tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106Sat, 31 Aug 2024 01:53:44 +0000sex toysthe internetmon amorepopular culturesafe sexsexlingerieeco-friendlymasturbationsexual orientationwomendatinggender rolesmenrelationshipsschoolsexualityshoestechnologythings that pretend not to be sex toysv-dayacademiabody imageboozebuddhismcommitmentcontestcultureejaculationexhibitionismfashionfeelingsfetishfitnessfoodgendergender expressiongreengrowing uphealth carehigh schoolhonestyletters I will never sendlovelubematerialismmediametamoneymonogamynon-monogamynon-relationshipsnudityoral sexpersonal massagerspornpropssex storessex workspankingterminal illnessthe gymtheatrethings that are weird.vaginasvampiresvibratorswinninghttp://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)Blogger70125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-6772087881744989702Tue, 23 Oct 2012 14:30:00 +00002012-10-23T08:30:34.282-06:00commitmentdatingwinningwomenWithin three hours of being informed that the cute and fun girl with whom I thought things were going just swimmingly and felt no need to changed informed me that a) She did not want a relationship, to 'move forward' and in response to my telling her that I did not want that either that b) she could not continue as things were, I had secured a date for this weekend. Maybe I'm not completely http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2012/10/well-call-it-win.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-2255666192218126380Sun, 25 Dec 2011 00:01:00 +00002011-12-24T17:03:00.853-07:00It still feels like an unbelievable revelation when I find out that someone thinks I'm sexy. Comprehending that more than one person might think this at any given time is like a brick to the head.That's all. Happy whatever you celebrate.http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/12/it-still-feels-like-unbelievable.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-9029517886946212568Wed, 16 Nov 2011 04:04:00 +00002011-11-15T21:39:52.717-07:00high schoollovemenpopular culturesexual orientationsexualitywomenI'm going to give a vague Glee spoiler alert here if you happen not to have watched any of season 2 or season 3 thus far. Okay?Santana is in love with Brittany. She's come to the conclusion that she is gay/lesbian. Now, these two things could very well both be true, both in the world of brilliant television musical dramadies, and life, but the first does not necessarily make the second true. http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/11/actions-and-identity-or-consideration.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-3021595893026908897Wed, 09 Nov 2011 03:00:00 +00002011-11-08T20:01:13.820-07:00He didn't say that I worried too much.He didn't tell me to stop worrying.He said " You're an amazing person and you don't need to worry as much as you do."That was new. http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/11/worries.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-5115081420116776444Wed, 14 Sep 2011 17:40:00 +00002011-09-14T12:07:08.467-06:00body imagegrowing upnuditysextheatreOne of my absolute favorite things about spending time alone where I live is the freedom not to wear any more clothing than I want to or is necessary due to temperature. I just took a shower after trying to plant some things. I may have put the sprouted avocado upside down, and that potted basil may have been too late in meeting the garden. That's entirely beside the point. The point is, thathttp://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/09/me-time.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-9156779714936400482Wed, 01 Jun 2011 22:53:00 +00002011-06-01T16:56:57.346-06:00feelingsnon-relationshipsrelationshipsIn theory, intentionally avoiding relationships should prevent one from finding one's self feeling as though one has been dumped. In reality, this is not entirely true.http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/06/add-it-to-list.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-2336345496402750156Wed, 06 Apr 2011 01:10:00 +00002011-04-05T19:13:09.546-06:00My darling wife reminded me of the conventional wisdom that it takes half the duration of a relationship to 'get over it' once it has ended. Mon Amore and I were together for 45 months, meaning I should 'be over it' in April of 2012. You know, if the world hasn't already ended by that point.http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/04/lets-get-over-this.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-5271851336853864586Mon, 04 Apr 2011 00:39:00 +00002011-04-03T18:42:34.745-06:00datingmenmon amoresexual orientationwomenNot long after my split from Mon Amore, some friends from the world of fringe theatre was consoling me over a drink. They began pondering who they might fix me up with 'What guys do we know that are good enough for Kinsey'? I told them guys weren't the only or even necessarily the primary market for me, of which they were apparently totally unaware before. This led to the inevitable question http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/04/disorientation.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-4342655078857987498Mon, 28 Mar 2011 23:45:00 +00002011-03-28T17:49:26.088-06:00sex toystechnologyI recently pontificated that if my Kobo, iPod, and vibrator were all one magical device that could also tell me how great my ass looks in those jeans and that I'm way prettier than my ex's new flame, I would pretty much never have any need for a Significant Other again.* Listener's response: There's got to be an app for that!*except for the part that a magical literary/musical/film/orgasm http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/03/theres-app-for-that.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-9128303612162822383Sun, 27 Mar 2011 00:31:00 +00002011-03-26T19:20:07.843-06:00gender roleshealth caremon amoresexual orientationsexualityI should probably start by saying, because I don't believe that I have yet, that Mon Amore and I went our separate ways back in June.In August I moved from Colorado back to my home town in Nova Scotia. Yeah, I know, I never post, one more excuse, I probably have zero readers. Whatever. I write because I can't help but write, I'll try once again to do more of it in this forum than on paper or http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/03/just-that-time-and-that-song.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-1039928593399911294Sat, 22 Jan 2011 05:59:00 +00002011-01-21T23:03:06.835-07:00ejaculationmasturbationHi internet,I know I've been more conspicuously absent than usual, but then, only if you were ever paying attention in the first place. I just had something to share: I just made myself ejaculate without being high for the first time ever. Ejaculation is not unknown or even uncommon for me, but very, very difficult to manage by myself, and on the rare occasions it has happened, it has been afterhttp://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2011/01/revelation.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-3658748507186628510Sat, 08 May 2010 03:28:00 +00002010-05-07T21:37:18.402-06:00oral sexpopular culturesexvampiresI have a hypothetical vampire-sex question. (Shut up, I'm watching 'True Blood')So, there are those people who, for reasons I completely fail to understand, are unwilling to kiss their partner after said partner has performed oral sex on them, at least not before they gargle or brush their teeth or whatever. In the case of vampire-human sex in particular, because I assume this would be kind of ahttp://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2010/05/you-want-me-to-kiss-you-after-that.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-4903005070616909280Sat, 24 Apr 2010 20:35:00 +00002010-04-24T14:47:33.584-06:00popular culturethings that are weird.vaginasFolks,apparently the latest trend in very personal grooming is VAGAZZLING. It is more less exactly what it sounds like, the application of crystals to one's vaginal area. YEAH. Said area is, of course, completely denuded of hair. It seems to be that this is assumed for vagazzling - no one has pubic hair anymore.IF PEOPLE JUST LEFT THE DAMN HAIR WHERE IT WAS MAYBE THEY WOULDN'T THEN NEED TO http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2010/04/vagazzle-nsfw.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-4051019686141049944Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:06:00 +00002010-03-08T08:06:54.095-07:00I also got the P-style, which I am in the process of learning how to use! AT LAST, I will be able to pee standing up!!!http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2010/03/i-almost-forgot.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-428308090777814008Mon, 08 Mar 2010 14:44:00 +00002010-03-08T08:00:59.576-07:00eco-friendlymon amorevibratorsIt was definitely sad to see Hysteria go. Another small, locally-owned business pushed out of the market.My darling wife and I went to their going-out-of-business sale*.I picked up, wait for it....A SOLAR POWERED VIBRATOR (at 60% off!)It is difficult for me to express how much this thrills the eco-geek in me. Basically, as you can see, it's a bullet with a control attached that looks kind of a http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2010/03/let-sunshine-in.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-9218446933967487570Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:22:00 +00002010-02-05T18:24:09.327-07:00sex storesHysteria in Denver is closing. Sad times. I'm checking out the going-out-of-business sale with my darling wife tomorrow.**who is not the same person as my partner (Mon Amore), just for clarification. http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2010/02/goodbye-hysteria.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-440443904181486667Fri, 08 Jan 2010 03:16:00 +00002010-01-07T20:19:26.008-07:00masturbationpopular cultureFinally watching 'True Blood' for the first time.Sookie telling her cat to stop purring and watching her masturbate: priceless, and so painfully life-like.http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2010/01/other-kind-of-pussy.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-8340422155839993222Sat, 26 Dec 2009 06:12:00 +00002009-12-25T23:23:40.879-07:00I was conceived many years ago last night, or next Thursday: either Christmas or New Year's Eve of the year in question. Why do I know this? Lots of people know when their conception occurred, because a parent went away for business, were on leave from service, lots of reasons, some less pleasant than others. Why do I know? I know because my parents felt the need to have an argument as to the http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/12/and-things-you-never-want-to-hear.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-2301531852987613050Sat, 26 Dec 2009 05:09:00 +00002009-12-25T22:14:40.438-07:00letters I will never sendmon amoreThank you notes which would be unwise actually to send:Mere de Mon Amore, Cherie*,Thanks for sending us home with those excellent cookies as well as the other fantastic leftovers from dinner this evening. The cookies made a really satisfying snack after the incredibly satisfying sex that I just had with your first-born.Thanks a bundle.Love, your child's partner. *Dear the Mother of My Lovehttp://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/12/better-left-unsaid.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-4063726981540367953Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:33:00 +00002009-12-11T14:55:57.811-07:00fitnesssexI subscribe to fitness magazines. I found SELF immensely helpful after I graduated from college and was trying to make-over my life and body from the excesses and abuses to which I had been subjecting myself. I got a free subscription to Women's Health thanks to a fabulous eyeslipsface (e.l.f) offer - a free magazine subscription with orders over $20.00. I'm generally pretty pleased with the http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/12/like-sex-machine.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-6449022756130976682Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:08:00 +00002009-12-05T14:31:10.494-07:00academiabuddhismgenderI'm doing research for my Buddhism in America final paper. I'm writing about women in Buddhism, surprise, surprise. The reading is bringing me back to some of the fundamental questions that I seem always to be asking myself in my line of scholarship about sex, gender, and Buddhism, such as:1) How does one resolve the apparent contradictions between teachings on emptiness, and the traditional http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/12/in-which-i-postulate-once-again-on.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-7003196723094796147Tue, 17 Nov 2009 00:01:00 +00002009-11-16T17:26:34.956-07:00gender rolespopular cultureTo give this post some context, I first have to make a confession:I watched a Romantic Comedy, willingly, by myself. . .Now that I'm done being embarrassed,I've been noticing a trend of female characters that I can actually identify with in these kinds of movies lately, or at least the previews for them, as I'm usually more into blood-guts-explosions-zombies kinds of movies, or depressing/foreignhttp://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/11/just-like-woman.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-948278444068539750Tue, 13 Oct 2009 19:23:00 +00002009-10-13T13:24:34.627-06:00Why haven't I kept my promise about posting?Because I busted up my hand and haven't been able to type - need to prioritize school work for what I can eek out with voice recognition software, that's why.http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/10/why-havent-i-kept-my-promise-about.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-807902291742319702Fri, 18 Sep 2009 06:03:00 +00002009-09-18T00:10:00.792-06:00gender expressionsexSex really turns me into a guy - my stereotypical male qualities and behaviors. It's funny. Visual:wearing boxers and a white undershirt, drinking a beer which rests between my legs when I'm not drinking it. Yeah.Then I burped while making nachos, and Mon Amore informed me that,"I was just about to say, as long as you don't burp right now, you wouldn't totally be a guy." It also seems as though http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/09/dude-ness.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-388217139213894106.post-639128216358599654Wed, 16 Sep 2009 00:16:00 +00002009-09-15T18:22:38.607-06:00sex toysThis is EXACTLY what I have always been concerned about. Glass toys are pretty, they seem interesting, but they frigging terrify me, not matter how unusual problems with them are. ITS GLASS and very important, sensitive parts of the body. I break most everything that it is possible to break, and have what I am told is an extraordinarily *strong* vagina. If its possible to break a glass toy http://letsblogaboutsex.blogspot.com/2009/09/this-is-exactly-what-i-have-always-been.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Unknown)0