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		<title>The Art of Deconstruction: Building Better Speaking Skills</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 17:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband and I have a summer house in Sedgwick, Maine with a big, 200-year-old dilapidated barn on the property. Its roof is caving in, several huge hand hewn beams have collapsed and the heavy front doors recently blew off in a windstorm. Saving it is too expensive so we decided to have it taken [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I have a summer house in Sedgwick, Maine with a big, 200-year-old dilapidated barn on the property. Its roof is caving in, several huge hand hewn beams have collapsed and the heavy front doors recently blew off in a windstorm. <img class="size-medium wp-image-449 alignright" title="definis-barn-005" src="http://www.definiscommunications.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/definis-barn-005-300x225.jpg" alt="definis-barn-005" width="150" height="150" />Saving it is too expensive so we decided to have it taken down. I’m talking to an excavation crew to do the work. Simultaneously I’m talking to a barn builder and architect about saving some of the priceless old beams and hardware, the cupola and the large barn doors and reusing them in a new barn we will one day build. But before that time comes we have to face the difficult process of deconstruction.</p>
<p>What does the process of deconstruction have to do with public speaking?</p>
<p>Becoming a better presenter often requires initiating a particular and sometimes painful process where you have to deconstruct what was once newly created so that you can develop something new. This is the process of growth.</p>
<p>For example, if you were coached and trained a few years ago, the <strong>public speaking techniques </strong>you learned took you to a new level. That phase served you well but now it may be time to grow again. And to do so, you may need to take your speech style, performance techniques and content structure and deconstruct them, much like we’re doing with the barn in Maine. It’s time to tear it down but hold on to a few of the most valuable pieces—the key components and special features that make you and your message unique and powerful—and reuse them in a new form. This is not an easy process but it’s one you will need to embrace if you want to <strong>move your speaking skills to the next level.</strong></p>
<p>Here are a few tips to help you during the deconstruction process:</p>
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<li><strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Resist the urge to resist change: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Don’t let your ego get in the way; be open to new ideas and techniques. Resistance may seem more efficient in the moment but in the long run it holds you back and keeps you from reaching higher levels of <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">performance mastery.</strong> If your barn needs to be torn down, let it go and rebuild.</span></li>
<li><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Get back to ‘Beginners Mind’:</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> This </span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN">concept in <a title="Zen Buddhism" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zen_Buddhism"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Zen Buddhism</span></a> refers to having an attitude of openness, eagerness, and lack of preconceptions when studying a subject, even when studying at an advanced level. “<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, in the expert’s mind there are few,” says</span> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shunryu_Suzuki"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Shunryu Suzuki</span></a>. No matter how advanced you are there is still room to challenge yourself to achieve higher levels of performance.</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"></strong></li>
<li><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Deconstruct your technique:</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> Whatever your technique, break it down to the simplest fundamentals. Put your performance skills under a microscope. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Look closely at your method of delivery, your content structure and your behaviors.</strong> When you investigate and refine each skill you will feel uncomfortable at first, but this awkward stage is critical for perfecting your technique and creating a new plateau<strong>.</strong></span></li>
<li><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Seek and acquire new methods:</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> Seek out new skills, behaviors and techniques to take your performance to a new level. Watch the pros, read books by successful speakers, ask questions and study with master teachers. Most of all <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">set goals to acquire new skills.</strong> With careful, consistent practice this challenging phase will pay off.</span></li>
<li><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Put it all back together:</span></strong><span id="ms__id46" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> When you live through the deconstruction phase and put in the hard work required to put it all back together you will create something better, fresher, more relevant and more professional. It will all come together and <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">your presentations skills will reach a new level of excellence.</strong></span></li>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id14" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Ultimately, when the old no longer works, when the barn is falling down, it’s time to let go and rebuild. Granted, when you deconstruct you may lose some fluidity, smoothness, and comfort. But keep in mind that this process isn’t an end in itself. You will soon put it back together again and create something even better—for you and your audience. It may be time for a good old fashioned barn raising.</span></p>
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		<title>Perfect Your Sales Presentation to Win in a Down Market</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 17:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Today’s sales environment is like navigating a 60-foot sailboat in a thunderstorm. New demands of a global economy, the immediacy of the internet, increased and hungry competition and most of all a ubiquitous down market make it a treacherous climate. Additionally, salespeople are being asked to plot a winning course through longer buying cycles, increased [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id27" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Today’s sales environment is like navigating a 60-foot sailboat in a thunderstorm. New demands of a global economy, the immediacy of the internet, increased and hungry competition and most of all a ubiquitous down market make it a treacherous climate. Additionally, salespeople are being asked to plot a winning course through longer buying cycles, increased executive involvement, significant price pressures and the greatest of today’s challenges – no decision. While buyers may be interested in your products and services, budgets are tight, which leaves only the promise of a future sale. For most salespeople “no decision” is often worse than losing the deal to a competitor.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Enter the Sales Presentation</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id10" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">The sales presentation can be the entry point, the turning point or the culminating event of the sales process. In fact, <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">sales presentations are not just “high stakes” anymore; they are “extreme stakes.” </strong>And sales professionals in every industry are suffering under the weight of these new demands. As one sales professional said, “I need to be equipped to sell to multiple clients, including the executive, the technical user, a committee, an undifferentiated group and even in an old fashioned competitive ‘bake off.’” That’s a tall order.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">To make your next sales presentation meet the challenge of today’s “extreme stakes” you must <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">refocus your approach</strong>. The old way just won’t work in this new market. Instead, you must learn to <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">probe the customer with meaningful questions and then listen carefully to the answers. </strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">The keys to consider are:</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">        </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Focus on the customer: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Identify their business drivers and key initiatives. What are they trying to accomplish short term and long term? What keeps this buyer awake at night? What must you know about the underlying needs of their business? <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">How will</strong> <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">you structure your presentation to focus on the customer?</strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">        </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Ask questions:</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> Pad your presentation with questions, both direct and rhetorical, and make sure you are well prepared and rehearsed. Reach into your customer’s mind and seek understanding. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Ask a thought-provoking question or a series of questions as an opening hook </strong>and use them throughout your presentation.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">        </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Confirm your understanding</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">: Express what you are hearing so the customer knows that you understand their pressing needs and concerns. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Paraphrase in a concise and precise manner</strong> to ease your customer’s mind and to confirm your understanding. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">        </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Emphasize the positive results of your involvement</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">in their business outcomes: </strong>State how you can help with such things as process improvement, saving money, increasing productivity, etc., rather than just showing off the “fancy features” of your products. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Position yourself as part of the solution.</strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">        </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Be provocative: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Identify what is thought-provoking about your solution. Realize that only one of two things moves someone to take action – a direct line to increased revenue and reduced costs<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> or </strong>an improvement they can actually see. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">To get their attention and drive the decision you must be provocative.</strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Solve Their Problem; Reduce Your Stress</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Don’t let the current sales environment blow you off course, causing you to deliver a confusing, overwhelming feature-based presentation. When you <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">provide a solution that helps customers increase revenue and lower costs</strong> it’ll be smooth sailing ahead – toward strong business partnerships, your professional goals and personal profits. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></p>
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		<title>4 Methods to Deliver a Great Speech</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to delivering your presentation, you actually have many choices. Public speaking involves so much more than just standing in front of a crowd and talking. How you deliver your thoughts and message can depend on a number of factors, such as your comfort level, the nature of the information and most important, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id9" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When it comes to delivering your presentation, you actually have many choices. Public speaking involves so much more than just standing in front of a crowd and talking. How you deliver your thoughts and message can depend on a number of factors, such as your comfort level, the nature of the information and most important, your audience’s expectations. So before you stand up to speak, make sure you choose the correct delivery method that will give you the best results for you and your audience. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Here is a quick overview of each method: </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Reading verbatim from a manuscript</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Some speeches must be delivered word for word, such as critical updates to the media, reports at a professional meeting or a political address. In these highly formal situations accuracy is extremely important because every word will be analyzed by the press, the public and the audience. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Good speech writers know the importance of writing speeches that will be read and how to create them.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">It may look easy to give this kind of speech, but it requires a great deal of skill. The trick is to make the written word sound spontaneous—to make the words come alive. Otherwise, this type of speech and the words can come across as dry and dispassionate, and the speaker can appear stiff and uncomfortable. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">If you are going to read a speech, careful rehearsal is mandatory.</strong> The delivery must be closely choreographed with the message to lift the speech from the page and into the hearts and minds of the listeners.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Memorization</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Hundreds of years ago, the legendary orators would memorize long and complex speeches and deliver them word for word. Fortunately, today this is not a customary or recommended practice. For short speeches like introductions of other speakers, wedding toasts, thank you comments or congratulatory remarks it’s okay to memorize and sometimes helpful to do so. And there may be certain sections of a longer talk that you may want to memorize, like the opening, the closing and the transitions. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">If you do recite any part of your speech from memory make sure that you know it cold so you don’t run the risk of fumbling, getting off track and losing your connection to your audience.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">An impromptu speech is delivered without any preparation at all. Most people would rather not do an impromptu speech, but they often cannot be avoided. In business meetings your ideas and opinions might be solicited on the spot. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">But rest assured that we all give hundreds of impromptu speeches every day. This “on the spot” speech is the core of everyday conversation. </strong>So if someone turns to you and asks for your thoughts, don’t panic. Take a deep breath and think through a logical beginning, middle and ending progression. Keep the audience on track by stressing key words: “The first point I’d like to cover…” “Next you will see…” “And finally I would like to add…” Impromptu speaking takes practice, but if you follow a structure you’ll soon get the hang of it.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Extemporaneous</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">While many people think extemporaneous and impromptu are the same since they are both speeches that are not read or memorized, there is one key difference. The impromptu speech is completely off the cuff; <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">the extemporaneous speech is thoughtfully prepared, planned and practiced. </strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When speaking extemporaneously, the speaker uses notes, an outline or a PowerPoint slide presentation to stay on track. And as long as your speech structure is carefully planned, that’s all you need. This is the method we recommend for the majority of people we work with. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Once you have the content prepared you can spend your time practicing the flow of the material and your delivery. As you practice out loud, the words will come out differently with each run though but you will know the basic sentence structure and logical progression of the material. If you practice enough, the most effective parts of your message will stick in your mind and come out as you planned. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The key here is to take the time to fully prepare.</strong> No short cuts! When you practice, you will have full control of your topic, sound convincing and yet still come across with a spontaneous and conversational tone.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id8" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Ultimately, the speech delivery method you choose will depend on many factors, such as how formal or informal the presentation is, how well you know your subject, who the audience is, and your own comfort level. When you take the time to analyze these factors and educate yourself about your choices, you can make the best decision about what method to use and give a great speech.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 13:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Many thanks toJeff Porro for submitting this great post. Jeff is a Washington, DC-based speechwriter for Fortune 250 CEOs, diplomats, and other government leaders, as well as executives of some of the nation’s leading trade and professional associations. He is also an award winning screenwriter and a PhD with 20 years of experience in research, public policy, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id26" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"><em>Many thanks toJeff Porro for submitting this great post. Jeff is a Washington, DC-based speechwriter for Fortune 250 CEOs, diplomats, and other government leaders, as well as executives of some of the nation’s leading trade and professional associations. He is also an award winning screenwriter and a PhD with 20 years of experience in research, public policy, and business. Learn more about Jeff at </em><a href="http://www.porrollc.com/"><span id="ms__id25" style="color: #4b6ca8; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;"><em>www.porrollc.com</em></span></a><em> and </em><a href="http://blog.porrollc.com/"><span id="ms__id24" style="color: #4b6ca8; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;"><em>http://blog.porrollc.com</em></span></a><em>.</em> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id18" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">As a speechwriter who works with executives, I’ve found that far too many corporate and nonprofit leaders are unfamiliar with a couple of basic facts of life about speeches: <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">a terrific<span style="layout-grid-mode: line;"> speech or presentation is a performance:</span></strong><span id="ms__id17" style="layout-grid-mode: line;"> and an effective performance takes teamwork. </span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="layout-grid-mode: line; font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Think about the other kinds of performances that have moved you: a great play, a great movie, even a great stand-up comic. Chances are you were very aware of two key elements that made the performance memorable. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The script was terrific, and the performer knew how to deliver his or her lines convincingly.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="layout-grid-mode: line; font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">What you may not have been aware of was that the creative people behind the performance worked closely together <em>as a team</em>. They brainstormed, interacted with one another, blended their different perspectives and made changes to improve the performance. I was part of the writing team for the film, <em>The Great Debaters</em>. But when they were shooting the movie, the actors, screenwriter and director Denzel Washington collaborated almost every day. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">They adjusted the original script in order to make dialogue more effective </strong>and move the film forward more smoothly. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="layout-grid-mode: line; font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Preparing an excellent presentation takes that kind of team effort, too. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">You need a good speech writer and a good communication trainer.</strong> But the key is that the writer and trainer must have a working relationship with you that allows for feedback, interaction, and changes.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">The speechwriter’s first job will be to prepare a script that does more than convey information. As Lee Iacocca once said, “You can deliver information in a letter or tack it up on a bulletin board.” <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The script should make it possible for the executive to convey important information in an engaging way.</strong> T<span style="layout-grid-mode: line;">he speechwriter won’t get that done alone in a room somewhere pounding away on a keyboard.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="layout-grid-mode: line; font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Enter the presentation coach. The best trainers do not try to force every speaker into one mold. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">They help executives translate their strengths in the board room and as leaders into strong presentation skills.</strong> They also help you discover and overcome your presentation weaknesses so you can come across in presentations as genuine, relaxed and passionate.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">To achieve this goal, the trainer typically <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">will work with you in coaching sessions, using video so you can see where you need help.</strong> Here’s where the teamwork comes in — the speechwriter should be there. Being part of the training will give the writer insights that are invaluable to polishing the script. For example, it may turn out that you can not tell a joke, but are comfortable with self-deprecating humor. There may be certain phrases that look good on paper, but which you have trouble saying comfortably.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Armed with insights from the coaching session, the writer gets a sense of <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">the executive’s presentation personality </strong>and can incorporate that into the first draft. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Once the first draft is done and the first round of presentation training is finished, <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">the team process should resemble even more closely the interaction that goes into making a movie. </strong>As the executive practices the talk, the writer should be prepared to make changes—cutting back sections that drag or changing words you repeatedly stumble over.  If there are parts of the speech you are struggling with, but which absolutely have to be included, the trainer can help you develop ways to become more comfortable. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">The team should mark up the ‘performance script.’ This is the actual script the speaker will be using in front of the audience. The markup should include simple reminders to the speaker of the way he or she should <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">use body language to engage the audience</strong>. For example, the speaking script should list the gestures to be used at key points, remind the speaker when to speak more loudly, or when to lower the volume, when to pause, when to make direct eye contact, etc.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span id="ms__id23" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">The writer and trainer can work together with you in other ways, too, of course. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">What’s most important is that all those involved realize that the team effort will be interactive and iterative process. </strong>The writer will change the speech draft based on input from the executive and the trainer. The trainer will adjust his coaching based on how the executive responds and on what the writer suggests, and so forth.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 14:07:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Part 2 of 2 
 
In Part 1 of this blog we talked about the importance of teaching children public speaking skills and using The Fun Theory to make the experience enjoyable and effective. The last thing anyone wants is to raise a child who suffers from glossophobia – the fear of public speaking. Today, as many as 75% [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;, &quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Part 2 of 2</span></strong></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">In <a href="http://www.definiscommunications.com/blog/where-the-wild-things-are-and-the-fun-theory/">Part 1</a> of this <span id="ms__id28" style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">blog we talked about the importance of <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">teaching children public speaking skills</strong> and using <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The Fun Theory</strong> to make the experience enjoyable and effective. The last thing anyone wants is to raise a child who suffers from glossophobia – the fear of public speaking. Today, as many as <a href="http://www.glossophobia.com/">75% of people have glossophobia</a>, and studies show that many people fear public speaking more than death!</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"><span id="ms__id29" style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 9pt;">None of us want our children to contribute to these statistics. Rather, we want them to feel strong and comfortable whenever they are speaking and especially when they are speaking in front of a group. In case you doubt that children can be poised and confident in front of a group take a look at this famous video clip of Severn Suzuki who spoke at the United Nations Earth Summit when she was just twelve years old.</span></span> </p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">In addition to her powerful message, which is still relevant today, did you hear the strength of her vocal delivery including her word choice, clear enunciation, strong inflection and pauses? Did you see the passion in her delivery?</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">While you may not want your children to be quite as assertive as Severn, you do want them to be confident and poised and to hold their own on issues that are meaningful and important to them. Children who feel comfortable speaking to groups tend to speak out more often, volunteer for leadership positions and meet challenges head on. In fact, <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">developing public speaking skills is just as important as learning to read and write. </strong>That’s why “show and tell” is such a popular activity in the early grades. But there is more that we can do to help our children master this all important skill.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When teaching young children the fundamentals of public speaking there are two important areas you can work on every day: <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Vocal skills and body language.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Here are a few pint size tips I have used as an actress, teacher and parent. I am delighted to pass these on to you.<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"></strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Read out loud to your child: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Research tells us that there are many benefits to reading to your children. When it comes to public speaking, reading is a hidden resource. If you <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">enunciate clearly, vary your pace from slow to fast and use expressive pitch and inflection </strong>you will heighten your child’s interest in the story and teach these important vocal skills by example.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Emphasize key words: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When words in the story are colorful, descriptive and emotional, use added stress to make them sound dramatic. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Change your volume</strong> (speak louder and stronger or softer and lighter) depending on the word and context. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Vary your pace</strong> and alternate speaking fast and slow. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Pause</strong> often and make those words come alive!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Have your child read to you: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When children are old enough most love reading to their parents. When they do read to you encourage them to <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">speak carefully and say each word clearly.</strong> Then, ask them to “play” with the words in the story and bring them to life. Ask your child such questions as, “How can you say this like Max would say it?” or “How can you sound happy, sad, excited or afraid?” Encourage your child to say a word the way it sounds (buzz, swish, cool) and to explore variations of expression for each word.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Add sound effects: </span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Vroom<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">, </strong>chug, boom, screech! Sound effects are a natural means of expression for many children. They love hearing and making sounds. And making many different kinds of sounds gives them an opportunity to practice creative expression and build confidence. So tune up your inner Thomas the Steam Engine or Roary the Racing Car and <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">bring the story to life by using sound effects</strong>. Invite your child to play with sounds whenever they read out loud. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Teach Body Language </span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Take turns standing up and reading a page out loud</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">: This is a wonderful activity to do with your children but it may be too stimulating to do right before bed. Start early in the evening so there is plenty of time to unwind. Select a favorite story and play “round robin” by taking turns and having each member of the family <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">read a page of the story with dramatic energy and flair.</strong> Just this simple practice of standing in front of one or two people will give your child the experience of being in front of a group.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Play “public speaker”:</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> Children love to role play. They play doctor, ballet dancer, truck driver and chef, so why not encourage them to <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">play “public speaker”?</strong> Ask questions to help them learn how public speakers behave when they speak to a group. Encourage your child to stand up straight and not fidget or pull at their clothes or hold onto their hands or arms. Ask them to open their arms away from their body and <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">use big gestures</strong>. And make sure you <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">encourage them to smile.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">         </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Use everyday conversation to teach body language:</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> Remind your child to make eye contact whenever they are speaking to someone. The dinner table is a great place to help them learn to do this. When they learn this skill at any early age they will not be uncomfortable using it as they grow.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Teaching public speaking skills to your children</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> requires a great deal of commitment and consistency over time, but it doesn’t have to be a chore. You can <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">teach the fundamentals</strong> in a seamless, playful and loving way…and have fun doing it. Before you know it, your children will grow up to be confident and competent young adults capable of standing in front of any group… even at the United Nations.</span></p>
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		<title>Where the Wild Things Are and the Fun Theory</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I first understood the power of storytelling early in my career when I was an actor in a small children’s reader’s theater company called the Peanut Butter Readers. Our small troupe toured in schools and libraries throughout New England and Canada dramatizing classical and modern stories. One of our favorites was Where the Wild Things Are. I have a long history with this enchanting story and I’m looking forward to seeing it on the big screen this weekend.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">You can help your children learn public speaking skills</span></strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">I first understood <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">the power of storytelling</strong> early in my career when I was an actor in a small children’s reader’s theater company called the Peanut Butter Readers. Our small troupe toured in schools and libraries throughout New England and Canada dramatizing classical and modern stories. One of our favorites was <a href="http://wherethewildthingsare.warnerbros.com/#/Splash"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; color: #0000ff;">Where the Wild Things Are</span></span></strong></a><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">.</strong> I have a long history with this enchanting story and I’m looking forward to seeing it on the big screen this weekend.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">As actors and teachers, we believed that children from pre-school to high school would be more engaged in the learning process if their teachers used oral interpretation and other theatre techniques to enhance the reading curriculum. We wanted to help them bring their nursery rhymes, poems and stories to life. And we had a great formula for doing so. First the students watched us perform (and we always brought their teachers on stage) and then we held workshops for the student body where everyone got involved. By teaching theater games and performance techniques we watched every child become engaged and fall in love with literature. The trick was to make sure that they all had <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">fun in the process of learning.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">A New Fun Theory</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Research tells us (and I learned this lesson as a Peanut Butter Reader) that learning occurs most effectively when people are invited to tap into their natural curiosity, engage their bodies and minds in the learning process and share the experience with others. The big message here is that it’s a lot easier to change behavior and master a new skill (like public speaking) when the change is not only painless but also enjoyable. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">An example of this idea landed in my inbox yesterday! <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lXh2n0aPyw&amp;feature=email"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">This short clip about the “piano stairs”</span></a> shows how people are willing to do something new when the invitation to change is made interesting and appealing. Take a quick 90 seconds to watch it now.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Use the Fun Theory to Help Your Child Learn Public Speaking Skills</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">There are innumerable benefits to teaching <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">public speaking skills to young children.</strong> Public speaking skills boost your child’s confidence and prepare them for school presentations and real world applications. Fortunately, children learn public speaking quickly – they don’t yet know to be fearful of it and they readily accept that public speaking is just another way we communicate. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When it comes to <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">learning public speaking skills</strong>, your child looks to you as their best teacher. How you teach them is up to you: you can take them for a dull ride on the escalator or together you can climb the musical staircase. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">By being a role model, enthusiastic supporter and gentle task master you can teach your child to communicate effectively—and have fun in the process. And as your child watches and listens to your words and animated stories, they will mimic and adopt the skills you use. So always remember that every interaction you have is an opportunity for your child <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">to become a confident and competent communicator</strong>, whether you’re retelling the events of your day over dinner or tucking them in with a favorite bedtime story. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">If you want to brush up on your <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">storytelling skills,</strong> or <a href="http://oi.vresp.com/?fid=17bab0a325" target="_blank"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">sign up</span></a> for our next e-newsletter, which will be filled with storytelling tips. You’ll discover how to engage children and adults alike with the power of stories. Don’t miss out – and that’s no tall tale. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"><em>Win a $25 Fandango gift card to see Where The Wild Things Are. Enter by sending an email to <a href="mailto:definiscommunications@gmail.com">definiscommunications@gmail.com</a>. One winner will be selected at random. Please, only one entry per person. Good luck!</em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; color: black; font-size: 9pt;"> *UPDATE: Congratulations to Genie Gratto, winner of our giveaway. Genie is the Communications Director at </span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN"><a href="http://www.phlpnet.org/" target="_blank">Public Health Law &amp; Policy</a> (PHLP), a company that partners with advocates and decision-makers to help create healthier communities. Stay tuned to the DeFinis Communications blog for our next freebie!</span></p>
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		<title>BizTechDay 2009</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 14:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a pubic speaker and entrepreneur with a great message, but not sure how to reach more customers? Are you a Small Business Owner with a great product and service, but feel like your marketing just doesn't work and you are wasting a great deal of time and money?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="text"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Are you a public speaker and entrepreneur with a great message, but not sure how to reach more customers? Are you a Small Business Owner with a great product and service, but feel like your marketing just doesn&#8217;t work and you are wasting a great deal of time and money?</span></span></p>
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<p><span class="text">If you answered &#8220;YES&#8221; to any of the questions above, <a href="http://www.biztechday.com/">BizTechDay 2009</a> is the place for you! I was a participant at last year’s conference and was astounded at the rich educational and networking opportunities available. I met new friends and learned a whole new approach to marketing – which I’m pleased to say is paying off. This year I will be a featured speaker at one of the breakouts. I’ll be offering our signature <a href="http://www.definiscommunications.com/programs-services/our-core-curriculum.php">Line by Line video coaching</a> in short bursts for anyone who signs up. The focus of the coaching will be to help business owners refine their pitch.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p><span class="text">From BizTech’s CEO &amp; Founder, Edith Young:</span><span class="text"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></span></p>
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<span class="text"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Where: Hyatt Regency SFO, Burlingame, CA</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span class="text">BizTechDay 2009 is a practical, hands-on and experiential <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Small Business Strategy, Social Media and networking conference </strong>where expert speakers and business leaders (from Google, Facebook, Linkedin, Twitter, Yelp, Virgin America, Elance, Constant Contact, Justin.TV, WordPress, CBS 5, and Comcast Business Class) share their insights and experience and help your business get up to speed in this economic downturn. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="text"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Through high-impact keynotes &amp; panels, small group executive round table sessions, hands on demos and one-on-one meetings, you will learn about Raising Money, Selling and Social Media Marketing for your business:</span></span></p>
<p><span class="text"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Money Track</strong> </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Raise $100,000 to 3 Million. Meet Paypal Angel Investor and Founder of the Keiretsu Forum. </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Raise $5000 - $100,000 for Your Business. </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Access Investment Capital and Make the Federal Stimulus Program Work for You. Meet Experts from the California Governor&#8217;s office. </span><br />
<span class="text">Building Partnerships with Fortune 500 Companies </span></p>
<p><span class="text"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Marketing / Selling Track</strong></span><br />
<span class="text">Building a Strong Business Brand. Meet Experts from Google, Yelp, Linkedin, Facebook &amp; Twitter </span><br />
<span class="text">Securing Your Number One Spot on Google </span><br />
<span class="text">Selling to the Baby Boomer and GenY Communities </span><br />
<span class="text">Selling to Women &amp; the LGBT Communities </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Make the Media Love You - join Sue Kwon, Emmy Award Journalist, CBS 5 </span><br />
<span class="text">13 Things All Business Owners Must Know About a Compelling Business Website </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Use an Email Marketing Campaign to Build Your Database and Close Sales </span></p>
<p><span class="text"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Social Media Track</strong></span><br />
<span class="text">Twittering with the Star with Kevin Rose &amp; Tim Ferriss</span><br />
<span class="text">How to Get Media, Celebrity or Blogger Attention for Your Business </span><br />
<span class="text">Strategies of Building Your Online Community from Zero to Millions </span><br />
<span class="text">Turning Visitors into Customers Using Viral Videos </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Market Your Business on Facebook </span><br />
<span class="text">How to Make Money on Twitter </span></p>
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<span class="text"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Here&#8217;s the list of speakers you will meet at BizTechDay 2009</strong>:</span></span></p>
<p><span class="text">In addition to Tim &amp; Kevin, they are coming too!</span><br />
<span class="text">Porter Gale - VP Marketing at Virgin America </span><br />
<span class="text">Michael Gerber - World&#8217;s No 1 Small Business Guru per Inc Magazine and the New York Times Best Selling Author of the E-Myth </span><br />
<span class="text">Matt Mullenweg - Founder of WordPress </span><br />
<span class="text">Kevin Hartz - Paypal Angel Investor </span><br />
<span class="text">Fabio Rosati - CEO of Elance </span><br />
<span class="text">Joel Comm - Creator of iFart iPhone App - Over 1 Million downloads </span><br />
<span class="text">Gary Swart - CEO of oDesk </span><br />
<span class="text">Mark O&#8217;Leary - Regional VP for Business Services for Comcast </span><br />
<span class="text">Randy Williams, Founder of Keiretsu Forum. The World&#8217;s largest angel investor network - over $180m invested in 200 companies </span><br />
<span class="text">Chris Larsen - Founder of Prosper.com </span><br />
<span class="text">Michelle Broderick - Director of Marketing at Yelp </span><br />
<span class="text">Alison Covarrubias - Founder &amp; CEO of Hatch Network </span><br />
<span class="text">Julie Castro Abrams - CEO of Women&#8217;s Initiative </span><br />
<span class="text">Justin Kan - Founder of Justin.TV </span><br />
<span class="text">Ramon Ray - Chief Editor of SmallBizTechnology.com</span><br />
<span class="text">And 40+ more thought leaders and successful entrepreneurs.</span></p>
<p><span class="text">Plus, you can <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">sign up for one-on-one consultations </strong>on raising money, social media marketing strategy, blogging, SEO, Paid Search Marketing, <a href="http://companies.to/definiscommunications"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Facebook</span></a>, <a href="http://www.twitter.com/angeladefinis"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Twitter</span></a>, <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/groups?about=&amp;gid=1910916&amp;trk=anet_ug_grppro"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Linkedin</span></a> and many other essential business topics. </span></p>
<p><span class="text">The BizTech day founders want you to stop wasting time with tactics that produce little or mediocre results and start to forge successfully ahead with the right knowledge, right tools and right connections. </span></p>
<p><span class="text">Cost:</span><br />
<span class="text">Regular Conference Pass: $595</span><br />
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[As a communications professional, I believe that an apology is one of the most difficult forms of public speaking. I define the apology as an acknowledgment by the wrongdoer of misconduct that is offered to the offended party in exchange for reconciliation. Admitting to a transgression against another allows those involved to either grow stronger [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">As a communications professional, I believe that an apology is one of the most difficult forms of public speaking. I define the <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">apology</strong> as an acknowledgment by the wrongdoer of misconduct that is offered to the offended party in exchange for reconciliation. Admitting to a transgression against another allows those involved to either grow stronger or drift apart; quite a life-altering exchange. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A sincere apology necessitates empathy, which is often lacking during the initial misbehavior. This conundrum is what makes apologies so difficult to give and receive. Most recently, David Letterman’s admission that he slept with members of his staff is a very public example of an apology’s complex nature.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Since Letterman delivered the apology above, there have been mixed reviews from the press and public. Many believe his humor diminished the sincerity of his apology. Others feel that it was genuine, despite the jokes. Further complicating any interpretation was the audience’s nervous laughter at a man who they regularly don’t take seriously. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Employees at Late Night and Letterman’s wife have been hounded by the media, which forced a second request for forgiveness. </span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">To me, the second admission of guilt felt much more honest even though there were still plenty of jokes. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">While researching this blog post, I happened upon an interesting user-submitted article on eHow entitled “<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_4701405_give-an-apology.html">How to Give an Apology</a>.” I found its step-by-step methodology to a very intricate social construct fascinating. Here is the summary:</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Don’t explain or justify why you offended the other person. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Apologize face to face.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">If it is impossible to apologize in person, write a sincere letter.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Ask for forgiveness and give the situation time.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Try to treat others the way that you would want to be treated.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">I think that there is a lot of truth in the article. I’m not quite sure that the apologizing process can be broken down so simplistically, but it touches on some valid points. What are your thought about David Letterman and the apology criteria? </span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
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		<title>Create a Powerful Presence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 13:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Confidence Building]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I took a walk today at Lake Lagunitas, one of my favorite Marin County hiking spots. This lake is part of the Marin Municipal Water District and supplies good old tap water to our entire county. It is a beautiful spot—a hidden jewel of raw wilderness just a short drive from the bustling small towns [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">I took a walk today at <a href="http://www.trails.com/tcatalog_trail.aspx?trailid=HGS408-019"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Lake Lagunitas</span></a>, one of my favorite Marin County hiking spots. This lake is part of the Marin Municipal Water District and supplies good old tap water to our entire county. It is a beautiful spot—a hidden jewel of raw wilderness just a short drive from the bustling small towns of Marin and the big city of San Francisco.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">I hiked up my usual route and climbed the steep path alongside the water culvert to the top of the hill and the reservoir. I was completely alone, except for one large Great Blue Heron perched on a log at the edge of the lake. The elegant bird stood on one leg, poised, erect and perfectly still. How could this stillness create such a powerful and captivating presence? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">It struck me that a similar phenomenon occurs in the opening moments of any presentation. My clients often tell me that these moments are challenging for them because that’s when they feel the most nervous. They want to feel strong and confident at the beginning so they can capture attention and engage with the group. But instead they feel jittery and their bodies twitch and fidget. So I work with them to prepare for that uncomfortable opening moment. And one of the things I encourage them do is stand, like the Great Blue Heron, perfectly still!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Here are a few tips to help you <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">create powerful presence </strong>when you open any presentation:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Stand up and stand still</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When you first step into the spotlight, even if it’s at an informal meeting, take the time for stillness. Many people believe that unrelenting physical movement and lots of fast talk creates energy and pleases a crowd. And sometimes it does. But stillness, as witnessed with the Great Blue Heron, has incredible power. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When you stand still for a few seconds, it gives your audience a chance to stop what they’re doing and focus solely on you. Because they don’t know what you are about to do or say, you raise expectations and create suspense. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Stillness commands attention.</strong> And when you are ready to begin your talk they will be ready to listen. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Take a deeper breath than usual</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">It is no secret that deep breathing calms your nervous system and triggers your body to relax. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">When your breath moves freely it shapes your expression and makes you appear more confident and in control.</strong> It’s good to take several full breaths before you step up to speak, but be sure to take one deep one during your moment of stillness as well.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Smile</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">You’ve heard me say this before: You can smile in a second and that smile sets the tone of your entire presentation. When people feel that you are relaxed, they too become relaxed and that allows them the freedom to trust you and get involved. Your smile tells your audience that you are comfortable and confident, so they can be too. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">So the next time you’re about to stand up to present, remember the Great Blue Heron. A little stillness at the onset can give your presentation the power it needs to be a soaring success.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela DeFinis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[On the Road: My Experience Teaching PowerPoint
 
This is a guest post from Kirk Mossing, PowerPoint™ Consultant and Trainer. 
 
What do Audiences REALLY Think About PowerPoint?
 
Travelling across the nation and working with clients like Google and Stanford University, I routinely ask my students one key question: “As an audience member, what do you hate most about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">On the Road: My Experience Teaching PowerPoint</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">This is a guest post from Kirk Mossing, PowerPoint™ Consultant and Trainer. </span></em></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">What do Audiences REALLY Think About PowerPoint?</span></strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Travelling across the nation and working with clients like Google and Stanford University, I routinely ask my students one key question: “As an audience member, <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">what do you hate most about PowerPoint?</strong>” And 100% of the time I hear: “There are too many words on a slide.” Followed up with: “I can’t read it.”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Therefore, when you’re a presenter, you first need to determine <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">the purpose of your PowerPoint</strong> and build your slides around that. Know your audience. For a live audience, the purpose is to support the speaker and the presentation, and to do that you only need to develop main points. However, if you are sending it to people as a handout that they can peruse on their own, then you can load up on the details.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">For both of these options I recommend that you:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">A.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Create two separate presentations OR </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">B.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Put the bulk of your data in speaker notes AND </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">C.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">    </span></span></span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Use hyperlinks to link to other documents or the web. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">In either case, one best practice to use is this: Write all the content in the speaker notes first and then take out the key words or phrases and move them to the slide. (<em>Select text and <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Control</strong> drag to copy the text and drop it into a slide.)</em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">What Makes a Slide Visually Appealing?</span></strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Contrast</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> (imagine someone wearing black pearls against a black dress): Contrast includes using <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">color, font size, bold, italic, etc. effectively.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Consistency</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> (would you wear old tennis shoes with a suit or evening gown?): Consistency is why there is a <em>template</em>, why you keep the same look and feel throughout, why you stay away from clip art and use photographs and why you strive for optimal structure and organization.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Alignment</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> (imagine a crooked picture on the wall…how off does it have to be to be annoying?): This is all about how you <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">Draw/Align or Distribute text and images. You can use the ruler, guides, etc. to help you. To copy something and keep the alignment, use Control SHIFT drag. If you just want to move it, hold down the shift key while dragging. If you want to resize a picture proportionately, hold down the shift key and resize.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -0.25in; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">     </span></span></span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Proximity</span></strong><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> (grouping like things together…imagine a restaurant menu with one line spacing and font size): The proximity of <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">tables, boxes, white space, etc.</span> help separate content and make it easier to absorb and retain information.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">2007 vs. 2003 Tips</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Many people are not using Office 2007 yet. In order for those in versions 97 to 03 to work with a document created in 07, you should save your presentation in compatibility mode. To do so, click <em>Save As/Save as type: PowerPoint 97-2003 Presentation. </em>Note: you will lose some 07 functionality. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Another option is to download a converter to see and work with .pptx (07) files without having 07. You can do so <a href="http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyID=941b3470-3ae9-4aee-8f43-c6bb74cd1466&amp;displaylang=en"><span style="color: #000099;">here</span></a>.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">When working in different versions of PowerPoint, y<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">ou will find that you are unable to copy slides from one presentation to another if you have one open in 03 and the other in 07. The trick to this is to open both in 07 or both in 03 and then move the slides.</span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">Finally, remember that 07 is based upon ribbons instead of drop down menus, which are the equivalent of a toolbar in an earlier version. However, many options can be found by right clicking instead of hunting around on the ribbons.</span><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;"> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><em><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">Control Shift C and V = Copies and pastes formatting then use F4 to repeat</span></em></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">My best suggestion for learning new tricks is to practice one at a time, over and over, until you can do it without thinking about it.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Arial&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; font-size: 9pt;">By following these suggestions and mastering the tricks, you, too, can be a PowerPoint master and ‘wow’ your audiences every time.</span></p>
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