Most of us believe we are doing the other person a favor by pointing out their faults or telling them how we would do it differently. But really we are just being a critical spirit not one coming from unconditional acceptance the simplest way to know when I am being a critical spirit is to ask myself “if this was being said to me how would I feel?” Would I be defensive, angry or would I feel like I was being attacked? If in doubt flip it so you are standing in the other person’s shoes.

People can think they are powerful by creating fear, intimidating, bullying or using another person’s fears and insecurities against them. But power is not making someone else smaller so you can feel bigger, that is insecurity and fear on your part Power is an illusion you don’t need power to create you need passion, You don’t need power to achieve you need belief in self. You don’t need power to get people doing what you want you need compassion, kindness and the ability to help people step into their greatness.

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Mother Teresa said “Small thing done with great love will change the world” she didn’t have a need to say “One’s capacity to fulfill a role in the world is reliant of ones ability to contemplate leave behind ego and step into empathy consciousness bla, bla” In any communication with anyone the more to the point and simple you make it the greater the chance you will not be misunderstood and the person will ‘get’ it. Keep it simple speak from the heart not the head and watch how people start to listen and care about what you are saying

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Finding out who you are at the core of your being is a wise move before starting a relationship. If you are okay with who you are where you are and what you are doing chances are you will attract someone who doesn’t need you but wants you in their life. So many people go from relationship to relationship wondering why they keep ending up with the same sort of people just in different wrapping. It never occurs to them they attract people who are reflection of everything they are running from you do not give yourself to a relationship you bring your self to it.

We need to look and see who we are drawing to us and why they might be in our lives. We need to bring into our lives people who align with the type of world we would like to live in. his is not to advocate throwing people out of your life just suggesting you change the dynamics of the relationship. Is there healthy boundaries, are you too enmeshed in each others lives, are you enabling or empowering and most importantly what do you take away from the relationship Most of us want our friends to have happiness, to be successful in all aspects of their life, to be loved and to love. So the question I will leave you to answer is
“is how you interact within these relationships creating what you want for each other or keeping you both where you are?”

Mourning the loss of all the things which will never happen is necessary but we also need to honor the lives of those gone by celebrating their journey on this earth. We celebrate the joy they brought into our lives and the lives of others. We give thanks for having being given the opportunity to share their journey no matter how long or short it was. Being happy does not mean you are being disrespectful to those loved ones in spirit quite the opposite it is say “thank you for showing me what happiness is and giving me this gift to share.”