tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28438966461087435382024-03-13T08:41:56.091-04:00Life's Passion is Life's PurposeAn exploration of the people, places and things that give life meaning and make it worth the ride. Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.comBlogger110125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-5688745959342759862015-04-10T14:47:00.003-04:002015-04-10T14:47:47.604-04:00The 21 Day Dream BIG Challenge<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/tjOGxQY_h-8" width="480"></iframe>Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-31638195474401496092015-04-10T14:47:00.001-04:002015-04-10T14:47:05.625-04:00Social Media Tips: Five Facebook Etiquette Tips<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/2GDKrkTNR-s" width="480"></iframe>Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-21007728557053787662015-02-01T10:48:00.001-05:002020-02-04T20:18:47.891-05:00Be your FABULOUS self!<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I had a conversation last night with a young lady from our newly formed Prosperous Entrepreneur Mastermind Group. She would say wonderful things about herself but end the sentence with something negative. I pointed out that she was fabulous and wonderful and could put the period right there. On the ride home, she talked about not even realizing how negative she was being towards her own greatness. </span><br />
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Look, we've all been there. We'll say something like, "I have my own business, but it's really small." Or, "I got a good review at work but I bet this won't last long." How about the compliment deflector, "thanks for the compliment, but I'd look much better if I lost five pounds."</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">We are taught not to be too boastful. We shouldn't toot our own horn. Well, I'm here to tell you that's bull. TOOT your horn! You are God's dream come true. You are the manifestation of the Holy Spirit in flesh. The Creator doesn't want you to be small or live a small life. Claim your fabulousity. Stand firmly in your greatness. It's not being conceited because we ALL are great and we all are capable of great things. </span></div>
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Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-69260794394615323482014-04-22T18:36:00.001-04:002014-04-22T18:36:13.013-04:00Just Say YES!<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/W1tpEugKTC4" width="459"></iframe>Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-80101844810043969872013-05-03T17:10:00.000-04:002020-02-04T20:19:42.463-05:00Lessons Learned: The Past Can't Hurt You<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-C4jSRrmFwv8/UYQnI6n7jZI/AAAAAAAALS4/egPBlC2gIqk/s1600/Past.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-C4jSRrmFwv8/UYQnI6n7jZI/AAAAAAAALS4/egPBlC2gIqk/s200/Past.JPG" width="200" /></a>I had a very good friend who used to tell me, "the only thing that matters is the ever-present now." How right he was. Letting go of past hurt, fears, failures, even successes frees us up to the possibilities of the unknown. It allows us to exist in the promise of what may be or as Deepak Chopra calls, the <a href="http://www.chopra.com/articles/2010/02/20/diving-into-pure-potential-by-deepak-chopra/" target="_blank">pure potentiality</a>.<br />
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This is not an easy space to live in. Trust and believe me when I say I have been hurt badly... really... really badly. The recovery period was far longer than I had anticipated but having gone through that fire, I have learned a few things:<br />
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<li>It doesn't seem like it but this thing... this bad thing... it is happening for a reason. The reason will not become clear for months, maybe even several years. But when it is revealed to you, you'll have the biggest "aha" moment of your life.</li>
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Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-78823821133142608572013-01-09T17:20:00.002-05:002020-02-04T20:20:31.062-05:00There's No In-Between in 2013<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">There is no in-between in 2013. That was the theme of our New Year's Eve celebration at <a href="http://www.unitywdc.org/" target="_blank">Unity of </a><a href="http://www.unitywdc.org/" target="_blank">Washington DC. </a> I've been meditating on this concept quite a bit. Merriam-Webster defines the word "<a href="http://www.learnersdictionary.com/search/in-between" target="_blank">in-between</a>" this way:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">What does this mean for us? You cannot exist in a state of bliss and confusion at the same time. You can't have wealth if you are only focused on your debt. You can't have the love you deserve if you don't show love. You can't have a peaceful life if you surround yourself with chaos. You won't know the truth if you live a lie. You can't live abundantly if you claim to lack. You can't have love if you live in fear. Here are the things I am resolving to do to move out of the middle. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">This is what I resolve to do this year. I hope you'll join me and share your thoughts along the way. It won't be easy... this I already know. However, at the end of the year I know we will say it was well worth it. I'll leave you with this:</span><br />
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What where you doing this time last year? Did you make a list of New Year resolutions? How did you do with them? As 2011 washes away and becomes a memory, what will you do differently in 2012 and what lessons have you learned form the past that you will carry over into the new year? I don't believe in New Year resolutions but I covered that in a <a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2843896646108743538#editor/target=post;postID=5891258620724900946" target="_blank">previous post</a>. Instead of revisiting that topic again (gotta keep it moving) I wanted to explore lesson's learned from years gone by. I'm hoping something I went through will resonate with you and that we all can share our common experience for our greatest good.<br />
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In the new year we often look back on where we were and look ahead to where we're going with <a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2843896646108743538#editor/target=post;postID=7282177111689254559" target="_blank">visions towards a better year</a>. This is a good exercise in self-evaluation and self-exploration. We all need to do some <a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2843896646108743538#editor/target=post;postID=6708491143548646563">spiritual housing cleaning</a> from time-to-time and the start of the new year is a good time to do just that.<br />
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I decided that this year I didn't just want to look back over 2011. Instead, I wanted to take a trip back in time... oh, about three years. Ok... here we go... let's enter the time machine. The year is 2008 and life is really good... for a while.<br />
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A little over three years ago my life was a lot different. My television show was canceled and my job as an Executive Producer had come to an end. I was forced to move out of my apartment and to make plans to move into my unrenovated home. A home that had no heat, water or electricity. Now, don't get me wrong, I LOVE my house. My house has been in my family for over 100 years. My great-grandfather gave it to my grandmother, my grandmother sold it to my father for $1 dollar and decades ago my father sold it to me for $1 dollar. My house sat deteriorating for about twenty years due to two major fires and no home owners insurance (don't ask... that story deserves it's own blog post). Thanks to the gentrification of my neighborhood, once a drug and gang infested area, moving into my house became very desirable and I looked forward to settling in. My intention was to move into my house fully renovated and fully furnished. That, however, did not happen. <br />
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In the midst of all the changes I was going through, the renovation project went south with a corrupt project manager at the helm. While I tried to work out all the details to finish up the renovations on my house, our family home in Pennsylvania was in the process of being sold, and the bulk of my furniture and belongings that was being stored there had to be moved out. So, I had to move myself, my furniture, and all my worldly possessions into a house that had nothing more than a subfloor and construction dust EVERYWHERE. <br />
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Because this test was apparently not enough, while I was making all these plans, my father, my rock, my love, passed away. I was left with a house that was almost... <i>almost </i>done... lacking, lights, light switches, water, appliances, framed windows, toilets... oh the list goes on. There were boxes everywhere along with all my furniture that needed protection from the renovation process. I had to dump every penny I had (and some I did not) into moving into this shell of a house. There was no time for mourning, which was difficult for me because I was and I will <i>always </i>be a Daddy's girl. No, I had to keep it moving. I was reminded over and over, "yes, this is difficult, but you can change your circumstances. Some people have no home. Some people will never have electricity or clean water. This is not the way you wanted this to unfold but this is the way it is." I was challenged to <i>show up </i>and to let the Universe know what I was made of.<br />
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As I look back on where I was then and where I am now, I realize that all those challenges and <i>bad</i> things were actually leading me to my <i>good</i>.<br />
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When I moved into my house I found out the construction company who had done the first round of renovations not only did a crappy job but had also gone out of business. I dumped every penny into getting the house in some type of order so I could live in it. I mean EVEY penny, I was literally going through change purses. I shut down half the house, lived out of three rooms, cooked on a hot plate, and worked room by room to make the house a home. <br />
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<li><i>An ex-boyfriend who but sweat equity in getting my house livable and wh</i><i>o me a contractor to get the lights and water hooked up at little to no cost</i></li>
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By July of 2009 I landed my dream job. It's the one I have now as a<a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/daniellericks" target="_blank"> Social Media Specialist</a> using social media for social good. It has taken two years for me to get back on my feet. But here I am today, stronger and happier than I've ever been. I've learned a lot through this process, things I forget when I'm in the heat of the moment and caught up in life's challenges. When I'm at my best this is what I know for sure and this is what I will carry through 2012:<br />
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<li><b>Going through the fire - In the moments of perceived adversity our true character is revealed.</b> We can play the "woe is me" record - and even that's OK for a while - but eventually we have to <i>show up</i>. We have to put on our big girl or big boy panties and do the hard work to move past our perceived experiences of lack into our good. I use the word <i>"perceived"</i> because all lack is really an illusion, although in the mist of the fire it feels very, very real.</li>
<li><b>Being still - When you don't know which way to turn, turn within</b>. In the midst of the silence so much is revealed. Spend time thinking, dreaming, imagining your good. Slow down and get in touch with what you really, really want and focus on this in moments of meditation. Then sit still and be open to what is revealed to you. </li>
<li><b>Looking toward the future - The past is over, done, finished, and it cannot hurt you.</b> Leave past hurts, pains and "what ifs" behind. Know <i>for sure/for sure </i>that you can have any type of future you want and the Creator wants only the best for you. Imagine your good in your mind first, hold on to the image and don't look back. </li>
<li><b>Keeping the end in mind - Focus on your end result and on the <i>small </i>steps it will take to get there. </b>Sometimes the task is so big we get overwhelmed with how to get there. Keep reminding yourself of the end result. Take one step a day towards your goal and soon you will arrive at your destination. When I was sitting in a cold house with no heat I saw myself in my beautiful home, safe, happy and warm. I kept focused on that image and it helped me while I was shivering in the cold eating off of a hot plate. I imagined throwing an amazing party for friends in my newly renovated home and it made me smile. I saw the end in my mind and it became my strength and eventually a reality.</li>
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<li><b>Dreams - "Dreams can come true, they can happen to you."</b> Everything the eye can see was once only a dream. The computer you are reading this post on was once just an idea in someone's head. The creators of the personal computer were told there wasn't a market for PCs, yet here we are, living their dream. There is nothing you can think of that the Universe will not provide for you. So, dream... dream often... DREAM BIG!</li>
<li><b>Faith - The belief in the unseen and yet the knowing... the know and belief in yourself, your vision and your determination.</b> There were times when I was overcome with loss. I couldn't believe I lost my financial security, my father, my "stuff", my lifestyle and I was in a dark, dark, place. Eventually I realized the one thing that I did NOT have to lose was the belief that "this too shall pass" and I could choose to be happy and choose to believe the best is yet to come. Look, here's the thing, you can hold on to gloom or you can hold on to your faith that it will all get better. Why not choose the positive way out. If it doesn't work out for you, the gloom will be there whenever you want to go back to it (but don't go back, OK?).</li>
<li><b>Gratitude - Being grateful for your good even <i>before</i> it appears is the key that unlocks all doors and holding on to a grateful heart helps your good continue to manifest.</b> When things turned around for me, and again, it did NOT happen over night, I so grateful my heart was over flowing. My heart is still overflowing! When you walk through the fire and come out even better than when you stepped on that first fiery coal, trust and believe, you have no choice but to be grateful. Hold on to that feeling. It will keep you humble in times of prosperity and remind you of your good in times of adversity.</li>
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I've been struggling with the concept of actualizing my purpose in life. I have made a habit of talking to other people about what their purpose could and should be, but I've been having a hard time locking down my true calling. I've been praying, meditating, journaling but I haven't been able to zero in on what I should be doing with my life. Recently, in a meeting with a PR friend of mine, I finally dug deep into my subconsciousness to realize my true passion which is... well.. passion.<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: x-small;">From Wikipedia- Passion can be expressed as a feeling of unusual excitement, enthusiasm or compelling emotion towards a subject, idea, person, or object. A person is said to have a passion for something when he or she has a strong positive affinity for it. A love for something and a passion for something are often used synonymously.</span></b></div>
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Why follow should we even concern ourselves with following our passion? If you do, you would certainly be happier and as a result you would:<br />
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I don't know where this journey in life will take me but I know that no matter what... my passion will lead the way. I'm still zeroing in on the details now... you know... the who, what, when, where questions that I learned in journalism. It may take me a little while longer but I'm confident I'm getting closer to the answers. What about you? What are you passionate about? Or asked another way, if failure wasn't an option and money wasn't a factor, what would you be doing with your life?<br />
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I've included my original post to give you ideas on how you can sneak in a workout and in addition, here are five tips for you:<br />
<ol><li><b>Keep Your Car Parked</b>. With rising gas prices now is the time to figure our how you can do without your automobile. You'd be surprised what you discover in your neighborhood by simply walking to the story rather than jumping in your car.</li>
<li><b>Think Like A Child</b>: Remember when we use to bike everywhere, jump rope, play ball? Well, you're never to old to do any of these activities again. </li>
<li><b>Pump Up The Volume</b>: Turn on your favorite upbeat music and dance, dance, dance... like no one is watching.</li>
<li><b>Make Use Of Your Time</b>: While standing in line at the grocery store... do standing abdominal. When taking a break from work do leg lifts at your desk. Yes, people will stare, who cares! You're goal is to sneak in a workout</li>
<li><b>Make The Weekends Count</b>. You could go on a walking tour of your neighborhood with friends. Walk to your local garden district and then plant a garden. Explore your cities historical offerings... on foot. Discover a bike trail. Just get our there and MOVE!</li>
</ol><blockquote>I’ve made my commitment to getting fit by simply “sneaking” in a workout into my everyday life. I’ve decided to pretend I live in New York City and I walk everywhere I go. To solidify my commitment… I recently sold my car. I live in an urban city and don’t really need a car. Between sky rocketing gas prices, the cost of my garage and car insurance going up I decided that for the first time since I was 17 years old I would no longer have a car.<br />
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Now, I didn’t just jump right in there and do this. Three years ago I started riding a bike to and from work. I soon started using my bike to get all around the city. I actually have two bikes, a café bike to ride around the city and a hybrid to ride on bike trails. Living in the city is great for me. I don’t have to deal with getting a parking ticket and finding a parking space is a breeze. Also, since I’m ALWAYS late for church being able to pull up right at the front door really helps ☺ Oh, and I LOVE the look on the Meter Maid's face when they are placing a ticket on a car and I roll right up and park my bike right in front the church.... such wonderful revenge for all the tickets I've gotten over the years! By the way... what do you call a male Meter Maid???<br />
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A while back I took a job that required a long car commute and I actually started to hate to drive. So, on the weekends I would park my car in my garage and refuse to move it. When that job ended I went back to riding my bike everywhere. Soon, I was driving my car less and less. Now, I’m totally car free. <br />
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I’m lucky, my city has one of the BEST subway systems in the county. Plus, I have several banks, super markets, health food stores, bars, restaurants, museums, hotels, salons, spas, pharmacies, pet stores, workout studios, theaters, art galleries and movie theaters all in walking distance from my home. What isn’t walking distance from my place is a short bike ride away (of course “short” is relative but for me I’ll ride all day long if I have to). I recently got tickets to a performance by the National Symphony Orchestra at the Kennedy Center and guess what… I walked! It took 40 minutes but it was a nice night outside and I got a great workout in. A friend of mine said, “You could have just jumped in a cab”. Yes, I could have but that would defeat the purpose of trying to sneak in a workout now wouldn’t it?<br />
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Of course, there are times when I absolutely do need a car. If I’m going away for the weekend or if I need to haul something from a home improvement store I need four wheels. So, what do I do? If I need a car for the whole weekend I have two rental car agencies within walking distance from my house to chose. Also, my city we has Zipcar, a car-sharing company that let's you rent cars of all makes by the hour or day, seven days a week, 24-hours a day. Check to see if there is a car-sharing option in your city.<br />
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I know my lifestyle won’t work for everyone, but I challenge you to try to incorporate more walking and bike riding into your lifestyle where you can. Ask yourself “do I really need to drive to such and such place”? Can you walk the 30 minutes or so to your destination to pick up a few things? Why not purchase a cart to carry groceries home? You’ll shop more often but you’ll always have fresh fruits and vegetables and you’ll waste less food because you won’t over purchase (since you won’t be able to drag all those things home when you’re walking home with your cart). Meet friends at local areas of interest in your neighborhood and WALK to greet them. <br />
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Invest in a good bike that is easy to ride around town. It should not have many gears and I'd suggest it doesn't have to go up to more than eight speeds. Save your racer bike for the trails. Oh, and don’t tell me that can’t ride a bike, are too old or are afraid to ride in the street. Just think back to the time when you where young and your bicycle was the only form of transportation you had. I think my generation may be the last ones who actually got outside and rode our bikes everywhere. Why did we stop doing that? How did our getting older increase our fear? Decide now that you are not going to give into that fear and just do it. <br />
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Look around your neighborhood and find places where you can “play” with your friends. But above all, before you jump into your car, think about being kind to yourself, your wallet and the environment by parking your automobile and getting out to walk or bike to your destination.<br />
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We’re all in transition — always. Life is a moving target. However, life doesn't have to pass you by. You absolutely can create your own good.<br />
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Now, I've said many times that seeing the glass as half full does not come easily for me. I work on it <i>all</i> the time. But what I know to be true is, <i>our thoughts create our reality</i>. That's often hard to hear. We are quick to take credit for the good in our lives but we don't want to admit that we are also responsible for the perception of the opposite of that good. Notice, I did not say we are responsible for the "bad" that is showing up in our lives. I like to claim it "all good" because those difficult, challenging moments in our lives are often the times that bring us closer to our spiritual side and sometimes, closer to our true selves.<br />
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This does not mean bad things don't happen. They do. This does not mean you "made" these bad things happen. You did not. However, stay with me on this one... you may have created an act that would teach you a lesson to bring you to your highest good... <i>if</i> ... you're open to learning from the experience. Have you ever heard someone say an illness or disease was the best thing that ever happened to them? Why would they say that? How could they say that something like the big "C" was a good thing? Well, it's in those moments when you realize you could lose your life... that you come to appreciate life even more. Or, what about the person who lost their job and as a result have had several financial setbacks. Well, those who are able to bounce back have often been able to also reinvent themselves and earn a living doing something they've always wanted to do in the first place. You may hear them proclaim, "getting laid off was the best thing that ever happened to me."<br />
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The lesson here is to keep it moving... keep it positive... keep living your good. It's never to late to be your best you! Here's some inspiration for you:<br />
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<li><strong>Follow Your Dreams</strong> - If you don't love your job... do something else! If you're not jumping out the bed on most days of the week with reckless abandonment and an excitement about your day... do something else! Make a commitment to follow your dreams. It doesn't even have to be your career, although that would be great. It could be a hobby that you enjoy. Just do it!</li>
<li><strong>Give Back </strong>- Lose yourself in the service of others. Not only will it make you feel good, the Universe will give back to you all that you give. Plus, often seeing how difficult life is for others will humble us and remind us of how good we may have it. </li>
<li><strong>Make Connections - </strong>While I love connecting online, there's nothing life real-life connections. Spend time with people who help lift you up and who will see the best in you. It will make you feel good and it will make them feel good also. </li>
<li><b>Be Good to Yourself</b> - Many of us have gotten really good at listening to the negative recorder in our head that tell us "I can't". Well, turn that off and hit the "repeat" button on "I can do anything." If you don't believe it right away, that's OK. Eventually it will creep into your subconscious and you will become that which you desire.</li>
<li><b>Tap Into a Higher Power </b>- I'd never tell you <i>what</i> to believe in. I'll just encourage you <i>to believe</i>. Studies show that people who are in direct connection with a belief system that supports a higher power are happier and live longer. There's even science to support that <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/belief-and-the-brains-god-spot-1641022.html">belief in a higher power is an evolutionary asset that helps human survival. </a></li>
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Finally, and I can't emphasize this enough, unplug, dis-engage, get quiet and <b>spend</b> <b> time doing nothing</b>. You can call it getting into a meditative state but I know the thought of having to go through the motions of meditation frightens some people. Instead, I'll ask that you just make time, each day, to sit quietly and ask the question "how can I live my good". Concentrate on this one sentence. Soon it will be revealed to you. When it is, <i>follow your dreams, give back, make connections, be good to yourself, tap into a higher power, get quiet and repeat</i>. <br />
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You deserve to live your good!!Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-48395078975171275212011-03-25T16:24:00.000-04:002014-04-22T16:11:57.741-04:00Your Inner Fire<blockquote>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Today I helped kick off the Dell Education for Good (Ed4Good) social media initiative in Washington, DC at Thurgood Marshall Academy in S.E. The initiative is part of Dell’s SXSW outreach effort in Austin, TX later this week. If you don’t already know, SXSW is a five-day event that brings together the best and brightest minds in technology, social media, and innovation. The goal for Ed4Good is to have those of us attending SXSW “bring a little of our hometown with us, doing something great with social media and a local school, while also supporting our community”. In preparation for Ed4Good coaches like myself are teaching social media classes to students across the country to not just show them how to use their web interactions to entertain and engage with friends, but to also “connect, collaborate and build support for important causes”. </span></div>
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It's easy to love when others are being loving. But can you love when you have perceived that you've been wronged? That's really the challenge isn't it? In a church sermon today I heard something that resonated with me. We are all the same. All of us. If this is true, and I believe that it is, than I should be able to put myself totally and completely in the another person's shoes and love them no matter what. I should be able to forgive them, love them, and release them to the Universe. <br />
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Here's a little experiment. What if we put ourselves in another's shoes at the time the hurtful act occured? What if we thought about the <i>feeling </i>that person who "wronged" was going through rather than what they <i>did</i> to us. In fact, forget the act. How did they <i>feel</i> when they acted out? Was the person afraid, insecure, lonely, needy or simply just being self centered? Have you ever felt that way? Come on, be honest, have you? Maybe you would not have responded as hurtful or inconsiderately as the person who hurt you did but you have felt similar emotions haven't you? If you answered yes, then can you have some compassion for the other person?<br />
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I have to admit, there is someone I've been angry with for over a year now. I thought I was over it but just recently I found out this person was telling some untruths about me. I thought back to the original offense and then to the most recent one and here's what I found. At the time this person acted out they were feeling neglected and betrayed. I've felt neglected and betrayed before. When they were telling their untruths about me they were actually trying to save face and present themselves in the best light. I've attempted to save face and present myself in the best light. We are not that different, my adversary and I. Knowing that, I'm willing to forgive... really forgive. Now, don't get me wrong, we won't be hanging out buddies and they will never be let back into my inner circle, but I forgive this person because we are... all of us... all the same.Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-72821771116892545592011-01-06T23:11:00.000-05:002012-01-02T17:15:27.481-05:00What is Your Vision for the New Year?<div style="color: #073763;">
I've noticed the emergence of many "Vision Board Parties" lately. I've been invited to a couple but haven't had the opportunity to attend one yet. Still, I'm so glad that the idea has caught on. I've<a href="http://danielle-ricks.blogspot.com/search/label/vision%20board"> blogged about the need to use a vision board to help manifest your dreams</a> in a previous post. A <em>vision board</em> is a simple yet powerful visualization tool that activates the universal law of attraction to begin manifesting your dreams into reality. It is a collage of images, pictures and affirmations of your dreams and desires. To get started, you can go through magazines, catalogs, or print articles from websites that support your dream. Start cutting out photos, sayings, and words that support your dream or goals. You can also write your own sayings or take your own photos to add to the board. You can add color, glitter, ribbons and get as creative as you need to stimulate your vision of the reality you want to create. </div>
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Once you have a collection of the items that support your dream post them up. I like to use a large poster board that I’ve covered with sayings and photos that support my dream. Originally I placed my <i>vision board</i> in the hallway. I passed it every day, several times a day but soon I stopped "seeing it" and by that I mean, I stopped focusing on the meaning and intent of the entire vision board. Once I moved my <i>vision board</i> into my bedroom, where I could see it upon falling asleep and upon waking. things started to really change for me. However, I've heard stories of people starting a <i>vision board</i> and at some point putting it away, forgetting about it, only to have the things on the board materialize in their lives much later. I'm not sure that is as effective as focusing on the vision of your dream each and every day so I'd encourage anyone who wants to start a vision board to apply focused attention on it's content. </div>
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<li><b>Decide</b><b> the theme of your <i>vision board</i></b> - Are you visualizing your career life, personal life or spiritual life? Each one of these aspects of your life could have a very different theme.</li>
<li><b>Post images that support your dream</b> - Cut them out, print them our or make them yourself as long as the images sure support your dream.</li>
<li><b>Place your <i>vision board </i>where you can see it</b> - You want to commit your dream to memory and have it become a part of your subconscious so put some place you can focus your attention on as often as possible. </li>
<li><b>Look at your <i>vision board</i> daily</b> - Focus on the theme, the pictures and maybe more importantly, the<b> <i>feeling</i></b> the images bring to mind as you see your dream on paper.</li>
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Eventually you will see some of the things on your <i>vision board</i> start to materialize. Oh, and don't be afraid to make changes to the board as the year progresses. Take away or add things as your dream for yourself becomes clearer and more focuses. </div>
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<span style="font-family: Lucida Sans;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">I’ve been taking a “Life Mastery – Preparing for 2012” class at Unity of Washington, DC. With all of the dire predictions and the doom and gloom surrounding 2012, we at Unity are working to adopting a positive approach, a way to help ourselves awaken and be more spiritually conscience. We are working with the book <b><u>Choosing Happiness: Life and Soul Essentials</u> </b>by Stephanie Dowrick. It’s been interesting soul work and after just one week I’ve learned so much about myself. Mostly I’ve learned that I have to pay closer attention to my dominate thoughts. You can’t pray and meditate on abundance and than go through your day living in fear. In this brief time I’ve also learned that you have to pay attention to how you are showing up, for yourself and for others. I’ll be sharing some insights on my blog as I go along but if you’d like to join us you can follow the <a href="http://2012lifemastery.blogspot.com%20/">2012 Life Mastery</a> or join the Unity of Washington, DC Facebook page.<br />
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Some background on the class from our teach and spiritual guide on this journey, Rev. Sylvia Sumter:<br />
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<span style="font-family: Lucida Sans;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Many of you have heard theories about the Mayan Prophecy that speaks of a world of peace and unity that takes place on December 21, 2012. We at Unity of Washington, DC believe this prophecy indicates a dramatic shift in consciousness that will elevate the human race to new levels. <br />
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To prepare us for this change, I am presenting a Life Mastery Course: Choosing Happiness. This course is designed to help you enhance your capacity for happiness and also make an immediate and substantial difference in the way you respond to complex, difficult or painful situations. <br />
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Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-45997327877673275512010-10-14T10:05:00.001-04:002010-10-14T10:05:04.840-04:00"Trust yourself as a source of happiness" ~Stephanie Dowrick from Choosing HappinessDanielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-58120888907248869762010-10-13T11:10:00.002-04:002014-04-22T16:15:39.769-04:00Getting to Happy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Wikipedia defines happiness this way: "a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy". It sounds so blissful, does it not. Who wouldn't choose to be happy then? Yet, many of us search all our lives for this thing called happiness. <br />
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We often think material things, the right zip code or the right job will get us the bliss we so desperately seek. It takes a lot of living and a few good old life challenges to know nothing outside of ourselves, not even a beloved, can bring us true happiness. Happiness is our own responsibility. <br />
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I'll be taking a two year course at Unity of Washington DC on Happiness. Today is our first course on "Life Mastery - Preparing for 2012". We are working with the book "Choosing Happiness" and will be having in-person classes and online discussion. I'm excited to see what these next two years will bring. You can join us at <a href="http://ping.fm/BF7DD">http://ping.fm/BF7DD</a> <br />
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Let's claim our happiness!!Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2843896646108743538.post-21359605781807749332010-09-21T15:47:00.000-04:002014-04-22T16:15:54.556-04:00I'm So Grateful!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've been doing a great deal of "gratitude" work lately. I've decided to be grateful for my life, regardless of what was showing up. Trust me, everything that was showing up was NOT all sunshine and light. Strike that, it WAS all sunshine and light I just wasn't perceiving it that way. In any event, I decided I would claim whatever was presenting, good, bad or indifferent as "all good". Keep in mind, this is not a natural state for me. I come from a long line of women who worry about everything... be it real or imagined. Yet, when I changed my mind, changed my perspective, my life started to change... just like that. I started simply with being grateful. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia" title="Wikipedia">Wikipedia</a> defines gratitude as such:<br />
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<b>Gratitude</b>, <b>thankfulness</b>, or <b>appreciation</b> is a positive <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotion" title="Emotion">emotion</a> or attitude in acknowledgment of a benefit that one has received or will receive. The experience of gratitude has historically been a focus of several world <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion" title="Religion">religions</a>.</blockquote>
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An Ex of mine use to say "perception is reality". It really is. So, what is <i>your </i>reality made of? <br />
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You are growing up so fast. This time, slow down and enjoy the ride and remember these tips as you go along the way <br />
<ul><li>Stop taking everything so seriously. It's not always about you and even when it is, it's OK because whatever it is you are going through will soon pass.</li>
<li>Do not waste your time with anyone who does not have your best interest at heart.</li>
<li>Learn to love people from afar when they no longer serve your highest good.</li>
<li>Everyone is not going to like you, understand you or want to be your friend and that is their loss, not yours. </li>
<li>Stop worrying so much. Everything, every single thing works out for your greatest good.</li>
<li>Continue to value your friendships, they will be your rock and strength throughout your adult life.</li>
<li>Never apologize for your passion, your intelligence or your drive.</li>
<li>Be more patient... with yourself and with others.</li>
<li>Forgive all and when you don't think you can forgive, forgive some more. </li>
<li>You are talented, focused and creative, never doubt this.</li>
<li>You will always, always, always have to have exercise as a part of your life. </li>
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Lately I find that I'm often apologizing for the old version of who I use to be. You know, the Danielle that was way too aggressive, opinionated, unyielding, singularly focused and unable to admit I was wrong. I could give you excuse after excuse why I was that way but the simple truth is, I didn't know any better. At least then I didn't. I've grown a lot over the years and I've done a look of "me work". But when faced with people from my past who haven't witnessed my evolution, I find they can only relate to me the way I was 30, 20 or even five years ago. I often beat myself up about it even though I know that if I knew better I would have done better. <br />
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Then I ran across this article that tells us there is nothing <em>inherently</em> "wrong" with any of us. I think this is very true and powerful statement. We are all children of God and we are all doing the best we can, where we are, with what we've got. With that, I'm cutting myself a break. Hopefully others will do the same because I'm still a work in progress. If not, that's OK also because my life's journey is about being the best me I can be... not trying to convince someone else of my worth. I am a Child of God and I Am Worthy... period... end dot. <br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> However, many of us devalue, disrespect, and do harm to ourselves and those around us, by apologizing for who we are in a shame-based way – which usually comes from a place of shame (feeling as though we're not good enough or there's something inherently wrong with us).</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> Apologizing authentically is about taking responsibility for our actions, our impact, or our results, as an adult. This is called remorse - wishing we hadn't done or said something, and taking actions to address and rectify the situation within ourselves, with others, or both.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> Apologizing for who we are is often about us thinking or saying some version of, "I'm bad, it's my fault, or don't hate me," as if we're a child looking for validation or approval. This is a specific example of how shame shows up in our lives. And, no matter how much we might "apologize," when it comes from this insatiable, shame-based place, we're never able to shake the feeling of something being wrong with who we are.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> The more we notice that we're apologizing for who we are, the more opportunity we have to look deeper - acknowledge, feel, and express our shame, and in the process begin to heal ourselves in a real way.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> While we all have "issues," "flaws," and "challenges" in life - at the deepest level, there's nothing inherently wrong with any of us. Most of us, myself included, spend and waste way too much time judging, criticizing, and being mean to ourselves.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> Treating ourselves in this critical way never works - it doesn't help us become better people, it doesn't give us access to more love, power, or talent, it doesn't make us more available for those around us who we want to support - it simply keeps us stuck in a negative story about who we think we are and what we think needs to be "fixed" about us so we can then live the life we truly want to live.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"> What if we stopped doing this to ourselves, stopped apologizing for who we are, and started honoring, valuing, and loving ourselves in an authentic way?</span></span></blockquote><br />
Read more at <a href="http://www.intent.com/mikerobbins/blog/stop-apologizing-who-you-are">http://www.intent.com/mikerobbins/blog/stop-apologizing-who-you-are</a>Danielle Rickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03203741624110960786noreply@blogger.com0