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The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 00:14:00 PDT

It's true to say that many younger men, on reaching the age in their lives when pubescence has taken control of their lateral thinking, find themselves fantasizing about older females, often twice their own age and upwards. For example, it's quite common for a young man, still at school age, testosterone flying everywhere, to have the 'hots' for one or more of his female teachers, a neighbor's wife or even a pal's mother.

The consensus of opinion reached by many is that the attraction by a young male to a more mature woman is based on the fact that not only does she have experience.. but a working knowledge of the male anatomy, and a sexual prowess not to be discovered so easily in a younger woman his own age.

Although there are exceptions to the rule, in the majority of cases, his secret lusting remains just that, and goes unnoticed by the older female who still regards him as a young student or friend of her son.

Howerever, as the young male grows older, and gains his own level of experience, so his desire for the maturer female wanes, and on reaching middle age, he will frequently have his head 'turned' by a much younger woman.

All this is in stark contrast to the attraction patterns noted in the life of the female of the species. Whereas the young girl, on first becoming sexually aware, will hone her intimacy skills on the younger male, yet she will often be less interested in him as she gets older, turning her attention to the more mature men that cross her path. But why is this the case?

The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon, whilst oftentimes the source of amusement for some, can in fact develop into quite a powerful relationship, with loyalty, romance and chivalry being key factors in the union. Many women note that a male around her own age or younger, will not show her the same level of respect, or pay as much attention to detail that his older counterpart will be inclined to display.

It's a valid point that most women are more mature than men at any given age, and it's not surprising that by the time she reaches her mid-thirties, she already feels more compatible with a male ten or twenty years her senior, and has left the guys her own age, far behind both mentally and emotionally. Her more mature partner is more equipped to seduce her mind as well as her body. He will be less afraid of displaying public affection, holding her hand or opening doors for her. He will be happy to allow the whole world see how proud he is to be by her side.

Sexually too, although he may not be an athlete between the sheets, he will feel the need to ensure his girl is pleasured well as a priority over seeking to satisfy his own desires. Her younger lover will no doubt give her "the best seventeen seconds she's ever had", before raiding her fridge in search of a beer. Whereas in the case of her older lover, the foreplay will begin in the restaurant with witty flirting, eye contact and laughter. Later they will enjoy the afterglow together, the passion may have subsided but the emotion still very much alive.

The term 'Sugar Daddy' was first used in the early 1920's and is described in the WordWeb Dictionary as "A wealthy older male who offers a young person expensive gifts in return for friendship or intimacy". The 'sugar' in this early term alluded to the sweetening role of the gifts, and 'daddy' to the age difference between the pair. There is no mention however, of love, romance or indeed a relationship in the dictionary description of the term, yet it is a fact that women are often attracted, even turned on by men of substance or power. Is it so inconceivable then, that a younger woman could find happiness in a relationship with a guy old enough to be her father, who has so much more to offer her than money and gifts?

Why Date Women From Russia?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 00:02:00 PDT

A Google search for a "Russian marriage agency" yields more than 250000 results. Let us be frank: these are the surprising results of a country FSU. Russia was locked away from the rest of the world over a long period of time and has finally achieved its independence 16 years ago, opening up broad prospects for cooperation with foreign countries. Russia is still a young country, so any way this effect is unexpected. What is the reason for this business to prosper in the countries of the former Soviet Union over the past few years? Are women in these countries rich hunting husbands? Will get around an unforgettable romance short term? Or do they just want something deeper as true love and relationships somebody to be happy?

Fortunately for me, when he began a swarm these questions in my head, a good friend of mine, who has lived in Italy for several years, was in the city to visit her family. So, instead of looking through stacks of statistics and wracking my brain to get the information so interesting to me, I got in touch with her and her brain loaded with all the questions.

Before going, I want to make it clear: does this article are the motivations and desires of every woman in Russia, introducing his profile to a marriage agency. In addition I will be the one to inspire foreigners: Do be careful once they chose the path of the search for a marriage agency. In the past, some ladies of Russia from the former Soviet Union countries have provided more than enough negative publicity (read my article on fraud in the city of Lugansk, Ukraine), but don 't let miss and the timing of the gift to someone Pleasure of communication and the possibility of finding love. With this in mind, I proceed.

When I started questioning the motives of the Russian women who take the opportunity of matrimonial agencies, my first discovery is very worrying. One of the main reasons why the FSU women prefer foreigners is that the men in their country of origin are 't good enough. There are a lot of bad stories about the lives of girls from Russia abroad. Why not admit that the reason is for men in the home, which, in my opinion, don 't know what is a family? "- Said Natasha comments on the article in one of the main documents of Russia, which blamed marriages Foreigners. "Unfortunately, the 'Russian ' men have a long way to go to keep up with the men from abroad. "Some agencies bridal give the same information. An American journalist, who had a "Romance of tourism from Russia to find a bride 'trip to Russia as part of his research for a story, says in his online journal, which the instructor on the tour explained: Ukrainian and Russian males' drinking, philander, Alternatively beat women and neglect. "

Obviously, not all FSU man treats women in this way. However, a general conception that most brides Russian / Ukrainian women by men in their home countries is reduced to a few common words: irresponsible, hard heart, too demanding and was not willing to provide their children, and much less than his mother. Throughout the history of Russian women have been famous for the way they treat their families. They are loving, dedicated and caring, and to arrive at a marriage agency that dream to find someone like them, the creation of a strong family happy.

Otherwise by Natasha observed during its three years of marriage to a foreigner: To tell you the truth, I did not marry him 't think about life in Italy ... But the Italians in the family is very, very important, and put a great emphasis on family values. This means a lot to me. Foreigners in general, seem to be more serious about the family and children, unlike the men in the home. "

Consistent with the lack of quality men from the former Soviet Union, there is also a lack of quantity. Statistics show that during the year 2002, the male-female ratio was 46% to 54%, and hasn 't changed much since then. Given that a large part of these 46% are people who can 't be counted for the love, care and support, which leaves the ladies of Russia and Ukraine, very little to choose from. Of course, the solution to the problem is broading their horizons.

"All the good have been snatched away long ago, your chances of finding someone in this country after they turn 25 are close to zero, " Natasha mused over a cup coffee (he married his beloved Italy at the age of 29). "Apparently, the boys (in Ukraine) disappear when they turn 30. "

On top of all said, the recognition of their own femininity sets the FSU women apart from the United States or Europe ladies. Most foreigners in mind that the FSU women, different from the latter two, and I don 't mean just outside her beauty, which has been mentioned by many and admired. These ladies like to be painted rather, it is not uncommon for them to wear a dress and pumps on a regular basis, who are concerned about their body and taste to be attractive. In short, they want to be feminine, not feminist.

The FSU women love to be a 'weaker sex', which for them means the care of his family first, in addition to being careful and appreciated. Promises that seems to be in abundance by the Americans and Europeans, many of whom share a view that has been too long since Western women have shown no desire to appreciate the softer side of the 'more weak gender. " Compared with the constant bustle of women in the house to make the race and to achieve equality with men, the feminine side of the FSU ladies is an advantage to the men from abroad. Even some FSU men admit that 'their' women are attractive to foreigners because exactly "women are still not emancipated some feminists, as in the West."

Natasha dreamily recalls his first visitings Italy: 'When I was in Italy I was treated like a princess surrounded with care, so I lost a lot of our men. I think there is so much beauty (Russia), which our men are just used to it, it is mundane to them, they forget about simple compliments? Italians value of beauty. "

After all this, what can I say to men in search of their destiny? It all comes down to what you are looking for. Undoubtedly, there will be some money-hungry vamps, eager to trap. If you want exotic night, you can find that in Ukraine, Russia or anywhere in the world for that matter. But there is no better place than Russia and Ukraine if you want to find a respectful, caring and loving women who love their families.

Why You Are Single And Lonely?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 00:32:57 PDT

Have you ever wondered why you are single and lonely - have you ever stopped to think that this should not be the case - have you ever cried yourself to sleep believing you are going to be left on the shelf. Well now it is time to stop wondering because your ideal partner is out there but how can they possibly meet their perfect match when you are sitting at home wondering.

What is it that is holding you back apart from yourself - is it the actual approach to ask for a date or is it fear of rejection that worries you?

These are two fear factors you have to overcome if you are to leave your world of loneliness. Why are you single and lonely - do you pine for companionship.

So what - if the opposite sex declines your invite for a date - you are not on your own. There are thousands of people single and lonely experiencing refusals and rejection but continues to carry on regardless till they strike lucky. The good thing about rejection is you have just found out that this particular person you liked is not who you will be settling down with - therefore not your ideal partner. Heartache is involved when dating the wrong partner.

Is it the actual face to face approach that causes you concern. Well stop concerning yourself over trivial matters because there are so many other options for you to liberate yourself from asking yourself why you are single and lonely.

Okay keep your distance if that`s the way you want it. If you think your ideal partner is across the other side of the room then be sure to send a warm smile over in their direction - if this is responded to with a smile back then fine. This is a great start because you have caught the attention from a confused person who is now a slight unsure as to whether the smile was meant for them. It is now that they may approach to ask about the smile - then you take it from there. (Not in all cases do they come over) Do the talking with your eyes - eye contact along with the facial expression saying I am interested in you can work wonders for most. Don`t be alarmed at some responses you may get by this glance approach because what you may have thought was good facial expression may have come across to the person on the other side of the room like that of a pervert in the corner.

Practice expression techniques at home in the mirror till you like what see - and if you want to go out with you - then why wouldn`t any one else.

If the thought of being single and lonely worries you then why not try the hand written message tactics. Remember with the right choice of words there maybe a glimpse of hope. Nothing to soppy and not I love me who do you love - this can kill any chance you may have had. If you show enough interest in a certain person in the right way you will get a reaction - not always the one you want but at least you know where you stand.

If only the lonely would choose to mingle - then single they will not be.

Recomended Resources : Dating Goes Mobile!

Why Women Like Bad Boys

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 23:45:38 PDT

Why are most women attracted to those motorcycle types, dirty and grungy looking Lotharios that their mothers and fathers have told them to not be involved in?

Is it because of these men’s inherently good looks, scorching bad boy quality? Or is it a simple case of bad psychology: that women really do not know what’s good for them?

Believe it or not, there is a certain aura that bad boys exude that some women do find hopelessly irresistible.
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It is so good to be bad. Or in this case, it is so good to be involved with someone bad. For one thing, there is the adventure. Either some find themselves in their own little thought-of movie or romantic novel that being together or being involved with a bad guy is just plain tempting.

The Bridget Jones saga, both the movie and book version, seem to echo these same sentiments. Why would a woman who already has her gentlemanly Darcy, still find something attractive from a devilish Cleaver? The latter is so mean and so manipulative. While the other is so straight up and sometimes, a bit uptight. So who should a confused woman choose?

Basically, it is – sort of – a fact. Women love the little bad things found in men. Some do so because they love the drama. A relationship with bad men gets most women’s juices up and flowing. A date with them is unpredictable. One minute they may be out on a nice cozy dinner, the next minute they may be in a dark street corner making out. Meanwhile, a date with a straight-up men could be nice, simple, conventional and unsurprising. What follows after a quiet dinner may be a talk, and then some more talk, and a walk. Comfortable, safe and sometimes it might even be romantic. Although some do find such a scenario boring.

Sometimes, a date or a relationship with all the badness found in men is a great topic for a conversation for women the next day. Women love nitpicking every gory detail about their bad, bad men. How they have been bad, etc. However, women also enjoy talking about how their men has been good, in bed that is.

Sometimes, boys that are bad or those who have been bad are referred to as being a wolf, or being a fox. There may be a reason for this term. Both animals are predators. Women should not tread such dark waters, but sometimes they do. Believe it or not, it is the sexual opportunity and excitement that brings women or at least magnetizes them into the waiting arms of a manly predator.

Let us face it. Predators, or rather, men, could also sometimes be charming, if not handsome. No wonder it is so conveniently easy to simply fall head over heels over them. Plus, there is that dream fantasy of most females that they alone have this amazing and almost god-like quality to be able to change for the better all the bad men in their lives.

Fortunately or unfortunately, bad men makes some women feel instantly sexy. This is a stark difference from the guys touted as good who sometimes discourage some of their women to be as goody-goody as they can possibly be.

However, there are certain facts that just cannot be disregarded. There really is, and there should really be no excuse for being bad. Some men are just plain insensitive and no amount of patience, hope, wishing and dreaming could cover up for his badness. Men who are like this - please, please do remember – is not and could possibly be not that sincerely in love with the women in their lives. Believe it or not, they may be more in love with themselves than in anyone else. Try, as much as possible, to not fall for his own professions of his love for you. Chances are, and there is a great chance of this happening, his I-love-you’s may be his way to get what he wants with you.

All in all, dating bad men is good only for that purpose alone – dating. Adventure, sexual or otherwise, is good for the short term. Long term relationships require mutual trust and respect, a little kinkiness also wouldn’t hurt at all.

Recommended Resources : Dating Master

Dating Tricks For Women

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Mon, 23 May 2011 20:36:21 PDT

Establishing eye contact with your date will let him know that you are listening. Although you're not interested in his babbling, just look straight at him. :p

You'll know when would be the right time to talk. Tell him things about your wonderful self. Make your stories long. If it seems that he's not listening, maybe he is not really interested in you.

Most men do not like silent girls. Other men do not like very annoying and loud ones. Most men are picky, and that is just the way they should be.

Don't be afraid of this fact. All you have to do is speak out and he will hear you for sure. Don't be afraid to be yourself while you're out on a date with him.

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Be natural yet not exaggerated. Keeping silent will make you invisible to him. Loud mouthing will surely be annoying for your date.

Sometimes, it's not a bad idea to make the first move. If you feel that your date is too shy, make the first move. It may help him step up then take over from there. Don't be scared to take risks and turn it into opportunities!

Sometimes, most men can't read signs. They might just be inexperienced or simply stupid. On the other hand, maybe they're both.

They simply want the woman to come up and say a few magic words. Now if you happen to like a man that obviously likes you but cannot come up with the right words, make the move and try asking him out.

It won't hurt to try doing the first move. After all, who does the first move doesn't matter in times like these since what matters most is for you to express what you really feel for your date.

Long Distance Love Can Work

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sat, 14 May 2011 21:07:22 PDT

The internet is becoming more and more popular everyday. People are using the internet for all of their needs. This can be anything from working, paying bills, staying in touch with family, or even dating and trying to find a potential person to spend the rest of their life with. Internet has given everyone infinite possibilities.

Many people are utilizing online dating sites more and more in wanting to date and meet new people. There are innumerable reasons for this. Some people do not have time to go out and meet people. Other people are shy and have a hard time approaching people. However, the fact remains that people are using online dating websites. Some of these sites are free and others charge a monthly membership fee. It is all a matter of the particular site.
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There are also other ways to meet people through the internet. You do not necessarily have to be involved in an online dating site. Some people meet others through instant messengers. There are also unending numbers of chat rooms available on the internet.

Some of these are related to different lifestyles, age groups or other factors. Others are just based around general chat topics. These can be great ways to connect and talk with other people. It also provides a way to meet people without having to worry about awkwardness or self confidence issues. There is much more freedom with online conversations.

With any online conversation, there is the potential for a relationship to develop. In many cases, these relationships are long distance. There are many online relationships that are very successful. They are continued online for a period of time. If things go well, then both people will decide that they want to meet each other in person.

Oftentimes, they will have talked on the phone, via emails, the internet, and will also have possibly spent time on webcams spending time together and seeing each other. They have worked on developing a good relationship between each other. They will have gotten to know each other well and know quite a bit about the other person’s personality and character.

People tend to hide themselves behind their computers. You can only pretend and hide your true self from someone for so long before they will find out the true person that lies within. This is true in any type of a relationship. However, with a long distance relationship, it may be possible to get away with pretending for a longer period of time.

The person that you are spending time with is not there with you in your everyday life. You could be pursing other relationships without them knowing. You could also be putting on a front for the person that you are talking to. However, in time, you will have to show your true self. They will want to take the relationship further or something will come up to where they start finding out the truth.

It is best to be open and honest in any situation. If you are pursuing a long distance relationship, keep in mind that many are very successful. There are some that do not work out. This is usually due to actions of both people.

Some people just cannot handle the distance and want to have someone physically with them so bad. But, if you are willing and put your heart into it, you can have a successful long distance relationship and it could potentially turn into a situation where you spend the rest of your life with the person of your dreams once you meet each other.

Jenna Jameson is Not Your Girlfriend.... Sorry!

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 17:08:55 PST

Who likes the Die Hard movies? Okay, who doesn’t? Bruce Willis plays John McClane, the ultimate hero. He’s strong, he’s smart, and he can take down an entire cell of German terrorists in his bare feet. Every man has fantasized about saving an entire city through John McClane-ian feats of strength and prowess, where in the end the ex-wife forgives you, again, and your arrogant boss shakes your hand as he realizes he was wrong about you the whole time. However, you haven’t run off to join the NYPD. In fact, you’ve probably broken the law more than you’ve protected it. Why? Probably because you know that real NYPD officers’ lives look nothing like Die Hard, and that if you ever tried to run a car into a helicopter, you would certainly be killed. So why do you enjoy watching such blatant fallacies? Because it’s a movie! You’re aware that the audience is meant to suspend reality, and enjoy the adrenaline rush. So if it’s obvious that the Die Hard movies don’t represent real law enforcement, then what makes you think porn films represent real sex?
Cover of Jenna Jameson

Men are extremely visual. They are aroused by what they see. A naked 19-year-old with a decent boob job and an okay weave (yeah, sorry, the hair is fake too) are enough to incite movement in a guy’s pants. Now put that 19-year-old on her knees and show her getting penetrated from all angles while she screams in ecstasy, and, well, you know how men react to that. The porn industry predominately produces products that appeal to heterosexual men (although the production of gay porn and porn for women is on the rise). Sexual imagery is their business. The films are made to thrill the straight man, providing him an outlet for his sexual energy. They are not, however, meant as an accurate portrayal of mutually gratifying sexual acts. You don’t believe me? Go stick your fist in your girlfriend’s no-no hole and see how she reacts.

The mature consumer knows this. Porn is not a how-to manual on how to please your woman. It represents fantasy. The visual stimulation offered through pornographic films can certainly add to the eroticism of a sexual encounter, but your partner may not be physically up to simulating what’s on the screen. Porn actresses are professionals paid to represent fantasy. They are meant to look like they are in the throws of sheer pleasure, and they probably have a certain physical prowess not shared by the average woman. Hey, it probably turns on your better half when Bruce Willis escapes the rapidly flooding highway tunnel by shooting out of a manhole 30 feet in the air only to be left unscathed, but she doesn’t expect you to be able to do it.

About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "The Virtuoso Lover", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: The Virtuoso Lover.

Date Ideas for couples on Valentine's Day..

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 18:21:00 PST

Many people feel the pressure of coming up with Valentine’s Day date ideas that’ll keep their partner happy and help set the day apart from any other. Remember, you don’t have to do something extreme to make the day memorable! Simply putting a classic twist on traditional ideas could be all it takes.

We hope these five top Valentine’s Day date ideas will get you started :

1) Restaurant Date

Going out for a meal in a nice restaurant is one of the most classic Valentine’s Day date ideas. If you’re trying to come up with something extra creative, then it may seem a little too easy, but you can still make a romantic meal something more unique. You may want to take your partner to a restaurant outside of town, or visit a place with live music. In short, going to the kind of place you don’t normally go can be enough in itself to make the date special.

2) Attend A Show

Most towns have theatre shows, music concerts or even something more unusual like ballet or opera. Going out to a show can be an excellent date idea, as it’s something you don’t generally do every day. You could, of course, go to the movies. But if you’re the kind of people who do this regularly, you’ll want to put a special “Valentine’s spin” on what you do.

3) Stay Home

Another one of the most popular Valentine’s Day date ideas is simply to stay home. This may sound boring at first, but there are many ways in which you can make this a special evening (even if you don’t have much money to spend). For example, you could buy small gifts and create a Valentine’s treasure hunt around the home, or decorate the place with love notes. You could create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom with rose petals, candles and a basket full of chocolates and champagne. In many ways, a date like this shows just how much effort you’ve put in to show you care.

4) Valentine’s Picnic

This is another date idea that’s simple, cheap, yet extremely thoughtful. How many times have you prepared a tasty picnic for you and your partner to share in a picturesque setting? If the answer is never, or hardly ever, then this gift will show just how much you care. There’s nothing better than eating your favorite foods together in a setting you both appreciate. You may need to get a little more creative about where to host the picnic if you live in a cold climate, however!

5) A Little Pampering

Another idea is to pamper your loved one by booking them in for a massage or day at the spa. Make it even better by booking into a special couples’ service that allows you both to enjoy the pampering together. You could do this before going on to choose one of the other Valentine’s Day date ideas above.

No matter what Valentine’s Day date ideas you choose to go with, make sure you wear your best clothing and prepare well in advance. Buy your date some flowers before you meet up, and make sure you arrive on time!

These plush toys are often preferred and it's huggable!

Guide to buying flowers on Valentine's Day

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 18:13:12 PST

Giving flowers for Valentine’s Day has become one of the most popular gift choices. While flowers can often be thought of as a “last minute” gift, they can actually be something very special if you put a little thought into what you buy. Here is a guide to choosing flowers that will really show you care.

What Are The Most Popular Flowers For Valentine’s Day?

There are a number of popular flowers traditionally given for Valentine’s Day. None of them are applicable, however, if your loved one doesn’t like them! Always go with what would mean something to them.

That said, you can’t usually go wrong when choosing some of the classic Valentine’s Day flowers:

* Roses – the rose has become a symbol of Valentine’s day, and florists can present this beautiful flower in a number of new and creative ways. It’s up to you whether you opt for the single rose or a dozen red roses. But don’t think roses have to be red, either – you can get them in peach, lavender, yellow and more!
* Lilies – few flowers are as striking as a lily when they bloom. This is an excellent choice for Valentine’s Day, as the flowers will fill the air with a wonderful scent.
* Her favorite flower – just about any other kind of flower is acceptable for Valentine’s Day as long as you know she likes it! Buy her favorite flower and she’ll know you put in some real effort.

Put In Some Effort

Buying flowers from the nearest gas station on the day is not a thoughtful gift! For a start, you’ll have a very limited choice of what to buy, and secondly, the flowers won’t generally last long. The only benefit of doing things this way is that you’ll save money. But remember: your partner will appreciate something that took some some thought and a little effort to show you love them. So don’t leave things right until the last minute!

Where To Buy Your Flowers

If you don’t want to buy online, and want to get something a little better than gas station flowers, then you have a few options. If there’s a local florist in your area then that’s a great place to go, otherwise you can try market stalls and even supermarkets.

The specialist floral shop should always be your top choice if you want the greatest variety of flowers and the best quality arrangements. Another benefit of shopping in this way is the fact that you can speak one on one with the experts to determine the best choice for your Valentine’s Day gift.

Flower Delivery

If you can’t be with the one you love on Valentine’s Day, getting flowers delivered can create a wonderful surprise. Flower delivery companies can deliver impressive arrangements of flowers and even potted plants, so you won’t be limited in this respect. Just remember to arrange your delivery in advance. Flower delivery companies are always inundated with orders of flowers for Valentine’s Day, and they’ll need time to arrange the shipping.

Flowers for Valentine’s Day can make a beautiful, romantic gift as long as you make sure to put some thought into what you’re going to buy!

Another Alternative : Cookies In Bloom - It's romantic and delicious too! :-)

Is This a CRAZY New Years Resolution? Please tell me....

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 03:27:32 PST

fI've got a special New Year's gift/resolution for you.

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But that is not what REALLY amazes me. Its that Michael and his wife have been blissfully married for over 20 years (have never even had a fight). And its not just pure dumb luck.

When it comes to relationships, this guy knows his stuff.

Since we're friends he recently provided me with a copy of his newly released 500 Intimate Questions for Couples. Outstanding!

I guarantee that these questions can :

* Deepen the intimacy in ANY relationship
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Women are UNCONTROLLABLY drawn to this! (strange)

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 05:44:57 PST

The term "alpha male" has been used and abused lately.

It's come to describe powerful CEO's, buff jocks with a swagger,and men with "movie star" looks that have women hanging off their sleeve.

But to find the TRUE secret to becoming an "alpha" with women, you'll need to go all the way back to the stone age when we were all running around in nothing but leopard-skin thongs (yes, even the guys)...

...and you'll NEVER guess what this secret is!

You see, in man's early stages of development, the true measure of the "alpha" WASN'T who was the "most muscular"...

...it WASN'T who was the best looking

...it WASN'T the guy with the biggest package

...it WASN'T even the smartest caveman in the crowd

No, the true "alpha" was the guy who could FIGHT!

Consider this...

All of our instincts are based upon one single thing: SURVIVAL!

From escaping the jaws of a saber-toothed tiger to "making babies", we are genetically designed to carry on our species.

Survival requires the ability to defend yourself and protect your "clan" (read "wife", "girlfriend", "family", "friends")

Deep down inside, your instincts tell you this is true.

And WOMEN know it too!

Want proof?

Throughout time, men who can fight have been revered, feared, and RESPECTED for this "manly" power.

We've created superheroes and movie stars with the superior power to put "bad guys" and bullies in their place and, although they don't like to admit it, women secretly desire these powerful men.

In fact, they're drawn to it like a moth to a flame...and there's NOTHING they can do about it.

If a man can fight, women WANT him!

They don't even know WHY they're attracted to someone who truly exudes this kind of "protection power"...they just know they can't take their eyes off of him and it excites them.

Bottom line, women have an instinctual NEED to be with a guy who can protect her if she needs to be rescued!

So what about you?

Would you be able to quickly "take out" a tattoed thug in a biker-gang leather jacket in a matter of SECONDS if he decided to smack your date's ass while she walked off to the ladies room just because he thought his friends would get a laugh out of it?

What about confidently commanding the group of street punks sitting on your car hood to vamoose after you and your wife or date just came out of a movie theater?

Or maybe you take pride in calling yourself "a lover, not a fighter"?

That's a cop out and you'd only be lying to yourself.

Deep down, EVERY man want's to be able to fight if he has to.

If you've ever LOST a fight, you know how truly embarrassing it is and how much LESS of a man you feel. Don't worry, that's natural.

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Do Women Like Alpha Males?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 02:11:56 PDT

Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.

Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male god. They are all around us, in the ranks burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders.

So why do women like alpha males; or do they?

Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuff that women's romantic imaginations are of. These are men who get women's attention wherever they go.

The attraction lies in the power seemingly possessed by alpha males. It's not really just about the money but it is about strength in character and the ability to be respected by his peers.

A woman defines an alpha male as someone who is vocal about what he wants and who does everything to get it. An alpha male is not just cocky our loud, but there is a semblance of authority in his voice that seems to attract others, male or female. An alpha male is filled with confidence about his looks though he may not be handsome and is confident about his intelligence though he may not be a Wharton graduate.

In the animal kingdom the alpha males are those who lead the pack with an aggressive behavior. The animals have their own social structure where the alpha or the dominant males get to mate with the females, with the principle that the alpha males will most probably produce better offsprings. Same goes for the alpha males in the society of humans.

Women describe alpha males as those with an innate superiority and who literally leads the pack. These are males who are aggressive and assertive despite their limitations.

To be able to understand an alpha male, one has to get to know his characteristics such as but not limited to being:

Born leaders

Alpha males are born to lead the pack. They are known to be the peacemakers and the ones responsible for stopping fights after and aggression usually started off by a bully. These men are usually dignified men who have leadership capabilities and they sometimes rule their world. An alpha male is a no nonsense leader who cannot be dictated upon and who stands by his principles.

Gandhi is an alpha male. He is a charismatic leader who refused to be pressured into giving up his cause. He was able to win his battle by espousing non-violence. Microsoft czar Bill Gates is an example of an alpha male who continues to change the world and its people. There are many alpha males in a variety of settings, all of whom have provided inspiration and great leadership to their sectors. Most alpha males are attracted and married to strong and outstanding women.

Confident

Alpha males are so sure of themselves but not to point of being cocky. They have high self esteem, believing that they have the power to do anything they want and to achieve their dreams. They know they have that special something within them but they do not boat nor talk about their strength.

Women are attracted to the alpha because of the confidence that emanates from them. This confidence manifests itself in the way he carries himself and the way he deals with others. This confidence is shown in the way he does things and treats other people. The alpha male's high self esteem makes him confident that he can get the best girl in town. The truth is, the girls usually flock around him.

Assertive

Being confident of himself and in what he can achieve, the alpha male is always assertive but not to the point of being pushy. He knows what he wants and how to get it. He asserts his rights and the rights of his friends. This may be the reason why alpha males are so popular with the pack. He leads them and gives them protection. Women love the alpha male for being assertive, of being able to know he can do it and doing something to achieve what he wants to do.

Born leaders, confident and assertive. These are the qualities that make women swoon over the alpha male. Need we say more?

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Overcoming Myths About Men

noreply@blogger.com (Admin) — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 07:07:00 PST

Have you ever found yourself making the same mistake over and over simply because you didn’t know any better at the time?

We’re all human – from time to time we unintentionally make the occasional blunder due to a bunch of mistaken assumptions running in the back of our mind.

These false beliefs keep us blissfully unaware that our ill-informed decisions will actually lead us to disaster!

And you know what? This isn’t a bad thing in itself because learning from our mistakes adds to our body of knowledge. However, wouldn’t you want to AVOID making these boo-boos if you COULD?

This is why you need to UNLEARN any incorrect notions that could cloud your better judgment.

Sometimes, it just takes another pair of eyes to identify the mindsets that could drive you towards perfectly preventable mistakes.

Gain some fresh insight by going HERE.

How many times have you gotten into a situation that yielded bad results because you had the wrong ideas in mind?

Certain perceptions of men can mess up your chances of having a great relationship with them. When we assume given things about the opposite sex, your actions could PREVENT the relationship from going in a healthy direction.

Thus, let’s take a look at a couple of the most common myths about men which you need to steer clear of:

#1: Guys are into "low maintenance" women.

Actually, this wouldn't be a problem if the term "low maintenance" wasn't misconstrued in the first place. Oftentimes, when some misguided women hear this adjective, they equate it to having no opinion of their own and being a complete PUSHOVER.

This attitude reminds me of the 1950's housewife archetype often portrayed in TV sitcoms of the same era.

You know what I'm talking about: Sugary-sweet on the outside, but brimming with unspoken emotions on the inside.

She's the one who's afraid to mess up a perfectly good relationship by speaking up too much. This is the kind of girl who has regrettably shut off her ability to express her feelings in a healthy way.

Sadly, this glaring misconception is unconsciously driving many women to behave in a very NEEDY way. In the back of their minds, they take the idea of being low-maintenance to such an EXTREME that they've become a mere shadow of their former selves.

Being “low maintenance” in the truest sense of the word is defined by REALISTIC qualities.

This is a well-adjusted, reasonable person who doesn’t throw a fit when her partner unwittingly makes the occasional offhand remark.

(And I emphasize “OCCASIONAL”, as opposed to “habitually”, but anyway…)

This is also the kind of girl who can properly manage her feelings MOST of the time and keeps emotional meltdowns to a reasonable minimum. When it comes to mood swings, low maintenance women don’t often have these and only under the most stressful of circumstances.

All in all, this is an ideal picture of what low maintenance is all about.

Therefore, it’s NOT about being so laid-back to the point where you’re frazzled and out of breath from trying to please a guy’s every whim…

…or even TOLERATE selfishness.

And being low maintenance is definitely a far cry from transforming into a disturbingly submissive version of yourself.

Remember, there’s a difference between a cool girl that doesn’t get upset over the little things…

…and the emotional SLAVE who doesn’t have any purpose aside from sacrificing her dignity and independence in the name of “love”.

The mentality you should have is that a relationship is NOT the only thing you have going for you.

If you would make a map of your life right now, would you say it’s dominated by huge chunks of land exclusively reserved for a boyfriend?

Or does this map have equally allocated areas meant for your family, friends, career and hobbies?

Even though we’re always talking about how to get into a good, healthy relationship, you have to understand that this is only ONE PART of your multi-faceted self.

The SUM of your pursuits in life defines who you are.

If you build your universe around whether you’re single or not, your resulting actions will create a very unattractive impression of neediness.

You wouldn’t want anyone to believe that having a boyfriend is the ONLY thing that motivates you in life, right? You know you’re TOO GOOD to act like that.

Don’t get me wrong – it’s WONDERFUL to have a partner who adores and respects you. That crazy rush you feel when you fall in love can greatly inspire you do great things in the other areas of your life.

However, my point is that you should still retain a good sense of PERSPECTIVE when you *do* get into a relationship. What that means is that you’d be just as fine even if you didn’t have a boyfriend at the moment.

Your life was just as fine before you met him, and you can certainly leave if you’re not being treated the way you should be.

Of course, I don’t mean this in an arrogant way nor am I suggesting that our partners should be the pushovers instead!

All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t be scared to leave the comfort zone of your relationship if it isn’t helping your personal growth.

Also, in no way should you cover up your true feelings by waiving your right to SPEAK UP if you need to (i.e. when the terms are unfavorable).

A good relationship is always a TWO-WAY street, so don’t let the low-maintenance myth (or rather, misconception) tell you otherwise.

#2: Falling in Love is Eternal Bliss Guaranteed

The other common trap women fall into is the assumption that those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings you first get when you meet someone will remain CONSTANT in the relationship.

However, this just isn’t going to happen. Even happily married couples who’ve been together for decades know that their initial infatuation for each other evolved into a deeper and more MATURE sense of loving.

This kind of love goes beyond the initial rush that all new couples go through. This is the love that’s weathered countless emotional storms, power struggles and other CHALLENGES.

The end result is a rock-solid relationship that doesn’t constantly require you to feel the heart-quickening rush found in infatuation.

But there’s no reason to panic over this fact of life. You shouldn’t be afraid of outgrowing this primary stage in your relationship since better things are headed your way.

Over time, the falling in love stage will eventually be replaced by something more powerful in the long run. It’s just that you’re going to go through a series of trials as a couple before you get there.

Don’t buy into the myth that loving your guy as you do now will be enough to get you through the years. Remember that neither of you are perfect; somewhere along the way, your “little” differences are going to catch up to you.

(I’ve heard of couples breaking up over their brand of toothpaste, but hopefully your own relationship won’t go to that extreme!)

I’ll be honest with you here – you’re going to FIGHT tooth and nail over things like this, and you’re going to wake up and smell the coffee sooner or later. But power struggles are NORMAL after the familiarity settles in.

If you can accept the reality that love will inevitably undergo a transformation over time, then you’ll have no reason to worry about the growing pains in your relationship.

Otherwise, insisting that everything will run smoothly or take care of itself will BLIND you to speedbumps in the future.

Of course, I’m not saying you shouldn’t enjoy the moment because being HAPPY is the point of having a relationship, right?

You just have to be aware that things will change eventually. However, you can stay happy as long as you’re cool with having to deal with the reality check phase in due time.

(No need to worry your pretty little self about stuff UNTIL you have to!)

All in all, finding happiness in a man’s arms is best done by keeping a REALISTIC perspective no matter how head over heels you may feel at a given moment.

There are a lot of impractical beliefs and notions that we women are unnecessarily exposed to in these modern times. Like it or not, picking up unrealistic perceptions of love and dating is just a TV show or DVD rental away.

In this confusing sea of misinformation, a sassy girl definitely needs to keep her wits afloat!

For the most part, whatever we read in books or see onscreen are distilled versions of life at best. It doesn’t necessarily reflect what happens in REAL situations!

So we can’t project unrealistic fantasies onto real life and NOT expect to run into problems!

The real world naturally includes the complexities of human behavior. You need to keep this in mind when considering what men want from us and what we should expect from them.

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Can You Use The Infamous 'Poke' Button On Facebook To Pickup Chicks?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:32:00 PST

A lot of guys ask me… Can I poke a girl on Facebook to start a conversation? Here’s the short answer… NO!

Sure, it’s a cool little tool to use on your friends… but for picking up beautiful women you barely know or don’t know AT ALL on Facebook? Not a chance!

Poking a girl (or cyber hugging, kissing, etc.) is pretty much useless… I mean… beautiful girls probably get poked more than the Pillsbury Dough Boy on Facebook!

And just as often, they press the “remove” button to get rid of those annoying pokes from desperate guys. I saw one of my hot girlfriend’s Facebook account and my jaw dropped.

She literally had dozens and dozens of guys poking her on a regular basis. Her e-mail account was filled with notices of guys she didn’t know poking her.

“I don’t even have time to get rid of those!” she tells me… boy, was she annoyed!

Poking a girl isn’t unique or funny… nor does it convey any value or induce any amount of attraction.

Really… nothing beats a good, solid, well-thought first message that conveys a LOT of value without sounding too cocky or arrogant… and that COMPELS her to message you back.

Typically, especially on Facebook, this can be tough. At least girls on online dating websites ARE looking for guys…

But surprisingly, building rapport with a good-looking chick on Facebook is easier than you think!

There are a few key ingredients in a first message that you really need to have. Listen carefully, here… because the first message is probably going to the most important message... or definitely one of the most important.

One of the key ingredients that your first message needs to have is a strong purpose. No, telling a girl that you barely know on Facebook that she’s cute isn’t a STRONG purpose. It’s a rather weak one.

And no… asking her to “webcam” with you isn’t going to work, either! Too many guys do that. It’s way creepy if you haven’t figured that one out yet…

A strong purpose can range from a very intriguing open-ended question to a silly little remark regarding her profile picture. No, a question like “How are you?” just won’t cut it. That may work in real life if you convey strong body language, but online, it must be much deeper… more thoughtful.

You really need to know how to push her curiosity buttons. You need to make her WANT to message you back.

I mean, you can even make a sly little judgment about her… something like… “Hey, you look like you’re on Facebook ALL the time…”

This will make her want to message you back. She doesn’t want you thinking that she’s a computer nerd that has no life… so she’s going to be compelled to message you back and correct your initial perception of her.

Really, it’s quite a simple mechanism that you can exploit.

Oh yeah, and remember… spelling and grammar is always important.

If you want to have all the tools to build rapport with girls on Facebook FAST, you have to check out THIS course that tells guys, step-by-step, exactly how to pickup beautiful girls on Facebook.

You’ll never have to leave the house again to pickup girls… not that you SHOULD do that... but at least you’ll know how to ! :-)

Is Plenty of Fish, Friendfinder and Other Free Dating Sites Good for Picking Up Hot Girls?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:39:22 PST

Is PlentyOfFish, Friendfiender and other FREE dating sites effective for picking up HOT girls?

You've probably given it a shot before... you've messaged that hot chick ... and sure, maybe you've even gotten a reply or two...

Then you decide to go in for the kill! You ask her for the phone number or coffee date and WHAM! What happens? Absolutely nothing. She flakes. She dances around your request and maybe she'll even throw in the, "well, maybe we should get to know each other first before we go any further!"

Girls flake out all the time... they do this for several reasons...

1.) You're too creepy.

Yes, it's the common problem... but what does being "creepy" actually mean? For her, it's a SAFETY CONCERN. Human beings are naturally hard-wired to fear the unknown. In order for her to think that you're NOT creepy, you need to reveal information. The more useful information she knows about you, the less creepy you'll look.

What's the easiest way to do this? You need to have really good phone conversation skills. When you learn how to build trust and attraction through the phone, she will most definitely want to go out on that date with you.

Here's another reason why she might flake out on you...

2.) Fear of awkwardness.

Many women also fear social awkward silence/conversation. Nobody likes this. Nothing is worse for her than to go through the hassle of putting up makeup, making room in her schedule for a date, only for her to sit at a coffee table in silence with some guy she barely knows.

You need to know the tools to break down this barrier and diffuse the situation!

She also might flake because...

3.) She's just too busy, period.

You need to know WHEN to ask a girl out for a coffee date.

4.) You haven't shown much value.

You essentially need to show her that you are of HIGH value... and this is EASY but only if you know what you're doing!

And that's only the half of it. There are certain techniques and strategies that YOU can use to get those girls to STOP being flakey!

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3 Facebook/MySpace Profile MISTAKES That Scare Women Away!

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:07:41 PST

Let me tell you a girl’s biggest fear when talking to guys online...

They fear… the “CREEP”. You know the guys I’m talking about. The one’s that are just weird looking.

They look like they don’t have any friends. They look like they haven’t been laid in forever. The ones that just look like complete and total STALKERS.

And you wonder why online dating for them is so difficult?

Some guys just put things in their profiles that make them look like future rapists. Gross!

So here are six things that they’re doing wrong…

Here’s profile blunder #1.

1.) They have only a few or NO pictures at all. Imagine being a good looking girl and you receive a message from some dude that has NO picture. Are you kidding? What is that guy thinking? And sorry… one or two pictures doesn’t cut it either. You really need to have a plethora of pictures that convey high value… if you don’t, you’re out of the picture entirely.

2.) If you use Facebook or MySpace… don’t put yourself as “single”. This may be counter-intuitive, but by putting yourself as single, you make the remark that you “are trying”. See what I mean? Plus it eliminates the mystery. You want to make the girl wonder… “Is he single or not?”

3.) Last but not least… PUNCTUATION AND GRAMMAR! You think that really hot chick is going to want to reply to you if your profile is riddled with spelling errors? I’m not saying that your profile content has to be at the level of Shakespeare’s, but check your writing! Use a spell checker if you have to. SHOW that you are intelligent.

So there you go, guys! Avoid these blunders at all costs. Check out my other articles or check out this Online Pickup Secrets now! Click HERE and be the man of action.

Forbidden Love

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:17:48 PST

So, you think that you have met the perfect guy or girl. They seem to be exactly what you are looking for. You are happy and you feel as though you are floating on air. There is nothing that could compare to this feeling that you have. You have never been so happy in your life. You are more fulfilled and your life seems to be perfect and complete.

You decide that you want to introduce your new partner to your family. With as much as you love and cherish this person, there is no way that your family could not love them, right? This is a common misconception that people, especially teenagers and young adults, trick themselves into believing.

They think that this person that they see as being perfect is going to be perfect in everyone’s eyes. They do not look at the big picture. They are simply looking at what is right in front of them. They are blinded by love. This is a common occurrence.

After taking your new partner to meet your parents and having a dinner that feels kind of awkward to you, you see your date off and then return to the house. You immediately start demanding your parents to explain to you why they were so cold and hostile to your new love interest.

You want to know why they do not see the loving, affectionate, perfect person that you see. Your parents take you into the living room and sit you down so that they can explain the whole story to you.

Your new love is unemployed. He has no means to be able to take care of you or support you. Your father wants you to be with someone that can take care of you and treat you the way that he feels you should be treated.

This new love has no goals and no desires. He is not going anywhere in life. Your parents see him as being someone that is going to hold you back in life. He is going to bring you down. You will not be able to reach your full potential with this person.

These are some common concerns that parents have and that they express in regards to a new relationship. You should take what they say to heart and analyze everything from an unbiased point of view. If you feel that they are wrong, then you can push for their approval. Prove your parents wrong.

Make them realize that they are not right about this person. Talk with your partner about their goals and dreams for their life. Help them to find a meaningful place in life. By helping them to succeed, you will be succeeding yourself. You will be showing your friends and family that you can make good decisions and that you are right in what you want.

If, however, you find that what your parents are saying is true and you do not think that you can change it, be gentle when you let this person down. The worst thing that you can do is be blunt and repeat exactly what your parents said.

This can be very hurtful and devastating to a person that is being dumped. Make it as pain free and easy as you can. This will help both of you recover from the loss quicker.

Does My Boyfriend Really Love Me ?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 06:00:32 PST

If you ask yourself, “Does my boyfriend really love me?” you probably wonder how you could know for sure. Especially if you’ve ever been in a bad relationship or had a boyfriend who said he loved you but was a cheat. Those types of things lead you doubt other people. In fact, you might always wonder, “Does my boyfriend really love me?” no matter how much he shows it.

There are signs to watch for, though. Aside from him telling you he loves you, there are little things a boyfriend does that show his true feelings. And those are often a stronger indicator of his affection for you than anything he could say. Next time you wonder, “Does my boyfriend really love me?” stop and think about these things.

• How does he treat you in public? When you’re with other people, does his treatment of you change?
• Does he treat you with respect? Does he say please and thank you like he would to any stranger?
• How much does he expect of you? Does he demand that you overcompensate for every nice thing he does for you?
• Does he treat your family with respect, and try to make a good impression with them?
• Does he take you for granted, and not let you know how much he appreciates you and all that you do for him?

“Does my boyfriend really love me?” is a question everyone asks. If you answered no to any of those point above, that doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you. But if you answered no to more than one, you should look carefully at his actions.

He may say he loves you every day, several times, but nothing gives away his true feelings quite like his actions. In fact, someone who says it too much might be doing so to try to convince himself, or you, that it’s true when it really isn’t.

If he treats you like you’re precious when you’re alone but acts as if you’re not there when you’re with your friends, think about why that might be. Someone who loves you should be able to show it no matter where you are or whom you’re with.

And a boyfriend who treats your friends and family with respect is much more likely to feel genuine love for you than one who disses your family or doesn’t seem to want to even interact with them at all.

A boyfriend who truly cares about you will want to be able to get along with the people you care about. And while thoughts of marriage may be years away, he knows that alienating your family would be a poor choice in the even that you did want to marry.

The most important thing when trying to figure out whether your boyfriend really loves you or not is simply to notice what he does. Next time you ask yourself, “Does my boyfriend really love me?” pay attention to his actions, and you’ll have your answer.

A Valentine Gift Surprise : The Gift of Vision and Inspiration

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 02:20:20 PST

I was thinking about what type of Valentine Day article would a reader want to read who is having relationship difficulties. I mean it's probably one of the hardest days of the year for couples who are separated, taking a break, are broken up or are on the verge of relationship disaster.

I was thinking, wouldn't a couple want something inspiring to read versus reading articles about how to enjoy their Valentine's date or what's the best gift to get for their partner?

Then I realized that maybe inspiration is what the article itself needs to be about.

Often times what really starts to break down a relationship and separates a couple is when they loose inspiration for each other which is often caused when their original vision for their life and future together is blocked or falls to the wayside and gets lost or forgotten.

Without their vision being in sight anymore there is no direction, no drive, nothing connecting the couple together as a joint reason for approaching life together as a united front.

Often when this happens, especially when the partners are unaware that they have lost the vision that gives spark to their relationship they begin to search elsewhere for a spark of life or a mission or purpose or a goal to wake up in the morning to focus their life around.

This search usually ends up with the partner being with someone else who is also looking for a vision and a reason to live for and so begins an affair and if one or both partners doesn't find someone else then they will just fall into a depression or develop an addiction or just loose connection and inspiration to do anything with or for their partner anymore.

So what better gift and what better of an article for Valentine's Day for a troubled couple then the gift and a reminder of a couple's original vision for life and their relationship?

So how does one go about Giving the Gift of Vision and Inspiration?

Here are some suggestions' get a Photo Album or a Scrapbook and put pictures that represent the original vision for your relationship in there including pictures of the two of you together.

You can also include textures such as pieces of cloth to make the Vision feel real or if it is a retirement at a beach include sand or seaweed or shells or if your vision together is to be rich put a check in there or money or coins or plane tickets to your holiday retreat or keys to your new home.

Add scented things like a car decal with the new car or leather seat smell or flowers that come from the location where you want to live or dab a page or two with expense perfume or cologne or a scent that has special meaning to the two you.

You can also have phrases or titles or lines from love letters that you have sent to one another throughout your relationship that is inspiring or describes your vision.

Include a disc with music in the album that has sentimental meaning in regards to your Vision or have this music playing in the background as your partner is going through the scrapbook.

If there is a lot of bulky items in your vision package put the pictures, textures, Cds, shells etc in a gift box and have your partner go through yours and your partner's "Vision Box" instead.

Go through the box, photo album and/or scrapbook with your partner and describe both of yours and your partner's visions and get your partner to describe his or hers as well.

It may seem like a bit of a unique Valentine's Day Gift but it just may be some of the best time spent in preparing for the relationship and life of yours and your partner's dreams together as a couple.

For more information on how to inspire your partner and put the spark and connection back in your relationship check out our Counsellor in a Box Home Study Relationship Program at http://www.counsellorinabox.com

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Author :

Melody Chase is a Relationship Expert and Writer For the Centre For Life Management. She has written several Relationship Advice E-books include the Counsellor in a Box Relationship Home Study Program (http://www.counsellorinabox.com) and writes Relationship Advice Articles for the http://www.counsellorinabox.com

Cupid ? Who ?

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 05:44:16 PST

Cupid has long played a role in the celebrations of love and lovers. He is known as a mischievous, winged child, whose arrows who would pierce the hearts of his victims causing them to fall deeply in love. In ancient Greece he was known as Eros the young son of Aphrodite, the goddess of love and beauty. To the Roman's he was Cupid, and his mother Venus

One legend tells the story of Cupid and the mortal maiden, Psyche. Venus was jealous of the beauty of Psyche, and ordered Cupid to punish the mortal. But instead, Cupid fell deeply in love with her. He took her as his wife, but as a mortal she was forbidden to look at him. Psyche was happy until her sisters convinced her to look at Cupid. Cupid punished her by departing. Their lovely castle and gardens vanished with him and Psyche found herself alone in an open field

As she wandered to find her love, she came upon the temple of Venus. Wishing to destroy her, the goddess of love gave Psyche a series of tasks, each harder and dangerous than the last. For her last task Psyche was given a little box and told to take it to the underworld. She was told to get some of the beauty of Proserpine, the wife of Pluto, and put it in the box.

During her trip she was given tips on avoiding the dangers of the realm of the dead. And also warned not to open the box. Temptation would overcome Psyche and she opened the box. But instead of finding beauty, she found deadly slumber

Cupid found her lifeless on the ground. He gathered the sleep from her body and put it back in the box. Cupid forgave her, as did Venus. The gods, moved by Psyche's love for Cupid made her a goddess.

Happy Valentines' Day !

Here's a video on "TEXTING WOMEN" you don't want to miss...

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:22:20 PST

Not sure if you're on Tyler Tray's list but you MUST watch this video he just put up, it's a huge eye-opener...

For Valentines week Tyler put on a contest for who can send in the BEST and WORST texting conversations with women.

He just put up the the video of the winners and I decided to take a look at it and I was shocked as to how good it was...

Tyler lays out some crucial "Do's" and "Don'ts" in the texting conversations which is really valuable info you can use in your next text message... But the part you are really going to like is at the end...

He is taking down this video after Valentines day so I would watch it before you lose your chance. Click HERE to watch it now.

Enjoy the video and good luck with Valentines,

P.S. Make sure you stay till the end of the video. He's got something really cool for you to use this Valentines week that you don't want to miss out on...

Click HERE to watch it now

When is she ready to be KISSED .... hint! hint! Valentine's Day is getting nearer!

noreply@blogger.com (LK) — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 17:52:09 PST

Ah, the first kiss.

A lot of men don't realize how important the first kiss actually is. Even worse, they don't know WHEN a girl is ready to be kissed...

Do it too early, and you'll blow it. Possibly forever.

Do it too late, and you might fall into the "friend zone"... never to return.

So there is that sweet spot of time where her compliance is highest... this is when you HAVE to strike!

After that, you're GOLD - building attraction from then on is a breeze.

So how do you know when her compliance has peeked?

Sure... there are a ton of different theories... but generally speaking, IOI's (or indicators of interest) are the way to go.

Here are some "smoking gun" indicators of interest...

1.) When you apply kino on her, or physical flirting, she reciprocates.
2.) She touches the back of her head and fixes her hair when she sees you.
3.) She initiates kino on you.

If you feel she has given several IOI's, you can do the infamous David DeAngelo "Kiss Test"...

If you're sitting next to her on a couch, start playing with her hair. You can run your hands around her face in a "C" shape while doing this. If she's receptive to this, slowly go in for the kill.

Works every time if you know how to read her properly!

So avoid REJECTION at all costs and check out MY fool-proof method of spiking her compliance and getting your first kiss with her...download the Online Game now! Stop making a fool by standing under the mistle-toe! :p

Dating Rules Book

noreply@blogger.com (Admin) — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 22:33:00 PST

If you're looking a dating rules book that will teach you when exactly to "flirt" with a woman, you will find more than one resource claiming to have that secret that all men want to learn about. If you've purchased more than one of these books, here's a secret you may want to know : your success will only depend on how you apply the theories you've learned.

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For example, you've learned a lot from the book Flirt Mastery and you're now ready to take a night club full of gorgeous women by storm. Here are some more tips on how you can apply the flirting advice you've learned, and how you can maximize each and every interaction with a woman.

Three steps to applying all the flirting lessons you acquired :

1. Be completely OK with flirting.

This statement might seem funny on paper, but hear me out. Have you seen men fumble their lines and trip all over while trying to flirt with women? These guys are not completely comfortable with the concept of flirting. Before you can successfully make women give you their numbers, you have to be completely relaxed. Don't worry about forgetting the pick up lines you labored to memorize the whole week. Your real flirting personality must develop naturally by consistent and frequent practice.

2. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

Flirting is a mating ritual that humans go through before they can really get involved. Verbalizing your feelings is one way of letting women know how you feel. The key to a good conversation is to act genuine and true to yourself. If you're dishing out a compliment, you must mean it, or it will come off as forced or fake.

3. Send out the appropriate body language cues.

Part of your over-all believability depends on how you show the nonverbal signals that ultimately brand your words as true. A man cannot say he's confident to a woman if his hands are shaking or if he's fidgeting.

These three simple steps make up the fundamentals of flirting. You can study all the advanced courses all you want but it all starts with these basic steps.

5 Bad First Date Ideas If You Don't Want a Relationship

noreply@blogger.com (Admin) — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 22:44:00 PST

So you’ve finally asked that cute girl out…and she accepted! Now you’ve got to decide where to take her.

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First dates are a great chance to get to know a woman, and in your mind, that’s all this outing’s going to be. You don’t know if this will evolve into something long term, and in fact, you haven’t even thought about it. But if she’s like most women, odds are she’s thought about it plenty.

It’s rare that a woman meets a guy and doesn’t wonder what the future holds. While this sort of female reaction is inevitable, there are a few things you can do to keep her grounded.

The following are 5 first-date ideas that are sure to get her browsing the David’s Bridal Web site.

Romantic Comedies

A lot of first dates take place at a movie theater. There’s minimal pressure to talk, the atmosphere is dark and cozy, and the story feeds the conversation afterwards. In reality, the movies can be a bad date idea if you choose the wrong film.

Romantic comedies are called “chick flicks” for good reason…they feed the need for drama that’s innate in all females. While they may seem innocent enough for a first date, they’re not. Think of it this way : All of the mushy dialogue and on-screen kisses are subliminal messages to your date.

Her Place

Going to her place is the epitome of a bad first date. You’re putting all of the control in her hands. That’s when she starts cooking for you.

While some women won’t admit it, cooking for and taking care of a guy comes natural to them. That’s what they saw their mothers do for their fathers, and that’s what they want to do with a guy they care about. By feeding into her domestic instincts, you’re sending her the message that you’re ready to settle down.

Weddings

While it’s uncommon to go to a wedding for a first date, it does happen. Even if it’s not the first time you’re taking her out, steer clear of bringing her to weddings for a couple of months or so. The sight of true love bring out the warm-fuzzies in a woman, and pretty soon, she’ll be fantasizing about the day she marries you.

Walking

First dates are, by their very nature, awkward. Romantic strolls are even more awkward. There’s nothing to fill in the odd conversational gaps, or if you two do manage to hit it off, she’ll likely think she’s found her soul mate. Wait for the third of fourth date before you two discover the great outdoors together.

Meeting Friends

The instant you meet her friends, you’ve become more than just a guy she’s dating. In essence, you’ve become her boyfriend. The same holds true for introducing her to your social circle, so hold off on this one.

First dates are designed to better acquaint two people, but when you let others in on the deal, you’re suddenly subjected to their critiques too. Her friends may not approve of you, in which case, she’ll probably heed their advice. On the other hand, they could really like you, thereby having high expectations of your relationship with her.

Final Thoughts

The more intimate the environment, the more you’ll feed her thoughts of a relationship. A first date should allow for two people to get to know one another, and nothing more. With that said, if the occasion is high on romance, squash the idea.