Alpha Male and Other things….

Noel — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:50:50 +0000

So, go read this post here.

This is my response.

I personally have guy friends in sl, but they are usually friends of my girlfriends. There are several reasons for this, but the main issue comes down to the ‘Alphaness’ of most men. Especially geek men. Most of us are not assured of ourselves in real life. I hate to say it, but it’s true, sometimes SL and life can heal us of that, sometimes not. Part of the reason we stick with SL and enjoy it is because it gives us a confidence or an ability to not be so awkward. I’m much more comfortable using a keyboard to communicate then I am face to face. Although this isn’t true anymore it definately used to be much more so. Most men who are uncomfortable in relationships in general, are also uncomfortable around other men and their tendency to ‘measure’ things.

I don’t like sports in general, I can talk about networking and comics and esoteric subjects such as celtic mythology and the theology of glory versus the theology of humiliation. Those are things most guys don’t care about, and it won’t impress them. My interest in art, creation, educational outreach through diabetes… these are things women are much more receptive of.

Now, having said that, I do have guy friends, but it’s just not that important to maintain relationships with them, because we can not talk for years and still hang out. It’s just a guy thing. Listen to most of Jeff Foxworthy’s commentary on relationships couched as comedy and you’ll see that’s the case. Guys don’t really hang out that much and uncomfortable guys even less so. When I talk to a guy friend, I don’t want to talk about anything that can measure dominance or who is better then who, and 9 times out of 10 with other men, that’s what it turns into.

This turned into more of a ramble then I meant it to be.

1. Most Guys in SL are geeks who are uncomfortable with all relationships and desperately crave attention from the opposite sex.

2. Most Guys in SL who talk to other guys aren’t there for ‘buddy’ relationships.

3. Buddy relationships need to have a lack of ‘Alpha’ male crap, and that’s hard to find online in any form, especially among ‘gamers’.

4. Most of us arty types are just more comfortable talking to people who appreciate it, and it’s not where traditional male bonding fodder lies.

Hope that helps Ali. We’re not deficient, just, not that interested in other guys.

Mania! of the Midnight Kind.

Noel — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 22:55:05 +0000

: Midnight Mania

So, on the advice of a dear friend, I got a MM board. The rules are simple:

1. Simply click the machine to register in the current round.

2. If enough people sign up by the stroke of midnight, everyone wins the prize.

3. When the target is reached, nobody else can sign up for that day.

Like I said, easy. We actually have three of them on the sim, one in Wicked Beast, one in NataShapes, and one in IDG for the cute house up above. As of today it’s already been locked once, so 200 people have gotten their free house, what about you?

My thanks to Nat and Alicia for blogging this.

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Noel — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 18:59:27 +0000

Thankfully, most people do listen….

Dear Noelyci
I have taken the pump down, and I apologise for having put it up for sale.
Is it alright if I put it up for 0 L?
juliannaosng

Julia,

It’s fine as long as you don’t repackage it, just leave it as the insulin pump giver, and set it for sale for 0L or 1L is fine. Thank you for your quick reply.
Noel.

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Alpha Male and Other things….

Mania! of the Midnight Kind.

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