My Managed Chaos

Gardening with Petitti's

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 11 May 2015 20:57:00 +0000

Update: congrats to Stephanie...lucky #15

Petitti Garden Center is quite literally around the corner from me, making it an ideal location for gardening inspiration. Which is exactly what I was looking for on my last visit.

My daughter has recently taken to growing herbs from seed, so when I saw this vertical planter, I thought it would be the perfect solution for growing/displaying her herbs this summer.

So we gathered our supplies...a vertical planter, potting soil and a variety of herbs to add to those she already had started.

The planting process was actually quite simple...

Once the planter was filled with potting soil, we just had to cut a slit in the landscaping cloth that lined the planter and plant our herbs.

I love the rustic simplicity of our herb planter and we can't wait to enjoy fresh herbs throughout the summer.

Are you looking for inspiration for your summer gardening projects? Petitti's would like to help and have generously given me a $50 gift card to share with one lucky reader. It's good at any of their 9 retail garden centers in the Cleveland area. Here's how to enter:

1. Post a comment about your summer gardening project.
2. Tweet the following: I want to win a @Petittis $50 gift card from @Managed_Chaos! #Petitti: http://tinyurl.com/pj9tz64 (You can enter once per day but must leave a separate comment each time letting me know you did so in order to count)
3. Share this post on your Facebook page (Leave a comment letting me know you did so)

A random winner will be selected after the contest closes at 5 pm. on Friday, May 15.

DISCLOSURE: I was given a Petitti Garden Center gift card in exchange for this post/giveaway. I am a regular Petitti's shopper and all opinions are 100% my own.

Strong #LikeAGirl

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Tue, 03 Feb 2015 18:04:00 +0000

2014 was my year of being a Badass. It was a personal goal that I am proud to say that I met, more often than not, especially at my gym, Living Lean.

I've made great strides in my physical health over the last several years, most significantly in the last 6 months. I am stronger. Leaner. And more confident in my body.

Perhaps it's the extra workout sessions...or the fact that I am now a group fitness trainer at Living Lean, but I can definitely see the difference.

I feel Strong. Strong #LikeAGirl.

And that's what I want to continue striving for in 2015. To build strength...both in mind and body.

I invite you to join me in 2015...whether you can attend my classes at Living Lean on Tuesday and Thursday evenings (at 7:45 p.m.) or if you are making strides through your own fitness endeavors.

2015 will be a year of building strength.

Who's with me?

Game Day appetizers & Heinen's giveaway

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 12 Jan 2015 14:06:00 +0000

Updated: The lucky winner of the $50 Heinen's gift card is Jen V. Congrats!

The NFL playoffs are in full swing...and football fans everywhere are busy planning their game day festivities. Heinen's is sharing its favorite Game Day Recipes and asked that I share a few of mine. When I posed the question to my children, they both suggested recipes I have made from The Pioneer Woman's first cookbook...potato skins and BBQ Jalapeno Poppers. Both are easy to prepare and sure to be a favorite addition to your game day festivities.

Rub olive or canola oil on 8 potatoes and bake for 45-60 minutes at 400 degrees. While the potatoes are baking, cook the bacon, cool and chop into small pieces. When the potatoes are fork tender, cut them in half and use a melon baller, cookie scoop or spoon to remove the inner portion of the potato. Brush both sides of the potatoes with oil (I used an olive oil spray because it was easier), sprinkle with course ground salt and place on your baking sheet, skin side up. Return to the oven and bake 7 minutes on each side. Then top with shredded cheddar cheese and melt in the oven for 1-2 minutes.

Then comes the fun part...topping them. I garnished them with a dollop of sour cream, diced bacon and chopped green onions. YUM!

The BBQ Jalapeno Poppers are a little more time intensive, but one of my all time favorite appetizers.

Preheat oven to 275 degrees. Then get to work on the jalapenos...I wore rubber gloves to cut the jalapenos in half and scrape out the seeds with a spoon. Next, fill the jalapenos with a mixture of cream cheese, green onions and cheddar cheese. Wrap each jalapeno with a half slice of bacon and then brush with your favorite BBQ sauce. The original recipe suggests securing the bacon with a toothpick, but I omitted this step...and they still turned out well.

Pop the jalapenos in the oven for 1 hour, or until the bacon is sizzling.

Serve hot or at room temperature. And be prepared...these will go quickly on game day...you just might want to double or triple the batch if you're hosting a big party.

Giveaway for readers:

To help you with your own game day preparations, I have a $50 Heinen's gift card to giveaway to one lucky reader. To enter...just leave a comment with your favorite game day appetizer. Bonus entry: tweet about the giveaway (remember to tag @Managed_Chaos and use #Heinens), then leave a comment letting me know you tweeted. One comment and one tweet per person (two total possible entries). Winner will be randomly selected from comments on this post after 6 p.m. on Friday, January 16. Good luck!

Disclaimer: This post is part of Heinen’s Game Day Recipe campaign. I was given a gift card in exchange for a post about my favorite game day appetizer. I'm a regular Heinen's shopper and my thoughts are 100% my own.

Grillin' up veggies & a Heinen's giveaway

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 11 Aug 2014 00:29:00 +0000

Disclaimer: This post is part of Heinen’s #HeinensGrill campaign. I was given a gift card in exchange for a post about my favorite grilling recipes. I'm a regular Heinen's shopper and my thoughts are 100% my own.

Grilling is the quintessential part of summer. But grilling is so much more than hamburgers, hot dogs and brats.

Vegetables take on a whole new taste when fired up on the grill...and one of my favorite, non-traditional veggies to grill is avocados. When grilled, avocados soften and create a creamy, buttery flavor that is oh so good. I love to top it with one of my favorite summer salads...black bean and corn salad, with grilled corn and onions.

The cast of characters

This recipe is quick and simple (who doesn't like that in summer, right)...first step, heat up your grill. I use a propane fueled grill and turn my burners down to a medium heat while I prep the veggies:

1. Slice the ripe avocados in half and remove the pits

2. Drizzle olive oil over avocados, corn and onions.

That's it...see I told you it was easy. Then, place your veggies on the grill and let the magic begin...

The corn takes the longest, and you'll need to turn occasionally for about 10 minutes. The avocados and onions take about 4-5 minutes, with a quick turn in between. I started the avocados with the skin side down, grilling for 2-3 minutes until the skin changes color and starts separating a bit from the avocado. Turn and grill another 1-2 minutes until the avocados are softened with grill marks.

Remove from grill and top the grilled avocados with Black Bean & Corn Salad.

Black Bean & Corn Salad

1 can black beans, rinsed and drained

Corn (I cut corn off 2 grilled ears of corn, but you can substitute 1 can, rinsed/drained)

Tomatoes (I used about 1/2 cup diced cherry tomatoes)

2 tablespoons chopped fresh Cilantro

Grilled green onion, chopped (I used 3)

Dressing:

3 Tablespoons olive oil

Juice of 2 lemons

2 cloves garlic, minced

3/4 teaspoon cumin

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon pepper

Stir dressing and mix in with the salad.

There will be plenty of salad left after topping your avocados...but don't worry, it makes a refreshing side salad and tastes just as good the next day as leftovers.

Giveaway for readers:

To help you with your own summer grilling, Heinen's has offered a tote full of grilling supplies for one lucky reader. You'll need to be near a Heinen's store as you will pick up your prize at your local Heinen's. To enter...just leave a comment with your favorite thing to grill OR tweet your favorite thing to grill...just remember to use #HeinensGrill and tag me... @Managed_Chaos. One entry per person.

Winner will be picked after 6 p.m on Sunday, August 17.

Uncovering gratitude

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Thu, 22 May 2014 10:00:00 +0000

Lately, I've felt stretched thin...with so many responsibilities on my plate. Work. Parenting. Wife. Chef. Homeowner. Referee. Teacher. Therapist.

And I've found myself wishing I could escape the reality that is my life, at least for a few days.

It's not that I don't love my life. But I just feel an overwhelming desire to focus on me for more than an hour at a time when I workout.

When I saw my friend Britt's recent post about not feeling like enough, it resonated with me and I realized I needed to change my perspective.

I am blessed. Beyond measure. And I am grateful (beneath everything that has been burying my gratitude).

So that's why I've finally decided to take the leap...and tackle gratitude journaling.

It's a concept that isn't new, and Britt (and even Oprah) have been touting it for years. But I've always brushed it off as one of this kitschy ideas, thinking I know what is good in my life and can be thankful for what I have without having to write it down.

But I haven't been. And I want to change that.

My gratitude journaling will be a personal thing for me, with a gratitude jar tucked away in a private location just for me.

And I can't wait to see what blessings reveal themselves as I actively look for them.

Photo sourced via Pinterest

Update: My year of being a Badass

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 05 May 2014 10:00:00 +0000

I've coined 2014 as my year of being a badass and many people have been checking in to see how I've been faring with this goal. Admittedly, I've had my ups and downs this year. Some days I'll feel strong at the gym and take pride when my trainers jokingly call me "badass" and push me to work harder. But other days I lose that confidence when I don't make consistently good food choices or struggle with laziness and lack of motivation.

But I'm human...and those roller coaster emotions, even if it's just in my own mind, is OK. It's part of making me who I am today.

When I look back at my progress, I can't help but feel proud of my slow, but steady steps in the right direction. I've been hesitant to share that progress (mainly out of modesty), knowing that I can camouflage my trouble areas with my clothing choices or camera angles. But today, I'm taking the plunge...in hopes that I can help inspire others who might struggling with their own body image issues.

My "before" photo is me at my heaviest (about 2 years ago). Compared to my "in progress" photo this month...a leaner, stronger me.

I know my path to feeling like a "badass" will be long and winding. And I won't always feel confident about where I am each day. But I'm confident that I'll get there, one step at a time.

Speaking of steps in the right direction, this past week, I achieved one of my long-term goals...completing an unassisted pull-up.

It was just one rep...but man I was SO proud to have FINALLY marked this one off my goal list.

Now, I'm thinking I want to work up to doing 3 in a row...

Saying goodbye...

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 07 Apr 2014 10:00:00 +0000

My Grandpa passed away peacefully yesterday morning with my mom and uncle by his side. He was 97.

I take tremendous comfort in knowing that he's reuniting in heaven with Grandma and enjoying
17 kisses with his beloved wife, who he shared 67 blessed years with.

Grandma and Grandpa on their wedding day

Grandpa was like our own energizer bunny, rebounding from illnesses and health issues for years. But before then, he was full of energy, working on his own farm well into his 70s.

He was the strong, quite type (perhaps because he had a hard time getting a word in edgewise with Grandma, who loved to talk ;). Even though he was a man of few words, we all knew that...

He loved the Lord.

He loved Grandma.

And he loved his family....

(not to mention dry roasted peanuts and making homemade applesauce, which he asked to make even in his last days).

Grandpa will always have a special place in my heart, not only because of the man he was, but also because he shared a special birthday trifecta with my Daddy and son.

We'll miss you Grandpa...give Grandma a kiss for me ;)

Show us your...Paintings

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Fri, 04 Apr 2014 14:00:00 +0000

Art has been an off and on part of my life since high school. Thanks to a gifted art teacher, Mr. Lowe, art was one of my favorite subjects. I loved the creative assignments he'd challenge us with, including this one watercolor that was inspired by my volleyball trip to China (as part of an international sports exchange team).

I dabbled in painting in college, enough so to earn an Art minor. This is one of my favorite oil paintings from that time...the oriental rug took me forever to get just right.

But then real life took over. Work. Marriage. Kids. And my desire to paint went by the wayside.

Through the years, I've been inspired by my children to break out my paintbrushes now and again to create something for them.

Recently, I've added one more piece to my art collection. This one crafted during a wine and canvas event with friends. While I would have painted it much differently if I were doing it on my own time, it was a fun experience and proved that my enjoyment of painting is still flourishing.

Here's hoping that 2014 is the year that I continue to add to my own art collection.

This post was inspired by my mastermind group of friends Naomi, Anne and Jenny, who are all blogging today about the theme "Show us your..."

Heinen's Sunday Supper

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Tue, 01 Apr 2014 01:04:00 +0000

Disclaimer: This post is part of Heinen’s #HeinensSundaySupper campaign. I was given a gift card in exchange for sharing what Sunday Suppers mean to me. I am a regular Heinen's shopper and all thoughts 100% my own.

Growing up, we always had suppers together (yes, we called it supper, not dinner like my children are used to calling it these days). It wasn't fancy, and more often than not it was of the "meat and potato" variety (thanks to my grandpa raising his own cattle and us growing our own vegetables.) But we were together and that's all that mattered.

Today, our family situation does not allow for nightly dinners together. But we are able to enjoy meals together on the weekend and that's why I try to put a little more effort into planning and preparing meals or trying new recipes we can enjoy with our dinner conversation. I recently discovered a spicy shrimp & eggplant dish and it has quickly become one of our favorites. It's not a quick dish by any means, so I tend to only make this on the weekend, when I'm not rushed to get a meal quickly on the table after work. But, man oh man, the flavors are well worth my time in the kitchen.

Step 1: Prepping the eggplant

Peel and slice 2 eggplant into 1/2 slices. Lay on a cutting board and sprinkle generously with salt. Rest for 5-10 minutes, flip over eggplant slices and repeat on the other side. Don't skip this step...it helps the eggplant release some of the bitter taste it normally has. Once you've finished, rinse with water and pat dry.

See all that beading up of liquid on the eggplant...that's from the salt. It's a good thing.

Step 2: The sauce (aka, finger licking, son wants me to make this all the time, tastes so good sauce)

Saute 1 small diced onion, 4 cloves minced garlic, 2 bay leaves and 1 1/2 tablespoons Creole seasoning in 2 teaspoons oil until onions are tender.

Then add in 1 1/2 cups water, 3 tablespoons lemon juice, 3 ounces Worcestershire sauce, 2 tablespoons white wine and simmer on low until it reduces by half. Then add in 4-5 ounces heavy whipping cream and 3-4 tablespoons butter (it's Sunday Supper, so it's worth the splurge). Sprinkle a little corn starch in (about 1/2 - 1 teaspoon) and whisk together to help thicken it into a gravy consistency.

Step 3: Breaded eggplant

While the sauce is simmering, you can start breading the eggplant. I filled a shallow dish with panko, grated Parmesan cheese and mixed it with a sprinkling of Creole seasoning and pepper. Sorry, I don't have exact measurements, I just eyeball it until it looks right...I take after my mother that way ;)

Next, dip the eggplant slices in an egg wash (I used 3 eggs), then dredge the egg-covered eggplant it in the panko mixture. Once breaded, fry the eggplant in a saute pan with hot oil (I used olive oil) for 1-2 minutes per side or until golden brown. I kept the eggplant warm while I finished the remaining batches by placing the cooked eggplant on a warm baking tray in a 250 degree oven.

Step 4: The shrimp

Saute 1 pound of fresh (or thawed) shrimp for 1-2 minutes and then stir into the prepared sauce. Heinen's seafood is definitely top notch so I opted for the fresh shrimp.

Step 5: The waiting is over

Grab a plate of breaded eggplant and cover it with the shrimp / sauce. Then try not to inhale this too quickly.

This dish is so good it's completely devoured by 3 of our 4 family members in minutes (please tell me I'm not the the only one that struggles with pleasing everyone with menu planning?)

After I'm done licking my fingers, I'm left with a counter full of dishes....but man, is it worth the effort.

So, what is your favorite thing to make for Sunday Supper?

My top 10 go-to CLE tweeps

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Fri, 21 Mar 2014 15:29:00 +0000

With this week's launch of Positively Cleveland's #ThisisCLE branding campaign, I thought it might be fun to share some of my favorite CLE folks on Twitter:

1. @lzone - A fellow PR pro, Lisa's humor comes shining through in her tweets. She's my go to source for #lzonesportstweets, marketing/PR articles and all things cardigans.

2. @kakaty - Kate is a great resource for family-friendly events and venues in CLE. Plus, she's a pretty cool chick that I'm proud to call my friend.

3. @whycle - If you want to know what's going on in CLE, there's no better source than Jen. She seems to have her finger on the pulse of Cleveland's cultural, food, fashion and non-profit scene.

4/5. @michellev & @chefswidow - Michelle and Amelia are my top choices for any foodie related recommendation in CLE. Plus, they're pretty awesome independent business women and mothers...total badasses in my book.

6. @betsykling - I hate the drama created by most TV meteorologists, but Betsy has earned a place in my heart with her no nonsense approach to weather reporting. And she's engaging on Twitter, which is a huge plus in my book (and her on-air shout out to me was pretty cool too).

7. @janetcho - Speaking of engaging, Janet is a great example of how reporters should engage their readers via social media. Plus, she's a pretty impressive journalist to boot.

8. @clevelandsaplum - Alexa is one of the first bloggers I started following in CLE. I love living vicariously through her social adventures at all of Cleveland's coolest hot spots...and her watching her prep for her upcoming wedding.

9. @allisonpeltz - Allison's non-stop energy is infectious. I love following her latest adventures in fitness (running, crossfit, etc.) and can always count on her for fantastic fashion finds/recommendations.

10. @markzinni - Mark is one of my favorite CLE television personalities. Not only is he a great anchor and reporter, his self-deprecating humor is endearing. Plus, he's not afraid to use #jazzhands every now and then. He's a true #superstar in my book.

So, who made your list? I'd love to hear your recommendations for great Twitter follows.

Love exemplified...

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Sun, 16 Mar 2014 13:24:00 +0000

It's wonderful to see loving marriages that stand the test of time and today, as my parents celebrate their 40th anniversary today, I am proud to say that my parents are one of those couples.

Growing up, my sisters and I never questioned whether our parents loved each other. It was evident in everything they did.

Simple Expressions of Love

Not one meal went by that Daddy didn't give Mom a kiss as he left the table. This is one of the most vivid and cherished childhood memories I have of their marriage.

Loving Patience

They never raised their voices at each other (at least in the presence of their children). This loving patience is something I strive for in my own relationships.

Sacrifices

Our parents have always been willing to sacrifice for the family, even if it meant that they had to be apart. They made sure that there was always one parent at each of our sports games or activities, even when Daddy had a job 1.5 hours away from home. With four daughters, this was a significant commitment, But never once did we hear them utter one word of complaint.

Unfailing Love

Like the vows they took, their love has endured during good times and bad. Daddy has always been was Mom’s biggest supporter. He was been there to comfort her, pray with her and always make sure she was taken care of. He has always been her pillar of strength and I love you for that Daddy.

Mom and Daddy, as you celebrate this wonderful occasion, I hope you know that the love you have and the committed, God-fearing marriage you've led are admired by all your family. I love you both forever!

Pinned It. Done That: Easter Peeps Centerpiece

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 10 Mar 2014 10:00:00 +0000

If you're like me (and every other Midwesterner), you are desperately looking for any sign of Spring. While Mother Nature is not really pulling her part so far, I thought I'd take the first step in bringing a few pops of Spring color to our home.

I made this Easter Peeps Centerpiece last year and it was super easy and super quick. Since I already had the two square glass containers and the Gerber Daisies from last year's project, all I needed was a quick trip to Target for the Peep bunnies and jelly beans and I was set.

The cast of characters:

Step 1: Center the smaller glass vase inside the larger vase, then pour the jelly beans in the space between the two vases, until it's about halfway full.

Step 2: With an even layer of jelly beans as your base, place the Peep bunnies along the outer edge of the vase on each side.

Step 3: Now it's time for the flowers. I used artificial flowers, but you could easily use real ones. I started by placing the flowers in the inside vase and then filling in the spaces along the outer edges of the vase until I had an arrangement I liked. There's no right or wrong to this process...just keep rearranging the flowers until they make you smile.

Voila. A fresh pop of springtime color...now if only the weather would ever decide to warm up, we'd be in business.

Pinned It. Done That: Gelous Nails

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 24 Feb 2014 11:00:00 +0000

Continuing in my quest for trying new things, I decided to tackle an intriguing nail pin...one that promised a long-lasting gel look that lasted up to a week. I love the look of manicured nails, but they never seem to last that long for me, regardless of whether I do them myself or get a professional manicure. I've even tried my hand at the shellac manicures, and while they typically last up to 2 weeks, it can get a bit costly. So I set out to see if this Gelous Nail pin was as good as it looked.

Day 1: The cast of characters.

A bright shade of polish (any color, any brand), clear top coat and Gelous Nail Gel Coat. I found the Gelous at my local Sally Beauty Supply store for less than $6.

The process:

Apply a thin layer of polish, letting each layer dry for a minute or so between coats.

Coat 1 - Gelous

Coat 2 - Nail color

Coat 3 - Gelous

Coat 4 - Nail color

Coat 5 - Top coat

Coat 6 - Gelous

Let thoroughly dry.This took a while, but the finished product was a shiny, strong look.

Day 3: Chip-free manicure...I'm impressed (and yes, this is a non-traditional shot from my stopped car...I'm definitely not a beauty blogger, but a proud GM family member through and through.)

Day 5: First sign of chipping (yes, I know my cuticles look awful...I blame the winter...or just laziness. Does anyone want to gift me with a professional manicure? ;)

Day 6: Still going strong with only minor chipping.

Day 7: The love story comes to an end...chipping has started to become much more evident.

The verdict:

Call me impressed. I went in expecting chips by day 2 or 3, but was wowed that this at home manicure lasted for a week before the chipping became prominent. I will definitely be adding this to my beauty arsenal.

Pinned It. Done That: Words on Canvas

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Tue, 18 Feb 2014 02:41:00 +0000

I've fallen in and out of love with Pinterest for more than a year now. Over the course of time, I, along with the help of my daughter, have pinned thousands of ideas. But that's as far as many of the inspirations have gone. With a self-imposed goal of bringing more creativity to my life in 2014, I've found myself turning to my Pinterest boards for inspiration (I mean seriously, those thousands of Pins aren't doing anyone any good just sitting there ;)

One words on canvas concept pinned by my new friend, Jenny, caught my attention. It looked like a simple concept for me to launch my new "Pinned That. Done That" series, so I set out to Michael's to gather the supplies to recreate it.

My original intent was to mimic the Love theme/design in the pin, but I wasn't able to find the letters I needed. But I did find several other words that had meaning to me, so I took this "new" concept and ran with it.

Step 1: Arrange the wooden letters/words in a visually appealing layout on a plain white canvas (for those of you wondering, the MLW2 is derived from the fact that my husband and I share the same initials).

Step 2: Attach the letters to the canvas. I used a leftover can of spray adhesive from another project, but hot glue would have worked just as well.

Step 3: Once the adhesive had dried (about 30 minutes), it's time to paint. I used a white spray paint but you can easily use a white acrylic paint applied with a paintbrush, it will just take a little longer to paint. I ended up having to go back for another can of spray paint to apply a second full coat.

Step 4: Figure out where to hang your masterpiece as the paint dries. I decided to hang this in our guest bathroom and opted to hand paint a charcoal colored border along the outside edge of the canvas, to give it a little extra pop against the wall.

Step 5: Admire your craftiness...and move this Pin to your "Pinned That. Done That" board.

My Reverse Bucket List

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 10 Feb 2014 00:50:00 +0000

Confession...I've never had a bucket list.

I'm not sure why, really, but I've never felt the strong desire to put one together. But when I saw a post about a reverse bucket list, it made me pause. What an intriguing concept. Taking time to reflect on the great things I've already done...already accomplished...or already experienced.

So this past week, I set out with my notebook in hand and starting jotting down items for my own reverse bucket list. As I reflect back on my nearly 41 years, I can say that I have:

Traveled to Hawaii 4 times (it's one of my husband's and my favorite places on Earth)
Played in two State Championship volleyball games. And won once.
Played volleyball on 3 continents (including 2 international sports exchange trips to China, New Zealand & Australia when I was in high school)
Endured 2 natural childbirths (with the aid of epidurals)
Sat in 4th row of the Glamour Women of the Year ceremony (and was THIS close to Oprah, Julia Roberts, Katie Couric, Fergie and so many more celebrities)
Booked a Today show segment (before my guest abruptly decided he wouldn't travel to New York after all)
Earned a PRSA Silver Anvil (it's like winning an Oscar in the public relations industry)
Visited Disney for the first time in my 30s
Run in more 5K races than I have ever wanted to
Received unsolicited tweets from Jillian Michaels and Ree Drummond (aka The Pioneer Woman).
Earned the right to go the Ohio State Fair in 4-H (thank goodness there is no photographic evidence of the hot pink jumpsuit I sewed).
Graduated college with honors
Paid off my student loans in 1 year
Swam with dolphins (until I started hyperventilating with the snorkel mask)
Climbed a spiral staircase to the top of the Statue of Liberty's torch (it was here that I first discovered my fear of extreme heights)
Led a marketing seminar
White water rafted with my Daddy and sisters
Coached my daughter in volleyball
Loved my children and husband with all my heart

My life...it is good.

2014: My year of being a Badass

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 27 Jan 2014 14:44:00 +0000

"What words define the life I want to lead in 2014?"

This was one of the many challenges posed to me by Naomi and her new EGADS program.

For me, it was relatively easy to define...I want my year to be filled with calm, connections, joy and creativity. And, if I had to pick a single word to define my year, I want to feel like a Badass.

Yes, I said Badass (sorry Daddy ;). I, Michelle, want to think of myself as true Badass.

As I've shared this with people, I've found that the connotation of Badass is vastly different for people. Webster defines it as: Of formidable strength or skill while the Urban Dictionary provides a more modern definition: Ultra-cool mother-effer.

When I told my husband, his immediate reaction was, “No. You're definitely not a badass." For him, the connotation is most definitely a negative one...basically someone who is a real jerk, arrogant and has a sense of reckless abandon. Definitely not a word he’d associate with me.

But that's not what the word means to me.

For me, it’s really the feeling of extreme confidence in one’s self. A sense of feeling strong, and empowered, combined with a sense of calm confidence, knowing I’ve got my stuff all together.

My friend Cathy pushes me to be stronger- photo by my friend/trainer Jen

This year, I want to:

Have 100% confidence and pride in my body
Wear form fitting clothes (many of which have been hiding in my closet, long abandoned due to my gradual weight gain.) and remember that no food tastes as good as a lean body feels.
Rock a bikini...yes, this nearly 41 year old mom will have lost the layers of flab and proudly be sporting the muscles I’ve worked hard to build (and I'm well on my way ;)
Eat clean (for the most part) but don't beat myself up when I indulge.
Not feel guilty for focusing on me...whether it's making time to exercise, focusing on setting my goals for the week, watching a movie or creating something
Connect with friends and family on a very regular basis

In a nutshell, I want 2014 to be the year that I become a total and complete BADASS...in every positive sense of the word.

So, what word defines your year?

EGADS: Finding my long-lost motivation

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:00:00 +0000

I met my dear friend Naomi just days before she was moving her family from our shared hometown to India. While our timing wasn't ideal, we didn't let the huge distance keep us from building our new friendship. Thanks to countless emails, tweets and private messages we discovered we shared many life experiences and struggles (including having husbands who work long distances from home) and today I consider Naomi and myself kindred souls.

When Naomi reached out to me asking if I'd be her guinea pig for her new venture EGADS (Experiencing Gamechanging Adventure & Daring Solution), I was all in.

It was actually the perfect opportunity for me. I was in a life rut...running on the dreaded hamster wheel of life without knowing how to make any changes. I knew I wanted a better direction, but was lacking the energy, confidence or motivation to change.

After sharing my struggles and a glimpse into my daily life, we started diving into the way I approached life. This was one of my problems...I hadn't really consciously been thinking about things too deeply. I was just complacent to let life pass me by and react to it. I wasn't being proactive or taking charge of my life and pursuing what makes me happy.

Each weekday brought a new EGADS challenge or motivational check-in...some of which really scared me because I didn't know how to immediately reply. For example, have you ever tried to create your own personal elevator speech (outside of your work life)? It's not easy. My initial response was:

"I am a PR pro by day…and full-time mom and wife striving to find happiness and a sense of creative balance in all that I do."

Naomi pushed me to think deeper...

"Take out the wife / mom and job description. What would you say then?"

See what I mean? It's not as easy as it would seem...

Naomi also pushed me to "Dream Big" and establish goals for the week, month, year and five years. And because I was on a mission to improve my body as well, she encouraged me to set up weekly menu plans. Makes perfect sense, but being able to put a complete menu plan together somehow took me weeks to achieve. I'm proud to say I've finally mastered the habit and it makes things SO much easier.

For most of my adult life, I've always felt that I needed to strive for the perfect balance between being a mom, wife and professional. And I was always falling short. But Naomi helped me realize that Balance is a Myth! It's much more important to pursue what you're passionate about...what brings you joy. And for me, those things are connections and creativity.

So don't be surprised if I'm reaching out to you more this year...setting up more GNO's, sending more gratitude notes, calling you more...because that brings joy to my soul.

And I'm striving to create more, whether it's through blogging, painting, creating organized spaces in my home or tackling the thousands of pins I've pinned on Pinterest.

2014 is my year. It will be filled with Connection...Creativity...Calm...Joy and a general feeling of being a Badass (in the positive sense of the word ;)

I'm excited to share that Naomi is officially launching EGADS today. She's not as fluffy as a life coach, not as meddling as your mother and definitely cheaper than a therapist. I encourage you to take the leap with her and see how she can help you instill motivation in your life and get you on the path to a future you've always dreamed of.

12 years

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Thu, 09 Jan 2014 11:00:00 +0000

Today, my baby girl turns 12...

This past year, I've watched you blossom into a confident, fun-loving, unique young lady...who loves all things related to shopping, makeup, Starbucks and FUN.

Your personality is infectious and you never shy away from having fun, even in the simplest forms.

Your beauty is growing exponentially, on the inside and out...and I'm so, so, so very proud to be your mom.

Love you forever,

Mom

Celebrating 20 years

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Wed, 26 Jun 2013 11:00:00 +0000

Today I promised to love you from this day forward...

For better or for worse...

For richer or poorer...

In sickness and in health...

To love and cherish you until death do us part.

Today, 20 years later, I am still hopelessly in love with you Mike, my best friend.

We have been blessed with two awesome children...

And a life that is full of commitment, dedication and a love that is steadfast...

Mike, you make my heart smile every day...and I can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together.

40 is the new 30 (or so I'm told)

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 04 Mar 2013 16:19:00 +0000

Today I turn 40.

Many people I've talked to about my approaching birthday can't believe I'm really "that old." (I guess I have my Mom's wonderful genes to thank for that.)

But it's hard for me to believe that I'm really 40. Not in the sense that I've dreaded turning 40, because I haven't...it's just a number to me. What is hard for me to put my brain around is the fact I'm already at this milestone and I still don't really feel like a 40-year-old woman. I know that I've long since passed my teenage years, but how is it possible that I'm an adult that is approaching her 20th wedding anniversary and my oldest son is nearing 15 (and will be driving soon)?

Am I the only one that struggles with really feeling like a "grown up?"

With the coming of my 40th birthday, many have asked how I've fared with my 40x40 Challenge. Well, I've accomplished many things...

Consult on a Public Relations project (thrilled to be working with Sonali and her team at Goldfish Swim School)

Eat at Hodge's (amazing...need to eat here more often)
Visit the West Side Market. (thanks to my dear friend Kate for going with me)

Take time to read more books.
Mail cards or letter to people who have meant something to me in my lifetime. (a huge blessing)
Have a picnic on the shores of Lake Erie. (one of my earliest challenge accomplishments)

Eat vegetarian for a week. (surprisingly not as difficult as I anticipated)
Organize monthly dinners with my sisters. (Love. Love. Love spending time with my family.)
Stay with my 96 year old grandfather for a weekend
Visit the new Cleveland Aquarium.

Get a deep-tissue massage.
Buy my first pair of Frye boots.

Go more green in our house. (recycling bins have been in place for a few months now)
Do 25 consecutive full-body (boy-style) pushups. (not as hard as I expected thanks to my workouts at Living Lean)
Meet Ree Drummond (The Pioneer Woman)... If nothing else, I'd love for her to befriend me on Twitter (OK, I didn't technically meet her, but she tweeted me...and I am planning on meeting her in 2013 when she comes to Ohio for her holiday cookbook tour)

Build something with my son.
Complete a Living Lean workout without feeling out of breath at the end.
Clean up my Google Reader so it only includes that blogs I love to read daily.
Take a day off to spend by myself, doing anything my heart desires. (Solo shopping trips and a massage does a heart good)

And others are in progress, but not totally complete...

Bring volleyball back into my life.
Paint.
Host and/or organize a fashion swap (a spring swap is in the works with Amelia)
Make every flavor in Jeni's ice cream cookbook. (I don't think I realized there were more than 100 recipes in her book, but man, oh man, are they good. We've probably made around 20-25.)
Go out for drinks, Mexican food & dancing with my husband (we've had dinner and drinks...still need to work on the dancing)
Purge the un-needed clutter in my life. (Can this ever be complete? But I've made great steps so far)
Plan our 20th anniversary trip. (We know where and when, just need to make the arrangements)
Volunteer with a local charity. (Volunteered at a food bank during a holiday visit to Michigan, but nothing local yet)
Watch classic movies. (I can now say I've watched Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's Day Off and Shawshank Redemption...I still feel like a movie illiterate though)
Fit in my wedding dress. (Can zip it up to my bra line...guess I'm broader up top)
Make a photo book from our family trip to Hawaii
Kick negative habits to the curb (ie, eating when I'm bored and worrying over unnecessary things) (There are days I think I've tackled this and then there are others where I know I have not)

And a handful haven't even been tackled yet...

Zip-lining.
Run 1 mile without stopping.
Visit my friend in Chicago.
Enjoy a day of shopping with girlfriends. (sadly my annual shopping trip to Easton with my college girlfriends wasn't scheduled...anyone up for a day of shopping?)
Own an iPhone
Organize a blogger event for a friend's business.
Give yoga another try.
Spend a day alone with each of my children.
Donate blood.

Looks like I still have a lot to tackle in my 40th year...stay tuned!

Cards of thanks

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 15:46:00 +0000

While diligently working on my 40 x 40 Challenge I've discovered one "challenge" that has proven to be an unexpected blessing:

11. Mail 40 cards/letters to people who have meant something to me in my lifetime.

When I added this to my list (at the recommendation of my dear friend), I thought it would be a nice way to brighten the day of people I care for. And based on some of the comments I've received back, it definitely has:

-- Just went through mail & now I'm weeping. Thank you, my dear friend, for making my day. I love you!!!!!

-- Thanks you SO much for your card!! Really needed that! Ur an angel!!!

-- Thank you so much for the card. It touched our hearts!!!!! We love you sooooooooooooooooo much.

-- I just received the sweetest note - it's for sure frame-worthy.

-- Thank you so much for the card. I had a rough day yesterday and it truly hit the spot! Such a great thing you are doing. Lots of love!

But what I wasn't counting on was the blessing that it has been for me.

Have you ever sat down, and really tried to capture the essence of why you love someone? Or try to express what you value about a friendship...what you admire about a person...or why they mean so much to you?

In writing my cards of thanks, I've experienced joyful tears and a happy heart, as I focused on the love and appreciation I have for my friends and family. While expressions of appreciation are often overlooked in the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it is SO important.

Writing these cards of thanks have been my most treasured accomplishment from my challenge. And one I encourage you to try in your own life.

Is your kid a Noodlekid?

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 14:49:00 +0000

It's no secret that I am a huge fan of Chef Jonathon Sawyer, his wife Amelia and their two kiddos (affectionately known as Team Sawyer). Jon and Amelia are committed to leaving the world a better place for their kids, and they are passionate about green living and the farm to table food approach they bring to their two Cleveland restaurants...The Greenhouse Tavern and Noodlecat.

Noodlecat is one of my favorite CLE destinations and I've been known to walk blocks upon blocks in heels for the chance to try their Spicy Octopus Stir Fry Udon (it was amazing, out of this world good).

And my family absolutely devoured the Noodlecat dishes I've brought home from my visits to the West Side Market (a second Noodlecat location opened at WSM in 2012).

So I was excited to learn about their next #Noodlekids event on Feb. 23 from 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. I mean seriously, amazing noodles, lunch with Team Sawyer...what's not to love?

Win a family 4-pack of tickets
Wanna join me at this slurpilicious Noodlecat event? Simply leave a comment telling me your favorite Noodlecat dish (or one that you want to try).

Get an extra entry by tweeting the following: "I just entered to win tickets to @Noodlecat's #noodlekids event on 2/23 from @Managed_Chaos. Enter at http://tinyurl.com/9wek547" Just leave a separate comment letting me know you tweeted.

But don't delay...the contest deadline is Wednesday, Feb. 20 at 6 p.m. A winner will be chosen using random.org from all the comments on this post.

See ya at the Cat!

[UPDATE: Congratulations to Tracy W. aka Ma who is my lucky winner...check your email for details.]

Disclosure: I received tickets to the #Noodlekids event but I was not compensated for this post. My love for Team Sawyer are 100% my own.

Blogging like it’s 2009

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Thu, 24 Jan 2013 17:48:00 +0000

Does anyone remember old school blogging (when we used to share details about our life and build honest, true relationships)? Well, this week I’ve been inspired by the lovely Elaine and Maria who are bringing old school blogging back in vogue. Here’s my take at their 48 Questions:

1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?

Not that I’m aware of (unless my mom was inspired by the song Michelle my Bell). I believe I would have been named Richard if I were a girl.

2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED?

At the gym earlier this month, when a back injury kept me from working out. Crazy, right.?

3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?

Only when I deliberately take my time. I fear I’ll never have gorgeous handwriting like my mom though.

4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?

Generally not a fan of lunch meat. But if pressed for an answer, I’d say Turkey off the Bone, sliced regular.

5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS?

Yes, two. And they keep venturing closer and closer to adulthood. #stopit

6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?

Despite the fact that a boy told me I was cold hearted in high school, I think I’m a really good friend.

7. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT?

Is snarky the same thing? I didn’t think so.

8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS?

Indeed. My sister, Shari, on the other hand was pampered with all you can eat ice cream way back in the day when she had hers removed.

9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?

Never. As my high school friends can attest (they bungeed without me during an international volleyball sports exchange trip). Call me chicken. But I’m not stupid.

10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL?

Does it make me a food snob if I admit to not digging cereal either? Growing up, it was Grape Nuts.

11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?

Not usually.

12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG?

Physically…you better believe it (thanks to my Living Lean trainers). Emotionally…well, it depends on the day.

13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM?

If you know me, you know that Jeni’s Ice Creams (whether made by Jeni or my husband using her cookbook) are my favorite…especially the Maple with Buttered Salted Nuts. Heaven on a spoon!

14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?

Eye contact.

15. RED OR PINK?

Red. Red. Red.

16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF?

I was never a fan of my nose, until I realized I had my Grandma’s nose. Now, I’m more concerned with how her pension for anxiety has crept into my life.

17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST?

Man, this is a hard one to define. I miss my Grandma fiercely. And my college roommate…and my vivacious friend who moved to Chicago last year.

18. WHAT IS THE TECHNIQUE THAT YOU NEED TO WORK ON THE MOST?

Being more present in the moment.

19. WHAT COLOR SHOES ARE YOU WEARING?

Cognac Frye Melissa boots. Yes, those Frye boots.

20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?

Leftover hummus and hot sauce from Aladdin’s.

21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?

A 90s station on Spotify…Baby One More Time by Britney Spears

22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE?

Umm, what a random question…my favorite color is red, but I’ve been told royal blue is a great color for me too.

23. FAVORITE SMELLS?

Popcorn. Vanilla. Newborn babies.

24. HOW IMPORTANT ARE YOUR POLITICAL VIEWS TO YOU?

Not nearly as important as others.

25. MOUNTAIN HIDEAWAY OR BEACH HOUSE?

Beach house. No question.

26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?

Volleyball. Sand…indoor, it doesn’t matter. If I see a VB match on TV, I’m watching it.

27. HAIR COLOR?

All natural blonde. Seriously (with a few hints of natural white hair mixed in for good measure)

28. EYE COLOR?

Aqua.

29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS?

Since freshman year in high school. But I’m too chicken to pursue Lasik.

30. FAVORITE FOOD?

Depends on my mood…I love Mexican (enchiladas and guacamole)…Pad Thai…and just about any flavor of Jeni’s.

31. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS?

Is this even a serious question? Happy endings of course.

32. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?

Well, since I haven’t seen jack squat when it comes to famous/iconic movies (just ask my husband), I’m left to rely on modern ones…Lincoln was the last one I’ve seen in theatre.

33. WHAT COLOR SHIRT ARE YOU WEARING?

Raspberry with navy stripes.

34. SUMMER OR WINTER?

Summer. Is it summer yet?

35. FAVORITE DESSERT?

The Greenhouse Tavern’s Buttered Popcorn Pot de Crème. Amazeballs. (And I will be attempting to replicate this at home…it’s that good.)

36. STRENGTH TRAINING OR CARDIO?

Give me a dumbbell over a treadmill any day.

37. COMPUTER OR TELEVISION?

Since I can watch TV shows online, I’d pick a computer.

38. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING NOW?

Let’s call them of the romance variety.

39. WHAT IS ON YOUR MOUSE PAD?

Dell.

40. FAVORITE SOUND?

I can never get enough of my children’s laughter.

41. FAVORITE GENRE OF MUSIC?

Pop.

42. WHAT IS THE FARTHEST YOU HAVE BEEN FROM HOME?

New Zealand.

43. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT?

I do love event planning. And I’m in the midst of rekindling my love of painting.

44. WHERE WERE YOU BORN?

Ohio

45. WHERE ARE YOU LIVING NOW?

Ohio

46. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR HOUSE?

Classic white with hunter green shutters

47. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR CAR?

A Red Chevy Volt…affectionately known as ’Lil Red

48. DO YOU LIKE ANSWERING 48 QUESTIONS?

Indeed...now who’s next?

Makeover at Saks

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Sun, 20 Jan 2013 21:41:00 +0000

Last year, I was blown away to win a #TourDeBeauty from Alexa. The prize…an evening at Saks complete with a master makeup class for me and a few of my friends.

While I try to put my best face forward, I really am a low-maintenance kind of gal. My makeup regime admittedly leans more towards drugstore makeup versus the upscale likes of Saks’ Dior, Chanel, or Guerlain (which is owned in part by Louis Vuitton). What can I say, I’m a simple country girl at heart.

Last week, I gathered a few of my closest friends and met at Saks for a much needed GNO. After a quick glass of bubbly, I was voted to be the first to go. Our vibrant makeup consultant, Elle, shared many tricks of the trade throughout the evening and managed to find the perfect foundation match for my pale porcelain skin, Guerlain’s Lingerie de Peau #1

Elle showed us new techniques and Guerlain products for each makeover (our favorite was “The 3” where she applied bronzer with a large brush in the shape of a backwards 3 along the side of our face). It was cool to see the transformations on each of my friends.

However, for me, their beauty was only enhanced, as they are already stunning (inside and out).

We had a fabulous, albeit long, night at Saks (we were there until the store closed). I’m so glad I could share this fun experience with such wonderful women.

P.S. We missed you Jen and Shari.Here’s hoping for another GNO soon…really soon.

My love for The Pioneer Woman

noreply@blogger.com (Managed Chaos) — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 17:13:00 +0000

While the big news for many on the east coast might be Hurricane Sandy (aka Frankenstorm), for me it was something entirely different.

The Pioneer Woman responded to little 'ole me on Twitter!!!!

SQUEE!!!

For those of you who know me, or who have been following along on my 40 x 40 Challenge, you know that I adore me some Ree. So much so, that I added meeting her to my bucket list of things to experience before my 40th birthday (not to mention owning a pair of Frye boots she's helped me come to love).

While a meeting will not likely happen before my birthday next March, her tweet that she'd be coming to Ohio to promote her holiday cookbook next year was exciting. Yes, my home state of Ohio. And a holiday cookbook...I can only imagine the yummy deliciousness. Count. Me. In.