But a lot more can be read into a gaze than meets the eye. I’m also learning a lot in life and discovered this video today about eye contact which I’m delighted to be able to share with you.

Now you’ll be able to tell whether a man is listening and paying attention to you or not.

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Analysing Eye Contact

Of course I’ll also be posting love making tips for women that want to surprise their men and have fun.

Sex is not about just lying there like a wet dish rag but having fun and enjoying yourself.

For too long women have been told sex is dirty, degrading, cheap, and an assortment of other middle aged beliefs.

I’m in no way implying that you need to bed every Tom; Dick and Harry. But hey if you want to why not? Just remember the reason why you’re doing it. Too many women confuse sex with love and land up feeling hurt and rejected. I’ve written about this on numerous occasions so I won’t go into it again.

If you feel badly about your self get help, not laid. In the same sense not having sex due to guilt etc is just as bad.

So for those of you ready to fullfill your life with some new love making techniques then head on to Love Making Techniques for Her. I’ll be posting at regular intervals.

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Love Making Techniques

In all my years of observing men and women I’ve noticed that men need to be the pursuers. I Know this concept seems so old fashioned as we are living in a liberated age, we as women have voting rights, earn money and pretty much get to do what we want – well at least here in the west.

My observations have led me to believe that men are hunters and when women lay down at their feet they’ll just toy with them. Much like a cat with her killed mouse – throwing it up in the air and then walking away to never look at the thing again.

Now I know that men can be shy, which doesn’t surprise me – they’ve been told not to come across as a pervert. So it can make communication difficult. And yes I know you have the right to like a man and to even to pursue him. But how will you feel if he rejects you?

My main reason for being hard to get is firstly to protect yourself from rejection and secondly if he’s into you he won’t just give up like that. Obviously show that you’re interested. Flirt with him, enjoy the converstaion but don’t hope and expect that now you’ll be married for ever. Cause chances are he won’t ask you for your phone number or if he does he might not call you. He may call you and even go out with you and you’ll be feeling over the moon and then he may never call you again.

Don’t make excuses as to why he never called you – it’s not like he’s too busy or lost your number – he’s just not that into you. Accept it and move on. Don’t call with a lame excuse you just look silly in his eyes and are making your self vulnerable for feeling hurt.

In  fact in my observations I’ve even noticed that in long standing happy relatonships the men were the pursuers of the woman. And even after x amount of years the woman is not a doormat and the man still is chasing her in a more subtle way. It’s not game playing – it’s just the way we as humans seem to be wired.

So my advice is play hard to get.

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Hard to Get

It’s come to my attention that many women have no idea how a penis functions. Yeah we all know it’s a genital that is used for urinating and having sex. But do you know what to do with a penis so that he is putty in your hands?

There is an art to handling a penis!

Even though men are tough on the outside they love special attention to their tool box.

The glans is  sensitive and especially the frenulum.

Most men born in Europe are uncircumsized. It is common for men in the USA and other countries to be circumsized.

Jewish men are circumsized due to religious reasons. If you read the old testament you’ll learn that men were required to get circumsized as a bonding act to God.

Diagram showing the difference between a circumsized penis and non circumsized penis

As you can see in this diagram a circumzised penis has had the foreskin removed.  In western countries this is done after birth. In some other countries circumsicion is a ritual that is done when boys become men. It is very painful.

Uncircumsized men are a lot more sensitive in the frenulum and glans area than uncircumsized men.

But all men love attention to their private part.

Michael Webb has written a great book ccalled blow by blow which explains to you how to give a man a great sexual experience with your mouth. Plus you get some great bonuses on how to give him a good hand job. These are wonderful techniques because firstly you can surprise him any where and you can’t get pregnant!

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Anatomy of a Penis

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen , which makes hair shine and skin smooth.
2. Gentle , relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis , skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.
3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.
4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps , and you don’t need special sneakers!
5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream , producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.
6. The more sex you have , the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!
7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.
8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay , preventing plaque build-up.
9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.
10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

Now you have no excuses – especially the one about the headache. (Seriously I’m astounded that women use the headache as an excuse.)

This was sent to me by cousin Bets.

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10 Good Reasons to Have Sex

When the passion is over and your mind is clear, think about what was said. Why did it make you so uncomfortable? Did it bring to mind a bad memory? Did it make you wonder what your partner really wanted to be doing in bed at that moment? Did his desires make you feel bad about yourself? Whatever the reason, pinpoint it and write it down. Putting it on paper in black and white will help you work through the details of why you feel the way you do.

Consider how you will bring it up with your lover. If this is something that you feel you need to discuss, plan your approach. Make sure you present your concerns in a loving, non-judgmental way. If you are accusing at all, your partner will likely retreat into a self-conscious shell, and won’t bother telling you any more of those fantasies. That is a breakdown in communication, and that is not good!

Once you’ve chosen a way to approach the subject, do it when you are both relaxed and open to discussion. Don’t attempt to start the talk immediately after you’ve had sex – talk about killing the afterglow! Don’t do it when you are busy with other things, or when stress seems to have taken over your day. Approach your partner at a time when you know he will be open to what you have to say. Allow plenty of time for the discussion.

Keep in mind that your partner might not think anything is bothering you. His dirty talk could well have been completely spur of the moment, and he might not even remember what he said! If it was just something thrown out in the heat of the moment when he was experimenting with a few fantasies, you can chalk it up to nothing more than that and move on. If he admits the scenario he suggested is one that he wants to try, however, you’ve opened the door for discussing it.

Always be loving toward your partner as you discuss those fantasies. Remember that it took a lot of trust to get to this point, and the dirty talk between the two of you is so much hotter for it. You aren’t the only one who has heard things that might be shocking – consider that you might have dropped a few stunners along the way, and your lover has accepted them. Doesn’t he deserve the same consideration from you?

Finally, remember – the hottest dirty talk just might involve things you would never really do if the opportunity arose. Keep it all in perspective, and remember that your partner is the one in bed with you – the one who is focusing all his attention and dirty talk skills on you. You lucky little vixen!

More dirty talk examples

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When Dirty Talk With Your Lover is Over the Top…

The Caramel Sutra – Review

It’s not difficult to find romantic advice. It’s not a challenge to find information about great sex either. But it IS difficult to find romantic advice and information on great sex that’s specifically for large women.

Authors Andrea Rains Waggener and Nancy Anne Eltrich saw this void in the lovemaking literature arena and decided to put their expertise to use. They decided to write an e-book specifically for fat women.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide To Great Sex—The Caramel Sutra is a 171-page e-book written especially for big women. It’s a how-to guide that helps fat women not only accept their large size but put it to use in the bedroom, and beyond.

Written with a heavy dose of humor and just the right touch of raunchiness (enough to be fun but not enough to make most women uncomfortable), A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide is an easy read. It’s also a fun read.

Andrea and Nancy, who readily admit to being fat and also admit to having issues about that, readily share what they’ve learned about having great sex. (Both Andrea and Nancy are happily married and enjoy wonderful lovemaking with their husbands. Andrea’s marriage is relatively new. She’s been divorced previously. Nancy, however, has been with her husband for 28 years. She knows what it takes to keep the fires burning in a long marriage.) The combined knowledge of these two women is impressive and inspiring for any woman who doesn’t have the sexual relationship she wants.

If you want to get a look at the kind of information they have to share, sign up for their free 5-lesson course, The Big Beautiful Irresistible Lover Course and their Weekly Tantalizing Tips—Lovemaking Sexsteps for Having The Ultimate Lovemaking Experiences. They’re worth giving up your e-mail address for.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide covers these juicy topics:

• How to put aside old hurts and rejection so they don’t stop you from enjoying great lovemaking.

• Letting go of the past: why judgment and criticism must be barred from the bedroom and how to do it.

• Flirting: easy ways to enjoy all day foreplay.

• Encouragement: how to give it to your man in bed.

• Play: the reason play is essential to great lovemaking and how to turn your intimate life into a sexual playground.

• Aphrodisiacs: how simple foods can enhance your love life.

• Water: why it’s a big woman’s best friend and why it’s so good for your intimate relationship and how to use it to your best advantage.

• Dancing: the ways a big woman can use it set the mood for great sex.

• Adventure: why it’s so important to big women in the bedroom

• Hands: the best way to use your hands during lovemaking.

• Oral pleasures: the secret to using your mouth in a way that will drive a man wild

• Sexual positions: which ones are the best for big women

• Going beyond the bedroom: how you can rev up your sex life by taking your intimate fun out of the “boudoir.’

Each chapter includes an entertaining and informative combination of Andrea and Nancy’s personal experience and hands-on suggestions for how to use the ideas they share. In case you’re still not motivated to action, the end of each chapter includes Sexsteps—specific actions you can take to put into practice the concepts in the chapter.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide could change a big woman’s life if she puts the advice to good use. Andrea and Nancy don’t beat around the bush. They get to the good stuff.

The e-book has only two minor drawbacks:

1. Occasionally, it sometimes strays into territory that may seem old or clichéd. Some of the ideas in the book are kind of trite or overused.
2. Sometimes the advice in the book is too general, not as geared toward big women as it could be.

These problems aside, though, the book has enough good information to make it well worth its price. The bonus material, which includes a special report filled with specific beauty ideas and tips, a special report filled with romantic advice, more romantic tips in the form of an e-book by romance-guru Michael Webb—101 Romantic Tips, and two classic e-books—Hints For Lovers and Happiness and Marriage. The package also comes with a secret bonus that the authors claim can help improve your love life AND your waistline. I won’t spoil the secret—but I will say they do make good on their claims.

At $29.97, the e-book and its bonuses is a great deal. You’ll definitely get your money’s worth. The e-book has an open-ended guarantee so you don’t take any risk.

All in all, I highly recommend A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide to any big woman who wants to rev up her sex life or simply feel better about herself.

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How to Have Good Sex even if You are Big (Fat) Woman

Her Diary
Saw him in the evening and he was acting really strangely. I’d been shopping in the afternoon with the girls and was a bit late meeting him, thought it might be that.

The bar was really crowded and loud, so I suggested we go somewhere quieter to talk. He was still very subdued and distracted so I suggested we went somewhere nice to eat.

All through dinner he just didn’t seem himself – he hardly laughed and didn’t seem to be paying any attention to me or to what I was saying, I just knew that something was wrong.

He dropped me back home and I wondered if he was going to come in, he hesitated but followed. I asked him what was wrong, but he just half shook his head and turned the television on. After about ten minutes of silence I said that I was going upstairs to bed, I put my arms around him and told him that I loved him deeply. He just gave a sigh and a sad sort of smile.

He didn’t follow me up immediately but came up later and, to my surprise, we made love – but he still seemed distant and a bit cold. I cried myself to sleep – I think he’s planning to leave me – maybe he’s found someone else.

His Diary
The Jets lost the football. Gutted.
Got laid though.

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The Diary

1. No matter how hard you work or how good you eat you will never look sexy.
   This is simply not true – if you work out and eat helathy – your body will thank you by looking sexy.
2. You have to do at least 3 hours hard labour in a gym whilst starving yourself.
   No! You just need to do effective exercises.and eat the right nutrients.
3. You need to purchase an expensive gym membership and pay a fortune to a personal trainer to get a sexy figure.
   Wrong again.
   You can do effective work outs at home, using 5 small, easy to put away pieces of equipment.
4. You need a nutritionist to create a personalized diet for you.
   No!
   If you look at the first 3 letters of DIET they spell die, nobody wants you to die.
5. You will have to seclude yourself from the world.
   Why?
   You only need to work out 4 times a week and make the right choices about eating.
6. You need to join a weight loss club.
   Yikes – that’s no fun.
   You just need to learn how to become personally accountable for what you do.

Why not get the FREE Bikini Workout from Jennifer Nicole Lee?

She has the sexiest figure around and went from 200 pounds to the picture you see at the top!

She calls her programme How to Look Like a Fitness Model without Being One but in my opinion she should have called it How to Get a Sexy Figure.

The Fitness Model Program™ will help you lose that darn ugly fat, blast cellulite and allow you to build feminine sleek and sexy muscle tone with only 4 short workouts per week! Some women are even experiencing the enjoyment of getting their hot body back and not only looking, but feeling years younger and even reporting having higher sexual energy with the help from the Fitness Model™ Program!

The Fitness Model Program™ is a scientifically proven fat burning and muscle toning program which is endorsed by elite trainers and top female fitness magazines. It has been used by hundreds of women of all ages to gain that Fitness Model™ look! Most importantly it does not rely on hours of training; you DON’T have to live in the gym and work out 3 hours a day!

It is the ultimate Bikini Body Program that will give you a round butt, toned arms and flat abs!

Summer is here- Are you bikini ready?

Here are some of her tips for six pack abs:

CRUNCHES: Don’t Count-Just “Burn” Them!

Abdominal exercises are your arsenal at sculpting and toning your tummy. I am strict when it comes to these, almost always exercising my abs until exhaustion. My militant mantra is “If you are not burning, you are not earning”, meaning you have to work for your washboard and a good indicator is that post work out soreness that sets in on the abs after my workouts.

Here I have highlighted my 3 top favorite abs exercises guaranteed to give you a run for your money!

A. BALL BUSTERS: Lay your back on a yoga ball with your knees bent 90 degrees and your workout buddy holding your feel down. Lean all the way back holding a small 5 pound weight behind your neck crunching up and actually curling your torso inwards towards your belly button and at the same time turning your pelvic muscles up.

B. THE PENDULUM: Lay on the floor while holding your work out partner’s ankles. Bring your legs up and have your partner push them down to the floor and then snap your legs back up-the key is to use resistance when your legs are being pushed down.

C. HANGING KNEE RAISES: When I first put myself into these arm straps, I thought that it was some kind torture device! But know I only have my abs thanking me! Hang in 2 arm slings with elbows bent and locked, and gently raise your knees into your chest.

So are you going to at least get Jennifer’s FREE Bikini Boot Camp report or you going to keep dreaming about how to get a sexy figure?

I’ve already downloaded mine

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How to Get a Sexy Figure

I noticed to my dismay when checking my web stats that a few people land up on this blog because they want to know how to seduce a married man.

Seducing a married man is the same as seducing any man but why the hell would you want to knowingly seduce a married man? Unless of course you enjoy suffering cos ultimately you will feel pain.

It may appear exciting and even convenient in the beginning. A juicy relationship without the committment. You never have to wash his shirts, pick up his socks or comfort him.

Eventually you’ll feel pissed off about him being married.

You’ll be wondering if he’s sleeping with his wife when he’s not with you. Christmas and other holidays will feel lonely.

I’ve never seen a happy outcome. I have women and men friends that have got them selves into a mess by being involved with some one else. The men i know who have been involved have all confessed to me when the “other woman” starts nagging about his other life they feel more compelled to end the affair, rather than leave the wife.

Seducing a married man is no different to seducing any man. I wrote the Seduction Diva’s Cheat Sheet which is an easy way of seducing a man. But beware because seduction doesn’t mean you’ll be winning his love.

All too often women are upset that the man they’re having sex with isn’t really giving them what they really desire – love, respect, devotion and honesty.

Before you go seducing the married man remember that he has officially devoted him self to another woman and you will be his secret liason.

I do believe married men are unhappy with their wives or they wouldn’t be seducable in the first place.  Even so he is still officially married to his wife – he has to deal with his own feelings of guilt.

In my opinion it’s best to save your seduction power for available men.

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How to Seduce a Married Man