Life of a Teenager - Teenager Girl - Teenager Love

Not Need the Perfectionist to Be a Perfect Teenager

2009-07-28T22:50:00.000-07:00

Hey, I'll back!
Today I wanna post on my Blog Remaja blog. There are so much ideas in my head, but I have no time to make a good writing and articles. :(
You know I'm a perfectionist!

Yes, sometimes I think it will be good of being fool. Like Han Ji Eun in Full House. Huhu. Perfectionist makes us especially teenager being so complicated. You have to think all about that you do!

I'm not talking that 'thinking about all you do" is wrong or something bad, but if it is over, hmm... It is bad too, isn't it? Because of that, being ordinary but stay trying to get the best is the best way being a perfect teenager. Not need the perfectionist to get the perfect one, right?

Fuck*in' Brother!

2009-07-17T23:54:00.000-07:00

Crazy!
It's really mad!
You know how I works but not salaried?

That's what I experienced.
Wages deducted by the debt!

And you know that debt by whom?
Not by me, but by him ....

Yes, him… my brother!
What a lucky guy, I still call him “my brother”
He does not have a heart! Not a human!

Fuck*in’ brother!

Now I must work here like for forever ...
Can not breathe ...

Want to die, but do not want to ...
Because I still have a responsibility!
Moreover, I still believe there is God.
I will not suicide!

Even if I must work like a slave.

Fuck*in’ brother, not a human, he’s really an ANIMAL!
Want to cry out with a vengeance, but there is no room for me ...
Except here ...

Here ...
In myself ...
Hopefully, God is also here ....

Petite Teenager - Become Petite Teenager Makes Girl Different!

2009-06-10T21:40:00.000-07:00

Petite teenager. It is very difficult to be a petite teenager. Myself have a problem like that, moreover I’m an Asian. My age is 18, but people often think me still 15 fewer. What a damn!

Just think back to when you were anywhere from 15 - 17 years old. Now imagine that, instead of being able to buy your clothes in the junior or misses department, you had to shop in the children's section. It may seem odd that girls would mind being a petite teenager, but they do. They mind it a lot. In their heads, boys are not going to be looking at them as much as their more well developed friends, if they look at all. This is very disheartening and depressing to a teenager girl who wants so much be thought of as a beautiful young woman.

Now, as bad as it is for girls to be small, that is magnified many times for boys who are smaller than average. Boys feel the need early in life to be men. When they hit their teenage years, this need is even more important. To be a boy, and to be considered a petite teenager, is the kiss of death for a young man's social life.

The big issue becomes what to do to help your smaller than average teenager. It is a bit easier to help your petite daughter than your son. Buying shoes with a bit of heel on them can add a couple of inches to her height. The right amount of make up will make her look a little closer to her true age.
If you can find a way to enhance the talents of your petite teenager, it could make all the difference in the world. And the positive one you could get of being petite teenager: babyface! Huhu…

:)

Being a happy teens, okay!

Teenager's Instant Life and the Pickpocket Arts Lesson

2009-06-01T07:17:00.000-07:00

Instant Life of teenager and Pickpocket Arts

Pickpocket arts seems to have decreased dramatically! That ever I read in a magazine. In Japan, said the magazine, which is still usually do the pickpocket are the seniors. While the young people and teenager prefer to hijack / grab. More young people/teenager are now happy with the instant one!

While it is difficult to pick something that not allow the instant one, art needed by pickpocket (read: caginess). Unfortunately, the elderly have had many limitations. Once an old man want to pick the wallet of a woman, but because his eyes were dim, the old man took another thing! And the one which was got by the old man was a eye glasses box. Huhu.

>>> What would you like to quotation of this post?

Masturbation - Teenager's Masturbation

2009-05-24T00:36:00.000-07:00

Masturbation. If asked whether on doing masturbation wrong or not, then most people will say that the legal-masturbation only legitimate, even though some people might say it is wrong in the view of religion. Now I will not review this topic from the point of view of religion I am, let's see together.

From Wikipedia, masturbation defined like this:

Masturbation is a deliberate provocation on the genital organs in order to obtain sexual pleasure and satisfaction

If young people actually feel the sexual excitement that is reasonable. At the rise time of puberty, sex will be stronger encouraged. Be pitied, but who is most teenagers want to know even more and fall on the willingness, the solution of other sexual conduct with another person is masturbation!

Likely impact of physical or mental illness appear will be zero. That is said by the doctors this modern era. However, if the observable masturbation be legalized? Actually have a more severe impact than the physical impact. Yes, we know the same psychological impact for those who do so.

Masturbation focus only on the form itself. I quote from one of a site, they say so: someone who does masturbation preoccupied with themselves, they do not pay attention to around of them. Masturbation is a way to release the quietness. Make a paradigm masturbation will tend to see the opponent as an object type sex satisfaction appetite. Moreover, a person will tend to fall on the lust. Unlike with most of the statements, if the press do masturbation will be carnality.

That do not properly generate masturbation even chaste? Try to consider, at the time of pro-masturbation, a teenager will certainly continue to think erotic hallucination-delusion!

If so, what if there are teenagers who have fallen on the act? What can he/she do?

Indeed, teenager needs to do is analyze what is causing the strong sexual desire in theirselves so that teenager eventually chose to do masturbation as an alternative.

I thought what the effect would be large or not sexual desire. If a teenager often watchs, reads or hears that can generate the sexual lust, this may not cause the desire of masturbation, don't they? Of course yes. Therefore just trying to avoid the propaganda.

For example, Just as someone who has been addicted to smoking, less the frequency first. Trying to always be active in activities such as a useful exercise because of activities such as this can be a sexual stimulus.

That's all, especially if a teenager does not afford it alone, seek help from parents and adults who care. Tell them! However, previously, parents also take the important role of sex education to instil in their children.

Hello, All The Teens!

2009-05-23T15:00:00.000-07:00

Hello, all the teens!
Hmm... Maybe you ask me about why I'm here now. Yeah! Nothing actually, except I miss blogging and I wanna do blogging again, especially write many posts about teenager. Accidentally my teenager blog at helda.info was suspend since some days ago.
:(

Because of that, I think why I've to be down? It's better to do something, something new! And the something new are: I've been able to make a blog on BlogSpot, at the fact, I don't understand anything about BlogSpot before. The other is I'm blogging with English now.

Hehe. I've to confess that my English is so bad, and caused of the badness - Helda must try - doesn't it?

Okay. Let's give me a chance to improve my English, and just stay close with me with all about teenager's topic of this Indonesia Teenager.

Tengkyu.
Psst.. Sometimes, my articles use Google Translate with modified.

Premarital Sex: Dangerous of Premarital Sex

2009-05-23T12:57:00.000-07:00

"PreMarital Sex. Why Not? If we love each other, whether we should wait until married?"

That young people thinking: If based on mutual love and does not interfere with other people, why can not enjoy them? I never even hear about this topic on the radio. They ask: "You do not agree with having sex before marriage?" Answer them is that I mentioned at the beginning of the line.

But whether such a view is true? It is not denied at the time of the current virginity is not a priority. Moral values have been shifting as time passed. Book titled A Tribe Apart, said: "Young people have formed their own community ... This community is not simply the collection of contemporary friend, but a separate community [from adults] have the values, ethics and their own rule." But "ethics" and "rule" among the young still I ask.

Causes

Early Puberty been used as the causes of sexual behavior in the early period. However, if I just simply because of this. Sexual maturity too early will not affect the youth if he has a shield which can prevent the influence from the outside. Yes, the environment is a factor that can trigger the extraordinary desire of all who have in themselves a teenager. Unfortunately young people are receiving a bombastic legitimate premarital sex about over whelm the books, magazines, video games, film and Internet. Mass media depicts premarital sex as glamour, fun and risk free.

In addition to large-scale propaganda is propaganda that is truly extraordinary great. As we see earlier, the teenagers have their own community. Communities that have "ethics" and "rule" itself.

Friends of the them said that the sex will prove masculinity and femininity someone. While some teenagers get pressure from the boyfriend, has more by curiosity. He feels life is not complete if not feel. Are young people ready to face the consequences? What are the consequences?

Physical Impact

Adolescent sexual conduct which would have the possibility to get pregnant despite using contraception. Each method has a certain percentage of failure. Even teenagers who regularly mengkonsumsinya. Although he will not be pregnant, if he can guarantee will not happen any time in the future. Venereal diseases such as syphilis and AIDS gonorhoe and so may be booming now will infect them. And in fact there is a danger that more frightening than all that I mentioned above. Danger is it?

Psychological Impact

Many young people think that if they hold together during sex, this will be their approach to one another. However, reality says another! This is very disappointing, there is no happy or feeling the warmth of love at first presumed. They will look to one another with a different feeling from before. The girls may appear to be less interesting and feelings of the men against girls that will not burn. While the girls may feel exploited or even degraded. A pair of teenagers to have sex before marriage was indeed passing through a line that they may not go back! Usually a pair of lovers who have been through premarital sex have a large enough percentage to be separated. This is caused by a feeling of distrust, not trust and feelings of jealousy in the developing heart. A teenager says, "If he wanted to do with me he may have been doing sex with other people. In fact, I feel so incredible ... I'm jealous and doubt, and mistrust. "

After I explained the background and the factors of sex and danger of premarital sex, there may be argued that the experiences have sex before marriage will help a husband or wife. No! This would even reduce the intimacy in marriage!

In premarital sex the emphasis is pander and-only in terms of the physical aspect of sex, no respect to one another because of carnality that is not restrained and to the pattern itself. Meanwhile, in the wedding, intimate relationship requires a healthy self. The focus is on giving, 'meet the obligations of the parties that sex only', and not get or receive. Remember that satisfaction in marriage is not obtained because of physical factors.

Survey stated that they already hold a potential premarital sex two times bigger “prostitution” do after marriage.

Solutions

Which means that communication is one solution. A pair of lovers sometimes too fast physically intimate. They spend time with the statement that excessive love, so this reduces the communication means. They could be the dark eyes and ignore the serious differences that might appear after the wedding. So, should a pair of human children who engaged to provide more time to communicate with can-complete problem-the problem and goal in life.

Then, in addition to all that, parents and adults around the adolescent plays an important role. A teenager who has a good relationship with parents and adults who care for them will likely not start sexual activity early.

In the end, all decisions are in the hands of all of us! All started from family and ourselves. Whether he/she will take a good, or whether he will take the bad. The answer is in yourself!

Tips: Teenager Face Parents

2009-05-23T11:01:00.000-07:00

Tips about Teenager Face Parents. Any posts of some of the many sites I read said there are three types of parents in educating children, ie, authoritarian, and democratic permisif. If the survey, most probably children / young people will choose parents who permisif and if the child is a little favor - then he will choose a democratic parents.

However, in reality, not many teenagers who are not satisfied with their parents - especially for those who have authoritarian parents! So, how young people can face their parents?

Parents who are authoritarian course will be provoking, is not it? Not again not necessarily the answer to that (what is that term? :roll: ). Hence it is not rare, in particular the age of a teenager who suddenly refused! Parents will be panic and the following sentence may be said, "But I have really teach them!"

Ok, I will not deny or discuss how parents should act. Starting from that, as a teenager I wanted to start to understand the parents and their face. Yeah, fight!

If parents tend to be authoritarian (unfortunately my parents used to not so: D), the tips that I give and I have to apply is "say yes" only. Say yes but must be with the love heart ...

Perhaps parents because according to him grunt work is not done well, but that teenagers feel that he has to do with as possible. What action is taken by teenagers should be? Whether he will fight and quibble? The answer from a book I get is not! Conversely, only say, "I think is wrong, Ma. Yes already, I do ya back ... "

Difficult, if indeed we must acknowledge that a wrong. However, for the sake of unity and unity: mrgreen:, not difficult! Yet, surely a time the parents will realize how valuable it is his son. [There is a child that is not valuable? Of course not, but in this situation, the child actually boast their parents. : wink:]

Please try it out for the teenagers who were trapped in this situation. I also have to try this trick to my parents a new one. Steps to stay a little longer so that they are really proud of me. (Cuih, how narcis I am...: oops:).

What about those of you who have parents who permisif - parents who let their children develop by itself without giving signs-signs-but only signs for signs for the environment anyway? Adolescents may feel that he will not be. Yes, take the positive! The youth can take advantage of this situation to be independent. And, glory ... ofcourse parents is key.

Next, the third type, namely a democratic parents - listen to the aspirations of their children. Hmm ... This is the type of parents of each child's desire. Parents still provide this type of regulation but still want to listen to their children. Yeah, I do not need more long comments. If the child is' high-minded, 'you know the answer yourself.

I really do not want to win one type of three types of parents in the top. From a site I read, it is said is the type of parents who are both most of the next type - the type that is a combination of the three types above.

O.K, we return to the role of youth. So, essentially, why not a teenager who must first give in and understand their parents?

>>> Hopefully this article useful, especially for adolescents, and indeed more, especially for parents - There are some young people who want to understand her parents. Btw, each type of parents have strengths and weaknesses of each, now problem is how young people can be to face.

Virtual Teenager and Virtual Teenager Pets

2009-05-22T03:04:00.000-07:00

Virtual Teenager and Virtual Teenager Pets.

Teenager have emotions and always seek interactions. The development of virtual teenager’s pets is an innovative concept, a new paradigm. Virtual teenager’s pets, also called as digital pets are artificial buddies. As replications of real animals, virtual pets don't have tangible forms. To find enjoyment, the user has to keep the pet alive and to assist it to develop into some superior forms. Users can also discover the characters of digital pets and take pleasure in developing interaction and relationship with them.

These robotic games would normally employ realistic visual interaction to have the animal seem alive and provide a sense of actuality. Virtual teenager’s pets (Nintendogs, Tamagotchi, etc.) are available on palm-sized PC. Virtual teenager’s pets made the impression to this generation that caring for and keeping a pet is achieved by simply pushing a choice of keys to keep the pet from sounding loudly. In the US, virtual teenager pets were prohibited in schools. This is because virtual teenager pets are so prevalent that they need unceasing care and attention and students can't fully focus on their studies.
As digital toys take over the conventionally carbon-based life-form characters, a latest class of artificial pets can teach an increasing number of Xbox fanatics something regarding what it is like to possess and care for an animal. Abilities of Virtual Teenager Pets.
When the mouse is moved, these virtual teenager pets seem to go after it. Advantages of Virtual Teenager Pets. To some people, virtual teenager pets are better for several reasons. Because of their young age, kids and teenagers are not capable of responsibly caring for real animals. Digital pets are nice alternatives for children and teenagers.