Life with the Queens Jeremiah 29:11

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 19:55:00 +0000

Today at our house. The snow is beautiful and it is still coming down. What a winter wonderland.

I Love My Slow Cooker and Other Stuff

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 02:34:00 +0000

Last night I put a huge pork butt in the slow cooker and this morning... tender meat!!! It is magic and convenient! All I had to do was pull it apart and put barbecue sauce on it. We can eat on this for several days.

Tonight I fixed chicken pot pie for dinner. It so easy. Here is the recipe I use. Put any kind of vegetables you want, we like carrots and broccoli. (I don't measure my veggies)

*Cook whole chicken and remove meat. Set aside. Cook veggies a bit to soften. Set aside. Preheat oven to 350.

*Take qtr. stick of butter and melt in a pot. Add half a chopped onion and cook until translucent. Add 1/2 cup flour. Then add 1 cup milk and 1 cup chicken broth and mix well. (may need additional liquid if too thick initially. You do want it to thicken though. Add salt and pepper.

*Put one pie crust in bottom of 9x13 pan. Add chicken and vegetables. Pour liquid mixture over top and add second pie crust.

*Cook at 350 for 35 to 40 minutes.

Eating at home is vital to our budget. I have figured cost and on average I can fix a meal that is under $3.00 per person. Compare to 8.00 + a person to eat out and there is no earthly reason to eat inferior food out.

Hannah graciously made us brownies tonight!!! Love ya...

For 2010

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 22:27:00 +0000

This year I am going to focus my blog more on what we are doing as a family to conserve and reduce consuming. As I have already stated the economic downturn has not been nice to us and we have been reshaping much of our lives. I must say it has been done with a good attitude most of the time!

For awhile we have been composting, recycling, turning off lights, using reusable bags to shop, and using towels in the kitchen. We added chickens in 09 for eggs.

More recently we have been paying more attention to our food costs and cooking at home almost exclusively. I plan a menu for the week and we pretty much stick with it.

This situation is a blessing. The children spend more time developing their talents, I am learning more about sewing and we are learning that being consumers is not entertainment. This is probably a big DUH for most of you, but I wasn't raised this way. My mother did not sew, knit, play an instrument, she barely cooked. Shopping was her entertainment.

Most importantly I remember that God promised to supply our NEEDS, not our wants. That is liberating.

Those of steadfast mind you keep in peace—because they trust in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for in the Lord God you have an everlasting rock. Isaiah 26: 3-4

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 06:18:00 +0000

The Cuteness!

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 05:21:00 +0000

Otis laying around, licking our wood. Don't ask...

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 17:22:00 +0000

Busy Day

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 00:47:00 +0000

Today was a pretty busy day at the Queen's. Hannah had some baking she wanted to do and get pictures while we had some sun. You can see her post here.

I decided to sew Hannah an apron; she is the messiest baker around. It turned out so cute. I used three different coordinating patterns so it has a lot of color. I'll get her to take a picture of it soon.

Sarah practiced her mandolin. William and Hayden went to do a couple of things for our business.

This evening while Sarah finished dinner, Wm. and I ran out to get some stocking stuffers and grab a bite to eat. We ended up a Chick-fil-A (I could eat it seven times a day). There were two girls singing Christmas songs for the customers. Then this large high school basketball group came in. The next thing we knew they were having a sing-a-long! It was a hoot!! It put a smile on my face.

Tomorrow we are building our ginger bread house, always a knee slapper.

Wishing you and yours a blessed Christmas!!

photography by Hannah Queen

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 15:16:00 +0000

Calvinism is nothing more and nothing less than the simple assertion that salvation is all of grace. God chooses us before we choose Him. It is a Biblical doctrine that, in my thinking, should not carry the name of a man.

Our personal agenda should not be to 'preach' Calvinism or reformed theology; our desire should be to embrace, confess, preach, and teach the truths of God's Word and share the gospel with everyone.

The real issue is not whether John Calvin is your personal theologian, but whether Jesus Christ is your personal Savior.

thoughts taken from Albert Mohler's writings

Craziness In The Kitchen

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 03:47:00 +0000

Today Hannah was making a trial run at this cake that she plans to take to some friends of ours over the holidays. OH MY!

First, she made the batter, no problem. She put the pans in the oven, set the timer and walked away. The timer went off, she opened the oven and it was cold! Someone had turned off the oven; I truly do not know who or how this happened. (that is my story and I am sticking with it) She was trying to work quickly to catch the little sun we have had to take pictures. See, this cake was also going to be a guest post on someone's blog.

She turns the oven on and lets it preheat and gets the cakes in the oven AGAIN. All good. They come out perfect.

She made the ganache for the filling last night and had it in the frig. That goes in the middle and it is time to make the icing...

OH my. It is a 7 minute icing if you have a hand mixer. We don't! So she has to hand mix it over boiling water. She enlists myself and her brother to take turns. It is now called the "15 minute icing' at our house.

Next I am asked to help with the icing of the cake except that the recipe didn't make enough to cover the whole cake. We are professionals here. No problem, we will ice half and she can shoot that side.

Well, that is all well and good except it becomes painfully obvious that she did not temper the chocolate correctly and the ganache is 'melting'. OH GOOD GRIEF!!!! On top of that this '15 minute' icing is getting marshmellowy and will not spread.

We decide to take the icing off and make a different icing. I tell Hannah to get busy with a new icing recipe and I will get the icing from hades off while trying to keep the ganache in!!! I finish and the cake looks like it has been attacked by a rabid baker with ganache oozing out like its life blood leaving it's battered body. (ok, a little dramatic, but you had to be there)

I throw the cake in the frig to try to save the filling. I open the door a couple of times just to taunt Hannah. Mean Mom!! She about falls over. Still no pictures of this lovely cake and the post is due to go to the blogger today.

After Hannah got the new batch of icing whipped up, she decides to take some of ganache from the middle. Can you say crazy??!! She grabs the top layer and the filling is running between her fingers. She is yelling at the dog to stop licking the floor and trying to keep the layer from breaking. Chaos!! But, she manages to pull it off.

The new icing was much better and we got it on the cake! She ran down stairs and got pictures and wrote her post. You can see it on her blog honeyandjam.com after Friday; it has to make is debut as a guest post first.

Here is another picture of the lovely, exhausting, bless our hearts cake!

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 18:36:00 +0000

I am afraid that the schools will prove the very gates of hell, unless they diligently labor in explaining the Holy Scriptures and engraving them in the heart of the youth. Martin Luther

It is interesting to me to look at statements made by men of faith many, many years ago. So many of their words have come back to haunt us.

They seemed to be so grounded in the Word that things were more black and white for them. Today people try to reason and justify so much, where these men were absolute in their statements about God's commands and how we should live.

Martin Luther saw the danger in public schooling and made a pronouncement regarding education. Simple and clear.

Maybe we should go back to the Word again and try to see what these men saw.

BOLD

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 05:50:00 +0000

Look at this new ad by Dockers. WOW!!! I am impressed and we need to let them know that we approve!!! Call them today and let them know that you like this ad.

Dockers' Vice President of Global Marketing comments on the new marketing strategy in this interview with Brandweek.

WOW!

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 01:43:00 +0000

Amazing Grace Techno - Computer Controlled Christmas Lights from Richard Holdman on Vimeo.

Giveaway At MckMama

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 22:04:00 +0000

Go here: My Charming Kids NOW!!!!

MckMama is giving away a HP laptop with 23.5 in. screen!!

A Case Againist Global Warming

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:46:00 +0000

The LORD smelled the pleasing aroma and said in his heart: "Never again will I curse the ground because of man, even though every inclination of his heart is evil from childhood. And never again will I destroy all living creatures, as I have done.

²² "As long as the earth endures,
seedtime and harvest,
cold and heat,
summer and winter,
day and night
will never cease."

Scripture tells us that the seasons will remain and never cease as long as the earth remains. Nothing will change the climate so that we no longer have cold and warm, winter and summer.

God promises us climate consistency in His Word. It amazes me how we overlook what is already written in scripture and go off on tangents because Al Gore or some scientist makes a statement about the climate.

Decorations!

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 21:09:00 +0000

We started decorating the outside with some branches from Christmas trees the Boy Scouts are selling. The girls got busy putting them together to put in various places.

I love the rustic, woodsy look. It certainly goes right along with our cabin.

Very Good

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 21:56:00 +0000

Fa La La La La?

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:13:00 +0000

Since my last post I have been trying to process all that is going on in my head concerning the holidays. I have discovered that this is not an easy task! There seems to be a lot of stuff going on in the northern most portion of my body.

Feelings of inadequacy have reared their ugly head. You don't decorate enough, you don't bake enough, you don't have 100 yr. old recipes you cook from... bla bla bla.

Then there are the real issues . No church home, no grandparents, no pile of cash, etc. Goodness, I sound pathetic.

So, I am working through these things; sometimes I do pretty good, other times, well, not so good. I want to sit down and have a good cry. I want to wallow in my perceived misery. UGH. So not worth it.

So what I don't live in a Southern Living house, we don't need another cookie, and 100 yr. old recipes aren't that good, we just want them to be.

SO THERE! I am determined to enjoy this season with my family and close friends. I am blessed, we are blessed.

photography by Hannah Queen

Tis The Season?

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 22:20:00 +0000

Hannah says I hate the holidays; she has said this for years. This is not a completely true statement, but there is some truth buried in it.
It is difficult to admit there are some deep issues that make the holiday season less than 'bright' for me.

I do love the greening of the church, which we don't have right now. It was always such a sweet time for me. I also love the last service before Christmas; oh, what a holy, quite time. Being with those you love and thinking about the night our Savior was born is just special.

I love providing gifts for our local crisis center. There are many families in our area that have little and they depend on this center for gifts for their children. To read these kids letters is amazing, many just ask for basic necessities; things we take for granted. It is humbling and heart-warming. Some children will ask for things for their parents and for things for their family.

What I struggle with is not having extended family to be with. Don't get me wrong, I am so thankful for my husband and three children. But, my children have not had grandparents, aunts or uncles to see and visit. When everyone else is trying to fit in all their visits and dinners in December, we are not. When people are looking at their calendars trying to see what they have open, I don't have to, mine is free and clear.

I am a family person, but I am an only child. I wanted to have grandparents around to spoil my kids, but that wasn't to be. I wanted aunts and uncles to pick up the slack when we couldn't, that didn't happen either. Everything has rested firmly on our shoulders, no one to help with gifts, dinners, etc.

Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to spin a sad story to garner sympathy. I am just writing out what I have been trying to deal with the last few days; why my oldest child thinks I hate the holidays and why I find myself wishing they would be over.

I love the lights on the tree, planning special, thoughtful gifts for others. What I miss is someone loving my children like I do; wanting to be with them because they are so special to them. What I hate is them not having family that they can't wait to see.

Now, I have to take all of this and lay it at Jesus' feet; all the self-pity, sadness and disappointment. It ain't about me...

They who sow in tears shall reap in joy and singing. Psalm 126:5

Dreary Day, but I Have Hope

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 21:07:00 +0000

It is so dark here today and rainy. Not a good day for thinking because that thinking could 'go south' real easy.

These are the times I tend to think about my parents, broken friendships, sad events.

But, not today, I have hope. Hope that relationships will be restored. Hope that fellowship will come again.

I am overcome with joy because of your unfailing love,
for you have seen my troubles,
and you care about the anguish of my soul.
Psalms 31:7

Happy Thanksgiving!

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 19:34:00 +0000

I am thankful for....

her and her sweet spirit

him and his sense of humor

and him, for his faithfulness

her, for her creativity

You turned my wailing into dancing;
you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,

that my heart may sing to you and not be silent.
O LORD my God, I will give you thanks forever.

Psalm 20: 11-12

Melancholy

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 17:15:00 +0000

It is a melancholy day for me. I am not really a fan of change; not in areas that are foundational. Being an only child that lost her parents as a relatively young adult, I want those things that are my foundations to be stable.

Our marriage has always been solid and I thank William for that. Divorce has never been in our vocabulary. We have only owned two homes, so home has been stable. William hasn't had alot of jobs; he is stable in his employment. We have raised our children to be stable, responsible people.

Church hasn't been so stable for a year and that has been difficult. Yesterday we made the decision to remove our fellowship and membership with our church; not an easy decision. We are not angry, but definitely sad. We are not church hoppers because again we desire stability for our children and ourselves. Unfortunately there are times that you have to make the hard choice even when it means feeling unsure about the future.

So, now we pray where God would have us; where He wants us to minister. I have to trust Him because this is not an easy place for me.

Psalm 9:10

Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:01:00 +0000

I am craving guacamole. I love guacamole, really, I do.

Here is our recipe:

3 ripe guacamole's

purple onion

Roma tomatoes

jalapenos - diced

lime

salt and pepper

That is it, simple and delicious. Oh my... I don't even need chips.

photography courtesy of Hannah Queen

Sarah

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 04:50:00 +0000

The precepts of the LORD are right, giving joy to the heart. The commands of the LORD are radiant, giving light to the eyes.

Psalms 19:8

"My Husband Rocks" Friday

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 19:15:00 +0000

As I write William is getting things together for another camping weekend with the scout troop. His willingness to give of his time to our son and these our boys means a lot.

He is helping to make responsible, disciplined young men out of these boys.

HE ROCKS!!!!!

A Little Update

thequeen_sa@hotmail.com (Lisa) — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 18:54:00 +0000

Life has been busy in the Queen household. We have been finding ways to spend less as we enter winter when our business shuts down. Since the economy trashed our investments we must adjust even more.

The girls and I have organized our freezers, frig and pantry to make use of what we have. We also have made monthly meal plans to accommodate the meat and canned goods we have on hand.

It has really been an enjoyable time of working together, remembering what is really important and trusting our Lord to make provision. And He is the only One that really can!

Hayden and Sarah continue to become more proficient on their instruments. I love hearing them play together. Each has a different approach according to their personality.

Hannah's blog Honey and Jam continues to gain popularity and has caught the eye of several professional food photographers. There may be an opportunity for her to intern with one in the near future. Just the possibility has made her short of breath! It would be an incredible opportunity and a huge blessing.

William is still working and that is a HUGE blessing. I try not to think about next year (translate 'think'=worry) We have enough for now. Isn't it funny, I can see where God has provided over and over again, but I still worry. Oh me of little faith...

I hope to work on a post soon of different dinners that are low cost but don't compromise flavor.

Have a blessed day!