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(Article) - Use a KiddyKap and Save Yourself From the Kid Spill Nightmare!

Jorbins.com — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:40:48 GMT

So...How am I going to explain this one to my wife?

I remember those words I mumbled to myself just before I gave up scrubbing a once beautiful carpet.

All my son wanted to do is be a "big boy" and drink out of a regular bottle instead of a “sippy cup”, as he called it.

I just wasn't in the mood for a lengthy fight that day when he approached me with a bottle of juice. So I gave in and let him drink from the bottle.

His chest puffed out as if he were now a "big boy" and proceeded to carry the bottle up to the kitchen table. I smiled as I watched him sit it on the polished wood. I was thinking I did something that made him feel good and he that he was getting to be my "big boy".

I then turned to finish writing an article I had been working on forever . At least it seemed that way.

What happened next?

Deep down I knew what was going to happen, but tried to ignore my good sense anyway. As you can guess that bottle didn't stay upright for long.

Accidents happen, but this one would leave it's mark given the contents of the bottle. I rushed to blot and soak up the spill as fast as possible using the finest cleaner I had on hand. Yeah right, "removes juice stains". My foot! Well, to give the cleaner a little credit, it did work a little.

Since then my wife and I decided that we should do something to help our son be a "big boy" but also let him drink from the bottle. We also wanted our older boy to keep from spilling his just the same. So we saved those squirt bottle lids and gave them a try. You know, those pull top lids you find on water bottles. They worked fairly good so long as they shut the lid! Let me tell you that both our boys sure did get into the habit of NOT shutting the lid even after constant reminders.

Do you know what happens when a bottle with an open pull top lid gets dropped or knocked over?

Thats right. It shoots a stream of liquid about three feet long. I have seen l carbonated drinks squirt up to 6 feet in length. Brilliant idea we had there. More like a spill nightmare! After our little "experiment" we have striped carpet to boot. Oh well. Live and learn.

Here is another spill story I bet you can relate to. It comes from Jane Pavlov whom I've met recently.

My husband and I took our first son Chris for a drive. He was about a year old at the time. Chris was in his car seat crying, so I gave him his baby bottle and he didn't want it. Then I gave him his sippy cup and refused to take it. Chris started pointing at my bottled beverage of Gatorade and wanted my drink. I did not give it to him so he started screaming and crying getting louder and louder and so of course I handed him my beverage (bad idea) and he spilled most of the drink all over himself and in the car. - Jane Pavlov

Yes I remember many car trips that ended with the same result. Come to think of it. Jane's story also reminds me of how many outfits my kids ruined during car trips. Not to mention the car upholstery. Unlike me, she had a great idea to fix the spill nightmare.

Sitting in the passenger seat holding my beverage in one hand and his sippy cup in another. I stared at both of them together and thought to myself, 'Why can there be a twist on cap with a spout for common beverage bottles'. - Jane Pavlov

That's exactly what Jane invented! It is called the KiddyKap.

The Kiddy Kap enables consumers to convert regular plastic beverage bottles such as water, juice, milk and baby bottles into spill-proof bottles for use by toddlers and young children.” - Jane Pavlov

What a great idea! A special cap that allows your little ones feel like "big" kids for drinking out of plastic beverage bottle bottle at the same time help prevent costly accidents. It is a product that I believe is a must for any parent to keep on hand. Believe me, I wish I knew about it before our stuff got ruined.

KiddyKaps are a win in my book because they:

are designed to be spill proof
reduce the stress of the whining, crying, and fighting children do when they want to drink out of an adult bottle
allow children to feel a sense of accomplishment by being able to drink from regular bottles that adults use
are small and easy to carry unlike toddler cups
are great for traveling, going to the mall, going to the park, etc.
eliminate the need to transfer drinks to a different container and possible spills from the transfer

There are 3 different styles of KiddyKaps:

The traditional KiddyKaps – 1 cap that fits regular plastic bottles and 1 cap that fits the larger “wide mouth” bottles.
BabyKaps – 2 caps that fits standard baby bottles for the transition from bottle to a sipper type lids. Fits those small plastic infant juice bottles as well.
MooKaps – 2 caps that fits single serve milk bottles.

My favorite benefit of KiddyKaps are the fact that they sell for only $2.99. Not bad at all compared to the money I spent to clean up and replace what spills have ruined.

Take it from me. You can save your carpet, your car interior, your children's clothes, your child, and even yourself from a spill nightmare. Pick up some of these KiddyKaps and have them on hand. You will be glad you did!

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(Article) - Creating a Unisex Nursery

Jorbins.com — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 00:00:15 GMT

For you expectant parents who do not want to know if your child is a girl or a boy, what do you do for a nursery design? Following are a few ideas that may help you.

What colors are ideal for a unisex nursery?

Any shade of green from apple green, lime green to a soft sage green can work well in a unisex nursery. Currently there are many products using green backgrounds or have green as an accent within the piece in bedding or rugs. By locating a rug or bedding that you like, you have a starting point on which to base your nursery.
Primaries can always be used and can work for either sex. Bright red, yellow, blue and green can never fail but use the primaries as accents only and use a neutral as your wall color.
If a softer palette is preferred, pastels in a buttery yellow, mint green, peach and lavender could also be used.

What themes work well for both a boy and a girl?

Themes that can be used for either a boy or a girl are:

Beach
Celestial
Frogs
Noah's Ark
Nursery Rhymes
Rubber Duckies
Teddy Bears
Under the Sea
Vintage Looks
Winnie the Pooh

Use color and pattern to create a gender-neutral nursery and then add a few simple accessories to make the room gender-specific once the baby is born. For example, paint the walls a soft color, such as a sage green, and locate fabrics with small patterns in florals, checks, stripes and other geometrics that have the same green of your walls. Choose a rug that has color and shapes but does not lean toward either sex.

After the birth of the baby, a more gender-specific lamp, art plaques and other accessories can be added to finish out the room. The beauty of color and pattern is that the room can grow with the child without having to change finishes. Simply change out the crib to a bed; the room can change from a nursery to a bedroom for a toddler.

Some general principles/ideas when designing a nursery, regardless of the baby's gender are:

Keep the room simple and not too cluttered.
One of the most inexpensive ways to customize a piece of plain furniture, such as a nightstand or a chest, is by the use of drawer pulls. For a few dollars you can create furniture with personality. Drawer pulls also can be used for window treatments, to hold valances or as tiebacks.
Don't forget the ceiling because your child will be looking up more than out. Paint the ceiling like the sky or at least a color.
If using a border, put the border where the child can see it up close, put at wainscot height rather than up at the ceiling.
The most important thing to remember is to make the nursery comfortable and safe.

Some specific products I would recommend are:

One of the most interesting products I have seen is the Cloud Wash Kit that is a do-it-yourself kit and creates clouds with shapes of your choosing, such as bunnies, sailboats, spaceships, etc. This product can be used on walls or the ceiling, which is the most forgotten space in any room. This product allows you to have a custom look for a small price and some effort. The product can be seen on my website www.thatsmyroom.com under Nursery Looks.

Also would recommend the use of the new wall murals that give a room such a unique look and can take the place of artwork. One example is a vintage Toy Block Mural that could work for either a boy or a girl. Can also be seen under Wallpaper Borders and Murals.

About the Author:

www.thatsmyroom.com - Online resource for Children's Room Decor-Nurseries to Teens, over forty themes for girls and boys

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(Article) - Child proofing your home

Jorbins.com — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 00:00:07 GMT

Children are always up to mischief. And that's why it is important that your home is child proof. Below is a list of rooms and to make them safe for your child to run about.

Bathroom:

Install toilet locks. These locks will prevent the toilet lid from being lifted by young children.

Remove sharp utensils and appliances from the bathroom. Razors, scissors, are better kept in an adult's bedroom or high up in a cupboard out of children's reach.

Keep all medications, cosmetics, and mouthwash safely out of children's reach.

Set hot water heaters no higher than 120 degrees F. For safe bathing, a lower water temperature will reduce the chance of scalding your baby.

Always check bath water temperature with your wrist or elbow before putting your baby in to bathe. This will prevent burns to a baby's delicate skin.

Place a nonslip mat in the bathtub to prevent falls.

Don't ever leave your baby alone in the bathtub, even for a minute.

Never leave any electrical appliances plugged in near water.

Kitchen:

Since families spend plenty of time in the kitchen, your child most likely will, too. Many dangers lurk in the average kitchen. To keep your baby safe, take the following steps.

Always store glasses and precious china in a lockable cabinet or up high and out of reach.

Keep knives and other sharp tools, such as electric mixer blades, in latched drawers.

Use safety latches on draws and doors where dangerous items are kept.

Never leave anything on the edge of a bench or table. As your child could easily pull it off.

Use the back rings on your cooker when cooking, but if you can't place the handles facing toward the back.

Install a fire extinguisher in the kitchen. But only attempt to extinguish a fire if it's small and contained. Otherwise, get your children out of the house and call the fire department from a neighbor's home.

Never leave children unattended on furniture or in high chairs.

Don't leave your baby alone in a highchair; always use all safety straps. This will prevent injuries and deaths from the baby climbing out, falling, or sliding under the tray.

Lock household cleaning products, knives, matches, and plastic bags away from children. This will prevent poisonings, bleeding injuries, burns, and suffocation.

All tablecloths should be secured to the table, so your child cannot pull anything off onto him/herself.

Keep rubbish bins locked, so that your baby does not have access to them.

Living room:

Electric sockets should be protected with safety covers.

Keep windows locked to prevent your child from falling outside.

Remove or shorten any cord that your child can reach. Cords from blinds or drapes can cause strangulation.

If you have glass doors either replace them with wooden ones or have safety glass put in.

Make sure all furniture is secure, so your baby cannot pull anything over on himself/herself.

Attach cushioned corner and edge bumpers to the sharp corners of a coffee table. You can also use them on fireplace hearths to soften falls against a hard brick or metal edge.

Put a fire guard around your fire. And never leave a baby/toddler in a room with a fire on.

Keep floors clean and vacuumed. Babies have an amazing sense for small objects that end up in their mouth and could cause choking.

Fix and repair all wobbly furniture and make sure all knobs are securely tight. Position furniture so that it can't be pulled over.

Bedrooms:

Keep pillows out of the crib until your baby is over a year old.

Keep small jewelry, perfumes, belts, scarves, and ties all out of reach from your baby.

Never lock a baby into a room.

Make sure closets can be opened from the inside, so that your toddler doesn't get locked in.

Never allow your baby to sleep with a bib on.

Keep older children's toys out of reach of your toddler.

All windows should have safety latches on them.

Stairs and hallways:

Sockets should be protected with socket covers.

Install safety gates at the top and bottom of your stairs.

Hallways and stairs should always be well lit.

Don't leave toys or other items on stairs.

Don't let your baby play in a baby walker near stairs.

About the Author:

Article written By Michlle Graham

Filed In: Baby and Parenting | Baby and Infants (Newborn-12 Months) | Baby Safety

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(Article) - 8 Ways to Boost Bonding With Baby

Jorbins.com — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 00:00:07 GMT

Babies bond in a number of ways, mostly through touch and smell. Bonding (or attachment) is the sense of connection between parents and infants that forms the foundation of the parent-child relationship. Here are some ways to do it well. Holding, talking, singing, rocking, cuddling and other nurturing interactions between you and your baby are bonding experiences that strengthen the emotional connection between both of you. They also strengthen your infant’s learning connections.

For most parents bonding is an immediate response, which happens during the first hours or days of life. For your baby however, the attachment is not instant. It forms gradually and is established over time. A secure attachment develops from predictable, responsive, and nurturing care giving. Promptly responding to your baby's needs in a loving manner will help him develop a strong sense of trust in you, himself, and his environment. But, besides the basic care-giving activities—feeding, diapering, rocking—there are additional ways to bond with your baby. These interactive tips will help you deepen your relationship and enrich your earliest times together.

1.) Provide your baby with plenty of face-to-face interaction.

Bring your face close to your baby's and gaze into each other’s eyes. Your smiling face, changing expressions, and loving voice will captivate him.

2.) Loving touches nourish your baby's emotional development and improve sensory awareness.

Gently kiss and stroke your baby whenever you dress or change her. As your baby is feeding, caress her cheeks, shoulders, and arms. Gently rub her delicate little hands and fingers. Baby massage relaxes, reduces stress, and helps your infant to sleep.

3.) Skin-to-skin contact is soothing and comforting for both of you.

Hold your baby against your chest and breathe slowly. The warmth of your body, the smell of your skin, and the beating of your heart are very reassuring. You can also treat your baby to a soothing bath with you.

4.) Talk to your baby!

Don't worry about sounding silly. Involve him in your activities by talking about everything that you do. Once your baby's starts cooing and making sounds, respond to his growing vocabulary by repeating those sounds back to him.

5.) Sing to your baby!

What better way to express your love and joy? Even if you think your singing is not the best; it's the best to your baby (hey, how often do you get a captive audience?). Don't limit yourself to lullabies or nursery rhymes—sing whatever makes you happy. Your baby will love the effort and attention.

6.) Look for all the playful opportunities as you go through your care-giving routines.

You don't need expensive toys to play with your baby--You are her most important toy. Help your baby learn and explore the world during these early months by making her toys and her world come alive.

7.) Play soothing music and gently dance with your baby around the room.

Babies make great dancing partners. They love the music, the movement, and the closeness to you.

8.) Reading is a wonderful way to bond with your baby while developing language skills.

Start with large books that have simple bold illustrations. Cradle your baby in your arms and let him experience the closeness that reading a book provides.

About the Author:

Susan Stelfox is the author of Baby Be Loved: Growing and Learning Together During the First 24 Weeks, Mason Publishing 2002. She is also the mother of a 3-1/2 year-old son. Learn more about bonding, infant development, and Susan at http://www.babybeloved.com.

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(Article) - Baby Showers On A Budget

Jorbins.com — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 00:00:07 GMT

You can spend as much or as little on hosting a baby shower as you want. Generally, the more people, the higher the cost...but any way you look at it, you'll need to know what's expected of you and what's going to cost money before you start.

Rule number one is to decide before-hand how much you're going to spend...and stick to it! No matter how large or how small your budget is, if you don't watch closely, you can really blow it...so let's get you started on some hints and tricks to keep that spending where you want it.

We'll start with the basic ingredients - the things you need for a shower...

Invitations, envelopes, and stamps
Favors (bought and wrapped)
Pictures and film developing
Fresh flowers
Food and beverages
Games, game supplies and prizes
Cake
Paper products like paper plates, cups, matching napkins and plastic utensils
Your gift for the mother-to-be
Facility rental fee, table rentals, and more - if hosting outside of your home (18% gratuity - if hosting in a restaurant)

Here's what you can do to make a budget...

Print out the list above, or make a spreadsheet on the computer. Write down how much you want to spend next to each item. But whether you spend money on these things, make them yourself, get donations, or have others help -- that's completely up to you.

Next step: Review Your List.

Did the total come to more than you want? If you answered yes, then try to trim down some costs by enlisting help... maybe your co-host can make the invitations - or your sister the chef is willing to bake a fancy cake.

But if you suddenly realize this is going to cost more than you have, remember that the cost of food is usually the easiest to lower. You might even see if there is another person willing to help out with the big-ticket items or special touches that are pushing you over your budget.

Money Saving Tips.

Consider a co-host. Sharing the spotlight with a co-host will also mean sharing the decision making as well as sharing the cost. If you're willing to share control, it'll help your pocketbook.
Skip the catering. If you have the time, you can do it yourself. Even fancy deli trays, veggie trays and pre-made mini-sandwich trays can be made at home for about half the cost.
Skip the meal and serve sweets... after all, everybody knows little babies are made of sugar and spice and everything nice!
Potluck it. Just make sure to be specific when asking guests to bring food or you may end up with 10 bags of chips. Try asking Jane to bring a green salad that feeds 10, or a main dish that serves Don't forget to have a backup... ask 2 guests to bring the same thing, worst case is you have more than enough food.
Host the Shower at your home. Renting space is an additional cost you can avoid if you're willing to have it at your own home. If you need to borrow someone else's home, consider making them a co-host because the home owner is always considered the host, no matter what the situation may be.
Make your own party favors... or skip them altogether. Favors are like a thank-you from the hostess for attending, so if you skip them, just make sure to thank everyone individually for coming.
Make your own invitations. This can save money and allow you to personalize them with the Shower theme. Look online at invitations to get pictures, words, and ideas for your own.
Skip the alcohol. Alcohol can be expensive, and some even consider it improper Baby Shower etiquette. Skip the debate and the alcohol altogether.
Make your own cake. Personalized cakes at the bakery are getting more and more expensive and the boxed cake mixes are getting better and better. Just add a small tube of colored cake decorators gel to your grocery list and you can add your own personalized message on top of the cake.
Use your gift as the centerpiece or use your centerpiece as a gift. Gift baskets, diaper cakes, even baby's toys can make surprisingly simple yet wonderful table decorations and double as a gift. It's two for one!

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(Article) - The Top 10 Tips for Potty Training Your Child

Jorbins.com — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 00:00:07 GMT

What parent feels knowledgeable and confident about potty training their child? Potty training is one of the greatest challenges that both children and their parents face in the first few years of a child's life.

1. Dress your child in underwear at about 28 months of age when the child is at home. Today's disposable diapers provide almost no feedback to the child about when they are wet. Your child will feel uncomfortable in their 'big kid' pants when they are wet and may therefore feel motivated to try the potty.

2. Allow your child to run around naked when you are at home. Having to deal with the urge to eliminate will be much more noticeable to your child when there is nothing to catch it in but the potty-chair.

3. Look for signs of potty training readiness in your child. These signs of readiness may include: telling you when they are peeing or pooping in their diaper, requesting that you change a poopy diaper, keeping their diaper dry for hours at a time, showing enthusiasm for their potty, etc.

4. Begin potty training at an appropriate age. Potty training becomes less difficult as your child gets older. Potty training prematurely can make a child feel misunderstood, alone, and rebellious. It is often best to wait until the child is three years old to focus on potty training.

5. Make potty training fun by giving your child little rewards for sitting on the potty with no diaper on. You could use stickers, crackers, small, inexpensive toys, etc. Using candy could produce sugar cravings and tooth decay.

6. Purchase a couple of potty training videos designed for toddler viewing. The research shows that the best way to teach any behavior is to have role models demonstrating the behavior. (Live models are more effective than video modeling.)

7. Pour cheerios or crackers into the toilet for little boys to take 'aim' at. This challenge taps into a little boy's natural interest in hitting targets.

8. Purchase several toddler-level books about children being potty trained. Potty training feels more natural and less stressful to a child who has been exposed to the process at "storybook time".

9. Consider allowing other trusted adults to help you to potty train your child. Many pre-schoolers respond more quickly to input from grandparents, aunts, and trusted babysitters than they do to input from their parents in the area of potty training. Some parents report that a grandparent was able to potty train their child in one weekend away.

10. Make potty training a top priority on a consistent basis when you have the emotional and physical energy to do it. Even if your child shows signs of potty training readiness, you may not be ready for it as a parent!

About the Author:

This piece was written by Dr. Clare Albright, Psychologist and Parenting Coach, author of "100 Tips for Parents of Two Year Olds".

Filed In: Baby and Parenting | Toddler & Preschool (Ages 1-5) | Potty Training

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(Article) - Useful Tips for Sleep and Pregnancy

Jorbins.com — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 00:00:07 GMT

It is not uncommon to grapple with sleep restlessness during pregnancy. There could be many reasons for these sleep disturbances. Along with heightened anticipation for your newborn baby, physical and hormonal changes may occur, which could be contributing to your sleeplessness. As you progress into your pregnancy, comfortable sleep positions may become more difficult. You may also find that you will need to empty your bladder more frequently.

However, be encouraged. Help has arrived! Read these useful tips for improved sleep during pregnancy and for the important rest your body needs at this time in your life.

1. Mood Preparation - Set the proper mood through the use of soft lighting, a warm non-caffeinated beverage, warm bath or good book. Experiment to see what helps you relax.
Massage - A massage by your partner or friend is a good way to unwind and prepare for sleep. If you have older children, maybe they can get into the fun of a massage.
Surround Yourself In Water - Dr. Michael Foley, M.D.- Medical Director Phoenix Perinatal Associates, refers to this as subtotal immersion therapy. Here's what Dr. Foley has to say; "Being immersed into water up to your neck and just sitting there or performing exercise provides many physiologic advantages to a pregnant mom. The water acts to push fluid underneath the skin back into the intravascular space thereby reducing swelling and edema. This is a perfect way to help reduce the swollen feet and legs that often accompany late pregnancy! The aches and pains of the musculoskeletal system in late pregnancy often contribute to poor sleeping."
Nap During The Day - Gain some additional rest and relaxation by taking a nap.
Reduce Anxiety- Stress can be one of the biggest issues for obtaining a good night's sleep. If you have issues in your life that are causing you to worry, seek out a friend or a professional for help. Less stress will certainly bring more comfortable sleep nights.
Use Comfort Aids - Gentle Air has a portable patented maternity air bed that is made just for expectant moms who are losing sleep or cannot get enough rest. This unique portable air bed allows a pregnant women to sleep either on her stomach or her side. It has an adjustable middle pillow section if you are a stomach sleeper. If you are having hip or lower back pains, you can sleep in a semi-seated position with or without an extra pillow between your legs or under your knee. There are also special pregnancy body pillows and maternity belts on the market that you can try to help support your body for extra comfort.
Exercise - Always get your physician's approval first, but exercise will certainly help with improved circulation. This also helps to reduce night leg cramps, thus improving sleep. Exercise done earlier in the day is best so that you are not kept awake at night. Check out your local yoga studios. Many now offer pre-natal yoga classes.
Seek Help - Visit your doctor for assistance if continued sleep problems occur. It is especially important during this time to get as much sleep or rest as possible.

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Special thanks to Dr. Michael Foley for interview.

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(Article) - The Top 10 Baby Essentials

Jorbins.com — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 00:00:22 GMT

Along with a new baby comes a lot of baby stuff! If you're expecting, you've most likely already been given lots of opinions on the baby gear you'll need.

To help you sort through all the baby products available, we asked fellow moms for a list of the items they couldn't live without. Here's their top 10 list:

1. Burp Cloths:

Burp cloths are the perfect size for throwing over your shoulder to avoid mishaps. And there will be lots of mishaps! If you're on a budget cloth diapers can be used as a substitute.

2. A Nursing Necklace:

Most moms don't think of nursing necklaces until baby is pinching and pulling during feeding. If you plan to breastfeed get baby in the habit of reaching for the necklace from the beginning. They'll love the feel of it in their little hands, and you'll love that feeding times are pain free.

3. All Natural Bath and Skincare Products:

Babies skin is very delicate. Be sure to choose all natural bath and skincare products that soothe and protect them. Keep lots of different creams and lotions on hand so when diaper rashes, dry skin and cradle cap appear you'll be ready.

4. A Mobile:

Including a mobile over baby's crib can lull them to sleep with soft music or stimulate them when they're feeling playful! With so many designs available it's easy to find one that co-ordinates with any nursery decor.

5. Baby Music:

Music created especially for babies helps develop their sense of hearing, concentration and even speech. Watch baby come alive when you put on a CD created especially for them.

6. The Perfect Diaper Bag:

Moms (and dads!) need a diaper bag that's roomy, resilient and good looking so you don't mind carrying it with you. Nowadays there are so many stylish designs and fabrics that you can't even tell they're diaper bags!

7. A Special Blanket:

Babies love the warmth and security of their own blanket. Choose one that is small enough that they can carry it around as a toddler.

8. A Baby Journal:

Don't miss recording the special moments as baby grows in the perfect Baby Journal. Baby will also enjoy having a one of a kind keepsake when they're grown.

9. Soft Cotton Onesies:

You can never have too many onesies. They're perfect as undershirts or outshirts. Choose good quality ones that will get softer every time they're washed and baby will always be comfortable.

10. A Sleep Sack:

Sleep sacks have been popular with European parents for a long time because they minimize the risk of baby suffocating. The ultimate solution for keeping babies safe and warm at night and during naptime, they provide a safe alternative to sheets, blankets, and comforters.

There you have it, the top 10 "must haves" for new parents. Time to get shopping!

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(Article) - Breastfeeding Baby in the Beginning

Jorbins.com — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 00:00:07 GMT

So you've just squeezed a watermelon out of your belly button. No, not really. Although you may feel like you did only moments after giving birth. If you've never experienced it before, don't worry, the sheer bliss of meeting your child for the first time will greatly outweigh any pain you experience. Atleast once the pain killers kick in.

Soon after your child has arrived, he'll be carried away to be cleaned, weighed, poked and prodded. But it is very important to get down to the business of mothering as soon as possible. Provided that your child is medically well and does not have to go to another area of the hospital, you should be able to nurse your newborn within minutes after birth. If there are medical reasons that your baby must be separated from you, it is important to nurse within a few hours. Afterall, your breastmilk can do nothing but help your child. Therefore, it is important to bring your baby to the breast almost immediately.

This first feeding may be a little nerve racking. Don't worry if you are stressed. It is not everyday you bare your breast in front of strangers and try to stick it into somebody's mouth and hope he likes it. Try to remain calm. This is all new to your baby as well. Yes, sucking is a calming, natural instinct. He has probably been doing it for a few months in your belly already. But remember that he was just squeezed (or taken) out of a warm dark comfortable place into a bright, loud world where he was poked and prodded. Then this thing was stuck into his mouth while everyone watched. Be patient, he'll get the hang of it.

This first feeding is mostly a learning experience for the both of you. A way to say hello, I'm your Mom and I'm here for you. Make sure Dad takes pictures or one of the nurses. This is one of those firsts for the scrapbook.

Over the next few hours, days and weeks to come, it is important that your baby nurse as frequently as every two hours. That means that if he latches on at one, then he needs to latch on again at three. Even if at one he nursed for an hour. I know technically it has not been two hours since he was at your breast, but time from the beginning and not the ending.

This is a trying time for many new mommies. Never before has your body undergone so many changes so quickly. However, nursing your baby should not add to your already existing stress, physical or emotional. Nursing should make things easier. This is your quiet time with your baby. Time to bond, time to relax, and maybe even catch a nap.

During the first few months, it is important to not give your baby a bottle or pacifier. Even if the bottle has pumped breastmilk in it. Artificial nipples require less work to get milk. Therefore, even if you still nurse as frequently, your baby may get use to the flow of the artificial nipple and not stimulate your milk production by not sucking as vigorously while nursing.

The most important piece of advise I can give you for your nursing beginning, is to treasure each and every moment. Even at 2 am with no sleep. While you are nursing your little one, look into his eyes and remember his look. There will be time for the dishes, time for the laundry, and time for returning to work. This is the time to make memories ... oh yea, and time for take-out!

About the Author:

Roxanna Ward, Community leader and staff writer for http://www.BabyUniversity.com, lives in Georgia with her husband, Stan and her three children, Kirstie-Raie, Chase and Kale. As a published freelance writer and breastfeeding advocate, the focus of her writing is concentrated on sharing household tips, her experience with her frugal lifestyle which is compensated by being able to afford to be a stay-at-home mom, as well as the phenomenal process of breastfeeding, child rearing related issues and romantic relationships. She is also currently the Editor of three newsletters: What's New at BabyU?, Intimate Encounters and At Home with Baby University. Roxanna can be contacted at: Roxanna30135@aol.com

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(Article) - Is Thumbsucking Bad?

Jorbins.com — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 00:00:01 GMT

Infants have a natural need to suckle. Even in the womb, we have seen the fetus sucking its fingers or thumb. Sucking is not only an instinct for survival, but a means for soothing stimulation and pleasure. Many child psychologists feel it is a good idea to allow your child to satisfy his or her need for oral gratification. The problem lies not with the sucking action itself, but with the method used. Finger and thumbsucking are generally thought to be harmful to a child's facial development, but controversial studies show it is not a major threat until about the age of four. Before that time it seems there is seldom any long-term damage. Occasionally, it can create tongue thrusting patterns and deviated jaw motions. Thumbsucking may also be considered unsightly and an obstacle to the infant's free use of his or her hands.

Beyond age four, if the habit persists the chances of permanent damage increase greatly. The greater the intensity of sucking, the greater is the damage. The child may need braces to straighten his or her teeth, and orthopedic dental treatment to correct jaw malalignment and other areas of the face that have been malformed.

If finger and thumbsucking are feared for their ill effects, you may want to give your baby a pacifier. Past generations frowned upon their use, but today many believe it is a positive alternative. If the type of pacifier used is orthodontic, there should not be any possible problem with tongue thrusting and altered jaw motions. To avoid accident its design should be one piece and fracture resistant. Your baby will safely be able to satisfy its need for oral gratification and yet still have its hands free. The downfall is that the pacifier may still be considered unsightly.

Most children will break the sucking habit on their own. Experts feel if you let children satisfy the sucking urge while young, they will freely give up the habit when they're older. However, some children need a little help.

Many people say breaking the habit will be easier if the child has been using a pacifier instead of fingers. The parent will probably have more control over a pacifier than a child's hands. But for any form of sucking, try reasoning, peer pressure, interference activities, and other methods to stop the behavior. If all else fails, dental appliances are often quick and effective tools for breaking the habit.

There is no doubt that it is beneficial for the infant to develop in the way Nature intended. From a dental health standpoint, breast-feeding or proper bottle-feeding will allow good oral and facial development to occur. If proper feeding methods are used the need for oral gratification is greatly satisfied, and will hopefully reduce the need for supplementary thumbsucking. If your child needs additional oral gratification, use of an orthodontic pacifier will work as a positive supplement.

Tooth Fairy Tales is a fabulous, dramatized audio tape starring the Tooth Fairy! Kids love it, especially when found under their pillows. Parents, teachers, and dentists love that it encourages good dental hygiene and nutrition.

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(Article) - Early Bedtime Means Better Baby Sleep

Jorbins.com — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 00:00:40 GMT

In their efforts to encourage their baby to sleep better, one approach that many parents use is to put their baby to bed later in the evening. They think, "If he's "really tired" he'll sleep better, right?" Wrong! This often backfires because Baby becomes overtired, and chronically sleep-deprived.

In the majority of cases, a baby's biological clock is preset for an early bedtime. When parents work with that time, a baby falls asleep more easily and stays asleep more peacefully. Most babies are primed to go to sleep for the night as early as 6:30 or 7:00 p.m. I often hear about how babies and toddlers have a "melt down" period at the end of the day, when they get fussy, whiny and out of sorts. I suspect that it's simply a sign of over-tired children longing for sleep.

Early to bed, early to rise?

For babies, early to bed does not mean early to rise! Most babies sleep longer with an earlier bedtime. Many parents are afraid to put their baby to bed so early, thinking that they will then face a 5 a.m. wake up call. But keeping your little one up too late backfires, and more often, a late night is the one followed by that early morning awakening.

My youngest child, two-year-old Coleton used to go to bed at 9:30, the time when my three older children went to bed, because it was convenient for me. At that time in the evening, it would take him a long time to get settled. I never connected his inability to settle with his late bedtime. When I started putting him to bed at 7:00, he fell asleep much more quickly and slept more soundly.

What About Working Parents?

If you are a working parent, and your evening with your little one begins at 6:30 or 7:00, you may find yourself torn between keeping your baby up for some playtime and getting him right to bed. You may find, though, that when your baby goes to sleep earlier, and sleeps better, he awakens in a pleasant mood, eager to play. Because you have gotten a good night's sleep, you can consider getting up earlier in the morning and saving some time before work to play with your baby, as an alternative to that late-evening play session. You'll both enjoy that special morning time. Later, when your baby is consistently sleeping all night, every night, you can move bedtime a little later and judge whether the difference affects your baby's sleep.

Finding Your Baby's Best Bedtime

It can take some experimentation to find your baby's best bedtime. If you have been putting your baby to bed too late in the evening, you can approach this adjustment in one of two different ways:

Adjust your baby's bedtime to be earlier by fifteen to thirty minutes every two or three nights. Pay attention to how easily your baby falls asleep as well as his awakening time and mood to gauge the effectiveness of the changes until you settle on his best bedtime, or
Beginning at around 6:30 p.m., watch your baby closely. As soon as he exhibits any signs of tiredness (fussing, losing interest in toys, looking glazed, yawning) put him right to bed, even if his previous bedtime has been 11:00 p.m. When you do this, keep your home quiet and the baby's room dark so that it resembles his usual environment in the middle of the night. If this bedtime is substantially earlier than usual, your baby may think he's going down for a nap and awaken after a short snooze. If he does this, respond very quickly so that he doesn't fully awaken. Follow your usual method for helping him fall back to sleep, such as rocking or nursing; keep the room dark and quiet as you do during the middle of the night.

Here's what Tammy, mother of seven-month-old Brooklyn had to say about changing her baby's bedtime, "I had been waiting until 10:00 to put Brooklyn to bed because that's when I go to sleep. But your suggestion made so much sense that last night I put her down at 8:00. I loved having the evening to spend with my husband. We haven't spent that much time alone together in months! And the baby actually had a better night's sleep. I'm happy that all our needs can be met in such a pleasant way."

It may take a week or more of adjustment to settle into a new bedtime, but once you do, you'll find that both you and your baby are happier.

Excerpted with permission by McGraw-Hill/Contemporary Publishing from The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night by Elizabeth Pantley, copyright 2002 Website: http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth

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Author of the The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night. Visit her website for more information on her great parenting books.

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(Article) - Stop That Whining!

Jorbins.com — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 00:00:10 GMT

Question: My daughter is constantly whining! Every time she calls "Mooommeeeehh" I have this great desire to change my name or run and hide under the nearest bed! Please don't tell me "she'll out grow it," because if the whining continues she may not make it to her next birthday.

Think about it: Talk about fingernails on a blackboard! Whining has got to be the ultimate in annoying childhood behavior. Because a whining child sounds worse than a frenzied siren alarm we tend to do anything to make it stop. Thus our little whiner discovers a great way to get our undivided attention.

NEVER EVER respond to or give in to a whining request. Make an announcement: "When you use your normal voice I will listen to you." Then turn your back to the whining child and make it obvious you are ignoring her by singing or reading a book out loud held in front of your face. If the child continues to whine, repeat the same sequence without engaging the child any further. (Pleading or discussing will only increase the whining.)

Help by modeling: Help your child by modeling what it is you want to hear, "I can't understand you when you use a whining voice, please say, "Mommy, may I please have a drink."

Create an incentive: Put a jar on the kitchen counter. Put ten nickels in it. Tell your child that every time she whines or fusses you will take a nickel out of the jar. Any nickels left over at bedtime will be hers to keep as a reward for remembering to use her "big girl voice."

Teach: Often children aren't really aware they are whining. Have a discussion about whining and demonstrate what it sounds like. (Put on a good show!) Tell your child you want to help her remember not to whine, so every time she does you are going to put your fingers in your ears and say "yuck!" and make a funny face. That will be her signal to find her regular voice.

Time it: Tell your child that you're going to set the timer for three minutes. She can fuss for three minutes and then she must stop. Some children will complain, " that's not enough time!" Then ask, "How much is enough, four or five minutes?" Typically, of course, five will be chosen. Make a big production of setting the timer for five minutes, and announce that she must stop when the timer rings. Most kids will stop before the timer rings. If your persistent whiner doesn't stop after five minutes, you can put her in time out, or put yourself in time out, until the fussing ends.

Make sure you aren't giving whining lessons. Such as, "Will Youuu Pleeeze Stop Whyyy Niingg! It's driving me Craaazeee!"

Praise! Praise your child's attempts to use a regular voice. "Ariel, I really enjoy hearing your pleasant voice!" Try to say "yes" to a request made in a regular, polite voice. For example, if your child normally whines about having a cookie after lunch, and today she asks pleasantly, try to give her at least a piece of a cookie to reward her for her appropriate manners. Make sure you tell her that's why you said okay, "Yes, you may have a cookie. I'm saying yes because you asked in such a nice voice and you didn't whine about it. Lucky you!"

Elizabeth Pantley - www.pantley.com/elizabeth
Author of Perfect Parenting and Kid Cooperation. Visit her website for more information on her great parenting books.

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(Article) - Taming Those Awful Temper Tantrums

Jorbins.com — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 00:00:01 GMT

You've all been there. Your child isn't getting his way. He's crying, yelling, and stomping. As a frustrated parent, you may know, that temper tantrums are a normal childhood reaction to anger and frustration. But knowing this does not make it easier when your child's ballistic contortions are punctuated by her piercing screams. While it's normal for your child to have tantrums, your response to them will determine if she keeps having them and having them and having them...

Here are a variety of different ideas that may help you curb your child's tantrums.

Create a Tantrum Place:

Let your child know in advance that all tantrums will take place in one specific room, such as her bedroom, the bathroom, or the laundry room. When a tantrum starts, you can escort your child to the "tantrum room" with one brief comment, "You can come out when you're done." If she comes out of the room, and she's still having the tantrum, just lead her back repeating, "You can come out when you're done." At first your child may spend the whole day in the tantrum room, but she'll quickly find out that tantrums are no fun without an audience!

Help develop self-control:

If your child has tantrums and can't seem to calm herself down, it's best to teach her how to control herself. Do this by enveloping her in a hug and rocking her with soothing words, "It's okay. Calm down." When the tantrum is winding down, distract her by washing her face or giving her a drink of water. Do not give in to the child's original request, and stay calm yourself. At a quiet time, begin to teach your child what to do when she gets angry (explain to her what words and actions are appropriate).

Take away the audience:

As long as your child's tantrum is not dangerous to her or to property, feel free to say, "I'm leaving the room. Come and get me when you're done." And do just that. Busy yourself with something else, and wait patiently for your child to calm down.

Big-kid tantrums?

Make an agreement with an older child who displays tantrum behavior that when she starts to lose control, you're going to ask her to go to her room to cool off. If she doesn't go immediately to her room when asked, she will lose a privilege (decide in advance what that might be - telephone, TV, or bike riding, for example) or she'll be assigned an extra chore. This is, of course, in addition to the fact that she still gets to go to her room to calm down.

Use distraction:

When you see your child beginning to lose control, distract her before the tantrum can turn into a full-blown outburst. When you see frustration mounting quickly direct your child to a different activity. Often this is enough to keep a child from having a tantrum.

Preventative measures:

Avoid tantrums by offering your child choices. Instead of saying, "Get ready for bed right now," which may provoke a tantrum, offer a choice, "What would you like to do first - put on your pajamas or brush your teeth?" In addition, you may be able to elude tantrums by avoiding the situations that most likely set your child off, such as allowing her to become overtired, over-hungry or over-stimulated. For example, running a string of errands which occur during your toddler's normal nap-time is sure to end with an over-tired child who displays little patience for one more stop before heading home to bed.

Take note:

If your child has frequent intense tantrums it would be wise to talk with your pediatrician, a counselor or a family therapist.

What about public tantrums?

Handling tantrums at home is one thing. But what about in public? What if your child yells, stomps, screams, and throws his body onto the floor when he doesn't get his way. This is frustrating and embarrassing when you're in a place like the grocery store, toy store, restaurant, or anywhere there's an interested audience. You may feel like your hands are tied when everyone's watching you, but this is the key to future problems.

Think about it. The first time your child acted this way in public, you were probably caught off guard. In your embarrassment, you did everything you could to stop the tantrum. If you had looked closely, you would have seen a little twinkle appear in your child's eye as he realized he discovered a new way to get what he wants. Instead of finding yourself in this situation over and over again, try the following tips for curbing public tantrums.

Prepare in advance:

Use a preventive approach by reviewing desired behavior prior to entering a public building. "Eric, we're going into the toy store now. We are going to buy a birthday gift for Troy. We are not buying anything for ourselves today. If you see something you like, let me know, and I'll put it on your wish list. I want you to remember to walk beside me and keep your hands to yourself."

Be reasonable:

While you may be concentrating on your tasks, your child has been shoved in and out of his car seat and ushered from place to place enduring endless hours looking at grown up knees. You may be able to prevent tantrums by bringing along a toy or snack to keep your child occupied. Also, get him involved by having him select groceries, find the shoe store, read the menu to you, or any other "busy work". The positive attention and focused activity will keep him too busy to worry about having a tantrum.

Get out of dodge:

When a tantrum starts, put your face next to your child's ear and announce, "Stop now or we go out to the car." If he doesn't stop, pick him up or lead him to the car. Sit him in the back seat while you stand outside the door (or, in foul weather, sit in the front seat and pointedly ignore him). An alternative to the car is to find a secluded bench or quiet corner. If he doesn't stop quickly, and you can change your schedule, go home. Send him to his room for a specified time (about 3 minutes for every year of age, for example, 15 minutes for a five-year-old.) The extra time it takes to do this once or twice will establish great credibility and can save you from many painful hours at the mall with an obstinate teenager.

Get HIS attention:

Get eye level with your child and say, "Follow me." Break eye contact and begin to walk away. Walk slowly where he can see you. Many children will follow. If yours doesn't, stop a short distance away and wait, pretending interest in something else, while you wait. After a few minutes pass, and your child has calmed down, you can approach your child, hold him by the hand, and say, "Let's go now".

Use a poker face. Deal with it later:

Stand above your child with arms crossed and a stern face. Say nothing. When the tantrum is over, complete your errands. When you return home, announce that since your child had a tantrum while you were out, he will suffer a consequence now (no dessert after dinner, staying inside, missing his TV show, or going to bed early). Do this once, then use it as your "ace in the hole." At the next public tantrum say, "Stop now or you will stay inside when we get home, like you did last week." You child will remember and know you mean business.

Set up a training session:

If public tantrums are a regular occurrence, plan a training session. Go to the grocery store. Buy a few staples and put a nice assortment of your child's favorite goodies in the cart (potato chips, ice cream, and cookies). Walk around long enough for your child to have the expected tantrum. Walk the cart over to the register and announce to the cashier that you'll have to leave the groceries and go home because your child is misbehaving. (Smile at the cashier and she'll probably smile back, happy to see at least one customer controlling her child!) Then go home. Your child will most likely comment on the loss of the goodies. Just say, "Oh well, some other time." Expect great, loud unhappiness, but long-term value!

If all else fails:

After an unpleasant experience, plan an outing and leave your child at home with a baby sitter. Explain that the tantrum she had the day before is the reason why she is staying home. Expect crying, screaming, and pleading, but be firm. Doing this once has an impact that lasts a long time.

Elizabeth Pantley - www.pantley.com/elizabeth
Author of Perfect Parenting and Kid Cooperation. Visit her website for more information on her great parenting books.

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(Article) - Quality Time After Daycare

Jorbins.com — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 GMT

One of the biggest problems working parents may very well face is the guilt of being away from their children for 8+ hours per day. At times, maybe even feeling as if they are not the ones raising their own child, but that that job is being done by a childcare provider. Finding a happy medium is not an easy task to say in the least. However, there are some ways to try and ease some of the guilt and make up for the "lost time" away.

Make every moment with your child count. Sing songs on the way home from daycare in the car. Start a conversation about what your child did that day (you may have to do some fishing). Having your childcare provider log your child's daily activities can be a big help with conversation starters. By having a written report, you can discuss some of the information your provider has given you, thus sparking that conversation with the little one.

At home while preparing dinner, let your little one help out by pouring, stirring and observing, even discussing each ingredient. Not only will mealtime preparation become a learning experience, but also turns into some quality time and fun together. If possible, plan your meals ahead of time and use your crock pot to cut prep time down. While dinner is in the oven, etc., take a few minutes to read a book together or color a picture.

Then there's dinnertime. Try and keep a routine by sitting at the table facing one another, with no radios or televisions turned on. That's when you can bring up more conversation or even play games (I spy is a good one that doesn't require getting up from the table). Although some parents may believe that games have no place at the dinner table, others may incorporate those games during this time to take advantage of every minute with their child. Try eating out once a week at your child's favorite restaurant.

Bath time can be another fun time spent together, since little ones consider bath time play time. Bring some extra plastic cups or dolls into the bathtub for mom and dad to play with too.

Start a special ritual just before bedtime. Something as simple as reading a favorite book, making up a new story, watching a favorite show together or sharing a snack and sitting close can make you feel that your time together can really feel as though parent have made up for the lost time during the day.

Without totally exhausting yourself, try and leave the light housework for after the children go to bed. If that is out of the question, try including your child in on the chores. Let them help fold the laundry, sweep the floor or stack the dishes in the dishwasher. Doing it together may make it seem more like "play" than "work". Another option, hiring a made even two days a week can make a big difference in the housecleaning department, relieving some of the pressure.

Remember, leave some time for you after the kids go to bed.read a relaxing book, exercise, take a bath or just sit in front of the TV. By refreshing yourself in this way, you are preparing give your all to your career the next day, as well as getting ready for the quality time you've been waiting for all day long.

Lastly, remember that your going to work is something you are doing for your child and family to provides for their needs, not only the necessities, but perhaps the extras during the year that your children look forward to and wouldn't have if you were not working.

Check out different parenting web sites on a regular basis, which contain many tips and new articles for working parents in the effort to achieve some balance between home, career and children.

Written by Jodi L. Marvin, mother of two, licensed childcare provider, Founder of DaycareMeals.com and author of Childcare Journal for Parents and Providers.

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