classic</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>panties for sale</b></i></span> – Only in every department and discount store on Earth</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>pundering</b></i></span> – We think this word means readjusting a squirmy spankee back into position</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>really spanked bottom</b></i></span> – We're not kidding</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>recreational spanking</b></i></span> – My husband must be feeling athletic because he just bought a Pickleball paddle</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>round butt spanked</b></i></span> – Sure, why not? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>should my spouse spank me</b></i></span> – If you're curious enough to ask, then yes</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>songs about spanking</b></i></span> – My cheeks are alive with the sound of spanking…</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>sorority paddlings</b></i></span> – What's better than a club that gives every member their own paddle? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>sounds of a spanking</b></i></span> – Whack Ow! Whack Ow! </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spank odds</b></i></span> – Las Vegas says it's 2-1 that I get a spanking tonight</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spank wife</b></i></span> – I prefer to think of myself as a full-service wife</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spank with love</b></i></span> – Unusual name for a paddle, but I like it</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spankbros</b></i></span> – Those boys know what they like</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking championship</b></i></span> – So how do you win? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking competion</b></i></span> – I have no idea what this means</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking documentary</b></i></span> – I'd love to learn more about the people who created our community</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking for dummies</b></i></span> – Is a dummy who knows how to spank better or worse than one who doesn't?</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking free for all</b></i></span> – Imagine an orgy, but with paddles</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking girl cartoon</b></i></span> – I wish I could be a spanko superhero! </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking law</b></i></span> – Every kinky attorney's secret dream</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking memories</b></i></span> – Every time you sit provides another reminder</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking my self machine</b></i></span> – My new safeword is pull out the plug</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking parlor</b></i></span> – I'm picturing a Louis XIV inspired luxury dungeon</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking preparation</b></i></span> – This is a lot more complicated than it used to be</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking robot story</b></i></span> – Honey, did you do change something on the Roomba?</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking roleplay</b></i></span> – I like carnival barker and the amazing lizard girl</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking test</b></i></span> – If I fail, will I get to retest?</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking text game</b></i></span> – Is there an emoji for bend over?</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking tv</b></i></span> – We don't get that channel</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spanking wagon</b></i></span> – Great for on-location spankings</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>spankyville</b></i></span> – Where you can claim a tax deduction for dungeon improvement costs</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>the best thing about my ass is that it's behind me</b></i></span> – The best part of mine is that husband is obsessed with it</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>too sore to sit</b></i></span> – Indicator that it's time to reassess your choices</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>tv spankings</b></i></span> – You haven't lived until you've watched your own red bottom get swatted in crystal clear 4K HD</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>ur but is big</b></i></span> – yer spel iz knot gud</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>virtual punishments</b></i></span> – Your avatar looks mighty sore</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>western spanking</b></i></span> – Is that sort of like a western omlette? </li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>why does myboyfriend give me wedgies and spank me</b></i></span> – Because he is evil</li><br>
<li><span style="color: #c0ffff;"><i><b>you need a spanking</b></i></span> – I guess you are dissatisfied with your search engine?</li></ul>
Keep those queries coming!<br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-76095699821060811002022-10-14T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-14T09:00:00.216-07:00Bonnie's Spankologue: Part Twenty Six<br>Let's explore more of the creative world of spanko blogs!<br><br>
<table width="100%" cellpadding="5"><tr><td><img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/394/1639/1600/seamap.jpg" border="0"></td><td align="left"><b><a href="https://naturallyginblog.com">Smiles and Spanks - The NaturallyGin Blog</a></b> - A lifelong obsessive spanko who enjoys all kinds of spanking related goodness. Her posts include spanking adventures, spanking art, and sometimes vanilla stuff.<br><br>
<b><a href="https://spankingtheatre.tumblr.com">Spanking Theatre</a></b> - Original spanking stories for the theatre between your ears. Let’s celebrate the magic of the written word.<br><br>
<b><a href="https://rodinisthenewblack.tumblr.com/">Rodin is the New Black</a></b> - Overeducated 30-something male in the Midwestern US is devoted to reblogging things he finds attractive.</td></tr></table>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-26877782720735977532022-10-13T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-13T09:00:00.262-07:00Ask Bonnie: Frost on the Pumpkin Edition<center><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJeOIjhx2_7430stRU-THs4X1_cFBk92shidQ3qv_gbIkf4W5MxfjUMdevYRT1rjY3k8Iajag9RYJXZDIRjOr2hsvL4ZZ7g0ITqRdqVTWpMb5F9XSPjnKhcKHyEZLHAuJXUhs6LQ/s1600/ask.jpg"></center>
<i>Let's answer a few more reader questions</i><br><br>
<b>Question</b> - Does Randy take pictures of your red bottom when you're wearing a thong?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Yes, I've seen quite a few like that<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - I always thought you and Randy were into fun or no reason or funishment type spankings, but on your blog you write things like:<br><br>
• I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline<br>
• I receive traditional corporal punishment<br>
• These are hard lessons delivered with love<br>
• He paddles me often and I totally deserve it<br>
• Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on<br><br>
Are you playing discipline with Randy or do you really want him to correct your behavior? Are you saying that in addition to having a spanking kink you have a punishment kink?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Punishment spankings and traditional corporal punishment rituals have always been among my major kinks. They appeal to me at a different level than fun, erotic, or celebratory spankings (all of which I also love). There is no genuine behavior correction, except inside my head. But we have all the trappings. Randy knows exactly which buttons to push and he mashes them hard.<br><br>
<b>Follow-up Question</b> - What is your favorite punishment story you have written?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - I don't know that I have written explicitly punishment stories, but I think many of them have elements. Consent is essential for me so many pure punishment story lines are outside my bounds. I recognize that along with being a storyteller, I am also a teacher. I want readers to understand that consent is absolutely mandatory. In real life, even naughty girls have the right to control their own bodies.<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - I love your blog. Will you link my [non-spanking] blog?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Thank you for your words of praise for MBS. My blogroll is already enormous. Were I to try to link every flavor of kinky blog, it would soon become completely unmanageable. So I stick to the topic of adult consensual spanking.<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Whoever suggested keeping plugs in the refrigerator is on my bad list. Just when I thought Randy doesn't read the blog...<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - Would you ever want to host a video show or channel on the subject of spankings?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - I don't think so. If they had such things years ago, I might have been tempted. But today, I am content with this blog as an outlet for all my spanko expression. I have precious little time or energy for the things I am supposed to be doing.<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - I know you recently celebrated a birthday. My birthday wish for you would be for all of your readers to form a spanking tunnel for you to crawl through! I think you crawling through a spanking tunnel while folks smacked your bottom would be awesome. I would keep running to the back of the line so I could get some more swats in. Does the thought of crawling through a spanking tunnel appeal to you?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - I appreciate the thought, but my crawling skills are not what they once were. Besides, my hips might be too wide for that tunnel.<br><br>
<b>Comment</b> - I like UR butt.<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Thank you. It serves me well.<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - Have you ever had anyone rip or cut off your clothing?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Yes, and it's kind of a funny story. Long before we had our spanking bench, Randy would tie me to our old coffee table in the living room. One time he had me all rigged up when he realized that I was still wearing panties and he couldn't manage to pull them down without undoing a lot of his ropery. Soon after, he showed up with a pair of scissors and made quick work of what were once my underwear. I giggled the whole time over his predicament and solution. The ensuing spanking did little to reduce the humor. I made him buy me a new pair.<br><br>
That old coffee table met an unfortunate fate some time later when it collapsed during other adult activities. We laughed about that episode as well, until Randy's mother showed up later and asked about it. He and I just looked at each other and tried not to crack up. She rolled her eyes and moved on to another subject. Damn kids don't respect anything.<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - How do you feel about a straight guy who likes to be spanked with a hairbrush while wearing ladies pink nylon briefs?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Life is short and panties are plentiful. Live the life you love.<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - What can you do to get yourself spanked?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Uh, breathe? In the early days of this blog, I used the tagline, "Spankings Happen." And so they do. There are many things I can do to advance the timetable, but I know that my next seat swat special is always on the horizon. I encourage my husband occasionally with stunts like wandering around the house in leggings, bending over to pick up something right in front of him, or handing him a spanking implement. But these are almost unnecessary because he enjoys swinging the paddle as much as I enjoy feeling it land.<br><br>
<b>Question</b> - I am a 42-year old married mother of two. I've never been spanked, but I've fantasized about it my entire life, and now I really want to know what I've been missing. I haven't exactly asked my husband, but I've hinted. He's sweetly oblivious and has no idea what I want. I'd like him to give me real spankings like I read about on your blog and others. But I don't know how to start. What would you suggest?<br><br>
<b>Bonnie</b> - Your first task should be to know your own mind. How important is this kink to you? Are you willing to risk changing the nature of your relationship with your husband to pursue it? Do you feel you can convince him to accompany you on this journey?<br><br>
The next step is to plan your pitch. You want him to join you as you learn together about spanking and experience the many different aspects. I wrote a <a href="https://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/2006/09/spanking-101-your-first-spanking.html">tutorial</a> about this topic that you may find helpful. Please remember that while you've pondered this question for a long time, it will be all new for him. You may need to give him space to think.<br><br>
Finally, you will need to start a conversation with your husband. I can't tell you whether this will be easy or difficult. This <a href="https://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/2007/01/spanking-101-talking-with-your-partner.html">article</a> offers some tips. If he is willing to read or watch videos, there are lots of great resources available.<br><br>
I wish you the very best in your quest for your first spanking, and hopefully, a whole lot more great ones after that.<br><br>
<i>That's about it for this time. If you have a question, send it in. Thanks for reading!</i><br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-15757667422952625752022-10-12T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-12T09:00:00.219-07:00A Celebratory Spanking<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSi-SMpeXL1BVge-7IGmKhr-YQbnlCP3sG7NLl6RpeY9vjBn5an4kXldids3tADlVSFhY_3mVo2DCxtthGfpdy1K3-qTrlotDMrMqkt84NCWA-qQHLEQ0CyBXiSpArFnw7ZvCOPzQIGpIxly5FCVhhwXx6xr-ipZg5Msr-TxNFC_PO2v6dNw/s1600/Cake.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="399" data-original-width="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSi-SMpeXL1BVge-7IGmKhr-YQbnlCP3sG7NLl6RpeY9vjBn5an4kXldids3tADlVSFhY_3mVo2DCxtthGfpdy1K3-qTrlotDMrMqkt84NCWA-qQHLEQ0CyBXiSpArFnw7ZvCOPzQIGpIxly5FCVhhwXx6xr-ipZg5Msr-TxNFC_PO2v6dNw/s1600/Cake.png"/></a></div>
I promised to share the details of my recent birthday spanking. It happened on a Wednesday evening after work and before dinner.<br><br>
When Randy closed up his work for the day, he announced that it was spanking time. I knew it was my birthday. We’d even talked about it. But I was busy with my own work and didn’t really ponder our celebration. Even when he mentioned a spanking, I envisioned one of our regular over-the-couch skirt-flipper variety. He just glared at me until I grasped his meaning. Oh, yeah, that spanking.<br><br>
He escorted me to the basement where our spanking bench was already set up. Mercifully, he let me retain my clothes. It’s cold down there! I placed my wrists and ankles into the restraining cuffs as Randy secured them. I wasn’t going anywhere now.<br><br>
He then lifted my skirt to reveal my bare bottom in preparation for spanking me. This is real, I thought. I saw the long punishment cane hanging on the wall near the bench. I expected that I would soon feel its blazing mark a whole lot of times.<br><br>
But no. Spankings from Randy are seldom quite that simple. I should know that by now. When the first swat landed on my left cheek, it felt familiar – warm, stinging, good. After the second smarting swat landed on my other side, I broke the code. That lovely ouch was generated by my favorite leather paddle.<br><br>
Randy counted as he totaled up my accumulated years. As usual, his counting skills were inexplicably deficient resulting in numerous uncounted impacts. But this spanking while painful was not unpleasant. I struggled against the bonds, but there was no place I would rather be. I absorbed many extra swats “to grow on.”<br><br>
By the time he finally released me, my bottom was extremely warm to the touch, and it did get touched, a lot and in the best possible ways. Yes, this was a fine birthday.<br><br>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-45644512182278666232022-10-11T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-11T09:00:00.227-07:00It's TMI Tuesday<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="279" data-original-width="352" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png"/></a></div>
These <a href="https://tmituesdayblog.wordpress.com">TMI Tuesday</a> questions are unusual.<br><br>
<b>1. What do you need most right now, a friend or a lover? Why?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>I am fortunate to have both and he's sitting right beside me</td></tr></table><br>
<b>2. What song do you not know the lyrics of but you like to sing anyway?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Down on the Corner by Creedence Clearwater Revival</td></tr></table><br>
<b>3. Tell 3 things you recommend to watch on Youtube.</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td><a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/jkeenanatstanford">Jillian Keenan</a>, cat videos, and people doing stupid stuff</td></tr></table><br>
<b>4. What cartoon (include animated series) do you still watch?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Warner Brothers - Looney Toons and Merrie Melodies</td></tr></table><br>
<b>5. Have you conquered one of your fears? What was it?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Yes, for years, canes were a hard limit for me. We've since incorporated the rod of punishment into our repertoire</td></tr></table><br>
That was fun in a strange sort of way.<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-83479540900465120402022-10-10T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-10T10:03:18.410-07:00Spanking Tips from Randy<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGB3fFSr6N9s4jEP41eCw5ViXWfHcm5v2ba-x3gcK5i9NXzY0iyhjeac66hmnQyS0jeLyDwDZbZRFprgKeOgs1en6M-yHBkAjfK5HlFkq8VkW0OGnqY19UjNJ24ZMumQCyI0fxAs0sQd-Y_IyLMGacgaFwE-2nWcbJ548FwsPULFZAflISDQ/s1600/SpankingPaddle.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="254" data-original-width="547" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGB3fFSr6N9s4jEP41eCw5ViXWfHcm5v2ba-x3gcK5i9NXzY0iyhjeac66hmnQyS0jeLyDwDZbZRFprgKeOgs1en6M-yHBkAjfK5HlFkq8VkW0OGnqY19UjNJ24ZMumQCyI0fxAs0sQd-Y_IyLMGacgaFwE-2nWcbJ548FwsPULFZAflISDQ/s1600/SpankingPaddle.png"/></a></div>
<i>I convinced my husband and spanker to contribute something for the blog! The following is a lightly edited transcription of a conversation we had Friday evening after our spanking. He was in a talkative mood so we just let the recording run. This was pretty much a stream of consciousness master class in the disciplinary arts.</i><br><br>
So you want to spank your lover? Here are some thoughts.<br>
<ol><li>Get her full consent long before you touch her. That means more than just, “Yeah, I’ll try it if you really want.” She should have a good idea of what’s going to happen and how she feels about that. You want a willing participant. She doesn’t have to love every minute, but it shouldn’t be torture either. If she shows reluctance, you need to go back and talk more. If she still doesn’t want to get spanked, then don’t spank her.</li><br>
<li>Agree on a safeword. Even if you think you don’t need one, you need one.</li><br>
<li>Start with the OTK position on a couch or bed. This technique is easy and not inherently uncomfortable for either person. And the closeness is good.</li><br>
<li>Start slow and not very hard. Begin with your hand. Pay attention to her responses. How is she taking it? If she is wiggling her butt or sticking it up (like a certain insatiable spanko), then feel free to turn up the heat, or don’t and let her wonder. But if she shows signs of real distress, back off.</li><br>
<li>Check with her regularly. It can be as simple as “How are you doing?” or “Are you OK?” An affirmative answer gives you license to keep going a while longer. If there is hesitation in her answer, it’s time to reassess.</li><br>
<li>It’s fun to unveil her bottom one layer at a time. The gradual uncovering strips away her protection, both figuratively and literally.</li><br>
<li>If she’s sailing along and enjoying her spanking, you can add implements for a little extra spice. I think a leather paddle like the one above is an ideal first spanking implement. It hurts and leaves behind a cute red glow, but it doesn’t do any serious damage like wood can. Again, start with moderate swats and work your way up, checking in along the way.</li><br>
<li>Praise her. Tell her that she is doing a great job of accepting her spanking. Rub her bottom, hips, thighs, and back. Let her know you still care, now more than ever.</li><br>
<li>Focus swats on the bottom center of each cheek. Strike low to hit the fleshiest part of her bottom to stay away from bones and other stuff that matters. Avoid her hips and back. The best part of spanking low on her bottom is that she will be more likely feel it when she sits down later.</li><br>
<li>Talk to her. Tell her you love her. Tell her she looks beautiful. Tell her how much you enjoy sharing this experience with her. Tell her about other sexy things you would like to do together.</li><br>
<li>Watch her body language. Is she breathing fast or slow? Is she rocking with the beat or fighting against it? Is she grinding against your leg? Is she wanting to escape? Adjust your technique and pace accordingly.</li><br>
<li>A good spanking session typically consists of 20 to 50 swats, or occasionally more depending upon the situation. A spanking should take a while so that she has time to reflect on what's happening to her.<br><br>
Ideally, it should eventually feel like a bit more than she thinks she can handle. That moment where she starts to feel out of control and maybe on the verge of panic is when the breakthroughs happen. Slow your pace and watch what happens next. Maybe she will surrender and relax her body (start wrapping up), or maybe she will invoke her safeword (Stop now and hold her), or maybe she will gain a second wind and want to continue (lay it on). Follow her lead.</li><br>
<li>Listen to her vocalizations. Not just what she says, but how she says it. Is her tone whiny or scared or aroused or determined? Hear her reactions. Try to understand what she is telling you.</li><br>
<li>Pause periodically to reassess. Give her rubs and squeezes. Absorb her rising heat. Admire her crimson canvas.</li><br>
<li>Vary the pace, intensity, and placement of swats. Let her wonder what is coming next and when. For example, you can deliver three hard, quick swats in one spot and then return to a seemingly random pattern. This tactic reminds her who is in charge during the spanking.</li><br>
<li>Acknowledge the pain she feels. Spankings hurt. A sore butt is an unavoidable part of the process. But the real point is the closeness, connection, intimacy, openness, passion you experience together. Make these feelings the centerpiece of this time you share.</li><br>
<li>When you sense that she’s had about enough, you can offer her “five more?” or “ten more?” If she declines the offer (which she probably won’t), then it’s time to end. Otherwise, provide the promised swats slowly. Make this spanking one to remember.</li><br>
<li>Savor her aftercare. Being spanked is an emotional experience. Demonstrate your love and support. Hug her. Stroke her hair. Kiss her. Hold her close. Feel honored that she chose to share her vulnerbility with you. Let her talk if she wants. This is not the time for analysis. If she wants to open up, then accept her honest words without condition or judgement.</li><br>
<li>Offer to soothe her poor, punished bottom with lotion. This often leads to other things, but don’t rush it. Let it happen and drink in each moment.</li><br>
<li>Make spankings an activity that you enjoy together as a couple again and again. Treasure the ritual, but make each time a little different</li><br></ol>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-75551314165255157232022-10-07T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-07T09:00:00.231-07:00Bonnie's Spankologue: Part Twenty Five<br>Let's explore more of the creative world of spanko blogs!<br><br>
<table width="100%" cellpadding="5"><tr><td><img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/394/1639/1600/seamap.jpg" border="0"></td><td align="left"><b><a href="https://www.sweet-tea-stories.com">Sweet Tea Spanking Stories</a></b> - There's nothing in this world quite like spanking. When followed up with aftercare, reassurance, and affection, the process rounds out into a perfect circle. A still, Zen-infused pool of love and ethereality topped with rainbow sprinkles. A glorious form of worship.<br><br>
<b><a href="https://theshadowsplay.wordpress.com">The Shadows Play</a></b> - Here be stories! Adult spanking and discipline stories, generally of the domestic kind. Several story lines with recurring characters and some sort of timeline. Since 2011.<br><br>
<b><a href="https://bat-fess.tumblr.com">La Fessée Artistique</a></b> - Works by artists on the theme of spanking.</td></tr></table>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-47937575246459600322022-10-05T17:15:00.000-07:002022-10-05T17:15:00.243-07:00A Fun Birthday Gift<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqmgKT-MVsRnrhUO_a7OLo5mvfrmXr83fhQ9aABmQCxxuTnx4iMuC3yYSvdVsMXlqFwjJK1FvmsN9xla__n8mj_v0OGoCm8Hkf9M6uglSMiY9HFMMQnhIQZGDERvBCqS9lJl0cXa0Z7MXR0crScaOFPLjihuphll5zv6Z0zIXxQmVeNmNGYQ/s1600/TrustMe.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="236" data-original-width="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqmgKT-MVsRnrhUO_a7OLo5mvfrmXr83fhQ9aABmQCxxuTnx4iMuC3yYSvdVsMXlqFwjJK1FvmsN9xla__n8mj_v0OGoCm8Hkf9M6uglSMiY9HFMMQnhIQZGDERvBCqS9lJl0cXa0Z7MXR0crScaOFPLjihuphll5zv6Z0zIXxQmVeNmNGYQ/s1600/TrustMe.png"/></a></div>
But perhaps a bit unnecessary...<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-36996266726206973132022-10-04T09:00:00.000-07:002022-10-04T09:00:00.226-07:00Another TMI Tuesday<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="279" data-original-width="352" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi85zkIEE1K3arW5AT4bA3-qjtD8N3aYUj7Hr9KCGZfL5wuy5dXI-9teei0P572cJbW06EplqxhPdPr_04DKVziRcZVKaLQHrKJu0YY-9N7HwwhTE7_IbpPbuoWwVRaDJJG5u6DrcVqDMHZdpqcT2VC8KdoV3S096cP8J12rw26Ue1Bdm4LcQ/s1600/TMI.png"/></a></div>
These <a href="https://tmituesdayblog.wordpress.com">TMI Tuesday</a> questions are unusual.<br><br>
<b>1. Have you purchased cryptocurrency (e.g., bitcoin, ethereum, dogecoin, etc.)?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>No, for the same reason we don't buy swamp land or famous bridges</td></tr></table><br>
<b>2. Have you been scammed by cryptocurrency?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>See question #1</td></tr></table><br>
<b>3. Where are you now?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>At home with my husband</td></tr></table><br>
<b>4. Where do you want to be?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>For the moment at least, this will do</td></tr></table><br>
<b>5. How many hotels have you been kicked out of?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>None, but we got a complaint once about a loud, um, television</td></tr></table><br>
<b>6. How many bars have you been kicked out of?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>None. Before Covid, we might go to a tavern/pub for dinner, but that's about it</td></tr></table><br>
<b>7. What is in the boot/trunk of your car?</b><br><br>
<table width="100%"><tr><td width="5%"></td><td>Materials for the class I teach, bottles of water, and some old toys that I plan to donate</td></tr></table><br>
These are questions no one ever asked me before so this game is kind of fun and different. What do you think?<br><br>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com5