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		<title>Protected: Horsing around&#8230;Chinese New Year 2014</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2014 20:51:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Creativity without foundation</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2012 03:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Recently, a very pro-active photography forum culled a lot of its members. Not just people that were not contributing, but people that were not contributing extremely regularly ie. every day.  I had previously lauded the hands-on management of the group which requested active participation from everyone. It set a different tone and precedent to many [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Recently, a very pro-active photography forum culled a lot of its members. Not just people that were not contributing, but people that were not contributing extremely regularly ie. every day.  I had previously lauded the hands-on management of the group which requested active participation from everyone. It set a different tone and precedent to many groups, but I had my wrist slapped early on for expanding on a comment on photojournalism which is the single area I have real and unique expertise to offer&#8230;it wasn&#8217;t a creative enough area of photography to be considered important.  To the moderators, creativity had become paramount. Which I totally disagreed with.</p>
<p>At its most basic, photography records a moment in time and this is what photojournalism is&#8230;I didn&#8217;t really understand how someone could just dismiss one of the bastions of photography as unimportant.  The very thing that I love about photography is that it requires technical, creative and business skills in equal parts. I do not value one over the other. And there is always more to learn. Whilst I can understand some photographers may prioritise any one of these skills over the others, you cannot just disregard them and call yourself a photographer. Someone who creates a creative image but is not in charge of their camera is an artist, not a photographer.</p>
<p>When the admins got rid of the less frequent contributors (ie. professionals that had less time to spend on the group), it was never really recognised that the group lost a lot of talent and expertise in one fell swoop. It became the blind leading the blind &#8211; they sought validation from their own inexperienced peer group. I know that working full-time has little to do with creativity and I fly the flag for The Photographer that is equally The Artist, but I don&#8217;t think that the wealth that comes with experience in the field should ever be underestimated. Creative process is important, but not anymore important than being a technical master of your camera or sound business acumen.</p>
<p>I pointed this out before removing myself from the group because I felt it had the wrong priorities and the wrong people were being cut out of the group, leaving people that were far from competent photographers. The moderators&#8217; response was &#8220;perhaps those without experience can bring more to the group.&#8221; The basic message was that being in charge of your camera or knowing how to do business was not important. I would like to think it was not just their impudence that annoyed me, but the fact that they couldn&#8217;t even see what they had lost.</p>
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		<title>Free Internet Dating Advice for Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2012 03:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If you are claiming you are a writer, best check you have spelt writer correctly and can punctuate&#8230;and type&#8230;and write&#8230; &#8230;no, text speak is not OK either Best not to include &#8216;maniac&#8217; in your ID No, pictures of you LARPing (Live Action Role Playing where you dress up as a pixie in the woods) is [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_273" style="width: 710px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-273" data-attachment-id="273" data-permalink="https://marnova.wordpress.com/2012/03/09/free-internet-dating-advice-for-men/school-photo/" data-orig-file="https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg" data-orig-size="4253,2830" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;11&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Octavio Aburto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D700&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;PIC BY OCTAVIO ABURTO \/ CATERS NEWS - (PICTURED The school of fish gather in front of diver David Castro with his camera) - Smile - its the school photo! This is the hilarious moment a marine photographer managed to capture hundreds of wide-eyed fish apparently posing for a picture. Californian photographer and conservationist Octavio Aburto had spent years photographing the school in Cabo Pulmo National Park, Mexico - and had been trying to capture this exact shot for three years. The Bigeye travellies fish gather in their thousands in the oceans during courtship. SEE CATERS COPY&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1352291163&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;All Right Reserved&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;15&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;500&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.008&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;School Photo&quot;}" data-image-title="Octavio Aburto" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Octavio Aburto for National Geographic&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=700" class="size-large wp-image-273" alt="Octavio Aburto for National Geographic" src="https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=700&#038;h=465" width="700" height="465" srcset="https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=700 700w, https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=1400 1400w, https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=150 150w, https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=300 300w, https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=768 768w, https://marnova.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/temp.jpg?w=1024 1024w" sizes="(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-273" class="wp-caption-text">Octavio Aburto for National Geographic</p></div>
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<li>If you are claiming you are a writer, best check you have spelt writer correctly and can punctuate&#8230;and type&#8230;and write&#8230;</li>
<li>&#8230;no, text speak is not OK either</li>
<li>Best not to include &#8216;maniac&#8217; in your ID</li>
<li>No, pictures of you LARPing (Live Action Role Playing where you dress up as a pixie in the woods) is not a good idea</li>
<li>Do not use a movie character you aspire to as your handle, however cool they are&#8230;such as Tyler Durden&#8230;from Fight Club. AS IF!</li>
<li>Try being in the same country for starters &#8220;I live in Spain/Algeria/Nigeria&#8230;but I can go to visit you in London&#8221; SERIOUSLY?!!</li>
<li>Try to use a photo that looks vaguely like you if you don&#8217;t want your date to sit in stunned silence trying to work out how your photo was taken&#8230;</li>
<li>Looking normal in your first photo then dressing in your favourite latex cat outfit will only end in confusion</li>
<li>No knives, not on the first date anyway. That goes for the gals too, you can ask Willard Foxton all about that (google it&#8230;)</li>
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		<title>Pinteresting</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 03:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In response to http://ddkportraits.com/v2/2012/02/why-i-tearfully-deleted-my-pinterest-inspiration-boards/ No one should put anything online they they aren&#8217;t prepared for people to &#8216;share&#8217; (by whatever means) as that is the beauty and main benefit of online media. Although it continues to surprises how much a magazine can do with a low res image from a website, realistically they can&#8217;t do [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>In response to <a href="http://ddkportraits.com/v2/2012/02/why-i-tearfully-deleted-my-pinterest-inspiration-boards/">http://ddkportraits.com/v2/2012/02/why-i-tearfully-deleted-my-pinterest-inspiration-boards/</a></p>
<p>No one should put anything online they they aren&#8217;t prepared for people to &#8216;share&#8217; (by whatever means) as that is the beauty and main benefit of online media. Although it continues to surprises how much a magazine can do with a low res image from a website, realistically they can&#8217;t do anything of real commercial value and have little defence if they have had to chop your watermark off. At least Pinterest provides by default linkback to the source (shame if people pin without this). The world is changing and photographers need to keep up with this, or risk ending up like the music industry ex-fatcats who kept trying to protect their position instead of realising too late the potential of the online consumer and then scrambling to play catchup. Pinterest is a great way for photographers, artists etc to gain exposure with a whole different section of the market. The reality is that IP law in this kind of area is still developing and can be open to interpretation so there&#8217;s unlikely to be a clear answer any time soon.</p>
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		<title>In the mood for&#8230;film noir</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2011 21:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Those in the know will know my life has been a little eventful of late, so apologies for lack of posts. You have Rob Heslop to thank yet again for this post. We got together with a bunch of photographer and model friends last weekend and did a fun film noir shoot. The photographers got [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those in the know will know my life has been a little eventful of late, so apologies for lack of posts.</p>
<p>You have Rob Heslop to thank yet again for this post. We got together with a bunch of photographer and model friends last weekend and did a fun film noir shoot. The photographers got to direct, the models got to act and the photographers had very little post-processing to do.  Win-win-win! I&#8217;ve learnt plenty about controlled lighting recently and a good part of it is with thanks to Rob <img src="https://s0.wp.com/wp-content/mu-plugins/wpcom-smileys/twemoji/2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>This brought me back to my film student days, studying the lighting setups of Orson Wells &amp; Co. Good times.</p>
<p>My setups may not have been strictly film noir, but I was going for the mood&#8230;painting with light.</p>
<p>Enjoy.</p>
<p>Credits:<br />
Models: Conner McKenzy, Kate Davies, Iain Gorrie, Helen Drew<br />
With thanks to Rob Heslop, Cam and Peter Tecks</p>
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		<title>Warrior days</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2011 12:12:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Now, I never thought I&#8217;d be inspired by anything Clive Owen said or did, but inspired and heartened I was by his views on monogamy and family. In this fickle age where marriages can last days or months and relationships come and go faster than fashion fads, commitment is a rare thing. With co-stars like [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now, I never thought I&#8217;d be inspired by anything Clive Owen said or did, but inspired and heartened I was by his views on monogamy and family.</p>
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<p>In this fickle age where marriages can last days or months and relationships come and go faster than fashion fads, commitment is a rare thing. With co-stars like Angelina Jolie and Eva Mendes finding him sexy, it&#8217;s refreshing to read that he says he would never have an affair&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;I so value what I&#8217;ve got at home with my wife and kids that I&#8217;ve never f**ked with that&#8230;For me, that&#8217;s what it&#8217;s about&#8230;My relationship is everything to me&#8230;I&#8217;m often doing incredibly exciting plays and films, but that would mean nothing if I were floating around and didn&#8217;t have a solid family behind me. Sarah-Jane is an absolute diamond.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m excited that any modern man can feel like that and honour and cherish their family above all else. Oh, and he is finally turning into a reasonable actor too. Watching his recent turn as King Arthur, it made me wonder where the warriors of our world have gone &#8211; those men who fight for love and cause with braveness and integrity. There is no modern day equivalent and all women can weep for that.</p>
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		<title>An Age of Innocence</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 16:49:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Everything vintage is super in-vogue at the moment.  But vintage means so many things, it can mean anything.  When I think of vintage, I think of muted colours, decorative details, fanciful sweet embellishments and lashings of romance.  Everything that every girl loves in her wedding styling and photography right now. I&#8217;m generally a modern day [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everything vintage is super in-vogue at the moment.  But vintage means so many things, it can mean anything.  When I think of vintage, I think of muted colours, decorative details, fanciful sweet embellishments and lashings of romance.  Everything that every girl loves in her wedding styling and photography right now.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m generally a modern day photographer &#8211; photographing and working in our times.  I occasionally veer off into a project inspired by Chinese traditions, but in the main stay quite contemporary.  However, there is still something very attractive about vintage photography and for me, that is capturing an age of innocence, relatively speaking.</p>
<p>Courtesy of Rob Heslop, a local Strobist, I recently had the opportunity to do some studio work in the style of 1950s US pinups.  What I love about this style is that it&#8217;s cheeky and saucy,  but not sleazy or slutty.  From a time when women were women and men were men (for better or worse!)  It didn&#8217;t help my Mad Men obsession one bit though&#8230;for all his flaws, I mourn for the loss of the Don Drapers of this world.</p>
<p>Oh the pictures? Here are a few of my favourites&#8230;excuse the lighting if you will, I&#8217;m still dabbling. Always learning.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter" title="He's on the phone" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1273/5188516328_2fdd218665_z.jpg" alt="He's on the phone" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter" title="Heels over head" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1290/5187914547_3935204d12_z.jpg" alt="Heels over head" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter" title="Up close" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm5.static.flickr.com/4107/5187915963_c46ed6a436_z.jpg" alt="Up close" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" style="border:1px solid black;" title="Spirit" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1269/5188519596_f71f02fdae_z.jpg" alt="Spirit" width="640" height="483" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Mr President" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm5.static.flickr.com/4084/5187916765_2452e46bb2_z.jpg" alt="Mr President" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Come play with me" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1307/5188522582_ff12e3dcc5_z.jpg" alt="Come play with me" width="412" height="640" /><br />
<img title="Jackie O" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm5.static.flickr.com/4151/5187917487_67b5203f0f_z.jpg" alt="Jackie O" width="640" height="483" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" style="border:1px solid black;" title="Street racer" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1003/5187918929_a6f922c8a5_z.jpg" alt="Street racer" width="640" height="483" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Rebel without a cause" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1018/5187919599_8edce44eeb_z.jpg" alt="Rebel without a cause" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Tip top" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1027/5187920839_3d8b53ba33_z.jpg" alt="Tip top" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Distinction" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm5.static.flickr.com/4106/5188523148_30eeaca091_z.jpg" alt="Distinction" width="640" height="483" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Class" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1277/5188523390_78a4ee582a_z.jpg" alt="Class" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="And...up!" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm5.static.flickr.com/4061/5187921525_7dc995edc2_z.jpg" alt="And...up!" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="In the spotlight" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.static.flickr.com/1015/5187921809_0459b8156b_z.jpg" alt="In the spotlight" width="412" height="640" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Tease" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm5.static.flickr.com/4132/5188524726_9653112c9e_z.jpg" alt="Tease" width="412" height="640" /></p>
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		<title>Hauled</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Oct 2010 16:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#8230;out of my shell. So I&#8217;ve been silent a little while. A little distant from those virtual and physical. Sorry about that folks. I will admit that Twitter has been taking up some of my time (catch me over there &#8211; Marnova, you got it in one) and also my photography (check out link to [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;out of my shell. So I&#8217;ve been silent a little while. A little distant from those virtual and physical. Sorry about that folks.</p>
<p>I will admit that Twitter has been taking up some of my time (catch me over there &#8211; <a href="http://www.twitter.com/marnova" target="_blank">Marnova</a>, you got it in one) and also my photography (check out link to the right, it needs updating but it&#8217;s a start!)</p>
<p>I received a card that made me smile today.  An Edward Monkton card about my inner pasta and the various types.  My friend wrote that she didn&#8217;t think I could ever be categorized and also indicated the route to go and visit her before signing off with a drawing of a birthday chair.  Whatever one of those is.</p>
<p>Thanks Moosie, I won&#8217;t be such a stranger!</p>
<p>In the meantime, check out this &#8216;Hammers and Strings&#8217; project by Clayton Austin <a href="http://claytonaustinlovestories.com/blog/" target="_blank">http://claytonaustinlovestories.com/blog/</a>.  He is dragging a piano around the United States and doing different photoshoots with him (for anyone looking historically, check out Sep/Oct 2010)</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="Cremation" src="https://i0.wp.com/claytonaustinlovestories.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/Salt-Flats26.jpg" alt="Cremation" width="640" height="429" /></p>
<p>Now, the images are stunning &#8211; I love the locations.  Pianos are beautiful, romantic and majestic objects, but in these photos, the piano seems incidental to this photoset, there is no sense of any relationship between the people in the pictures and the piano &#8211; they lounge across it indifferently as if could be a chaise lounge or stand by it as if it were not there.  This piano has been through stones, high water, fire and there is something very sad about sacrificing a piano in the name of art.</p>
<p>In days bygone, the piano was the life and soul of the fortunate establishment/household that had one.  It had the power to bring strangers and family together, gathering around it, uniting in revelry. In the right hands, it brings joy to the player and the listener.  These days, space is at a premium and pianos are falling out of vogue. They have become little more than redundant pieces of furniture.  And that is a crying shame indeed.  They are precious gifts &#8211; during Communism, most musical instruments were banned, considered frivolous.  Instruments are made to be played and with only a little TLC, life can be breathed back into one creaking at the joints.  My own piano I saved from a scrapheap fate. It only takes for someone to play it now and again to keep it conditioned and alive and in return it enriches our lives.  I love my piano very much and would keep it over my television.  Is that a more controversial statement than it seems to be to me?</p>
<p>I would rather see a series like this that honours the handsome and noble character of this fine piano. OK, so I am a piano geek.  I didn&#8217;t realise that until today.  So, check out Clayton&#8217;s beautiful images, perhaps it is testament to their power that they made me realise this about myself <a href="http://claytonaustinlovestories.com/blog/" target="_blank">http://claytonaustinlovestories.com/blog/</a>:</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="Requiem for a piano" src="https://i0.wp.com/claytonaustinlovestories.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/117.jpg" alt="Requiem for a piano" width="640" height="429" /></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 16:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In this age of  communication,  I find myself bombarded with shocking images that I am becoming increasingly desensitised to.  I frequently recall some lines our poet laureate once wrote about in her poem about a war photographer: &#8220;A hundred agonies in black-and-white from which his editor will pick out five or six for Sunday&#8217;s supplement. [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this age of  communication,  I find myself bombarded with shocking images that I am becoming increasingly desensitised to.  I frequently recall some lines our poet laureate once wrote about in her poem about a war photographer:</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>&#8220;A hundred agonies in black-and-white<br />
from which his editor will pick out five  or six<br />
for Sunday&#8217;s supplement. The reader&#8217;s eyeballs prick<br />
with tears  between bath and pre-lunch beers.<br />
From aeroplane he stares impassively at where<br />
he earns a living and they do  not care.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>&#8211; The War Photographer, Carol Ann Duffy</em></p>
<p>There are few images that shock and startle  me these days.  And yet this one did.  And it is good to know that I am not numb.  Really good.</p>
<div style="width: 360px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/marnova/4586411283/"><img class="  " title="Thich Quang Duc, Vietnamese Monk" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm4.static.flickr.com/3327/4586411283_174edffa76.jpg" alt="Thich Quang Duc, Vietnamese Monk" width="350" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Thích Quảng Đức protested against the persecution of Buddhists by South Vietnam&#039;s administration by setting himself alight. Credit: Malcolm Browne</p></div>
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<div>At a busy downtown intersection in Saigon, on 11 June 1963, seventy-three-year-old Thich Quang Duc, sat at a busy downtown intersection and had gasoline poured over him by two fellow monks. As a large crowd of Buddhists and reporters watched, he lit a match and, over the course of a few moments, burned to death while he remained seated in the lotus position.  His heart did not burn and is now a Buddhist relic.</div>
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<div style="padding-left:30px;"><em>&#8220;I was to see that sight again, but once was enough. Flames were coming from a human being; his body was slowly withering and shriveling up, his head blackening and charring. In the air was the smell of burning flesh; human beings burn surprisingly quickly. Behind me I could hear the sobbing of the Vietnamese who were now gathering. I was too shocked to cry, too confused to take notes or ask questions, too bewildered to even think&#8230;. As he burned he never moved a muscle, never uttered a sound, his outward composure in sharp contrast to the wailing people around him. (1965: 211)&#8221;</em></div>
<div style="padding-left:30px;"><em>-David Halberstam, New York Times (who declined to publish the image)</em></div>
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<p>And the full poem, which I have never forgotten since I first read it.  There is something very real, immediate and pertinent about it.  And Carol Ann Duffy has deserved her ascendancy to poet laureate, there is something about her ability to weave strong imagery, metaphors and wry comedy into her topical poetry that makes kids and adults sit up and take notice. She was one poet that my students didn&#8217;t mind studying:</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">War Photographer</h2>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em> </em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em> </em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">In his darkroom he is finally alone<br />
with spools of suffering set out in  ordered rows.<br />
The only light is red and softly glows,<br />
as though this were  a church and he<br />
a priest preparing to intone a Mass.<br />
Belfast. Beirut.  Phnom Penh. All flesh is grass.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">He has a job to do. Solutions slop in  trays<br />
beneath his hands which did not tremble then<br />
though seem to now.  Rural England. Home again<br />
to ordinary pain which simple weather can  dispel,<br />
to fields which don&#8217;t explode beneath the feet<br />
of running children  in a nightmare heat.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Something is happening. A stranger&#8217;s  features<br />
faintly start to twist before his eyes,<br />
a half-formed ghost. He  remembers the cries<br />
of this man&#8217;s wife, how he sought approval<br />
without  words to do what someone must<br />
and how the blood stained into foreign  dust.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">A hundred agonies in black-and-white<br />
from which his editor will  pick out five or six<br />
for Sunday&#8217;s supplement. The reader&#8217;s eyeballs  prick<br />
with tears between bath and pre-lunch beers.<br />
From aeroplane he  stares impassively at where<br />
he earns a living and they do not care.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[I recently went on a trip to Malaysia.  I hadn&#8217;t been in several years and was looking forward to the heady mix of cultures, food and lively atmosphere. It was an eye opener in many senses, but particularly in one way that I hadn&#8217;t expected.  Perhaps returning as an adult made a difference;  coming of age [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently went on a trip to Malaysia.  I hadn&#8217;t been in several years and was looking forward to the heady mix of cultures, food and lively atmosphere. It was an eye opener in many senses, but particularly in one way that I hadn&#8217;t expected.  Perhaps returning as an adult made a difference;  coming of age lifts the veil on so many things, you  become less worried about what people think of you and start noticing the cracks that appear around them instead.</p>
<p>What it was that took me so much by surprise was the secrecy and lies that came hand-in-hand with everyday life.  This can probably said to some extent of every society &#8211; it&#8217;s important to keep up appearances.  However, it seemed extreme in Malaysia, where white lies are almost told as a matter of course or as before the expectation has even been born.  Astonishing by it&#8217;s normality.  Teenagers keeping secrets from their parents (as is their perogative anywhere),  grownups keeping petty secrets from their parents&#8230;slightly weirder, parents keeping secrets from their children (fairly normal), people keeping secrets from their colleagues (normal to an extent) and everyone telling lies including strangers to strangers.  I guess part of this whole charade was to keep &#8216;face&#8217;, to improve face, for an easier life, and to oil the whole darn machine.  But it is a complex, confusing mess.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still not really sure why all these secrets and lies exist in such apparent multitude in this particular country, or whether I just happen to be privvy to part of the truth masked by these lies, but it&#8217;s a brittle glue to hold together a society with.   Malaysia in some ways is becoming increasingly conservative, not entirely coincidental timing with strengthening fundamentalist Islamic movements; in other ways, it is rebelling with a counter movement of Western culture.  These two forces obviously don&#8217;t sit well together, but Malaysians sure as hell try to pretend that it still does and under the same flag of One Malaysia that it used to fly.</p>
<p>And of course it&#8217;s unhealthy for people to live with constant lies and fake smiles.  The fear of discovery weighs each person down and heartbreakingly, when challenged they can&#8217;t tell you why they do it either.  Maybe it&#8217;s best that way, for if they stop to think a moment about it, the fragile mask cracks and they are as bairns, naked to a wind they have never felt before.   Then they can either walk into the headwind, or fall back. </p>
<p>I continue to wonder and have no real answers.  I know every machine needs a little oil, and it&#8217;s not as if I haven&#8217;t smiled through gritted teeth at someone I dislike, but I would like to think that this is the last resort rather than the first.  I can guess that it is going through some teenage growing pains, trying to be something that it isn&#8217;t anymore.  It will be interesting to see what it grows up to be.</p>
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<p>* Mike Leigh&#8217;s film of the same name&#8230; <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/film-life-is-sweet-after-allsecrets-and-lies-mike-leigh-15-1348702.html">http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/film-life-is-sweet-after-allsecrets-and-lies-mike-leigh-15-1348702.html</a></p>
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