Words alone don’t cause people to do heinous things, however we are all responsible for the impact our words have on others and on our collective consciousness. Do my words inspire, support, encourage, praise, give joy or are they critical, demeaning, antagonistic, negative, or dehumanizing? If we each can start thinking about what we say before we say it maybe we can change the very toxic environment of our public discourse. To paraphrase…speak to others the way in which you would like to be spoken.
]]>For most people public speaking is a challenge and the obstacles often seem insurmountable. And the work gets very close to the bone for those who decide they want to improve. To coach someone in that situation is an honor and a big responsibility. It requires building trust and creating a safe place for people to move outside their comfort zone. And it requires imagination and a bit of courage to find just the right strategy that will work with each specific individual. It also helps if you can have a little fun along the way.
The King’s speech coach did all of these things brilliantly and in the end the audience appreciates what the King did to find his voice become the leader he was destined to be. It was also great to see the transformation of a human being meeting a most difficult and very public personal challenge.
See it…you’ll be inspired on many levels! And if you are struggling with your speaking skills, take a page from the King and get a coach who can help you!
]]>Paraphrasing a line from one of my all time favorite TV shows, “Sports Night” a wonderful short-lived comedy from Aaron Sorkin, “I’m going to show up and see what happens.” The “showing up” part means paying attention, paying attention to what my clients and prospects are saying, paying attention to trends and what the marketplace is doing, and paying attention to what spins my jets.
And “seeing what happens” means letting up on all the second guessing and worry about what the next business move should be. Instead of pressing or pushing through difficult situations, I’ve decided to step back a bit, relax as much as I can, and watch for opportunities. When my nose is to the grindstone, I may not see greater possibilities.
In the meantime, I think this is a great time to get back to basics, reposition, and recharge. The fundamentals of effective communications have not changed, the means and the platforms are completely transformed, but the basics principles apply. So through my blog, I’ll be providing on-going tips and tools for people who want to expand and strengthen their communication skills.
For now, I will simply say Thank you! Thank you to all my clients, colleagues, and fans. I appreciate your trust and your support. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving and a great holiday season!
]]>It’s sad to realize that even companies who know what the right thing to do is, get caught doing completely the opposite. Johnson & Johnson recovered quickly last time because they did the right thing. Their customer base rebounded and actually grew because people felt the company could be trusted. And they got years of free publicity when public relations professionals and media experts held them up as a shining example of how to handle a crisis and work with media in the middle of it.
There’s a new chapter in the Johnson & Johnson story and it’s not pretty. Time will tell how much they have damaged their brand.
]]>The news is not all bad for the news. There are journalists around the country that are experimenting with ways to make news-gathering economically viable. I think what they also need to do is make the news relevant and valuable. If we don’t have access to credible information about our government and our civic and business communities, we’re all in serious trouble.
]]>Imagine my surprise when I opened up this morning’s Seattle Times and saw the blaring headline “Grandma just shot them for no reason.” I don’t quarrel with their editors’ news judgement. Clearly that’s a big story. It’s the headline that knocked me back a bit. It’s copy I would expect to see on supermarket tabloid covers, not on my front doorstep, and not from a newspaper that touts under its masthead “Winner of a 2010 Pulitzer Prize.”
Come on Seattle Times people! I know you are under tremendous pressure to sell papers and the outlook for your survival publishing on paper may be bleak, but please don’t lower your standards. That will just give the few of us remaining subscribers another reason to let you go.
]]>In the spirit of full disclosure, earlier this year when my 8 year old Dell desk computer started dying I switched to an iMac, a big 27″ beauty. My main justification was that I work with video all the time and Apple has terrific easy and time saving applications for downloading, editing, and sharing video. But I must tell you, secretly I wanted to be part of the whole cool status of owning an Apple anything and being able to legitimately hang out at an Apple store!
Now as I see Steve Jobs publicly displaying his arrogance and contempt for people who love or are interested in his company and products, I can’t help but wonder how long will it be before the hackers and evil-doers put Apple in their sites, in the same way they have targeted Microsoft? And how long before Apple evangelists start losing their undying loyalty?
I posed these questions to the friend who introduced me to Apple nation. She has an iPod, iPhone, iMac, MacBook Air, and an iPad. She’s a true Apple Woman and thinks as long as the cool products keep coming, Apple will be fine.
I think no amount of “cool” can mask arrogance and contempt for your customers or the public and if CEO’s continue to display it publicly, some day there will be a reckoning. Ask Tony Hayward!
]]>With the explosive growth in on-line marketing and social networking, it has often seemed overwhelming to me to create something that would attract people. I know I spend a lot of my time deleting all the on-line pitches that come in every day. And frankly, I didn’t want to contribute to all the noise out there, didn’t want to create e-junk that people delete or put in the spam folder!
So last week when I had coffee with Kristen Schuerlein, partner and co-founder of Design Duo, a Seattle graphic design/branding firm, I was immediately intrigued by her idea. She’s getting back to basics and using 19th century technology: the telephone!
Kristen has been reconnecting with colleagues, business friends, and clients, people who already know her and/or have done business with her in the past. And here’s the fun part, she’s not pitching them on anything. She’s checking in, finding out how they are, and whenever possible and appropriate, offering ideas or referrals. That’s it! She’s been having fun with it and her phone is starting to ring again and business is coming back.
So I’ve taken the plunge and so far, so good. People who I haven’t talked to in a while are genuinely glad to hear from me. Sometimes the communication involves e-mail, but generally it’s old fashioned phone calls. And if nothing else, it’s fun. It takes a little time and some discipline. And I have found that when I’m taking a step, taking action, I no longer feel stuck, and everything starts to move again. So you may be hearing from me soon, I’m looking forward to talking with you.
So thank you, Kristen! I’m glad you reconnected with me. And I hope by sharing your good ideas, people will remember us both when they need excellent graphic design/branding services or a excellent speech coach.
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