WELCOME TO MY LIFE .

TAMEME

2014-09-17T09:22:00.001-07:00

my first TAMEME and yours too!
TO INSPIRE you ALL AND BELIEVE IN THE BEAUTY OF LIFE.
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Tori Amos-"Sleeps With Butterflies" Music Video - favorite :)

2013-12-08T09:30:00.001-08:00

Can Gays raise kids?

2013-12-06T12:20:00.001-08:00

MOVING ON...

2013-11-23T05:58:00.001-08:00

a heartbreak is like falling from the rooftop of a tall building...then get hit by a truck...like a shattered glass turned to thousands of pieces...stomped by many many foot walking .... its like being comatosed... and bit by bit YOU pick your pieces again and try to glue each part even if it's hard... sometimes YOU wonder why the sun still shines and the birds still sing... but ...as long as your heart still beats...even if its broken...there must be a purpose...so go on... just live for that purpose... we might not know the exact reason yet..but we just have to trust our creator...I'd like to think that we have a very intelligent God and he knows what He is doing.

Insight for the Day: STORMS

2013-11-20T04:22:00.001-08:00

WE will all experience storms in our lives...literally and figuratively...
worse ...is that, with storms we could lose a lot if not everything we worked hard for... but what is the use of holding on to things that is already destroyed and gone... what is important is we are left with strong spirits to rise up again and be better, smarter and more loving people...coz in a bigger perspective...the idea of possession is just an illusion...ALL that we have is God's grace...and it is only through Him that we can RISE and receive all that we need.
Storms in our lives tests the strength of our spirits...and be glad that with God we will always rise from the ashes again like a phoenix....more beautiful and stronger.

- Tami Ballesteros

THIS IS WHY HATERS SHOULD BE PITIED

2013-11-13T01:02:00.003-08:00

It takes an intelligent understanding to forgive haters...because haters are actually your biggest admirers , they try to destroy YOU, because they are very envious of the good qualities YOU have that they could never have..why do i say they could never have those qualities?because if they can,,,they will just be inspired by you , support and not hate YOU..it's also their pathetic and senseless attempt to make YOU feel broken just like them....what is very interesting about haters is while they are trying to destroy YOU, they try to mask their hideous personalities by claiming your personality is what they truly have....but it's just a lie and it's all a waste of time and energy to others and more to them, because truth always has its way to be known....so rather than Hate haters, which gives them more power and recognition, just pity & forgive them..for the Lord knows the true contents of our hearts...He knows what to punish and what to reward.

A SHORT LOVE STORY

2013-11-12T07:07:00.003-08:00

truth and lies were once lovers, they constantly argue because they cant understand each other...so at last, they decided to agree to disagree...and live separate lives... truth grew more beautiful and lies became uglier...truth always wants the best for everyone so he tries to reach out to lies to make him beautiful too...but lies is too proud to let truth in...so lies remained uglier until no one loved him,lies became weaker and weaker...and on his death bed..on his last breath...truth was there to kiss him and gave the breath of life and set him free from the cage he made himself..lies transformed and became truth..and now truth loves truth...and never parted ever again...because what they have now is real love.

-tami ballesteros

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2013-11-09T05:08:00.000-08:00

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-Tami

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2013-07-05T08:28:00.001-07:00

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HIRAM NA SANDALI

2012-08-02T04:33:00.003-07:00

Ang buhay natin ay isang malaking love story na ang title ay HIRAM NA SANDALI.
...bakit? ....dahil ang lahat sa mundo ay hiram lang natin... pasalamat tayo sa pagkakataon na binigay sa atin para makasama ang mga tao na nagmamahal sa atin at ibahagi ang kanilang mga buhay, ang kanilang talento, yaman o panahon...

Isang malateleseryeng kwento ng pagmamahalan sa mundo na iyong ginagalawan, sa loob at sa labas ng iyong isipan..me drama, romance, comedy, action, suspense, horror at kung anu ano pa...ganyan ang tingin ko sa ating mga hiram na sandali...

isisilang ka at matututo ka magmahal...at syempre makkaranas ka ring mahalin...sa sobrang saya makakalimutan mo na ito ay mga hiram na sandali lamang...

dumarating ang panahon, ang mga minahal mo ay babawiin na uli...mabigat ng konti tanggapin sa simula..pero pag alalahanin mo ang major title ng story ng buhay mo...mas gumagaan tanggapin...

pero sa puso mo andun ang mga aral na magpapatibay at magpapatalino sa yo, upang maging mas mapagmahal kang tao..

Dahil ang pagmamahal mo ay hihiramin din ng iba na nagngailangan....at sa oras na mangyare yun...magpapasalamat ka dahil ginawa kang mas mabuting tao ng mga HIRAM na SANDALI.

-TAMI BALLESTEROS

MY PRAYER: Coldplay - Every Teardrop Is a Waterfall

2012-07-12T02:49:00.001-07:00

I want this played on my funeral. But hey dont you worry I wont die any moment soon, ang masamang damo matagal mamatay...at marami pa akong taong papaligayahin... :)

Anyways I like this song because its artsy and deep just like me. I believe prayer comes in many forms not only kneeling and talking to God, it could be anything , could be art, music, laughter or a teardrop, for a prayer is to be one with the Universe.

I turn the music up, I got my records on
I shut the world outside until the lights come on
Maybe the streets alight, maybe the trees are gone
But I feel my heart start beating to my favorite song

And all the kids they dance, all the kids all night
Until Monday morning feels another life
I turn the music up, I'm on a roll this time
And heaven is in sight, Ooh

I turn the music up, I got my records on
From underneath the rubble sing a rebel song
Don't want to see another generation drop
I'd rather be a comma than a full stop
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/c/coldplay/every_teardrop_is_a_waterfall.html ]
Maybe I'm in the black, maybe I'm on my knees
Maybe I'm in the gap between the two trapezes
But my heart is beating and my pulses start
Cathedrals in my heart

As we saw, oh, this light
I swear you emerge blinking into
To tell me it's alright

As we soar walls
Every siren is a symphony
And every tear's a waterfall

Is a waterfall, ah
Is a waterfall, ah
Is a waterfall
Every tear is a waterfall, ah

So you can hurt, hurt me bad
But still I'll raise the flag, Wooh

It was a wa-ah-ah-ah-aterfall
A wa-ah-ah-ah-aterfall

Oh, Oh

Every tear
Every tear
Every teardrop is a waterfall

Oh, Oh

Every tear
Every tear
Every teardrop is a waterfall

Every tear
Every tear
Every teardrop is a waterfall

Every tear
Every tear
Every teardrop is a waterfall.

THE GOAL

2012-07-12T02:38:00.001-07:00

In my opinion, if your goal in life is just to be HAPPY, YOU will be bound to so much disappointments , because life is not only made up of happiness, ...there is also sadness, anger, jealousy, fear and so many other emotions, WHICH IS AS IMPORTANT as HAPPINESS. because from there, YOU will learn, and be a fulfilled and wiser person. The goal is not HAPPINESS its BALANCE.

-TAMI BALLESTEROS
Visual artist/Photographer extraordinaire

KASALANAN

2012-06-26T19:03:00.003-07:00

Kasalanan... yan ang isang salitang akala mo madali ipaliwanag pero hindi pala...

sa simpleng paraan, ang kasalanan daw ay ang pag gawa ng mali,..pero ano ang mali? ..

sa simpleng paraan ang mali..ay ang di pag gawa ng tama...

so sa madaling salita ang KASALANAN ay ang di pag gawa ng tama.

Sana ganun na lang kadali lahat...pero alam mo ba kung ano nagpapagulo sa kung ano ang KASALANAN?

yun ay ang depinisyon natin sa kung ano ang TAMA.

marami na akong nakasalamuhang tao, baluktot ang pag iisip...para sa kanila,

ang mali ay nagiging tama basta may PERA.

may mga tao na nagiging tama ang mali, basta napagbibigyan ang tawag ng laman.

may iba naman nagiging tama ang mali, dahil dun nagiging popular sila at mas minamahal ng maraming tao...

kesehodang ipagpalit nila ang kanilang mga prinsipyo...

sa kabilang kamay, may mga TAMA naman na ginagawa, na pinipilit gawing mali ng ibang tao na makitid ang pag iisip...

minsan pa nga nagmamahal ka lang ng tapat at gumagawa ka lang ng mabuti, ikaw pa ang paparusahan...

Masyadong malawak ang sakop ng tama at mali...

at maraming nagagawang excuses at alibis ang tao para ituwid ang baluktot.

Mahirap sya ipaliwanag...

Pero nararamdaman ....naamoy ng ilong ng kaluluwa natin at nalalasahan ng ating mga damdamin...

MABAHO ang kasalanan, nakakasulasok...........NAKAKASUKA ang lasa ng kasalanan...

akala mo sa una masarap pero yun pala lalasunin ka na....

ang KASALANAN , puputulin ang hininga mo... ang dati mong maluwag na pag hinga ay sisikip at unti unti kang papatayin...

Yan ang kasalanan para sa akin...naninira...pumapatay.....
Para syang bomba na nakabalot na akala mo na napakagandang regalo.

kahit bigyan ka pa ng pinakamagagandang excuse para sa isang KASALANAN ...malalaman at mararamdaman mo pa rin na mali ito....

Kaya huwag mo sya subukang ipaliwanag at ipalusot...dahil nadarama ng buto mo at kaluluwa ang sama na dinudulot ng kasalanan kahit anong tago ang gawin mo.

-TAMI BALLESTEROS

AWAYIN MO SARILI MO

2012-06-21T09:41:00.000-07:00

Kamusta na ? tagal ko na rin hindi sumulat sa blog ko... pasensya na ha, naging busy ako...pero babawi ako now... susulat ako ng isang bagay na aking nalalaman, na alam kong makakatulong sa yo..... at yun ay, ang awayin mo ang sarili mo...

parang payo lang ba ng baliw no? haha....... siguro nga , kasi sa totoo nyan me pagkabaliw ako...inaamin ko yun... madalas sa minsan kailangan natin magpakabaliw, para makahanap ng lugar na mapagpapahingahan sa mga pagsubok ng buhay... and oo, ituloy tuloy mo na, awayin mo na rin sarili mo...pero di sa literal na paraan ha..wag mo sapakin o sabunutan na lang bigla sarili mo...masakit yun... ang ibig sabihin ko ay panahon na para gumising ka, at magalit ka sa mga masasamang mga bagay na ginagawa mo sa buhay mo.......

alam mo, di masamang magalit, as long as nagagalit ka sa masama at hindi sa mabuti... pagsabihan mo sarili mo na tama na umasa sa mga bagay o tao na nakakasama sa iyo... araw araw, me away na nangyayari sa loob natin di mo lang napapansin,... yun nga lang bumangon ka sa masarap mong pagtulog ay isa na matinding laban sa sarili... bukod dun ay may mga away tayo sa loob ng ating sarili, lalo na sa pagdedesisyon ng mga bagay bagay na may kinalaman sa puso...........

natahimik ka no?...kasi yun ang totoo...
araw araw lagi tayo lumalaban sa sarili natin......nilalabanan natin ang mga maling desisyon na naiisip natin..........dahil kapag nagpatalo tayo, masisira ang kinabukasan at mga pangarap natin sa ating sarili at sa mga sa mahal natin sa buhay....... madali kasing magpadala na lang sa mali....pero alam mo wala naman ibang aaway sa sarili mo ng matindi at pakikinggan mo sa bandang huli kundi ikaw........

ako nga sinasabi ko sa sarili ko TANGINA KA TAMI...punyeta ka!...marami pa pwedeng mangyari sa yo...pero ano yang mga kalokohan mo..........marami ka pang mga pangarap para sa yo at sa mga mahal mo....gago ka..tigil mo na mga masasama mo ginagawa....tama na magmahal ng mga tao na gagamitin ka lang at niloloko..... at kung ano ano pa......

oo masakit..parang baliw... pero dun KA LANG NAMAN MAGIGISING E..PAG INAWAY MO NA SARILI MO.... kasi tao lang tayo...at hindi sa lahat ng panahon, tama mga pinag gagawa natin...... masyado kang mataas kung tingin mo lahat ng ginagawa mo ay tama....tandaan mo pag masyado ka mataas, masakit ang lagapak..at pwede mo ikamatay...literally and figuratively.

subukan mo awayin mo sarili mo..at sigurado ako magigising ka , ng hindi puro pasa at bugbog...pero ng mas may pagpapahalaga at pagmamahal sa sarili.

-TAMI BALLESTEROS

stars.

2012-01-27T12:32:00.000-08:00

"Somewhere out there, beneath the pale moon light, some one's thinking of me and loving me tonight...."

this is a very nice line from a beautiful song that I love...

What I also love is looking at the night sky, specially when there are a lot of stars...for in the stars is written stories of my life..

Stories that makes me smile, every time I reminisce about the good times with the people that I love, yet at the same time shed a tear, when I realize that some good things never last...

When I was young I was told, that stars are just balls of fire in the universe...

Maybe they are...

But I'd like to think of them as angels watching over us.

Angels where you can whisper your hopes and dreams to.

Angels that witnessed how you're life was written and is now part of the universe.

Stars give direction and it gives life...like the sun...

I will be going back to the beach soon, and I will lay down and watch the sky full of stars again..

and pray... I believe the Universe listens to all our prayers.

Like the stars, I just choose to be silent from a far and just have my beauty ,goodness and warmth be appreciated by people who are wise.

The Stars may be far, but you cant take them for granted, because we just have limited human understanding..and we never know for sure how important they really are, unless we can think as broadly as its creator.

All we can do for now, is gaze at them... be one with them as our mind unites with the universe.

I will always love the stories that is written in the stars..and that includes the people that i loved..

Now, looking at the stars will be a different experience for you from now on,

because the stars is our lives written in the sky. We look at the same stars, but each of us will have different stories there.

" It helps to think we might be wishing, on the same bright star...somewhere out there."

Listen to the song here

+Dedicated to an old friend i used to watch stars with.Thank you for the experience.

IDOL

2012-01-17T01:36:00.000-08:00

kamusta na idol?
...yan ang palaging bati sa akin ng marami...at tuwing naririnig ko yan...
lagi ko naitatanong sa aking sarili..paano ako naging idol ng mga to?...

paano nangyare yun? e andami dami dami ko kapalpakan sa buhay na ito.

Anjan ng pumalpak ako sa trabaho, natanggal na kaya ako maraming beses...haha di lang talaga ako matanggal tanggal sa photography business and arts ko, e syempre ako may ari nun e.

Pati sa love life, nakailang break ups na yata ako.Marami na ring umiwan sa akin kahit loyal akong partner.. dumating na rin sa buhay ko na nagmamakaawa na ako mahalin at huwag iwan...parang mga drama lang ni dina bonnevie at maricel soriano...Natatakot na nga ako baka yung dalawang aso ko na lang makasama ko pag tanda...(knock on wood :))

Sa pera, ayun...andaming mga times, marami ako pera, tapos gagastahin ko rin ng bonggang bongga....one day millionaire ... me mga times na ultimo laman ng alkansya ko susungkitin ko para lang me panggastos ako...minsan nababaon rin ako sa utang... buti nga naaayus ko rin.

Sa pamilya...ayun...mejo malungkot din kasi hiwa hiwalay kami magkakapatid, at wala na rin ako tatay...tumatanda na rin mama ko..kaya eto ako natataranta na ren...na sana bago sya lumisan sa mundo, maibigay at maiganti ko sa kanya yung pag aalaga at pagmamahal nya sa akin...kahit lagi kami nag aaway ng nanay ko mahal ko pa rin sya.
Pamilya namin hindi pang poster card.Mejo magulo at watak watak...

Sa sarili ko, marami pa rin ako insecurities...May mga bagay pa rin ako kinaiinggitan..

na sana meron ako nito meron ako nyan...pero di bale na lang kung sa masamang paraan ko makukuha...

Nagka bisyo na rin ako noon na umapekto sa health ko.. like inom at droga at yosi..pero tinigil ko na un lahat...saglit lang na yugto yun..at ayoko na balikan pa.

Yun nga, magbalik tayo sa salitang idol...sa tuwing iniisip ko kasi yun... ang naiisip ko dapat ang ini-idol yung mga susccessful na, sobra yayaman...superstars, celebrities...perfect lives...alam mo yun.mga ganung leveling...

Pero naisip siguro kanya kanya nga talaga yan, me mga tao na gusto maging idol ang isang tulad ko na simple.Me mga pangarap, at mga pagsubok tulad ng mga normal na tao...ung baliw baliwan din minsan...

Naisip ko ren na kaya siguro may mga uma-idol sa akin is dahit tapat akong tao.Kung ano ako, pinapakita ko at sinasabi ko. At siguro iniidol ako ng mga tao dahil lagi ako tumatawa at nagpapatawa, kahit ako mismo may mga sakit na nararamdaman..

Minsan pa nga ayoko ng bumangon...Iniisip ko na sana baligtad na lang, yung panaginip ko na lang yung totoo, at yung realidad na lang yung panaginip. Pero hindi ganun ang buhay e, kailangan tayo bumangon at harapin ang mga pagsubok...di kasi yun mawawala kahit matulog ka pa ng kasing haba ni sleeping beauty.

Ang galing nga naman ng buhay no? Sa totoo lang kung idedescribe ko sa words ang nararamdaman ko..eto yun---basag basag na ako at durog durog, Di na rin bago at luma na rin masasabi...pero bawat piraso ng durog kong pagkatao ay lumalaban at nagmamahal pa rin sa buhay.

At sa bawat pagmamahal na binibigay ng mga tao sa akin, unti unti uli ako nabubuo, pero hindi na bilang ako lang... pero..Bilang isang napakagandang parte ng isang mundo na may pagmamahal.

....salamat mga idol.

my new CAREER as a back up dancer for an international pop artist

2012-01-06T10:30:00.000-08:00

GRABE. PHOTOGRAPHER NA, DANCER PA. HIRAP KUMITA.LOLZ
dont take life too seriously or you might go cuckoo.

My 2012 RESOLUTION.

2012-01-02T03:30:00.000-08:00

Hmmm. Year of the dragon na 2012.

I can feel it! Eto na talaga ang year ko. :)))

Ok sorry, year pala nating lahat!

Pinagpapasalamat ko sa diyos ang 2011, kasi hindi man naging sobrang yaman last year.

Napakarami ko namang natutunan na di matutumbasan ng pera kailanman.

2011 rin ang nagpatunay kung gaano ako katapang na tao.

This year may mga bagay ako sa buhay ko na imamaintain at babaguhin para lalo umunlad at maging mas mabuting tao...at ishe share ko yun sa inyo..malay nyo baka rin makatulong sa inyo..

Medyo kokontian ko lang kasi baka sobra naman ako mastress.
:)

1. Be more positive and thankful everyday.

2. Love more

3. Save and invest more...be more organized.

4. Live in the present.

5. Exercise more. Healthier living.6 pack abs, pde ring 4. Healthier skin and bod.

6. This year Ill excel more in my arts..
I want my Visual Art, Video and Photography bigger. TAMI BALLESTEROS STUDIO--> that will be no.1 in the WORLD! AJA! http://facebook.com/tamiballesterosphotography

7. eat, pray and make love!

Kayo share nyo rin ano new year resolution nyo. Happy New Year! Love you all my blog readers.

mwah *

and I share to you this cool laidback song inaalay ko sa 2012!

My thoughts about Christmas...

2011-12-02T04:18:00.001-08:00

It's the time of the year once again...

A time where families and loved ones celebrate and cherish the moment when Jesus was born.

I am very lucky to be a part of a national culture that celebrates the longest Christmas celebration.

That's what's distinct about us Filipinos...:)

But more than the lavish decors and sumptous food,parties and gatherings,

Christmas is a time to reflect.Just what I always do...

When I was a kid, I envy families that are whole, and with a lot of food and gifts in their homes...

You see I grew up away from my real family, and everytime I hear the laughter of our neighbor's family, How wish it was me there too.

But eventually i got used to it. I told myself that instead of counting what I dont have, I count my blessings. Even as a kid, I always loved art and try hardest to be optimistic.

So, instead of wallowing in sadness, I celebrate what I have, like my talents,I make personally made cards that I designed...and my drawings and scribbles inside. I gave them to my friends and my loved ones...

I also like decorating our home. It's also an art to decorate you know.
I like the Christmassy feel.:). I also cook. so I prepare meals too that I share .

I also like giving gifts. Specially to the less fortunate. I learned early on in my life, that its not what YOU have ,but what YOU do with what YOU have...

and YOU can not equate PROSPERITY with the amount of money YOU have.
PROSPERITY is how YOU feel. There are a lot of people who may have billions of dollars but don't have peace of mind , and on the other hand there are people living SIMPLE lives, but have hearts that is overwhelming with gratitude.

With this blog, I am also giving YOU guys an early gift of wisdom. :)))

with that, I'd like to end this blog and thank YOU all who loves me.
All that I have in this world , I wouldn't have, if not for God and the people who trusted and believed in me. You give me Christmas, every day of the year. :)

-TAMI BALLESTEROS

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Let's help to find her LOVE.

2011-11-21T06:18:00.000-08:00

I saw this old woman sitting by herself yesterday at the corner of buendia and roxas blvd yesterday. Surprised to see a bond paper pinned in front and back of her dress with a picture of a missing old man, i asked her about it and she said it is her husband who has been missing for two weeks now. I was touched by her integrity and pained to see her looking for him in that manner so i decided to help her too. I asked permission to post her picture here in fb to be shared by others as help for finding Mr. Luis Matias.

Lolo Matias is 78 years old, he displays childish behaviour so do coax him if found and restrain him from leaving ur sight.
Call any of these numbers immediately 09497763122/ 09326095491 / 09474196145, he lives in #164 Dolores St. Pasay City Brgy 66 Zone 08

Do share this around please at sana mahanap agad si Lolo Luis Matias!
By: Dumars Isia

Bawal na Pagibig.

2011-11-15T04:05:00.000-08:00

Lahat ng taong dadaan sa mundo na ito ay iibig...
Ganun ang sistema ng mundo,ng katauhan at isip natin....
Ganun tayo nilikha ng maykapal...
Mabuhay para umibig..
Pero bakit ganun?...minsan umiibig ka na, akala mo sasaya ka na...
akala mo yun na...pero hindi pala...

kasi ito ay bawal na pagibig...

Kakatuwa no? Hindi pala lahat ng pagibig ay pwede...
Andaming pagibig na bawal...
kung iisa isahin ko ito baka bukas pa ako matapos kakaexplain...
pero may ilan ako babanggitin

May mga tao na gusto mo man mahalin,ay hindi na pwede..hindi pwedeng maging bakaw...
sa simpleng rason na may mahal na silang iba..o may mahal na tayo..
pero minsan makulit ang puso , bawal na, ay pinipilit pa magnakaw ng mga sandali para makasama ang minamahal...kahit niloloko lang natin mga sarili natin na ito ay magtatagal...

May mga klase rin ng pagibig na ibinawal ng tradisyon, relihion at kultura...mahirap din kalaban yun...marami akong kilalang tao na sinunod na lang nila ang kanilang pamilya..o ang tingin ng susyodad, para lang di sila kutyain sa klase ng pagmamahal na pinagbawal ng mundong ginagalawan nila....di ko rin sila masisi...dahil di rin natin alam kung ano ang posibleng mawala sa kanila kung di nila susundin ang mga tinakdang batas sa kanila....

Pero, sa lahat ng sinabi ko...isa sa pinakamasakit ay ang BAWAL na Pagibig na sarili natin ang nagtakda....

bakit kamo?

dahil minsan ang tao na minamahal natin ay ginagawa tayong laruan.
Laruan na pwede nila itapon o balikan kung kelan nila gusto...
Iniisip nila na di tayo masasaktan kahit ano gawen nila...
laruan lang naman tayo e...at di tayo aaray at wala tayo karapatan magreklamo...

At minsan namamanhid na tayo sa pananakit...dahil iniisip kasi natin..mahal natin siya e..kaya kailangan tiisin...
pero kailangan nating magising sa katotohanan...

na isang araw isa ka na lang laruan na gunit gunit at wala ng silbi.....kaya wag mo na antayin dumating ang panahon na yun...
ipagbawal mo na ang ganung pag ibig.para sa yo...para sa pagmamahal mo sa sarili mo at sa mga taong nagmamahal ng tunay sa yo....at buuin ang iyong mga pangarap...

Lahat tayo sa mundong ito ay iibig....lahat tayo ay iibig sa BAWAL...me mga maling pinagbabawal at me mga tama na ipinagbabawal...kailangan maging matalino ang isip mo para malaman kung alin dun ang TAMA......sa mga sinasabing ....
BAWAL na PAGIBIG...

-tami ballesteros

PHOTO: TAMI BALLESTEROS PHOTOGRAPHY FASHION+COSMETICS: THE GLAM SHOP

a nice candid pic :)

2011-11-02T23:10:00.000-07:00

i like this candid snapshot of me looking back at the photographer. it's haunting yet in some way beautiful.it really represents life, for we all can not totally forget, be it good or bad experiences..., but there are things we just need to leave behind. .. to grow... and one day you will look back and smile at the sad past . for it made you a better person you are now. -tami ballesteros

My thoughts about birthdays...

2011-10-30T01:13:00.000-07:00

hmmm. ...the 4th of november,a very special day...coz it's the day one Tami Ballesteros was born to make this world 1 person crazier & more gorgeous...:)

and a lot of thoughts are running in my mind.. and i decided to write them down and share them to you my dear readers...

for me, a birthday is not just a once a year celebration. it should be a celebration everytime we get the chance to open our eyes to a new day...however i dont suggest throwing a birthday party everyday.:)..a simple appreciation to the world and up above is enough.

a birthday to me is also having a new paradigm in life .Having new thoughts , principles and values that makes you a better person is also being reborn spiritually, hence, I call it a birthday...

To me a birthday doesn't mean to be old. One can be young forever if they choose to.

age is just a number. I will celebrate my youth and the child in me for the rest of my life.

Birthdays is a chance for us to reflect on what's been going on with our lives...

a chance to ask have we fucked it so much? a chance to get to know our strengths and weaknesses, most especially, our improvement areas.As long as we are living, there is always a room for improvement.

Emotions mixed up everytime, my birthday is coming up...maybe because...i reminisce on the people, places and experiences that has come and gone... It draws me up to smile and at the same time shed a tear or two.

Birthdays to me is to realize that in this meaningful life, we are given so many chances and privileges to be loved and love, share our blessings and be better each passing moment.

I would have wanted to write a long list of material things I would love to get this coming birthday of mine, but i chose not,I believe I'd rather give than receive for a change.

And maybe this simple gift of me having to be able to share the wisdom I gained , is also a gift I know that would come back one way or another.

And I take this chance to thank YOU all who supported and believed in me.

loved and cared for me...to all of us...

I wish not just a Happy Birthday but Happy Birthdays on our every waking days.

Amen.- tami

And I share this very nice song to reflect on,,by one of my favorite crooner..BAMBOO...with LYRICS, so you could sing a long..:)))

my official birthday song- QUESTIONS

my favorite lines:

Running in circles
In this once in a lifetime
I got this
One last chance
To ditch this borderline life
My place in this world,
last day I draw breath
I'm about to collide
With myself...

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2011-10-17T23:51:00.000-07:00

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SANA WAG MUNA XA MALAOS TULAD NG FRIENDSTER KC NOW PA LANG AKO NATUTUTO AT NAGEENJOY GAMITIN XA

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Our Miss WORLD rep looks a little bit manly, but..i think with the right makeover she can WIN.

2011-10-09T14:27:00.000-07:00

HERE IS MY SUGGESTION.and my suggestions are always effective. so if anyone from Miss World Phils can read this. follow these: :)and if you need a great photographer/stylist You should be tapping a great and young talent ..ehemmm..such as me.

and now my dear readers, if YOU also want a new look , great makeover and superb gorgeous photos dont hesitate to get in touch with me through facebook.com/tamiballesterosphotography thank you.