Faith Filled Stilettos

Welcome to the September/October Edition of FFS!

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Sun, 02 Jan 2011 03:25:00 +0000

...Finding self-worth is sometimes the hardest thing for women to do. We wait for others to validate us, instead of knowing it's okay to validate ourselves....

This month, in Faith Filled Stilettos, we wanted to do something different and introduce YOU as our featured cover person for this issue. You may be asking, "How does that work?" Simple. We've come up with a few questions we'd like for you to answer honestly and share with other women why self-love is so important. Our society is plagued with so much hurt and pain that it may be hard to receive the love God has for us, but that doesn't mean it isn't there.

It's time for women to fight for the love they deserve and it starts with first loving yourself!

Start your interview now!

Also In This Issue (Click links to go to article):

A Note From The Editor: Whose Loving You?

Let's Talk About It: "No More Babies?"

The Lifted Lady

Flawless Every Time...

Managing The Stress In Our Temples

After The Music Stops, Mali Music

Removing The Clutter

A Night To Remember

A Writer's Legacy

Don't Stop The Love

Black Book Clubs Rock Awards

Whose Loving You?

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 15:00:00 +0000

"I love you..."

How do you feel when these three words are spoken to you by your spouse, your children, your friends, or a stranger? What about when the person whose hurt you the most proclaims their undying love for you all within the same breath? Do you get a warm tingling feeling or does contempt and hate course through your veins?

Growing up, I found love to be nothing more than a catch phrase people said out of habit. For me, it held no more weight than someone sneezing and the automatic response being, "God bless you." I felt I drifted through life with a disadvantage, because if I didn't know love then how could I have loved myself? It took a lot of self-reflection but I realized the reason why I never received love was because I simply didn't know.

As women, we are the ones helping others gain better position throughout life. We push, fight, cry, scream, and tear down barriers for our family and friends, but in the midst forget to fight for ourselves. How can we properly display love to those around us if we neglect to show love to ourselves?

So, I made this issue about YOU. I wanted you to take the time to reflect on those things that have shaped your thinking on love, what does it mean to you, and are you loving yourself as the bible clearly demonstrated in 1 Corinthians 13?

1 Corinthians 13 (The Message)

1 Corinthians 13
The Way of Love
1 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don't love, I'm nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. 2If I speak God's Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, "Jump," and it jumps, but I don't love, I'm nothing. 3-7If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don't love, I've gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love.

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn't want what it doesn't have.
Love doesn't strut,
Doesn't have a swelled head,
Doesn't force itself on others,
Isn't always "me first,"
Doesn't fly off the handle,
Doesn't keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn't revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.
8-10Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled.

11When I was an infant at my mother's breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good.

12We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!

13But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love.

At the end of this journey, when someone asks, "Whose loving you?" I want you to boldly say, "I am," and mean it.

Loving you because I am learning to love me,

My Interview

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 14:42:00 +0000

Hi Faithful! Thank you for agreeing to be interviewed for Faith Filled Stilettos Magazine. Below are the questions I’d like for you to answer honestly. Place your answers in the comment box below. I appreciate your willingness to share your thoughts with us.

1. Tell us about the last time someone told you they loved you. Did you believe them?

2. When people go through difficult relationships they often carry around “baggage” that keeps them from moving forward? What advice would you give to someone who wants to love, but is afraid to? Then ask yourself, are you carrying around any baggage?

3. When was the last time you did something nice for yourself? If it’s been awhile, please tell us why.

4. Finish this sentence. A woman’s value is determined by…?

5. Finish this thought. I really want to learn to love again, but…?

6. If you had a continuation to the question above, tell us why you feel it's so hard to give/receive love?

7. Do you love yourself? Why or why not?

8. Read all the answers to the questions above. Have you written anything about yourself that comes to you as a surprise?

9. Tell us one thing you will do differently today that will help you learn how to love yourself.

September's Issue of Let's Talk About It: No More Babies?

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 14:01:00 +0000

Q: Your spouse really wants to have another child, but you feel it's not a good idea. Is it okay to tell your spouse you don't want anymore children?

Leave your comments!!

After The Music Stops, Mali Music

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 05:22:00 +0000

Who is Jamaal "Mali Music" Pollard?

Jamaal "Mali Music" Pollard is truth in music. The Savannah-based singer, songwriter, producer is breaking out of the box of traditional gospel music. Jamaal began playing piano at age 5, and wrote his first song at 8. Since age 11, he has been actively pursuing his music ministry and career, and has added acoustic guitar and electric bass to his instrumental expertise. His love for music is largely influenced by legendary music lovers like Sam Cooke and Otis Redding. His sound, heavily inspired by the work of musical geniuses Bilal and D'Angelo, is free, boundless and uninhibited. Jamaal serves as Minister of Music at Faith on the Move Ministries, and though he remains unrestricted as a musician and artist, his passion lies in creating powerful, effective Christian music that stretches its genre.

In 2006, Jamaal founded Mali Music Note Productions, and February 2008 yielded the release of the highly anticipated first CD: The Coming. Having sold more than 5,000 hard copies to date, the project is comprised of smash singles such as "Avaylable", "No Musick", and "I Hate You" gaining the interest of several Contemporary Gospel hit-makers. Already an internet success, the live acoustic version of Mali's "Avaylable" boasts nearly 56,000 YouTube hits. His MySpace page has over 170,000 hits, increasing by the thousands daily. Stretching the boundaries of Contemporary Christian, The Coming displays Mali's extensive vocal and production versatility, and his God-given ability to reach any audience. His bold, unique sound and gift for musical storytelling has captured audiences across the country. Following his project release, Mali immediately began national appearances, performing shows in select US cities. His tour includes events at Southeastern Historically Black Colleges and Universities, World Changers International Youth Conferences and Showcases at the Gospel Music Workshop of America. Moreover, he recently sealed the deal with rising independent recording label, Sound Walk Music Group.

Along with being a phenomenal performer, Mali Music is an accomplished producer and actor. He currently has production and vocal credits on recent CD releases, Travis Greene's The More and Laura Wilson's Nayshon Shaka. In 2007, he landed the lead role in the Savannah College of Art and Design produced film "Linked", and scored its soundtrack. With well over 100 songs in his portfolio, Mali is credited with scoring two gospel stage plays, Urban Resurrection in 2005 and Zion's March in 2006 becoming a local legend in the Christian community. In April 2008, he shared the stage with the ever popular Gospel artists Tye Tribbett, and Da Truth, and his fast growing success earned him an invitation perform at the birthday bash for Deon Kipping, hosted by the legendary Natalie Wilson in Bridgeport, Connecticut. Mali recently went into collaboration with veteran artist Evelyn Turrentine Agee and will write, produce and perform with Ms. Evelyn on her upcoming project, Double Edge. Summer 2008, provided Mali many open doors, he shared the stage with national recording artists Integrity's Lisa McClendon and Arrow Records' Canton Jones. Mali recently opened for shows Deitrick Haddon, Darlene McCoy and 21:03.

In the Mali Music Note Productions Studio, Mali both produces and writes for and collaborates vocally with singers E. Hall and Chelsea, Christian rapper Mr. Del. of Nu Soul Records Additionally, he often produces alongside like-minded visionaries Zion and Ramon "Drum-Ducer" Gaskin.

Ever seeking to enhance his craft, Mali continually studies, increasing his knowledge of music theory. His desire to build his musical repertoire is undying as he is constantly reading, writing, finding new music software, and experimenting with diverse vocal styles. His musical gift is evident and undeniable in The Coming. As his genius grows, Jamaal "Mali Music" Pollard is sure to unforgettably impact the world.

Lutonya M. Lang is the founder of Industry Buzzz.com Media Outlet, a platform of Hope, Vision and Purpose. To learn more about Lutonya please visit her official webiste at www.industrybuzzz.com.
Copyright 2009. All rights reserved by Lutonya M. Lang. Used with permission for Faith Filled Stilettos Online Magazine.

Don't Stop The Love

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 04:41:00 +0000

Have you noticed that now that Valentine’s Day is history you have made being in and demonstrating love a mystery? Your unexpected kisses have been kicked to the curve. The peace has passed away. Your loving words of encouragement and compassion have quickly crept away like a thief in the night.

But just because Valentine’s Day is over and you received (or did not receive) the gifts that you desired, should the love stop? No way! As Keith Sweat sings (or begs)…Don’t Stop Your Love!

Real love is more than an action. It is an attitude. It is universal. Love is unending. And most importantly, love is unconditional.

We tend to race to find love on a two way street of honesty, humility, communication and commitment. But then we quickly lose it on the highway of selfishness, loneliness, boredom or trying to live out other peoples’ expectations for our relationship.

However, you can find those loving feelings again when you:

• Think about what your life would be like without the one you love-Tomorrow is not promised, so cherish people and love them every single day.

• Refuse to allow life’s frustrations interrupt your communication-Life will always bring seasons of both joy and pain. Communicate your honest feelings with your loved one in both seasons no matter how painful.

• Implement the 3-“F” factors in your relationship-The 3-“ F” factors include faith, focus and fun. Have faith and believe the best about your loved one. Focus on maintaining healthy emotional and spiritual support towards your mate. Lastly, have fun with the one you love. A good laugh goes a long way.
If you have stumbled in your love walk towards your spouse, significant other or even family and friends, you can start to truly love again. When you truly have real love for someone, then every day should be special. Just because Valentine’s Day has passed, don’t stop your love but try to make it last forever.

Tanya White is a Freelance Writer, Relationship/Lifestyle Enhancement Coach/Author/Radio Host. For more information about Tanya’s writing, books or to be a guest on her radio show Real Talk With Tanya White, please visit http://www.tanyawhite.com/.

Copyright 2009. All rights reserved by Tanya White. Used with permission for Faith Filled Stilettos Online Magazine.

A Writer's Legacy

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 02:50:00 +0000

Tip 1) Create a Business Plan

Just as with any other endeavor, you need a business plan for writing your book.
The business plan can be simple. Why, who, when and what are the questions you should answer. Why are you writing? Who is writing? When will you do it? What will you write about? Create clear and concise goals, set timeframes and create an outline for your book.

In your business plan, determine if you will self publish or if you plan to query publishing houses with your project. Be prepared to explain what you are doing in two minutes or less if asked. What do you hope to accomplish? Are you writing to become famous, for edification of others or simply for personal pleasure?

Lastly create a team, an editor, publicist, attorney, printer and tax consultant. These are the people that will be most important to your literary business.

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Tip 2 Industry Education

By now you have a degree or two, and these days to write a book you don't need a degree. We do suggest however, you have some knowledge of the industry and what it takes to become a literary entrepreneur.

Attend workshops, writer's conferences and seminars on publishing each year. This is how you attain 'continuing education' and learn new techniques while networking with your industry counterparts. Be sure to take part in literary events and networking functions to meet with others in the business who can share resources and information.

Make sure you join a writer's group in your area and join a few online groups also. This will allow you to engage in real conversation and active work on a consistent basis. Be prepared to help others as you move up the literary ladder also!

Sherie Clark Brooks is the founder of Writer's Legacy (Writing Group, Annual Writer's Conference Host) and also the author of 25 Steps to Becoming a Star Writer & Her Alabaster Box (Keeping God's Gifts Sacred). For additional questions/info send email to writerslegacy@yahoo.com.

A Night To Remember with Tonya Blount

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 02:38:00 +0000

We're a few days away from the deadline of our early tickets purchase for "A Night to Remember with Tonya Blount." If you haven't purchased your tickets yet and plan on attending, this is a gentle reminder.

A Night To Remember with Tonya Blount is a fundraiser event for her organization, Leave the Wilderness, Inc., so your ticket purchase is tax-deductible. All proceeds for this event will go toward Bertha Mae's Place, a Brooklyn, New York based home for battered women and children. The home is named after Tonya's late mother.

The black-tie gala will be held on Friday, November 6, 2009 at 7:00pm - Midnight. We have special performances by Melba Moore, Karen Bernod, and yours truly will perform with the harp. We have special guest speakers: Dominic Carter, NY1 news reporter and host, NYC Mayor Mike Bloomberg's Official, Sally MacNichol, Director of Programs at Connect NYC, Dr. Alfred Phillips, and many more.

If you are unable to attend, please consider sponsoring one of the survivors that will be attending, or you can donate $20.00 and be listed as a Friend of Leave the Wilderness, Inc., in the program journal. For $100 your company, name can be displayed as the table sponsor. Any contribution will be greatly appreciated.

During the event, we will be remembering those women that have lost their lives because of domestic violence by honoring them in "Remember Me," a video tribute that will be shown.

Please visit http://www.anighttoremembertb.com/ for more details, location of the event and to purchase tickets. The event is 10 minutes from LaGuardia Airport. Crowne Plaza and Comfort Inn are also ten minutes away.

Tonya Blount is the Founder/Executive Director, Leave the Wilderness, Inc. and also the new Editor-In-Chief of Having Church For Women Magazine. Tonya will be our featured columnist dealing with the issue of domestic violence and provding solutions for women who have experienced this pain.

Removing The Clutter

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 02:24:00 +0000

Do you have a closet that no one is allowed to open? I wonder why not. Is it full of junk and you keep telling yourself you are going to use one day? Just like cleaning out the closet, at times we need to do a spiritual and emotional cleaning. In order for God to bring His blessings into our lives, we must decide to get free of some excessive baggage that we have held on to. Carrying to much emotional baggage is unhealthy and unwise.

After a relationship has ended, we tend to hold on to old feelings and material possessions. This are called “soul ties”. Soul ties must be broken. Holding on to past issues, feelings and even gifts will continue to connect you with that broken relationship.

I must tell you to remove the clutter. Gather all those emotions and personal belongings and get rid them. It’s not that easy, you say. Trust me I know. It is a process but you must move in that direction. Each day decide to rid yourself of something that you know is not beneficial to your emotional and spiritual well being. What you get rid of, God will replace.

Question for today: Is what I’m holding on to helping me grow and mature in Christ, if the answer is No, you know what to do.

Be blessed.

Paulette Harper as our I Can Begin Again columnist. She is also the author of That Was Then, This Is Now. To learn more about Paulette, please visit her official website www.bvministry.org.

The Lifted Lady

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 02:11:00 +0000

It is amazing to me how several of the most coveted positions (in the church and in the secular world) appear, from the outside view, to carry great grandeur and few tribulations. However, this is a great misconception. Many desire to carry the titles of honor, but they truly do not understand the reality of the burden that comes with these positions. I would like to take the opportunity to focus on a particular person who lives in this realm of reality. She operates on the front line of ministry, and she often has to take hard hits from the very people that she serves. She is a misunderstood victim of jealousy and betrayal, yet she is expected to wear her smile like a tiara won in a pageant. In the midst of her hurt, she must wipe away her tears to help mend the hearts of those that were the ones who made her cry in the first place. I am referring to the precious woman known as the pastor’s wife. She is most affectionately known by many as “The First Lady”. My husband often says that people with problems are simply looking for solutions. I desire to shed some light on some of the perils that the first lady faces, and to offer some solutions to help lift her burden.

First, I deem it necessary to define the role of the pastor’s wife. Although each pastor may have his own expectations of his wife, there are some roles that remain consistent across the board. This valuable jewel must meet the personal needs of the pastor as his aide, his wife, his lover, the mother of his children, and his friend. In essence, she is expected to keep him happy. She may be required to counsel with members, minister the Word, minister in music, and oversee ministry areas. It may be necessary for her to maintain the business affairs of the church, make peace where there is strife, and be the main intercessor to keep the church before God in prayer. To the public eye, it may seem as though she merely dresses nicely and sits on the front pew of the church. Conversely, behind the scenes, she works harder than people will ever know.

She is much more than a trophy to adorn the arm of the pastor, but she is his partner in ministry. She must be willing to be his confidante and to allow him to be transparent without judging him. For contrary to belief, the pastor is not perfect. She is often in the difficult position of seeing him at his weakest point. However, because of her loyalty and love for him, she must maintain his integrity before the people. She must be diplomatic, kind, and willing to offer a nurturing perspective when needed. So, after she has given everything of herself, what is left for her?

Usually, a great deal of suffering is her “reward”. Have you ever had to pray for an enemy or someone who has hurt you? This is a real portion of her daily reality. There are women that despise her, not because she has provoked them, but simply because she is the pastor’s wife. Her title alone may be a source of contention. Many will talk about her, betray her, and even attempt to take the pastor’s attention away from her. She has to pray for the woman that she knows is trying to sleep with her husband (or vice versa), while maintaining her grace and stature. She is required to offer a kind word to the people that mistreat her. She must maintain composure when people acknowledge the pastor and ignore her. Are you beginning to feel her pain yet? Ugly truth isn’t it? Yet, there is still more. She is often subjected to having people in her space that may threaten her and her family. She is never really sure of who she can trust because many people that reach out to her only want to get close to the pastor. Not, I assure you, because they love him, but because they want something from him. She may not feel comfortable sharing her pains with the pastor because of all that he faces in his role. Thus, she is left to carry her burdens alone, and suffer in silence. It is easy to see why she may feel isolated and devalued.

At this point in our discussion, you probably want to know the solution to this problem. Well, it is my prayer that the readers of this column are pastors, church members, pastor’s wives, and women in ministry. If you fall into either category, then this information is important for you. I am going to give you a few tips, many based on experience, to help lift the first lady into her rightful place of honor, as opposed to breaking her spirit and wounding her. Each one of our discussions will focus on some area in which change is imminent. I hope that you, the reader, will focus on your obligation towards healing those ladies in your life that are hurting and bleeding. Prayerfully, you will take a serious look at your role in their pain and become proactive in ceasing it. I warn you that we will discuss some difficult issues, but together we will get through them.

In conclusion, it is my prayer that lives will forever be changed, and hearts will be mended. Now is the season for the thrashing to end, and for the healing to begin. Here’s to the journey. It will definitely be an interesting one! God bless!

Keisha Mitchell is theFirst Lady of Resurrection Life Christian Center in Richmond, VA where her husband, Nathan Micthell, is the senior pastor and founder. To learn more about this ministry or to invite Lady Keisha to be a part of your event, please visit www.rlcc.info.

Managing The Stress In Our Temples

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 01:58:00 +0000

Have you ever had those days when you just wanted to throw your hands in the air and give up? I know the feeling because I have rough days, too. The burden of stress falls on all of us and although it can be challenging, it is something we must all face. I would like to share some faith-based information and stress management techniques that I hope will help you cope with the stress in your lives.

When something has a negative impact on us, we evaluate the problem. If the skills we have outweigh the demands, we may not deem the situation as stressful. If we decide that the demands of the situation outweigh the skills we have, then we determine the situation as stressful and react with the classic "stress response.” The body’s “fight or flight” reaction kicks in. This causes the release of adrenalin, a natural chemical in the body that sets off the first stage of the stress response. We may feel physical changes such as a rapid heart rate and breathing followed by anxiety. If our coping skills outweigh the demands of the situation, then we do not consider it as stressful. How individuals interpret and react to stress differs from one person to the next. Developing healthy methods of coping with stress are imperative to good physical and mental health. We have to remain mindful that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. The bible says “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God and that of the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?” 1 Corinthians 3:16.” Despite all of the stress in our lives, faith in God can sustain us through those rough times and give us strength to endure and push forward. The bible also says, “Have faith and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.” Mark 11: 22-23.

After your daily prayer, following are a few other suggestions that you can add to your list to help reduce your stress.

• Delegation – Try to delegate some of your work load. Remember, you are only one person and you cannot do everything.
• Nutrition – Eat a well balanced diet that includes fruits and vegetables, and drink plenty of water.
• Rest – Adequate sleep is important for healthier functioning minds and bodies.
• Time For Yourself – Take time out for you. Do relaxing activities such as reading, meditating, or pursuing your own individual hobbies and interests.
• Exercise – An exercise program can be beneficial both mentally and physically. Do not begin a rigorous exercise program before checking with your physician first.
• Breathing Exercises – When you are having a “high-stress” day, take five minutes or more to close your eyes and inhale deeply and exhale slowly. This exercise will reduce muscle tension and help you manage that “fight or flight” response on your body.
• Talking – Discuss your concerns or worries with your spouse, family, and friends.
• Professional or Clergy Counseling – Never eliminate the option of counseling if stress continues to overwhelm you and it cannot be resolved after a reasonable period of time.

Many Blessings To You,
Patricia A. Bridewell

Patricia Bridewell is a registered nurse, adjunct professor of nursing, and new Christian Fiction author. She enjoys reading, music, and spending time with her family. Her website is www.patriciabridewell.com.

Flawless Every Time...

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 00:58:00 +0000

Flawless Every Time…

Every stiletto has her secrets to her own personal style. These coveted secrets cannot be gleaned from the glossy magazines at the checkout stands in the grocery store or the latest best-selling guide to style.

The secrets to looking flawless from head to toe everyday lies in knowing yourself. You will automatically look pulled together if you know how to dress your body type. For instance, my five foot four inch frame is stunted by capri pants, but knee length dresses or sleek trousers with heels make my vertically challenged legs look endless. So, when I go shopping I automatically limit my choices to lengths that compliment my shape and frame. I NEVER allow anything into my closet that does not make me feel fabulous (NO MATTER HOW CHEAP IT IS!).

In this economy and with my hectic schedule, I have to be a good steward of my resources.I challenge all of you fabulous Stilettos to clean out your closets and rid yourself of anything that is not up to appropriate standards. Ask yourself these questions about each item: Does it fit correctly? Is it stained, pilled, damaged, or stretched? Does the color compliment me? Does this item fit with the rest of my wardrobe? How many outfits can I wear with it? Can anything benefit from a visit to a tailor? When you are done, sort the clothing into piles to donate, trash, recycle, or consign. You will feel so much better when you just let go of the mediocre threads and challenge your personal style to a higher level.

If you have any fashion or beauty questions or need advice, feel free to email me at fashionista@faithfilledstilettos.com. And until next time ladies, be mindful of what are you clothed in?

You're Invited To A Book Release Party!

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:30:00 +0000

If your birthday is today, August 25th, please call in and celebrate with us! We may even have a surprise for you!

Write Now: Tip 3

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 12:24:00 +0000

50 % of you stated writing a book is what you would do it you had the time. Well, FFS wants to give you the tools to help you get started. For the next 7 weeks we will reveal 7 Tips To Jumpstart Your Writing.

If any of you are authors or in the process of writing a book, share your best tips with us by leaving a comment. We appreciate any feedback and know our readers will too!

Tip #3

What's the big idea?: Ideas are an important part of stimulating your creativity for your writing project, but how do you keep track of them to help with your writing goals? One of my favorite devices is a voice recorder. Not only are then inexpensive to purchase, but they are convenient to carry around with you basically everywhere. Don't let that million dollar book idea or great thesis statement escape you because you don't have a pen and paper handy or a great memory. Plus, most cell phones come with a voice note feature. It doesn't get any easier than that. So what ideas have you captured today?

Check back next week for Tip #4 and if you have a great writing tip to share send it to write@faithfilledstilettos.com.

Marriage and Couples Seminar From Lady Keisha

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:56:00 +0000

Write Now: Tip #2

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 12:01:00 +0000

If any of you are authors or in the process of writing a book, share your best tips with us by leaving a comment. We appreciate any feedback and know our readers will too!

Tip #2

Setting Is Everything: For the most part you want to have a set location, such as your writing desk in your office, as your set location to write. You'll find over time where your creative flow seems to generate. For instance, most of my writing is done on my laptop in my bed. The purpose of having a set location is to help trigger your creative flow and generate ideas. As you build a stronger sense of connection with a place, the more it will inspire you to write. Sidebar: For many, writer's block hits hard so you might have to shake things up a little. Once you find your ideal location know you aren't obligated to stay there. Get up and go to the library or your favorite coffee shop. Sometimes a change in scenry does a writer good.

Check back Tuesday for Tip #3 and if you have a great writing tip to share send it to write@faithfilledstilettos.com.

Though Your Beginnings Be Small...

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 16:37:00 +0000

With only four months under our belt, Faith Filled Stilettos is making an impact in the Kingdom that has reached beyond our virtual audience. Our newest contributor, Tonya Blount, has some exciting news to share. Please read the info below and remember Mark 4:27-29 (New King James Version) 27 and should sleep by night and rise by day, and the seed should sprout and grow, he himself does not know how. 28 For the earth yields crops by itself: first the blade, then the head, after that the full grain in the head. Don't despise the blade.

Greetings to you!

I hope you are all enjoying your summer. I just returned with my son, Dario from beautiful Carolina, Puerto Rico. The trip was supposed to be my first vacation in five years, however, I ministered a few days and worked most of the trip. Still, it was great being able to lay in the sun and just RELAX a bit.

I'm writing because I have some exciting news to share. I was recently appointed Editor-in-Chief of "Having Church for Women" magazine. The magazine is a spin-off of "Having Church" magazine which has been in print for five years primarily on the east coast. "Having Church for Women" will be a 52 page, national bi-monthly publication with an initial circulation of 50,000. Our premiere issue is September/October 2009.

A few months ago, I was interviewed by Tifany Jones host of "Sistah Confessions." During the interview, I shared with Tifany that it was my desire that magazines across the country set their focus on domestic abuse. At the end of the interview, Tifany who recently launched her online magazine "Faith Filled Stilettos" answered the call and asked me to write a column each month in her magazine highlighting domestic abuse. After that interview, I became flooded with other requests to write a column for other magazines related to domestic abuse. I thought to myself "What have I done?" Then a few weeks ago, I was asked to take on this role. God and His perfection amazes me.

I will continue to be Executive Director of my organization, Leave the Wilderness and minister as God directs me. This new position, albeit demanding is very flexible and it will allow me to hire additional staff for my organization.

I recently tapped some of good friends who are also the best writers in the industry to bring forth the vision God has given me for this awesome magazine. Some of the contributors are:

Nathasha Brooks-Harris (contributing editor of "Today's Black Woman" magazine)
Tia Danzler (Make-up artist to Jennifer Hudson)
Dorothy Goins (Bestselling author)
Heather Covington (Publisher, "Disilgold" magazine)

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The OMG Chronicles #5: WHY??

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:48:00 +0000

The question: What is going on?

The situation: Pictures of Terrell Carter, the actor and singer from the Tyler Perry's plays, has recently surfaced with him in a few compromising positions with a MAN! That's right, a man. I don't think there is anything else left to say about that.

Church Girl Says: I know what most of you are thinking. "Isn't he that fine one that played the doctor in that play? You know the one where he is cheating on his wife and..." Yes, that is him. Apparently, his ex-lover wanted to seek revenge and posted images of the two online. Whoever said a picture is worth a thousand words wasn't lying!

While I an still trying to wrap my brain around this news I wonder if anyone suspected him to be suspect long before these pictures surfaced (umm I saw the REAL pics, that I won't share on this site, but it doesn't look good). I mean any attractive, well-dressed, well-groomed, and talented man has to have something wrong with him, right?

I can post endlessly about this news, but I will end with this... To ALL Men, you were fearfully and wonderfully made in the image and likeness of God. Nothing you do, alter, or mutilate will change the destiny God has planned for you. He built you to be a leader and told you to subdue and dominate the earth. You've been given authority to rule. Walk in the calling set before you as KING.

The Word: 1 Peter 2:8-10 (The Message)
The Stone
...They trip and fall because they refuse to obey, just as predicted.
9-10But you are the ones chosen by God, chosen for the high calling of priestly work, chosen to be a holy people, God's instruments to do his work and speak out for him, to tell others of the night-and-day difference he made for you—from nothing to something, from rejected to accepted.

Get Your Passion Back!

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:10:00 +0000

It started out with a conversation to self during a car ride and turned into a longing to have this desire I know most of us are missing out on. What is it? It is the passion to go after the things of God with my whole heart and I've decided that I no longer want to watch the race, but participate in it.

Now don't get me wrong, I am actively involved in the church and consider myself to be a good Christian, but still I felt something was missing. Each day I go through the formalities of How To Be A Christian 101, but lately I’ve found myself so consumed by daily life that my time with God seems robotic. I found myself rushing through prayer just to get to my next assignment or reading a snippet of scripture to complete my To Do List.

By the end of the day, I was exhausted and felt further away from God. So I had to ask myself what am I doing wrong? He clearly said,

Revelation 2:3-5 (The Message)
2-3"I see what you've done, your hard, hard work, your refusal to quit. I know you can't stomach evil, that you weed out apostolic pretenders. I know your persistence, your courage in my cause, that you never wear out.
4-5"But you walked away from your first love—why? What's going on with you, anyway? Do you have any idea how far you've fallen? A Lucifer fall!
"Turn back! Recover your dear early love. No time to waste, for I'm well on my way to removing your light from the golden circle.

So my challenge for the next 30 days is to fall in love with God all over again. I will journal my Passion Party as I travel down this path by way of scripture, meditation, and meaningful conversations with others who want to change their position and get their passion back!
If you’d like to join me, please leave a comment and tell us about how your zeal for God may have diminished and what you plan to do in these next 30 days to get it back.

The party starts today. Hope to see you there!

How Lily Ratliff Blossomed After The Rain

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:37:00 +0000

I had the pleasure of interviewing Lily in May on my radio show Sistah Confessions. She enlightened us on God's faithfulness and the ability to forgives those, even when we feel they don't deserve it. Click here to listen to her confession exclusively given to FFS!

FFS: We were able to discuss quite a bit during our audio interview. What was one thing you wanted to say to our listeners, but did not have a chance?

I have a recent children’s book that has hit the market back in March of this year entitled The Last Shall Be First: An Act of Forgiveness. It is the first in a series of six books that is a modern day Fat Albert of sorts. This first book is about a little boy named Caleb. During one of Ms Frazier’s fifth grade bible lessons on forgiveness at Noah's Christian Academy, Caleb daydreams about his being constantly bullied by the school’s gang, who teases him after learning of his less than perfect living arrangements within a foster home. Even as well-kept as the home might be, it doesn't keep him away from those who refuse to see him as he really is. One day after being beat up by his aggressors, Leander and Marcus, Caleb decides to focus his attention towards keeping his grades in check while helping his favorite teacher with school chores and activities to get his mind off of the negativity these bullies bring to him and everyone around them. One day when the school's computer lab gets vandalized, it is now a test of character and forgiveness that Caleb must pass in order to see himself as a winner and first amongst him peers. But will his determination to succeed in school overshadow his willingness to forgive those who have despitefully used and abused him?

FFS: When people go through the difficulties of life, it becomes hard to recognize God’s love. How would you minister to someone who is in this situation?

I’m always reminded of the scripture, in Hebrews 12:1-2 which says, “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset [us], and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of [our] faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Yes we all go through trials and tribulations. But the Lord wants us to quit worrying about them and cast it over to Him. Let Him fight your battles. For He sees the ending from the beginning! Because we are Kingdom Citizens, we can now be rest assured that we will get through our circumstances with flying colors. You don’t have to worry about your next meal or how your bills are going to be paid. The Lord sees your need, and will always provide for us, heal our sicknesses and diseases, and give us beauty for ashes! Hallelujah!

FFS: Tell us about your company Every Thing That’s Lily.

Everything That’s Lily, LLC was established December 12, 2007, after the publication of my book, The Life of a Lily. Generally an online book and inspirational jewelry business, it recently added a home party flair to it after the initial success of hand to hand transactions throughout the Atlanta area. Everything That’s Lily, LLC was formed to recognize all of the things that the owner, Lily, finds as favorites. Not only does the business offer the owner’s new book, The Life of a Lily, but also inspirational jewelry: bracelets, bookmarks, necklace and earring sets, watches, and key chains. We bring literature and style with the word of God together to create a sense of fashion for everyone who loves jewelry, but also doesn’t mind being reminded of the goodness of the Lord Jesus Christ! Let Lily’s personal favorites now be yours!

FFS: What are some keys to entrepreneurship a person must consider before beginning their venture?

First, you definitely should do your research. You want to be a visionary and stand out above the rest. Make sure what you want to sell or make a name for yourself is unique and targeted to the right audience. A well thought out business plan would work well here. Secondly, seek all of the ways to open your business, a. a great business name, b. whether you want sole proprietorship, partnership, corporation, or a limited liability company, c. seek bids for the business equipment, or products you may need. Don’t take the first thing that comes in your mailbox and think that it is a deal. Don’t be taken advantage of. Next, seek a good accountant to help you keep your business in check (help dot all I’s, cross all T’s). Finally pray. Seek God over everything pertaining to your business. Test the spirit by the spirit. If it’s not of God, don’t do it. In everything, make sure you are using your hands for the glory of God!

FFS: You have many projects planned for the future, with the most recent being featured in an anthology edited by Vanessa Miller. Tell us about your story and the experience behind it?

The story is called, “The Breakthrough”. It takes the scripture verse, Jeremiah 33:3, and chronicles the many facets of God’s glory through my childhood experiences and all of the trials and tribulations that I faced, and showed me how all of those situations were needed for my ultimate breakthrough to come forth. So many times we ask the question, “Why me?” not realizing “Why not you?” says the Lord. It takes going through the fire, to come to a place in Him where in you look back and smile and see just how far God has brought you from. This story is much different from my memoir, The Life of a Lily, because it gives an account to my present day reality of being in Atlanta, GA, and how I, now as an entrepreneur, have gained favor over man and God’s glory has truly been revealed within my business, Everything That’s Lily. It’s for all of those people who have wanted to start a business, but just don’t know how-and what to seek God for to make it happen for them. It’s a story you definitely do not want to miss!

FFS: Michelle McKinney Hammond is your favorite author. What about her inspires you?

When I was going through a terrible time in my life, I was truly on the brink of going out of my mind. I had no one to turn to; no help on either side, and needed something or someone to reach out to. I will admit, I was like so many other people in life that have been at a crossroads in life, that knew there was a God, and knew how to call on Him, but because of being spiritually blind to it, you end up seeking out things in the natural what should have been seeked spiritually. So while in a Christian bookstore one day, I ran across an author I had never heard before, Michelle McKinney-Hammond. The title of the book was Get a Love Life. This book truly changed my life. It helped me to see how God ultimately saw me. She showed her readers how to come back to their first love, Jesus, and learn to fall in love with Him, who is indeed the ultimate Husband. Jesus really knows how to do you right! Whew! J But from that point on, I had to read all of her books. Every one of them pruned me, shaped me and helped me to define my true worth as not only a woman, but a Woman of God. For that, I thank you Michelle!

FFS: If you could write a book with Michelle what would it be about and why?

I would love to work with Michelle in writing a focused book on single and/or working mothers to provide encouragement to all of those who have felt that because of their pasts, and the overwhelming responsibilities that have come with it, that they would never be able to obtain their goals, dreams, and desires, as powerful women of God. We (Michelle and I) could use the Word of God, showing examples of powerful women who were able to do it all despite the obstacles that were in front of them, and ultimately became victorious through God.

FFS: A woman’s shoes say a lot about her. What does your favorite pair say about you?

I’m so glad you asked! I am a lover of stilettos! I have quite an assortment of them in my closet. But the one pair that I love the most, is my Nine West Gisellan in reptile print. It’s classy, graceful, with a little spunk! I can say it better this way-- When you hear the name Lily, it represents all that I stand for: uncompromising, powerful, plethora of resources and abilities, standing tall, weathers every storm, but loves life, and the road not taken. When Lily steps into a room, all take notice, not because of her size, or the clothes that she’s wears, but because of the silent grace that she carries with her. It’s mysterious, and one that people want to get to know.

FFS: Love your answer to the shoe question. Sassy and spoken like a Faith Filled Stilettos. I actually had 1 more question I guess for me. I noticed that before you had longer hair and now it is short (which I love by the way). Was that a decision for image purposes or a statement that Lily has evolved?

At the time of taking the pic, I had just moved to Atlanta, my book was being released, and I wanted to sass it up a bit. Before I had cut it short and had the majority of my hair in blond highlights. So this move was definitely for statement purposes. Now my hair has grown out more into a bob and I am still contemplating re-cutting it. I have been really fighting with myself on a new hair style. What do you think everyone? Another short cut, or bobbed to the shoulder? Would love to have your comments!

To learn more about Lily or to help her decide on her hairstyle, please visit her official website http://www.thelifeofalily.com/.

Write Now: Tip #1

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:20:00 +0000

If any of you are authors or in the process of writing a book, share your best tips with us by leaving a comment. We appreciate any feedback and know our readers will too!

Tip #1

Start On Purpose: Each day you should wake up at a certain time to begin writing. I've read that the first waking hour is the Golden Hour, where you concentrate and experience the most creativity. Test this out by commiting to wake up at a set hour and get started. It doesn't matter what you write at this point. What matters is the habit you a forming that will make your dream a reality!

Check back Tuesday for Tip #2 and if you have a great writing tip to share send it to write@faithfilledstilettos.com.

CMR's Ambassador's Statement

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:12:00 +0000

**The statement released from Cross Movement Records**

Dear Body of Christ,

It is with much grief, severe disappointment and an overwhelming fear of the Lord that Cross Movement Records is sad to announce that we will be discontinuing the forwarding and promotion of the Artist and Minister, The Ambassador AKA William “Duce” Branch, due to recent findings of moral failure in his marriage. It is CMR’s past, current and prayerfully, future position that living in moral compromise is unacceptable and never allowable in the lives of any of the ministers that we co-labor with. We continue to hold up the teachings of Christ as the standard for all Christians and especially those in Christian leadership and public ministry. Although it is a rare find these days, discipline is still one of the true marks of the true Church.

That being said, we also know according to Hebrews 12:6 that “whom The Lord loves He disciplines.” So we know that our beloved brother Duce is under the Lord’s loving care (Hebrews 12:5-11). We at CMR solicit your prayers for him as he begins the uphill climb of restoration through the process of repentance. We also ask that you remember his wife and children in your quiet time with our Lord as well. We are reminded by Galatians 6:1, that we are to work toward the restoration of our dear brother in due season and also to do such in the spirit of meekness, considering ourselves lest we also be tempted.

Lastly, some that have had this circumstance announced to them through other sources have begun to suggest some type of cover-up or a sweeping under the carpet by CMR because of a slight delay in this statement versus the announcement that has already happened in William Branch’s church. This is the farthest thing from the truth. This matter was unbeknownst to CMR and upon discovery we have taken the proper time to speak with the Lord, The Ambassador, his church leadership and many other Christian leaders regarding this issue. After seeking wisdom and allowing the appropriate amount of time to make sure we had all the issues in full consideration, we have come forward as quickly as we were able to after completing this process.

In conclusion, we apologize for the effect that this may have on many who have followed and supported The Ambassador, Cross Movement and Cross Movement Records for many years. Despite this unfortunate occurrence, CMR and all of its artist/ministers continue committed, our resolve unaffected, with the mission of making the message of the Cross known to the world. Again, we ask for your prayers as we keep our hands to the plow, heal our wounded and worship the God of our Salvation. We remain Christ’s and your servant.

Sincerely,
John Wells
Pres/CEO
Cross Movement Records/ Issachar Media
Source: CMR Website

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Business Spotlight: Bookmark It! Handcrafted Bookmarks

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:28:00 +0000

Bookmark It! Handcrafted Bookmarks by Tanisha Webb is where you will find beautiful and unique bookmarks. These bookmarks will truly mark your books with style!Bookmark It! Handcrafted Bookmarks are beautiful, one of a kind, book jewelry made with attractive beads and suspended by a complimenting color ribbon. Because each Bookmark It! is handmade each bookmark is unique to itself.Bookmark It! Handcrafted Bookmarks are wonderful gifts for literary events, book giveaways, weddings, birthdays, graduations, appreciation gift or even a pamper gift for yourself!

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Victoria Christopher Murray Revealed

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 12:12:00 +0000

Victoria Christopher Murray is the Essence bestselling author of the novels Truth Be Told, Joy, Temptation, and Blessed Assurance, a collection of inspirational short stories.

I had the pleasure of chatting with Victoria during our interview and asked her the pop question, "What can you confess about yourself not many people know?"

Victoria's Confession: As a young child I thought I was Queen Elizabeth-literally! Listen Now!

To learn more about Victoria, wisit her at http://www.victoriachristophermurray.com/.

If you'd like to confess to us, write to confession@faithfilledstillettos.com.

Meet God's Glamourous Girls, Rhythm and Praise

noreply@blogger.com (Tifany) — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 07:15:00 +0000

FFS: Thank you for agreeing to this interview. Please introduce yourselves to our readers?

Alicia: Hello everyone! My name is Alicia Williams and I am 24 yrs. old. I am from Wilson, NC but have spent my adult life in Greenville, NC. I completed my Master’s of Social Work at East Carolina University in Greenville, NC in May 2008. I currently work as a Clinical Social Worker for a state psychiatric hospital where I encourage and counsel the patients and let them know life doesn’t end due to their mental illness. I am getting married to the love of my life, Henry Woods, on August 15, 2009. At this time I am simply loving life and enjoying the journey that God has set before me!

Paris:What’s up fam! My name is Paris Andrew. I was born and raised in Raleigh, NC and am currently wrapping up my Master’s Degree at North Carolina State University!

Tasha: Hello my name is Tasha Vaughn. I am 26 yrs. old. I am from Wilson, NC but have lived in Greenville as an adult. I completed by Bachelor’s of Arts in Health Education and Promotion at East Carolina University. I aspire to go back to school to get my Bachelor of Science in Nursing.

FFS: When did each of you start rapping?

Alicia: Well actually Paris is the only one that raps. I am a singer by nature and generally don’t rap unless I am just having fun and playing around. Paris, Tasha, and I just thought it would be an awesome experience and blessing to the Kingdom of God to see three young women intertwine their gifts as a form of worship.

Paris: I started writing poetry when I was 12 years old. My style of writing often comes out in the form of rap as I often like to recite my poetry to soft music or to a beat. When I got to college, I began doing spoken word at open mic events, poetry jam sessions and church events.

Tasha: I actually do not rap however, I play the clarinet. I started playing in band in 6th grade, but I started playing in church and by ear when I was in the 7th grade.

FFS: How was Partners-N-Rhyme formed and where did the name come from?

Everyone’s Response: Partners-N-Rhyme formed when myself, and a fellow poet in the faith of mine, Mr. Marquice Jones would meet up to collaborate on poetry to minister at church events. Our poetic styles vibe so well together that we called ourselves Partners-N-Rhyme, and we began to identify other ‘Partners’ in the faith who could add their salt to ours in ministry. Our Clarinetist, Tasha Vaughn and our Vocalist, Alicia Williams both exemplify the confluence multifaceted musical ministry infused with poetic passion. Usually, when it is Tasha, myself and Alicia, we often call ourselves, “Rhythm and Praise”, or R&P to redirect the crowd’s thoughts from R&B to R&P.

FFS: If you could ask any woman in the bible one questions what would it be and why?

Alicia: I think I would ask the Woman with the Issue of Blood how she pressed with such perseverance to the hem of Jesus garment. Since I am a worshiper no matter what I want to always touch Jesus with my praise and worship. When I look at her it was such a high level of intensity to her getting to the garment of Jesus because she knew she would be made whole. I feel that at times we get so lackadaisical that we don’t press and do whatever it takes to touch Jesus and truly be whole. I also admire her for her fervent faith.

Paris: I would ask the disciple, Tabitha, also known as Dorcas, what it felt like to be a blessing to so many people in her realm of influence in the town of Joppa. The people loved her ministry so much that when she died, they tracked down Peter to come and raise her up from the dead to live and minister to them again. I would love to talk to Dorcas because I desire to download and enact the qualities that it takes to be an on fire leader in Christ, to the point that when I leave, people will demand an encore of the presence of God.

Tasha: I would ask Sarah about her insight on Faith beyond everything she endured. No matter what Sarah went thorough she still had joy beyond measure so much so to the Lord brought her laughter which was her son Isaac (Genesis 21).

FFS: The bible says that life and death are in the power of the tongue. How is that truth displayed through your ministry?

Everyone’s Response: Well to answer this question you can look at the piece that we created “God’s Glamorous Girls”. Through this piece and many more that will be created we touch on the issues of our day and let people know especially women that question “Is anything to hard for the Lord?” (Genesis 18:4) and let them know nothing is too hard for the Lord. Our aim is to let them know it doesn’t matter what type of giant they are facing because God is able to do exceeding and abundantly above all that ask, or think in their wildest dreams (Ephesians 3:20 Message Bible) and he will do just that. That is the epitome of speaking life.

FFS: Have either of you ever dealt with rejection of your gift because you are a woman? If so, how did you handle it?

Alicia: Well I truly can not say that I have dealt with rejection of my gift and for that I am grateful. Generally people embrace me and enjoy hearing me sing and lead them into worship. They especially enjoy when Paris, Tasha, and I come together because they enjoy the unique worship experience that they obtain from us interlocking our gifts.

Paris: Fortunately no, I haven’t. Many men and women tend to enjoy spoken word from a young, talented oracle of God. They tend to like the gift of poetry because it attracts the youth, as well as the older saints to consider the simple things in life. This gift of poetry is often refreshing and cathartic for others.

Tasha: I wouldn’t say rejection. As a musician there are not that many women around or you just don’t see them, especially women horn players. I’ve never felt rejected, just left out sometimes. You feel the need to prove yourself as an equal, but I have been blessed to be around some men who truly love God and the Anointing.

FFS: If you could record a track with anyone who would it be and why?

Alicia: I would record a track with Tye Tribett because I simply love his music but more importantly I love how he ministers the word to people whether it be thorough song or through spoken words. I also love his enthusiasm for the things of God and representing the Kingdom of God. He also has an energy level out of this world and I definitely would like to gain that from him.

Paris: Da Truth. Da Truth is a gospel rap artist who is educated in the faith, challenges the status quo, and collaborates with various artists for one common purpose: To fulfill the great commission, which is to draw all souls closer to Christ to the point of salvation. I would be HONORED to rap on a track, or do a poetic interlude with Da Truth. I’ve never seen him in concert personally, but I’ve followed his music ministry and recommend his music to anyone who is looking to hear the gospel preached to a beat.

Tasha: Tye Tribbett! I am a huge fan of his and Sound Check (The Band). I love the energy, the jazziness, and the beautiful worship.

FFS: Young girls are being pressured more than ever to “drop it likes it’s hot” in sexually explicit videos, magazines, and so on. It seems like the only way to get noticed is to show some skin. If you had to minister to a girl caught between being a video vixen and God’s girl, what would you say?

Paris: IMAGE IS EVERYTHING. If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything. Take this time today, to be the trend setter. Make holiness a trend. Everyone gets excited whenever they see ‘NEW’ attached to a thing. Be the ‘NEW’. The N.otably E.xquisite W.omen that everyone else will aspire to be. You can only be “N.E.W.” by accepting Christ in your life, and walking out that relationship in obedience and submission to Him. You can do it. Everyone is waiting on the N.E.W. you…including Partners-N-Rhyme.

Tasha: I would tell her that she is worth much more than showing her body to the world. A true woman who esteems herself to be the top and a real dime piece knows her worth in Christ. She indeed has a worth far more than rubies and diamonds. If you don’t want to be trash, feel like trash, become trash, then don’t do trashy things.

Alicia: After reading and talking with my group members I definitely have noting left to say. They summed it up quite nicely and I agree with what they stated completely.

FFS: Name some of your favorite artists.

Alicia: Tye Tribett, Fred Hammond, Kirk Franklin, Mary Mary, William Murphy, Lisa McClendon, CeCe Winans, Kiki Sheard and a ton of others that would probably fill this page.

Paris: William Murphy, Mary Mary, Mali Music, Tye Tribbett, Da Truth, Ambassador, Lecrae, Tripp Lee, Phanatik, Flame, Stephen the Levite, the list could go on and on.

Tasha: Tye Tribbett, Kirk Franklin, William Murphy, Chris Tomlin. Lisa McClendon, Kirk Whalum and Kenny G.

FFS: No one said Canton Jones! You all lose 4 cool points for that lol (JJ)! Give me 4 bars right now on love.

Everyone’s Response: Give me that love that is rich, something like the top dollar
Surpassing common law because it comes from the Father
Limitless in affection, our praise breeds new direction
Pricking hearts, touching souls to the point of confession

FFS: What’s next for you ladies?

Everyone’s Response: That is definitely a tough question at this point. We all are accomplishing so much in life with marriage on the horizon for one of us (Alicia), one of us finishing up a Master’s Degree and a freshly started marriage (Paris), and then another wanting to pursue a second degree (Tasha). All though we are not sure at this time we know that God will lead and guide us. We also know that we share a covenant relationship and that our paths will forever cross. In the mean time we would love to do further projects together and we know that it will happen.

FFS: A woman’s shoes say a lot about her. What does yours say about you?

Paris: Day by day, I’m walking in and on purpose.

Alicia: Well I am definitely the Stiletto Type. For some stilettos are hard to walk in but not for me. What can I say just as my shoes are high I am definitely going higher and higher in the things of God. I am excited about where God is taking me. No matter how high he exalts me I am confident that my God will allow me to walk with confidence, boldness, and authority! I exalt God because he is the greatest!

Tasha: Classy but comfortable would describe my shoes. I am a down to earth person who is sweet, classy, and beautiful and likes to spread the joy and love of Christ wherever I go. I am also very comfortable with my relationship with God and where I am in life.

FFS: You ladies are an inspiration and I am blessed to have you featured in FFS! Continue to walk in your purpose and I look forward to seeing more of R&P in the future.

To check out some awesome video of Rhythm&Praise in action, visit their Youtube page www.youtube.com/user/PartnersNRhyme.