Kissing Tips - How to kiss?

10 way to kiss

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Tease Kiss:
Go to kiss your partner and kiss them lightly on their lips. Then kiss them more passionately and make them think you are going to slip your tongue in. Just when they take the bait, pull away slightly and look them in the eye with a sexy look. Repeat the process until they can't take it and give them the kiss they have wanted the whole time, but slowly.

On-Screen Kiss:
When you are watching a movie, kiss the same way the actors have kissed. It makes the whole scene come to life!!

The Lead Up Kiss:
Sit behind your lover kissing on their ear. After giving them a hint that you want a kiss, whisper into their ear. Ask them if they can taste your lips. Then slowly and sensually suck on their bottom or top lip. Then go for the passionate kiss.

The Pop Rock Kiss:
It is fun to slip in a bit of Pop Rocks into your mouth right before the kiss. When you French kiss there is definite chemistry...literally!

Silly Kiss:
The receiver puffs out one cheek and when the kisser gives a big kiss on the puffed out cheek, the receiver blows the air out, making a silly noise. Repeat for both cheeks. It is most effective when used together with butterfly and Eskimo kisses, also an appropriate kiss to give your love while in front of your parents!

Kiss By Kiss:
One of the best kisses is the one that proceeds at half the pace you want it to. Instead of kissing on the lips you kiss on the cheek. As you approach your lover's lips, kiss by kiss (and it should take a minute to get there) you should touch them, so that the kiss, when it arrives, is not the end of a prelude of kisses, but the start of a new sequence. And so on!

Down To Your Toes Kiss:
The best turn on is when your partner looks deeply and longingly into your eyes, then reaches their hands for your face, and takes it gently in both hands, and kisses you with a fire that shoots straight down to your toes!

Vampire Kiss:
Kiss him on the neck. Slowly start to bite him, or give him a passionate kiss that makes him ask for more. He'll love the feeling when you nibble on his neck.

The Lip Sucking Kiss:
After you've been kissing for at least 5 to 10 seconds, ever so slowly pull only about 1/2 an inch away from their lips. Then very gently (with moist lips) go back as if your going to kiss them and suck on their bottom lip instead. Pull away and go for their top lip all in a sensually slow motion! With this kiss you might end up doing more than just kissing, but it all depends how far you the couple want to take it!

The Make Up Kiss:
Do this kiss when you and your lover are mad at each other. Go to him/her , don't say a word, just undress him/her . Kiss him/her from head to " ... everywhere you want to ... " and just give him/her all the loving he/she needs.

Romatic Kissing

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1. Ice Kiss

Celebrate the first day of winter with an ice kiss. Put an ice cube in your mouth until your mouth becomes cold. Remove the cube, track down your love and plant a kiss that will send chills.

2. Toe Kiss

Prepare a foot bath for your love at the end of a long day. After the good soak, you towel dry his or her feet, give a massage and seal each toe with a kiss.

3. Pink Panther Kiss

Humming the Pink Panther theme, prowl toward your partner. On the high note, pounce and pucker. Suggestion: wear only pink!

4. Palm Kiss

Holding your love's face with your palms, smile and deliver a sweet kiss to his or her lips.

5. Strawberry Kiss

Hold a fresh, juicy strawberry between your lips. Beckon your love to kiss it away.

6. Noodle Kiss

Go out for a romantic Italian dinner. Make sure one of you orders something with long noodles. When the time is right, each take an end of a noodle and draw it to your mouths until your lips meet for a kiss.

7. Flinstone Kiss

Playfully decide to call each other Fred and Wilma today. After you kiss your love holler, "Yaba dada do!"

8. Instant Reply Kiss

After a great kiss, tell your love you want an instant reply.

9. The Three N's Kiss

Kiss your love on the naval, then the neck, and conclude with a cute nose kiss.

10. Earlobe Kiss

Sneak up on your love from behind and put your arms around his or her waist. Nibble on his or her earlobe.

11. Flower Kiss

Have a single flower for your love when he or she gets home. Present it while telling your love how very special he or she is. Finish with a loving kiss.

12. Scarf Kiss

Lasso your love with your scarf and round him or her up for a kiss.

13. Card Kiss

Mail a romantic card to your love and seal it with a kiss.

14. Hair Combing Kiss

Run your fingers through any and all hair on your love's head during a kiss.

15. The Three E's Kiss

Choose any order, but kiss each of your love's ears, eyes and elbows.

16. Full Moon Kiss

A full moon is very romantic. Take your love someplace where the two of you can smooch by moonlight.

17. Ice Cream Kiss

Share an ice cream cone with simultaneous licking. If tongue movements and closeness don't get the two of you kissing, think of how cold and wonderful your love's mouth tastes and go in for a smooch.

18. Coffee Kiss

Serve coffer to your love, then ask, "Will that be one kiss or two?"

19. Grape Kiss

Feed each other grapes. Put one between your lips and signal your love to come and get it.

20. Kiss A L'Orange

In conjunction with your fresh-squeezed morning orange juice, have two orange quarters cut. Each of you place an orange quarter in you mouth, peel side showing, and kiss.

21. Parking Kiss

With your love in your car, find a romantic place to park and neck.

22. Nail Kisses

Softly kiss each fingernail on your love's hand. If your love enjoyed it, continue down to the toenails.

23. Cookie Kiss

After your love has just each a freshly baked cookie, kiss him or her softly.

24. Tackle Kiss

Tackle and wrestle your love onto the couch or bed. When your love is pinned down, plant him or her a big ol' kiss.

25. Dessert Kiss

Find a place that serves your love's favorite dessert. During dessert, feed each other and agree to kiss between bites.

Kissing Games

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Lollipop Kiss

Take your partner and gently pull her close to you. Lick her bottom lip, and proceed to french kiss her. Then when she needs to take a breath, cause most girls and guys need a break anyways, grab her tongue ever so gently with your lips and run them over it.

Marco Polo Kiss

First one of you need to figure out who's marco and who's polo. Then you play the game like marco and polo. Except instead of just touching them, you have to embrace them in your arms and kiss him/her. It's great fun.

Dive Gear Kiss

While diving in a pool, one person wears a diving mask and the other person has to close their eyes and hold on to the mask-wearing person really close. Then trade the inhaling part of the dive gear. Take a deep breath and take the inhaler part away. Kiss the person wherever or however you like, then switch places. This should only be done with some one you truly trust would not hurt you.

Steam Kiss

You or your partner drink a very hot drink while the other drinks a very icy cold one and see if there's some steam. It's fun because if it doesn't work, just keep trying!

Who Lasts Longer Kiss

Sit very close to each other, your lips almost touching, arms where you please. Sit like this, very close, and see who can go the longest without kissing the other. It's great fun, because you can lose on purpose and still win!

Do What You Want Kiss

This is always fun. One of you just lies there, and the other does whatever he or she wants to give pleasure. Then, you switch roles. See who can give the most satisfying kiss, with the other not participating at all.

Pepper Kiss

Take a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It give the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you or your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin the kiss.)

Lip Venom

Before you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn't looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to your lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after applying. When your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running through his lips for the rest of the day

Marathon Kissing

See how long you can kiss for (try 5 - 10 minutes straight)

Candy Kiss

Use either a Jolly Rancher or some type of hard candy/mint. Either you or your partner place the candy in your/their mouth and then it is like a game of keep away. Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their mouth while the other person tries to get it in theirs. But you can only use your tongue and lips. This can be very fun if you have the right partner!!! Enjoy.

The Tickle Kiss

In this kiss you make use of the fact that the roof of the mouth is the most ticklish part of the body. Begin a normal French kiss and (be sure your partner understands the game) stroke your tongue across the roof of each other's mouth. This will create almost unbearable chills down your spine and the winner is the person who can stand them because the loser pulls away. The best part about this kiss is that it is different every time and always fun.

Name Kiss

If u have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This works very well and everyone likes
it!

Tongue Wars

Each person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person "blocks" the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick the next type of kiss. This game is great for reliving first make-out tension.

Starburst Trick

Out a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it! Enjoy!

Ring Kiss

What you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then while you and your partner are French kissing, he tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!

Tongue Tease

When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.

Kissing Advice

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it OK to kiss on the first date?

I think it is OK to kiss on the first date. I wouldn't consider making out on the first date, but a good-bye kiss is nice.

How can I spice up my kissing?

I have some different kissing styles on my site.

My boyfriend has a long tongue and he sticks it all the way down my throat. What should I do?

Tell him honestly that you would prefer to be kissed with less tongue. That you enjoy the feel of the tip of the tongue. Otherwise, if you don't tell him how will he know? Tell him that you also want some variety and that you found some different types of kisses at my site and would like to try them out.

I feel like when I am kissing my boyfriend that I breathe too loud on his cheek. Is that normal?

Yes

I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend because my nose is too big, and it might get in the way and that would be embarrassing. What should I do?

You shouldn't worry about it. Your nose won't get in the way because your heads will be slightly tilted so that the noses won't bump straight on. And even people who have small noses bump occasionally so don't sweat it. Just enjoy it!

I'm a teenager and I haven't been kissed. I have a little sister who is 12 and is already kissing. I am worried about her. Is that the right age to be kissing at?

I think that is pretty young to be kissing, but it seems that these days they're starting younger and younger. Don't compare your inexperience with your sister's experience. Everybody has their first experience at different ages in their lives. I've even had people in their 20's tell me they haven't kissed before. So you're not alone in thinking that you should have kissed by now. There is no age when you should be experiencing your first kiss. When you meet someone right for you who you really care about and who cares about you, that is when you should be having your first kiss. So don't worry. It will happen. And chances are your little sister isn't telling you the whole truth, either.

Learn how to kiss better and like a pro!

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Kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is no wrong way to kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Some people, believe it or not, are appalled at the idea of French Kissing or using your tongue while you kiss. While others can't imagine kissing without using your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that person a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing and to get used to the way that person kisses.

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations, such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip, then trying the other two types. And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.

The perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you really care about. There is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone special than with someone you hardly know, although a really good kiss can certainly bring two people closer together.

A lot of people have been writing to us on how to overcome the fear of kissing someone. Our answer would be to not kiss that person right away. Wait until an attraction builds between the two of you and a romantic situation evolves. Go out with the person a couple of times before having that first kiss.

Basic Kissing Tips

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Hands - There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.

French Kissing

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.

Relax - You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. That's it!

Open Lips - Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you're at the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.

Positioning - Do not have your face dead on to his/hers, otherwise your noses will touch. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your mouths will meet at the corner of the other's mouth. It will look like the below picture:

If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person. Their lips have already touched. When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple in the picture.

Tongue - Practice on your own if you'd like. Open your mouth enough (while you're by yourself of course!) just enough to stick a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth. Don't stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours. When this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a bit differently) then just do the same as they do. They may flick their tongue over yours and you can do the same. Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing! Or you can just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing.

As for movement of the head, that is entirely up to you. Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight. Sometimes they won't. Sometimes just one person moves their head and the other doesn't. It's totally up to you.

You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

A great kiss that I learned is to start kissing along her neck to her ear in the middle of making out, then gently suck on her ear lobe, kiss the little area behind her earlobe, and gently blow into her ear. It's a great way to make your kiss even more intimate. But make sure you don't do it too often in one session, and don't stay there too long. The lips are the primary importance of kissing.

Kiss Types

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Chocolate Kiss

Best done with a Mars Bar because there is caramel in that too! Jus take a bite and French kiss as you would. Very silky smooth type of kiss, and can end up very messy.
Extremely pleasurable, and even more funny! Perfect for a first date just after a first kiss, or something to do that's a little bit different. A must for anyone, best style of kissing ever!

Spiderman Kiss

It's just like in the movie. You kiss upside down, taking in both of your lower lips and do all those other kisses listed above.

Spitzer Kiss

What you do is when you are ready to kiss (or even while you're Frenching or doing any other kiss) is gently nibble and/or lick the parts just above or below your partner's lip. Now don't slobber all over your partner. Just give enough saliva to get them damp. This is very fun and romantic. It will also turn your partner on or in other words make them like the kiss more.

Lap Kiss

While your partner is laying with his/her head in your lap, lean over and kiss her/him. Your bottom lip will be on your partner's top lip, and vise versa. You can even French kiss while in this position. This kiss is a playful kiss, and it can lead to much more.

Carmex Kiss

If either you or your partner are not carmex junkies, apply a little carmex to your lips and feel the gentle tingle on your lips.

Muzzle Kiss

When kissing the neck of your partner, at one point blow air out of your mouth while pressing the lips down, creating the sound of some sort of... flatulence.! It should be ever so unexpected and quite interesting indeed.

Trade-off Kiss

One of you gets a cinnamon candy and the other a mint. One takes the cinnamon and the other the mint. While French kissing, switch them from time to time. Great fun.

Tongue Ring Kiss

What you do is, if your partner has a tongue ring and the two of you are French kissing, mess with his/her tongue ring while kissing and it gives your partner chills and excitement/happiness because a lot of people with tongue rings love that. Or if the two of you have a tongue ring have a tongue ring WAR! What you do is keep his/her tongue away from your tongue ring, while you're messing with their tongue ring. (NOTE: don't Tangle tongue rings together because that will be a disaster!)

Breath Kiss

In a hot moment - creates major anticipation - barely touch lips with lips slightly parted... then breath your partner's breath... moving heads slowly to experience different sensations... lips touching on and off slightly... it is a very teasing sort of kiss and builds passion tremendously.

Chew Kiss

Tell your partner to place their tongue deeply into mouth deeply... you VERY GENTLY "chew" on the back part of their tongue... do not suck. This will create a sensation in other places that can be very exciting!

Touch Kiss

You do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed alot. What you do is just simply touch tongues - like the tip of your tongue. You may want to move it around but you don't have to. You don't do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.

Underwater Kiss

Have your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you give them air.

Moving Kiss

Make sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French kissing gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind them. Very good for serious couples or just beginners.

Flavor Kissing

Put a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth (Hubba Bubba, Trident) just before you and your partner French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how long it takes for the flavor to run out!

Chin Kiss

Hold your partner's chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their head in the right direction. Continue to hold it as you kiss.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Vacuum Kissing

This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're sucking the air from your partner.

Cordial Kissing

Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's mouth. Only take a very small sip.

Butterfly Kissing

Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips.

Melt Kissing

Pass an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing.

Glow Stick Frenzy

Pass the mini mouth glow stick back and forth (same thing as melt kissing).

Tongue Sucking

When you have the chance to get really deep into your partners mouth, suck on their tongue as far as you can. Don't suck to hard, you don't want to hurt your partner. Otherwise it's very pleasing!

Sigh Kiss

When you first start kissing your partner gently lick their lips with the tip of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips, causing a tingling feeling that will intensify your kiss for sure.

Pop Kiss

Use pop-rocks, great fun. You've heard of fireworks, this is an explosion!

First Kisses

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The best kiss ever!(for guys)

Lay her oh a bed,couch etc get ontop of her and make her feel safe then gently lick or peck her hot spots e.g neck, stummach, ear after that give her a sweet kiss on the lips(mouth closed) lift your head up and look her in the eyes and tell her something like "i love you!" softly and sweetly, after begin a slow processing of frech kissing, pick the pace up after a while and repeat kissing hot spots over and over, this will give you gil one thing to remember and soemthing never to forget. And hey if she lkes it that much maybe she'll do the same to you .

Turning a Man on

When you are lying down, slide your hand up your mans top, lightly roam your hand around his stomach, then move up to his chest.

GUY TIP

When your with your girlfriend and shes kissing your neck. Run your hands down her back, in a somewhat of a cirlce motion, if you want run your hands down her sides too, then place your hands in her back pockets (if she has some) that'll make her wanna get closer. or at least it made me wanna get closer to my guy.

Kissing for the first time at the movies

This tip is for experienced and new couples.
1) When you are sitting next to each other, lift up the arm rest (if you can), and rest your head on his/her sholder and wait for them to do the same

2)**girls
Place your hand on their chest and start to trace their coler bone, then their neck, then their jaw bone, then pull their chin in for the kiss

**guys
Pick up one of their hands, and start tracing their fingers, rist, arm, coler bone, jaw, then when you reach their lips, touch them lightly, then pull them in from under thechin for the kiss

This kiss can be a light peck, to a french kiss
to me, its very romantic

1st time kiss

When its time for your 1st kiss, you will be scared. the 1st kiss is always the best. but ne ways when you kiss slowly do so and then back out. then once she goes toward you again, rub your girls tounge withurs(she will love it). then u will want more than just a kiss.lol

A Good First Kiss...

This is a good one for a first kiss. Guys, wait for the right time, then lean in slowly, slowly, (to make sure she's okay with it), then lightly brush your lips over hers, then give her a really, really soft kiss. Then look into her eyes. She'll totally move in closer for another kiss!

Amazing kiss (never forget it)

To create a memory to last forever with the one you love, do what my bf did to me. we were sitting in his room, on his bed. he got up to his computer put a long song on and came and sat down with me. then he kissed me lightly twice and then we proceded to make out. he gentaly put both of his hands on my hips and forcebly but extremely gently laid me down on his bed. (as he did this we continued making out) he then leaned ontop of me and intensified the kiss. i had my arms around his neck while he had a hand around me and one not to far up my skirt. i was so turned on we madeout for about an hour and a half. then he got up and lifted me to my feet where he stood behind me kissing my neck softly. i then turned around to makeout with him then we danced softly swaying back and forth while making out. it was the most memorable day of my life

First Kisses : Major Turn On!!!

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Alright this 1 is for girls, One day at school i was with this guy that i liked at the time and when it was time to go to class he tried to just give me a hug and leave(now that just wasn't cuttin it for me) so as he was starting to walk off i turned him around by his arm half aggresively and gently and said "you can't get away from me that easily" then i pulled him close to me grabbed him by the shirt then held on to his belt buckle and we had the most passtionate french kiss of both of our lives!!! We were both talking about how great it was for days

You just cant be scared if you want it go after it! If you are scared then it will never work for you the way you want it to.

How to get boys to kiss you

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There are three things you must do if you want boys to kiss you: dress right, smile and act friendly, and flirt. If you do these things, he'll feel an unconscious desire to kiss you!

Here's an example of how to get a guy to kiss you from the movie Bounce, starring Ben Affleck and Gwyneth Paltrow. Notice that she's dressed right (Well, you can't see all of her clothes in this shot, but take our word for it -- she is), and her hair is in a nice ponytail. The only problem is she wasn't smiling too much or flirting just before this kiss. It was almost like the Ben Affleck character felt sorry for her. You can see she still has a rather serious expression on her face as she's being kissed. To improve your chances of being kissed by the boy of your dreams, practice your smile and try to be in an upbeat, playful mood. Guys like girls who are fun to be with. Of course there are exceptions, and some rather artistic and intense guys like girls who are gothic, moody and nihilistic. If this is the type of guy you're after, then adjust your style to fit his. You might want to start carrying around a copy of his favorite book with you, just so that when you meet him you can pretend you're reading it. (This brilliant idea was sent in by Cindy from Spokane, a 15-year-old who said it worked to help her get to kiss her current boyfriend who was really into Harry Potter.) (Photo copyright 2000 by Miramax Films)

How to flirt Flirting involves saying nice things, teasing gently, or doing anything that shows your interest in someone. You can practice flirting by saying something cute to a store clerk, the mailman, or your bus driver -- whoever! Just tell him he's wearing a nice tie or that you like his shirt, or say anything nice that will make him smile. By practicing flirting you'll develop flirting confidence. Then when you see your secret crush, you can try a little flirting with him.

What can go wrong when i try to get a guy to kiss me?

What can go wrong is that he might think you're being too pushy or aggressive. But so what? If you don't try something, nothing's going to happen, so you really have nothing to lose. Besides, if you smile and act friendly and flirt just a little, he probably won't think you're too aggressive because you're doing it just a little bit.

What if i'm shy?

If you're shy, practice flirting to get over your shyness. If you're very shy because you inherited shyness (for example if your parents are also shy) then seek psychotherapy or counseling from your high school counselor. You can even practice flirting with your therapist or counselor.